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Dating: Tease or mixed message?

It’s the start of a new year and some singles are already experiencing a dating dilemma! We have a young man, David (27) who met a woman at a Halloween party. They have gone out a couple times and over the Christmas holiday, he invited her over to his house. Now, David figured she felt comfortable with him so he made his move. She turned him down, yet her behavior turned more playful and teasing.

Fast forward to New Year’s Eve and they made plans to see one another. The whole night she flirts and sends him racy text messages. He waits for her to give the green light and nothing. Then she comes over to his place and they just crash.

David said that he wants to be a gentleman but he believes that he is getting mixed messages from her. He also wonders if this the behavior of women who just tease men for kicks?

Have you ever dated someone who led you on but didn’t really make any move towards anything?

Have you ever been called a tease? What do you think is teasing behavior?

177 comments Add your comment

Exiled!

January 6th, 2014
3:12 pm

To ‘deal’ is to pound it again..and again..adnausesm?

@Celisea.

Leggs

January 6th, 2014
3:13 pm

Ex ~ guess you haven’t been reading Reio and this storyline because yu’ll be able to answer that question (lol).

Reio

January 6th, 2014
3:14 pm

The big reason that I’m ashamed of myself is because, while driving back home, I had managed to convince myself that if she called me later that day, to either apologize, or, to entice me to come back over, I suspect that I would have. Since we were so close to doing it anyway. I essentially summed it up in my mind(probably unfairly to myself) like this; The only reason that we didn’t do anything is because I walked away AND she failed to follow up with me with an apology or an open invitation to look her up anytime I wanted to. It’ the “AND” part that bothers me to this day.

Leggs

January 6th, 2014
3:15 pm

Polls will stay open for one week.

Vote for as many as you like in as many categories as you like. The blogger with the most votes will be declared the winner. Send your votes to Sharmynk@yahoo.com

Best Posts
Best comebacks
Most creative
Most serious
Most Beloved
Most Analytical
Most “Huh” moments
Best Moniker
Worst Moniker
Most wittiest
Best Recap
Most Combative
Most loved for their understanding of life
Most don’t care what they say
Most Intellectual
Knows everything google doesn’t know
Most corniest
Most realist
Most horniest
Most likely to live up to their blog persona
Most clueless
Most chattiest
Most friendliest
Longevity
Most Popular
Most Bitter
Most Antagonistic
Most hard headed
Most use of slang/way with words

Voting will close Tuesday, January 14th.

Leggs

January 6th, 2014
3:16 pm

Reio ~ that’s what a lot of men do who are having affairs, that AND and how they justify things in their own mind. I’m glad to hear that although your AND was a stupid one to jump on, I’m glad you didn’t AND, I’m glad you feel bad for even thinking it.

2CPTG©

January 6th, 2014
3:17 pm

the majority of those categories are no-brainers….

Sassy Me

January 6th, 2014
3:17 pm

I was so shocked and taken aback by what she did, that I don’t see how I could have done anything, even if I tried, at that moment.

Sometimes that power move(it doesn’t have to be getting nekkid, but any “power move”), will backfire and have the opposite effect from what was intended.

DuShawn

January 6th, 2014
3:19 pm

A man too is hurt when he whips it out …….. I disagree. Our journey to manhood has equipped us with rejection protection. Most men are immune to it because it has happened so often throughout the years. Admittedly, I have whipped it out as a last resort (only after knowing the chick well enough that she would not be offended). My thought process being, if I could just get her to look at it and touch it, I got her. If it didn’t work, I wasn’t hurt or embarrassed; I was content knowing I gave it my all. I left it all on the field. Her defense was just too much.

Celisea

January 6th, 2014
3:20 pm

MMeello, to deal? Pound and pound? Naw, to deal as in legitimately date and interact….or at least pretend to. Not shuffle her to the end of rotation.

Celisea

January 6th, 2014
3:22 pm

I think the superlatives are hilarious, hiiiilarious. Immature, rather. Some are real categories, some are catty. Also, for categories added, I think there should be a general consensus for adding, not one person adding categories all willy nilly

Reio

January 6th, 2014
3:24 pm

Leggs – Ya know, I’on know bout this poll, personally. 2013 had me out for a bit(surgery), and over the years, I’ve had to be away for long stretches, so there are some people that stop by from time that I’m not too familiar with. And seems like one or two that I kinda vaguely remember from years ago, but didn’t get to read much in 2013. So, is this vote for 2013 or all time? Just wondering.

Celisea

January 6th, 2014
3:28 pm

Frankly the poll seems mean spirited with a hint of “ha ha ha” tossed in. Years ago, it was fun….most funny/witty, one with best comeback lines, most loved/adored, most realist, most popular etc etc etc, so forth and so on…. Stuff like most combative, antagonist, bitter, airhead?? When then did those get added and by whom? Why would a person add such categories if it’s suppose to be all in fun. If that’s the case, add most…..never mind. It’s gon sting, so Imma hold back.

Leggs

January 6th, 2014
3:29 pm

Reio ~ vote for those you’re comfortable with from your time here in Blogsville.

These are the same categories that’s been used each time the Blog awards were put out. If you thought them catty or immature then, I don’t recall you saying anything. Not sure if you’re talking about me adding categories but let me assure you I didn’t. Nothing is willy nilly, it was suggested and I put the category in. If you have a category, feel free to let me know and I’ll include it too.

Celisea

January 6th, 2014
3:29 pm

Alright, y’all have a fantab. I was eating lunch and decided to pop back in. I’m gone back to work. Got a pretty sizable project from December I haven’t finished.

SMH

Leggs

January 6th, 2014
3:31 pm

Celisea ~ those posts have always been there as far as I know. The only change from the original I had is the last two categories. I’m not trying to be mean spirited in the least….same o categories.

DuShawn

January 6th, 2014
3:34 pm

Frankly the poll seems mean spirited with a hint of “ha ha ha” tossed in……… “Most Combative”

Leggs

January 6th, 2014
3:34 pm

And, if anyone wants the results from the last blog awards I’ll be happy to share those. Same old categories.

Celisea

January 6th, 2014
3:35 pm

Dushawn – Dang skippy….I wear it with a badge of honor. Who gone check me?? :mrgreen:

I mean really dude?

Reio

January 6th, 2014
3:35 pm

Well, it seems like Leggs made this poll up. I assume out of her desire to contribute to this blog, to inject a bit of fun and frivolity, and maybe give each of us somewhat of a sense of how we may be perceived by others. While she understands full well that no one here could give a flying flip what others think of them, it would be interesting to see how the voting goes, and, perhaps even spark some debate among ourselves. I applaud her in this effort, to say the least.

Leggs

January 6th, 2014
3:36 pm

It’s gon sting, so Imma hold back. – that might be wise.

Celisea

January 6th, 2014
3:36 pm

The blogger that uses the most monikers, the biggest fraud, most fake

I’m gone….dead….LOLOLOL

DuShawn

January 6th, 2014
3:37 pm

Dayum I thought you left…..Go work on your project. You’re above this foolishness.

Leggs

January 6th, 2014
3:38 pm

Reio ~ sorry, I did not make this poll up. I inherited it. I would come up with different categories at this point. But, thank you.

Seems like this is going left, which wasn’t my intent so let’s forget about it!

Amazing because 3 or 4 years ago everyone thought this was a blast.

Sassy Me

January 6th, 2014
3:42 pm

it seems like Leggs made this poll up.

I beg to differ…I keenly remember the blog awards and Leggs didn’t make it up. Upon inception, the categories were thought of/contributed/ by the blog as a consensus.

Sassy Me

January 6th, 2014
3:45 pm

:lol: @ Du…

Amazing because 3 or 4 years ago everyone thought this was a blast.

Precisely….for this to be just a blog(as it’s repeatedly pointed out), it seems as though some feelings are attached…and that’s the antithesis of what’s intended. IJS…

Leggs

January 6th, 2014
3:46 pm

Thank you SassyMe. You’re right, just about everyone contributed to the categories they wanted included. Each of those categories represented a person or persons on the blog back them.

E.g, “worst moniker” went to “SimpleMan.” Last time blog awards were done was in 2010.

Reio

January 6th, 2014
3:47 pm

Celisea – “….Go work on your project. You’re above this foolishness.”

Yeah. Ya azz probably didn’t have anything for lunch but 8 Ritz crackers, a small can of Sour Cream-N-Onion Pringles, and an old moldy tangerine anyway. So, go. Git.

SlimNu

January 6th, 2014
3:48 pm

Oh lawd, how many times do we have to hear that.

Leggs

January 6th, 2014
3:48 pm

Another difference in the blog then and now is all those categories that are needed catty, mean spirited is representative of how the blog was then. Lots of fights, disagreements, people being cussed out left and right. In all that, we still found time to laugh and not take it all so personal.

It was our blog roast. I guess not anymore….

Reio

January 6th, 2014
3:49 pm

Well, I don’t remember any of them. But that’s ok. I assumed Leggs started it.

Leggs

January 6th, 2014
3:53 pm

Reio ~ now you know Blogsville is the worst place to make “assumptions.”

Durty Burd

January 6th, 2014
3:56 pm

GlammourGirl….I had a great time during the holiday season! Stayed in the Atl and partied and ate way too much… :smile:

I vote most hardheaded and most combative for no reason at all…. Celisea…Please make your acceptance speech! hehehehehehe!

Exiled….I plan on going to Toronto this year as well….

Sassy Me

January 6th, 2014
3:59 pm

Hi-la-ri-ous!!!!!

Okay gotta go…really wish I didn’t..especially not right now but anyhoo…

Yes I’m gone for real…and no I won’t post 8 comments in the next 3 minutes either :mrgreen:

Loving this New Year!!!!!!

2CPTG©

January 6th, 2014
4:08 pm

Leggs, post the old results……

Exiled!

January 6th, 2014
4:23 pm

:lol: Too funny!

You know what though,when the blog was started,we were younger. Now,we are older so the blog awards foolishness may not be as appreciated as much.
The older we grow,the more accustomed to our ways we become.

And older folks are not as flexible…figuratively and literally!

Too bad though because as the ladies get into their 40s they become the h0rniest!

God did not engineer this right! ::lol:

SlimNu

January 6th, 2014
4:24 pm

SassyMe – You are sooo right….we had fun coming up with all the categories for the blog awards. Folks can’t do anything anymore, or so it seems, without some negative connotation being thrown out there.

SlimNu

January 6th, 2014
4:25 pm

Ex – I’m not sure age has much to do with having a good time on a blog. Maybe we need to go up in size as far as panties go…that way they won’t get in a bunch as easily. :lol:

Come on 5:00

Celisea

January 6th, 2014
4:33 pm

Mmeelloo’s post, definitely!! IMO, we’ve grown too old to about shenanigans. It’s a turn off reading someone that continues day in and out to try and steer the conversation towards sex. Grow up, get booed, something, settle down into that next phase of life….something

For folks still partaking in the go alone go get alone gang, is just said. Can’t comment but “got each other’s back” and come out the woodwork for drama. If that ain’t childishness. Grow up please (is all the energy Imma give folks that’s now posting…Sassy, Slim). Chile please, I’m grown and ain’t bout to be censored. Miss me with “our gang” stuff.

It’s a blog, let’s blog and keep this thing alive. Don’t nobody new wanna come here with 30 and 40 something folks, still acting like hs bffs. IJS

Celisea

January 6th, 2014
4:34 pm

just sad…not just said…

Like I said, Imma say what I have to say….until and unless I’m banned and that better be for me violating something, not cause I’on agree with the elementary stuff that happens.

Otherwise…….

Celisea

January 6th, 2014
4:35 pm

Leggs

January 6th, 2014
4:37 pm

Damnit, almost finished with the freaking list and had computer hiccup. I will post all names that were nominated in each category…this may be long

Best Posts -kimmie, 2C (2 votes), Rell, DreamsM, PurpleRain, Raqi, Swiss, Leggs, Tazzee

Best comebacks – Kiym, Celisea, PurpleRain, Ex(Melo), Leggs, SexyCool

Most creative – SexyCool (2), Purple Rain, ForReal (3), Raqi, Slim (2)

Most serious – Dan, abc (3), kimmie, Trevor0529, Dreams,

Most Beloved – Tazzee (2), Leggs (4), PurpleRain (2), swiss

Most Analytical – abc, Dan (2), Trevor0529, Professor, M, NY2GA, DreamsM

Most “Huh” moments – I am (4), Beautiful (2), PurpleRain, Ex(Melo), WillieD, SexyCool, BlackMagic, Tazee, Trevor0529, Dreams, ARed, WillieD

Best Moniker – Left Empty

Worst Moniker – SimpleMan (2), WhiteMan (3) Lord Velonese

Most wittiest – ForReal (4), Slim (3)

Best Recap – ForReal (6)

Most Combative – ARed, Celisea, Kym, Sassy

Most loved for their understanding of life – Raqi (4), abc, 2C

Most don’t care what they say – ARed, Celisea (2), 2C, M.dot, Ex(Melo)

Most Intellectual – abc, Dan, Trevor, Dreams, 2C, Randy, Dreams

Knows everything google doesn’t know – swiss (6), Dan (5), Trevor (3)

Most corniest – Leggs (2), Raqi, swiss, simpleman, melo, I am

Most realist – Tazzee, swiss, kym, sexycool, rell, raqi, blue, 2c

Most horniest – Ex(Melo) (6), swiss (5)

Most likely to live up to their blog persona – Tazzee, Leggs, SexyCool, abc, SimpleMan, 2C

Most clueless – I am (7), Beautiful (2), Bluzgirl (wow didn’t realize she was on back then)

Most chattiest – I am (3), 2C, Celisea (3)

Most friendliest – SexyCool, Leggs (2), Slim (2), 2C, Rell, BlackFoote, PrincessNik

Longevity – SexyCool (4), Leggs, PoppaGrande, Raqi, rell, Blue

Most Popular -2C (2), InfamousDk, Leggs, Blue, Simple, Raqi, Rell, Celisea

Most Bitter – M.dot (only name in this category)

Most Antagonistic -Ex(Melo). Again only name in this category

Most hard headed

Most use of slang/way with words

2CPTG©

January 6th, 2014
4:37 pm

Glammour Gal, gotcha FSU gear on? I’m about to bolt this joint, and start the Championship festivities!!!!!

Leggs

January 6th, 2014
4:37 pm

Leggs

January 6th, 2014
4:38 pm

Damn just thought of this, I should have just put that in spreadsheet and attached link. Had to go old school.

SlimNu

January 6th, 2014
4:41 pm

One day you’ll realize that you killed the blog.

2CPTG©

January 6th, 2014
4:43 pm

Slim……noone can kill the blog….trust, so don’t waste your breaf……but ummm, how are the new years resolutions coming…..I still have openings for therapy sessions…

Leggs

January 6th, 2014
4:44 pm

WillieD, SexyCool, BlackMagic, Tazee, Trevor0529, Dreams, ARed, WillieD

Best Moniker – Left Empty – sorry, should have said “WillieD (2), SexyCool, BlackMagic, Tazee, Trevor0529, Dreams, ARed,

Mrs. SexyCool

January 6th, 2014
4:44 pm

Nice? Who me? (lol) I’m tickled…

Celisea

January 6th, 2014
4:45 pm

Naw, boo….one day YOU will realize the same dumbot tryna come for me under a gazillion names and attempts to embarrass, run off, shut down (cause that’s what the blog was know for..bullying folks), didn’t work on me as it did for other folks run off, is what shut this mug down. Rather than letting it go. Yeah, I’m relentless like that. Never been scared of bullies.

Sorry can’t own that. And the thing is, Old Mr. Coward knows it. He’s never attached under his real name. Cause he a super fantabulous stand up guy.

But yeah, you opened that can of worms.

Adam

January 6th, 2014
4:45 pm

I am a firm believer in Doing to others what they do to me as long as they strike first then I am justified. (I am nice and civil till said person throws that out the window). With that being said, for David, when she IS ready, he should do some teasing of his own or shoot her down a down at least once, it is only fair.