The way dating works can really leave a lot to decipher, which can be tricky. Sometimes people start off in hot pursuit and then it gets less hot. Or perhaps you get all kinds of mixed signals and don’t know what they really want. So is it really best to just come out and ask the question?
I remember asking a guy if he was just looking for a hook up partner or fling. After conversations we had started to show be didn’t want to really get to know me, I needed to be sure. He didn’t like that I asked but he was able to be honest. He wanted a fling with the potential for more. We were not on the same page so I kept it moving. I saved my time and unnecessary energy figuring out his intentions!
If you are not sure of someone’s motives, is it a good idea to inquire about intentions? What if you don’t like what they tell you?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta