I have been
arguing debating with my friend Jeff about whether or not bars and clubs are good places to pick up women. Jeff is a little high strung (sorry bud, it’s true!) so of course he scoffs at the idea of meeting quality women at bars. I, on the other hand, have met the most raging, offensive jerks at networking events and ummm church. So I don’t believe that bars are all that bad if you want to meet someone nice.
The last time I was at a Happy Hour I met a really great guy. I was out celebrating a promotion, not even really looking to meet anyone at all. Then a guy that was next to me struck up a conversation and it was instant sparks – totally unexpected.
When we went on our first date, he actually said, “I did not expect to meet someone of your caliber at a bar!”. Just goes to show you that we have to drop some of our old ways of thinking. There are very few places you can’t meet someone nice. I mean, other then funerals and family reunions, what place is not a good location to meet someone cool!?
Have you had good experiences meeting someone at a club or a bar? Would you be open to meeting someone there if your prior experiences were negative?
I am curious, where is the strangest place you met and flirted with someone?
I would have to say, Interstate 285. That’s right, living in a city that has bumper to bumper traffic can be a blessing and a curse!
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta