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‘Real Housewives of Atlanta’ recap, episode 11, 10/8/09: Soul to Sole

CREDIT: Freddy-O

CREDIT: Freddy-O

This is the first episode to air since Ashley “A.J.” Jewell died in the parking lot of a strip club last Friday night, but since this was taped and edited months ago, the only reflection of that is the “in memoriam” note at the end of the show.

The episode lacked any particularly dramatic moments and only a couple of deliciously catty remarks. And the first scene is now a bit sad because it features Kandi Burruss talking about A.J. to Kim Zolciak . She restates the deep divide between her mom and A.J. She did offer some news: her mom was willing to meet with Kandi, A.J. and a therapist. We’ll see the session next week, as noted in the trailers.

That scene, at kids clothing store Justice, stemmed from Kim skipping out on Kandi’s party shown in episode 10.

Kim repeated the excuse she used with me in a phone interview last Friday: her daughter Brienna was sick. Kandi gave Kim a bit of a hard time about it but ultimately forgave her because you could tell she wasn’t all that peeved. At Justice, Kim spent $616.32 using a “Titanium” American Express which requires $250,000 in expenditures per year. Kim claims that she got it without Big Poppa’s help. Sure. We all believe you Kim.

If this A.J. death hadn’t happened, I’d call Kim and ask her about that, but alas, that’s not terribly important given the current context of what’s going on.

Otherwise, there wasn’t a single truly noteworthy moment to focus on. Instead, here’s a quick summary of the plotlines:

- Lisa Wu Hartwell tries to get preggers. So far, no luck seeking No. 2 with her second husband Ed Hartwell. Hartwell, who spent six years in the NFL, then two more years trying to get back into the NFL, decided to give up for good since his knee was never going to be the same. Lisa would prefer he not go back but at the same time, is bummed she won’t be seeing that $3.5 million a year salary anymore. She tries to tell Kandi she lives modestly, then Kandi calls her on it.

“You have a bowling alley in your house,” Kandi said. “You complained you couldn’t get an elevator!” (After this season’s taping ended around June, Lisa and Ed do eventually downsize, moving to a more modest home they already owned after short-selling the pad with the bowling alley.)

- Kandi takes another step forward in her efforts to become a solo artist instead of just a successful songwriter. She flew to Los Angeles to meet a rep at Capitol Records. The meeting seems to go well but I haven’t heard of her signing with anybody as of now. Budgets are tight, she said, and it’s tough for an artist of her background to break in as a solo artist even though she had hits as a member of a group in the 1990s.

- NeNe Leakes puts together a fundraiser for her Twisted Hearts Foundaton to help women who have suffered physical and emotional abuse from their former male partners. Her idea: a charity run in high heels. The turnout is not huge but it looks like goofy fun. Skinny gay hairdresser Dwight Eubanks, of course, looks especially absurd in his high heels and a leotard get-up which shows off his, um, package.

NeNe, in the final scene of the hour, talks with a relative and explains how she might be going to Athens to meet Alan, who she thinks may be her actual biological father (as opposed to Curtis, who claimed to be her biological dad but wasn’t.) We then see a trailer showing her meeting said “dad.”

- Sheree Whitfield goes to the W Hotel at the Perimeter with Dwight and plans her fashion show. Or maybe it’s more Dwight planning it and Sheree nodding her head a lot, then bitching about it to the cameras. “Dwight,” she said, “just likes to hear himself talk.”

She also slapped down Lisa’s fashion show from a few episodes ago even though she didn’t even bother to show up. “I don’t settle for average,” Sheree proclaimed. “That’s where Lisa and I differ.” Yes, that was the cattiest remark of the hour.

The scene also included my favorite Dwight quote of the hour: “I was a gift from God sent to Sheree to help her out with this event. This is what I do!” Yes, God is a true bestower of such wonderful gifts. He hands out the Dwight Eubanks of the world like Snickers bars during Halloween.

- Despite getting back together with Big Poppa (at least during the taping), Kim plans to work on her wig line. We see a trailer in which she sees her first sample wig.

Kandi was not up for being on “Watch What Happens,” a live show Bravo airs at midnight after the 10 p.m. episode (repeated at 11). Kim called in: “I saw her tonight at the wake. It was difficult. One of the hardest things I’ve had to go through in my life. It’s tough. She specifically asked me to tell her Twitter, Facebook fans, she’s incredibly grateful and really appreciates the prayers from all you guys.”

She later added, “Kandi and A.J. really loved each other. It’s so tragic and sad. He’s a really good person and had a good heart.”

Next week promises to be a heart tugger.

94 comments Add your comment

Darren

October 9th, 2009
2:32 am

Good episode. Kinda sad watching knowing what happened to AJ. Good job NeNe…

Sarah

October 9th, 2009
6:12 am

NeNe PLEASE get over this LOVE fest you have with yourself! You make southern women look dumb and trashy…as long as Kim has friends like you she needs no enemies!

Kandi…you are one classy woman and my heart goes out to you…be strong

Once again NeNe get over it and you are not a pretty woman with your clothes falling off ….class up Greg is classy not sure what he saw or sees in YOU!

Sarah

mike

October 9th, 2009
6:56 am

nene you have really let this show go to your head.All of a sudden you think you are an a-lister?I used to think Kim was crazy but everything she said about ya”ll is true.Lisa is a gang banger,SHEREE is ghetto and NENEE thinks she”s on the same level as oprah.Give me a break.Nenee you are a size 18 and wear a mans size 16 shoe.all of you are jealous of Kandi and KIM.What bridge did you find dwight under!

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IHeartRHOA

October 9th, 2009
8:04 am

Nice to watch a ‘civilized’ episode for a change. Kandi is truly a breath of fresh air. With the recent tragic turn of events. I have a greater appreciation for the old adage, “mother knows best”. WOW!

Kev

October 9th, 2009
8:09 am

My hate of Nene grows every week. She is so full of herself, and why does she constantly critique Kims wig, when she wears one herself? Why does Lisa constantly belittle Keith Sweat? He got the kids, so he must have not been too bad to her. She needs to let it go, she is the messed up one, not him. Kandi, keep your head up, glad you got a deal. Now, come on out with some hot musci, like you wrote for Destiny’s Child, and TLC.

Marty

October 9th, 2009
8:21 am

Kandi, I am so sorry for your loss. I watched the shows last night.
You did a great job with the monologue. I was an abused child. You
really captured the true feelings of an abused child. Thanks.
I watched AJ and your mother as you performed, they were very moved,
I could tell. I could also tell that he loved you very much!
Hold him in your heart always. I will think of you often.
Stay strong!!

ms. J

October 9th, 2009
8:33 am

STOOOP!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Haten on NENE. Her and lisa are the only one’s who are real on the show. Y’all just made cause they will get u straight so all the hater’s keep it movin.

cardiogirl

October 9th, 2009
8:43 am

This line was fantastic:

Yes, God is a true bestower of such wonderful gifts. He hands out the Dwight Eubanks of the world like Snickers bars during Halloween.

Eleni

October 9th, 2009
8:45 am

NeNe is NUTS. WTH, that was a pitiful turnout to her “charity” run? She needs to stop wearing those off the shoulder moomoos! I agree she has definitely let the fame go to head and is the LEAST real person on the show. Greg seems so laid back, I guess if the stripper stories and the timeline of their relationship are true; she must have whipped him with those tricks she keeps in her pocketbook.. and she calls Kim a trashbox hooka..YYYYYEEEEAAAAAHHHH RRRRIIIGGGGHHHTTTT!

Kim is shallow, but at least she owns up to it. As for the dating and being engaged to a married man. I went through divorce and was separated. It took three years to finalize that divorce and I dated a very nice man during that time. We met 6 months after the separation and we planned to get married.

She-Ray, is so self-absorbed. She is going to go Postal on Dwight’s busted azz next week and I can’t wait.

Dwight is FREAKY SCARY. He looks like a scary ventriloquist doll. He should audition for a spot at Halloween Horror Nights at Universal Studios in Orlando… His face freak me out and now that I see what a busted body its attached to. He looks like something from the Night of the living dead…YIKES!

Lisa is boring. She tres to stay relevent by starting shiot. What a hypocrit. Ed seems way cool and their son is just adorable.

Khandi IS WAY COOL and the best housewife of them all. I love her and cannot wait until her album drops.

Whatever

October 9th, 2009
8:45 am

Ms. J… you sound so incredibly dumb. Learn to type or better yet… learn English first.

Mrs. Long

October 9th, 2009
8:52 am

I’m with you ms.J. NeNe and Lisa are the only one’s who keep it real. Sheree i just cant stand she is trying her best to out do Lisa, give it up girl. Kim go back to the hills you came from. Kandi, stay strong, and know that God will make a way.

TC

October 9th, 2009
8:53 am

Condolences to Kandi and AJ’s kids on their loss of a friend and father.

As for Lisa just because Keith Sweat is good to her kids, does not mean he’s good to her. I was in a similar situation my ex-husband was great to my daughter and and a#$ hole when it came to me, when I left I told my daughter I could not stay for her, the man is rotten to the core. So don’t down play Lisa’s assessment of Keith unless you have been in that situation you don’t know. I applaud you Lisa, my husband had money to wasn’t enough to make me stay……

As for NeNe I love you girl but you are getting full of yourself rein it in.

Sheree was always full of herself, saw her in New York at Oprahs Central Park show she was a hot mess.

Kims publicist has validated what everyone has been saying she’s a big dufus LIAR, that is her character.

GOTJOKES

October 9th, 2009
9:02 am

Just so I’m clear,,” What excactly did Lisa mean by having Extra’s”. When has children become extras. Is that another marketing strategy? LOL

Trina

October 9th, 2009
9:03 am

Khandi, my heart goes out to you. Stay strong. You will make it through this difficult time. I will say a prayer for you.

Candice

October 9th, 2009
9:10 am

I love Kim and Kandi. Kim it seems has been the only supportive one for Kandi. You are in my prayers Kandi and Aj’s family

tiredofantics

October 9th, 2009
9:12 am

I am truly dissapointed in the way this show has grown. Honest to God, it has gone from bad to worst. But, its like a train wreck, you just can’t stop watching. I think Nene has issues that only God and therapy can help. I don’t even believe her attempts at good are really meant for good. I think they are more publicity stunts than anything else. She reminds me of “William Hung” from American Idol. Sheree tries too hard, in order for people to be “jealous of your success”, you have to actually succeed. And not succeed at marrying a ball player and then trying to bleed him dry because you have “limited education and earning potential.” And, if thats the case, Obama is giving money for mothers to go back to school. Lisa Wu seems to be trying hard to take advantage of her second chance in life, and I can’t knock her hussle. Kandi seems to be handling her business. Kim is not even worth talking about. I can only hope that Big Poppa marries her and gives her a dose of her own medicine.

Sweet T

October 9th, 2009
9:21 am

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Debdoes

October 9th, 2009
9:24 am

I’m with you ‘gotjokes’….I laughed when she said ‘Extras’ speaking of have ‘More’ children! Extras? I guess with you have other children and never have them on the show, more children would be ‘extras’.

Texas Boy

October 9th, 2009
9:28 am

I just love the RHOA, although it was kind of difficult watching it after AJ’s death. My condolences go out to Khandi, his kids and family.
The funniest part of the whole show last night was that fool Dwight! Only in ATLANTA… (laughing)

kendall meeks

October 9th, 2009
9:38 am

well as for NeNe aer you really a man dress in drag because all you hang around are drag queens and as for you being the Jones you really have let this go to your big-ass head. you want to call Kandi a country pumkin but your country-ass is from Athens where the country is.Sheree you are not a designer nor have you skectch a damn thing and made anything. but you want to contiuned to put Lisa clothing line down at least she pulled off her show. unlike yours last year and it seems you might not have one this year, please give us a break from this. you really are patheic. Lisa we all know that Ed days in NFL are gone and no more spending money for and that you are trying to make Keith Sweat look as if he’s the bad one. well something happen for you to not have your kids with you. Kandi my heart goes out to you darling and stay true to yourself and take care of you and your daughter.im not sure how AJ had go the twins and left them with you but i know you will make a great mom as you have for your daughter. may GOD be with you and your family during this lost, stay strong and keep you head up girl because you are truely blessed

ATLien

October 9th, 2009
9:44 am

Nothing about the show is “Atlanta” except for Kandi, but she’s not even a housewife. I think she’s the only one that’s truly from here. What a STAIN this “show” has out on our city! SMH!

Dana

October 9th, 2009
9:54 am

…But YOU ALL KEEP watching it..no matter how bad you say the show is.

D

October 9th, 2009
9:56 am

R.I.P. AJ LUV YA KANDI, the only one that is conscious of the value of a $, keep doing for self, LADY! Way to stand up for the health of your man Lisa. Nene is a raspy loud over bearing hussy! Kim be a true friend to anybody. Sherre, (crickets) what ever!

Healing the Sole\Heeling the Sole, I really liked the title of the event. NeNes’ idea was for a good cause, but she should have opted for a diffent event. The event she chose reminded me of pleasure ladies of the evening with names like “Crystal and Alize, running from law enforcment.

She would have been better off having the abused women model heels (if they were up to it) on the walkway or catwalk than having people run up and down the street in a very nice subdivision in heels. I recall NeNe saying that she was the “Jones”. That wasn’t a “Jones” type move! That was some ghetto type ish although she stated “I’m not ghetto, I’m from Athens”. So is Buffie the Body! Nene = ghetto in the suburbs!

Furloughed

October 9th, 2009
10:05 am

Kim’s daughters names are Briele and Arianna. Who is Brienna?

bjren

October 9th, 2009
10:08 am

I’m trying to figure out if Kim lied to Rodney Ho when in his 10/2 article he asked her why she didn’t show up for Kandi’s performance. It seemed like when Kandi saw Kim at Justice, it was as if they were seeing each other for the first time since the performance. With the questions that Kandi asked and the explanations Kim offered (preferring to stay home her sick child than find a babysitter), it didn’t seem like they already had this discussion before seeing each other at the store. Unless the producers asked them to “stage” this part? Rodney was right in his article about the producers giving the impression that Kim callously skipped the performance. Maybe the detail of Kim calling Kandi beforehand was unknown to Bravo as they filmed and edited those two shows? Several people claim Kim lies, so I wonder if this a piece of evidence of it?

mommasita

October 9th, 2009
10:14 am

Doesn’t anyone else find it hypocritical that NeNe has a charity against domestic violence and yet she was instrumental at holding Kim so She-Ray could “whoop her azz” and “pull her wig”? Let us not forget that there’s a police report of charging NeNe with choking Kim? All this from a woman again violence against women?

mommasita

October 9th, 2009
10:18 am

I meant: All this from a woman against violence against women?

Are you for real?

October 9th, 2009
10:19 am

Rodney are you serious??? “This A.J. death” – what is it with you referring to the deceased that turns you into such a disrespecting ass???

TIFFANY M YOUNGER

October 9th, 2009
10:23 am

KANDI OUR OFFICE JUST GOT THE NEWS ABOUT A.J…………..OUR HEART GOES OUT TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY……STAY STRONG, GOD BLESS……………

atlgirl

October 9th, 2009
10:23 am

Nene is a real trouble maker… Lisa is a lot smarter than she acts, but she seems to follow Nene around like a puppy. If she were to wise up, she’d realize that Nene and she are just as big a couple of smack talkers as Kim and Sheree.

Sheree is rather full of herself, and kind of mean. If Lisa had such a huge angry reaction to Kim talking about her behind her (lisa) back, then why not go off on Sheree as well. Sheree has said some nasty things about LIsa behind her back.

Kim is a gold digger, and a mistress, but she is real about it. I am sure Poppas wife knows about it, and is probably with him for the same damn reason. Nene used to be a stripper, I am positive that not every guy she gave a lap dance to was single… come on.

Kandi is a sweet and wonderful woman. If anything each housewife could learn something from her. I hope that her friendship with Kim is genuine, and Kim really cares for her, because Kandi needs someone right now. My prayers are with Kandi.

Anna

October 9th, 2009
10:38 am

Nene, you need to get over yourself. The fight at Sherree’s “independence” party was so pathetic. I believe Kandi will take Nene for that fact! I think if you would keep your mouth shut at times you would look classy and civilized. Lisa, I like her but honey you have no sense of SYLE! I’m sorry. Everyone is always talking about Kim but never looking at themselves. Kandi is Truly the Classy one of the bunch, and this was shown way before her lost. My heart and prayers go to Kandi and AJ’s kids.

Daphnee

October 9th, 2009
10:42 am

this is my fave ahow && i am so sorry about what happened too aj that is soo sad khandi life seem like it was going good . but everything happens for a reason . God bless you khandi , you are in my prayers , iloveyouu !

Miss Smarty Pants

October 9th, 2009
10:43 am

It was hard to tell Nene from the drag queens.Her attitude has become so nasty.

She said Kim is a monkey with a wig on last week. Pot, meet Kettle

MECCA ALLAH

October 9th, 2009
10:45 am

KANDI, I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS OF YOUR LOVED ONE. MAY GOD CONTINUE TO WATCH OVER YOU AND HIS CHILDREN AND HIS FAMILY IN A SPECIAL WAY. DEATH IS NEVER EASY, BUT ALWAYS REMEMBER THAT HE IS IN A BETTER PLACE. HIS WINGS WILL COVER YOU AND YOUR FAMILY IN YOUR TIJE OF NEED. MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND ALWAYS COVER YOU.

d

October 9th, 2009
10:45 am

all you hoes need to stop hateing on nene cause she will beat all yal azz

Furloughed

October 9th, 2009
10:47 am

does Twisted Hearts Foundation really exists? why isn’t there a website for it? what’s the deal with that?

Downtown Heffa

October 9th, 2009
10:51 am

NeNe – Excellent benefit activity; Sheree – This is YOUR party; however, since you asked Dwight for his assistance, you should listen to his ideas. Most of his ideas make sense.; Lisa – Sorry the pregnancy test did not come out the way you had hoped.; Kim – It sounds like Big Papa gave you a ring to shut you up. If he leaves his wife for you, this will not be the last relationship for him. Kandi- Stay strong. We don’t always agree with mama, but sometimes it’s good to listen.

Men in high heels in Atlanta. Not a surprise. Now, you see what the single African American females have to look forward to in Atlanta!

t

October 9th, 2009
10:55 am

It was kind of sad watching last night with what has happened with AJ. Kandi stay in prayer and keep your head up.
As for the rest of the cast, they really need to just stop all of the pretending. Sheree, your line is still not in stores, nor is Lisa’s (clothes were horrible), Ed should have been given up that dream and gotten another job by now, then maybe you would still be in your mansion. Kim you are a perfect example of a dumb blonde, engaged to a married man that still lives with his wife. Nene or Hene you just need to stop b/c you still are renting and have no furniture in your home, the money that you raise for the foundation is probably paying your bills, b/c your husband was busted on tv for his real estate fraud so he is probably not making any money. All of them need to go an get a real job, except for Kandi, we know she has real money.

JAMECA WHITAKER

October 9th, 2009
11:00 am

PLEASE FOLKS I LOVE ALL OF THE GA PEACHES, THEY ALL ARE SHADY IN THEIR OWN WAY BUT WHO ISN’T??? ALL THESE PEOPLE BEING SO JUDGEMENTAL NEED TO GO DRINK A NICE TALL GLASS OF BLEACH.
1ST: MY HEART GOES OUT TO KANDI, I LOST MY BROTHER AND TO LOSE SOMEONE THAT CLOSE TO YOU AND HAVE TO BE REMINDED EACH TIME AN EPISODE IS SHOWN IS THE HARDEST THING IN LIFE, KEEP YOU HEAD UP AND AS LONG AS THERE ARE NO GULITIY FEELINGS YOU WILL BE FINE, GOD HAS PEOPLE ON EARTH FOR A PURPOSE AND AJ DID WHAT HE HAD TO DO AND GOD WANTED HIM BACK SO LOOK AT IT THAT WAY.
2ND: SHEREE IS THE ONE THAT IS ALL ON HERSELF, SHE NEEDS TO BE A LITTLE MORE HUMBLE AND MAYBE SHE WILL LOOK BETTER. I FEEL SORRY FOR ED AND LISA, I SEE THE HURT IN ED’S EYES, HE REALLY WANTS TO PLAY FOOTBALL, BUT ON THE UPSIDE HE HAS A STRONG WOMEN BESIDE HIM AND SOMETHING WILL BREAK THROUGH FOR THEM. NENE IS THE TRUTH, KIM IS WRONG FOR KICKING HER OFF THAT CORNEY ASS SONG, IT’S CATCHY BUT CORNEY, SHE MAY GET RINGTONE SELLS BECAUSE IT SOUNDS LIKE A TECHNO SONG FOR THE GAY CLUB, BUT IT WORKS FOR HER, I CAN’T HAT ON THAT, BUT CAN SHE REMEBER THE WORDS IS THE QUESTION, NENE YOU KEEP PUSHING ON DOING YOU AND DON’T LET THEM HURT YOU MY SISTA, TRUST YOU ARE TRULY ADORED BY ALL. CAN’T WAIT UNTIL NEXT WEEK.

eugena holmes

October 9th, 2009
11:01 am

I don’t know where to begin this show has taken individuals places we never knew we could go. I’m not understanding how in heck none of them can get along, or always stabbing each other in the back over nothing. It’s too much competition,with really alot of females that don’t have anything except for Kandi. All this show is a bunch of drama that never ends.Nene is too far gone, Kim is a hot mess, Sheree is a natural born hater, Lisa is like a want to be to me. I miss Deshawn her spirit was so real and she was sweet. So as far as I’m concerned we have a show that only get’s credit in the trash section of the world of t.v. I wish it can be more productive and heart felt than bull. Like my mama said whatever pays the bills.

Nicholas

October 9th, 2009
11:18 am

Sheree,You may want to stop exercising so much. Women should look soft.You are beggining to look like a man in drag.

Shay

October 9th, 2009
11:33 am

Does anyone notice that anytime that there is a problem it ALWAYS involves that gossiping NeNe??????????

Frankie B

October 9th, 2009
11:34 am

At least Dwight was not on his backside with his heels stuck up in the air. I would assume that’s the nautral postion Dwight feels most comfortable in when wearing them.

Eleni

October 9th, 2009
11:38 am

I agree with Jameca.. I see the hurt in Ed’s eyes too but I’ve seen it since the episode where he organized that romantic dinner for Lisa and she was sort of snarky and fake with her comments about how wonderful it is…I’m starting wonder if it is from more than realizing his football career is over.

Victoria T.

October 9th, 2009
11:42 am

Ed and Lisa both realize that Lisa is now the bread winner. I think they both have a problem with that.

PI

October 9th, 2009
11:46 am

The men with the heels are abit much. As a person who plans to move to ATL next summer, I am really hoping that the gay scene is not as hyped as it appears to be on this show. Not sure if I am can handle men parading around in women’s clothing, sporting heels and handbags. Although, I must admit the gay friend (Michael) from LA was rocking his. He pulled it off. I love his personality.He is flaming and doesn’t care who likes it or not…lol!

The best part of the show last night was Dwight running in those heels at NeNe’s house. H-I-L-A-R-I-O-U-S!!! He is quite a character.

Kandi has shaped up to be a great member of this cast. My condolences go out to her and AJ’s family.

prisseme

October 9th, 2009
11:49 am

I agree w/Nicholas – Sherry’s (sherre) body is too muscular. You can fit and toned without all the muscles. Sherry cut back on the weights. Sherry is such a hot mess. She tries so hard to be relevant and fashion forward. If a woman has class, exposure, experience, intelligence and knowledge – SHE DOESN’T HAVE TO ANNOUNCE IT! ARTICULATE IT! She just is. Her presence speaks for itself. It’s tasteless Sherry to keep telling the cameras how classy you are, how classy you do things – tasteless! That let’s viewers know you come from mediocracy and you married an NFL player taking on his wealth as your own. You have a high school diploma and what do you bring to the table BOO? ho sit down! You and that loud big toothed NENE – yuck!

ATLien

October 9th, 2009
11:53 am

@Dana – I don’t need to watch it to know it’s buffoonery. I’ve never seen a full episode as I don’t allow cable in my home. You’d have to pay me $60+ or whatever cable is now to allow this in my house. Through work and professional circles, I’ve interacted with most of the “Ladies”.

Kat

October 9th, 2009
11:55 am

Hey Rodney, Kim’s daughter’s name is Brielle, not Brienna.