Whenever you see people from your past, it’s like unlocking some type of mental time capsule. You start to remember things you said or did and the choices you made back then. My Granny used to always say, “Let sleeping dogs lie” and I used to wonder if this applied to our exes. Have you ever felt the need to go look up your first love?
My friend Lisa wants to find the guy she first loved but there is one problem, she is in a serious relationship and her ex is newly married. Doesn’t really seem like the best timing to reunite with someone but she feels the need for some kind of closure.
Do you think contacting someone you used to know is a good idea? If there is no real intent for anything romantic to happen, should you go look up your ex?
What would you do if the person you were in a relationship with told you they made plans to have lunch or dinner with someone they used to date/love/see naked on occasion?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog