‘Real Housewives of Atlanta’ recap, season four, episode 4: ridiculous?
Kandi Burruss held a 35th birthday party that didn't involve NeNe fighting with anybody. CREDIT: AP
Loading ...Good ol’ Phaedra Parks helped instigate the Peter/Apollo fight last week.
Tonight, she again initiated another verbal altercation, this one between Kandi Burruss and Kandi’s opinionated mom Joyce.
Why? As Phaedra noted last season, she loves the strippers. As an attorney, she even represents one (named Ridickulous) who is so big, well, he has talents that most men are incapable of. And he demonstrated this said talent at Kandi’s 35th birthday party on the rooftop of the Renaissance Hotel in Midtown.
Kandi was cool with it. And Phaedra was in heaven.
“You won’t be able to find that in your local retailer,” Phaedra drawled.
Noting that Phaedra is his attorney, Kandi cracked, “Given how big that is, he probably gets sued for damages.” (Rimshot alert!)
Kandi’s mom Joyce walked away disgusted. “I don’t like no damn strippers!” she yelped.
NeNe, despite her own stripper past, acted all grossed out. by Ridickulous. “It’s disgusting,” she said, especially since people were wearing Gucci and Versace. (huh?)
“Me and Phaedra and Sheree were laughing,” Kandi explained later. “I wasn’t thinking about everybody else.” Especially her mom, who left early, cursing up a storm.
“It’s my 35th birthday,” said Kandi, chagrined, “And I feel like five.”
By the way, Kandi invited everyone to this party – except Kim, who is eight months pregnant. So the separation between Kim and NeNe continues. Sheree and Phaedra keep their distance from NeNe. Kandi said she hates being in the middle – but she invited them all there. (It’s a TV show. Everyone goes with it.)
“It’s like the Crips and the Bloods,” Phaedra notes. But no bloodshed happens. Just a big chill.
[During "Watch What Happens Live," Andy Cohen showed video evidence that Joyce has certainly seen strippers before but it's clear she was upset by the venue and setting as well as this particular stripper's behavior.]
What happened to the other housewives?
- Cynthia Bailey brought her sister Malorie to see her husband Peter at his new bar Bar One, which was about to open. Since Malorie and Cynthia’s mom were so worried about Cynthia’s mental state last season before her wedding, they pondered hiding the marriage certificate. Peter found out later, probably when the episode aired. He was peeved. He thought he was cool with Malorie until then and was hurt. Malorie tried to explain to him that she protecting her sister. He didn’t really buy it. “It wasn’t your day!” he said. In frustration, he got up and left, saying it was okay, even though it wasn’t. Malorie started crying.
Later, Malorie and Cynthia got into an argument because Malorie disapproved of Cynthia even pondering helping Peter out financially with his bar. (His last one belly flopped.) Cynthia got defensive and called out Malorie on her marriage issues. They then tried to cool down but it’s obvious the issue will rear its ugly head again in the future.
- Kim Zolciak got very little airtime this week. She opened the episode meeting with Phaedra, who carried a peace offering gift basket for what happened at the baby shower with her husband and Peter. Kim appreciated it, noting that Cynthia didn’t call her to apologize. She also met with a baby consultant (despite the fact she’s had two kids already) since her third will be a boy. They queasily talked circumcision.
- Sheree Whitfield saw no progress on her new home and brought Phaedra to be her lawyer. They verbally roughed up the contractor in hopes that they don’t have to go to court down the road.
- NeNe revealed to Cynthia that she had sex with Gregg after she got back from Miami though they are still technically separated. “Greg likes it down,” NeNe said. “He can be a tiger!”
NOTABLE QUOTES (there were plenty this week!)
“Note to self: keep the ex cons and ***holes off the guest list next time.” - Kim Zolciak, about any future parties, after the Peter/Apollo dust up last week.
“I don’t know how old Peter is. 65? 75? He’s entirely too old to be yelling at a ***king baby shower.” - Kim, in classy verbal mode again.
“I was on morphine. I was on epidural. I was crazy as a vampire in sunlight!” - Phaedra, on having her baby.
“I’m turning 35 this year. I’m feeling like I’m not married. I want to have another child. It’s kind of depressing. But it is like a milestone so it’s time to party.” - Kandi, rationalizing a party when it was probably the producers’ idea.
“I think Kandi wanted a friendship and Kim wanted a hit song.” - NeNe, pondering why Kandi and Kim have grown apart since “Tardy for a Party” became a huge hit.
“When you are as low down as Sheree, hitting below the belt, trying to dig up your past, you don’t deserve the friendship of NeNe Leakes.” – NeNe Leakes, placing herself in third person like Prince or Shaq.
“I don’t want him growing up with his peepee wearing a turtleneck.” - Kim, on getting her baby circumcised.
“Cynthia needs to set boundaries” between her husband and her family.” - NeNe.
“For a black man, it’s better to see you going than coming. Having a nice donkey booty is like having a carrot and dangling it in front of a horse.” - Phaedra, who teased and threatened a contractor, often at the same time.
“I never leave home without a taser. They’d be glad I left the .357 in the car!” - Phaedra, on her self-defense methods. Watch out Mr. Contractor!
“Lawrence looks like Mr. T dipped in Wonder Woman. Super hero of the South!” - Phaedra, after seeing Lawrence at the 35th birthday party.
“I just enter and my presence takes over the room.” NeNe, modest as always.
TEASER FOR NEXT WEEK
Peter loses $40,000 from an investor for his new bar. Cynthia is thinking about chipping in herself but is not happy about it. We see ex-hubby Bob Whitfield for the first time as Sheree tries to wrangle child support from him. And “Housewives” wannabe Marlo Hampton makes her debut. The rumore: she was dating an NFL player Charles Grant that NeNe also had dated.
RATINGS
Last week, ratings were up to 3.2 million from 3 million the week before. The first three episodes were up 700,000 viewers over a year ago, averaging 3 million. UPDATE: The fourth episode cited here drew 3.03 million compared to 2.49 million for the fourth episode season three.
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155 comments Add your comment
LeeLee
November 27th, 2011
11:05 pm
Miss Lawrence looking great!! Nene got some NERVE acting all prim and proper in front of the stripper!!
Loved Phaedra’s b-day gift!!
Enjoy a good stripper but...
November 27th, 2011
11:20 pm
The birthday gift was tacky. That particular party was not the place for it. That gift should have been given at a more personal and one gender setting. Then it could have been on with the ridickulous.
Genesis
November 27th, 2011
11:23 pm
I love the idea Phareda, but not for the show. A more private setting wouldve been much better. NeNe stop acting fake! You was once a stripper. Peter plz stop taking your wife money! Am all for husband and wife being their for each other, but you still owe her money from the last investment. Am a caribbean woman, ur using her!
Straight from the Q
November 27th, 2011
11:36 pm
@Genesis: Agree. Peter just needs to get a job period. point blank. get a job, save some money, then open the clubs. these ventures tend to be money pitt anyways. especially now that the economy is down. Get in the storage biz Uncle Pete. Lots of foreclosed homes, ppl need a place to put the unnecessary stuff they accumulated.
bwell
November 28th, 2011
1:04 am
Kandi mom was a trip and had me laughing all night. She was pissed and highly upset! Can’t blame her. And Phaedra looking all scared and like oops! Who is this wanna be MH. What is the scoop on her Rodney or him?
Monica
November 28th, 2011
2:14 am
First, Miss Phaedra knows good and doggone well that she wouldn’t want to be surprised with a stripper if her sanctifed mother was in attendence. Second, erotic dance is one thing that if done tasteful few people would oppose. An raunchy act featuring auto-oral -stimulation is quite another. That’s just tacky.
John
November 28th, 2011
5:17 am
Please Please Please…. Take this garbage off the air. I don’t know which is more stupid…. The people on this show or the the people that watch the show.
idiot
November 28th, 2011
5:31 am
I feel like an idiot for reading this blog…
cherrypie
November 28th, 2011
5:43 am
Phaedra’s b-day gift was inappropriate for that particular setting. If
if was more intimate and certainly without her mom there, then to each
it’s own. Phaedra’s delivery and timing of her gift really sucked and she needs to apologize to Kandi’s mother, even though her mom admitted
to being in the company of strippers before, I don’t think it was on the level of this one. On another note, why is everything Kandi wears
so tight and the 6 inch heels only pushes her butt out farther. Lawrence was a hot mess as usual. This whole ATL franchise of HH is very embarrassing and particularly to black women. Where is the message role model and message that people should be taking from this show. Is it to act like a fool, brag about designer this or that, grown folk bullying, rude & obnoxious behavior, I mean where and when does this foolishness end. These women have soul their integrity for a few nickels. Folk have died to be where they are now and this is what they bring to the table, their forefathers would turn over in their grave. Is this the” keeping it real” message that we want to send the younger generation? That it’s ok to go on national TV and be puppets for the Bravo execs ratings and paychecks. There is no serious market out there for the NeNe’s, Sheree’s, and Kim’s of the world. There 15 minutes of fame are nearly up and when the laughter has since stopped. It’s all trash TV at this point and shame on them because they all have young kids and should send a positive message and set a better example.
Huh?
November 28th, 2011
6:06 am
Usingthe show to promote her client…..she then gets a bigger piece of the commission
Huh?
November 28th, 2011
6:09 am
@John I would say the people who take the time to read article about a show and then opine about it being on the air are at the pinnacle of ignorance
I'm officially DONE!
November 28th, 2011
6:11 am
This show is trash! I will NEVER watch this crap again.
Tom Tobin
November 28th, 2011
6:26 am
“I don’t want him growing up with his peepee wearing a turtleneck.”
Uh, how do you think you got here? Circumcision is maybe 5,000 years old.
Humans are maybe 4.7 million years old.
sweetie pie
November 28th, 2011
6:28 am
This show has become nothing but filth. It’s astounding that Kandi has a minor under her care considering the trash-and-nothing-but-trash content she puts out on this show. Same with Phaedra. It’s astounding this is held up as a representation of Atlanta. Why don’t they get their own porn show somewhere else in the bowels of cable. Or, wait…is this the bowels of cable?
Elissa
November 28th, 2011
6:31 am
Dump Nene, Cynthia, Sheree…
Melissa's mom
November 28th, 2011
6:37 am
Totally classless! I used to be a fan of Kandi. I appreciate her musical expertise and admire her for being able to make that twit, Kim, famous with her absurd “song”. However, after revealing her sex talk show, sex toys, and now this stripper (with her own mother in attendance, no less!) she has shown what a classless fool she is. Some things don’t need to be made public.
Chandra....
November 28th, 2011
7:09 am
last night show was a disaster,pheadra should have known better.
Peter even had a word to say when he seen how big
Of a penis the stripper had,peter said Damn!!!! And any way
What kind of man s___ks his own stuff.That is crazy…..
Presbo
November 28th, 2011
7:09 am
You have to be just as bad or worse than these ghetto dwellers to waste time watching this garbage. NOT the REAL housewives of Atlanta, that’s for sure.
Anthony
November 28th, 2011
7:25 am
Real men don’t go around sucking on pe—, let alone their own. What kind of crap was that? What kind of REAL WOMAN enjoys seeing a man pleasure himself in that manner. As a African-American male, I have to agree with some of the other posters whether it be that they are racist or not; this show is really about foolishness.
aon
November 28th, 2011
7:29 am
I’ve never watched this show. What an embarrassment to Atlanta.
REality
November 28th, 2011
7:29 am
Hey…it’s REALITY show…but last night was over the top with the stripper…just wasn’t the right setting..should have been just the ‘gurls’….NeNe — nuthing wrong with her being offended…she was a stripper but was out there…
I do agree — this show doesn’t make us look any worst than the brothers hooking up with the trash they can’t stay away from….
Tina
November 28th, 2011
7:35 am
WOW, I CANT STAND NeNe, she has lost her mind, with her stripping self…PLEEEEASE!
UGA GRAD
November 28th, 2011
7:40 am
Rodney….It’s Charles Grant ..not Chris Grant.
Go Dawgs!!
what did u expect?
November 28th, 2011
7:41 am
With the make up of characters on that show? Thats what you get when you get a bunch of………………………..morons.
terri
November 28th, 2011
7:43 am
SMDH!! LOL!!!
Linda
November 28th, 2011
7:47 am
Please Remove all of them and start over there are some educated, professional, beautiful, clean, respectable women in Atlanta. (How about a new show Pastor’s Wives or ex-Wives tell all)….;.
Mrster Majic
November 28th, 2011
7:55 am
@Genesis. I agree wholeheartedly that Peter is using her. Unfortunately, it won’t last because he is a failure. Cynthia could do much better. I think in the end, she will choose her family over Peter. What a arrogant ***hole.
Whatever
November 28th, 2011
8:00 am
I love the show because it is entertainment. Do I like how it depict women? No. I am loving Ne Ne and because she use to be a stripper does not mean she likes male strippers. I love to dance like a stripper myself ,but I think male strippers are disgusting. This is entertainment folks. The only way this show make you look bad if you carry youselve like this in REAL LIFE…. I can not wait to call my sister and laugh about these crazy women….
LOLatYall
November 28th, 2011
8:04 am
@Rodney How could you forget this zinger:”…they’ll blow smoke up butt with a bubble blower…” LOL….that Phaedra cracks me up!
If you remember and/or watched What what happens live…you would know that Kandi and her mom always had strippers at gatherings, birthdays, baby showers, etc….im not saying that this one was appropraite, but….
Lucky
November 28th, 2011
8:08 am
This is why America needs Sharia Law.
Yeah Right
November 28th, 2011
8:12 am
Anyone saying they won’t watch this show will be the first ones tuning in next week. If you took the time to read the article, that means you care about the show, weather you hate it or like it. You’re not fooling anyone.
Anon
November 28th, 2011
8:19 am
@Lucky…um HELL TO THE NO….
Lucky
November 28th, 2011
8:19 am
darb, good points. Where will these people be when our government goes bankrupt and the free ride is over. How will they fend for themselves? It’s gonna be terrible.
Yeah Right
November 28th, 2011
8:20 am
Hey darb, you must be a honkie, oops I’m sorry, I meant white trailer park trash. I see your intelligence is the same as a rock with your “tar babies” and “black crime” phrases. Troll.
Train Wreck
November 28th, 2011
8:26 am
If this show was replaced these women with a more true “representation” of Atlanta’s beautiful, educated, and real housewives no one would watch it. Is the DC Housewives still on? no, was not enough drama. This is TV. The show is created to draw viewers and not to be a docudrama of Atlanta housewives. So, don’t hold your breath for a better cast or story lines.
Jhourne
November 28th, 2011
8:34 am
The stripper is one of the kids. I notice Phaedra seem to take a special interest in the gays. Kudos to her. Nene was this too real to you? This was your last line of work before marrying Greg.
Nikki
November 28th, 2011
8:36 am
Ridickulous did a little more than strip. I don’t blame mom for being grossed out. It wasn’t just stripping dude demonstrated.
Truth
November 28th, 2011
8:37 am
@Lucky, what free ride are you referring too? How about the free ride your ancestors got off the back of slaves and betrayal of Indians? I’m sure ALL the women on this show are grossing more income than you. Jealous much?
Geez
November 28th, 2011
8:38 am
@Idiot, now worries, even if your IQ was 50 and you had special education classes as a child, you could watch this show and come away feeling like a pure genius and be thankful that you don’t know any of the people on the show. Of course, your opinion of Atlanta would certainly suffer with every episode . . .
Lucky
November 28th, 2011
8:40 am
@Truth….my ancestors are not European. They got here in the mid-1970’s.
terri
November 28th, 2011
8:45 am
@ Lucky @darb…While I find the actions of last night’s episode inappropriate, that does not mean we call people tar babies. And what does the government have to do with these women? They work for a paycheck albeit by a reality show that is frowned upon, they entertain/work for the money. Leave the racism out of it. I knew it would be a matter of time before the likes of you would invade the blog like a cancer with racist rants. Now that is soooo GA!
Mum
November 28th, 2011
8:52 am
That show was so, so funny, I laughed and laughed, I laughed when it was over. I too was disgusted by the depth of lewdness by the stripper and would not ever want my eyes to see anything so nasty, committing a sex act on himself, yuck. When Nene said she was going to take out her eye balls, put them in her purse and drive home blind I was rolling on the floor with laughter. I love Nene. My mother would have been disgusted too. Yeah and whatever that stuff is Gucci and Versace, if I were wearing that I sure wouldn’t be going to see a stripper. Phaedra is over the top nassstay (spelling correct).
Lucky
November 28th, 2011
8:54 am
terri
I never called anyone that particular term. I can think of far worse to call these disgusting animals who consider themselves to be women of color.
another comment
November 28th, 2011
8:58 am
When are people going to get it this is scripted! In real life Sheree is down to earth and just another team mom of her son.
Yeah Right
November 28th, 2011
9:05 am
@ darb……No let me apologize for not using the word/phrase that I really wanted to use too. And what part of lower Alabama did you live in? What barn were you born in? And how many teeth are you missing? And how long did it take you to learn how to use a computer? Who’s spelling these words for you? How are you surviving in the city since you’re so far from the backwoods?
Kapoonka
November 28th, 2011
9:13 am
@Lucky…you just did…. “disgusting ANIMALS”…..really? I don’t think you’re “Lucky” nor is anyone that knows you. Shut the trailer door…it’s raining boo-boo for brains.
S2C
November 28th, 2011
9:16 am
I don’t exactly think Phaedra’s birthday gift was appropriate at THIS party, since Kandi’s Mon was there. There’s having an “open mind”, and then there’s just taste. This has nothing to do with taste! Since these “housewives” are on tv, don’t they have “stylists”?!?!?!?!? Kandi’s birthday dress was laughable at best!! Her a_ _ was too big for that kind of dress!!!! Either lose the weight so you CAN wear that kind, or wear something that fits and doesn’t have you looking like a sausage!
WindyCityChick
November 28th, 2011
9:33 am
First, Phaedra did not instigate the fight between her husband and Peter. Next, I have a problem with Itunes about this show. Itunes is delaying posting Real Housewives of Atlanta and other show like Braxton Family Values because they are trying to help pump up the Kardashians. They post Kardashian episodes almost immediately the next day but not the same for African American reality tv shows. RHOA and Braxton Family Values are hit shows in their own right and Itunes is doing some shady bogus stuff to it’s customers. They are disregarding their African American customers who buy tv shows and movies fromt their store. Just wanted to put that out there. I got on Itunes at 7AM (in Chicago) and the Kardashians take New York was on Itunes but not RHOA. Itunes did this last year too…not right! Pass it on and maybe they’ll start being fair.
Hum
November 28th, 2011
9:37 am
How many of these African Americans are from Africa? Huh?
GetAGripY'All
November 28th, 2011
9:49 am
Everyone making comments MUST be from the South. I’m from a large city and a stripper at a 35 year old’s birthday party is NOT inappropriate (and yes, even with the mother there). I think the mother treated Kandi like a 13 year old. Mom, sorry but your daughter is a grown ass woman and has her own ‘interests’. She didn’t bring the stripper anyway. I just don’t get why everyone is bothered by a stripper being at a grown woman’s birthday party. Really? Maybe it’s because of a Southern thing, I guess. I’m from the big city and it’s not unusual at all. It doesn’t happen very often but I’ve been to a birthday party where a stripper appeared and yes, we were shocked but no one cried over it and cursed over it either. I think everyone is being dramatic and prudish (on this site). This is a grown a$$ woman’s party. Mom should’ve just left the room but she didn’t have to swear up a storm. Maybe it’s a southern proper thing…and I don’t get it. Kandi liked it and guess what? It was HER party…she’s an adult people..not 17!!!
ab
November 28th, 2011
9:50 am
Rodney, please patrol your blogs. There are 2 people on here that are offensive.
@Hum
November 28th, 2011
9:53 am
I was born here and so was my parents grandparents and so forth but we are obviously of African descent. We are dark skinned with the kinky hair and love it. what is YOUR point with that question??? I agree with what this person says about Itunes and it should be said. Don’t get offended because the word African American was used and not ‘black’. The poster was trying to be diplomatic. I can be called black or African American…I don’t care either way at all. So ‘Hum’…what is your point with that question??????
No Offense At All Just Varying Opinions
November 28th, 2011
9:55 am
I can’t see no one being offensive…I see people with wide ranges of opinions. No one answer is right. We can all have our own thoughts and opinions. Thank you. Love your site Rodney!
Teresa
November 28th, 2011
9:57 am
I know they say this show is scripted but when Sheree went after NeNe, that was personal. i feel Sheree is jealous of anyone doing better than her. Look at the man she married. You know she was a gold digger from go. Sheree is a wanabee. I was almost going to like her last season but nope still cant stand her.
WTH
November 28th, 2011
10:00 am
Bravo owes its viewers an apology for a totally disgusting and classless episode on last night. I am not a prude but give me a break…..u guys did not cross the line …you totally erased it….. (vomit)
deegee
November 28th, 2011
10:00 am
Kandi’s mother rocks. She should adopt Phaedra and knock some sense into her.
Scripted
November 28th, 2011
10:03 am
I watched a taping at Blue Pointe and they must have taped it over and over and over 8 times to get it just right. It is NOT a REALITY show. It is a scripted show.
Ed
November 28th, 2011
10:19 am
3.2 million viewers? I had no idea there were that many trailers around Georgia with cable. I guess I’m just assuming a person has to live in a trailer to watch a show about “trailer trash”.
Confused
November 28th, 2011
10:21 am
How is Kandi just 35 when Escape was all obviously grown in the 90’s? I was younger than them all and now somehow I have gotten older than Kandi??? Crazy
Whar's yo mom, Kroy?
November 28th, 2011
10:25 am
I’ve watched the show from the beginning, but now it’s time for it to be SHUT DOWN. It’s totally classless and Ms. Proper Southern Belle Phaedra needs her behind whipped! It was totally inappropriate and she actually PUNKED Kandi at her own birthday party. She did it to get bookings for that guy.
Rodney Ho
November 28th, 2011
10:26 am
@Confused. I checked with Nexis/Lexis, which provides pretty accurate data on people’s birthdays. Kandi was born in May, 1976. So 35 years old is correct.
'trtainmntatitzbest
November 28th, 2011
10:26 am
If some of the persons posting do not watch the Show, why even bother to comment on Ho’s article or what the viewers have to say. This trashiest part so far was taped 6 months ago. I’d like to know these facts at the end of November – is Bar One open; are the couples still married; did Cynthia ever apologize to Kim; did Phaedra apologize to Mama Jones; is Sheree’s house completed; Is Gregg back home and is the Bailey agency up and running. That’s the type of update needed Sir Rodney.
DeeDee
November 28th, 2011
10:28 am
I was born and raised in Atlanta and most of the black women I know graduated college, work for a living, and have never been given any handouts ever in their lives. Where are these women you are talking about? Maybe you live on the wrong side of town or maybe you should turn your television off sometimes from watching what the media depicts us as…oh right, we see and believe what we want to. I get it.
@Mum…I am still cracking up laughing about NeNe’s remark about driving home blind!! Hilarious!!!!
Pamela
November 28th, 2011
10:28 am
What Phaedra gave her as a gift was and is TOTALLY INAPPROPRIATE!!! That stripper looked like he is filled with ABSOLUTELY EVERY SINGLE VENERAL DISEASE THERE IS! I know a LOT of male strippers and NONE of them are disgusting. For Phaedra do give Kandi that gift and THINK it was appropriate is beyond me. The little class I THOUGHT she had…she proved to me that she is CLASSLESS!!! She is trifling in many areas. For Kandi to just sit there laugh and enjoy that disgusting gift makes me wonder about her mental state of mind. Is she crazy? Her Mother was sitting there – for crying out loud – and she STILL didn’t see ANYTHING what so ever WRONG with a grown freak sucking his stuff? REALLY? I am totally disgusted with Phaedra and Kandi. Even Ne Ne and a lot of other people left the party! I would have left too. Any decent person in their right mind would not dare stay and witness crap like that! That is TOTALLY UNACEPTABLE even for BRAVO NETWORK!!!
Kandi you should be ashamed of yourself. Then you and Phaedra both CLAIM to be Christian? Really? You are VERY POOR REPRESENTATIONS OF JESUS CHRIST!!! Totally disgusting to say the least! You BOTH should have your heads examined. I think you are both just crazy! I am a open-minded person, but what you did and allowed to happen at your party is a travesty! Not only did you disrespect your Mother, but you disrespected millions of other people by allowing Phaedra to present that trash to you. Of course you had no idea…he started dancing, but the moment he started sucking his own stuff..You should have made both he and Phaedra leave! If she were my attorney I would fire her! Phaedra is classless! She has NO CLASS at all. She should be ashamed of herself! sick…just plain old sick!!!
Rodney Ho
November 28th, 2011
10:32 am
@trtainmntatitzbest It appears Bar One is still open, as is the Bailey Agency. (http://thebaileyagencyschooloffashion.com/home/?page_id=6) and there have been no reported divorces among the married housewives and their men (Phaedra, Cynthia, Kim, who of course, just got married on 11/11/11). No word that Sheree’s house is complete either. I think Gregg and NeNe are back together as well. As for the apologies, we’ll find out.
cnt
November 28th, 2011
10:32 am
Why did I even read this crap?! Well there goes 2 minutes of my life wasted.
Rodney Ho
November 28th, 2011
10:33 am
@Scripted. I wouldn’t necessarily call it scripted. It’s more akin to improv.
Pamela
November 28th, 2011
10:34 am
I will say that when Cynthias husband said that Sheree was ugly..I TOTALLY agree. She is a wannabe as one other blogger described her. She is so jealous of Ne Ne. It’s obvious.
Pamela
November 28th, 2011
10:53 am
GetAGripY’All
I read your comment. So you are saying that people from the North are more open to this type of stuff? That is bull and you know it. What you are REALLY saying is that people from the North is classless right? You must be saying just that! I’m from the North and it was classless for tha stipper to suck his own stuff. Now I must say that you must also be a freak just like that stripper. Class is class and you and Phaedra or Kandi has absolutely NO CLASS at all!
Coachurly
November 28th, 2011
10:56 am
Keep up the amazing work, Rodney. Your recaps are better than this trainwreck of a show!
JT
November 28th, 2011
11:00 am
cnt
November 28th, 2011
10:32 am
Why did I even read this crap?! Well there goes 2 minutes of my life wasted.
Evidentally you read it because you were interested. Apparently yo must be interested in this crap. “I’m just sayin”
JT
November 28th, 2011
11:01 am
What does Sheree have to be jealous of Ne-Ne about?
Charlotte, NC
November 28th, 2011
11:19 am
First of all, perception is reality. Phaedra is very unclassy. I can only judge Phaedra by what I see on the show. Personally, she may be a very wonderful person. However, I don’t think any husband would want their wife to be on national television watching a stripper pleasure himself, bragging on the stripper, or setting up the appointment. What happened to discretion? How sick are you? Honestly, I know it’s reality television but this crosses the line. Also, I think Kandi needs some true direcetion in her life. She is such a sweet lady. Yet, she needs to be taught discretion as well. We don’t need to know all of your personal feelings and thoughts about things of the sexual nature.
Joe Hill
November 28th, 2011
11:20 am
Who would watch that junk?
Elihu
November 28th, 2011
11:21 am
“……..A cymbal should have went off”
Ivy league?
Really?
Madea
November 28th, 2011
11:22 am
Bet Ridickulous gets booked for lots of bridal showers and divorce parties after this show. And I didn’t even see the show, or IT!
EMACK06
November 28th, 2011
11:28 am
And black women in Atlanta wonder why they cannot find a good black man. I know every black woman in Atlanta doesn’t behave like this, but damn. These women are giving black women in Atlanta a very bad name. Are there not any virtuous, respectable black women of high quality? Are most black females in Atlanta so sexed crazed and/or desperate that they willingly participate/spectate in such lewd behavior? I do not believe any decent black guy who has his sh.t together would take these women seriously.
as a man
November 28th, 2011
11:39 am
I MUST say Kandi has a beautiful hip/azz/leg/flat belly combo. wow! Phaedra’s got a bubble too. Besides that i wasnt paying attention. I’d SMASH!
L. Hill
November 28th, 2011
11:43 am
I saw an episode where Kandi’s mom was sitting around with her daughter and friends, casually talking about dildos. Yet, she was irate about the stripper? Just for the record, I think a real lady will keep her bedroom fantasies behind closed doors. Period. Phaedra loves to tell people she’s a southern belle, but her actions tell us who and what she really is. Telling that contractor to look at her butt …. really? Phaedra and Sheree looked like idiots going out there trying to “threaten” the contractor. It was insulting to say the least. I don’t know who he is, but at least he has some common sense. Sheree goes out to the construction site in high heels trying to throw her weight around – silly.
Zoe
November 28th, 2011
11:47 am
Andy Cohen who is the “brain” of the housewife shows, beats even the Kardashian clan when it comes to pimping for the media. Tasteless greedy little man.
melissa
November 28th, 2011
11:52 am
has anyone been to peter’s bar? I have and it’s really nice and becoming another ATL hot spot! as for the episode, there really are no words but it’s entertainment…if you don’t like it turn the channel. it tickles my fancy when ppl complain abt the show, who really thinks housewives act like this. i also get tired of hearing the word ghetto, it’s a place! Do ppl call Jersey Shore, Real Word, Rock of Love, Mob Wives, and now Baseball Wives ghetto? Hmmmm, take a look at the trailer for Baseball Wives…those women are just as classless. All these women are making their money whether you watch or not.
Mark
November 28th, 2011
11:53 am
@ Pamela
Please get over your self rightousness. It’s just a reality show. Maybe you shouldn’t watch the show if it offends you so much. Why not just turn your channel to TBN?
mojo3
November 28th, 2011
11:57 am
The show has truly gotten TRASHY! Quite disappointed in ALL the women and their behavior.
Many Black Ladies…don’t behave in such an inappropriate manner. Period.
Not your average Atlanta Women
November 28th, 2011
12:14 pm
The show was definitely Over the TOP.com Entertainment at it’s best. Phaedra is classy and I can’t wait to meet her as she knows my son. Sheree keep your job so you can pay for that house, as your body is banging but you face needs work. NeNe you look even worst this season and you were never attractive anyway, you better run back to Greg as anyone else would not want you for you. Kandi, girl I need you to meet me and my husband, where you hang out at. You don’t need a man, you need us. Kim stay happy, loving Kroy. Cynthia, girl let him go and you should have walked down that ailse with your Fine Azz Ex Leon. Nothing else is on tv to watch, so this will do.
gonzalez
November 28th, 2011
12:16 pm
@melissa-Peter is that you?
gonzalez
November 28th, 2011
12:18 pm
@melissa- HAHHAHAHA Ghetto is just a place!!!!
jesse
November 28th, 2011
12:24 pm
KEEP UP THE GOOD WORD GOD BLESS YOU ALL
mo
November 28th, 2011
12:37 pm
did Peter forget that he was DRUNK at his own wedding and before the ceremony started. What is his excuse for that? If anyone should be upset it should be Cynthia. What Malorie and her mom did was out of LOVE and concern for their sister/daughter. By the way they thought about it they did not carry through with it!!
gimmeyodollar
November 28th, 2011
12:43 pm
Of all of the strippers out there, why did they hire Ridickulous. He strips for men. I didn’t know he stripped for the ladies too. I guess as long as he gets paid, it doesn’ t matter
AngPep
November 28th, 2011
12:50 pm
I like the humor in the show but last night was past tacky! A man sucking his own D*CK??!! Nasty! I would never want to see this on any level!! I’ve been living in the Atl since 1996 and do not personally know any women like this! Cynthia needs to dumb old man Peter. Why does he always need her money?? Why wouln’t her sister be concerned? Look how he acts? WTF was he going off last week for? I do not know how old he is, but he looks like Cynthia’s father. She can do better on her own. NeNe is NeNe, yes she may have been a stripper, but I highly doubt she was stipping and “licking” herself! I do not want to see any more strippers on this show! Tacky!!
gimmeyodollar
November 28th, 2011
12:52 pm
The best line of the night was when NeNe said (after seeing the stripper) that she took out her eyeballs, put them in her purse and drove home blind.
smartncute
November 28th, 2011
12:56 pm
When will you people in Atlanta get it?? This is what most people think about how you carry yourselves. Santctified hoochies. Strippers and golddiggers. Hood rich and “holy”. “Queens” and a bunch of catty, desperate women. You can’t live in it, accept it and promote it, and then get mad when you are portrayed as such. Really? GTFOH!
Tammy
November 28th, 2011
1:02 pm
I think the stripper @ Kandi’s party was out of place and should have been done in a more private setting. There were guys as well as girls that were there and I’m sure came to celebrate Kandi’s B-day not see a stripper suck his BIG ding dong. NeNe has issues that need to be settled within herself. She use to be a stripper yet instill she always has something to say against them. I’m sure then she would understand if people held her past and loud mouth against her. NeNe is so full of drama people watch to see all the ladies, but at this point NeNe is getting on my last nerve with classless wanna be prissy self. If anything she is loud, wide mouth, catty as well as jealous hearted of anyone who dare is making any accomplishments in life. NeNE grow up!!! I LOVE Kim & Kroy, I hope they make it.
Genia
November 28th, 2011
1:03 pm
OMG this show is giving me creeps. How can people watch it?
Sherry
November 28th, 2011
1:16 pm
I’ll be glad when Kim is gone.
Tammy
November 28th, 2011
1:18 pm
A female black person, commonly used for one black person to adress a black woman
mamaj
November 28th, 2011
1:19 pm
@ Not Your Average Atlanta Women; your whole assessment of the show and the women, make you sound like a complete fool–including your misspelled words.
mamaj
November 28th, 2011
1:31 pm
If I’m not mistaken, Ne-Ne was a stripper, not a —–licker–and there is a difference. This was a little over the top for even me, but it won’t stop me from watching, for it is ONLY entertainment, people. As for Sheree, this woman is so filled with envy for Ne-Ne, she can’t see straight. And for those of you that can’t stand Ne-Ne, there is not one single person on that show who is interesting enough to keep that show going by themselves, if she leaves —and that includes Kim!
This is just entertainment
November 28th, 2011
1:32 pm
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kam2
November 28th, 2011
1:58 pm
I love RHOA!!!! I am a huge fan…
Kandi is a GROWN A$$ woman and can have a stripper at her party. It was nothing wrong with that. If people didn’t agree with it, leave! Kandi’s booty has been popping lately and I must say she is looking good. Kandi seems to be a little messy this season and not her normal laid back self. I agree with someone else, that I thought Kandi was much older than 34. Xscape was popular when I was in middle school, I’m 28 y/o now. Hmmmm….
Phaedra is HILARIOUS and is my favorite housewife. From the freaky strippers, crazy quotes and that donkey booty, she’s a mess. I did think it was a little over the top of her to bring the stripper to the party without mentioning it to Kandi. Especially, since he had “special talents” that everyone might not want to see. I would have personally loved to see Apollo, dropping his boxers! LOL
I think the two hypocrites of the night were Mama Joyce and NeNe. Mama Joyce sits around with her daughter talking about strippers, sex, sex toys, etc. Why would this stripper offend her? NeNe used to be a stripper. Girl please! What the hell could you possibly be offended about? Most female strippers lick and suck their own n!ppl3s….
NeNe looks more masculine than Dereck J and Lawrence! I don’t know where this prissy mess is coming from! She needs to run her ugly, moose looking azz, back to Greg.
Cynthia is such a spineless idiot! Peter is a leech and is going to suck her dry! Why is she on the shop??
Kim lucked up and got pregnant by a decent guy. I pray for Kroy and hope that Kim and her kids don’t bleed him dry.
Sheree… why is she on the show again? Oh yeah because she is broke and needs the money. Chateau Sheree, isn’t she tired of making the news for repossessions and foreclosures??
At the end of the day, it is entertainment and it keeps me thoroughly entertained, every Sunday.
Sunshine
November 28th, 2011
1:58 pm
I read online that the ATL Housewives make 150K per episode so I really can’t blame them for upping the ante on each episode.
I thought the stripper sucking his own wank was way too much for this show especially when Bravo showed him swinging it around like a spinning top and I can understand why Kandi’s mom was upset but I have to admit I was crying laughing when she was going off
Sharon
November 28th, 2011
2:02 pm
Kandi’s late fiance was the owner of a strip club in Atlanta. He actually died in the parking lot of that establishment, so she has no problems with that kind of business. We all know what goes on in strip clubs and it’s not just exotic dancing folks. If Kandi is sincerely looking for a good decent man to marry and become the father of her children, then she had bettter clean up her act because what man is going bring her home to meet his mama after seeing this hot mess?
sandshot
November 28th, 2011
2:06 pm
Why do they still have that big ugly drag queen that goes by Nene on this show?
Von (from last season)
November 28th, 2011
2:07 pm
I think the stripper was a bit much for TV and my child was still up at that time. I had to cover her eyes….this show is getting to be unpredictable. Phaedra could have saved that stripper for an more personal setting. Nene off the chain and she once was a stripper. I wonder did anyone “leave their eyes in their purse/wallet” when she was stripping? Mama Joyce took it too far at the party….I mean really? Kandi talked about sex, sex toys and everything else a few times with her mother on the show. Most times daughters would be scared to discuss topics as such but Kandi always does it. Did anyone see how Malorie husband was looking when she was asking about Cynthia’s money and Bar One??? LOL
Tunishia
November 28th, 2011
2:09 pm
Is Miss Candi really only 35? She look old.
prettygurl1908
November 28th, 2011
2:12 pm
All I can say is that was the funniest hour of my life last night! Kandi should have kept mama’s tail at home; Nene kills me because she really believes that she is high class (trick please!); Phaedra is funny as all get out to me (loving her this season); Cynthia and ashy lips Peter are so boring (can I replace her?)….again, that was the best 60 minutes of my life last night! Pure comedy on a ghetto fab level!
Boo
November 28th, 2011
2:18 pm
Okay, last night was too much for me; the stripper showed too much. Really????? They knew it would be shown. Too trashy and not classy. This show should be an embarrassment to the girls. I am with Kandi’s Mom on this one.
Jamie
November 28th, 2011
2:22 pm
Very distastful display of male self-satisfaction especially since this was a birthday party with Khandi’s mom in attendance! Exoctic dancing is a far cry from trashy exploitation and Phaedra should have been more selective.
Eleni777
November 28th, 2011
2:22 pm
For everybody FREAKING OUT over the stripper at the party need to calm down. This “birthday party” for Khandi was set up for the show by BRAVO, these people all knew what was going to go down even Khandi’s Mama…be angry at BRAVO for allowing that junk (pun intended) to air.
Khandi’s real b-day celebration was on another day, sans all the housewives EXCEPT Phaedra at another restaurant.
I agree with everyone saying NeNe needs to sit the eF down and shut the eF up…girl use to throw her kooka in everybody’s face of dollar bills…this shouldn’t have offended her..
She did give us a morsel of the loveable NeNe with that line about “pulling her eyes out, putting them in her purse and driving home blind” that was the NeNe we all fell in love with….this new beast has become so unnecessary to the show and brings nothing but bitterness.
Phaedra is the new star.
GApeach
November 28th, 2011
2:32 pm
@ John: Let me quell your dilemma…the people who hate the show and read the blogs are clearly the most stupid. You’re Welcome.
P.S. Either I need a new TV or Ridickulous looks like a monster!
Rodney Ho
November 28th, 2011
2:37 pm
@Sunshine. Wherever you read that, there is zero chance the housewives make $150K per episode. Perhaps the six divvy up $150K per episode but not EACH. I know they were making $10K per ep for season two so I would fathom they are making $20 to $25K now (just a guess). With 18 episodes this year, plus two reunion shows, they could each be pocketing $400K plus. That’s good money though not enough to be in the top 1%.
Gettin' Wiggy With It...
November 28th, 2011
2:39 pm
“Open”? Really, Kandi? Nasty and disgusting are more like it. If you and Phaedra want to exude a wee bit of “class”, keep the TRASH at home.
And to those of you exalting that Kandi is a grown *** woman, it’s amazing how that phrase only comes up when someone is engaged in off-putting behavior. I have YET to hear someone say that while they are feeding the hungry and clothing the homeless…
And to Cynthia’s sister: Anyone with two brain cells know what’s up with Papa Smurf. You are right on the money, honey. Back off, however, and let Cynthia do her thing or else she may end up sticking with Peter just because she wants to prove you (and the entire world) wrong.
TheAntiMe
November 28th, 2011
2:41 pm
“You won’t be able to find that in your local retailer,” Phaedra drawled.
Perhaps you will if your local retailer is Dick’s Sporting Goods.
Me
November 28th, 2011
3:01 pm
Kandi’s age is right … She’s just a bit older than me, as I was a teenager when Xscape first hit it big and I’m 32 now. It just seems like she should be older because she has been around so long and done so much. People forget that those girls in Xscape were still in high school when they started out. They were very young.
Coachurly
November 28th, 2011
3:22 pm
@TheAntiMe LMAO!
Tammy
November 28th, 2011
3:48 pm
Nene said that the stripper’s junk smelled like a sour towel. Nasty.
GG
November 28th, 2011
4:10 pm
I agree, that this was not the setting for a stripper. For the simple fact that there were men there, I mean what man actually wants to see another male stripper give his own self head?? I was rather disgusted, and it seems Peter really enjoyed it too.
Harrysmom
November 28th, 2011
4:24 pm
I’m glad to see so many in Atlanta call this what it was ..disgusting lewd porn very inappropriate for viewing in this context.
I think Phaedra comes off as the biggest phony here. She is supposely Christian with her mother some kind of ministerr and here she is promoting and catering to lust and real degradation.
As to NeNe I think in her comments re the designers she was trying to say that she thought these people had class because of their money, status and clothes but underneath they are just trash and not elevated at all!
-hm
LustyMama
November 28th, 2011
4:31 pm
I couldn’t believe last night’s show!! I’m not a prude by any means but it still shocked me. Especially when it was mentioned that he dipped his “thing” in a girl’s drink!!! How gross is that??? And who on earth wants to watch him suck himself?? Major yuk. I can’t stand NeNe’s high opinion of herself but I really do think mostly it’s just a low self-esteem act of defensiveness. Love Kim and Kroy together. They seem like the only normal ones on the show at this time. I have high hopes for Kandi but none at all for Cynthia and Peter. He’s sneaky and manipulating and that just turns me cold.
Kimmy
November 28th, 2011
4:43 pm
I was sick to my stomach. I was so shocked and disgusted. Everyone there should have walked out. Who thinks that his gift of self pleasure is something anyone wants to see.
sister preacher
November 28th, 2011
4:48 pm
Scripted or not…
There are just things money cannot buy …dignity; integrity; love; class; common sense and salvation are just a few!
It is unfathomable that the name King (as in Martin and Coretta) or any aspect remotely associated with their contributions and struggle to society was, is, and could ever be mentioned (or should I say dropped) on or within earshot of that show.
Entertainment is one thing, but some things are over the top. The show could be more riveting if they explored “real reality issues”! Well, some of us now know what the “old folks” meant when they said that “An idle mind is the devil’s workshop”.
Our poor children are in trouble and believe me race and status have nothing to do with it! Oh by the way, I believe one of the “wives” is on the board of a children’s shelter. (Hmmm, imagine that.)
Darcy
November 28th, 2011
8:11 pm
Phakedra is fast becoming my favorite on the show. She’s over the top, trouble making, crap starting and lies like a rug but I watch to see what she’s gonna do or say!
Someone above asked why Sheree is jealous of NeNe. I’ll tell you why – because last season she was a NMFF and she just might get the Deshawn/Lisa bumrush so she has to up her game, seeing as how her Sheit by Sheree and “acting” careers have gone nowhere. What’s even funnier about her is she took Phakedra to this house builder building this “chalet” (lol) to scare him and Phakedra ended up stealing the show with the donkey booty thing. I loved it!
Yes the stripper was not appropriate because one, it was outdoors, two it was a mixed party with men and women and three, a man schtupping his own sausage is not something really worth seeing. Putting it in Khandi’s drink was just as disgusting…you don’t know where that anaconda’s been…
I don’t understand people who criticize the show but yet watch it every week. It’s your thing but stop pretending you don’t like it.
Great synopsis, Rodney!
kar
November 28th, 2011
9:12 pm
@darb “If you dont believe there is a black crime epidemic in Atlanta, just watch the first 15 min or tonight news on channel 2, and let me know who commits the most crimes, whites, blacks or hispanics?”
What the hell does this have to do with RHOA? Just as RHOA is scripted so is the evening news. Crime sells…especially scaring the masses to believe the black boogie man is out there waiting to strike. We all know no other race commits crimes….(heavy sigh)…
Darcy
November 28th, 2011
10:16 pm
No Darb, you’re a racist troll and I’m going to report you.
Too sad
November 28th, 2011
10:57 pm
Horrible show and it saddens me to see my Black sisters act this way on TV . . . for money. Why don’t they give the show a proper name? These are not housewives . . . they’re women that will act ghetto just for money. If you watch this crap you’re no better than they are. It’s an embarrassment and it sends the wrong message to young girls.
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Sunshine
November 29th, 2011
1:20 am
Thanks for clearing that up Rodney! I thought the numbers were a bit off. I was about to create my own story line and audition. But 400K for acting a fool isn’t bad at all
Mrs Elizabeth Williams
November 29th, 2011
3:00 am
I was very disppointed in the show simply becuse it seem to me this show has gone to another level and I will not be watching it anymore if it continues to have episodes such as last night.I dont blame Kandi’s mother for getting upset tht was totaly disqusting and shoul have never been do ne on TV,. phadra new Kandi ’s mother would be there ,how disrespectful. If woud had been better if they would have had a private show awat from the camera.. all viewers are not into that freaky stuff. And there may have been some children still up , After all we waere still in primetime. It seems noone cares about what is shown on TV anymore and peoples self respect has gone down the tubes.Its time we start taking thinking about what we put on TV..It is enough things going on in this world without this distasteful stuff. Have black women stooped so low they will do anything for money
lesia
November 29th, 2011
5:08 am
I love Kandi’s party’s scene
College football's most dangerous blog (gay)
November 29th, 2011
5:41 am
Check out the RACK on that Kim girl
shasha
November 29th, 2011
1:18 pm
I didn’t see the initial showing of this program on Sunday night, but I saw a repeat of it last evening (Monday) and I was very, very surprised. I can’t believe Phaedra would have a stripper at Kandi’s birthday party where men were also invited. It would have been okay, maybe, if it were just all women (not to include Kandi’s mom), but it went over the top with the men AND KANDI’S MOTHER present. First of all, the guy looked horrible. I believe Nene or someone called him a “monster;” secondly, the things he did were disgusting and having him there was totally disrespectful of Kandi’s mom. I’m sure Phaedra would not have appreciated this at her birthday party had someone invited this guy and he did what he did in front of her “minister” mom. The show should be yanked or Phaedra should be yanked from the show with this type of behavior. I thought Phaedra had more class than this, especially being a professional lawyer, but I see she does not. Additionally, she is married and she was parading her “behind” in front of Sheree’s contractor. Some things women should keep behind closed doors for their partner only. I used to like Phaedra, but find she is disgusting. If this is the type of drama she has to bring to this show to keep from getting kicked off by not being boring, she does not need to be on. …And the exes at Bravo need to clean this show up a bit. I understand drama bringing more viewers, more advertisers; thus, more money, but this one episode was horrible to say the least. I see why Kim is trying to get her own show, hanging with some of these people can make her look bad. Seems like she may be trying to clean up her act a bit. Thank goodness someone is trying to. …And Sheree just can’t hide her envy of NeNe – it’s written all over her face. It’s crazy. Don’t hate Sheree, you can still make it, just keep promoting and working with your clothing line “She by Sheree.” …Add some shoes and other accessories to the mix, but please stop hating on others, particularly NeNe!
aut
November 29th, 2011
2:44 pm
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autumn
November 29th, 2011
3:12 pm
Nene Leakes is a definite wanna be. People who have money and wear designer clothes do not go around talking about it. It usually speaks for itself or not. Nene’s presence take over the room because she’s so big. Nene is the one who is jealous of Kim ,Sheree, and Phadra. Look at Nene and look at them they are the better looking. What Nene can’t bully she leave alone. Why didn’t she get in Sheree’s face like she did Kim’s, LaToya, and Starr’s. Nene is the biggest embarrasement on the show.
There should be a line drawn no matter how much a mother and daughter get along or hang out. This was a 35 year old woman’s birthday party and Phaedra gave her friend Kandi a gift she thought she would like. Now anyone who was there who was offended good for you. When a stripper is involved at any party you never know what is going to happen. You should have gotten up and left as soon as he started dancing. Nene you probably saw more than that being a stripper yourself. Be true to yourself people. Personally when I am at a party and a stripper come forth some of the other women and I remove ourselves from the room before they start because I do not like stripping performances. Because you women do have children you should try to show more positive attitudes and educational presentations. Having a glass of wine everytime all hours of the day Nene is not something I would want my children to see. You wonder why your oldest son is not working? Take heed to all of the profanity you women use and how you portray yourselves because no matter how much you make from the show it can come back and bite you one day.
MGrays
November 29th, 2011
3:25 pm
All I want to say is thus!!!! CYNTHIA BAILEY – YOU HAVE A PROBLEM and its name is ‘P-E-T-E-R” – You already look sad to me, so why add misery to whatever pain you’re HIDING! I’m just saying!
Katrina
November 29th, 2011
5:23 pm
I think the performance was over the top. I cannot believe they aired the actual performance on the show. It was apparant by the reactions that some people knoew about the stripper and others did not. Who would expect at a nice birthday party, at the top of a hotel that a stripper is going to show up and suck his own stuff. I think it was inappropriate. However, I think that is what the producers was aiming for. They wanted true reactions from the guests. Some watched, some were disgusted. I still can’t believed they aired that on TV!!!
Common Sense
November 30th, 2011
2:37 am
It is funny how Phaedra can get a stripper for Kandi’s party with her mom being present but did not have the balls to tell her mom about her being knocked up out of wedlock. Phaedra you looking at Joyce like what is your problem why not woman up and tell your mom about all your boot knocking experiences before the marriage. Have some respect!
Sage
November 30th, 2011
4:58 am
I thought it was hilarious and what I find also weird was Peter’s intense stare and even comments about RiDICKulous.Cynthia definitely need to examine her decision to marry him because “he batty man”….
Sage
November 30th, 2011
5:36 am
@ Kar….Great Comment.
It seems that Channel 2 along with all news outlets have been successful in convincing non thinkers into believing what they want to believe which is why those that fall for the deception will be the first to act surprised when “Bill” is accused of something because in their mind there is only one shade of man that can be the “boogie man” but for me the “boogie man”has a different shade…
Sage
November 30th, 2011
5:40 am
As a Black person myself I get so sick of how ignorant some Blacks think.You want to paint the entire Black race of women based off one television show just because you scared “Miss Ann and Mr. Charlie” will see you in the way you see the women on the show.It makes no sense to even comment on how you think some of the women act on the show especially since you watched it.I didn’t see the show,I just saw a story on another site which is how I know about the show because even though I don’t watch it there are blog sites that keep a weekly update going….
Sage
November 30th, 2011
5:43 am
For all of you people that don’t know this but may need to be reminded that “Bravo” is cable and what was seen on RHOA is no worse that what is seen on any so called reality show.One person says they had to cover their child’s eyes when infact your child shouldn’t be watching that show whether they are up or not….
Smooches
November 30th, 2011
7:57 am
@ Sage..I agree with the comment about the child not watching this show!! RHOA is begining to take sleezy to a new level.
Sage
November 30th, 2011
8:14 am
@Smooches…..I so agree about kids watching it.People should know better than to have their kids watching that show,I mean really!
I may just have to start back watching the show though,LOL….
girl 6
November 30th, 2011
9:05 am
emack06- get a grip. if you choose to judge AA women in the ATL by this or any show? then you are an entertainment act yourself.
meyouand she
November 30th, 2011
9:20 am
@autumn you said it best. I don’t like strippers either but $hit Kandi has a live sex line, she sells sex toys so indeed this was a good gift for her. Each and everyone had time to exit the room. I like Mama Joyce but she must realize Kandi is an adult and should be respected as one.BIG Man-man Nene has seen it all by being a stripper herself. I could not believe she acted like an innocent little girl. Those dollars you make has changed you into a monster. Ridicules said he has even given Man-man Nene a lap dance……..go figure!
luvlife
November 30th, 2011
2:14 pm
it’s just entertainment.
Ought to be Ashamed
November 30th, 2011
2:50 pm
This was the most tacky, classless, tasteless thing on TV. I hope America does not think that ALL black America behaves this way. I don’t live in ATL, but from this show…it’s a ranchid mess!!! You would think all these people have on their minds are sex and money. And then I watch the Beverly Hills wives the next night and they’re having a fashion show to help needy kids. This show is an embarrassment. Please leave ATL Bravo…and keep the gay men down there too…from the ones wearing heels to the ones pleasuring themselves with their own mouth!!!
And Phaedra with all her education…she doesn’t have anything else to discuss but big butts?!?! SO WHAT!! We see big butts everyday in the black community. Get over it and use that intelligence you claim to have in your conversation. SMDH!!!
PS
November 30th, 2011
7:06 pm
I LOVED IT! It was Freakin Hilarious!! All biases aside, it’s reality tv and this is exactly what I want to see when I tune in. Watching the show doesn’t compromise my value system one bit. It’s pure entertainment at its best and I hope they continue to deliver. Further, the show has the highest rankings amongst the other housewife franchises FOR A REASON. Like it or not, business is business.
UR STUPID IF UR HATIN ON NENE,SHE GETIN A BIGCHECK
December 1st, 2011
12:13 pm
THE INDEPENDENT BLACKWOMEN AND THE WHITE GAYS/LESBIANS ARE GETTING JUST WHAT THEY WANT ON T.V
P.S. AMERICA ECONOMY DIDNT GO BAD UNTIL THEY PROMOTED THE GAY LIFESTYLE OUT IN THE OPEN,GOD IS PUNISHING AMERICA WITH THIS WICKEDNESS THATS OUT IN THE OPEN!
TURN BACK TO GOD PEOPLE,FAST REAL FAST!
Yolanda
December 1st, 2011
12:48 pm
That was in extremely poor taste, and I think it was disrepectful for Kandi’s mother, and especially since there were men there as well. No man, unless he is gay is interested in looking at another man’s d—. Phaedra tries to portray herself as a southern bell, but she is as low class as they come. As an corporate attorney, I like to get wild with the best of them, but this was not the time nor place for this stripper. A bachelorette party with all women is fine, but this was in very poor taste. I am from New York, NY, which is a northern state, and found it to be extremely classless.
CEDRIC JONES
December 2nd, 2011
1:34 pm
Why is ths show called real housewives of atl,these women are everything but real housewives,and they are never at home,they are always shopping,at parties and eating at resturants where is the housewife part,it should have been called women of atl./ i mean just be for real.
Jesse Pitt
December 2nd, 2011
9:01 pm
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Jesse Pitt
December 2nd, 2011
9:05 pm
All these chicks are ghetto and nasty!! Especially the monkey Nene. The singer is cool though.
Amber
December 2nd, 2011
11:47 pm
Pheadra can we be friends given out gifts like that i want a stripper and momma just got to deal wit it lol………..
ogates
December 3rd, 2011
3:13 pm
These women’s behavior on the show isn’t to everyone’s liking but the comments about these women not working–I don’t see that–Phaedra is an attorney, Sharee is trying to start her own fashion line, Kandi is involved in the music industry, as is Kim (good or bad) and she has her wig line–these women have children they are raising–these women all work to make something, earn money and take care of their kids–why don’t people talk about that!!!
Dee
December 5th, 2011
2:28 am
I thought the show was entertaining ( some parts were a bit gross) but it was related to a previous show. I really don’t think children should watch any of the housewives shows or many other reality shows. I love the show and will continue to watch it.
Bm
December 5th, 2011
11:15 am
The stripper should have been arrested for lewd act and indecent exposure……lewd sex act in a public place. Anyone know what the owner and management of the place had to say? What was the reaction of the owner, management and employees of the place? Any lawsuits pending?