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Should size really matter?

Some women get tagged with the title Size Queen because they have certain preferences in how large a man’s “package” has to be. They believe that this is the only way to guarantee pleasure so they kind of discriminate those who don’t meet the size requirements. Is that really fair, though?

I have debated with friends about this before because I understand how important it is for men and their pride when it comes to a man’s “big ego.” Some men are insecure about their size and they try to compensate for it in other ways. Other men are oblivious or in denial about it. Whatever the case, when you are with a partner you care about, you find a way to empathetic and sensitive to them.

It’s rather silly to break up with a guy because of his size, but I know a lot of women who do it.

Do you think size really matters? Aren’t there ways to work around it?

How do you adjust and adapt so that this is not a real deal breaker?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta

190 comments Add your comment

Lee

November 21st, 2013
7:19 am

WoW
So, do these Queen Size ladies have the guy’s come for a visual audition ??? Let me know I can be a great judge, all these years of experience will be put to good use.

People like what they like, but always remember, beauty and health do not last forever, emotional love will last a life time and physical love only last minutes..

Todays my Friday :)

Button

November 21st, 2013
8:26 am

Are these size queen ladies queen size down there? I would think you have to be large down there to accept something large going in.

Do you think size really matters? it souldn’t esp when you’re in love. When you’re in love everything feels perfect.

Good morning!

YesSheIsCute

November 21st, 2013
8:28 am

I’ve never had a big one so I couldn’t tell you.

Good morning btw

The Man formerly known as "Dan"

November 21st, 2013
8:49 am

SlimNu

November 21st, 2013
8:56 am

Whew, this ought to make for an interesting conversation today…

2CPTG©

November 21st, 2013
9:20 am

this topic tho!!!!!

what dude gon admit he’s got a small member? Really?

2CPTG©

November 21st, 2013
9:28 am

which of you ladies have had the pleasure, or “non” pleasure, of dealing with a dude with a small wang? a Big one?

MsAtl

November 21st, 2013
9:29 am

Morning All!

Wow at this topic. I just had this conversation a couple of days ago when someone suggested that men should have their size displayed among the other tats on their body. Another female said that she tries to gauge the size but knows men who have layered their bottoms or added stuffing to appear larger. Lol. I would imagine that if you love someone, that is one of the things that you compromise on.

YSIC- You poor dear, lol.

kimmie

November 21st, 2013
9:38 am

Morning All!

It’s a personal preference thing. People break up with folks for different reasons, so if you don’t want to be with that person, no reason is silly.

I really don’t have anything else to say on this, so I’ll keep watch and come back when the topic changes.

Diva, I know it’s probably tough coming up with topics, but really?

SlimNu

November 21st, 2013
9:42 am

2C – I’m not ashamed to admit i’ve experience both. Short and fat was not where it was at….not much leverage or maneuvering room with that…Um, big one: the first time I saw it I actually asked him what he planned on doing with that. It took a few attempts at different times before any real action could go down. (Was with him about 3yrs)

Button

November 21st, 2013
9:45 am

2C- dudes know that he has a small package. Don’t yall measure it? there’s a website dedicated to the small men also one for the large one. Yep I checked them all out :shy:

Leggs

November 21st, 2013
9:45 am

This is definitely going to be interesting. Will probably go left real quick.

Size shouldn’t matter, but it does. I’ve had big, I’ve had pencil thin ones, I’ve had short stubby ones. All that matters is you know how to use whatever your size is. If he can get her sugar walls to contract to that special O, that’s all that matters.

If they have to work and struggle each time, the relationship probably want go much further.

O/T: I played 371 (address to my favorite dance spot in The Bronx) and 271 fell. For some reason that spot popped in my head driving home.

Good morning.

2CPTG©

November 21st, 2013
9:47 am

It took a few attempts at different times before any real action could go down. (Was with him about 3yrs)

so he’s to blame for the world reknown, infamous, CT?

2CPTG©

November 21st, 2013
9:54 am

and no Button, we don’t measure them….at least I don’t….

Methinks, I’m good!

SlimNu

November 21st, 2013
9:58 am

2C – the “Infamous CT” is just a blog myth sort of like Big Foot or the Lochness Monster. Folks have spoken about it but never really seen it. lol

YesSheIsCute

November 21st, 2013
10:01 am

But Leggs I’ll tell you depending on the woman sometimes an O is hard to come by. Sometimes, I wonder if it has anything to do with the fact that I haven’t had the pleasure (pun intended :lol: ) of encountering a big one. I couldn’t tell you. Once I do then I can say whether size matters or not. I wouldn’t be able to judge if a soprano was better than an alto if I’ve never heard a soprano sing.

YesSheIsCute

November 21st, 2013
10:01 am

What’s CT?

Button

November 21st, 2013
10:10 am

2C- somehow I find that hard to believe.

Button

November 21st, 2013
10:12 am

Yes – are you saying that you’ve never had an O? matter of fact you don’t need penetration to achieve an O.

kimmie

November 21st, 2013
10:12 am

I think what affends me most about this topic, is the idea that a woman should be willing to sacrifice her own pleasure and “work with” a dude that doesn’t bring it. Cause even though he might be well endowed, it still doesn’t mean he knows what to do. But naw, we are supposed to find a work around and not break up with him over something so “silly”. But if the roles were reversed, it would be perfectly acceptable for a dude to break up with a woman. After all, he’s got needs, right? But we should just be happy somebody paid attention and wanted to sleep with us, right?

Get out of here with that!

Sassy Me ;-)

November 21st, 2013
10:12 am

Another female said that she tries to gauge the size but knows men who have layered their bottoms or added stuffing to appear larger.

:shock: Nooooo…see that goes back to something one of my girlfriends told me,”D!$& is like a box of chocolates….you never know what you’re gonna get”. Unfortunately that’s true. I’ve been the “victim” of a small weenie and afterward I felt like, “I could’ve had a V-8″…rather than go through that isht. Thankfully that was a very long time ago. I haven’t had that displeasure since…”Gonzo” is one of my good friends.

the first time I saw it I actually asked him what he planned on doing with that.

Whew…reminds me of my boy toy(as I gaze off with glossy eyes in remembrance)…

Size shouldn’t matter but it does,however, it’s not the end all be all. Depending on the relationship the other partner may be willing to compromise..especially if the feelings are deep. Plus there are other ways to please a person besides having a big hammer.

2CPTG©

November 21st, 2013
10:12 am

but Slim……does it exist?

kimmie

November 21st, 2013
10:13 am

Correction, Offend not Affend!

Exiled

November 21st, 2013
10:15 am

(Was with him about 3yrs)

@Slim..sure turned up helluva good,didnt it! :lol:

SlimNu

November 21st, 2013
10:15 am

Yes – Camel Toe lolol

SlimNu

November 21st, 2013
10:16 am

Ex – Only you would think thats what kept us together….we really learned a lot about mentally stimulated each other. That was one of my deepest relationships ever. He’s married now

Exiled

November 21st, 2013
10:16 am

I think what affends me most about this topic,

@Kimmie..why u gotta be offended?..Diva thinks its silly..u dont…difference of opinion.

We cant all be the same can we…..?

Leggs

November 21st, 2013
10:17 am

“so he’s to blame for the world reknown, infamous, CT?” Too funny, I would think they way you guys talk about that renowned CT you would want to commend him, not blame him (lol).

YSIC ~ no doubt the O is hard to come by for a lot of women, but I don’t think you need a “big ego” to accomplish it. I will say this, the pencil ones I had (2) didn’t hit on much of anything.

I would sit and talk with this guy who referenced he had a “big ego” on more than one occasion. To his credit, he did his best to make it sound like he was talking about an extension of the “id, ego and super ego.” I acted like I had no idea what he was saying. I may be older, but I ain’t stupid (lol). I always find it comical when one thinks I don’t know the latest slang.

Leggs

November 21st, 2013
10:17 am

but Slim……does it exist?

This made me think of the M&M commercial when they walk in on Santa Claus.

YesSheIsCute

November 21st, 2013
10:21 am

@SlimNu I am so lost on the Camel Toe thing. I’m thinking it was a “had to be there” inside joke.

@Button Sure I’ve had an O before. Different kinds. I haven’t dated a man with a big “appendage”. Is what I was saying.

Sassy Me

November 21st, 2013
10:22 am

Another female said that she tries to gauge the size but knows men who have layered their bottoms or added stuffing to appear larger.

Nooooo…see that goes back to something one of my girlfriends told me,”D!$& is like a box of chocolates….you never know what you’re gonna get”. Unfortunately that’s true. I’ve been the “victim” of a small weenie and afterward I felt like, “I could’ve had a V-8″…rather than go through that isht. Thankfully that was a very long time ago. I haven’t had that displeasure since… ”Gonzo” is one of my good friends. ;-)

the first time I saw it I actually asked him what he planned on doing with that.

Whew…reminds me of my boy toy(as I gaze off with glossy eyes in remembrance)…

Size shouldn’t matter but it does,however, it’s not the end all be all. Depending on the relationship the other partner may be willing to compromise..especially if the feelings are deep. Plus there are other ways to please a person besides having a big hammer.

2CPTG©

November 21st, 2013
10:24 am

Leggs, I would only thank him if I got the opportunity to witness it….like she said, it’s like hearing about Bigfoot….I wanna see for myself!!!!

Exiled

November 21st, 2013
10:25 am

Personally,as far as this topic goes,it is kinda revealing what goes on in the minds of some ladies because surely,based on Diva and some of uall testinmony so far,some of uall talk about size,even discuss it with friends and so..Siize matters for most..I would hazard.

As a matter of fact,this is not the first time we have had this as a Topic……..us MIA ol heads know this.

So Size matters….

Her vjay size matters as well…as matter of fact,in case some of u ladies are wondering.

Ummmm…some of uall got them helluva Big lips and Big wide vjays that look and feel like one is in the Grand Canyon.

U can feel small in there! :lol:

So…

good morning bye the way!

kimmie

November 21st, 2013
10:25 am

Exiled – I didn’t say anything about wanting everyone to be the same.

I have a difference of opinion and I expressed it. I have a right to agree, disagree, offended, not offended, whatever I choose. I’m sure that just kills you, doesn’t it, that I can and will say anything I damn well please? LOL!! :lol:

Sassy Me

November 21st, 2013
10:26 am

@SlimNu I am so lost on the Camel Toe thing

Treading lightly…YSIC, Camel Toe AKA Moose Knuckle refers to when a womans va jay jay print can be seen through her clothes. Usually tight clothes like leggings/jeggings or jeans that fit like another layer of skin…

2CPTG©

November 21st, 2013
10:26 am

Cutie…..bless yo innocent lil heart….The CT is famous around these parts…yet, as she stated, no one has ever seen it….

Sassy Me

November 21st, 2013
10:27 am

Sassy Me

November 21st, 2013
10:29 am

Okay speaking of CT…has anyone seen the stand up show Ricky Smiley did when he and his band(background singers included) broke out with this song called “Camel Toe”?

Button

November 21st, 2013
10:32 am

Yes – ok gotcha.

Men come in different sizes to dismiss a man based on his lack there of is kind of shallow. Having a big darn near elephant trunk size doesn’t always guarantee pleasure. what’s the saying? it’s not the size of the boat but the motion in the ocean.

MsAtl

November 21st, 2013
10:32 am

Has anyone seen K-Michelle performing with her CT?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1sR2YipFvPM

YesSheIsCute

November 21st, 2013
10:35 am

Everyone says it’s not the size of the boat but the motion of the ocean but I want a big boat for once. I’m 30 I’m grown now!

Durty Burd

November 21st, 2013
10:36 am

Good Morning Folks!

Funny topic but a real discussion amongst women who experienced the big and the small dizzle.

Lee you care to elaborate on this experience. Sounds like you have been getting it in! hehehehehe!

YSIC don’t feel bad I run into a few young ladies who have not experienced and O either orally stimulated or dizzle stimulated. When it comes just be prepared to black-out.

Since a few of the old blog heads have disdain for repeat topics, why don’t you e-mail Wisa Diva with some new topics instead of complaining about it. There are only so many topics you can come up with when it comes to dating.

Maybe we can discuss after dating for 1yr what are the expectations of the man or woman who has been dating for more the one year.

Sassy Me

November 21st, 2013
10:39 am

MsAtl I was about a minute of it and couldn’t watch it anymore. I’m sure the folks in the audience couldn’t even concentrate on the song. There’s NO way someone else in her camp didn’t notice that before she went on stage.

And the jokes about it have been through the roof…Ricky Smiley said her CT just got a book deal. He also said her CT was singing background vocals,too. It goes on and on. The sad part is that she really can sing(at least I think so) but she keeps getting in her own way..

kimmie

November 21st, 2013
10:39 am

I think, like with anything, it depends on the person. What’s small/large to one might be just right for someone else. It may be silly or shallow, but it’s not fair to waste someone’s time if they are truly not what you want. It’s someone for everyone. If you don’t have the desire or just can’t work with them for any reason, it’s best to let them go. And we are speaking in generic terms on the blog, but if you’re classy about it, no one needs to know that is the reason you broke it off with someone, because their wang/vj was too small/large/wide/loose/etc and the 2 of you could not get past it.

Exiled

November 21st, 2013
10:40 am

MsAtl..K got a Big ol booty..might be convenient to hit her missionary because from the back…ummm.. a man gets short changed because the bootay gets in the way.

SlimNu

November 21st, 2013
10:41 am

2C – Does it exist? :lol:

Leggs – :lol: Santa Claus commercial….hehehehehe

Yes – Just basically referring to the nether region…back in the day we would do skits on here and some how we started joking about me having a big CT. Just all in fun lol

kimmie

November 21st, 2013
10:42 am

why don’t you e-mail Wisa Diva with some new topics instead of complaining about it.

Durty – Who said they haven’t? But the idea you offered for a topic I think is a good one.

The Man formerly know as "Dan"

November 21st, 2013
10:42 am

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Exiled

November 21st, 2013
10:42 am

lick afficionados might like a big ol bootey though! :lol:

??Durty :lol:

Durty Burd

November 21st, 2013
10:45 am

It appears when the ladies are in love with the person, they are willing to work around the size issue, but once the relationship starts to crumble they state your little dizzle only tickle me!

Dude comes back and states well if a basketball team had not been there before I could work with it!

MsAtl…I see the sexy and mature ladies are looking for the total package! Well to do and size to use! hehehehehe!

Note to self…YSIC maybe very deep inside! :wink:

Exiled

November 21st, 2013
10:47 am

Dude comes back and states well, if a basketball team had not been there before,I could work with it!

:lol: :lol:

Stupid Durty! :lol:

MsAtl

November 21st, 2013
10:47 am

Exiled- I heard she got butt implants.

Sassy- There is no way SHE didn’t feel that. I am sure a visit with her Gyn is in order after that…

MsAtl

November 21st, 2013
10:50 am

Durty- That is what she was looking for. If you love someone, there is some room for compromise; it just depends on what is important to you and what your purpose is. But, I will say that I agree with Kimmie to the extent that a man may expect a woman to accept Baby Finster but he will complain because the girls are not looking like torpedoes or she has stretch marks.

Sassy Me

November 21st, 2013
10:55 am

MsAtl you’re right…that was just wrong. She’s been getting clowned big time…

Leggs

November 21st, 2013
10:55 am

MsAtl ~ I hadn’t seen that, but it/she looks horrible. The fact that the material is iridescent fuels the ugliness (lol).

Durty Burd

November 21st, 2013
10:57 am

Kimmie why can’t someone be honest about why they are broking up with the individual? Look tell me the reason why and then I’ll know how shallow you are?

The truth hurts, but is best to know how another person think/feel about what is important in a relationship, knowing this is an important factor which allows a person to put them in I never want to see you again category!

Sassy Me

November 21st, 2013
11:06 am

The fact that the material is iridescent fuels the ugliness

Yeah that fabric choice was another mistake…the whole outfit was a mistake for her….maybe it would’ve worked on someone else..maybe. That was definitely a fashion faux pas…

kimmie

November 21st, 2013
11:07 am

Durty – I was talking about not telling the world why you broke up with someone. If 2 folks are having issues in the bedroom and break up, 9 times out of 10 the 2 of yall know why. It’s private between the 2 of you. No need to say “Hey Durty, I’ve tried but I just can’t get past your beenie weenie”. We both know what time it is.

I’m talking about going out and telling other people that’s why you broke up with someone. Or, say I start dating you and you ask me why my last relationship ended. I say, well Durty, he was too little to please me, so I had to kick him to the curb.

YesSheIsCute

November 21st, 2013
11:08 am

@Sassy I like K Michelle’s song “Fallin’” and another one that comes on my Last.fm but I can’t remember right now. That was definitely before she got on the show. Her new songs I’m not really feeling but she does have a voice.

YesSheIsCute

November 21st, 2013
11:10 am

@ Button :lol” 9 times out of 10 2 of yall know why :lol: Ok now that I know what Camel Toe is I remember some island guys talking about someone in a bathing suit whose you-know-what-was showing, calling her female member “fat til she buff”. They sounded like they were interested in it. So is Camel Toe a bad thing or a good thing. I’m confused on that? Also, it’s not caused by anything? I would google these answers but I’m sure some NSFW pictures may come up and I’m at work.

Leggs

November 21st, 2013
11:16 am

Having a CT is a bad thing. No one should see your womanly imprint outside the bedroom. I went to a good friend’s Christmas party a few years back and she had on a red clingly pantsuit. All her stuff was front and center. No one seemed to tell her and she must have liked the way she looked in the mirror. I had to tell her that it was less than becoming. She did change. No one should be able to see your lips, the split between the lips through your clothing (while in public).

SlimNu

November 21st, 2013
11:18 am

Sassy – I almost missed that you pulled out “GONZO” hahahahaha – Or Captain Hook ;-)

And I wonder if Grand Canyon Cootie really exists or is that what men tell themselves when they feel they’ve fallen short (pun intended)?

Sassy Me

November 21st, 2013
11:22 am

Or Captain Hook

Slim…Okay?!?! ;-)

SlimNu

November 21st, 2013
11:23 am

Leggs – THere is a chick, (I think i told ya’ll about her) that CONSTANTLY has a CT. I’m like, well maybe that’s why it’s swollen because she isn’t letting that thang breathe!!! I don’t see how she can feel comfortable especially in jeans with that thick seam in the crack of her whoo-ha :shock:

YesSheIsCute

November 21st, 2013
11:30 am

@SlimNu come on she HAD to have felt that. Doesn’t it rub against the you-know-what under the hood? I mean it seems like it would.

Sassy Me

November 21st, 2013
11:43 am

THere is a chick, (I think i told ya’ll about her) that CONSTANTLY has a CT.

Eeeww…umm…errr….aahhh..maybe she thinks it’s supposed to be like that. I ‘on know…

SlimNu

November 21st, 2013
11:46 am

I really don’t think she does… :shock:

Durty Burd

November 21st, 2013
11:52 am

Or Maybe she likes to have something rubbing up against her CT!

Kimmye I feel ya! Folks gonna talk, you just don’t have to go into great details about!

SlimNu and YSIC…There are quite a few ladies who va-va did not snap back into place after having kids, also there are quite a few ladies who have not had kids and are a deep a bottomless pit and wide as the pacific ocean.

IMO I am not sure how much of an issue this is on the man or woman side who have been together or married for sometimes. Physical changes can or do take place in relationships, but because they have a deeper emotional, spiritual connection is has no barring on the relationship.

SlimNu

November 21st, 2013
11:56 am

When it comes to women and the depth of their ‘caves’ or tightness, why does one assume it’s due to too much wang traffic? Maybe that’s just how her body is shaped naturally

Durty Burd

November 21st, 2013
12:12 pm

SlimNu that is how men tend to think, sometimes it is due to how her body is natural shaped!

SlimNu…Men tend to like the tight ones, but me I like a little loose too tight has done some damage to Mr. Durty! hehehehehehe!

MsAtl… What is the torpedo shape?

Ladies have you ever been in a relationship and thought the dizzle was too small? If so how did you overcome the issue or did you leave the relationship later because of additional issues?

DuShawn

November 21st, 2013
12:12 pm

“Having a CT is a bad thing…….” Totally disagree. I have never met a dude that thought a Camel Toe was distasteful……..tasty maybe, but not distasteful. Personally, I find them entertaining and encourage them….especially in the workplace. Not only do they provide incentive for male employees, they also reduce absenteeism. Most men would rather watch that CT wiggle around the office than sit at home.

Regarding the size issue, I’m proud of my three inches……………………………of girth.

Leggs

November 21st, 2013
12:19 pm

Some men would agree with you DuShawn, but if you really look, what’s so appealing about seeing a woman’s outline through her clothes while at work? Do you think women would like to see a man with a boner all day at work. And because I’m coming from a woman’s POV, CT is nasty looking and for me, shows a lack of wearing clothes that actually fit a person. No woman should walk around like she’s wearing a glove around her honey pot!

MsAtl

November 21st, 2013
12:20 pm

Durty- When the tatas are front and center and protruding straight out.

Sassy Me

November 21st, 2013
12:26 pm

Leggs…cosign. Of course alot of men would like it but it is unbecoming at the work place.

SlimNu

November 21st, 2013
12:39 pm

Dushawn I can see CT’s being added to employee videos in the near near future. lol

Durty – So you have experienced wang-burn huh? lol

YesSheIsCute

November 21st, 2013
12:46 pm

I’m still lost on how sexual traffic could be a culprit for CT. I mean even some virgins can have big labia majoras.

Exiled

November 21st, 2013
12:55 pm

I wonder if Grand Canyon Cootie really exists

@Slim..if u licked ur own type u wld know when ur own tongue wld not even muster a lip bite from ur partner!

she wld be like,”what u doing donw there? :lol:

ur tongue “falling short”(no pun)

Exiled

November 21st, 2013
12:57 pm

why does one assume it’s due to too much wang traffic?

…u want dudes to give uall the benefit of the doubt when the pit seems too wide?

@Slim :lol:

Exiled

November 21st, 2013
1:00 pm

I mean even some virgins can have big labia majoras.

@Cutie….i think u are off topic…

:lol:

SlimNu

November 21st, 2013
1:05 pm

Yes – I think you maybe taking it a bit too literally…it’s just a long running term that came from jokes/skits back in the day. I think the term “earmuffilectomy” was formed around that time as well. Basically, to mean cunningligus (if I spelled that right) lol

SlimNu

November 21st, 2013
1:10 pm

Ex – Come on, get it together…a tongue is not a proper tool to decide on the depth of one’s va gina…get a grip

Exiled

November 21st, 2013
1:12 pm

So how does a lesbo do it..?

@Slim..?

cunningligus (if I spelled that right..u need to borrow Swiss’s dictionary on this!

YesSheIsCute

November 21st, 2013
1:25 pm

I don’t know anything about cunnilingus. I just know about being a cunning linguist.

Bluzgirl

November 21st, 2013
1:26 pm

Hey everyone!!! I’m baaaaack…at least for now. Think I’ll just pop in every now and then. I’m bored today and actually have some time to read up while I’m getting ready for my Florida vacation next week.

I had to chime in on this topic because I was at a friend’s house last night and we were talking about this. She’s in an open marriage and has recently been with a guy who was quite big, but she said he was lazy. Hubby was talking about how any woman he’s talked to has said that I huge guy is typically lazy. I thought about it and Mags was pretty lazy in the bedroom. Is it because they feel that the size is all that matters?

On the contrary, I’ve been with two men who were very small. One of them was horrible and didn’t really do much. I should have won an Oscar for my performance with him. The other guy was many years ago…he knew he was small, so he took care of me in other ways for a looooooong time before penetrating. I was with him for about a year and it was just sex with us. I didn’t care he was small because he KNEW what to do with his hands and mouth!!!

SlimNu

November 21st, 2013
1:32 pm

Ex – You need to direct your inquiry to an actual lesbian. You’re an educated guy…the average length of a tongue is probably around 3inches…so CLEARLY that cannot be a proper measuring tool for the topic you spoke of. You just wanted to find a way to throw girl on girl in the convo smh

Leggs

November 21st, 2013
1:47 pm

I see you guys haven’t gotten very far.

daddy swiss

November 21st, 2013
1:58 pm

MsAtl — re: that video you linked… GOT DAMN! That’s not a camel toe. That’s the whole foot. lol

kimmie

November 21st, 2013
1:58 pm

Hey Bluz! Have fun in FL. We’re going to do the Disney thing Christmas.

You are so right, whatever you got, you gotta be able to work with it.

daddy swiss

November 21st, 2013
1:59 pm

…And it looks like the camel’s humps were poking out of the back there, too…. IJS…. lol

SlimNu

November 21st, 2013
2:02 pm

MsAtl – OMG, I just watch the video too….lawdy lawdy lawdy. Who told her that outfit was flattering on her body? :shock:

kimmie

November 21st, 2013
2:13 pm

Pretty disgusting to look at.

Exiled

November 21st, 2013
2:14 pm

Ding ding ding ding ding diiiing!

Size Matters!

Leggs

November 21st, 2013
2:16 pm

SlimNu ~ her hair is too long. I too think she has a nice voice, but she tends to scream too much.

Sassy Me

November 21st, 2013
2:17 pm

Exactly Slim…moose knuckle all up in your face. I wonder how the folks how sat up from felt about that.

Sassy Me

November 21st, 2013
2:20 pm

*who sat*…I digress…

MsAtl

November 21st, 2013
2:21 pm

Swiss/Slim- That was one time she needed a friend to say no, girl, don’t wear that outfit!

SlimNu

November 21st, 2013
2:23 pm

MsAtl – After letting 100 folks watch that video, and you put K Michelle in a line up, I highly doubt anyone could point her out….all you can focus on is that CT area. In the voice of Twain on In Living Color (men on films), “”Hated it!” lol

Sassy Me

November 21st, 2013
2:27 pm

In the voice of Twain on In Living Color (men on films), “”Hated it!” lol

*as I snap in circular formation and end it in “Z” snap*

Leggs

November 21st, 2013
2:34 pm

More people should dance, sit and walk in the their clothing before leaving the house. I sure do.

YesSheIsCute

November 21st, 2013
2:37 pm

@SlimNu thanks for clarifying. I knew it was an inside joke amonst the original bloggers type of thing.

OAN: Today is my daughter’s birthday. I bought her gift last night and left it at the door with a card. I also sent her a long text complete with smileys since she said she loves long texts for her birthday. She doesn’t know it yet but we are going to the midnight showing of the Hunger Games tonight. I told her that it was surprise and all I can tell her it is advisable to take a nap after she gets home from school since we probably will get home late….. this being a parent ish is crazy!!! I don’t know how you guys do it. I just don’t know! Hats off to all the ladies in here who are parents beit single or otherwise. But at least I’m somewhat succeeding at it.

Leggs

November 21st, 2013
2:40 pm

YSIC ~ that’s a nice gift. She’s going to love the midnight showing. I did that with one of the Twlight movies. Kids everywhere. Hope you got your tix in advance.

Bluzgirl

November 21st, 2013
2:42 pm

Thanks for saying Hi to me kimmie! It’s been a while since I’ve been on here, though I’ve l u r k e d occasionally.

I have a feeling I’m going to make my exit again. I can tell when I’m not wanted nor missed. Have a great holiday season everyone!!!

Sassy Me

November 21st, 2013
2:44 pm

Here we go…

Leggs

November 21st, 2013
2:46 pm

Bluz ~ you are a regular and you pop in often (although this time you’ve been gone for a minute). I simply figured people get tired to welcoming regulars back all the time. Just because one person said hi doesn’t mean you aren’t welcomed here. Perhaps you came back to soon because that was you being overly sensitive. And, if you’ve been lurking, you would notice that you’ve been asked about many times.

Bluzgirl

November 21st, 2013
2:46 pm

There’s no “here we go…” I haven’t missed the drama from the place since I took my break and no need to go back to it. It’s just one big clique here anyways. See ya’ll!!!

Leggs

November 21st, 2013
2:48 pm

People kill me with one big clique. We are all regulars, everyone is in the clique. No fractions on the left, none on the right. We all visit this place daily tossing comments, jabs, laughter back to each other. One big dysfunctional family.

MsAtl

November 21st, 2013
2:51 pm

Bluz- You’ve been mentioned on here several times with folks wondering where you were. No rush to judgment about not being missed or wanted…

Exiled

November 21st, 2013
2:51 pm

I can tell when I’m not wanted nor missed

@Bluz.take ur meds

Exiled

November 21st, 2013
2:53 pm

We talking bout Size and Disco dont show up?….suspicious! :lol:

.as long as disco gots her money she dont care, i suppose. :lol:

Bluzgirl

November 21st, 2013
2:55 pm

Leggs – I don’t lurk every day (not even every week), so I have no idea that I’ve been asked about. It’s been well over a month and a half since I’ve typed on here. It’s a slow day. No one is interested in how I’ve been doing or what’s been going on, so no need for me to spend more time in here. I’m glad I got to meet a couple of people from here. My feelings aren’t even hurt over it. Just voicing how crappy I think it is.

Leggs

November 21st, 2013
2:55 pm

O/T: I found a new love…kickboxing. I thoroughly enjoyed the class last night! Intense, but great workout.

Sassy Me

November 21st, 2013
2:56 pm

Bluz- You’ve been mentioned on here several times with folks wondering where you were

If you’ve been lurking like you said then mayhaps you saw that that was true. People have been asking about you…

There’s no need for the dramatics and as Leggs has said, you’re a regular so what’s your issue?

Totally uncalled for..but if you want to leave then..

Sassy Me

November 21st, 2013
2:58 pm

Moving on…

I found a new love…kickboxing.

Leggs, how long have you been doing it?…and where(gym/fitness center)..

daddy swiss

November 21st, 2013
3:00 pm

C’mon, Bluz. We’re in the middle of a conversation about w@ng size and camel toes. Michael Jackson could come back from the grave and pop in on the blog and no one would give him so much as a “SHAMONE!!!” while this topic is in play. IJS…

SlimNu

November 21st, 2013
3:00 pm

Sassy ;-)

Leggs – I’ve always wanted to take up kickboxing. I think i need to get my stamina up before I partake though.

Leggs

November 21st, 2013
3:01 pm

Bluz ~ I didn’t think you lurked daily, but perhaps on one of those days you did lurk you might have seen that you’ve been asked about.

Bluz ~ some people try to give others their privacy by not jumping down their throat as soon as they reappear by asking “where you’ve been, what you been up to, who you sexing now, been to jail, been on vacation…what’s going on?” Sometimes, just sometimes, people sit back and see if someone will volunteer info w/o a barage of questions into one’s personal life.

SlimNu

November 21st, 2013
3:01 pm

Bluz – Yeah, swiss is right…been plenty of times i’ve popped in, didn’t get a whooptido, and dipped back out. No biggie. And where is the clique and how do i sign up?

Leggs

November 21st, 2013
3:06 pm

SassyMe ~ just started yesterday. Instructor comes here. We have a full gym in basement. Thought I’d be sore this morning, but since I make sure I stay limber through other forms of exercise, no aches or pains. I should have some tight buns in a few months (lol).

Sassy Me

November 21st, 2013
3:07 pm

Michael Jackson could come back from the grave and pop in on the blog and no one would give him so much as a “SHAMONE!!!” while this topic is in play. IJS…

Ok-k-k…

:lol:

been plenty of times i’ve popped in, didn’t get a whooptido, and dipped back out

Likewise and I didn’t get my panties in a bunch…it is what it is.
:lol:

MsAtl

November 21st, 2013
3:08 pm

Leggs- Did you say tight buns? {{surfing the web for kickboxing classes…}}

Leggs

November 21st, 2013
3:08 pm

Right on, daddyswiss! Shamone was funny!

Bluzgirl

November 21st, 2013
3:10 pm

Maybe it’s the nicotine withdrawal I’m experiencing today making me a bit sensitive. But…it needs to be pointed out that it’s kind of sucky to not even say hello when someone has been gone for a month and a half. Ya’ll may have asked about me when I wasn’t on here, but I wasn’t here so I didn’t see it and I didn’t get any emails from anyone asking if I was ok. Certain people are gone for a couple of days and they get a parade when they pop back up. It just doesn’t feel good to be ignored…especially when things have slowed down on the blog.

Leggs

November 21st, 2013
3:11 pm

And, I think some try not to always welcome someone back to avoid that sterotype of being in a clique. I could welcome SassyMe each time she comes back because her reads are always funny, and she appears maybe every two weeks. Everyone knows they are welcome, but like in a relationship, this proves that people want to hear it!!

MsAtl

November 21st, 2013
3:12 pm

Bluz- In all fairness, they were probably still pouring bleach in their eyes over the video I posted of K Michelle’s CT and didn’t see you right away…

MsAtl

November 21st, 2013
3:12 pm

But anywho- welcome back. Hope you have been well.

Leggs

November 21st, 2013
3:13 pm

SlimNu ~ if I got through the class, you can get through the class.

Sassy Me

November 21st, 2013
3:14 pm

Good for you Leggs!! We have a full gym here,too, with different fitness classes but no kickboxing.

I went to a class a few months ago and for the life of me my schedule hasn’t allowed me to go to the one I REALLY like…but when I learned my first combination (left jab/right cross/finished off with a good kick I felt like “Oh yeah!!”. Found myself doing it around the house,too…I know..I know.

I like running…it helps center me and I think/process stuff while i’m running. cz brat is into yoga…

Leggs

November 21st, 2013
3:14 pm

Join in everybody:

Welcome back, Bluz! Hope you’re ok.

Leggs

November 21st, 2013
3:15 pm

Today is czB’s bday.

Sassy Me

November 21st, 2013
3:17 pm

Que up Bach’s violin concerto #5….pull out the couch and have a seat…wave to the rest of the group…

Sassy Me

November 21st, 2013
3:18 pm

czB’s bday.

Yes it is…I sent her a bday shout out on fb.

Leggs

November 21st, 2013
3:19 pm

I didn’t think of FB. I sent her a text (lol).

YesSheIsCute

November 21st, 2013
3:20 pm

@Leggs I didn’t. Let me go look now….. kids everywhere?!? OMGeez

daddy swiss

November 21st, 2013
3:21 pm

So, what have you been up to, Bluz? I should warn you, though, it might take another clown story to top the CT discussion… lol

YesSheIsCute

November 21st, 2013
3:24 pm

@Sassy they have kickboxing at LA Fitness. I know it’s more of a cardio workout than martial arts but you’ve made me curious to try a class.

YesSheIsCute

November 21st, 2013
3:24 pm

I want Leggs to be my mentor one day. But I know the mentee is not supposed to ask the mentor so I won’t. :lol:

SlimNu

November 21st, 2013
3:25 pm

Is it me or does swiss seem to want to stay on topic today? :lol:

Bluz – Welcome back, how big is your CT? :oops: (Ex made me type that)

Leggs

November 21st, 2013
3:27 pm

SassyMe ~ we didn’t have kickboxing. It was an introductory class last week and this week to see if people would participate. The waiting list was long from both classes so they’ve implemented it in the regular routine. Right now it’s only going to be offered once a week. They say starting in January it will be offered 3x a week.

YSIC ~ some theatres are already sold out.

Bluzgirl

November 21st, 2013
3:28 pm

swiss – In all fairness…I did say quite a bit about the topic of wangs!!!

2CPTG©

November 21st, 2013
3:29 pm

Swiss, that previous comment was funny as hell, bruh…….man, your wit is off the meter!!!!

daddy swiss

November 21st, 2013
3:29 pm

Bluz — Yes, but I’m trying to block out that portion of the conversation. Tell us more about your CT. lol

Leggs

November 21st, 2013
3:31 pm

YSIC ~ awww, Grasshopper, you’re doing a fine job (lol). That was sweet.

Sassy Me

November 21st, 2013
3:32 pm

They say starting in January it will be offered 3x a week.

Awww shucky ducky…

:lol: @ Slim.

Leggs

November 21st, 2013
3:33 pm

Remember how BlackMamba used to talk about tinsel tubes? Well, here is the poster child for such tubes.

http://www.nydailynews.com/news/national/meet-charles-manson-25-year-old-lover-star-article-1.1524765

Sassy Me

November 21st, 2013
3:34 pm

you’ve made me curious to try a class.

It is something you should try…when you get ready to hit the bag, picture that annoying co-worker you want to throat punch…

daddy swiss

November 21st, 2013
3:35 pm

Oh, hey 2can — that reminds me… we’re looking for east coast-based technical support engineers & professional services consultants. Preferably with identity management background (SAML, WS-Federation, AD, LDAP, etc.) and SaaS experience. If you or anybody else knows someone, let me know…

Bluzgirl

November 21st, 2013
3:35 pm

CT’s are disgusting in my view. I don’t wanna see the outline of any woman’s lady parts. I sure as heck don’t show mine off.

Sassy Me

November 21st, 2013
3:36 pm

~Leggs….eeeeewwwwww. Little, wrinkled up weenie looking like an uncooked pig in the blanket…

daddy swiss

November 21st, 2013
3:37 pm

Bluz — So, you’ve never had any lipstick lesbian encounters in your past? No offense, but I would have assumed you had, given your penchant for musicians. Seems to go with the territory. Allegedly… lol

Bluzgirl

November 21st, 2013
3:40 pm

swiss – LOL! I did have a girlfriend when I was 17 and experimenting.

OK…I really had nothing special going on when I first came in here, but I just got a FB message and friend request from Psycho in Seattle!!!! The message was about the non-profit I work with, so it was totally innocent, but a friend request?!?! As if!!! An answered with the email address that was requested and that was it. Please God don’t let this psycho start harassing me like he did in the past…I’ve got a serious case of the heebie jeebies right now!!!

daddy swiss

November 21st, 2013
3:42 pm

“I did have a girlfriend when I was 17 and experimenting.”

[pulling up a chair]

Go on…..

Bluzgirl

November 21st, 2013
3:45 pm

LOL swiss!!! She was a terrible influence and I broke up with her after she pressured me to try acid, which was something I said I would never do. She was definitely taking me down a bad path.

kimmie

November 21st, 2013
3:49 pm

So we go from dudes’ weenie wangs to lady parts?

Yall a trip! :shock:

:lol:

daddy swiss

November 21st, 2013
3:49 pm

Bluz — Yes, yes, but how was the sex??? That’s the important issue. In graphic detail, how was the sex? lol

Leggs

November 21st, 2013
3:49 pm

Bluz ~ that’s not the experience daddyswiss wanted you to speak on (lol).

Leggs

November 21st, 2013
3:50 pm

MsAtl

November 21st, 2013
3:50 pm

Swiss- I have to admit, I just pictured you pulling up a chair and propping one elbow on your right knee with your chin resting on your palm. Tell me you didn’t…

daddy swiss

November 21st, 2013
3:55 pm

MsAtl — There’s an opening there as big a K Michelle’s CT, but I’m exercising restraint…. lol

Bluzgirl

November 21st, 2013
3:55 pm

Ok swiss – I’ll tell you a little. We were both inexperienced as we were each others first woman. It was pretty great. I fell in love with her. I enjoyed playing with her. BUT…I like D way better. She was my not only my first woman, but also my first partner (well, along with a man the first time).

Leggs

November 21st, 2013
3:56 pm

YSIC ~ were you able to purchase tix?

daddy swiss

November 21st, 2013
3:57 pm

… And that’s not all I’m exercising, if you know what I’m sayin’….

[rim shot]

Leggs

November 21st, 2013
3:57 pm

Bluz ~ daddyswiss wants to know if you guys actually dined on each other or did you guys do the basic kissing and dry humping?

daddy swiss

November 21st, 2013
3:58 pm

Bluz — You are so not good at this…. lol

Leggs

November 21st, 2013
3:58 pm

Yes, I’m reading daddyswiss’ mind.

daddy swiss

November 21st, 2013
4:00 pm

Leggs — That’s because I’m an open book. Well, except for the pages that are stuck together.

Leggs

November 21st, 2013
4:03 pm

Seems like more are about to be stuck together.

Durty Burd

November 21st, 2013
4:03 pm

Hey what it do BluzGirl….You stories and you have been missed! Welcome back and don’t be a stranger…

Before you start the story let me closed the door to the office! hehehehehe!

Atlantic Ocean size puddy is good for me!

Durty Burd

November 21st, 2013
4:07 pm

Shout out to SlimNu! Did you hear that echo? hehehehehe!

Durty Burd

November 21st, 2013
4:12 pm

The blog ladies in here talkin bout it what he does with all his utensiles to stimulate/satisfy,but once the emotions are raise to a heighten level, they secretly say to themselves,I wish he was 2 in longer and 1 in wider like Leroy! hehehehehe!

Yea sure you work with the small pee-pee shooter! :)

MsAtl

November 21st, 2013
4:16 pm

Durty- Hypothetically speaking, of course…

2CPTG©

November 21st, 2013
4:16 pm

Swiss, you can send the info to:

tnymcky2000 at yahoo dot com

(ajc trynna knock my hustle, ain’t lettin me add my email addy no ‘mo)

Leggs

November 21st, 2013
4:19 pm

but once the emotions are raise to a heighten level, they secretly say to themselves I wish he was 2 in longer and 1 in wider like Leroy I am so happy to be with this person who emotionally heightens me in so many ways I don’t need to think of anyone else!

YesSheIsCute

November 21st, 2013
4:24 pm

lol @ daddy swiss. You’re funny. :D
Leggs There are some tickets available for Atlantic Station. I don’t feel like driving all the way out there and back but I know she likes Atlantic Station and also a friend from work who has taken to my daughter suggested we go there. They are really hyped about spending the bday with her. I’m gonna be so tired but at least I’ll be off til black friday after this. I’m so exhausted. Where’s my co-parent at? I need some help…..

Durty Burd

November 21st, 2013
4:26 pm

Suuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuureeeeeeeeee Leggs you know once you go into the zone you start grabbing his buttocks and try to get him to thus deeper…You like c’mon harder deeper push it, now push it harder deeper! Or I am going to use this lamp to go upside yo head! lol

Bluzgirl

November 21st, 2013
4:30 pm

Sorry…my internet keeps crashing for some reason.

She and I dined on each other. I enjoyed it immensely (sp?). I thought about sticking with that and actually looked for girlfriends in my early 20’s. I wouldn’t be opposed to it now. I’d rather have the D, but I’m open to anything at this point in my life. It has been at least 15 years since I was with a woman (3 way).

I gotta go, but heading to the DDS to get my license renewed. I’m sure it will be a long wait and I will get back on here…

MsAtl

November 21st, 2013
4:31 pm

Durty- Come on now, you know the phrase ” harder deeper” hurts y’all feelings!

Durty Burd

November 21st, 2013
4:32 pm

MsAtl.. I know a person like you who is kind, giving and generous can accept the tiny member because his talents lie in other area to fulfill your needs! lol yea right …bookem dano!

Leggs

November 21st, 2013
4:32 pm

YSIC ~ that’s parenting, doing things we don’t want to do for the smile on our children’s face. It will be memorable for her and I think that’s your goal. Go for it. I’m with you, I’m not a fan of Atlantic Station

Durty ~ You had me agreeing until the last sentence! But, from your previous post I got the impression she wasn’t happy with what she had and started fantasizing about another. Your post at 4:26 has her in the zone with her present man not thinking of anyone else!! That’s how I’m reading it.

Durty Burd

November 21st, 2013
4:34 pm

MsAtl…. Don’t hurt my feelings none, I know how to use some devices…

BluzGirl I have to leave right now, but can you comeback tomorrow and provide some details about that 3some? I would greatly appreciate it!

MsAtl

November 21st, 2013
4:42 pm

Durty- Okay, you say that. I have been told that it hurts feelings. what say the remaining Blog gents?

2CPTG©

November 21st, 2013
4:46 pm

some gals just wanna be smashed, MsAtl…..and no, it doesn’t hurt one’s feelings…..cause dude could prolly just be being gentle with it, but she wants him to beat it up!!!! like Cutie was asking yesterday…..

SlimNu

November 21st, 2013
4:47 pm

Shout out to SlimNu! Did you hear that echo? hehehehehe!

Durty – You have to have an open space to create an echo…mine has closed up. lol

Leggs

November 21st, 2013
4:48 pm

WOW, people are already camping out for Black Friday NEXT WEEK?????

MsAtl

November 21st, 2013
4:50 pm

2C- A guy told me that it hurt his feelings. I guess it was just him…

Leggs- You have GOT to be kidding me!!! That is crazy!

Leggs

November 21st, 2013
4:57 pm

MsAtl ~ just heard it on the radio. I was so surprised I don’t remember where. That is beyond crazy! Why? How much does a person plan on saving.

Leggs

November 21st, 2013
5:00 pm

Rather, hoping to save?

YesSheIsCute

November 21st, 2013
5:00 pm

Now that I think about it. I’m gonna be honest I recall one time when I was almost there and I was thinking OMG why couldn’t he just be half an inch bigger so he can reach. I guess there you have it. SIZE DOES MATTER :lol:

Leggs

November 21st, 2013
5:06 pm

Are you talking about size or length (lol).

YesSheIsCute

November 21st, 2013
5:09 pm

Leggs length. But wait, I thought size and length are the same? Or does size mean width?

Leggs

November 21st, 2013
5:13 pm

I look at size as width and length to go along with that width (lol).