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Should size really matter?

Some women get tagged with the title Size Queen because they have certain preferences in how large a man’s “package” has to be. They believe that this is the only way to guarantee pleasure so they kind of discriminate those who don’t meet the size requirements. Is that really fair, though?

I have debated with friends about this before because I understand how important it is for men and their pride when it comes to a man’s “big ego.” Some men are insecure about their size and they try to compensate for it in other ways. Other men are oblivious or in denial about it. Whatever the case, when you are with a partner you care about, you find a way to empathetic and sensitive to them.

It’s rather silly to break up with a guy because of his size, but I know a lot of women who do it.

Do you think size really matters? Aren’t there ways to work around it?

How do you adjust and adapt so that this is not a real deal breaker?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta

190 comments Add your comment

Leggs

November 21st, 2013
2:40 pm

YSIC ~ that’s a nice gift. She’s going to love the midnight showing. I did that with one of the Twlight movies. Kids everywhere. Hope you got your tix in advance.

Bluzgirl

November 21st, 2013
2:42 pm

Thanks for saying Hi to me kimmie! It’s been a while since I’ve been on here, though I’ve l u r k e d occasionally.

I have a feeling I’m going to make my exit again. I can tell when I’m not wanted nor missed. Have a great holiday season everyone!!!

Sassy Me

November 21st, 2013
2:44 pm

Here we go…

Leggs

November 21st, 2013
2:46 pm

Bluz ~ you are a regular and you pop in often (although this time you’ve been gone for a minute). I simply figured people get tired to welcoming regulars back all the time. Just because one person said hi doesn’t mean you aren’t welcomed here. Perhaps you came back to soon because that was you being overly sensitive. And, if you’ve been lurking, you would notice that you’ve been asked about many times.

Bluzgirl

November 21st, 2013
2:46 pm

There’s no “here we go…” I haven’t missed the drama from the place since I took my break and no need to go back to it. It’s just one big clique here anyways. See ya’ll!!!

Leggs

November 21st, 2013
2:48 pm

People kill me with one big clique. We are all regulars, everyone is in the clique. No fractions on the left, none on the right. We all visit this place daily tossing comments, jabs, laughter back to each other. One big dysfunctional family.

MsAtl

November 21st, 2013
2:51 pm

Bluz- You’ve been mentioned on here several times with folks wondering where you were. No rush to judgment about not being missed or wanted…

Exiled

November 21st, 2013
2:51 pm

I can tell when I’m not wanted nor missed

@Bluz.take ur meds

Exiled

November 21st, 2013
2:53 pm

We talking bout Size and Disco dont show up?….suspicious! :lol:

.as long as disco gots her money she dont care, i suppose. :lol:

Bluzgirl

November 21st, 2013
2:55 pm

Leggs – I don’t lurk every day (not even every week), so I have no idea that I’ve been asked about. It’s been well over a month and a half since I’ve typed on here. It’s a slow day. No one is interested in how I’ve been doing or what’s been going on, so no need for me to spend more time in here. I’m glad I got to meet a couple of people from here. My feelings aren’t even hurt over it. Just voicing how crappy I think it is.

Leggs

November 21st, 2013
2:55 pm

O/T: I found a new love…kickboxing. I thoroughly enjoyed the class last night! Intense, but great workout.

Sassy Me

November 21st, 2013
2:56 pm

Bluz- You’ve been mentioned on here several times with folks wondering where you were

If you’ve been lurking like you said then mayhaps you saw that that was true. People have been asking about you…

There’s no need for the dramatics and as Leggs has said, you’re a regular so what’s your issue?

Totally uncalled for..but if you want to leave then..

Sassy Me

November 21st, 2013
2:58 pm

Moving on…

I found a new love…kickboxing.

Leggs, how long have you been doing it?…and where(gym/fitness center)..

daddy swiss

November 21st, 2013
3:00 pm

C’mon, Bluz. We’re in the middle of a conversation about w@ng size and camel toes. Michael Jackson could come back from the grave and pop in on the blog and no one would give him so much as a “SHAMONE!!!” while this topic is in play. IJS…

SlimNu

November 21st, 2013
3:00 pm

Sassy ;-)

Leggs – I’ve always wanted to take up kickboxing. I think i need to get my stamina up before I partake though.

Leggs

November 21st, 2013
3:01 pm

Bluz ~ I didn’t think you lurked daily, but perhaps on one of those days you did lurk you might have seen that you’ve been asked about.

Bluz ~ some people try to give others their privacy by not jumping down their throat as soon as they reappear by asking “where you’ve been, what you been up to, who you sexing now, been to jail, been on vacation…what’s going on?” Sometimes, just sometimes, people sit back and see if someone will volunteer info w/o a barage of questions into one’s personal life.

SlimNu

November 21st, 2013
3:01 pm

Bluz – Yeah, swiss is right…been plenty of times i’ve popped in, didn’t get a whooptido, and dipped back out. No biggie. And where is the clique and how do i sign up?

Leggs

November 21st, 2013
3:06 pm

SassyMe ~ just started yesterday. Instructor comes here. We have a full gym in basement. Thought I’d be sore this morning, but since I make sure I stay limber through other forms of exercise, no aches or pains. I should have some tight buns in a few months (lol).

Sassy Me

November 21st, 2013
3:07 pm

Michael Jackson could come back from the grave and pop in on the blog and no one would give him so much as a “SHAMONE!!!” while this topic is in play. IJS…

Ok-k-k…

:lol:

been plenty of times i’ve popped in, didn’t get a whooptido, and dipped back out

Likewise and I didn’t get my panties in a bunch…it is what it is.
:lol:

MsAtl

November 21st, 2013
3:08 pm

Leggs- Did you say tight buns? {{surfing the web for kickboxing classes…}}

Leggs

November 21st, 2013
3:08 pm

Right on, daddyswiss! Shamone was funny!

Bluzgirl

November 21st, 2013
3:10 pm

Maybe it’s the nicotine withdrawal I’m experiencing today making me a bit sensitive. But…it needs to be pointed out that it’s kind of sucky to not even say hello when someone has been gone for a month and a half. Ya’ll may have asked about me when I wasn’t on here, but I wasn’t here so I didn’t see it and I didn’t get any emails from anyone asking if I was ok. Certain people are gone for a couple of days and they get a parade when they pop back up. It just doesn’t feel good to be ignored…especially when things have slowed down on the blog.

Leggs

November 21st, 2013
3:11 pm

And, I think some try not to always welcome someone back to avoid that sterotype of being in a clique. I could welcome SassyMe each time she comes back because her reads are always funny, and she appears maybe every two weeks. Everyone knows they are welcome, but like in a relationship, this proves that people want to hear it!!

MsAtl

November 21st, 2013
3:12 pm

Bluz- In all fairness, they were probably still pouring bleach in their eyes over the video I posted of K Michelle’s CT and didn’t see you right away…

MsAtl

November 21st, 2013
3:12 pm

But anywho- welcome back. Hope you have been well.

Leggs

November 21st, 2013
3:13 pm

SlimNu ~ if I got through the class, you can get through the class.

Sassy Me

November 21st, 2013
3:14 pm

Good for you Leggs!! We have a full gym here,too, with different fitness classes but no kickboxing.

I went to a class a few months ago and for the life of me my schedule hasn’t allowed me to go to the one I REALLY like…but when I learned my first combination (left jab/right cross/finished off with a good kick I felt like “Oh yeah!!”. Found myself doing it around the house,too…I know..I know.

I like running…it helps center me and I think/process stuff while i’m running. cz brat is into yoga…

Leggs

November 21st, 2013
3:14 pm

Join in everybody:

Welcome back, Bluz! Hope you’re ok.

Leggs

November 21st, 2013
3:15 pm

Today is czB’s bday.

Sassy Me

November 21st, 2013
3:17 pm

Que up Bach’s violin concerto #5….pull out the couch and have a seat…wave to the rest of the group…

Sassy Me

November 21st, 2013
3:18 pm

czB’s bday.

