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‘Real Housewives of Atlanta’ recap: season 4, episode 3: Who you callin’ Papa Smurf?

watch-what-happens-season-3-video-410-after-showFor once, it’s not the women who get into a tiff.

Now it’s the Real Househusbands of Atlanta, featuring Apollo vs. Peter!

At Kim Zolciak’s baby shower at 200 Peachtree, the former downtown Macy’s space, Peter Thomas and his wife Cynthia Bailey showed up five hours late, no explanation.

“Did they come for the refreshments?” said a typically wry Phaedra Parks. “Did they not have have snacks at the house?”

Peter peeved some of the housewives by making nasty comments about some of them to Uptown magazine (which has nothing to do with Peter’s shuttered Uptown Lounge).

Phaedra couldn’t help but bring it up, saying she didn’t expect to be invited to Peter’s new lounge, Bar One. (How was Peter able to so quickly scrounge up cash to open a new bar? Thank you, new wife Cynthia!)

“Honey, I love you,” Peter said to Phaedra, disingenuously.

Papasmurf1“That’s not what you said,” Phaedra said.  Earlier, Kandi had said she thought Peter didn’t like her after Phaedra last season unknowingly said within earshot of Peter that she liked her men “clean,” meaning without children. Peter had five before meeting Cynthia. Peter, Phaedra said at different points, reminded her of  “the old man in the shoe,” “Uncle Ben” and most amusingly, “Papa Smurf.”

Peter noticed Phaedra’s hubby Apollo was rubbing his hands, steam coming from his ears.

“You got some sort of problem? Peter asked.

“If I had a problem,” Apollo sneered, “I’d let you know.”

“I’m right here!” Peter said.

Apollo had a reason to be upset since he was defending his turf e.g. Phaedra. Peter? He just has a chip on his shoulder the size of Texas.

Earlier on the show, he showed that same chip toward Cynthia’s family, who didn’t approve of the marriage. He told Cynthia’s ex Leon that he couldn’t give a flying you know what about what Cynthia’s family thinks of him. That’s a recipe for warm in-law relations, eh?

Okay, back to the third-grade-level verbal battle.

“You’re too old,” Apollo mocked, when Peter bowed up.

“I’m too old? Bring it!” Peter said.

Apollo stands up.  (”He’s off parole now,” Phaedra later noted. “So he can beat him up!”)

“If you have a problem, address it to me and my family,” Apollo said.

“You’ve got me jacked up!” Peter said.

Apollo, probably tempted to punch Peter, instead walks away.

“Peter is like NeNe,” Sheree noted. “I think he’s all bark and no bite. He thought he could punk Apollo. Epic fail!”

In other housewives news:

- Last year, Sheree Whitfield was getting her car taken away because she hadn’ t paid her divorce lawyer. Now she has enough money to build an 8,000-square foot house she has dubbed “Chateau Sheree”? Where is this cash coming from? Are those event appearance fees that cushy? And she tells the developer she wants a ballroom, a place for massages, a lounge and a gym. Oh, and a library. As she calls it: “necessities.”

- Phaedra is in love with her 11-month-old Ayden and spoils him, despite saying tough things about childrearing while pregnant. Apollo is playing the stern father in a case of what she calls role reversal. Apollo is also a bit upset after he had been pulled over and questioned by a cop in a case of mistaken identity. That non-news ended up all over the Web. Apollo thinks Phaedra was not keeping things “confidential” by talking with people about it. She said she has his back and she can’t control what others say or presume given his prison record.

- Kandi Burruss didn’t keep much in touch with Kim while she was pregnant. Both comment about it but this is clearly something that will be addressed at a later date.

- Kim’s now hubby Kroy continues to come across as a classy, nice guy. And Kim keeps raving about him. Even her two daughters rave about him. “He balances me out,” Kim said.

- Since NeNe Leakes is on the outs with most everybody, she is the only housewife not invited to Kim’s baby shower. So we see her son Brentt going to Gregg’s house. The separation is tough on Brentt. NeNe is doubtful she can divorce Gregg.  (”When it comes down to signing the papers, I’m not sure I will be able to do it,” she said.) She clearly still has feelings for him. They have an awkward conversation about whether each is dating. NeNe decides not to delve into it.

And what was up with the intermittent fuzzy camera work during the shower?  Obviously, something went wrong but they couldn’t fix it in post production.


“Uptown was just a draining money pit after awhile. Bar One is much smaller. I have a good feeling about it.”Cynthia, about Peter’s old failed venture vs. his new one. Wishful thinking, Cynthia?

I’m not real good at partnerships” - Peter, when asked by Cynthia’s ex Leon about whether his venture has any partners.

“Everybody knows an opinion is like an anus. We all have one.” Phaedra, commenting about Peter’s opinions about her.

“I don’t like used houses”Sheree, who makes a “used house” sound like a “used shoe” or “used napkin”

“You got her knocked up. Thanks!” - Kim’s daughter Brielle, joking with Kroy during a heartfelt speech during the Kim-Kroy shower.

“Who does that? What straight man goes and does an article talking about his wife’s friends?” Sheree, bringing up a good point about Peter.


Of course, Andy Cohen notices that Brentt, NeNe’s younger son, has a Louis Vitton suitcase to move between NeNe and Gregg’s homes. How vogue!

Cynthia explained why she was late to the baby shower: she had a modeling job. “Considering the way Kim acted at my wedding… it was good that I came at all.”  Meow!

Cynthia was upset Phaedra brought up the interview at the baby shower, inciting the Peter/Apollo dust up.

Does Cynthia kiss NeNe’s butt? “I had a whole life before NeNe. Since I met NeNe, we are very good friends. Some think I just drop on the set and my life started with NeNe.”

Poll question- hottest man in the ATL (on the show at least): Peter – 6% , Apollo  32% Gregg 1%, Kroy 32% Lawrence 5% Leon 24%

Basic conclusion: Cynthia is still boring, even on live TV.


Last week’s second episode tipped the 3 million viewer mark, up from 2.9 million opening week. UPDATE: This episode rose to 3.24 million viewers.  This show is up about 700,000 viewers from the comparable first three episodes of season three.

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By Rodney Ho, Radio & TV Talk

79 comments Add your comment


November 21st, 2011
12:55 am

This article needs a little editing attention. Among the errors was an incorrect quote – Sheree actually said that PETER was like NeNe, not Apollo. Come on, Rodney, get it together (or hire a proofreader).

Rodney Ho

November 21st, 2011
1:07 am

Thanks for the catch. Fixed it. Anything else? You said “among the errors.”


November 21st, 2011
1:29 am

In your update on Phaedra and Apollo, you typed “That non-news ended up all the Web”, leaving out the word “over.” Then there were some things that just could have been written a little better. Sorry, my intent wasn’t to play editor. I really do enjoy reading your articles. I’m sure you have to write a lot on the fly – this one just actually sounds like it was written in a hurry, that’s all. Keep up the good work!


November 21st, 2011
2:33 am

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Child, Please!

November 21st, 2011
3:03 am

“The dialogue didn’t more substantial than that.”

I’m certain you meant, “..didn’t GET more substantial than that.”

My two cents….


November 21st, 2011
6:48 am

Apollo is like NeNe,” Sheree noted. “I think he’s all bark and no bite. He thought he could punk Apollo. Epic fail!”

This still isn’t fixed. I think I will write the new editor of AJC, he claims to be so on the spot with everything….

Really Are you Serious?

November 21st, 2011
7:02 am

Really people? Are you serious? Are you lives just that “entertaining” where you have to come and proof-read for every error? Get real. Get a life. Geeze…obviously someone has too much time on their hands if they are writing to the editor for such an insignifcant article (no offense Rodney). Damn! Go ahead proof read mine…LOL

@Really Are you Serious

November 21st, 2011
7:27 am

Yes really, our lives are that entertaining, is yours that entertaining where you feel the need to comment about the “proof-readers”?

Jennifer in D.C.

November 21st, 2011
7:46 am

Regarding the proofreading–YES, we should comment! It’s a major newspaper and so it should be edited. I don’t care how much of a “hurry” anyone is in. It’s beyond annoying to try to figure out what the writer is implying. PROOFREAD, period!

Regarding the housewives, etc.:

Peter is cantankerous. I think Cynthia lacks a tiny bit of spine region.
Phaedra is increasingly hilarious with her one-liners and all. Appollo needs to be careful being baited.
Is Kroy too good to be true? I mean, I can’t help but wonder if he’s so wonderful wouldn’t he be with a wonderful woman? Kim smokes, talks inappropriately in front of her daughters, is a gold-digger, etc., etc. Seems like they wouldn’t be so compatible. I guess time will tell with their new reality show and all. And how in the world does Kim afford such a new expensive home?! Still confused on that one.
Sheree…still delusional and I’m wondering how she affords to build her home as well. What are we missing? She’s so dumb it’s amusing.
NeNe–don’t have time to type alllll that is NeNe. (However, I did see how she was tapping Gregg on his butt as he left the house w/ their son and the cameras mysteriously didn’t zoom in on it. Clearly a sign of affection and closeness in the so-called midst of a separation.)

Um, why is Lawrence always on camera? I’m tired of looking at him and all of his heels and cosmetics. Spare us, please.


November 21st, 2011
7:49 am

I almost couldn’t read the article because of the bad sentence structures. Here are the other mis-types Rodney…..
“The dialogue didn’t more substantial than that.”
“That non-news ended up all the Web”
Otherwise, thanks for the recap, that way I dont have to actually watch the show. “MEOW”


November 21st, 2011
7:58 am

Don’t be so quick to write articles using quotes because most of these are wrong. AJC is so full of it! Please remove this before there is another fight!


November 21st, 2011
8:00 am

how can you be 5 hours LATE to a baby shower? how long do jumped up hood rats take to give the mother to be some gifts? is boy toy football player koy the only man on rhoa? the rest just seem like well dressed pimps living off women with ne ne’s son the poster boy for the next generation of enabled, incompetent and irresponsible males?

mothers concerned

November 21st, 2011
8:07 am

I like Apollo he is keeping it real is past is his past. Peter makes me sick to my stomach Cynthia doesn’t have a brain to think for herself and I agree with her mother that she shouldn’t have married him and he does look like papa smurf.

meyouand she

November 21st, 2011
8:11 am

Glad Nene didn’t play bully this week. It is always refreshing to see her tone it down.

Go Sheree. It is obvious you have more than people think you have……if not you could not build your nice home form the ground UP!. I know Nene is a jealous B seeing she is so rich she can give you money.
It is good watching the plaform BRAVO set for all the housewive’s…… allowing these woman to gain exposure to become business owner, however out of all the Housewive’s franchise……how in the heck is Nene the only one that’s rich. That speaks volume for the loud mouth, bragging about being rich when all the other housewives woman has gained exposure too.


November 21st, 2011
8:13 am

It is obvious that the write up was done in a hurry noting numerous mistakes. It is expected that a proper spell and grammar check be done prior to posting, since this is a blog done by someone who is not new on the scene in writing. With that being said, there is no need to beat up on anyone for the said errors.


November 21st, 2011
8:33 am

Kandi always talks about how she’s not messy. In last nights show Kandi was the instigator for the most part. I’ll be glad when Kim leaves the show. I’ll definitely be cringing much less…I just cannot get with the way she talks in front of her girls. Joking or not, the “knocking her up” comment was way off base for a 13 year girl to make. Lawrence is now the featured queen since Dewight is no longer on the show.


November 21st, 2011
8:37 am

The Atlanta crew is the epitome of ghetto. Unlike the other housewives franchises, they have no real money or education. Just a bunch of bottom-feeding hood-rats who live off government handouts.


November 21st, 2011
8:38 am

Rodney, thanks for the speedy recap. Glad I could find it so soon after the show aired only last night. I have learned to read between the lines as I too make the same type of errors. I get it.


November 21st, 2011
8:43 am

This show RHOA is a hot mess but for some reason I find this mess somewhat entertaining and full of laughter and for that, I will find a way to continue to watch… my only struggle is knowing the current status of these folks to a degree…how is the construction of Chateau Sheree progressing is my only wonder…


November 21st, 2011
8:45 am

You can’t disagree with Peter’s assessment of Sheree, the girl is not cute. I can’t figure out if she looks more like Mr. Ed or Trigger. If she thinks she’s cute she needs to get her mirrors fixed or her sight checked.


November 21st, 2011
8:56 am

Everybody is talking bad about Nene but at least she is not sitting around talking about everybody. These silly women are having meetings just to talk about Nene. That just shows how boring their lives are. They have nothing else to talk about except Nene!!!!!!!!!! I’m really not interested in watching Kim’s new show. She’s boring on the RHOA.


November 21st, 2011
9:00 am

The fact that Peter #fraud did the interview calling these women out of their names shows he has no respect for women and no class. It also makes him a hypocrite because their very shenagians is why he’s able to be on TV making an income.

Cynthia #foolish, if he’s willing to refer to them as such, what makes you think he won’t to you? You are just as much apart of what he’s claiming to despise. But again, so is he.


November 21st, 2011
9:01 am

Phaedra mentioning what Peter said in an article after time had passed wreaks f middle school Gil behavior. Many men hav been seriously hurt or killed over mess like that. A mature adult would have either ignored it or addressed in a different forum, knowing that it could cause harm if addressed in the manner that she did. A phone call to Peter or asking for a meeting off camera before this 5 hour baby shower would have been more appropriate. For all of you that will say it was ok, get rid of the keep it real attitude and think like a rational adult. I grew up in the Liberty City area of Miami and have seen issues like this escalate to no return. The ghetto is an attitude, not a place. Leave the attitude where it belongs.


November 21st, 2011
9:03 am

This week I really got a insight into Sheree, I know now for a fact she is clueless. Even if you have some money you should try and hold on to it this RHOA and making appearances will fade go away and then what? Know body will know are care about you and the mortgage still goes on. You take your son to a second hand sport store for shoes for football. You complain about where you are meeting someone for lunch because of your shoes. Oh yeah time to put the Berkin down the red one doesn’t go with everything and obviously is the only one you have. I would rather have a few Coaches, Kate Spades than one tacky red Berkin for what you supposedly paid for that or is it a knockoff bought from NY. Bottom line Sheree get a life and get you some business.

carla roqs

November 21st, 2011
9:04 am

yes, rodney, you still have some issues, you were prob just going too fast. and as far as the sexiest guy in the atl, it is my boy who looks like peter, but is younger, cuter and much sexier.

carla roqs

November 21st, 2011
9:05 am

btw, five hours late to a baby shower? i do not fault them, who the heck has a baby shower for more than 2 or 3 hours???? oh my gosh!!!


November 21st, 2011
9:05 am

@Priscilla, the only reason NeNe is not sitting around talking about the others is because by this season she’s on the outs with everyone. She’s alienated herself. How much longer will she be able to keep her shenanigans up when no one is around her? Her existence strives off others.

@Gloria, post a picture of yourself. Full body and headshot. Let us assess you.

Carnac the Magnificent...

November 21st, 2011
9:11 am

Answer – Rodney and RHOA’s

Question – List 7 Ho’s that live in Atlanta…


November 21st, 2011
9:14 am

Who would NeNe talk about the other women to, pay attention she has no friends left in Haterville and Cynthia is no fun. NeNe would’ve been talking about them too if she had an audience.I just love Lawrence’s facial expressions during a crisis. BATW, leave Mr. Ho alone, we all know what happened.


November 21st, 2011
9:15 am

This show is still on the air? I watched year one because I thought it was a comedy. Then I realized these women were serious. Sorta makes a guy embarrassed to say he’s from Atlanta if this trailer trash is the best we can come up with.


November 21st, 2011
9:35 am

Our government is ram-rodding us all up the butt, and this is what you guys care about…


November 21st, 2011
9:48 am

@TTTone, why are you responding here if you wasn’t interested. Aren’t you wasting your time worrying about our interest when you could be writing to your Congressman?


November 21st, 2011
9:49 am

Kim definitely has a problem keeping up with real time. First she claims she’s only 33 and then last night she said she’s known Sheree for about 10 years. Nnene and Sheree were the only “housewives” who knew each other before the show. This is season 4….how did 4 years magically become 10??!!!


November 21st, 2011
9:54 am

That was all Phaedra’s faught. She should have kept her big lips closed. She is so messy and who wants a person like that representing them as their attorney. She looked at Kim’s dad like he was trailor trash when he was offering her his services. I liked this lady for a minute but that is over. I was happy to see NENE in a humble moment but, she needs to keep her family together. Taking kids through a divorce is no joke for the children. Apollo was being very inmatetish last night!


