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Are you too raunchy for your date?

My friend Chris is new to the city so he has been meeting women in different places. Recently he met “Kelly” at the gym and asked her out. Kelly told him that she wanted to pick the location and so he agreed to pick her up. She gave him turn by turn directions and they ended up at some kind of adult entertainment venue.

Chris is super straight laced and not into that scene at all so he insisted that she pick another activity for them. She obliged but he said that the entire evening she said some really raunchy things.

Now, in Kelly’s defense, when Chris is in his workout gear, you can’t tell that he is conservative. Apparently she didn’t gather that from the few conversations they had before the date either. So know we have two people with extremely different viewpoints on a date. Awkward!

I think if Kelly had saved her raunchy side for later, he could have discovered other things that they had in common. He decided with absolute certainty that there won’t be a second date, though.

Do you ever get turned off when someone you just met gets to raunchy?

Guys, how would you have reacted in this situation?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

187 comments Add your comment

Celisea

January 8th, 2014
3:58 pm

Raqi – Gotcha. I answered him, but yeah, sometimes I believe that’s our little atheist that lurks….you know that person hides out and throw rocks….God hater

Raqi

January 8th, 2014
4:00 pm

Celisea, Mockery is exactly what he likes to do. That’s why I went to find the passage that said not to give what is Holy to one who obviously will not receive it but rather try to make light of it and not see the value of it.

Exiled!

January 8th, 2014
4:00 pm

Raqi..u old school white?

talk to me not around me like u diss me

I got a mouf u know.

I aint got good intentions..?? How u know..come down a tad from that high horse.

Celisea

January 8th, 2014
4:01 pm

Mmm hmmm, he’s talking a mile a minute and pretending he don’t see us….lololol

I’m gone back to work…lololol

Boy, I shole wouldn’t wanna be THAT coward.

Celisea

January 8th, 2014
4:02 pm

Raqi – I definitely agree with your 4:00…what he fails to realize while he’s being funny is that he’ll give an account for everything he’s ever heard. Shole won’t be funny on that day.

Exiled!

January 8th, 2014
4:02 pm

If u ask me why I asked Celisea like I did I wld tell u…

DFlont talk like u own the bible or ur interpretation is the only good interpretation

Sassy Me

January 8th, 2014
4:02 pm

The strip joint is NOT fun, folks, it’s just plain sad, pathetic really: you spend all your money, leave alone, having not been all that entertained by dancers that are only there for the money

Well…umm…err..ahh, I’ve been to a few and had a blast!! Would I go again?…yeah I would, in a heartbeat. And yes I’ve been to some ritzy ones and some holes in the wall and had an equally good time. I make my party where ever I go, whether I’m solo or with some of my girlfriends.

Haven’t been with my man, but not because I didn’t ask…he said skrip clubs weren’t his thing so I left it alone.

Celisea

January 8th, 2014
4:02 pm

I’m so over the broken english as well….really?

Exiled!

January 8th, 2014
4:03 pm

It’s the IPhone lol

kimmie

January 8th, 2014
4:04 pm

Exiled – No doubt, I agree. I know what went down with UGA, having gone there and having friends that were athletes. But it’s obvious from what you see in the news all the time, it’s an ongoing practice. These poor kids are still being pimped by the schools. Especially those from already unfortunate backgrounds, this is a way out without having to resort to a life of crime. The whole family leans on them for money, as well as the baby mama’s on the prowl.

I’m proud of some of the guys I went to school with. A few that I knew that went pro still got their degrees. They had something to fall back on when they retired. And those that didn’t go pro took full advantage of the free education and contacts they made.

I know those are isolated cases tho.

MsAtl

January 8th, 2014
4:04 pm

Exiled- Yes, I am saying that there was a noticeable difference in stamina, rigidity, and performance. The 40- something was lacking in comparison.

Raqi

January 8th, 2014
4:05 pm

Purposely broken English at that. I know people that have been here a short 4-5 years and have grasped this language so I don’t buy from anyone, him or others I encounter, that claim ignorance to this language and grammar and have been here a decade or more.

Exiled!

January 8th, 2014
4:06 pm

Enter your comments here

Celisea

January 8th, 2014
4:06 pm

Thanks Raqi…..come around more often :)

I’m bout to call it a day, I’m been working like a slave

Night folks!

Celisea

January 8th, 2014
4:07 pm

Purposely broken English at that

Yep!

Toodles

Exiled!

January 8th, 2014
4:08 pm

@MsAtl! There u go..

Rigidity! :lol:

Exiled!

January 8th, 2014
4:09 pm

Toodles..@Celisea

DuShawn

January 8th, 2014
4:10 pm

“you spend all your money, leave alone, having not been all that entertained” There’s some truth to that. Then again it depends on who you are. Strips joints played out for me many years ago. I prefer to turn my bedroom into a strip joint (preferably with multiple dancers), but back in the day when we did it, things were different. We were kinda known for getting bread. We would shoot the house man a hundred, after a few dances and drinks, we’d holla at our regulars, they’d go in the back and change, come back out dressed with their little rolling suitcases and head straight to the whip. I was in Strokers several months back and was so ready to go. I couldn’t stop complaining, I’m like “Baby, do you have to dance so close to my face, could you back up a few feet….No, I do not want a lap dance….pleas don’t sit on me….Stop huggin me! putting that glitter azz lotion all on my shirt…..got me smelling like perfume…..man let’s dip.”

kimmie

January 8th, 2014
4:10 pm

Sassy – I was more entertained by my crazy, tipsy friends than the strippers! LOL!!

Button

January 8th, 2014
4:13 pm

IMO – Older men and their stamina depends on his health. If he’s unhealthy with ailments then his stamina most likely will be low. If he’s into drugs/alcohol/cigs eat unhealthy or stressed/depressed then his stamina maybe lower than the average man.

Single & Happy

January 8th, 2014
4:14 pm

Kimmie those are not isolated cases, there just no reason for the media to report about them. The big time sports (basketball and Football) get all the attention because most colleges depend on one of them to sponsor all the other sports. And of course when they bring this up they always show the “underprivileged” ones.

kimmie

January 8th, 2014
4:16 pm

there just no reason for the media to report about them.

Single – You are right. They want to concentrate on the dirt anyway.

kimmie

January 8th, 2014
4:17 pm

I’m outta here gang.

It’s been fun.

Be easy!

Sassy Me

January 8th, 2014
4:18 pm

~kimmie- for me it was both. As I’ve said, I will make my party and have a good time regardless but the right group of people will make it pop for sure.

Some of the strippers I’ve seen had me trying some of that isht at home…Mr. Bermuda liked it…hell he made it rain a couple of times..lol

Sometimes we be all night…woke up in the kitchen saying, “How the hell did this isht happen….aww baby Drunk In Loooooove ;-)

I feel like I need a stage when I hear that song..

Exiled!

January 8th, 2014
4:18 pm

@Kimmie..this is big news today..college athletes dummies.

tune in when u get home.

Single & Happy

January 8th, 2014
4:20 pm

ex, if you make sure your athletic child gets their education early instead of making sure they make to practice and play a sport there would be no reason for them to have to go to summer school. It starts at the middle school and high school level, by the time they get to college, it’s too late.

Leggs

January 8th, 2014
4:23 pm

WOW, what did I just walk into. Some really good points.

Walking back out because class is about to start.

Remember When writing the story of your life, don’t let anyone hold the pen.” – MissMoni

Enjoy your evening!

SlimNu

January 8th, 2014
4:23 pm

Dus – your 4:10 is pretty much how it goes. lol Don’t forget about the chicks that try to give you dances in the middle of a song but then want the full amount. GTFOH lol

Single & Happy

January 8th, 2014
4:25 pm

.this is big news today..college athletes dummies. this isn’t a new story. (Dexter Manley) that’s the way it always have been, but then people want to blame the colleges. Where you only spend 3 to 5 years. What about the other 13 where you were supposed to learn this? you never hear them talking about the Elementary, Middle, or High Schools that got them there.

DuShawn

January 8th, 2014
4:28 pm

Slim – I have been to some smaller spots where when the chick gets off stage, she comes to each dude individually and asks ” Would you like to contribute to my dance” (verbatim….they must’ve discussed this in orientation). I’d be like, “Naw baby, I wasn’t even watchin you……I was looking at the game.”

SlimNu

January 8th, 2014
4:30 pm

That’s ice cold, Dushawn lolol

Exiled!

January 8th, 2014
4:39 pm

Single..I think u right..u right

If my son ever plays at middle,I’m gon give it a hawks eye

The schools and colleges won’t do none for him/kids

Thing is,the poor families that are struggling may not know some of the white washing and deception that goes on.

Part of it is real fraud

Exiled!

January 8th, 2014
4:42 pm

DuShawn/Slim

@4:28

Does anybody vacuum and fumigate this spot after we gone?

Diva?

Lol

Single & Happy

January 8th, 2014
4:45 pm

Ex they know, they usually are part of it. They are looking at them as their come up!

SlimNu

January 8th, 2014
4:55 pm

Enjoy your evening folks…

MsAtl

January 8th, 2014
5:02 pm

Good night All!

Honeyamber1

January 8th, 2014
9:15 pm

I miss Bluzgirl and Light.