A reader wants advice on how to deal with a budding romance that is headed for the “exclusive” discussion. She has already figured out that she has had a lot of fun with this guy, but she wants out before he suggests things go to the next level. He has already hinted that he wants to figure out “what they are” and put some kind of label on it.
What do you do when you are leaning toward keeping things casual because you are unsure if you want to be with them? Should you stall things out until you are definitely convinced? Would you try to figure out if there is something holding you back?
I know the commitment phobic people like to hang out in that no strings attached phase as long as possible. The reality is, though, that isn’t fair to the person who wants something with the potential to last longer. So, what do you do when it is clearly time for the talk but you are not ready?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta