I received an email from a reader, Val, who is having a hard time with mixed signals from a guy. She wants to know if there is a way to tell when someone is pursuing you sexually versus pursuing with relationship as the end game. Her dating experience is limited and she said that it is hard to “read between the lines.”
Her email made me think about how people pursue someone they like and the reasons why. If you are only interested in hooking up, do you approach and pursue in the same manner as you would someone who you really want to invest time in?
I just wonder if some folks get more respect and consideration because there is a genuine interest.
What advice would you give Val about how you can tell when someone is pursuing you solely for sex?
By Wise Diva