Interview with Dwight Eubanks over A.J.’s death, reunion show taping postponed
Dwight Eubanks, the hairdresser and unofficial “sixth” housewife on “The Real Housewives of Atlanta,” said he was “shocked” when he found out about Ashley “A.J.” Jewell’s death early Saturday morning.
The reunion show taping was set here in Atlanta later this week but has been postponed, Eubanks said. But he expects Bravo will tape it later. The network has time. It won’t be airing the reunion shows until November.
“I don’t see them editing him out,” Eubanks said. “It’s television. It’s reality. We just have to prepare and get geared up for next year.”
He has no clue if “Housewife” and R&B singer-songwriter Kandi Burruss, who was engaged to A.J. until late August, chooses to stay with the show.
“She’s had such a dramatic year,” he said. “She had her uncle die, too. She has her own career to focus on. Now her life has changed with her daughter and taking temporary custody of [AJ's] twins. My father was murdered some years ago. I know the pain and stress she’s going through.”
He has chosen to leave Kandi alone in her grieving but has been in contact with Kandi’s aunt and mom, who did not approve of A.J. “That’s how she felt,” he said. “She was adamant about it. Kandi was going to try to win her mother over with A.J. If her mother could not accept A.J., she couldn’t marry him. That’s the way she was reared.”
From what Dwight could see, Kandi “has a great support system. She has an incredible extended family.”
Dwight did not know any of A.J.’s friends. “The strip club,” he noted, “is not my thing.”
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127 comments Add your comment
Deborah
October 6th, 2009
10:56 am
Heart felt sympathy goes out to the family. NeNe, I realize you are very opinionated and have no problem voicing that. But there’s a time and place for everything. THIS IS NOT YOUR TIME! For ONCE sit yo’ JONES’ A__ __ in the back and shut up. You look better in the back!
… Take Dwight wit cha!
Deborah
October 6th, 2009
11:13 am
If you really follow the show you know it’s NeNe. Her comment is worded just the way she speaks on the show. As I read it I could imagine looking right at her as she said those things. Some things are best left unsaid. It’s not a matter of your right to say what you want to say, it’s how you say what you say and when you say it. Common sense and respect. Boy are we short on that:)
Faithe
October 6th, 2009
11:36 am
He or She without sin cast the first stone…. All have sinned and fallen short, why are people being so callous on this blog. Kandi, should do what she thinks is right by her own daughter and AJ’s daughters. Obviously she has a lot of love for them. Whatever decision she chooses to make in respect to them should be encouraged and respected, there is a reason she was asked to care for them. None of us has the right to judge that decision. If she can give them and her child the love and nurturing that they need then kudos to her. Kandi, there are not enough words to express my sadness for your loss no matter what other people thought of AJ, you loved him and your thoughts and feelings are what are important now. I am sure your mother always has your best interest at heart and I know she would never have wished for this to happen even though she did not want you to be with AJ. Let the love that you have for AJ and his children help to heal your wounded heart. It has been a difficult year for you but you are a survivor and God is obviously with you. I will be praying for you that he continues to direct your path and guide you through this difficult period. You are loved!
Patty Mitchell
October 6th, 2009
11:46 am
Enter your comments here RIP “AJ” my thoughts and prayers are with Kandi and her Family.
41ANDSTILLFINE
October 6th, 2009
12:11 pm
MY PRAYERS GO OUT TO KANDI AND AJ’S FAMILY. I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 24 YEARS AND MY HUSBAND AND I ARE BEST FRIENDS SO I CANT EVEN IMAGINE BEING WITHOUT HIM SO KANDI KEEP UR HEAD UP AND JUST KNOW THAT GOD IS WALKING WITH YOU. WHATEVER CHOICES YOU MAKE FROM THIS DAY FORWARD,BE SURE U MAKE THEM WITH GOD BECAUSE HE’LL ALWAYS BE WITH YOU. STAY STRONGE KANDI.
Big Poppa - My house is for sale
October 6th, 2009
12:27 pm
http://homesoftherich.net/2009/10/lee-najjars-atlanta-mega-mansion-is-for-sale.html
The multi-millionaire real estate developer and rumored “Big Poppa” of Atlanta housewife Kim Zolciak has put his Atlanta mansion up for sale! The home, which was recently featured in the movie Zombieland and Teen Cribs, is on the market for a cool $25,000,000. It is located at 490 West Paces Ferry Road in Atlanta, GA. The home has a whopping 9 bedrooms and 13 bathrooms.
Here is what the listing says:
“Unlike anything ever sold in Atlanta. Completed in ‘09 retaining the orginal 1920’s facade. Coral Stone clad exterior, 7 full kitchens, 16 FP’s, ballroom, theater, hair/nail salon, smoking room, recording studio, best pool outside a hotel in the south. Home will accomodate hundreds of guests.”
takai
October 6th, 2009
12:30 pm
God Bless A.J family,friends, Kandi!
BJ
October 6th, 2009
12:54 pm
NeNe need to think before she speak if she had the kids before he died why do she need to give them back, she have them for a reason an that is love you are to think about that
SJ
October 6th, 2009
12:59 pm
The person making the comments under the name “NENE” is NOT NeNe from the show. She has made a public statement, and has more class than to say something like that in Kandi’s time of grief. As for some of the other comments on here, I can’t believe people can be so cruel and senseless. A man lost his life! His children, regardless of how many he has, lost their father. My prayers are with Kandi, AJ family, friends, and especially children!
God Bless
Rann
October 6th, 2009
1:09 pm
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Please know that NeNe would not have taken the time to comment on this blog. I read on Essence.com that all of the cast members have come together to be there for Kandi at this time. Obviously an imposter posted the comment.
Rann
October 6th, 2009
1:11 pm
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Response to SJ
October 6th, 2009
1:16 pm
You go SJ!
gentle one
October 6th, 2009
2:02 pm
For all of you responding to NeNe’s comment…..I am sure that it is not the NeNe from the show. She may come off as being ghetto, but I dont think she is that heartless. Anyone can post any name on here. Kandi you and AJ’s family are in my prayers. I will not comment on the children or your relationship with AJ because it is no one’s business. I love watching you on the show and you have my support. God Bless you.
Hell Is Not Full
October 6th, 2009
2:18 pm
Be real, just because you don’t care for someone and particularly don’t believe that they are a good husband or father for your child does not mean you wish them dead, or that you have no compassion for the family and friends that may be grieving.
And for all of the hateful and disrespectful things being thought, said and posted…. Hell is Not Full.
As anonymous we think we are, you can’t hide from yourself and you are accountable for all you say and do.
Walty
October 6th, 2009
2:38 pm
RIP A.J. I work with your cousin, she always said you were a nice guy, you had a lot of kids, but you took care of them
RF
October 6th, 2009
2:44 pm
Enter your comments hereKandi I am sorry for your loss no one that watches the show knows how Aj was in life. but as we all saw he supported you at everything that you did. Your mother may not have liked him but he is gone now from life and you need to be strong for all the children that are around you. May God bless you and keep you stay strong.
BLACK COFFEE
October 6th, 2009
3:51 pm
My condolences go out to all involved. Stay strong and good luck to you all. I don’t watch the show, so I’m not familiar with AJ. But Xscape is still my favorite female singing group of all time. Keep your head up, Kandi. God’s trying to tell you something. Listen up.
mitsu
October 6th, 2009
3:54 pm
Sorry he lost his life.
I thought the show was about “House Wives”,she is not married.
Ruby Baxter
October 6th, 2009
4:14 pm
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LS
October 6th, 2009
4:57 pm
Jimmy Baron you are ignorant, you have no idea what this man has set up for his family. That is the wrong thing to be worried about, my condolences go out to his family and friends.
RIP AJ
MRS BLACK
October 6th, 2009
4:58 pm
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FIRST AND FAR MOST I WILL LIKE TO GIVE THANKS TO THE ALL MIGHTY GOD WHO PROTECTED THIS YOUNG WONDERFUL LADY NAME KANDI’ HER DAUGHTER AND HER MOTHER, BECAUSE HER FAMILY COULD OF BEEN AT THE WRONG PLACE AT THE WRONG TIME WITH AJ’ GOD BLESS HIM AND HIS FAMILY MY HEART GOES OUT TO YOU ALL.
THIS IS NOT ABOUT WHAT WAS SAID ON THE SHOW THIS IS NOT ABOUT NENE’ THIS IS ABOUT HOW WE LOOK AT LIFE AS COLORED PEOPLE’ NENE’ SAID WHAT SHE SAID ON THE SHOW AND SO DID KANDI” IT’S A SHOW PEOPLE WE ALL HAVE TO MAKE MONEY AND WE ALL AT HOME AND SIT IN FRONT OF THE TV EVERY THURSDAY NIGHT LOOKING FOR MORE.. MOVE ON FROM THAT DRAMA SALES”
I THINK THAT THIS WHOLE DEAL IS SAD BLACK ON BLACK CRIME NO MATTER WHO WE ARE AND WHAT TYPE OF JOB WE DO TO EARN A LIVING AND TAKE CARE OF ARE FAMILY, LIKE THE GREAT MICHAEL JACKSON SAID THE MAN IN THE MIRROW
WE ALL NEED TO TAKE A LOOK IN THE MIRROW TONIGHT”
WHO IS GOING TO JUDGE YOU ” THE SAME MAN THAT BROUGHT YOU INTO THIS WORLD GOD HIM SELF WE ALL HAVE ARE DAYS MARK BECAREFUL HOW YOU TREAT ONE ANOTHER” I DO NOT CARE IF THE MAN HAD STRIP AND HANG ON THE POLE BECAUSE AT THE END OF DAY THAT WAS WHO KANDI’ CHOOSE SHE PUT HIM ON THE SHOW” SHE WORE THE RING” SHE SLEEP WITH HIM” WEATHER THEY WAS GOOD FOR ONE ANOTHER OR NOT ” THEY BOTH ARE GROWN PEOPLE” SHE DID NOT GET WHERE SHE AT BT BEING STUPID PEOPLE” HERE MOTHER HAVE HER LIFE WE ALL LEARN BY ARE MISTAKE” WHO IS TO SAY HE WAS NOT GETING OUT OF THAT BUSINESS BEFORE THEY SAY I DO” WHO IS TO SAY KANDI” NEED AJ’ HELP IN SOME KIND OF WAY” HOW WAS HER POCKET’BOOK” OK REMEMBER THE SHOW POCKET BOOK” HA LADIES WE ALL CARRY ONE.
WHAT THE WORLD NEED IS SOME KIND OF HEALING FROM THE SOUL;; THESE ARE TWO BROTHERS NO MATTER WHO START WHAT”THE DEVIL IS BUSY”
I FEEL SAD AS A BLACK WOMEN LIVING IN USA. WE HAVE A BLACK PRESIDENT WE MADE HISTORY AND WHAT DO WE DO HAVE ARE OWN HISTORY IN ARE BLACK COMMUNITY AMOUNG ARE SELF KILLING AND FIGHTING FOR WHAT”
YOU NO BETTER THEN THE REST.
GOD BLESS
Ms. E
October 6th, 2009
6:32 pm
Enter your comments here It’s a sad time for the family and people should not assume anything about the man and his family. No one wants to loose a loved one for any reason we are supposed to be in a society where we can learn from each other’s experiences yet we still foster racial ignorance.
Kandi I truly believed you loved AJ, but as a parent myself you can not allow your mother to dictate whom you should be with. I may not be found of the choices my childrren made but at the end of the those are the people that will make them happy. It is quite clear you take good care of your mom and the respect shown but like your aunt and uncle this is your life live mistakes and all. Your mother needs to get a life and start living as well, You see life is short tomorrow;s not promised to you!.
daywalker
October 6th, 2009
6:40 pm
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Kandi is clearly the class of the show. She’s more talnetd than all the other “HouseWives” put together. No one knows the particulars of what was going on in AJ’s life. But it seemed like Kandi brought out the best in him and I guess he filled a void in her life too. Our prayers go out to the families of all involved. PEople can sit here and judge all day but no one should have to go through the pain that the families are feeling now.
Kandi you’re smart beautiful and talented , with God’s help you will get through this.
Ms. Robbie
October 6th, 2009
6:47 pm
Kandi from Atlanta House Wifes.
cookie
October 6th, 2009
7:15 pm
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Dwight you and Nene are both disgusting pigs. You made fun of a quiet man because he chose not to focus on any of you. Nene should put that energy into helping her son who she stated.Does’t comb his hair. work or goes to school. You are raising someone who will become a burden on society just like the people you love to make fun of. That book you are pretending to write should be filed under fiction because you are lying about everything. You said you had to strip becsuse you had to pay a private school for your son! HA!!!!!!!?
Houston
October 6th, 2009
7:43 pm
Enter your comments here My comment is for SAR, you have such a negative opinion of the show….in my opinion if I hated a show that much I wouldnt waste my time watching….but you seem to be up on all of the negativity and full of comments so you just keep contributing to boosting the ratings and maybe that will help feed those poor little kids.
Big Poppa - My house is for sale
October 6th, 2009
9:44 pm
http://homesoftherich.net/2009/10/lee-najjars-atlanta-mega-mansion-is-for-sale.html
The multi-millionaire real estate developer and rumored “Big Poppa” of Atlanta housewife Kim Zolciak has put his Atlanta mansion up for sale! The home, which was recently featured in the movie Zombieland and Teen Cribs, is on the market for a cool $25,000,000. It is located at 490 West Paces Ferry Road in Atlanta, GA. The home has a whopping 9 bedrooms and 13 bathrooms.
Here is what the listing says:
“Unlike anything ever sold in Atlanta. Completed in ‘09 retaining the orginal 1920’s facade. Coral Stone clad exterior, 7 full kitchens, 16 FP’s, ballroom, theater, hair/nail salon, smoking room, recording studio, best pool outside a hotel in the south. Home will accomodate hundreds of guests.”
ImARealHousewife
October 6th, 2009
11:19 pm
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It looks to me that alot of people need to use spell check!!!! NeNe said it best in the JET magazine where the Housewives were on the cover…..none of them are friends and every week, they prove that point. For Dwight and NeNe to post anything on or about this situation, is a smack in Kandi’s face. Dwight, people question your manhood. NeNe, people question you too!!!
We are all on the outside looking in. The only thing most of us know about Kandi and AJ is what we have watched on TV. Even though her mother did not approve of AJ, I pray that she put her dislike on the back burner and is showing her daughter and grand-daughter some love. Kandi is the most level-headed housewife because she was able to handle NeNe without getting too upset. The lost of a loved one is very difficult and Kandi lost two people who she loved dearly.
Kandi, I pray that you overcome this tragic time and keep it moving because I’m sure your uncle and AJ would not want you to give up. I’m also praying for his children who are now without a father. AND if AJ felt like his twin daughters were better off with you, then raise them us if they are yours (just put it on paper). Don’t listen to the HATERS!!!!!!!
Peace & Love
lilsexypimp
October 7th, 2009
3:16 am
yeah its sad about what happened to AJ and i pray that his family is staying strong.Although it may be hard to deal with time will ease the pain.And to Kandi baby we love u stay strong and keep god first in ya life and he will see u thru this.Dont forget the love u two shared no matter what and who didnt agree u still have the mamories that u shared together,no one can take that from u.And that way u can keep him alive in spirit.Im praying for the family of AJ and his children as well as Kandi god bless u and may he comfort u in your healing process
think about it
October 7th, 2009
2:14 pm
In all fairness, is it really possible to give the requisite amount of attention to 6 kids from 4 babymamas ? – I THINK NOT – let’s be real here, folks – taking care of 3 or 4 kids with one babymama is a huge challenge in and of itself – it’s not fair to the kids or the moms – how can you take 6 kids who are spread out amongst the city to cheerleading, basketball practice, swimming lessons, cub scout meetings and help them with their homework and also go to their PTA meetings all while managing a strip club and a recording studio – he was spread too thin – then consider all the child support, babymamma drama, jealousy, etc – it’s an unhealthy living arrangement even if he was doing the absolute best he could – what is a club owner doing fighting his employees in the parking lot? isn’t that what security and cops are for ? Kandi’s mom saw that he was kinda immature, juggling way too much and he was in too deep
James
October 7th, 2009
2:58 pm
Leave Dwight alone. I can’t wait to see the next episode, Dwight looks like a greyhound dog running in those heels, he’s so skinny.
Ms. Lady Diva
October 7th, 2009
3:23 pm
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Kandi, My prayers and my heart goes out to you and I can say I walked in your shoes I also lost a fiance’e to violence my daughters father and people don’t understand the strain and burden and the hurt that you go thru when dealing with something like this it takes TIME to HEAL to some he wasn’t what they wanted for you but for yourself you knew the type of man AJ was and when you decided to break off the engagement you did so how you ended up with his twin girls I am unsure I hope that their mom is there in this difficult time to help you and the kids cope your daughter Riley seems so intelligent and seemed to care for AJ alot I pray for you and her comfort daily do not read the negativity on the blogs they don’t know what the relationship was all about because BRAVO showed AJ being in the background but suppoortive of you and your accomlishments I had to endure alot of backlashing when my daughters father was killed there were all sorts of stories I don’t know because I wasn’t there but keep ypur faith in GOD and he will see you thru these difficult days if I knew you personally I would have some encouraging words for you, if you can contact my e-mail please do so because I will continue to pray that each day you get stronger and stronger, God Bless and Take Care..from one passionate and concerned strong black sister to another…
lovinglife
October 7th, 2009
3:50 pm
UNBELIEVABLE…Some of you people on here are crazy!! This is not about a show, AJ is not just a reality tv personality, at the end of the day., THIS IS SOMEONE’S SON, SOMEONE’S BROTHER, SOMEONE’S FATHER, SOMEONE’S FRIEND and how he lived his life is IRRELEVANT…. If this was one of your family member’s how would you feel? SHOW SOME RESPECT FOR AJ’S FRIENDS & FAMILY….
lillyofthevalley
October 7th, 2009
4:16 pm
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This is truly sad, may the love of GOD comfort the Ashley & Burris Families.
Outraged
October 7th, 2009
4:31 pm
Looks like we need to pray for some of these bloggers more than Khandi! There must be a lot of broke unhappy people in the world because only someone truly miserable would stand on their high horse, disregard decorum, and make dispcable statements about a man (father, brother, son) that has tragically passed. Bloggers on this site love to throw around the word “class” and pass judgment on who has it and who doesn’t. If there was EVER a time to take your own advice and have “class” it would be now.
Khandi, I think your already blessed (loving family, successful career, beautiful spirit) so I’ll offer you my condolences and I’ll pray tolerance for the LOSERS.
Are you guys really that gullible that you believe Ne Ne is blogging? She doesn’t even update her BravoTV blog that she’s required and PAID to do, but she’ll come to the AJC for free?? And, those who are wondering if their tax dollars are going to have to pay for AJ’s children, first you have to have a job making over $10/hr to get that $1.02 taken from your check and the money will probably go to Wall Street or maybe GM again because big business has gotten the biggest welfare check to date.
Jose
October 8th, 2009
9:39 am
Zsa Zsa, where did you get from this article that he felt sorry for AJ? He feels sorry for Kandi, you moron. AJ was a loser and an user.
freechoice1011
October 8th, 2009
10:45 am
It is tragic that AJ met his demise in such a horrific way and no one deserves what he was subjected to. In times like these there is an apparent need for faith to come into the picture that is undeniable. I pray that people see this unfortunate incident as a wake up call that speaks to the plague of violence that consumes our streets and cities on a daily basis affecting our lives forever. In this situation there are several family members who are inexplicably linked by this one act of violence. Regardless of how you feel about characters involved in this drama either directly or indirectly because of that one night, that one choice made by either man their lives are forever changed. This proves that we are all one decision away from being dead or in jail on a daily basis so let’s choose wisely people. Let’s please stop the violence so we can stop burrying people well before their time.
COSBY JR
October 8th, 2009
6:58 pm
FREE CHOICE THAT IS WHAT IS WRONG WITH A LOT OF YOUNG BLACKS TODAY .ALL KIND OF UNDISCIPLINED STUPID STUFF IS OK WITH YOU.THEN YOU DON,T WANT ANYBODY TO SAY NOTHING ABOUT YOUR BS THAT OTHER FOLKS USUALLY HAVE TO CLEAN UP OR FIX FOR YOU..I,M GOING AGAISNT THE GRAIN AND SAYING ,KANDI GIVE THE TWINS BACK TO AJ,S FOLKS.ALL THESE SISTERS ON HERE DEFENDING HIS LIFESTYLE ARE NUTS.WE GOT TWO GENERATIONS OF YOUNG BLACK MEN WHO ABOUT 50% ARE PROFESSIONAL BUMS WHO HAVE ZERO AMBITION.HOW MANY FOLKS ON HERE GOT OVER 21 SONS LAZING ABOUT THE HOUSE ALL DAY DOING JACK. A TON I BET YOU.YOU CAN GO IN ANY TRADE SCHOOL IN THE COUNRTY AND THERE ARE NO YOUNG BLACK MALES IN THEM,WHITES, FOLKS FROM OVERSEAS.THIS MENTALITY IS KILLING THE BLACK FAMILY.I,M SORRY AJ GOT KILLED BUT WHEN I HEAR 6 KIDS BY 4 WOMEN I,M THINKING HMMM NOT SMART.KANDI,S MOM WAS RIGHT.GIRL GIVE THE TWINS BACK AND FIND A DECENT MAN.
TooBlessed
October 9th, 2009
12:24 am
It is definitely a sad thing to hear of such a loss. This beautiful woman who has never been married finally found someone whom she was in love with. Despite all the blogs and the negativity of what others had to say about her fiance and their relationship, it did not matter because we were not the ones who had to love and live with him. I have no clue as to what it is she feels on the inside but I would like to say that I am truly sorry that she has to endure such pain especially after losing her uncle to Cancer. I commend her for her strength and courage during such a difficult time. I would like to ask that God places his hand over her heart and heals her aching body. She will rise again and as long as she has AJ in her heart he will never truly die. God bless her, God bless AJ’s children for the loss of their father as well as AJ’s parents and any and all extended family and friends. No one deserves to die in that fashion. We should all realize that although the life of both Kandi and AJ was made somewhat public for our viewing in the Housewives of Atlanta, this tragic and abrupt loss is painful in many ways to those who loved him. Sometimes you need to step outside the box and leave your personal comments and suggestions be and just respect the individuals who are mourning. Respect is due during times like this. God bless!!
cranberi
October 9th, 2009
12:37 am
I think you all should give the negative feed back a rest! Kandi and AJ’s family have suffered a great lost. The last thing she needs to hear is things that dont matter or make any sense at this point. She needs the love and support of those who care about her genuninely….If you dont have anything nice to say, dont say anything at all. Save the “Show” comments for some other day, when that is a topic. Right now Kandi needs to hear from those who can symphize with her situtation…not
cranberi
October 9th, 2009
12:45 am
pick her apart. My prayers go out to Kandi and AJ’s family….May God continue to bless you always…
YaYa
October 9th, 2009
2:19 am
I mean just because Dwight or any of the other cast members did make fun of AJ that does not mean they wished the man dead. I mean come on.
Alexis from California
October 9th, 2009
2:24 am
I just heard the news. Kandi I liked you from the get go, my heart goes out to you. Only time will heal but you will never forget the man that was worth marrying. I know your mother did not approve I hope that at this time in your life she is stand by your side even if she didn’t agree with the relationship.
GOD BLESS YOU !
:( so sorry
October 9th, 2009
4:36 am
My thoughts and prayer are with Kandi and AJ’s family.
It would be nice if everyone could just remember that this man meant alot to alot of people. I hope that his loved ones do not find this page and read the crap that people are saying.
For the people that say they hate the show, why r u here and why do you watch it if you hate it so much? The last time I checked there were other channels, watch something else. Its that easy.
Tuttsville
October 9th, 2009
12:17 pm
Kandi: I am so sorry about A.J. We all could see how much the two of you loved each other. He loved you and you loved him. That’s all that matters. When we lose someone we love the world seems to stop for awhile. Although your life will go on, you will always carry A.J. with you – he is yours for life. You will be reunited one day as God promised. As you said “TIME” is a precious thing that only God Himself controls and he does not look to us in His decisions because a soul lives in eternity. I believe at the moment a life ends or is ending there is a sense of peace (experienced myself) those left here on Earth have no way of knowing about. There is no pain, no fear and no regret. God takes care of the little things and knows how much we are able to bear as humans. Remember – He is perfect in every way and provides for our every need. I lost an infant niece suddenly several years ago and the grief was overwhelming – nothing anyone said could ease the pain of her death. A few days afterward, my boss said to me “Sometimes God misses His children so much He calls them back home”.
A.J. was a good man and that is why you loved him the way you did – no matter what anyone thought. Your love for each other will last an eternity because you have not “lost” him. He will forever be in your heart and you will forever be in his. Till you meet again.
Love always,
A fan
Blackgold
October 9th, 2009
5:24 pm
Kandi: PEACE AND BLESSINGS AND I ADMIRE YOU FOR TAKING CARE OF HIS TWINS. IT TAKES A REAL WOMAN TO HANDLE THAT SITUATION. WE ALL HAVE OPINIONS BUT YOU CONTINUE TO FOLLOW YOUR HEART AND GIVE THOSE TWINS ALL THE LOVE THAT YOU HAVE TO GIVE THEM AND THE LIFE THAT YOU KNOW THAT AJ WANTED FOR THEM. STAND STRONG AND GOD WILL DIRECT YOUR FOOTSTEPS.
lady lust huntsville
October 9th, 2009
9:36 pm
MY PRAYERS ARE FOR KANDI AND AJ’S CHILDREN AND FAMILY. IT IS SAD THAT A PERSON HAS TO LEAVED THIS EARTH IN SUCH A TRAGIC WAY REGARDLESS OF THERE PAST AND THE PRESENT AND AS FOR THE FUTURE AJ NO LONGER HAS ONE DUE TO IGNORANCE. R.I.P. AJ IT SEEMS THAT U WERE TRYING TO TURN YOU LIFE AROUND AND AS THE SAYING GOES BEHIND EVERY STRONG MAN IS A STRONGER WOMAN AND THAT WAS KANDI. PLEASE PUT THESE NEGATIVE COMMENT TO REST BECAUSE EVERY NEGATIVE COMEENT U LEAVE ABOUT SOME BEING TRASH IT JUST SHOW HOW MUCH CLASS U HAVE.GOOD BLESS U KANDI UR AJ’S FAMILY AND THOSE CHILDREN THAT JUST LOST A FATHER.
Jackie
October 9th, 2009
10:04 pm
The girl is grieving and everybody telling her to give the kids back and so on. That’s none of your business, just pray for her that God will substain her and give her strength to deal with the days ahead. Goodness people, yes, her mother may have known and I commend her mom for speaking up for her daughter but I’m sure right now her mom is there for her and that’s all that matters. Whether she will be back in all who cares she’s living in the moment of grief again pray for her now and let tomorrow take care of itself.
SLC
October 10th, 2009
9:42 pm
I think it is outrageous that people spend so much time and energy bashing others. The woman lost her fiance’ for goodness sakes! Can’t we all just be decent people? We all have things that happen in our lives that we aren’t exactly proud of, but it isn’t up to other people to comment on it. If you choose to watch the show then don’t B**** about it. If you don’t like the people on it or the way they act…SOLUTION: STOP WATCHING. Seriously people, get a life instead of watching someone else’s “reality”. And another thing…maybe if you weren’t so busy talking trash about others you could worry about your OWN lives.
Have a good night.
Dennis E SMITH
October 10th, 2009
11:43 pm
AT,this time Kandi nothen realy matters. the man that the lord has brought into you life has been called home,God our lord has sent him into you life for the reason only God knows YOU BOTHE HAVE SHARED TRUE LOVE,JESUS NEVER ASK THE TWELVE, WHAT THEY HAVE, BUT HE KNEW WHAT WAS IN THERE HEART AND YOU KNEW WHAT WAS IN AJ HEART.and you love the man for that . the bible say when a man find a wife he finds a good thing and they will leave there family and be one.if im may say this, you did not let what a man have stop you from being real you found love in a poor man and he found love in you many are looking at what you have, and what you cn do for them but not him .you look into the content of his heart and found love please never change-