November 21st, 2011
10:01 am

LMBO @ Phaedra calling Peter a mixture of Papa Smurf & Uncle Ben with a village of children…..PRICELESS…..


November 21st, 2011
10:04 am


Von (from last season)

November 21st, 2011
10:29 am

I didn’t get an chance to comment last week because I was off work, but this week I’m back. Last night show was GOOD! This show has the potential to make it without NeNe. She had like maybe 5-7 minutes of airtime (GREAT JOB BRAVO). I see you finally got those choppers fixed too. (WINK HATER). Okay…here goes! I think Kandi dress was too short to wear to that baby shower. That was club attire. Also, my grandmother said Kandi like to stir up crap. Which is true! Was it me or did Sheree wear the same shirt to Kim’s Baby Shower as Kandi wore shopping with Phaedra? I felt like Sheree was very undressed for the event and should have stepped her game up. I like the lay-out of her new house. Kim’s Shower reminded me of an wedding and it was so over the top, considering the comments she made about Phaedra’s Shower. Whatever Kim! You got some grown kids to be 15 and 9. Cynthia, Cynthia oh why did you pick Uncle Ben, Cynthia?? Think about the nice looking guys she have had. The basketball player and Leon but she married broke, old looking Peter. WHY????? CALL THE POLICE ON THAT! Kim was right, why did Peter and Cynthia show up to the baby shower so darn late and Peter making a scene without an gift. That was so TACKY of them to do that. Saving the best for last. My girl Phaedra stay on top of her game and I’m so glad Apollo stepped to Peter. He should have knocked him out. Also, I didn’t hear about Apollo’s run in with the police this year, my first time hearing it on the show. I see Phaedra reads the AJC about the RHOA. LMAO


November 21st, 2011
10:38 am

The home that Kim and Kroy are moving into is rented. I looked it up when they stated she had a new home. This is a blog people. Writers make mistakes so get over yourself. Who in their right mind has a baby shower that last five or more hours. How many gifts was she opening that Cynthia could show up five hours late and they still all be there. Also any “reality”, and I use that term losely, that Kim has will not be watched by anyone. Who wants to watch her chain smoke around a new born. I still can not seem to find her husband on the falcons sideline and doesn’t he understand that if he is traded or is released by the falcons she will leave him, ask kris humphries, kroy better watch his back on that aspect. The episode was not even worth watching. The person that made the show interesting that has not taped as much as the other ladies. I like Ne Ne and people come to clubs to see her not shree or the other ladies.


November 21st, 2011
10:44 am

@ele, the home is rented. Didn’t she say she owned that other home of hers.


November 21st, 2011
11:39 am

Kim: Yes, she does rent the house and I dont see any problem with it as her husband is in a profession where he can move around frequently. I dont think Kroy has a long term contract with the Falcons so I cant blame her for renting. At least they can up and leave without being bogged down with a mortgage.
Her kids have no manners. If I would have told my mom “Omg I hate you” I would have gotten slapped. Brielle’s speech was nice but it was more for a wedding not a baby shower. Kroy seems like he’s really good to Kim and her girls and it’s nice that she can finally have a family that’s her own. I did cringe when she said “im not in the hood” ^___^

Sheree: she’s good for her commentary and that’s it. That house looked gorgeous on the blueprint but I felt like she was fronting for the camera with the ballroom, skating rink and library. NeNe put on Twitter that the house still hasn’t been built. IDK how true that is but I wouldn’t be surprised. It seems all these women put on a front.

Cynthia is boring and I think people get that confused with classy which she is not because I’ve seen her get a little messy with NeNe about the other women on more than one occasion. Beautiful woman and I like how well mannered her daughter is. Her and Leon seem to have a little spark.

Kandi is messy. I’m sorry the “neutral” comments that she make are way off base. She’s just plain ole messy.

Phaedra has the most hilarious commentary! I hollered when she said “Papa Smurf and sometimes uncle ben with a village of children” and again when she said “Apollo isn’t on parole anymore so he can beat Peter up” The thing that I like most about Phaedra is that she is unapologetic in who she is and she’ll rarely if ever back down from her comments.

The Peter and Apollo fight could have been handled at a different time in a different place privately but I guess that wouldn’t have been good for ratings. Did anyone see Kandi’s moms face when the fight was going on? That was the blank stare of the century lol

NeNe I hate that she’s faking this separation for the cameras and then has her son involved in this foolishness. She’s very extra this season and I guess she has to be because no one wants anything to do with her so she has to up herself for attention.


November 21st, 2011
11:44 am

Great show. I think the producers need to figure out how to put Nene in their group cause this show would have been off the chains if she would have showed up. If she did all she had to do was sit there adn be quiet and that would have drawn buzz in the room. I hope someway somehow, they all can at least coexist together.


November 21st, 2011
11:56 am

Love love Phaedra…..Papa Smurf was sooo funny. Glad Apollo made it known Papa Smurf comments were rude. Cynthia should have known the other ladies would be offended. Is she that clueless.


November 21st, 2011
12:20 pm

Hey Rodney, I used a picture you took of Kim Z and Jonathan Jaxson on my blog today! It was from back when Eldredge was here. You should stop by and see it! and bring your editor groupies, Lord knows I could use some proofreading. It’s hard to proof your own work just after writing it! Also, word is, that Sheree’s house never got built. Are you shocked?

Love the blog! you should follow me on twitter @tamaratattles, Jennifer Brett does! and I mention your blog a lot there! ~@tamaratattles


November 21st, 2011
12:21 pm

Yeahhh! NeNe had less airtime last night and the show was not as ignorant and much more viewable. NeNe please drop the blonde hair. Ms. Phaedra is hilarious; she’s educated,intelligent, confident and comical. Peter, dude, you really found a good one when you got with Ms. Essence magazine (actually, I think she refers to herself as a SUPER-model). That’s another story.Cynthia; she has upgraded Peter from the D-Class to the C-Class of African Americans so congratulations. I thought Leon & Peter exchanging notes on Cynthia made her look cheap! Pitiful! Kim knows how to get paid. Sheree, keep doing you! Lawrence, you should have checked Peter when he made the comments about your shoes; please take care of it next time. I’m sure you’re response will be funny and tasteful.


November 21st, 2011
12:33 pm

Sheree still thinking she it the “IT”. Doesnt have a pot to piss in…. I’m glad to see NeNe stop fight with people. That’s the NeNe that first started. She told it like it was and you can respect that. Shereee is a want to be. She didnt give any of the other women that hard of a time. Not even Kim. Now they are friends again. Whatever! Didnt give the Dr. that hard of a time, but on NeNe like some high school chick. Get over it Sheree, you’ve not been like since the start of this show. What are you going to do when this is over. Going back to shoplifting

Rodney Ho

November 21st, 2011
12:54 pm

You’re all right. I write these recaps really really late at night and no matter how exhausted I am, I do need to a better job proofreading them. Will make sure it’s clean as a whistle next week.


November 21st, 2011
12:55 pm

NeNe and Phaedra make the show in my opinion, especially NeNe. It doesn’t matter if NeNe was in the show for only a few minutes. All the others just sit around and talk about her. Ever since NeNe was on “Celebrity Apprentice,” they have been hating on her, especially Sheree. …And speaking of Sheree, she curses like a man and it is not pretty. For someone who considers herself “classy and/or upscale” she is definitely a hood rat and is ghetto. Also, I hope she is able to pay for that house she is building. The contractor looked like he was rolling his eyes a few times when she was telling him all that she wanted. She does not have the money that the “Real Housewives of Beverly Hills” have, and they some money. Sheree, just as someone else stated earlier, needs to save her money. “She by Sheree” must be selling pretty good if she’s suddenly making so much that she can afford a library, a spa, etc. in her potential new home. I also agree that Apollo does keep it real, but people need to stop hating on NeNe; she is totally cool!

Rodney Ho

November 21st, 2011
12:56 pm

Also, last night, I thought I had made all the fixes before I went to sleep at 1:15 a.m., including the Apollo/Peter switch, but they never went through. I may have simply forgot to push the update button.

Nat Turner

November 21st, 2011
1:02 pm

My problem with last night’s show was Brielle saying that her mother is now knocked up. Her grandparents were there, her parents’ friends were there, and Kroy’s sister looked embarrass when she said that. There is a time and place for things. Saying that in front of all of those people was not the place.