You know that saying, “The only way to give over someone is to get under another someone” has always bothered me. Well, until I found myself faced with wanting to check out of heartbreak hotel. In retrospect, I am not fully convinced that this is a suitable strategy.
Is using sex as a distraction from your ex ever a good idea? Do you tell the person that you are using them as a virtual palate cleanser?
I remember hearing a guy tell his friends that he stopped using that get under another rule when he ended up in a rebound relationship that he never really wanted. He felt guilt over using her so he stuck around too long and she started to catch feelings for him. All the while, he hadn’t completely got over the previous girlfriend. What a mess! Has this ever happened to you?
Happy New Year!!
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog