Atlanta is full of successful, attractive and driven women. Women who run households, businesses, and hold political offices. These are the same women who would scoff at the suggestion that they approach or ask a man out. Why is that? Such go getters in professional life but not their love life.
I believe many of them think they don’t have to approach men. They are so used to getting hit on or approached, they expect to sit and be courted. What happens when they see someone who turns their head and he does not make a move first? Often times they let them go and wonder what could have been.
My guy friends tell me the get approached by women at times but it is rare. They feel flattered when it happens and it usually ends in a date getting scheduled. Why don’t women approach men? Surely in 2014, we don’t think this is a man’s job do we?
Guys when a woman approaches you, are you surprised? Do you usually end up asking for her number and asking her out if she made the first move to introduce herself?
The last time I approached guy I was at the Farmer’s Market. He was too fine to bypass and he had the sexist accent ever. He turned out to be a sweetheart but there was no connection. We still text and hang out but I would still approach a guy that caught my eye!
Do you think it matters who approaches first?
By Wise Diva