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5/26: Jon & Kate Plus 8 return with controversy

In the fifth season debut of “Jon & Kate Plus 8″ on TLC Monday night, Jon Gosselin denies cheating on Kate with a teacher, but she makes veiled comments that imply there has been something going on. And the future of the couple as a couple looks grim.

Kate cries. “Parents of multiples have triple the divorce rate,” she said. “I thought we could beat that. I don’t know if I can say that anymore. Very swiftly, we became very different people. It’s just hard. I tried six months to figure out what the problem is or remedy the problem. I don’t know. It’s so complicated. It’s just difficult.”

At the end of the episode, Jon pretty much says they’re separated: “We’re going two different directions right now.”

Early in the episode, they note the papparazzi camp outside their house all the time.

“I did not sign up fro the public scrutiny and everything,” Jon says wearily. “And neither did Kate. People get paid off to say whatever you want to say. If I gave you $25,000, who knows what you’ll say.”

“Did I ever think I’d find myself on the cover of a tabloid to see those words or read those words that are there?” Kate says. “No. It kills me.”

Jon says, “some people say I brought it upon myself.. doing nothing being innocent and hanging out. I never cheated on Kate. You know. That’s the way it is. I don’t care who believe me. I know what I know. She only knows what she knows.” Then he apologizes for something: “I don’t think in recent months I’ve thought clearly enough. I take full blame. I just didn’t think it would escalate to what it’s become.”

Kate denies unstated but implied alleged dalliances she may have had with a bodyguard. “I’m working and traveling and I take security. I go here and everywhere. That’s my job. I’ll be darned if they are going to take me down with that. The allegations make me furious. It makes me very mad.”

Jon then provides an interesting quote: “One day, my kids are going to Google me and I’m going to have to explain myself. Hopefully they’ll be mature enough to know it’s all crap.”

A moment later, he adds: “I’d like to apologize for my family for my actions. It was wrong place, wrong time. I didn’t understand the ramifications on how it would affect everything. I should have thought about more of what I did and where I was going. Everyone knows what I’m talking about.”

Kate: “I have a lot of anger… he’s made some very poor decisions. We have to live with them.”

Huh? What poor decisions exactly? What is he exactly apologizing for? Tabloids do say he showed up at some college house party, seen playing beer pong. Maybe it’s just that. Who knows?

The episode is set for one hour and 13 minutes. Clearly, TLC added a few minutes from interviews long after the episode at hand, which focused on the sextuplet’s fifth birthdays, which Kate dubs as “bittersweet.” [My DVR cut it off at a point where the show had note ended.]

As for the future of the couple, “I don’t know,” they both said. Kate says she lives and works for her kids. “I’m committed to not letting any of this harm them.”

“I take them to school. I’m here every day… I’m here for my kids, too,” Jon says.

311 comments Add your comment

Marie

May 25th, 2009
10:58 pm

JON: YOU ARE IMMATURE AND NEED TO GROW UP! YOU HAVE 8 WONDERFUL CHILDREN and a beautiful wife, YET YOU RUN AROUND TOWN ACTING LIKE a CHILDE YOURSELF?! If you are so unhappy with your horrible (HA) life, then be a man and work on it with your wife; YOU don’t go carousing out drinking and partying while she’s out trying to make money for a better life for all your children’s future!?! I cannot believe how sad/bad you have made everything for everyone! GO FIND GOD AGAIN and BEG for Kate’s forgiveness and work on it!!! AND, PLEASE Ask the LORD to help you GROW UP.

pco

May 25th, 2009
11:01 pm

Kate is very sharp in her comments to Jon…….always has been from the beginning….this is nothing new in her personality make-up – what is NEW is that Jon no longer likes his lot in life…..eight kids ….no identity…….people following him all the time…….GOLLY – I can’t do anything without somebody seeing me…….Yeah! Kate sure has her faults but immaturity is not one of them…..Jon – GROW UP buddy and be a husband and father – be strong – stand up to Kate and tell her to SHUT UP once in a while….call her on her sharp tongue and comments…..get some b—lls and be there for your kids and wife – I am just sick about their whole mess! Money is the root of all evil – but without the money they would have had many other problems to BIG for their pocket books…..what a vicious circle!!!

Carlee

May 25th, 2009
11:01 pm

I found the whole episode terribly sad. I was however bothered by the noticeable changes in Kate. Consider Jon, who appears in his jeans and tee-shirt being himself. Meanwhile, Kate is dressed like a celebrity…designer clothes, serious bling-bling, expensive hairdo’s, made-up tanning booth tan etc. That is not the same Kate I remember from the earlier shows…me thinks the celebrity-life has gone to her head.

Christy

May 25th, 2009
11:01 pm

It will be interesting to see how this drama ends. I’m guessing they’ll get divorced, Kate will have custody of the kids and most of the income they’ve made from the show, books, etc. to support the kids and she’ll hire people to help her take care of the kids so she can do whatever she wants. And since Jon will only be with the kids on designated days, neither one will have full, 24/7 responsibility anymore. And the kids are getting older with friends and interests of their own, so won’t be so dependent on the parents anyway. It will be the same scenario that is being played out in so many households in this country.

brian and laura

May 25th, 2009
11:02 pm

My wife and I have 3 boys, and we were both sad to watch tonight’s show. We’re very sad to see how things have turned out for Kate and Jon. They seemed to be having fun while it lasted, but tonight’s show revealed some high tension between the two of them. We hope that for the children’s sake they can pull something together, but if they have to go their separate ways, hope they make that work too.

Laurie

May 25th, 2009
11:04 pm

Ok, some of these bashing Kate must not be parents. It is hard getting everything done with just a couple of kids, let alone 8. Whether he did it or not, this is his very own actions. You can be unhappy in a marriage, but you work on it. You don’t go out and flirt around with other women and have affairs. I think it is a tragedy that they are making Kate out to be at fault-what women doesn’t have to bitch a little to get things done around the house? It is very sad at this point because he has damaged their marriage probably beyond repair. You can tell he doesn’t even care anymore anyway. Poor Kate and poor kids! He did this.

Sammi

May 25th, 2009
11:04 pm

I had to take off my rose colored glasses. I’ve watched the show from season one and I really thought Jon and Kate would make it. Heck I didn’t even believe the rag magazine stories. Sadly, after watching tonight’s show, I’m thinking they have one messed up marriage. They renewed their vows in August 08 and in May 09 looks like it’s over.

Elizabeth

May 25th, 2009
11:06 pm

What happened to the cutting of the coupons and the everyday struggles of young parents of multiples… I miss those days and if the show continues on with Kate and John wining about their relationships and not the focus on the kids, I think they should have thought about what the show is really about… It’s not called Kate’s book tour or John’s night life. Come on. Start parenting your kids and show us more of their lives.

Julz

May 25th, 2009
11:07 pm

This is all so very sad. The entire episode, i could only think of how terrible this all is for the kids. I swear they JUST went to Hawaii to renew their vows to show the kids that they would be together forever.

Kate does seem like she is doing this for the money. When you look back at the first episodes, they both seemed more normal, down to earth and not money obsessed. Now they live in a super mansion, spend money on random things, kate wears her chanel glasses everywhere….they are no longer regular people. I understand jon, because they were normal when the show started, and probably never thought it would be THIS popular. He can’t even hang out with friends without being SUPER careful about it, and living like that must suck. the world around him is so different from when it started. I can see both sides, but i agree more with Jon.

Kelly

May 25th, 2009
11:07 pm

The tension in tonight’s episode was obvious. It seems that they are both being selfish and self-centered in a way – - if they want to save their marriage they probably need to tell TLC to take a hike so they can work on their marriage and keep their family together. But from tonight’s episode – I didn’t get that they were going to do that. It sounds like the filming will commence which is really unfortunate and more than likely ratings will go up – as we all can’t resist watching a good train wreck.

Bill Yates

May 25th, 2009
11:08 pm

The End of Jon & Kate Plus 8

The season premiere of JK+8 will undoubtably break records for viewership. But I would predict it will become the highest ever viewed show in the series and that viewership will decline from this point forward.

The show attracted viewers for the cuteness of the children, the challenge they presented for their parents and the sense of relief that viewers felt–”I’m so glad it;s not me with that mess”.

But now, despite the intrigue of the breakdown of the marriage, the future is dim for the show. The children are older and less charming. The tension between Jon and Kate is not something people will want to see weekly. My wife finished watching the show and sad “Boy was that depressing”. We do not watch TLC to become depressed at life. We have many places where we see that everyday. We see it in the growing unemployment. We see it with the people struggling to make ends meet. We see it in our friends and family who have personal problems we witness and feel everyday.

Jon & Kate Plus 8 might best be wound down over the next year. Jon wants out of the marriage and the public limelight. He feels like he’s in prison. By dropping the show, he and Kate will fade back into obscurity. He’ll be out of prison and Kate won’t have to work so hard to present the false image that she has everything in control.

Maybe a special every two years to provide an update would be enough for most viewers. All good series come to an end and this one seems to be on life support. It’s best to let it die.

sassy01

May 25th, 2009
11:08 pm

I just watch the season premiere of Jon and Kate plus 8..and I have to tell you it was crap for a lack of a better word. We have all heard people put down the two of them Kate has her fans and Jon has his.Whats funny is that so many of us tune in faithfully to watch them and now we are making our little comments about them as if we know them so well..What I saw tonight is the end of Jon and Kate I found Jon to be laid back and just kinda of whatever and Kate to be herself putting Jon down on national T.V Jon never said one negative thing on Kate but she did with her lovely little remarks and for her to think that she dose not feel that the way she has treated him in the past has nothing to do what is going on….well straight out of Jon’s mouth tonight geee I wounder what that meant. Jon’s not the one that went to People’s magazine and spilled his guts about Kate and how he feels about things…She likes the attention no matter the cost. Don’t know what really went down with the two of them but feel really bad for those kids and if they think that they are not feeling this right now or think that they will not be effected by this.. sadly mistaken.

PPC

May 25th, 2009
11:10 pm

Obviously this TV family’s plight is on the minds of many and fires up opinions and judgements from all angles. The public should not forget that this is “reality” TV – shows are put together from tapes and the network still has the opportunity to portray the family or relationship in certain ways.

Most parents start out with the best intentions for their children…but sometimes the path becomes entangled. On a world-wide stage, unforseen obstacles and challenges are impacting this pair in ways that the could not have imagined prior to setting out on this journey. It remains clear that both Jon and Kate love their kids very much – it is evident in their comments and voices. Their children need them, stable and loving, in order to grow and flourish in a emotionally healthy manner. That should be the focus of everyone – parents, network, and viewers. So let’s support them. Positive words, sound advice, prayer if that is something you do.

I hope they make the right choices for those eight precious faces.

Pat

May 25th, 2009
11:12 pm

John said he couldnt be himself, he wasnt John and Kate Plus 8. Beg to differ with you John. When you took those sacred vowes you became as one. Then the children are part of both of you, so yes you are John and Kate plus 8. You can commit adultery without haveing sex. You gave your heart, Kates love and affection to someone else. Kate get counciling for the children and you. Its hard to deal with, I know Ive been there. Kate admitted she wasnt perfect, but where was Johns love and understanding or even forgiveness. Ive seen anger, resentment, pouting, and acting like a 2 year old on his part. No Kate doesnt need him, shes strong and I think she showed that tonight, but I also saw pain. Im praying for you and the kids Kate.

Christine

May 25th, 2009
11:13 pm

Jon & Kate appeared extremely bitter tonight. There is no doubt in my mind that he already has checked out of the relationship. Based on the numerous stories and pictures, he appears to be searching for that elusive state of happiness. Jon, the grass is not greener on the other side. Gender differences are prevalent in marriages and how you handle them is what matters. Kate appears to be in a state of shock over a betrayal. Jon, true happiness comes from within. You need to decide what it is you want from life. It isn’t Kate’s job to make you happy, only you can do that. And running around in a sports car in the middle of the night is not the answer, especially when eight little children need you.

Martha

May 25th, 2009
11:13 pm

I know Kate can be condescending and ugly to Jon at times, but after watching the show tonight, all I can think is how immature Jon is acting. He has 8 children and he needs to grow up. It was sickening how he just was not there to help set up the birthday party, and drove up like Mr. Macho-man in his new white “sports” car. I also don’t understand why TLC is continuing to air the show. It is suppose to be about a family making it work with multiples, and now, it is not about that. Obviously, the Gosselins need to get off the air and concentrate on their kids and their marriage. I truly hope they resolve their differences and stay a family, with mom and dad together.

John

May 25th, 2009
11:13 pm

Sad to see people just bash this couple. At best you have a glimse of what their life truly is. Bottom line is marriage is not easy. Emotions change and we forget what we got married for, selfishness sets in and love becomes conditional. Imagine, if we showed the same love for our spouses as we do our children. There would be a lot less divorces! I’m praying that Jon and Kate will re-discover what Love truly is and dig deep within themselves and find the strength to fight. Love is worth fighting for. Jon I hope somehow you read this and decide in your heart that your wife is worth fighting for, push all the fake crap aside (anything that distracts you from your family and God) and be a Man. Step up brother, and lead your heart,do not follow your emotions, they lie to you!

Hope

May 25th, 2009
11:15 pm

I don’t really understand why so many peole hate on Kate. She is a strong woman and her parenting is creative. I think a few parents out there could learn from. Also having 8 children is , I assume , a little challenging. Is it our business really what’s goin on in their PERSOAL relationship?

Christy

May 25th, 2009
11:15 pm

I made my previous comments based on past shows – Jon and Kate both kept tossing the kids (especially the little ones) back and forth to each other like hot potatoes whenever they got dirty or fussed or whatever. Neither one wants the full responsibility of taking care of these kids anymore, but they love their kids – hence, the confusion as to what to do. No one wants to step up which is why they don’t like each other anymore. I agree with the other posters – they have to know that this will affect the kids – already has.

Lesa from Plainfield

May 25th, 2009
11:16 pm

Jon said he loves his kids, loves his family. What about, I love my wife.

Jon seems so angry — way more angry than Kate. What’s wrong with this picture?

She sounded like she would be willing to work it out. He didn’t say anything like that.

Yes, Kate would say what came to mind when it came to Jon. Perhaps Jon could have addressed these issues and tried to work things out before this got this far.

And people say they should give up the show, that’s not going to fix the situation. Obviously, Jon is not happy. I really don’t think she is forcing him to stay home and take care of his kids while she goes out to promote the book. He has help. Get a hobby, go golfing, have guy friends, what’s the problem?

Maybe Kate — if Jon wants to be married to her — could cut the tours and talks in half, even if that means losing some money.

One thing, if he did cheat, which he says he didn’t, although, he’s not too convincing on this episode today, I don’t think he deserves another chance. Once a cheater always a cheater.

Give her a break, people, she takes care of 9 kids, one being Jon. Anyone would have to be super organized to be able to handle this huge job. She wasn’t always away promoting the book.

From what I saw today, it looks as though this marriage may not survive.

Linda

May 25th, 2009
11:16 pm

Jon & Kate was hard to watch tonight. I felt sorry for the people at the birthday party. I bet they couldn’t wait to get out of there. She even barked at John to take his sunglasses off for the family picture. Doesn’t she ever give him a break. He even made the remark “I can’t write, I can’t breathe right (referring to the episode she told him “not to breathe”. Jon is the most caring parent of the two. When Kate yelled at Jon for not using a coupon for something he bought (the way she humiliated him) that did it for me. She is a _ITCH. The kids are darling and fun to watch but I cannot take listening to Kate any longer. Jon better get away while he still has his manhood.

Ron

May 25th, 2009
11:17 pm

On all of the episodes I have ever watched, it was John who played with the kids, gave them their baths, dressed them, and generally seemed to love all eight of them. Kate guarded the kitchen, gave orders, found fault with whatever decisions he made, hugged and kissed the sextuplets, and rarely showed physical affection to the twins. The thing I find disturbing is how she practically threw him under the bus and implied that he is guilty. However, when it came to the allegation about her and her bodyguard that was totally far -fetched she said. Her own brother and sister-in-law are the ones that broke that tidbit. If, indeed, she is so broken up by all of this, why has she spent 21 out of the last 30 days on the road? The tears tonight do not fit the shrewish woman we met on past seasons. I feel Jon has reached the point where he just can’t tolerate her any longer. This is the first time she did not belittle him to his face. She speaks to no one in her family. Doesn’t that seem strange to anyone? I believe at this point she is caught up in the diva aspect of all this. She is portraying herself as the innocent victim. Is she putting her children first, as she claims? While she’s on Larry King, Rachel Ray, the Today Show,etc. she sure doesn’t seem to be trying to work out the problems one way or the other. He’s at home with the kids, and she is on the tube.seemingly more concerned with her wardrobe and new hairstyle than with what the twins may be hearing. I read that she wants a talk show. What is the price she is willing to pay for it??????

Bill Yates

May 25th, 2009
11:17 pm

Jon & Kate

It’s time to wind down Jon & Kate + 8.

It was a special show because sextuptlets followed the birth of twins.

But now the sextuplets are 5 and we have discovered Jon and Kate are nothing special.

Jon is shallow man who feels cheated by an early marriage and appears to not want to work out a difficult relationship. I know many people like that. No need to have a show about it.

Kate is a nurse who thinks by having 8 children she is special and has a unique (and marketable) story to show. She is obsessive and compulsive and these traits make her difficult to live with impair her judgements of others. I know many people like that. No need to make a show about it.

I’d recommend winding the show down. I know I’ve watched my last episode.

Amy

May 25th, 2009
11:17 pm

It appears that their marriage has been over for some time and they are reliving the initial shock of what’s happening in their marriage very publicly for the past several weeks. Yes, the show went from something sweet and helpful to something overly commercial and forced. I too would like to see them turn off the cameras and work it out off camera and find more reality than their “reality show”.

Paddy

May 25th, 2009
11:17 pm

It is now unwatchable. They won’t have to drop the show it will be done for them. Who can watch this crap. It makes you feel like crap when it is over. TV is supposed to be entertaining not a real life Greek morbid play. Enough is enough.

tie

May 25th, 2009
11:19 pm

I think we have not truly seen this family and it real problems from the begining and I think if we did we wouldn’t have like it so much for the reality would reflect much of our own lives and we don’t have to turn on show know or feel how that is. We were given a fairy tale version and now some of us are mad because the hope of happy ending is over and reality has set in, which is hard and ugly and not so nice exspecially when kids are invovled. I hope that John and Kate show will be cancelled not for there sake but for their children because in end they will have to deal with their parents very public separation in the future. As they get older they will see this last expisode and it will hurt and they will remember how things were wrong and how they did not know why. They even may be like most divorced kids thinking it was there fault. John and Kate I hope you really put your kids first and will give up the money in order to save the spirit inwhich you had your children. What ever you choose I will pray for your family.

Melissa

May 25th, 2009
11:20 pm

What you want to bet Jon and Kate end up on Dr. Phil soon?

Naomi

May 25th, 2009
11:21 pm

Did anyone notice how Kate kept laughing, and chuckling to everyone who was at the party??? But she managed to keep her emotions to herself whenever Jon was around? Obviously I felt she was wearing a mask ( so to speak) as far as her feelings to Jon are. I believe she does truly loves Jon, and I also think that Jon still loves her as well…(if you notice that Jon still sat in his position on the couch while being interviewed alone…) I believe they can pull through this….I pray that they do…I feel so sorry for them both…their children especially.

Faller

May 25th, 2009
11:21 pm

what is kate teaching her children about respect/love in a marriage? when she belittles jon in front of everyone and not only her children. There has been many times when I think “how can he stand it?” I m not saying jon is inocent in all this, but he admited his mistakes. Kate on the onther hand admited nothing. What about all the gossip about the secret contract and the bodyguard? Do you really beleive she is inocent in all this? I dont. All through the show, she took every chance to say that she was “alone.” I wish jon had made more of an apperence in the show, only so that kate couldn’t use the “oh pity me” card.
she laid it on thick. At first I felt sorry for kate, even though she was horrible to jon, no one diserves to be cheated on. but as more info came out I relized that kate was just as guilty. Who goes on a book tour, when her marriage and children are suffering??? Everything tonight was about her. Not about the children, and even though it was not said, the children are suffering. how can you say that they no nothing about what is going on. when alexis told jon to “come home.” It broke my heart. Both are being selfish, but I beleive kate is wanting jon to stay away.

Sarah

May 25th, 2009
11:24 pm

I am just sad!

Melissa

May 25th, 2009
11:27 pm

Kate does treat Jon like one of the kids, but I can understand where she is coming from. She sees all that has to be done and is a no nonsense kind of mother. I always felt that Jon balanced out that personality with the non chalant, almost apathetic attitude at times.

Mandie

May 25th, 2009
11:30 pm

So to those of you who keep saying that they should quit the show and they will be out of the spotlight, do you really think that is true. If Jon and Kate decided tomorrow to discontinue the show, the paparazzi would still continue to stalk them and post things about them that hurt them. All because we want to know. The show is not the problem. The fact that they have real lives and the tabloids choose to exploit every move they make is the major issue. How would we all feel to see our lives on the covers of the rag mags and every little thing we do be blown out of proportion. If either of them have affairs it is their business and their job to work on their marriage. I do not feel for Jon, he chose to sign the contract again and that means he is in the media. If you do not want your life on TV say no.
As for the “RUMORS” Kates brother and sister-in-law are spreading, they are hearsay. People need to quit refering to them as FACT when this is clearly not the case. It seems to me that they are bitter for whatever reason and they want their 15 minutes of fame and glory. Tey do not care if they hurt people in the process!

Jenny

May 25th, 2009
11:30 pm

Tonight’s episode is confusing as to what happened between them. They are beating around the bush and setting up an impending divorce to come. One thing is clear, they will continue to film for the show and put the kids in spotlight with those “P people” following them. I’m not sure I want to continue to watch this show with the kids involved in this situation.

Jaunita Redpath

May 25th, 2009
11:35 pm

Jon should be sued for child abuse, putting up with a harried trippy wife is your lot in life, what you Mr Jon G. are doing is disgracing your children for time and eternity, they are all going to be hurt forever, on national tv. get over yourself Jon.

Aleta

May 25th, 2009
11:36 pm

Sounds like the show should be “Single Kate plus eight!”

M. Echols

May 25th, 2009
11:37 pm

Well, it was bound to happen. Kate’s mouth caused all these problems. And she still feels the need to continue on her tours instead of staying home with her childern especially if Jon has already moved out. I had almost stopped watching the show two seasons ago because Kate is so damn bossy. And Jon is too passive for his own good. Those precious children will suffer for their parents short-comings. TLC executives if you have any compassion for those children, you will take this show off the air because it will only get worse.

Karin Johnson

May 25th, 2009
11:37 pm

I like the Gosselins very much. I admire Kate’s love, determination and dedication to her family. Jon loves his kids but sadly is showing a horrible lack of maturity. What did he think he was signing up for when he agreed to go on national TV? Kate appears to be sticking by her commitments, but Jon is acting like a spoiled child. I hope they will heal their marriage. Prayer and counselling would be helpful. Lastly, I am curious to know what, if anything, it would take to make Jon happy? THAT would be a good question for TLC to ask him. It might save his family a lot of time and grief too.

Peggy

May 25th, 2009
11:38 pm

Kate is SOOOOOO fake!!! And not very nice either.

Kate

May 25th, 2009
11:42 pm

This show has always bothered me. Mostly because we only have 2 children, but I feel have twice the load because our oldest was born with a brain bleed and our second and most profoundly, has autism. While I always have acknowledged that Jon and Kate have had quite the job in raising 8 kids so close together, I have always thought it is soooo much easier than raising special needs children. The stress, the anguish, the heartbreak never ends. When she said tonight that “the divorce rate for parents of multiples have triple the divorce rate”, my husband and I laughed knowingly together, the divorce rate for parents of autistic kids is 80%. She needs to stop the show, stop the book tour, stop the fake bake, move to Montana or S. Dakota or some other place where no one cares and get back to basics. She is so, so , so blessed to have healthy kids. As a nurse, maybe she can pause and realize that reality. I wish those beautiful kids the best.

ashly

May 25th, 2009
11:43 pm

i think the best thing for jon & kate to do is stop the show & focus on what’s really important..their children & their marriage..i have no doubt they really do love eachother & only want the best for their children..they are in my thoughts & prayers & i wish the absolute best for them all.

Liz

May 25th, 2009
11:43 pm

One question…No matter what Jon did or did not do, how many of you would leave your children day after day, especially at a time like this, to go on a freaking book tour???????????????

Kashmir

May 25th, 2009
11:44 pm

My heart goes out to Jon Gosselin.

If I could, I would do anything to save that family…

Rick Garner

May 25th, 2009
11:44 pm

Although the prayer schedule featured on the link below has the Gosselin’s with 24/7 prayer coverage, there’s always more room to remember this family in the coming days as the media and others continue their campaign of gossip and hate.

http://richardtgarner.blogspot.com/2009/05/i-can-honestly-say-jon-is-my-best.html

Angie

May 25th, 2009
11:45 pm

I am so depressed now about this show. I do not want to watch something that makes me sad. I do not care what the truth is or who is at fault. It doesn’t matter. They are now just another statistic. They are not conquering their challenges & showing us it can be done any more. I think the audience of the show will change. Who cares? I want to watch something that lifts me up.

Carlos from atlanta

May 25th, 2009
11:45 pm

I just watch the episode tonight. I’m very sadden and heartbroken of the situation for Kate and John. People don’t understand when you agree to document your personal life on camera prepare for the worst scrutiny ever. This is very hard for me, because I watch this family from season one and to see the tabloids rip this family apart over fame and fortune is sad. To me I don’t think Kate is really fighting for her Husband, because if she was she will show a little more emotions towards john when she’s around him. My prayers and thoughts are with these guys and the kids. They are such beautiful and intelligent kids, and I can say that Kate and John has done a great job with them. Kate and John here’s a message to u both Don’t play the blame game towards each other, if u guys say that yall Love each other like yall say yall do then fight. You guys are awesome people and we need more people in this world like both of u. Y’all took vows in front of god now let’s end the bickering and fueding and save your family for it’s to late. GOD BLESS and I’m praying for u guys. I’m a single father taking care of my son,he lives with me and it is hard. It really does effect a kid coming up not seeing both parents around. I know Kate that u are going to protect them from harms way and continue to be those kids rock for life,and the same to u John. So whatever u guys decide to do make sure the kids are first at all times. Wishing the Best for the Gosselin family. I’m so HEARTBROKEN right now, that’s life though.

Heather H

May 25th, 2009
11:45 pm

I said I wasnt going to do this, but the show has been over for awhile and I am still aggravated so I have to say something. I could tell by the show and the interviews that Jon obviously has not grown up. You can tell by his statement, “when I go out I can’t just be Jon, I have to be Jon and Kate plus 8, and I am having a real hard time dealing with that”. AS far as I am concerned, once he took those vows(before there were all of these children) he was no longer just Jon, he was a Family, he was Jon and Kate. So grow up and stop wanting to go and “play”, snowboard, drink, and whatever every weekend. Play with your children. He needs to go back to his Job (so he can get away from the children for eight hours) since you can tell he is aggravated that he was “made” or told to quit his job. Kate needs to stay home with the children now that she has done her little book tour, they need to take a few years off of the show and learn about each other again. Try to make this marriage work, because if they dont do that, they will regret divorcing. It will hurt the children terribly and they will blame the dad, especially if he stays away “playing” too much….I know, I was a child of that type of situation! I love the show and wish them the very best! I so hope they make a wise decision, they will be in my prayers!!

amanda

May 25th, 2009
11:47 pm

I just hope this episode was a jumping off point for them to turn themselves around and improve the current state of their family. I mean, is TLC really going to show this depressing sob story week after week? Doubtful.

P people 90210

May 25th, 2009
11:51 pm

I do believe they have an agreement that the marriage was over 6 months ago and allowing Jon to have girlfriends. I think Kate is angry that Jon was so reckless about it that got him caught by the media and Jon was apologizing for that. That is why he was saying he did not cheat on Kate which would be true if they have an agreement, but apologized for making poor choices (got caught by the media).

Rick

May 25th, 2009
11:53 pm

Hello Everyone;

Reading through some of the posts tonight really says that we as a society have hit the bottom of the barrel! Who are we to judge this couple. The show is for entertainment and what happens to Jon and Kate in their personal lives is really their business isn’t it? The show was to show the ups and downs but now we want to hurt them by adding fuel to the fire. Come on, we feed the fire by buying tabloids that have been proven in the past to print false stories about any and everyone in the entertainment business. Then we say he did she did what!! They both are grown and need to take it as is goes. If we can’t see someone hurt someone on TV, we can’t watch it. No wonder today’s kids are so messed up. They see this stuff and think mit’s normal to hurt someone. Follow the show but cut the hurtful comments toward a young couple going thrugh life’s ups and downs. We all go through that. What if it was you???? Would you want people calling you a wimp or _itch or worse? I’m no expert but think before you make comment.

CeCe

May 25th, 2009
11:54 pm

Kate always has to be the center of attention and she has to do everything her way, that would get old quick for me. I feel bad for Jon because I don’t think he’s the problem.