My friend Isaac has ended another short-lived romance with a young woman recently. This is the second girlfriend he has had in the last year and he believes the problem is with them, not him. Isaac is really set in his ways and starts to feel uneasy when a woman tries to “improve” something or ask him to change.
I believe relationships are about compromise, but do you think it is fair to heap a bunch of unrealistic expectations on someone you date? Isn’t it easier to just go find the person you really want instead of “building” the ideal match from “as-is” material people?
I think asking a man to change can become a deal breaker for a lot of men. If a guy can’t be his true self, his comfort level with a woman drops dramatically. Ladies, would you say that you feel the same way?
Would it bother you if the person you were seeing tried to make you into someone else as part of some fantasy?
What would you do if they ask you to change something small?
By Wise Diva