Blog reader dating dilemma! I have been doing this blog 100 years but this is a new one: Ella had decided to get breast reduction surgery long before she met her beaux. When he learned of her plans, he actually told her that he didn’t approve. Never mind the fact that she has back issues and is desperate need of some relief. He believes he, her boyfriend, gets a vote about this. He even implied that her cup size is the primary reason he approached her, which hurt her feelings.
What if the person you were seeing decided to have a nip or tuck, would it bother you? If they altered their appearance and you can’t rock with it, what would you do?
I can agree that relationships are about compromise, I just don’t know if forcing an opinion is all that fair. Should your opinion be a factor in making a decision about something this major when you are in a dating relationship?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta