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Should size really matter?

Some women get tagged with the title Size Queen because they have certain preferences in how large a man’s “package” has to be. They believe that this is the only way to guarantee pleasure so they kind of discriminate those who don’t meet the size requirements. Is that really fair, though?

I have debated with friends about this before because I understand how important it is for men and their pride when it comes to a man’s “big ego.” Some men are insecure about their size and they try to compensate for it in other ways. Other men are oblivious or in denial about it. Whatever the case, when you are with a partner you care about, you find a way to empathetic and sensitive to them.

It’s rather silly to break up with a guy because of his size, but I know a lot of women who do it.

Do you think size really matters? Aren’t there ways to work around it?

How do you adjust and adapt so that this is not a real deal breaker?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta

190 comments Add your comment

Lee

November 21st, 2013
7:19 am

WoW
So, do these Queen Size ladies have the guy’s come for a visual audition ??? Let me know I can be a great judge, all these years of experience will be put to good use.

People like what they like, but always remember, beauty and health do not last forever, emotional love will last a life time and physical love only last minutes..

Todays my Friday :)

Button

November 21st, 2013
8:26 am

Are these size queen ladies queen size down there? I would think you have to be large down there to accept something large going in.

Do you think size really matters? it souldn’t esp when you’re in love. When you’re in love everything feels perfect.

Good morning!

YesSheIsCute

November 21st, 2013
8:28 am

I’ve never had a big one so I couldn’t tell you.

Good morning btw

The Man formerly known as "Dan"

November 21st, 2013
8:49 am

SlimNu

November 21st, 2013
8:56 am

Whew, this ought to make for an interesting conversation today…

2CPTG©

November 21st, 2013
9:20 am

this topic tho!!!!!

what dude gon admit he’s got a small member? Really?

2CPTG©

November 21st, 2013
9:28 am

which of you ladies have had the pleasure, or “non” pleasure, of dealing with a dude with a small wang? a Big one?

MsAtl

November 21st, 2013
9:29 am

Morning All!

Wow at this topic. I just had this conversation a couple of days ago when someone suggested that men should have their size displayed among the other tats on their body. Another female said that she tries to gauge the size but knows men who have layered their bottoms or added stuffing to appear larger. Lol. I would imagine that if you love someone, that is one of the things that you compromise on.

YSIC- You poor dear, lol.

kimmie

November 21st, 2013
9:38 am

Morning All!

It’s a personal preference thing. People break up with folks for different reasons, so if you don’t want to be with that person, no reason is silly.

I really don’t have anything else to say on this, so I’ll keep watch and come back when the topic changes.

Diva, I know it’s probably tough coming up with topics, but really?

SlimNu

November 21st, 2013
9:42 am

2C – I’m not ashamed to admit i’ve experience both. Short and fat was not where it was at….not much leverage or maneuvering room with that…Um, big one: the first time I saw it I actually asked him what he planned on doing with that. It took a few attempts at different times before any real action could go down. (Was with him about 3yrs)

Button

November 21st, 2013
9:45 am

2C- dudes know that he has a small package. Don’t yall measure it? there’s a website dedicated to the small men also one for the large one. Yep I checked them all out :shy:

Leggs

November 21st, 2013
9:45 am

This is definitely going to be interesting. Will probably go left real quick.

Size shouldn’t matter, but it does. I’ve had big, I’ve had pencil thin ones, I’ve had short stubby ones. All that matters is you know how to use whatever your size is. If he can get her sugar walls to contract to that special O, that’s all that matters.

If they have to work and struggle each time, the relationship probably want go much further.

O/T: I played 371 (address to my favorite dance spot in The Bronx) and 271 fell. For some reason that spot popped in my head driving home.

Good morning.

2CPTG©

November 21st, 2013
9:47 am

It took a few attempts at different times before any real action could go down. (Was with him about 3yrs)

so he’s to blame for the world reknown, infamous, CT?

2CPTG©

November 21st, 2013
9:54 am

and no Button, we don’t measure them….at least I don’t….

Methinks, I’m good!

SlimNu

November 21st, 2013
9:58 am

2C – the “Infamous CT” is just a blog myth sort of like Big Foot or the Lochness Monster. Folks have spoken about it but never really seen it. lol

YesSheIsCute

November 21st, 2013
10:01 am

But Leggs I’ll tell you depending on the woman sometimes an O is hard to come by. Sometimes, I wonder if it has anything to do with the fact that I haven’t had the pleasure (pun intended :lol: ) of encountering a big one. I couldn’t tell you. Once I do then I can say whether size matters or not. I wouldn’t be able to judge if a soprano was better than an alto if I’ve never heard a soprano sing.

YesSheIsCute

November 21st, 2013
10:01 am

What’s CT?

Button

November 21st, 2013
10:10 am

2C- somehow I find that hard to believe.

Button

November 21st, 2013
10:12 am

Yes – are you saying that you’ve never had an O? matter of fact you don’t need penetration to achieve an O.

kimmie

November 21st, 2013
10:12 am

I think what affends me most about this topic, is the idea that a woman should be willing to sacrifice her own pleasure and “work with” a dude that doesn’t bring it. Cause even though he might be well endowed, it still doesn’t mean he knows what to do. But naw, we are supposed to find a work around and not break up with him over something so “silly”. But if the roles were reversed, it would be perfectly acceptable for a dude to break up with a woman. After all, he’s got needs, right? But we should just be happy somebody paid attention and wanted to sleep with us, right?

Get out of here with that!

Sassy Me ;-)

November 21st, 2013
10:12 am

Another female said that she tries to gauge the size but knows men who have layered their bottoms or added stuffing to appear larger.

:shock: Nooooo…see that goes back to something one of my girlfriends told me,”D!$& is like a box of chocolates….you never know what you’re gonna get”. Unfortunately that’s true. I’ve been the “victim” of a small weenie and afterward I felt like, “I could’ve had a V-8″…rather than go through that isht. Thankfully that was a very long time ago. I haven’t had that displeasure since…”Gonzo” is one of my good friends.

the first time I saw it I actually asked him what he planned on doing with that.

Whew…reminds me of my boy toy(as I gaze off with glossy eyes in remembrance)…

Size shouldn’t matter but it does,however, it’s not the end all be all. Depending on the relationship the other partner may be willing to compromise..especially if the feelings are deep. Plus there are other ways to please a person besides having a big hammer.

2CPTG©

November 21st, 2013
10:12 am

but Slim……does it exist?

kimmie

November 21st, 2013
10:13 am

Correction, Offend not Affend!

Exiled

November 21st, 2013
10:15 am

(Was with him about 3yrs)

@Slim..sure turned up helluva good,didnt it! :lol:

SlimNu

November 21st, 2013
10:15 am

Yes – Camel Toe lolol

SlimNu

November 21st, 2013
10:16 am

Ex – Only you would think thats what kept us together….we really learned a lot about mentally stimulated each other. That was one of my deepest relationships ever. He’s married now

Exiled

November 21st, 2013
10:16 am

I think what affends me most about this topic,

@Kimmie..why u gotta be offended?..Diva thinks its silly..u dont…difference of opinion.

We cant all be the same can we…..?

Leggs

November 21st, 2013
10:17 am

“so he’s to blame for the world reknown, infamous, CT?” Too funny, I would think they way you guys talk about that renowned CT you would want to commend him, not blame him (lol).

YSIC ~ no doubt the O is hard to come by for a lot of women, but I don’t think you need a “big ego” to accomplish it. I will say this, the pencil ones I had (2) didn’t hit on much of anything.

I would sit and talk with this guy who referenced he had a “big ego” on more than one occasion. To his credit, he did his best to make it sound like he was talking about an extension of the “id, ego and super ego.” I acted like I had no idea what he was saying. I may be older, but I ain’t stupid (lol). I always find it comical when one thinks I don’t know the latest slang.

Leggs

November 21st, 2013
10:17 am

but Slim……does it exist?

This made me think of the M&M commercial when they walk in on Santa Claus.

YesSheIsCute

November 21st, 2013
10:21 am

@SlimNu I am so lost on the Camel Toe thing. I’m thinking it was a “had to be there” inside joke.

@Button Sure I’ve had an O before. Different kinds. I haven’t dated a man with a big “appendage”. Is what I was saying.

Sassy Me

November 21st, 2013
10:22 am

Another female said that she tries to gauge the size but knows men who have layered their bottoms or added stuffing to appear larger.

Nooooo…see that goes back to something one of my girlfriends told me,”D!$& is like a box of chocolates….you never know what you’re gonna get”. Unfortunately that’s true. I’ve been the “victim” of a small weenie and afterward I felt like, “I could’ve had a V-8″…rather than go through that isht. Thankfully that was a very long time ago. I haven’t had that displeasure since… ”Gonzo” is one of my good friends. ;-)

the first time I saw it I actually asked him what he planned on doing with that.

Whew…reminds me of my boy toy(as I gaze off with glossy eyes in remembrance)…

Size shouldn’t matter but it does,however, it’s not the end all be all. Depending on the relationship the other partner may be willing to compromise..especially if the feelings are deep. Plus there are other ways to please a person besides having a big hammer.

2CPTG©

November 21st, 2013
10:24 am

Leggs, I would only thank him if I got the opportunity to witness it….like she said, it’s like hearing about Bigfoot….I wanna see for myself!!!!

Exiled

November 21st, 2013
10:25 am

Personally,as far as this topic goes,it is kinda revealing what goes on in the minds of some ladies because surely,based on Diva and some of uall testinmony so far,some of uall talk about size,even discuss it with friends and so..Siize matters for most..I would hazard.

As a matter of fact,this is not the first time we have had this as a Topic……..us MIA ol heads know this.

So Size matters….

Her vjay size matters as well…as matter of fact,in case some of u ladies are wondering.

Ummmm…some of uall got them helluva Big lips and Big wide vjays that look and feel like one is in the Grand Canyon.

U can feel small in there! :lol:

So…

good morning bye the way!

kimmie

November 21st, 2013
10:25 am

Exiled – I didn’t say anything about wanting everyone to be the same.

I have a difference of opinion and I expressed it. I have a right to agree, disagree, offended, not offended, whatever I choose. I’m sure that just kills you, doesn’t it, that I can and will say anything I damn well please? LOL!! :lol:

Sassy Me

November 21st, 2013
10:26 am

@SlimNu I am so lost on the Camel Toe thing

Treading lightly…YSIC, Camel Toe AKA Moose Knuckle refers to when a womans va jay jay print can be seen through her clothes. Usually tight clothes like leggings/jeggings or jeans that fit like another layer of skin…

2CPTG©

November 21st, 2013
10:26 am

Cutie…..bless yo innocent lil heart….The CT is famous around these parts…yet, as she stated, no one has ever seen it….

Sassy Me

November 21st, 2013
10:27 am

Sassy Me

November 21st, 2013
10:29 am

Okay speaking of CT…has anyone seen the stand up show Ricky Smiley did when he and his band(background singers included) broke out with this song called “Camel Toe”?

Button

November 21st, 2013
10:32 am

Yes – ok gotcha.

Men come in different sizes to dismiss a man based on his lack there of is kind of shallow. Having a big darn near elephant trunk size doesn’t always guarantee pleasure. what’s the saying? it’s not the size of the boat but the motion in the ocean.

MsAtl

November 21st, 2013
10:32 am

Has anyone seen K-Michelle performing with her CT?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1sR2YipFvPM

YesSheIsCute

November 21st, 2013
10:35 am

Everyone says it’s not the size of the boat but the motion of the ocean but I want a big boat for once. I’m 30 I’m grown now!

Durty Burd

November 21st, 2013
10:36 am

Good Morning Folks!

Funny topic but a real discussion amongst women who experienced the big and the small dizzle.

Lee you care to elaborate on this experience. Sounds like you have been getting it in! hehehehehe!

YSIC don’t feel bad I run into a few young ladies who have not experienced and O either orally stimulated or dizzle stimulated. When it comes just be prepared to black-out.

Since a few of the old blog heads have disdain for repeat topics, why don’t you e-mail Wisa Diva with some new topics instead of complaining about it. There are only so many topics you can come up with when it comes to dating.

Maybe we can discuss after dating for 1yr what are the expectations of the man or woman who has been dating for more the one year.

Sassy Me

November 21st, 2013
10:39 am

MsAtl I was about a minute of it and couldn’t watch it anymore. I’m sure the folks in the audience couldn’t even concentrate on the song. There’s NO way someone else in her camp didn’t notice that before she went on stage.

And the jokes about it have been through the roof…Ricky Smiley said her CT just got a book deal. He also said her CT was singing background vocals,too. It goes on and on. The sad part is that she really can sing(at least I think so) but she keeps getting in her own way..

kimmie

November 21st, 2013
10:39 am

I think, like with anything, it depends on the person. What’s small/large to one might be just right for someone else. It may be silly or shallow, but it’s not fair to waste someone’s time if they are truly not what you want. It’s someone for everyone. If you don’t have the desire or just can’t work with them for any reason, it’s best to let them go. And we are speaking in generic terms on the blog, but if you’re classy about it, no one needs to know that is the reason you broke it off with someone, because their wang/vj was too small/large/wide/loose/etc and the 2 of you could not get past it.

Exiled

November 21st, 2013
10:40 am

MsAtl..K got a Big ol booty..might be convenient to hit her missionary because from the back…ummm.. a man gets short changed because the bootay gets in the way.

SlimNu

November 21st, 2013
10:41 am

2C – Does it exist? :lol:

Leggs – :lol: Santa Claus commercial….hehehehehe

Yes – Just basically referring to the nether region…back in the day we would do skits on here and some how we started joking about me having a big CT. Just all in fun lol

kimmie

November 21st, 2013
10:42 am

why don’t you e-mail Wisa Diva with some new topics instead of complaining about it.

Durty – Who said they haven’t? But the idea you offered for a topic I think is a good one.

The Man formerly know as "Dan"

November 21st, 2013
10:42 am

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Exiled

November 21st, 2013
10:42 am

lick afficionados might like a big ol bootey though! :lol:

??Durty :lol:

Durty Burd

November 21st, 2013
10:45 am

It appears when the ladies are in love with the person, they are willing to work around the size issue, but once the relationship starts to crumble they state your little dizzle only tickle me!

Dude comes back and states well if a basketball team had not been there before I could work with it!

MsAtl…I see the sexy and mature ladies are looking for the total package! Well to do and size to use! hehehehehe!

Note to self…YSIC maybe very deep inside! :wink: