‘50 Shades’ gives Sugar Daddy websites, bondage a boost

After reading the Wikipedia entry, I assume this knot can be used for more than a dapper suit.

After reading the Wikipedia entry, I assume this knot can be used for more than a dapper suit.

Literature has often changed society.

Tracts by Thomas Paine helped rile up pre-Americans seeking government independence while Karl Marx riled up those seeking government dependence.

“50 Shades of Grey” by British author E. L. James is nothing like those books, but the erotic tome has boosted traffic at “Sugar Daddy” dating sites, reports Business Insider.

I’ve never read “50 Shades of Grey,” but trust a co-worker, who says she wanted to “stab her eyes out” while reading it with her book club.

A reader of this blog has a higher opinion of the book, saying “The 3-book series begins with Anastasia Steele, a young woman, meeting and falling for millionaire Christian Grey, a gorgeous man with a dark past who draws her into his world of BDSM.”

Whatever you think of the novel, it’s certainly getting people’s attention. “50 Shades” has sold 20 million copies and surpassed “Harry Potter & The Chamber Pot of Smelly Secrets” as the fastest-selling paperback of all time.

According to Brandon Wade, the millionaire founder of SeekingArrangement.com, a dating site for wealthy men that “want to date the best” and women that want help “mentally, emotionally and financially,” the novel has boosted business and sparked an apparent interest in bondage.

Wade says 186,000 female members of the site are actively seeking a “Christian Grey” type arrangement.

The businessman, an alleged virgin himself when he attended MIT, spills some dirt on his customers:

  • 79 percent of female members found the idea of succumbing to a ‘dominant’ male like Grey a turnon
  • 90 percent of male members said they found the idea of woman being a ’submissive’ like Steele exciting
  • 43 percent said they were more likely to use handcuffs in sexual role play
  • 47 percent wanted to experiment with blindfolds and other bondage gear

Hmmmm … “Of Human Bondage” says nothing like that.

31 comments Add your comment

Fulton

July 5th, 2012
12:31 pm

Obviously women don’t know what the hell they want. First it’s independence & equality…now it’s handcuffed, blindfolded & dominated…smh!

Seriously shaking my head

July 5th, 2012
12:37 pm

The description of the book given above is nothing as described. Please do not give reviews if you have no concept of the subject and the sociology/psychology surrounding them. Education on social norms and deviant behaviors benefits everyone.

Judging a book without reading it...

July 5th, 2012
12:47 pm

Absolutely agree with Seriously. The description is not even close to the story line in the book. I guess sensationalism wins out again with Mr. Mathis’ blog…

I’ve become more and more disappointed with the quality and delivery of information coming from all of the AJC blog writers… It seems as though it’s more important to make people get up in arms with an opinion (which obviously it worked because I am feeling opinionated enough to add a comment) than thoroughly research something they are writing about. This can’t be called journalism…

George Mathis

July 5th, 2012
12:54 pm

Write a better one-sentence description and I will use it. How’s that for service?

John

July 5th, 2012
1:08 pm

Hey George, notice how they’re silent after that challenge. “Seriously” and “Judging”, why don’t you let the journalists do their job.

Trizzle

July 5th, 2012
1:09 pm

George, don’t let these people get to you. Its hard to describe this book period where it keeps it clean enough for an all age print. I have been reading the books and they are pretty good and steamy. I can see how women are trying to find those sugar daddy’s now.

Loved the book

July 5th, 2012
1:12 pm

Why Mr. Mathis you sound irritated?

I do have to agree the book was more about his intrigue with Ms. Steele and her unwillingness to be submissive to him. His showering her of gifts was more about his control and not knowing another way to show affection. For each expensive gift, it was usually a long discussion or fight as to why she did not want those things. Even to the end…

I personally enjoyed the books more so to see how the love story unfolds. I personally could have done without the bondage and sub/dom descriptions. Those are the parts I “fast-forwarded” through.

Avid Reader

July 5th, 2012
1:15 pm

Did Mr. Mathis even read the book?

George Mathis

July 5th, 2012
1:15 pm

I am not irritated. I am busy. There is a difference.

KS

July 5th, 2012
1:15 pm

I have read the book and it was not about an innocent woman exchanging her body and soul for a hefty allowance. Did you read the book Mr. Mathis?