Website for cheating husbands, wives spills secrets

You figure no good would ever come from a website that helps cheating husbands and wives find each other.

But AshleyMadison.com has released the dirt on what type of person is most likely to seek sex outside of the natural state of bliss otherwise known as marriage.

Women looking for an unfaithful dirtbag should target an IT professional (10.6%) in his 40s that has been married (likely to someone who no longer appreciates him) for more than 10 years and has kids older than 10.

Other cheating professions include those in the financial industry (8.2%), education (6.5%), doctors (4.6%), lawyers (3.8%). Being from Atlanta, the teacher thing shocks me.

Men looking for a cheating lady should seek out a local bar, or consider a teacher or stay-at-home mom in her 30s that has been married for five years or less and has a daughter younger than six.

As expected, about four times as many men shared their secrets in the survey than women. All 15,000 or so have accounts at the website.

But women are no angels. They cheat at about the same rate (19%) as men (23%), according to this report. I bet they get caught less often though.

Please don’t use any of this info to ruin your otherwise non-miserable existence.

51 comments Add your comment

Soccer Milf

June 14th, 2012
2:13 pm

Guilty…..

Who wants to buy me a drink?

Momania

June 14th, 2012
2:15 pm

Wow….My blog fans have been accusing me of having an affair and there it is…..Stay at home mom with a daughter under the age of 6.

Don’t tell Michael!

Drinking the water from a toilet.

June 14th, 2012
2:25 pm

K

June 14th, 2012
2:31 pm

LOL Theresa!!!!!

big daddy

June 14th, 2012
2:31 pm

soccer mom’s are hottttt…. baby i will buy you two drinks….

Billy Davis

June 14th, 2012
2:40 pm

Just because I’m an IT professional doesn’t mean I cheat. I just divorced my ungrateful wife now have all the sex I want. In her words you want a divorce so you can F%^$ all the time. Dah, dummy…

FYI… I found Starbuck’s is better than any bar.

Cram

June 14th, 2012
2:41 pm

@Soccer Milf – Nobody wants to buy you a drink because you are ugly.

Mr. Obvious

June 14th, 2012
2:57 pm

see also: Real Housewives of The A-T-L

Big Ott

June 14th, 2012
3:00 pm

Soccer MILF,

If you become a Baseball or Hockey MILF instead, I will get you hammered.

I will probably also get you drunk, too, Honey.

Rupert

June 14th, 2012
3:17 pm

If you like pina coladas, and getting caught in the rain…

The Seventh Son

June 14th, 2012
3:27 pm

Its a rough way to find out your ex (a teacher) was really just a slut.

THE PRODUCER

June 14th, 2012
3:34 pm

THE PRODUCER

June 14th, 2012
3:35 pm

Blame it on the alcohol and the twister game……

Data

June 14th, 2012
3:35 pm

Yep! Everyone knows IT guys have the special equipment needed to get ‘er done!

Clive Buttons

June 14th, 2012
3:37 pm

Interesting that you call the cheating men “dirtbags” and the cheating women “cheating ladies.” Then again, did you just lift that from the web site? And the web site obviously doesn’t include residents of the Atlanta Urban National Wildlife Refuge, where if it breathes, it cheats, and often.

Atlanta Native

June 14th, 2012
3:50 pm

Hey, Billy Davis, so admit it: your wife was right. For you, sex is the basis of a satisfying relationship. Like so many other so-called “men”.

JstHavnFun

June 14th, 2012
3:50 pm

So what’s wrong with otherwise unhappy men and women grabbing some excitement and fun by getting together? You ain’t gonna stop it…just embrace it…or her…or him.

kingster

June 14th, 2012
3:55 pm

Wow, I just relocated from Atlanta, I guess I missed the boat (or booty), what about Jacksonville, Fla, does the same rules apply (smile)?

Truth

June 14th, 2012
3:58 pm

LOL — Atlanta Native = Woman Scorned !!

Trashy Butterah

June 14th, 2012
4:03 pm

Just get a job at a retail corporation in Duluth where it once HQ to a department store that was birth out of Atlanta and bought by a major retailer 10 years ago….hint: Pink Mammal. Everyone is having an affair! Some of the married men even purchase apartments near by where they can sleep with the trashy women that work there during lunch and after hours. If you have a spouse or companion that works at this place, please take notice. There’s also a prominent Atlantan (artsy and gay) who’s wife work there and has been cheating on him since 2003.

Trashy Butterah

June 14th, 2012
4:05 pm

Just get a job at a retail corporation in Duluth where it once was HQ to a department store that was birth out of Atlanta and bought by a major retailer 10 years ago….hint: Pink Mammal. Everyone is having an affair! Some of the married men even purchase apartments near by where they can sleep with the trashy women that work there during lunch and after hours. If you have a spouse or companion that works at this place, please take notice. There’s also a prominent Atlantan (artsy and gay) who’s wife work there and has been cheating on him since 2003.

Trashy Butterah

June 14th, 2012
4:07 pm

Just get a job at a retail corporation in Duluth where it was once HQ to a department store that was birth out of Atlanta and bought by a major retailer 10 years ago….hint: Pink Mammal. Everyone is having an affair! Some of the married men even purchase apartments near by where they can sleep with the trashy women that work there during lunch and after hours. If you have a spouse or companion that works at this place, please take notice. There’s also a prominent Atlantan (artsy and gay) who’s wife work there and has been cheating on him since 2003.

ex-wife scorned

June 14th, 2012
4:40 pm

Hey dont forget to add the douche bag truckers to the list!

Mike Francis

June 14th, 2012
4:42 pm

@Trashy Butterah – Once wasnt enough? Please watch me on 11Alive!! I love my wife!!

Tell the truth

June 14th, 2012
4:47 pm

I’d be willing to bet you could almost double those numbers. Also, why are us men “dirtbags” when we cheat but women are “cheating ladies”? Hooors!!!!!!

creative

June 14th, 2012
5:03 pm

Women are an awful group as a whole. Its either deer in the headlights submissive retards or type a sex in the city corporate types who need a complete sissy they walk all over. Also the hotter they are the dumber they are. But who wants to be with a smart heinous chick. There have to be some good looking smart women out there. Save your “Your looking in the wrong place” comments because I’ve looked everywhere. Oh and yes I am very bitter. haha

Who my baby daddy?

June 14th, 2012
5:05 pm

Dis mus be bout Caucasian folk, cause hear in muh neybahood it be almos 100 pacent

creative

June 14th, 2012
5:07 pm

Ladies, I know men are just as bad. I just happen to be attracted to women.

Nini

June 14th, 2012
5:28 pm

My husband is a teacher… I’m a SATM.. hmmmmm….. oh well!

Joey

June 14th, 2012
5:40 pm

What about stay at home dad’s, with 1 kid under 6 in his early 30’s?lol

TG

June 14th, 2012
6:02 pm

@Data..you are right. IT folks will scan the equipment for viruses and then give you a “hard drive”

THE PRODUCER

June 14th, 2012
6:36 pm

Realist

June 14th, 2012
6:45 pm

To Creative: There are some good looking smart women out there and they are already married! It takes lots of smarts to get yourself married these days!!!

Not Stupid

June 14th, 2012
6:45 pm

Beware the black male personal trainers who hit on white women at the gym. They are the ones who target stay at home moms while the husband is working at his thankless IT job. Whispering whatever garbage will work and no scruples about being a home wrecker.

Morally Ethic

June 14th, 2012
6:51 pm

Prostitutes don’t count as cheating. Right?

Morally Ethic

June 14th, 2012
6:53 pm

ChickieBell

June 14th, 2012
7:10 pm

I don’t need to cheat, I just need to remind my hubs to take his Viagra!!

Not Stupid

June 14th, 2012
7:19 pm

And yes, women are dumb enough to get caught. Everybody who cheats makes some subtle changes in their routine. In the beginning. The longer it goes on, the less subtle they become. Once you confront them, DO NOT sleep with again to try and save the marriage. That is legal forgiveness and you have just blown your argument about the affair being the cause of the divorce. It is tempting to try and work things out, particularly with young kids involved, but keep your head on straight and sleep in the guest room. Alone. You will have the moral high ground and your dignity to keep you warm.

Calvin G. Sims, Sr.

June 14th, 2012
7:28 pm

I was an IT Professional. Is that why my Ex-Wife cheated on me?

ha

June 14th, 2012
7:30 pm

I bet the number on the women is higher. They just won’t admit to cheating and are a hell of a lot sneakier about it.

ha

June 14th, 2012
7:32 pm

And why are the guys unfaithful dirt bags and the women referred to as cheating ladies.
My ex screwed me and my kids over and she sure as hell does not deserve to be called a lady.

Kam Fong as Chen Ho

June 14th, 2012
7:38 pm

Good old Kinky Friedman said it best: “eatin ain’t cheatin”.

Dirk Diggler

June 14th, 2012
7:45 pm

Funny because Soccer MILFORD is really a dude…..

Not Stupid

June 14th, 2012
8:14 pm

Ha, well said. My ex wife continued to see the other guy even after I caught her and she promised – in counseling sessions – to cut off all communication with him. She just needed to tell him it was over face-to-face! Whatever . . . Even the counselor called her out on that BS. Needless to say, she lost interest in going to counseling after that!

hammondxk

June 14th, 2012
8:38 pm

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Jake

June 14th, 2012
8:40 pm

My wife cheated worst pain I have ever felt once a tramp always a tramp

Shanequa

June 14th, 2012
10:54 pm

@Not Stupid

See that’s where you’re stupid. While your white wife is hooking up with all the black trainers, their professional white husbands can’t keep their eyes off of us beautiful black women. Notice how much interracial (black woman/white man) is going on? I think I’m going to cross over and get my feel of action :)

Blame it on the blame man. Just dang! From criminals to homewreckers. Black folks can’t catch a break. How about blaming that skank of a wife???

Joe Redd

June 15th, 2012
7:14 am

Marriage is an overated 2000 year old institution designed to raise offspring for the survival of the species, the man and the woman join in on a covenant to ensure that the children are nurtured and raised properly. After the offspring have matured there is no biological reason for the couple to stay together to torment each other. Once the kids are gone the marriage should be nullified which would eliminate a large portion of the cheating….but not all (See the 10 Commandements for instructions). Just think in terms of maintaining civilization.

Joe Redd

June 15th, 2012
8:13 am

Of course the life span back then was about 26 to 32 years of age so a long lasting marriage wasn’t in the biological books.

Tea Party Meber

June 15th, 2012
10:23 am

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