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Is love hard to find?

The question that I hear from single people so often: “Why is it so hard to find love?” They want a meaningful relationship but they are not able to meet others who want the same. Many of my male friends say that because sex is so easy to get without love, finding someone to love is harder.

I’m not sure if I agree with that. The people who just want to hook up probably are not interested in relationships at all regardless. I doubt that having access to multiple people is keeping them from finding love. Granted, some single people enjoy playing the field until they feel ready to settle down, but does that become a hinderance?

Do you believe that love is hard to find because sex is so easy to find?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta

277 comments Add your comment

kimmie

February 20th, 2014
11:13 am

The visuall of a pack of chihuahuas terrorizing a city is hillarious!!!

Button

February 20th, 2014
11:23 am

SlimNu – boring and middle of the road love? lol plz do tell.

disco

February 20th, 2014
11:29 am

purple – yep. it’s slow and we’ve discussed love so why don’t you get it cracking. what do you think is the best way to do this? just give your own list or list everyone and rate them on a scale of 1 to 10 for “hit-ability”.

Into the Light

February 20th, 2014
11:36 am

Ooooh, this looks like a fun game. We mean hit hit, right, not blog person you’d most like to hit with a brick??? :lol:

SlimNu

February 20th, 2014
11:38 am

Button – It was after the crazy love…so I think I was making an effort to have something on the other side of the spectrum. I think that was the appeal at first, that ‘feeling of safe & trustworthy’…I just may have went a wee bit too far on opposite ruler. lol

disco

February 20th, 2014
11:38 am

ITL – both actually. it’s a version of “who can hit it” mixed with “who would you like to hit – literally – like with your fist”. lol.

purple????

SlimNu

February 20th, 2014
11:39 am

ITL – You made me wonder if we did do a tally of folks we’d most like to hit with a brick, I wonder who would have the most tallies.

Into the Light

February 20th, 2014
11:40 am

Fun. I’m in. I wish randy would come back :red:

Into the Light

February 20th, 2014
11:43 am

slim, I know who I would vote for. ;)

YesSheIsCute

February 20th, 2014
11:49 am

Are we doing a hit list now?

Single & Happy

February 20th, 2014
11:51 am

I was flipping thru the channels last night and ran cross the show, sex sent me to ER. now that was some crazy love (LOL)

Slim/ITL play nice

Button

February 20th, 2014
11:53 am

SlimNu – gotcha! :lol:

Although I’m not the life of the party and rarely swing from the chandelier I can’t do dull and boring. I can do eccentric, but not dull and boring.

Bluzgirl

February 20th, 2014
11:54 am

I believe ya’ll would know who I would vote for as well…

Button

February 20th, 2014
11:55 am

Single – I watch that show too. Folks do some crazy things smh lol

Single & Happy

February 20th, 2014
11:56 am

Yall so mean, I wouldn’t want to hit anybody with a brick…………………………………………………now we start talking baseball bats, (LOL)

Single & Happy

February 20th, 2014
11:57 am

button, that had a girl on there that got lockjaw, and a guy that fell out of a tree (LOL) and I thought I was into some kinky sh!t (LOL)

Bluzgirl

February 20th, 2014
11:58 am

Actually…a baseball bat may be better for aim……..

Bluzgirl

February 20th, 2014
11:58 am

S/H – That show is crazy! My mom told me about it and was telling me stories, so I had to watch it

Into the Light

February 20th, 2014
12:02 pm

Is anyone going to be brave enough to do a hit hit list?????

Purple Reign

February 20th, 2014
12:02 pm

disco, sorry had to run out.

Hit List (those I want to punch in the face)
Well I won’t hit a woman so I can’t name the name

Hit List (hit on or have sex with, if I were single)
100% hit!
disco
Leggs
Slim

50%
Bluz
ITL

Friend Zone
kimmie
Mrs Sexy Cool
Leggs(yes you made both list)

Into the Light

February 20th, 2014
12:03 pm

Where is Randy? And Swiss? Teehee :oops:

Bluzgirl

February 20th, 2014
12:07 pm

Awwwww Purp…thanks for putting me on the list. You would be on mine also…

Into the Light

February 20th, 2014
12:11 pm

Who’s next?

Single & Happy

February 20th, 2014
12:14 pm

hit list

Err body except…………………………………………….hell I’d hit that too (LOL)

Into the Light

February 20th, 2014
12:18 pm

My top 3 would be Swiss, Randy, and a blogger who no longer blogs.

What is 50%?!?!

Bluzgirl

February 20th, 2014
12:19 pm

Hmmmm…I think Single & Happy and Swiss would be on my list.

Into the Light

February 20th, 2014
12:22 pm

Stamps and Bluz, sitting in a tree. ….

Single & Happy

February 20th, 2014
12:23 pm

ITL I saw what can happen in a tree, oh hell nawl (LOL)

disco

February 20th, 2014
12:26 pm

aww shucks. I blinked and the hit list got started. for starters ex and robert would definitely be OFF the hit list. ex, I like you. I think you are kool and the gang but, as I’ve previously mentioned, you can work a nerve. That’s not a good look. I don’t think robert needs much explanation.

i like single too but I think I’ll put him on the NO list just because it might be too much like incest. lol.

Bluzgirl

February 20th, 2014
12:29 pm

Shaddup ITL! LOL!

Single & Happy

February 20th, 2014
12:31 pm

Disco, you’re on my yes list cause you know what I like (LOL) and I know what you like (LOL) and until the DNA comes back????????

Into the Light

February 20th, 2014
12:32 pm

I’m off to pick up lunch (Carrabas salad… yum!) Back later.

Bluzgirl

February 20th, 2014
12:33 pm

S/H – So…what did you see that can happen in a tree that is bad? I think I missed that…

Single & Happy

February 20th, 2014
12:35 pm

Bluz this couple was having sex in a tree a the guy fell out and cut up his legs, nuts and penis

Bluzgirl

February 20th, 2014
12:36 pm

Ouch!!! Why would anyone attempt to have sex in a tree anyways?

Exiled!

February 20th, 2014
12:38 pm

I’ve previously mentioned, you can work a nerve.

@Disco….I take that as a compliment.

Purple Reign

February 20th, 2014
12:44 pm

50% means I would hit but not put any effort into it. LOL

SlimNu

February 20th, 2014
12:45 pm

Hit list, um….

swiss
Purple
For Real

Hit with a brick list

Single & Happy (lol) jk

But i’ve seen that show and a dude fractured his pen!s…he fell to the floor bleeding. Had to get it split open, to be attended to and had a 6-8wk healing time. But sex in a tree does not sound fun.

SlimNu

February 20th, 2014
12:46 pm

I saw the one with the lock jaw chick….omg that was funny. I’d be too embarrased to go out in public not able to close my mouth. :lol:

Single & Happy

February 20th, 2014
12:46 pm

Single & Happy

February 20th, 2014
12:47 pm

That’s okay slim, I like it ruff!!!

The man formerly know as DAN - still...Superior

February 20th, 2014
12:50 pm

@button, per your 11:53,

5 years into any relationship, and you’ve heard every story, danm near tried everything y’all go try (in whatever room), what do you think happens then?

Bluzgirl

February 20th, 2014
12:53 pm

Can’t play the clip at work…I’ll have to remember to pull it up when I get home

Leggs

February 20th, 2014
12:59 pm

Purple ~ so I’m on the list twice. Well, from yesterday we all know I won’t make 2C’s list.

Leggs

February 20th, 2014
1:07 pm

I definitely love adventure and being freaky, however, not climbing a tree to have sex. That’s asking for a hospital bill. I already know bark anywhere around the nether regions cannot be good.

SlimNu

February 20th, 2014
1:11 pm

Do any of you all have any sex injury stories?

Purple Reign

February 20th, 2014
1:18 pm

Leggs, looks like 2C lost Slim also.

Slim, other than cramps and some bruises no injury stories on my end.

kimmie

February 20th, 2014
1:21 pm

Purple – Why thank you!! Really, it was an honor just to be nominated!!LOL!!

Exiled!

February 20th, 2014
1:22 pm

Do any of you all have any sex injury stories?

@Slim..not sex but close.

Way back when,when i was maybe 6,7,8 years of age i was in the country with my boys,swimming,butt naked in a river. Periodically, when we got tired, we wld chil on the sandy banks of the river,just playing boy games,soccer on the bank etc…..naked ofcourse. Nothing uncommon about that part.

suddenly a bee came outa nowhere and bit me on my young jezzie…it hurt but i did not cry..ofcourse i winced a lot…anybody who has been bit by a bee knows it hurts a lot and it can inflame..my peta did inflame but ofcourse, we kept that among the boys…..

My mind is hazy on some things in my youth because i dont remeber being circumised…I think i was circumsised by a bee because after the pain healed and the inflammation went away..mu peta was spunk as brand new..with a Big head!

kimmie

February 20th, 2014
1:23 pm

I’ve been hit with horrible leg cramps right in the middle of the act a few times!

Sorry I don’t have anything more exciting.

Wouldn’t want to “fabricate” anything! :lol: