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Elements of a great date

I remember someone once telling me that his best dates were when he had a corner booth at a cheap restaurant and two hours of conversation. He was not one to go all out with a lot of fanfare, he relied on his charisma to attract women.

I can see how this is possible because if the connection is that strong, the chemistry can be enough to draw you in. Seduction is a powerful tool and often gets left out of a date. If you think about your last great date, what did it involve?

Do you need think a great date is centered around certain things?

Have you been out with someone and it wasn’t going well at first but something turned it around? Maybe it was a spark that began the seduction?

How doe great dates happen?

By Wise Diva

249 comments Add your comment

Purple Reign

March 20th, 2014
7:20 am

Common ground, great conversation, laughter and mutual attraction make for a great date. Can’t say I’ve had one start off bad that ended well.

YesSheIsCute

March 20th, 2014
7:35 am

Good morning. I don’t even want to think about dates right now. I got a certification to study for. I’m in a wretched mood. Bah humbug.

Purple Reign

March 20th, 2014
7:59 am

Want some breakfast?

YesSheIsCute

March 20th, 2014
8:03 am

Purple Reign…maybe that would have helped lol

Button

March 20th, 2014
8:10 am

A great date can be in a parked car as long as there is some kind of chemistry. I’ve had the after date in a parked car sipping on coffee and talking for hours. I don’t think you can plan a great date. great location for the date sure but a great date naw, it has to be natural.

Good morning!

Celisea aka "Triketa from da hood and I stayz ready" hahaha

March 20th, 2014
8:11 am

Nothing abnormal about bad date turned around. I’m all or nearly all have experienced. Those are the great stories!!

Gotta get up and at ‘em. Having my annual eye exam. New glasses? Stick with contacts or both? Decisions decisions.

Tooooodles!!!

Celisea aka "Triketa from da hood and I stayz ready" hahaha

March 20th, 2014
8:11 am

I’m sure all….is what I meant

Lee

March 20th, 2014
8:25 am

Great dates just happen natural , I agree button. Celisea get both glasses n contacts that way you can wear whatever you are in the mood for.

Celisea aka "Triketa from da hood and I stayz ready" hahaha

March 20th, 2014
8:33 am

Lee – That’s what I’m thinking

Button

March 20th, 2014
8:37 am

My last date was last night with dinner and conversation, threw on some funky jams and we be twerking lol. I’s tired now I had too much fun.

YesSheIsCute

March 20th, 2014
8:38 am

I’m glad that you had fun Button :D

Button

March 20th, 2014
8:45 am

Lee – yes great dates happens naturally imho. I’ve been to plenty of great places for a date but something just wasn’t there. The vibe was not there so it was actually a flop. On the flip side I’ve been to the classic dinner & movie date and had a blast. Vibe was on such a high I didn’t want it to end.

Button

March 20th, 2014
8:48 am

Yes – Thanks, I don’t even know how twerking even came in the picture, we went from the cubic chuffle to twerking. lol

2CPTG©

March 20th, 2014
9:12 am

Button….you AND the dude were twerking? :shock:

Purple Reign

March 20th, 2014
9:14 am

2C, I was about to ask the same thing.

Celisea aka "Triketa from da hood and I stayz ready" hahaha

March 20th, 2014
9:15 am

Cupid Shuffle, maybe

disco

March 20th, 2014
9:16 am

Said in a very bleary, groggy, sleepy, wish I were any place else kind of voice – good morning y’all.

Celisea

March 20th, 2014
9:17 am

I just got off the elevator with the ball player. Can you say awkard?

Button

March 20th, 2014
9:17 am

2C – no he wasn’t twerking lol I was twerking well not that good but hey lol I say “we” since it was just us in the room.

Bluzgirl

March 20th, 2014
9:20 am

Seriously?!?! Another crazy busy day?!?! I don’t like this thing called work getting in the way of my play time! I’ll try to check in later!

2CPTG©

March 20th, 2014
9:20 am

Button, what you mean you cain’t twerk that good….didn’t you say you got that “snap-back” booty…..you one ‘o them gals with tools that don’t know how to use ‘em???

Button

March 20th, 2014
9:25 am

2C – I’m trying to be humble lol

Button

March 20th, 2014
9:28 am

Have you been out with someone and it wasn’t going well at first but something turned it around? Yes, a couple of shots of absolute! couple of glasses of dirty martinee, lemon drop. lol

Button

March 20th, 2014
9:31 am

Do you need think a great date is centered around certain things? It’s centered around two people wanting to spend time together and just letting things flow naturally. It’s not about location or number of stars but just the two people involved.

2CPTG©

March 20th, 2014
9:35 am

where’s Fay….I know she’s got something sappy to say about this topic….Fay, where you at, gal….

Button

March 20th, 2014
9:43 am

2C – what’s wrong with being sappy? we need a little diversity in here. Everybody can’t be salty.

2CPTG©

March 20th, 2014
9:45 am

absolutely nothing, Button….in fact, I like ‘em….matta fact, before the shenanigans pop off, tell us one….

disco

March 20th, 2014
9:47 am

Button – I am so not going to touch what is wrong with being sappy. lol.

2CPTG©

March 20th, 2014
9:50 am

disco, first g’morning….

let that gal be happy today….she got her twerk in last night….

