Interview with Dwight Eubanks over A.J.’s death, reunion show taping postponed
Dwight Eubanks, the hairdresser and unofficial “sixth” housewife on “The Real Housewives of Atlanta,” said he was “shocked” when he found out about Ashley “A.J.” Jewell’s death early Saturday morning.
The reunion show taping was set here in Atlanta later this week but has been postponed, Eubanks said. But he expects Bravo will tape it later. The network has time. It won’t be airing the reunion shows until November.
“I don’t see them editing him out,” Eubanks said. “It’s television. It’s reality. We just have to prepare and get geared up for next year.”
He has no clue if “Housewife” and R&B singer-songwriter Kandi Burruss, who was engaged to A.J. until late August, chooses to stay with the show.
“She’s had such a dramatic year,” he said. “She had her uncle die, too. She has her own career to focus on. Now her life has changed with her daughter and taking temporary custody of [AJ's] twins. My father was murdered some years ago. I know the pain and stress she’s going through.”
He has chosen to leave Kandi alone in her grieving but has been in contact with Kandi’s aunt and mom, who did not approve of A.J. “That’s how she felt,” he said. “She was adamant about it. Kandi was going to try to win her mother over with A.J. If her mother could not accept A.J., she couldn’t marry him. That’s the way she was reared.”
From what Dwight could see, Kandi “has a great support system. She has an incredible extended family.”
Dwight did not know any of A.J.’s friends. “The strip club,” he noted, “is not my thing.”
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127 comments Add your comment
ZsaZsa
October 5th, 2009
8:13 pm
Now Dwight wants us to believe that he feels sorry for A.J., What about the episode where you and “NENE” were making fun of him????? Remember that episode Dwight?????
Angela Collins
October 5th, 2009
8:14 pm
My heart and prayers goes out to Kandi at her time of Berievement.AJ was a very nice guy from learning him on the show. He and Kandi were very good together.Kandi is a very nice and respectable young lady. My prayers are with you all. She is really doing a blessful thing taking care of the twins. I love you Kandi Girl.
kay
October 5th, 2009
8:15 pm
Can the AJC spell check before it posts a story? See 4th paragraph.
gracie
October 5th, 2009
8:30 pm
Kandi is a nice person, but she needs to let the twins go the their Mother. It is too much for her. She is single and has a daughter on her own that she needs to focus on.
NeNe
October 5th, 2009
8:35 pm
My heart goes out to Kandi and the family of AJ. Kandi you have a very big heart. I can only imagine the pain you feel now. You need to give AJ’s twins to AJ’s family. That is not your responsibility. Think about your daughter’s needs. God has the very best for you. I am very very very sorry for your lost. AJ did not deserve to die like that. Do know that your mother loves you very much and she was right about your relationship with AJ. I pray that God will open your eyes in see what he protected you from in AJ. God Bless you!
Kevin
October 5th, 2009
8:38 pm
Two shallow comments-
1) I can’t stand to look at Dwight. His face is so tight/stripped/waxed that he looks like he’s embalmed.
2) I’m beginning to think Kandi’s mom knew what she was talking about.
Just Groovy
October 5th, 2009
8:48 pm
One Question – Where are the twins Momma?
DB
October 5th, 2009
8:48 pm
Kevin , leave Dwight alone. You are dreadful.
Marilyn
October 5th, 2009
9:11 pm
Kandi, I will keep you in prayer on your loss of A.J. I am a true believer that what you want in life you go for it, regardless of who agree or who disagree, this is your life! and you have once to live it. That’s how all of us learn,and that is from the mistakes we make. Who to say you wasn’t the woman for him. It dont matter how many relationships he went through,he still wanted to seek the right one,and he found that in you.So keep your head up sister and know that you were that special one.Believe me been there done that.
Crystal
October 5th, 2009
9:29 pm
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I was so shocked to hear about A.J. My prayers go out to Kandi and his entire family.
Deidra
October 5th, 2009
9:45 pm
my heart goes out too Kandi n there families at this tragic moment
DEE
October 5th, 2009
10:03 pm
I couldn’t believe it when I heard about Kandi’s fiance. My prayers go out to Kandi and A.J’s family,friends,and loved ones! An as far as Dwight goes; I just love seeing him on the show. As far as I’m concerned he makes the show worth watching! His personality is very genuine.
Shananeeeee Fananeeeeeeeeee
October 5th, 2009
10:41 pm
Sad about the death, happy about the delay. I hope Bravo doesn’t pick up this trash for another season. Every single one of them is bad news and they need to be taken off the air today.
GG
October 5th, 2009
10:48 pm
Although I was on Kandi’s mom’s side about her reservations of AJ. I can see why Kandi was in love with him. Despite of all of his baby momma’s and kids, on the show he seemed like a nice guy that loved and supported her. My heart goes out to his children and family. RIP
Im just a nobody.....
October 5th, 2009
10:52 pm
My heart sincerely goes out to Kandi. I pray that God continues to bless and comfort her during this time. I pray she knows and learn to except, that no matter how unfair it may seem to her, his kids, his family and love ones, God don’t make no mistakes and He will never put no more on you than you can bear. I love you Kandi and I pray right now in the name of the Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit that your tears of pain be replaced by tears of joy through the grace and mercy of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. Amen
monique tampa 82
October 5th, 2009
11:04 pm
Enter your comments here My prayers go out to kandi and AJ’s family. No one has the right to judge that man bout nothing he has gone through in his life until you have walked in someone ealses shoes you cant say what you would or wouldnt do in another persons situatition people need to learn that in every situtation God has the last say so and whos to say that Kandi wasnt the woman for him for every good woman theres a good man people need to also stop letting other people push there BLESSINGS out that GOD lets in.
edc404
October 5th, 2009
11:05 pm
All my prayers go to you Kandi. AJ RIP. And Where does the rest of his kids go.
atlanta
October 5th, 2009
11:22 pm
Dwight is a scank. But please catching your finance at a strip joint only happens with these so called women saying they are the elite of Atlanta. Divorce, foreclourse, being a stripper… what else have these disgusting women have done…
bebe33
October 5th, 2009
11:24 pm
NENE! IF U CAN’T SAY ANYTHING ENCOURAGING TO KANDI AND HER FAMILY DURING THIS TIME, PLEASE! PLEASE! DON’T SAYS NOTHING GHETTO FAB! THIS IS NOT THE TIME! FOR ONCE THE ATTENTION IS NOT FOR U! ACT LIKE U CARE! THKS!
SORRY! BUT KANDI DOESN’T NEED TO HEAR THIS BULL????! LOVE YOU KANDI!
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Sandra
October 6th, 2009
12:58 am
Enter your comments here Kandi my heart goes out to you..and my prayer are with you. I still have tears in my eyes and my heart hurts for you…I promise you that GOD HAS HIS ARMS ALL AROUND YOU. I feel like you’re my sister and I love you. I know that you don’t know me, but if their is anything that I can do please email me if for nothing to do, but hear the voice of another person with no opinion. Be Blessed Kandi and May God Bless You.
Nancy
October 6th, 2009
1:53 am
My thoughts and prayers are with Kandi and AJ’s family. Kandi seems like a sweet person. I pray for comfort and healing for her.
K.L.H
October 6th, 2009
2:31 am
First of all Kandi doesn’t need this negative feedback from anyone. She is going through a lot right now. Who knows if AJ was the right one for her. Nobody could have possibly known that. So what, if he had 15 kids. He was taking care of all his kids. That does not make him a scrub because he had 6 kids and a few baby mama’s. Why wouldn’t he look after his investment by being at the strip club. I would want to check on my investment too. In regards to the twins, kandi’s decision is her decision. You can’t say that she should give them to AJ’s family. Everybody has a opinion, but no one really knows what was going on with that situation and why AJ’s had the twins. Who cares about the typo from the AJC’s article? You must not have anything better to do….Get a life…..Anyway, Kandi..We love you…Stay strong..I support you in whatever you do from here on.
Callie
October 6th, 2009
3:51 am
I agree with bebe33, I hope NeNe can at least pretend that she has class. This is not a time for her to make any ignorant ghetto comments. Kandi needs your suppot. Say something kind, or shut up.
D
October 6th, 2009
6:05 am
Kandi deserves the best life has to offer here on earth, and the Lord will provide.What is up with Brothers killing each other over perceived disrespect ? How do you earn respect in the sordid world of strip clubs? AJ did not deserve to die like that, but it may have been self defense for the other guy. Maybe it was caught on tape.
The Silent One
October 6th, 2009
7:54 am
According to my source which is right on the money: AJ was cheating with the strip club’s owner and the person who killed him was also dating the stip club’s owner. They got into an altercation where AJ and some of his friends approached him and it was in self defense that this other gentlemen killed AJ. You are right “D” – I hope there were security cameras around that taped all this!
Kandi’s mother had this “gut” feeling and she was right. Sorry that AJ had to die like that, but when you creep around especially in strip clubs I don’t care if its the owner or the girls or whatever it draws bad elements!
pat
October 6th, 2009
7:57 am
Kandi keep your head to the sky. You have a beautiful spirt. your future with be bright.Don’t stop believing?
SAR
October 6th, 2009
8:05 am
He had six kids at age 34? Killed at a strip club, this is one reality show that represents Atlanta spot on. Typical. Trash. I can’t wait to move form this ghetto dump we call Atlanta.
mellie beckles
October 6th, 2009
8:14 am
MAY THE GOD OF HOPE FILL YOU WITH ALL JOY AND PEACE IN BELIEVING. ROMANS 15:13. LOVE THE SHOW WE ARE PRAYING FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.
mellie beckles
October 6th, 2009
8:15 am
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Reggie
October 6th, 2009
8:19 am
Enter your comments here nene why you call kadis a damn country bumpkin you mare making people think lesser of you. watch it nene.
Reggie
October 6th, 2009
8:24 am
Enter your comments hereSar you comment is negative it the way you are brought up its not atlanta
look at your family background and history and take it from there
Nick Gerz
October 6th, 2009
8:24 am
Defending your honor at a strip club…. what a way to go.
me
October 6th, 2009
8:33 am
My condolences to Kandi and the rest of A.J.’s family and friends. As far as the twins go…I dont know what happened to their mother but from the sounds of things…she’s not and has not been around, A.J. has pretty much raised the girls. Prior to A.J. and Kandi getting together his mother or grandmother one were the women in the girls lives raising them, when he got with Kandi…she took over guardianship of them since the two of them planned to marry. I guess it’s a situation that one doesnt really know he/she would do until you face it yourself. Whether or not we agree with his lifestyle or her initial decision to marry him, who are we to judge him? I personally know I dont have a spotless background so I’m not going to judge him for his. No, I dont have 6 kids…I only have one, but he appeared to be taking care of his…whatever the number, and that, I have to respect.
arlington, tx
October 6th, 2009
8:45 am
i strongly agree with K.L.H’ s comment. . .. . .everybody needs to show support not negative feedback. . . .first of all the bible says judge ye not. . . .REGARDLESS of what he did for a living, the bottom line is that he took care of his children and he supported KANDI 100%. . . not one time did you see or hear him on there not being there for KANDI. . .he had 6 kids and he took care of those 6 kids. . .i know men who have 1 and does NOTHING for them, so stop passing judgment against folks. . ..KANDI, keep your head up and as GOD has blessed you this far he will continue to bless you even farther. . . .taking care of those children is a work of GOD because kids are not asked to be here and for you to take the notion to take them in, baby girl GOD is watching over you. . . .continue to be a blessing and you will continue to be blessed. . . .
to the person named NENE that made the comment on here. . . . if this is NENE from the show, you ought to be ashamed of yourself. . . .you are letting the real world see how bitter you are. . . .very sad. . . .how can you have the audacity to tell KANDI to give those twins to his family, if AJ wanted KANDI to raise those girls then, it is GOD’S WILL that she will. . .if he wanted them with his family then he would’ve made that decision back when he gave them to KANDI . .. . . NENE you are in everybody’s business but your own. . .. . SWEEP YOUR OWN DOORSTEP before you start to sweep someone else’s because your front porch is full of trash!!!!!!
Eleni
October 6th, 2009
8:49 am
Kevin.. I totally agree with you. Dwight is DREADFUL. I can’t stand to see his phoney formaldehyde face on tv. He and SasQuatch are mean and vicious posers.
My condolences to khandi and AJ’s family. How Tragic!
GA Peach
October 6th, 2009
8:50 am
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I totally agree with K.L.H!!! This is NOT the time to bash AJ or Kandi. To suggest that she give back the twins is crazy. You don’t know what the situation was that lead to her having them in the first place. It takes a strong and caring person to raise another persons child. All of you with the negative comments keep them to yourself. AJ’s past is just that,HIS PAST!!! Everyone deserves a 2nd chance to change their life around. Kandi saw the good and him and that is what counts. As a HUMAN being, you wouldn’t suggest the negative comments to a person during a time like this. Uplift her people!!!
Just because someone signed their comment “NeNe” doesn’t mean it is the one from the show. She is NOT the only NeNe in the world.
Nonya
October 6th, 2009
8:50 am
Kandi…may the love of God comfort and keep you during this time of sorrow. My prayers are with you.
Marcus Graham
October 6th, 2009
8:53 am
Go on and tape the reunion show—get this crap over with already.
GaDawg
October 6th, 2009
9:10 am
Just another loser down the tubes, Atlanta the ” Detroit ” of the South
Nuttin Nyce
October 6th, 2009
9:16 am
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Some people have been very cruel and heartless in their comments. Death should not be wished on anyone, also remember it don’t just stop at Kandi’s door it goes around in a circle. AJ was someone’s father and someone’s son. AJ was very loving to Kandi and her dauaghter. He must have been doing something right if he had custody of 2 of his kids. Yes he had 6 kids but he took care of them and no judge is gonna give custody to the father if he isn’t stable. Kandi if you feel in yopur heaet you can do it keep the girls cause if ever there was a time that they need you it’s now. People are gonna talk weather you do good or bad, just know the relationship you had with AJ was what you wanted cause you where happy. Your mom will have a hard time with cause who knows AJ could have been the man of your dreams for you. Our parents have lived there lives and even though she didn’t like him she should have allowed you to make your own mistakes. Now is not the time to pass judgement everybody has to go through something in their lives I don’t care who you are, how much money you have, it don’t mean a thing if you don’t have happiness or no one to share it with. Kandi keep your head held hi and be strong for the girls and just know that God loves you and so do I. May God shine on you and keep you stong.
SAR
October 6th, 2009
9:35 am
I guess in the projects it’s totally acceptable to have six kids spread out over different women without having ever married a one of them. No matter what he was, he’s dead now so who is going to feed the six kids now? Probably my tax dollars, that’s who. My dogs have better birth control than the mess they show on this hideous program and call it Atlanta. If you’re in Wisconsin and you watch this crap, you’d think everyone in Atlanta goes around popping out kids at the drop of a hat and raping the Kings English on-air. Watching or not watching the show doesn’t have anything to do with having a valid opinion of this trash; if you live in Atlanta and pay taxes in Atlanta, you’re entitled to an opinion.
crm
October 6th, 2009
9:49 am
No one has the place to judge anyone for their actions or the paths they choose to lead. Everyone has made some bad decisions at some point in their life. Like the bible says “we all have sinned and fell short” so please let the man’s past be sat to rest with his soul. Losing a love one is hard no matter what the situation. Kandi has been through a lot this year. Grieving is a process, and until it happens or hits close to home for you the negative remarks need to end. I lost two dear people this year my mom, and my best friends mom. I am pretty sure Kandi wants to go off on a few people in regards to their statements. Kandi my prayers are with you, your family, AJ’ family, and his children. If God has laid it on your heart to care for his twins. Raise those girls like young ladies need to be brought up with dignity and respect. You are a awesome women and god will see you through this time of storms in our life. She needs supportive fans right now. Those uncaring, insensitive people please allow Kandi and AJ’s children time to grieve in peace.
crm
October 6th, 2009
9:51 am
I do believe NENE is a compassionate person and knows when to bring it down. Everything is not about her.
SK
October 6th, 2009
9:56 am
Feel sorry for AJ? Based on reports he was a violent thug. Kandi is right to listen to her Mother (sometimes we do know best) and tragic that he died the way he did she is safer and has a better chance for happiness now. As for Kim ……… she is a “friend” HA HA HA (with friends lilke her who needs enemies?)
Lena
October 6th, 2009
9:58 am
Dwight was not making fun of A.J.They were merely pointing out that A.J. wasn’t participating in the event that was suppose to be for all of them to enjoy.He was to busy texting on his phone. That is all Dwight was referring to. I believe he feels for the family, he just said that he has been in contact with Kandi’s mother and aunt. Give him a break, Please.
YOLONDA
October 6th, 2009
9:58 am
I have to agree with Kevin, my son and I have said the same thing about Dwight. And to Kandi God Bless U girl. I pray for his children.
Nuttin Nyce
October 6th, 2009
10:22 am
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AJ is not the only one that has done things that he’s not proud of, we ALL have.The bible says “Ye that is WITHOUT sin cast the first stone”. Not one of us can do it cause we are all born in sin. AJ had those kids when he was young and when your 18-21 you don’t have a clue of what you want out of life, let alone thinking about your future. Stop being so judgemental and support Kandi for the sake of the kids. He had a record but he wasn’t a thug everybody wants respect. Just sorry that that’s what ended his life. Some of you guys act like ya’ll ain’t never did nothing wrong or have lived as saints all your lives. Be mindful of the choices we make and the company we keep. There was other’s there and that fight should have been stopped by those friends. “Old school” if your man is taking a loss you stop it. May God bless all the ones with the negative comments and continue to shine on the ones who know that people make mistakes and by God everybody can be forgiven.
truthfully
October 6th, 2009
10:25 am
Nene is not on this blog. That person is on her to start some drama the same way a lot of other people are. This not the time nor the place. Show a little respect for what has transpired. Think about if this were your family. NO ONE has a sqeky clean family. There is some level of drama no matter how big or small in every family. Let that man rest in peace & let Kandi have her time to mourn.
da troof
October 6th, 2009
10:45 am
Momma is always right!!
Deborah
October 6th, 2009
10:56 am
Heart felt sympathy goes out to the family. NeNe, I realize you are very opinionated and have no problem voicing that. But there’s a time and place for everything. THIS IS NOT YOUR TIME! For ONCE sit yo’ JONES’ A__ __ in the back and shut up. You look better in the back!
… Take Dwight wit cha!
Deborah
October 6th, 2009
11:13 am
If you really follow the show you know it’s NeNe. Her comment is worded just the way she speaks on the show. As I read it I could imagine looking right at her as she said those things. Some things are best left unsaid. It’s not a matter of your right to say what you want to say, it’s how you say what you say and when you say it. Common sense and respect. Boy are we short on that:)
Faithe
October 6th, 2009
11:36 am
He or She without sin cast the first stone…. All have sinned and fallen short, why are people being so callous on this blog. Kandi, should do what she thinks is right by her own daughter and AJ’s daughters. Obviously she has a lot of love for them. Whatever decision she chooses to make in respect to them should be encouraged and respected, there is a reason she was asked to care for them. None of us has the right to judge that decision. If she can give them and her child the love and nurturing that they need then kudos to her. Kandi, there are not enough words to express my sadness for your loss no matter what other people thought of AJ, you loved him and your thoughts and feelings are what are important now. I am sure your mother always has your best interest at heart and I know she would never have wished for this to happen even though she did not want you to be with AJ. Let the love that you have for AJ and his children help to heal your wounded heart. It has been a difficult year for you but you are a survivor and God is obviously with you. I will be praying for you that he continues to direct your path and guide you through this difficult period. You are loved!
Patty Mitchell
October 6th, 2009
11:46 am
Enter your comments here RIP “AJ” my thoughts and prayers are with Kandi and her Family.
41ANDSTILLFINE
October 6th, 2009
12:11 pm
MY PRAYERS GO OUT TO KANDI AND AJ’S FAMILY. I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 24 YEARS AND MY HUSBAND AND I ARE BEST FRIENDS SO I CANT EVEN IMAGINE BEING WITHOUT HIM SO KANDI KEEP UR HEAD UP AND JUST KNOW THAT GOD IS WALKING WITH YOU. WHATEVER CHOICES YOU MAKE FROM THIS DAY FORWARD,BE SURE U MAKE THEM WITH GOD BECAUSE HE’LL ALWAYS BE WITH YOU. STAY STRONGE KANDI.
Big Poppa - My house is for sale
October 6th, 2009
12:27 pm
http://homesoftherich.net/2009/10/lee-najjars-atlanta-mega-mansion-is-for-sale.html
The multi-millionaire real estate developer and rumored “Big Poppa” of Atlanta housewife Kim Zolciak has put his Atlanta mansion up for sale! The home, which was recently featured in the movie Zombieland and Teen Cribs, is on the market for a cool $25,000,000. It is located at 490 West Paces Ferry Road in Atlanta, GA. The home has a whopping 9 bedrooms and 13 bathrooms.
Here is what the listing says:
“Unlike anything ever sold in Atlanta. Completed in ‘09 retaining the orginal 1920’s facade. Coral Stone clad exterior, 7 full kitchens, 16 FP’s, ballroom, theater, hair/nail salon, smoking room, recording studio, best pool outside a hotel in the south. Home will accomodate hundreds of guests.”
takai
October 6th, 2009
12:30 pm
God Bless A.J family,friends, Kandi!
BJ
October 6th, 2009
12:54 pm
NeNe need to think before she speak if she had the kids before he died why do she need to give them back, she have them for a reason an that is love you are to think about that
SJ
October 6th, 2009
12:59 pm
The person making the comments under the name “NENE” is NOT NeNe from the show. She has made a public statement, and has more class than to say something like that in Kandi’s time of grief. As for some of the other comments on here, I can’t believe people can be so cruel and senseless. A man lost his life! His children, regardless of how many he has, lost their father. My prayers are with Kandi, AJ family, friends, and especially children!
God Bless
Rann
October 6th, 2009
1:09 pm
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Please know that NeNe would not have taken the time to comment on this blog. I read on Essence.com that all of the cast members have come together to be there for Kandi at this time. Obviously an imposter posted the comment.
Rann
October 6th, 2009
1:11 pm
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Response to SJ
October 6th, 2009
1:16 pm
You go SJ!
gentle one
October 6th, 2009
2:02 pm
For all of you responding to NeNe’s comment…..I am sure that it is not the NeNe from the show. She may come off as being ghetto, but I dont think she is that heartless. Anyone can post any name on here. Kandi you and AJ’s family are in my prayers. I will not comment on the children or your relationship with AJ because it is no one’s business. I love watching you on the show and you have my support. God Bless you.
Hell Is Not Full
October 6th, 2009
2:18 pm
Be real, just because you don’t care for someone and particularly don’t believe that they are a good husband or father for your child does not mean you wish them dead, or that you have no compassion for the family and friends that may be grieving.
And for all of the hateful and disrespectful things being thought, said and posted…. Hell is Not Full.
As anonymous we think we are, you can’t hide from yourself and you are accountable for all you say and do.
Walty
October 6th, 2009
2:38 pm
RIP A.J. I work with your cousin, she always said you were a nice guy, you had a lot of kids, but you took care of them
RF
October 6th, 2009
2:44 pm
Enter your comments hereKandi I am sorry for your loss no one that watches the show knows how Aj was in life. but as we all saw he supported you at everything that you did. Your mother may not have liked him but he is gone now from life and you need to be strong for all the children that are around you. May God bless you and keep you stay strong.
BLACK COFFEE
October 6th, 2009
3:51 pm
My condolences go out to all involved. Stay strong and good luck to you all. I don’t watch the show, so I’m not familiar with AJ. But Xscape is still my favorite female singing group of all time. Keep your head up, Kandi. God’s trying to tell you something. Listen up.
mitsu
October 6th, 2009
3:54 pm
Sorry he lost his life.
I thought the show was about “House Wives”,she is not married.
Ruby Baxter
October 6th, 2009
4:14 pm
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LS
October 6th, 2009
4:57 pm
Jimmy Baron you are ignorant, you have no idea what this man has set up for his family. That is the wrong thing to be worried about, my condolences go out to his family and friends.
RIP AJ
MRS BLACK
October 6th, 2009
4:58 pm
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FIRST AND FAR MOST I WILL LIKE TO GIVE THANKS TO THE ALL MIGHTY GOD WHO PROTECTED THIS YOUNG WONDERFUL LADY NAME KANDI’ HER DAUGHTER AND HER MOTHER, BECAUSE HER FAMILY COULD OF BEEN AT THE WRONG PLACE AT THE WRONG TIME WITH AJ’ GOD BLESS HIM AND HIS FAMILY MY HEART GOES OUT TO YOU ALL.
THIS IS NOT ABOUT WHAT WAS SAID ON THE SHOW THIS IS NOT ABOUT NENE’ THIS IS ABOUT HOW WE LOOK AT LIFE AS COLORED PEOPLE’ NENE’ SAID WHAT SHE SAID ON THE SHOW AND SO DID KANDI” IT’S A SHOW PEOPLE WE ALL HAVE TO MAKE MONEY AND WE ALL AT HOME AND SIT IN FRONT OF THE TV EVERY THURSDAY NIGHT LOOKING FOR MORE.. MOVE ON FROM THAT DRAMA SALES”
I THINK THAT THIS WHOLE DEAL IS SAD BLACK ON BLACK CRIME NO MATTER WHO WE ARE AND WHAT TYPE OF JOB WE DO TO EARN A LIVING AND TAKE CARE OF ARE FAMILY, LIKE THE GREAT MICHAEL JACKSON SAID THE MAN IN THE MIRROW
WE ALL NEED TO TAKE A LOOK IN THE MIRROW TONIGHT”
WHO IS GOING TO JUDGE YOU ” THE SAME MAN THAT BROUGHT YOU INTO THIS WORLD GOD HIM SELF WE ALL HAVE ARE DAYS MARK BECAREFUL HOW YOU TREAT ONE ANOTHER” I DO NOT CARE IF THE MAN HAD STRIP AND HANG ON THE POLE BECAUSE AT THE END OF DAY THAT WAS WHO KANDI’ CHOOSE SHE PUT HIM ON THE SHOW” SHE WORE THE RING” SHE SLEEP WITH HIM” WEATHER THEY WAS GOOD FOR ONE ANOTHER OR NOT ” THEY BOTH ARE GROWN PEOPLE” SHE DID NOT GET WHERE SHE AT BT BEING STUPID PEOPLE” HERE MOTHER HAVE HER LIFE WE ALL LEARN BY ARE MISTAKE” WHO IS TO SAY HE WAS NOT GETING OUT OF THAT BUSINESS BEFORE THEY SAY I DO” WHO IS TO SAY KANDI” NEED AJ’ HELP IN SOME KIND OF WAY” HOW WAS HER POCKET’BOOK” OK REMEMBER THE SHOW POCKET BOOK” HA LADIES WE ALL CARRY ONE.
WHAT THE WORLD NEED IS SOME KIND OF HEALING FROM THE SOUL;; THESE ARE TWO BROTHERS NO MATTER WHO START WHAT”THE DEVIL IS BUSY”
I FEEL SAD AS A BLACK WOMEN LIVING IN USA. WE HAVE A BLACK PRESIDENT WE MADE HISTORY AND WHAT DO WE DO HAVE ARE OWN HISTORY IN ARE BLACK COMMUNITY AMOUNG ARE SELF KILLING AND FIGHTING FOR WHAT”
YOU NO BETTER THEN THE REST.
GOD BLESS
Ms. E
October 6th, 2009
6:32 pm
Enter your comments here It’s a sad time for the family and people should not assume anything about the man and his family. No one wants to loose a loved one for any reason we are supposed to be in a society where we can learn from each other’s experiences yet we still foster racial ignorance.
Kandi I truly believed you loved AJ, but as a parent myself you can not allow your mother to dictate whom you should be with. I may not be found of the choices my childrren made but at the end of the those are the people that will make them happy. It is quite clear you take good care of your mom and the respect shown but like your aunt and uncle this is your life live mistakes and all. Your mother needs to get a life and start living as well, You see life is short tomorrow;s not promised to you!.
daywalker
October 6th, 2009
6:40 pm
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Kandi is clearly the class of the show. She’s more talnetd than all the other “HouseWives” put together. No one knows the particulars of what was going on in AJ’s life. But it seemed like Kandi brought out the best in him and I guess he filled a void in her life too. Our prayers go out to the families of all involved. PEople can sit here and judge all day but no one should have to go through the pain that the families are feeling now.
Kandi you’re smart beautiful and talented , with God’s help you will get through this.
Ms. Robbie
October 6th, 2009
6:47 pm
Kandi from Atlanta House Wifes.
cookie
October 6th, 2009
7:15 pm
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Dwight you and Nene are both disgusting pigs. You made fun of a quiet man because he chose not to focus on any of you. Nene should put that energy into helping her son who she stated.Does’t comb his hair. work or goes to school. You are raising someone who will become a burden on society just like the people you love to make fun of. That book you are pretending to write should be filed under fiction because you are lying about everything. You said you had to strip becsuse you had to pay a private school for your son! HA!!!!!!!?
Houston
October 6th, 2009
7:43 pm
Enter your comments here My comment is for SAR, you have such a negative opinion of the show….in my opinion if I hated a show that much I wouldnt waste my time watching….but you seem to be up on all of the negativity and full of comments so you just keep contributing to boosting the ratings and maybe that will help feed those poor little kids.
Big Poppa - My house is for sale
October 6th, 2009
9:44 pm
http://homesoftherich.net/2009/10/lee-najjars-atlanta-mega-mansion-is-for-sale.html
The multi-millionaire real estate developer and rumored “Big Poppa” of Atlanta housewife Kim Zolciak has put his Atlanta mansion up for sale! The home, which was recently featured in the movie Zombieland and Teen Cribs, is on the market for a cool $25,000,000. It is located at 490 West Paces Ferry Road in Atlanta, GA. The home has a whopping 9 bedrooms and 13 bathrooms.
Here is what the listing says:
“Unlike anything ever sold in Atlanta. Completed in ‘09 retaining the orginal 1920’s facade. Coral Stone clad exterior, 7 full kitchens, 16 FP’s, ballroom, theater, hair/nail salon, smoking room, recording studio, best pool outside a hotel in the south. Home will accomodate hundreds of guests.”
ImARealHousewife
October 6th, 2009
11:19 pm
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It looks to me that alot of people need to use spell check!!!! NeNe said it best in the JET magazine where the Housewives were on the cover…..none of them are friends and every week, they prove that point. For Dwight and NeNe to post anything on or about this situation, is a smack in Kandi’s face. Dwight, people question your manhood. NeNe, people question you too!!!
We are all on the outside looking in. The only thing most of us know about Kandi and AJ is what we have watched on TV. Even though her mother did not approve of AJ, I pray that she put her dislike on the back burner and is showing her daughter and grand-daughter some love. Kandi is the most level-headed housewife because she was able to handle NeNe without getting too upset. The lost of a loved one is very difficult and Kandi lost two people who she loved dearly.
Kandi, I pray that you overcome this tragic time and keep it moving because I’m sure your uncle and AJ would not want you to give up. I’m also praying for his children who are now without a father. AND if AJ felt like his twin daughters were better off with you, then raise them us if they are yours (just put it on paper). Don’t listen to the HATERS!!!!!!!
Peace & Love
lilsexypimp
October 7th, 2009
3:16 am
yeah its sad about what happened to AJ and i pray that his family is staying strong.Although it may be hard to deal with time will ease the pain.And to Kandi baby we love u stay strong and keep god first in ya life and he will see u thru this.Dont forget the love u two shared no matter what and who didnt agree u still have the mamories that u shared together,no one can take that from u.And that way u can keep him alive in spirit.Im praying for the family of AJ and his children as well as Kandi god bless u and may he comfort u in your healing process
think about it
October 7th, 2009
2:14 pm
In all fairness, is it really possible to give the requisite amount of attention to 6 kids from 4 babymamas ? – I THINK NOT – let’s be real here, folks – taking care of 3 or 4 kids with one babymama is a huge challenge in and of itself – it’s not fair to the kids or the moms – how can you take 6 kids who are spread out amongst the city to cheerleading, basketball practice, swimming lessons, cub scout meetings and help them with their homework and also go to their PTA meetings all while managing a strip club and a recording studio – he was spread too thin – then consider all the child support, babymamma drama, jealousy, etc – it’s an unhealthy living arrangement even if he was doing the absolute best he could – what is a club owner doing fighting his employees in the parking lot? isn’t that what security and cops are for ? Kandi’s mom saw that he was kinda immature, juggling way too much and he was in too deep
James
October 7th, 2009
2:58 pm
Leave Dwight alone. I can’t wait to see the next episode, Dwight looks like a greyhound dog running in those heels, he’s so skinny.
Ms. Lady Diva
October 7th, 2009
3:23 pm
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Kandi, My prayers and my heart goes out to you and I can say I walked in your shoes I also lost a fiance’e to violence my daughters father and people don’t understand the strain and burden and the hurt that you go thru when dealing with something like this it takes TIME to HEAL to some he wasn’t what they wanted for you but for yourself you knew the type of man AJ was and when you decided to break off the engagement you did so how you ended up with his twin girls I am unsure I hope that their mom is there in this difficult time to help you and the kids cope your daughter Riley seems so intelligent and seemed to care for AJ alot I pray for you and her comfort daily do not read the negativity on the blogs they don’t know what the relationship was all about because BRAVO showed AJ being in the background but suppoortive of you and your accomlishments I had to endure alot of backlashing when my daughters father was killed there were all sorts of stories I don’t know because I wasn’t there but keep ypur faith in GOD and he will see you thru these difficult days if I knew you personally I would have some encouraging words for you, if you can contact my e-mail please do so because I will continue to pray that each day you get stronger and stronger, God Bless and Take Care..from one passionate and concerned strong black sister to another…
lovinglife
October 7th, 2009
3:50 pm
UNBELIEVABLE…Some of you people on here are crazy!! This is not about a show, AJ is not just a reality tv personality, at the end of the day., THIS IS SOMEONE’S SON, SOMEONE’S BROTHER, SOMEONE’S FATHER, SOMEONE’S FRIEND and how he lived his life is IRRELEVANT…. If this was one of your family member’s how would you feel? SHOW SOME RESPECT FOR AJ’S FRIENDS & FAMILY….
lillyofthevalley
October 7th, 2009
4:16 pm
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This is truly sad, may the love of GOD comfort the Ashley & Burris Families.
Outraged
October 7th, 2009
4:31 pm
Looks like we need to pray for some of these bloggers more than Khandi! There must be a lot of broke unhappy people in the world because only someone truly miserable would stand on their high horse, disregard decorum, and make dispcable statements about a man (father, brother, son) that has tragically passed. Bloggers on this site love to throw around the word “class” and pass judgment on who has it and who doesn’t. If there was EVER a time to take your own advice and have “class” it would be now.
Khandi, I think your already blessed (loving family, successful career, beautiful spirit) so I’ll offer you my condolences and I’ll pray tolerance for the LOSERS.
Are you guys really that gullible that you believe Ne Ne is blogging? She doesn’t even update her BravoTV blog that she’s required and PAID to do, but she’ll come to the AJC for free?? And, those who are wondering if their tax dollars are going to have to pay for AJ’s children, first you have to have a job making over $10/hr to get that $1.02 taken from your check and the money will probably go to Wall Street or maybe GM again because big business has gotten the biggest welfare check to date.
Jose
October 8th, 2009
9:39 am
Zsa Zsa, where did you get from this article that he felt sorry for AJ? He feels sorry for Kandi, you moron. AJ was a loser and an user.
freechoice1011
October 8th, 2009
10:45 am
It is tragic that AJ met his demise in such a horrific way and no one deserves what he was subjected to. In times like these there is an apparent need for faith to come into the picture that is undeniable. I pray that people see this unfortunate incident as a wake up call that speaks to the plague of violence that consumes our streets and cities on a daily basis affecting our lives forever. In this situation there are several family members who are inexplicably linked by this one act of violence. Regardless of how you feel about characters involved in this drama either directly or indirectly because of that one night, that one choice made by either man their lives are forever changed. This proves that we are all one decision away from being dead or in jail on a daily basis so let’s choose wisely people. Let’s please stop the violence so we can stop burrying people well before their time.
COSBY JR
October 8th, 2009
6:58 pm
FREE CHOICE THAT IS WHAT IS WRONG WITH A LOT OF YOUNG BLACKS TODAY .ALL KIND OF UNDISCIPLINED STUPID STUFF IS OK WITH YOU.THEN YOU DON,T WANT ANYBODY TO SAY NOTHING ABOUT YOUR BS THAT OTHER FOLKS USUALLY HAVE TO CLEAN UP OR FIX FOR YOU..I,M GOING AGAISNT THE GRAIN AND SAYING ,KANDI GIVE THE TWINS BACK TO AJ,S FOLKS.ALL THESE SISTERS ON HERE DEFENDING HIS LIFESTYLE ARE NUTS.WE GOT TWO GENERATIONS OF YOUNG BLACK MEN WHO ABOUT 50% ARE PROFESSIONAL BUMS WHO HAVE ZERO AMBITION.HOW MANY FOLKS ON HERE GOT OVER 21 SONS LAZING ABOUT THE HOUSE ALL DAY DOING JACK. A TON I BET YOU.YOU CAN GO IN ANY TRADE SCHOOL IN THE COUNRTY AND THERE ARE NO YOUNG BLACK MALES IN THEM,WHITES, FOLKS FROM OVERSEAS.THIS MENTALITY IS KILLING THE BLACK FAMILY.I,M SORRY AJ GOT KILLED BUT WHEN I HEAR 6 KIDS BY 4 WOMEN I,M THINKING HMMM NOT SMART.KANDI,S MOM WAS RIGHT.GIRL GIVE THE TWINS BACK AND FIND A DECENT MAN.
TooBlessed
October 9th, 2009
12:24 am
It is definitely a sad thing to hear of such a loss. This beautiful woman who has never been married finally found someone whom she was in love with. Despite all the blogs and the negativity of what others had to say about her fiance and their relationship, it did not matter because we were not the ones who had to love and live with him. I have no clue as to what it is she feels on the inside but I would like to say that I am truly sorry that she has to endure such pain especially after losing her uncle to Cancer. I commend her for her strength and courage during such a difficult time. I would like to ask that God places his hand over her heart and heals her aching body. She will rise again and as long as she has AJ in her heart he will never truly die. God bless her, God bless AJ’s children for the loss of their father as well as AJ’s parents and any and all extended family and friends. No one deserves to die in that fashion. We should all realize that although the life of both Kandi and AJ was made somewhat public for our viewing in the Housewives of Atlanta, this tragic and abrupt loss is painful in many ways to those who loved him. Sometimes you need to step outside the box and leave your personal comments and suggestions be and just respect the individuals who are mourning. Respect is due during times like this. God bless!!
cranberi
October 9th, 2009
12:37 am
I think you all should give the negative feed back a rest! Kandi and AJ’s family have suffered a great lost. The last thing she needs to hear is things that dont matter or make any sense at this point. She needs the love and support of those who care about her genuninely….If you dont have anything nice to say, dont say anything at all. Save the “Show” comments for some other day, when that is a topic. Right now Kandi needs to hear from those who can symphize with her situtation…not
cranberi
October 9th, 2009
12:45 am
pick her apart. My prayers go out to Kandi and AJ’s family….May God continue to bless you always…
YaYa
October 9th, 2009
2:19 am
I mean just because Dwight or any of the other cast members did make fun of AJ that does not mean they wished the man dead. I mean come on.
Alexis from California
October 9th, 2009
2:24 am
I just heard the news. Kandi I liked you from the get go, my heart goes out to you. Only time will heal but you will never forget the man that was worth marrying. I know your mother did not approve I hope that at this time in your life she is stand by your side even if she didn’t agree with the relationship.
GOD BLESS YOU !
:( so sorry
October 9th, 2009
4:36 am
My thoughts and prayer are with Kandi and AJ’s family.
It would be nice if everyone could just remember that this man meant alot to alot of people. I hope that his loved ones do not find this page and read the crap that people are saying.
For the people that say they hate the show, why r u here and why do you watch it if you hate it so much? The last time I checked there were other channels, watch something else. Its that easy.
Tuttsville
October 9th, 2009
12:17 pm
Kandi: I am so sorry about A.J. We all could see how much the two of you loved each other. He loved you and you loved him. That’s all that matters. When we lose someone we love the world seems to stop for awhile. Although your life will go on, you will always carry A.J. with you – he is yours for life. You will be reunited one day as God promised. As you said “TIME” is a precious thing that only God Himself controls and he does not look to us in His decisions because a soul lives in eternity. I believe at the moment a life ends or is ending there is a sense of peace (experienced myself) those left here on Earth have no way of knowing about. There is no pain, no fear and no regret. God takes care of the little things and knows how much we are able to bear as humans. Remember – He is perfect in every way and provides for our every need. I lost an infant niece suddenly several years ago and the grief was overwhelming – nothing anyone said could ease the pain of her death. A few days afterward, my boss said to me “Sometimes God misses His children so much He calls them back home”.
A.J. was a good man and that is why you loved him the way you did – no matter what anyone thought. Your love for each other will last an eternity because you have not “lost” him. He will forever be in your heart and you will forever be in his. Till you meet again.
Love always,
A fan
Blackgold
October 9th, 2009
5:24 pm
Kandi: PEACE AND BLESSINGS AND I ADMIRE YOU FOR TAKING CARE OF HIS TWINS. IT TAKES A REAL WOMAN TO HANDLE THAT SITUATION. WE ALL HAVE OPINIONS BUT YOU CONTINUE TO FOLLOW YOUR HEART AND GIVE THOSE TWINS ALL THE LOVE THAT YOU HAVE TO GIVE THEM AND THE LIFE THAT YOU KNOW THAT AJ WANTED FOR THEM. STAND STRONG AND GOD WILL DIRECT YOUR FOOTSTEPS.
lady lust huntsville
October 9th, 2009
9:36 pm
MY PRAYERS ARE FOR KANDI AND AJ’S CHILDREN AND FAMILY. IT IS SAD THAT A PERSON HAS TO LEAVED THIS EARTH IN SUCH A TRAGIC WAY REGARDLESS OF THERE PAST AND THE PRESENT AND AS FOR THE FUTURE AJ NO LONGER HAS ONE DUE TO IGNORANCE. R.I.P. AJ IT SEEMS THAT U WERE TRYING TO TURN YOU LIFE AROUND AND AS THE SAYING GOES BEHIND EVERY STRONG MAN IS A STRONGER WOMAN AND THAT WAS KANDI. PLEASE PUT THESE NEGATIVE COMMENT TO REST BECAUSE EVERY NEGATIVE COMEENT U LEAVE ABOUT SOME BEING TRASH IT JUST SHOW HOW MUCH CLASS U HAVE.GOOD BLESS U KANDI UR AJ’S FAMILY AND THOSE CHILDREN THAT JUST LOST A FATHER.
Jackie
October 9th, 2009
10:04 pm
The girl is grieving and everybody telling her to give the kids back and so on. That’s none of your business, just pray for her that God will substain her and give her strength to deal with the days ahead. Goodness people, yes, her mother may have known and I commend her mom for speaking up for her daughter but I’m sure right now her mom is there for her and that’s all that matters. Whether she will be back in all who cares she’s living in the moment of grief again pray for her now and let tomorrow take care of itself.
SLC
October 10th, 2009
9:42 pm
I think it is outrageous that people spend so much time and energy bashing others. The woman lost her fiance’ for goodness sakes! Can’t we all just be decent people? We all have things that happen in our lives that we aren’t exactly proud of, but it isn’t up to other people to comment on it. If you choose to watch the show then don’t B**** about it. If you don’t like the people on it or the way they act…SOLUTION: STOP WATCHING. Seriously people, get a life instead of watching someone else’s “reality”. And another thing…maybe if you weren’t so busy talking trash about others you could worry about your OWN lives.
Have a good night.
Dennis E SMITH
October 10th, 2009
11:43 pm
AT,this time Kandi nothen realy matters. the man that the lord has brought into you life has been called home,God our lord has sent him into you life for the reason only God knows YOU BOTHE HAVE SHARED TRUE LOVE,JESUS NEVER ASK THE TWELVE, WHAT THEY HAVE, BUT HE KNEW WHAT WAS IN THERE HEART AND YOU KNEW WHAT WAS IN AJ HEART.and you love the man for that . the bible say when a man find a wife he finds a good thing and they will leave there family and be one.if im may say this, you did not let what a man have stop you from being real you found love in a poor man and he found love in you many are looking at what you have, and what you cn do for them but not him .you look into the content of his heart and found love please never change-
Carol Martin
October 11th, 2009
3:40 pm
Can someone please tell me who has done Dwight’s plastic surgery, I have got to know!!
Carol Martin
Cosmetic surgery consutlant
http://www.theinformedchoice.com
The Truth
October 12th, 2009
9:42 am
For those of you who only see Eubanks on the “Reality” show, your opinion of him I believe are motivated by your experiences, vivid imaginations, and “boxed” education. For those of us who really know him; Eubanks is certainly extravagant in giving to others, caring about others; if he knows you are not. Don’t forget, all of the cast members are characters and they do have us talking.
Why not play your character well?
Tanya
October 12th, 2009
12:44 pm
My heartfelt sympathies to Kandi and her daughter and the family of A.J. Even thought your mom didn’t agree with your choice of man, you were steady in your trust, love and devotion to him…Real love only comes around once in life, you have to grab hold and live it up! May many new blessings come to you and best of luck with your future career. May God bless you and keep you.
Godschild FL
October 12th, 2009
1:09 pm
Kandi no matter what people say my sista put your trust in God. pray and ask Him for guidance thru
it all God will not put no more on you that you can’t carry. I will keep you & your daughter lifted up in my prayers, no one seem to remember that your daughter was close & love AJ & she is hurting too. It’s not about the show, or about what Dwight & NeNe said. It is about a life that was taken from them, in stead of talking about things that don’t matter now, lift both families up in pray. As for his children my sista i know you want to do what’s best for them, but right now your daughter needs you & you need her. Give his kids back to their mother & her family to take care of. Cause some were down the road after you get close to them, here they come ooh i want my children back so before it ge’s that far. Get your attoney to overtrun that temperary custody papers cause AJ is no longer with you.
Right now Kandi needs to focus on Kandi & your daughter. May God keep you & strenghten you on every side. Ps.watch out for those that like to impose their believes on people to tell you what you should do & how to do it……….Hope to see your beautiful smile again on the show…..Peace out… Holla!
Mosetta
October 13th, 2009
12:50 pm
Khandi, my prayers, and my heart goes out to you, and I truly understand your loss.I’d just like to remind you that you’re a class act, compassionate, understanding, and giving.You will rise from this, I can’t say how long it’s gonna take, but know this, that all you had to endure, and have endured, it might have bent you a little, but it didn’t knock you out,”You’re Still Standing”, and “Standing Taller than ever.” So know that from this pit experience,”GOD’, is going to give you double for your trouble. God Bless!!!!
Sweetest
October 15th, 2009
8:07 am
DWIGHT – YOU ARE A GEM! I LOVE YOU!
As for the loss of AJ and anyone who has passed away. God knows best and calls for his children when he is ready to receive them. The best thing is for us to stay positive and keep everyone in prayer. Regardless of how anyone feels about the show… it provides us with great entertainment and keeps all of them employed and that is a blessing so stop hating and enjoy.
My Heart goes out to AJ's family and Kandi!
October 15th, 2009
12:20 pm
screw the rest of the sluts. Especially Dwight, want to be woman. Disgrace!
Sweetest
October 15th, 2009
12:42 pm
DWIGHT IS VERY CLASSY. I’ve never met Dwight but I can look at him and tell he has a beautiful heart and spirit. For those of you who have negative comments… keep them to yourselves… Talk about what you like and what makes you happy!!! Obviously Dwight is happy. I enjoy watching Dwight on the Real Housewives of Atlanta show. Peace.
Sweetest
October 15th, 2009
12:48 pm
The only people who don’t like Dwight are TRULY UNHAPPY WITH THEMSELVES.
Mr. Telephone Man
October 15th, 2009
2:50 pm
Honestly, the show has gotten mixed reviews, conventions dont want to come here because of “real drama”? The other Housewives show dont get nearly as much press, so whats the deal? I think this show is a bit over the top but it’s enetertainment tv, do we really feel like it changes our lives that much? Dwight is a hot mess but he is just himself.
keona c.
October 16th, 2009
10:28 am
after readin a lot of the thoughts/comments that people have posted about AJ and the amount of children he has, it kind of upset me a bit…okay, yes having six children with however many women does not look good, but none of us know the circumstances as to how these children came. None of us are perfect, and i am more than sure that all of us at some point has made dreadful decisions. But they were YOUR decisions, just like these were his. No one can take that from you and i dont think that he should’ve been made to feel like crap about it!
I say these things because i am a single mom of four myself. I am not ashamed to say that i have had these children with 3 different men either. Again, circumstances are different for everyone. I was once married and now im not. I am successful in my endeavors and i take care of my children. With all that said, Miss Khandi, if you feel that you can handle raising these twin girls as your own, you do so. And as strong headed as you appear, you will have much success to do it without fail. whether you believe it or not, you do have a support system and it can be done. My deepest condolences to you and AJ’s family. Much love and respect.
Karen Westffield
October 16th, 2009
1:21 pm
I was with Kandi’s mom, I did not like the fact that she would have to deal with Momma drama. To many mommas on top of it. I believe she is very sweet. She’ll be alright, do you remember when they were at the museum and what he was doing? on the phone. I do feel sorry for all those children. Dwight I like even though I don’t go along with his life style. He has a very creative eye. Sheree needs to listen to him, she wants to be a star and doesn’t have a clue how to get it done in the profession she has chosen.
traevis
October 16th, 2009
4:03 pm
why is it that when some one speaks the truth that is not popular, they are called negative? a person dies and the world is compelled to say something nice. his fate has already been decided. yeah i am sorry for his kids. kandi has a big heart for taking care of those kids leave that alone, obviously she knows more on that than we do. i used to own a strip club and its no place for a father of daughters. you reap what you sew. and it sounds like bullcrap trying to say something good about somemone you dont know. saying something good when its fake is worthless, he cant hear it. we all can die anywhere, but to die in a parking lot at a strip club is a bad way to go. six kids and he’s at a club… yeah i said it
LadyG/Seattle
October 16th, 2009
7:21 pm
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chip jones
October 16th, 2009
7:40 pm
cosby has it right!! they keep on sucking on the governments teat and complain about not having a chance because of their race
glamish
October 17th, 2009
1:14 am
I truly appreciate Kandi~her realness and geniune ways.Look@what she did w/Kim’s song(wow) waaay talented too!I liked AJ and regardless of your opinion she loved the man and it showed.I thought they were great together,if you’d lay aside finances and use your heart you’d know that God is our provider and he`s gonna make sure that the kids are taken care of and if he wants to use Kandi in the blessing it’s his world!Remember when you love people you help people why not raise the twins if she wants?She’s a grown woman!The nerve of you to be noising around asking the whereabouts of the twins mother.I wonder what you got goin on in your life to be up in someone else’s B.I. like that.You must really have it goin on!
My heart dropped when i heard of the tragic death.God Bless all that are connected to him.
Kandi’s appearance on the show was very refreshing not all fake and backstabbinsh.Can’t recall her gettin caught up till she had to step to (need to sit down)Ne~Ne, other than that she was focused!Her future is soo bright.
Ne~Ne was cool w/me till she played herself when Kim didn’t want her on the album.
Love Dwight.Grown people calling others name?Huh?(the greyhound dog??)How childish.I call it Hating/jealousy!The show pops w/him on it.I love it!You go Dwight.You add lots of “EXTRA” to the show.
LIL' BOBO
October 17th, 2009
12:54 pm
May the GOD of GODS be with you and AJ’S family at this time.
c2it
October 17th, 2009
1:23 pm
RIP Ashely Jewell. My prayers for covering & peace to the Jewell family, Ms Kandi B and all family/friend.
Dwight**** THANK YOU. You are single handedly bringing back an era of STYLE, GLAMOUR, FASHION all rooted in LOVE!!! I thoroughly enjoyed the tour of your home on the AJC pictorials. The story behind each room/deocor was absolutely magnificient. You are a person that does not let the illed world define you or your life in any way. TRUTHLY, your presence on The Real Housewive of Atlanta bring a grounded, focused point. Most of us are so absorbed in our pain and rejection we forget to PRESS ON*** you obviously do and have. I ADORE YOU DWIGHT. We my friends. etc talk about how much we love seeing you on the show!!
OMG – I thought I was the only one not running out to buy pillow-top matresses! I stack my mattresses too as learned from my great grand motner. Maybe thats why folks think im 30something and all of 50!!
Big D
October 17th, 2009
5:09 pm
First of all, it’s tragic for anybody’s loved one to loose their life. Kandi my prayers are with you. That said, Cosby Jr. is right. Too many kids and too many different mothers. That is just bad judgement on Kandi’s part. Mom was right! Too many times black women seek the attention and affection of what the view as a “Bad Boy”. They ought to have enough sense to realize that along with that lifestyle comes a state of mind that is askew, to put it lightly. If these women had better self esteem, they wouldn’t have any thing to do with these so-called bad boys (thugs). They subconsciously think that they don’t deserve or have anything in common with a well educated, well spoken, or just a hard working guy. They should understand that all of these men; Doctors, lawyers, investment bankers, business men, electricians, plumbers, entrepeneurs, etc. came from the same neighborhoods they did. They just decided to go in a different direction, a positive direction. So, don’t play the victim when things don’t go right. As the joke goes…You knew it was a snake… Woman UP! Go get a real man. Not just Kandi, ALL OF YOU!
Jay McCall
October 18th, 2009
3:39 pm
Kandi’s Mom is a total JERK!
Toni Watts Bridges
October 19th, 2009
6:09 pm
Leave Dwight along!
Go Dwight do your thing! I have known you since elementary & high school and you were sharp then and you are even sharper and richer now. Do you and too heck with haters!!!!
just a joke!
October 20th, 2009
1:45 pm
Why is everyone acting as if they know AJ personally? We’ve all had people in our lives that we loved. We saw in them possibly what other’s did not. The cast members, Dwight, NeNe, etc. may have made fun, all for the show. I truly do not think this is the outcome they wanted. This is tragic and empathy should be exhibited here. It is sad to see all these blessings, etc. intertwined with hellish remarks. Pathetic!!!!!!!
SBS
October 21st, 2009
11:15 am
My god I can’t belive what I am reading. The lack of respect that some of you have for life. Please place yourselves in others place. The place of the familys, the children. See it through their eyes. Feel their pain. Remember a lost of your own. Was it easy for any of you. Kandi’s mom is Kandi’s mom. In the grand scheme of things honor thy mother and thy father. But in all things use wisdom. She was doing what she was to do which was to keep praying. AJ just like everyone else has things in there life that were not always done in the wright order. Focus on your own short comings. Your not perfect either. Kandi seems true. Honest and real. Consentrate on the things you need to do for you and yours. Don’t sweat the small stuff and at this point any and everything that ring of postive energy, of GOD is all small stuff ( no matter whom it comes from). Weather it be friends or family (momma). As for NeNe. Money doesn’t give you class. Money doesn’t make you a better person. Money doesn’t make you smater. Money doesn’t tackful and sure DOESN’T MAKE YOU BETTER THAN ANY ONE ELSE!!!!! You NeNe need to become a hell of a lot more humble and remember where you came from. You married well that’s all. You want to be a blessing to others so you say, THEN KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT!!!!!! As someone said if you can’t say something good don’t say anthying at all. In your case just don’t say anything. Nothing good comes of you speaking at all. How does your husband tolerate you and yes he does tolerate you. You could be so much more if you let God use you and not the devil. Clam down honey it’s not that serious.
SBS
October 21st, 2009
11:23 am
i meant if it doesn’t have postive and of god then it’s small stuff
Gloria
October 22nd, 2009
7:33 pm
Kandi I was devastated when I heard about AJ’s accident I can sympathize for you my daughter lost her fiance’ almost 10 years ago and it is still dificult for her. My prayers are with you Kandi. Oh yeah, stay out of that mess Kandi with the others work on YOUR career before you get dragged into the DRAMA. All of you need to leave Kandi alone because she is trying to stay out of the mess you all continue to make. Ok, all of you Housewives constantly have something negative to say about eachother. No one is innocent about calling eachother names. NeNe you are always talking about someone being country well sister you came from the country. Just because you have money that does not make you all that. You may not have grown up in the getto but you sure act like it. I guess you think the louder you talk you can intimidate someone but keep a taperecorder in your pocket and just listen to what comes out of your mouth everytime you open it. Sherri stop talking about Lisa’s fashion show, she had one unlike your “SHOWING”. Playbacks need to be done so you all can see what had been said by whom because Kim wasn’t lying NeNe when she said Lisa and Sherri talked about you, watch your back girl.
Bernadette Black
October 31st, 2009
7:41 pm
Khandi, you and family are in my prayers. If taking care of the twins is what you want to do, then handle your business. Please don’t get caught up in this gossip and petty drama. You are the classiest woman on this show. Love you much.
misstephy
November 11th, 2009
12:08 pm
Dealing with death it self is difficult to handle so I know 1st handson what is like my mother was murdered 20yrs ago by my stepdad so having my mom taking away and being killed like a dog is unreal and not fair aj jewell didn’t deserve to died like he did ottom line I don’t care who started it this man had kids and he had family why do we try to do what’s wrong then when you realize oh dam I fed up iam going to jail we have got so stop the violence please