Yes it is…I sent her a bday shout out on fb.

Leggs

November 21st, 2013
3:19 pm

I didn’t think of FB. I sent her a text (lol).

YesSheIsCute

November 21st, 2013
3:20 pm

@Leggs I didn’t. Let me go look now….. kids everywhere?!? OMGeez

daddy swiss

November 21st, 2013
3:21 pm

So, what have you been up to, Bluz? I should warn you, though, it might take another clown story to top the CT discussion… lol

YesSheIsCute

November 21st, 2013
3:24 pm

@Sassy they have kickboxing at LA Fitness. I know it’s more of a cardio workout than martial arts but you’ve made me curious to try a class.

YesSheIsCute

November 21st, 2013
3:24 pm

I want Leggs to be my mentor one day. But I know the mentee is not supposed to ask the mentor so I won’t. :lol:

SlimNu

November 21st, 2013
3:25 pm

Is it me or does swiss seem to want to stay on topic today? :lol:

Bluz – Welcome back, how big is your CT? :oops: (Ex made me type that)

Leggs

November 21st, 2013
3:27 pm

SassyMe ~ we didn’t have kickboxing. It was an introductory class last week and this week to see if people would participate. The waiting list was long from both classes so they’ve implemented it in the regular routine. Right now it’s only going to be offered once a week. They say starting in January it will be offered 3x a week.

YSIC ~ some theatres are already sold out.

Bluzgirl

November 21st, 2013
3:28 pm

swiss – In all fairness…I did say quite a bit about the topic of wangs!!!

2CPTG©

November 21st, 2013
3:29 pm

Swiss, that previous comment was funny as hell, bruh…….man, your wit is off the meter!!!!

daddy swiss

November 21st, 2013
3:29 pm

Bluz — Yes, but I’m trying to block out that portion of the conversation. Tell us more about your CT. lol

Leggs

November 21st, 2013
3:31 pm

YSIC ~ awww, Grasshopper, you’re doing a fine job (lol). That was sweet.

Sassy Me

November 21st, 2013
3:32 pm

They say starting in January it will be offered 3x a week.

Awww shucky ducky…

:lol: @ Slim.

Leggs

November 21st, 2013
3:33 pm

Remember how BlackMamba used to talk about tinsel tubes? Well, here is the poster child for such tubes.

http://www.nydailynews.com/news/national/meet-charles-manson-25-year-old-lover-star-article-1.1524765

Sassy Me

November 21st, 2013
3:34 pm

you’ve made me curious to try a class.

It is something you should try…when you get ready to hit the bag, picture that annoying co-worker you want to throat punch…

daddy swiss

November 21st, 2013
3:35 pm

Oh, hey 2can — that reminds me… we’re looking for east coast-based technical support engineers & professional services consultants. Preferably with identity management background (SAML, WS-Federation, AD, LDAP, etc.) and SaaS experience. If you or anybody else knows someone, let me know…

Bluzgirl

November 21st, 2013
3:35 pm

CT’s are disgusting in my view. I don’t wanna see the outline of any woman’s lady parts. I sure as heck don’t show mine off.

Sassy Me

November 21st, 2013
3:36 pm

~Leggs….eeeeewwwwww. Little, wrinkled up weenie looking like an uncooked pig in the blanket…

daddy swiss

November 21st, 2013
3:37 pm

Bluz — So, you’ve never had any lipstick lesbian encounters in your past? No offense, but I would have assumed you had, given your penchant for musicians. Seems to go with the territory. Allegedly… lol

Bluzgirl

November 21st, 2013
3:40 pm

swiss – LOL! I did have a girlfriend when I was 17 and experimenting.

OK…I really had nothing special going on when I first came in here, but I just got a FB message and friend request from Psycho in Seattle!!!! The message was about the non-profit I work with, so it was totally innocent, but a friend request?!?! As if!!! An answered with the email address that was requested and that was it. Please God don’t let this psycho start harassing me like he did in the past…I’ve got a serious case of the heebie jeebies right now!!!