We have all done a little flirting before the first date. Apparently some folks have taken that to another level by sending naked pictures, asking for naked pictures or getting dirty with their texts. Doing all this before the first date has even happened is the definition of “doing too much” in dating.
Seriously, you are making a boatload of assumptions by taking it there before you have spent any face time; and NO, I’m not talking to FaceTime on your smartphone! When you first meet someone, you may not be certain you even want to have a second date. Why would sexting someone that soon sound like a good idea?
Maybe I’m old school but if a guy sent me a naked picture before I wanted to see one, you go into the creep category and get that instant renaming in my phone as DON’T ANSWER DUDE.
Have any of you ever had premature sexting? Was it a deal breaker? If you want to be taken seriously, why risk it with a dirty text that is so ill timed?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta