I used to be ridiculed for having a strong attraction to nerds. I remember one friend telling me that I would probably end up with a boring, predictable man one day. I mean, she said this like it was a bad thing! What is sexier then a reliable, responsible man who I can depend on? That is HOT.
I think some some women are drawn into dating men who bring so much drama and anxiety because they think is some kind of passion. I know one young lady who thinks that arguing and uncertainty is the true sign of an exciting relationship.
My friend Jack was seeing someone who really thrived off conflict. She he told me that he was manufacturing conflict to keep her interested I asked him if he planned to do this forever. The minute he stopped, she probably would move on to the next.
I like excitement in many things, and I even like to be excited by man, I the right way. Do I need excitement in the form of drama and heartache? Not so much.
Do you need excitement in your relationship? Do you believe that someone who is stable and safe is incapable of being passionate?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta