I received an email from a reader who wanted to get some feedback from the Misadventures in Atlanta blog community. Rayna is a 26 year old woman who is dating Keith, a 31 year old. They have been involved for a year now but he is just now telling her something that is bothering him: her collection of bedroom toys is too much.
Now Rayna has been a toy enthusiast long before she met Keith. She said that when she was single for a long time, it became a necessary tool. Keith feels that now that he is in the picture, she should have no need for the collection, especially one as big as hers (No pun intended, really).
So dear readers, I post this question to you: Are toys necessary in a committed relationship? Does Keith have a right to request disposal of Rayna’s collection?
Would it bother you if your partner had toys but did not really use them when you were together?
I know the topic is adult-themed, but let’s keep it PG as possible, please and thank you.
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta