Is cheap the new black?

You don’t usually hear the A-word bandied about in the city’s social circles. And by that I mean “affordable.”

But these are unusual times, so the Georgia Trust for Historic Preservation bills its April 17 gala as casual, fun and, yes, affordable.

The 25th annual Preservation Bash starts at 7 p.m. at Mason Murer Fine Art and features cocktails and hors d’œuvres, jazz and swing music, dinner, dancing and dessert. (Info: 404-885-7812, www.georgiatrust.org). Tickets are $125 per person for members, $150 for non-members (that ticket price includes membership) and $100 for guests under 35. Tix to last year’s gala, held at the Atlanta History Center, were $200. Organizers note that this year’s fete is a relative bargain.

Cheap, it seems, is the new black.

‘I’m on the young friends board of our hospital and we try to have our events based on networking and affordability,” said Beth Dunn, author of the Social Climbers, a novel about the upwardly aspirational.

Hmm. There’s that A-word again.

L.A.-based writer Jessica Gottlieb stepped forward with this confession.

“Last year I shopped at Barneys, this year I bought a cocktail dress at Sears,” she said. “From the sale rack.”

Speaking of recession-era threads, you might have read the recent New York Times piece, quoting a bevy of Atlanta’s usual social suspects about regulars about frugal frockery. Monica Hagedorn told the NYT she has dresses to last a decade, and that flaunting wealth these days seems untoward.

In an e-mail, upstate New Yorker Judy Lederman told us she feels the same way.

“No matter how cold it gets, these days I feel vulgar wearing my snuggly warm fur coat,” said Lederman, who’s unemployed at the moment. “I feel like I’m flaunting the money I once had. I would sell it but nobody could give me a good price for it these days.” 

On the Atlanta gala circuit, you see the lousy economy on display every time a live auction begins. At the March 14 Candlelight Ball benefiting the Child Autism Foundation, the auctioneer joked that “any move at all, including change of facial expression,” would count as a bid. Timothy Tew, co-chair of this year’s Ballet Ball, told us that sponsorship dollars were down this year.

“Companies are simply cutting back,” he said. But the grand event, held Feb. 28 at the Piedmont Driving Club, did meet its goal of 350 guests, and enjoyed the support of more table hosts and patrons this year.

Meanwhile, Atlanta philanthropist Melanie Boltax capitalized on the recent shop-your-closet trend, hosting a trunk show at Chez Mel the other day to raise money for Camp Kudzu, which serves children with juvenile diabetes. 

Are you having a hard time drumming up patrons or corporate dollars for charity events this year? Are you entertaining more casually to save money? Is your charitable giving down?

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Beth Dunn

March 26th, 2009
6:49 pm

Everyone’s points are so true. I heard charitable donations are down 30%! At least we can volunteer our time–that’s free. Great site!

The Broke Socialite

March 26th, 2009
3:53 pm

FINALLY…The BROKE Socialite can weigh in over here on what I do best: live a fun, full and fabulous lifestyle on a dime.

A few short weeks ago I declared that frugal was, indeed, the new black. I do see from my fellow commenters that great minds think alike. My commitment to austerity is a way of life and I’m proud of it.

It boils down to this for me: the basics. When I welcome my friends and family in my home, I choose not to break the bank. Entertaining has begun to take on a different spin because, let’s face it, we are living in different times. I’m steadily pulling dinner party ideas from this publication or that one or trying to replicate some of the menus that I see on channels such as Fine Living TV. At the end of the day, it’s not about the money spent but, instead, the fellowship shared. I’ve had everyone come over with their fave bottle ‘Under $20′ red wine and provided flatbread and pizza…one of the best times ever.

As far as my two cents on shopping these days, I do enjoy shopping for bargains, it has become a sport of sorts. Whether my coup are a pair of reduced Manolos or a half-priced Lalique, I choose what makes me happiest (and what’s on clearance). Talk about great icebreakers when you’re met with: “Where’d you get THAT?” Reporting on great sales is a budget shopaholic raconteur’s (that’d be me) dream.

Say what you’d like, but I’ve been living this way for years and am happy that frugality is trending toward the norm. I further predict that budgetary living(and this economy) will prove to be one of the greatest equalizers of all.

Thank you, dear cousin, Social Butterfly, for properly inviting us to participate in this discussion. Your hospitality is most appreciated. (insert curtsy here)

Melanie Boltax

March 26th, 2009
3:49 pm

Dear Jennifer, Where would Atlanta small based charities be without you? Small charities that provide something very needed to a small group of people have “small” budgets, and advertising budgets are nonexistant. That you put so much effort into writing so creatively about all these “little engines that could” is more appreciated than you could ever know. I give you a heartfelt and very sincere THANK YOU.

Jennifer Brett

March 26th, 2009
1:58 pm

Now, now, Anon and Fed Up: let’s not pile on Dan and Lisa for their clever enterprising. But thanks to you both for bringing up the idea of “netiquette.” I have written a new post in your honor:

http://blogs.ajc.com/social-butterfly-blog/2009/03/26/twittered-out-fed-up-with-facebook

Oh my. I suppose that was tacky.

Fed Up

March 26th, 2009
1:10 pm

I agree with Anon. Shame on “Dan” and Lisa Decker” for plugging their businesses here. Tacky, tacky, tacky.

Anon

March 26th, 2009
12:43 pm

Oh Sweet Jesus, can you please do a post about netiquette?

Apparently there are a half dozen desperate commenters leaving their URLS and email addresses in the body of their comments. It’s really not a good way to drum up business, it’s akin to putting a *going out of business* sign in your storefront.

Yikes.

The Coupon Diva

March 26th, 2009
9:57 am

Jennifer,

I am sory but 150 is not cheap. I personally run a blog called The Coupon Diva (www.thecoupondiva.com). I can get a shopping cart full of stuff for 30.00 or less most times. I show others how to do it.