Button

March 20th, 2014
9:51 am

2C- 9:31

disco – now here you go lol

Purple Reign

March 20th, 2014
9:52 am

There is nothing wrong with being sappy especially when you are in a comfortable relationship. But some people are incapable of feeling that sappy emotion. There is nothing wrong with that either.

disco

March 20th, 2014
9:52 am

2C / button – y’all the ones jumping. I ain’t said nothing EXCEPT for the fact that I wasn’t going to say nothing. pump y’all’s brakes. lol.

Button

March 20th, 2014
9:53 am

Purple – right now I’m singing purple rain going side to side hands in the air without my lighter lol

Button

March 20th, 2014
9:54 am

disco – say whaaaa lol

Button

March 20th, 2014
9:55 am

I’m in a giggly mood this morning! nothing I mean NOTHING is going to stop my flow

2CPTG©

March 20th, 2014
9:58 am

Purp…now the 64k question…..ya think she got some?

Celisea

March 20th, 2014
9:58 am

I’m in a fantabulous mood. I’m hyped for the weekend. It’s Friday eve!!!

Celisea

March 20th, 2014
9:59 am

Listening to Pandora….I’m reeeally digging Mary Mary. Some tunes I hadn’t heard before now. They’re some bad guuurls. Hope they get back together.

Leggs

March 20th, 2014
10:00 am

Great dates happen with both parties are enjoying themselves. It’s that simple! A lot of fan fare is not necessary, but when two people vibe and you leave each other anticipating the next date, that’s a great date.

Good morning.

Button

March 20th, 2014
10:00 am

I’m HIGH on love!

Purple Reign

March 20th, 2014
10:07 am

2C, she’s either really liking the guy or he put in some good work. I am thinking she is really liking the guy and is looking forward to another date/twerk session. If she had gotten some she would not be so full of energy. lol

Celisea

March 20th, 2014
10:07 am

I remember the cute IT guy use to say “that’s the 65K dollar question”, and I asked him one day, why that amount? He said that was his annual salary…lol Of course that was about 10 years ago. I wonder what he’s doing now? He was amongst those let go, due to layoffs. I was one of only three kept from the entire department….of course I’ve told that before.

I do recall walking to my car and a Tahoe drove up on me, almost cornered me. Scared the beejesus out of me. Tinted windows, sat for about 2 or 3 secs…rolled the window down and IT WAS HIM!! He was working up the street from here. He said “Mizz (insert last name), what’s up guul!!” Ole fine thang.

Purple Reign

March 20th, 2014
10:07 am

disco, you going to get the Zohan movie this weekend?

disco

March 20th, 2014
10:09 am

Purple – you didn’t know? typically a good session drains a man of energy. A good session give a woman an overabundance of energy. Break a chick off right and while you are in their snoring she’ll be scrubbing the floors, cleaning the baseboards, dusting the ceiling fans and baking a cake – all while humming a little diddy.

Sassy Me...juicy fruit ;-)

March 20th, 2014
10:10 am

Mornting blog :mrgreen:

As it’s already been said, a great date can happen anywhere as long as both people are having a good time…some take a lot of planning and sometimes dates go better when they aren’t planned to the “T”…let it flow and be you…

I’m HIGH on love!

~Button—-awww how cute. As soon as I read that I heard, “We be ALL night…..LOOOOVE!!!”

Sassy Me...juicy fruit ;-)

March 20th, 2014
10:11 am

up, over, around and right through….I’m loving it :lol:

Do it!!

disco

March 20th, 2014
10:12 am

purple – I will not lie. I will not go in search of the zohan movie. I will likely never see it unless I happen to be lounging on the couch on a lazy Sunday afternoon and it just happens to be coming on AND nothing better happens to be coming on AND I don’t have anything to read AND I already had a nap so I’m not tired. But who knows? maybe I will see it.

Celisea

March 20th, 2014
10:13 am

Google is cute today….FIRST DAY OF SPRING!!

2CPTG©

March 20th, 2014
10:16 am

disco, ye’en neva lied…you put it down on a gal, and you gon’ wake up to a freshly scented house, music playing, and ham sandwich if you really laid it down!

Coach

March 20th, 2014
10:17 am

Elements of a great date…

1. Chemistry ie good vibrations – There must be some sort of chemistry or attraction either way for a date to be good. Preferably both ways.

2. A fun activity or a nice ambience ie bowling, shooting range, pool, paintball, art gallery etc. I always go for dates where we do something initially as opposed to just food first. Do something fun then food later. Asking questions will let you know what type of activities she enjoys or just guess…

3 No serious topics or pressure questions… Please lay off “where is this going” or any political or religious questions or comments….

4. Spontainety… Dont be afraid to switch it all the way up and do something different or go somewhere different that you two havent planned on or been before.

5. Look your best….Fellas no dusty shoes, No dirty fingernails, No clothes that are in dire need of an iron. Your appearance should be manicured nails, clean and pressed clothes, and well groomed hair (facial included). If you have on dress shoes polish them, if you have on sneakers make sure they are clean and fresh. Go easy on cologne and aftershave.

6. Do not force intimacy… Do not force her to hug you or kiss you or touch you. If she chooses to touch you then thats fine, dont let her touch you too much without pratting her tho…LOL thats a good sign. Let it flow.