I have met people who refuse to go out with anyone without pre-screening them. They don’t do minor social media checks or a simple google search, either. They have major skills in doing background checks which include public record searches, criminal history checks etc.
I figure they just have zero confidence in their judgment and instinct. Of course some things can and should be verified, but some mystery can be sexy! Part of the fun in dating someone new is peeling all the layers to get to the real person. One who hopefully won’t terrify you, of course!
When you meet someone, are you determined to learn a lot about them before investing just a little time? Do you prefer a little mystery until you get a better sense of who they are?
Do you like to be a bit of a mystery to the people you date? Would it bother you if they asked your history and background before you even scheduled a date?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta