The dating scene can get confusing at times. Between mixed messages and crazy rules, it’s a wonder that we make it progress to a relationship. One of the complaints I hear is that when you try to be nice and respectful, you get walked all over. Show a detached attitude or be nonchalant, then you spark their attention more.
So is there really such a thing as being too nice? If you show genuine effort and kindness, do you think people take you for granted?
I believe it has more to do with picking the wrong people to pursue, but how can you tell if they are the type to get turned off by “nice” or kind?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog