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Should men be protectors?

I got a couple of text messages from my friend Felicia the other day. She was kind of freaking out because her new boyfriend did not “defend” her when they were out on a date recently. They were sitting in a movie theater when some jerk said something rude and a little threatening. Not only did her guy not say anything, he implied that she should watch herself with strangers.

Felicia is very traditional and she believes the man should take a leadership role as protector and provider. Needless to say, she is considering breaking up with this guy because she believes his character is lacking to let something like this happen.

I wonder if women today still think men are our protectors? Should a guy defend his woman’s honor in our so called modern society?

Ladies, is it important that you feel safe around the man you are dating? If he shows any kind of weakness, does it mean he is not a suitable mate?

Guys, do you hesitate to play the role of protector with women you date? Is it something that comes naturally to you? Do you embrace the leadership role?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta

165 comments Add your comment

Lee

November 20th, 2013
6:58 am

Not everyone likes conflict some will not engage in that behavior. Then there are some that wait so they can and live for conflict. If Felicia guy responded “watch yourself”, i am wondering who started the war of words… You mean out of the blue for no reason on this earth a man just starts to talk crazy?! I doubt it … and Felicia guy might be thinking hope this doesn’t happened every time we go out.

I for one do not like conflict. Best grown response is to walk away, let the idiot speak but ignore it … Oh i do like to be protected or that feeling of safe but i don’t want a rambo loud mouth guy either talking poopoo just because he has a voice ( had one of them –didn’t feel protected at all i felt was embarrassed )!

hagd

Single and Happy

November 20th, 2013
8:12 am

Hello All

Should a guy defend his woman’s honor in our so called modern society? all depends on the situation. These days with people thinking they can voice their opinion about anything to anyone, I can see someone saying something stupid out of the blue, is it worth getting in a confrontation over, I don’t think so.

Guys, do you hesitate to play the role of protector with women you date? Just what is the role of protector? Sometimes you have to know when to walk away, or maybe run away.

Do you embrace the leadership role? what does this have to do with protecting someone?

Exiled

November 20th, 2013
8:39 am

If Felicia is a loud mouf who mistakenly thinks that she can pop off nonsense and expect dude to be her back up,ummm..she needs to find someone else..a hood hood rat,prolly carrying an illegal glock.

It is embarrassing being with an ignant with a loose mouf,even an informed but opinionated,mouf popping woman is an embarrassment.

It is an honor coming to the aid or protection of a classy lady!

I think Felicia’s ‘new’ dude must let her call the popo if she wants protection. :lol:

And he calls it quits,Not her!

Reio

November 20th, 2013
8:53 am

Morning all!

I’ve always thought it best to walk away, if at all possible. Don’t engage in a war of words. In all too many instances, words turn into something dangerous. Words can’t hurt you, but a sawed-off, double barreled, 12-guage, pump shotgun, with a pistol grip, can. Jus sayin.

YesSheIsCute

November 20th, 2013
8:56 am

Good morning everyone.

Depends. If she is known to pop off at the mouth then yes, she needs to watch herself. Otherwise he should defend her. Point blank.

I went on a date with a guy who while we waited for a table was going to let these people just walk up and get served a table. I stepped in and was like no we’ve been waiting before they got here. I was turned off at that. Come on, be a man. State your claim. I don’t need a submissive guy like that.

Button

November 20th, 2013
8:59 am

a few details are missing from the story…. I’ll say that the guy did what he should’ve done and that’s ignore the jerk and let it be. Unless the jerk invaded his space by touching him or his date, it was cleary no need to get into a shouting match or an altercation which would’ve caused other problems. Sometimes you have to be a mature adult and let things go. He picked his battles and I guess not getting into it with the jerk was clearly not one he wanted to battle.

Yes men should be protectors and he should also know what is worth fighting over and what is worth letting go.

Good morning!

Button

November 20th, 2013
9:06 am

Felicia must be looking for a warrior, barbaric man who will beat the crap out of ppl for even looking at him or her the wrong way. She want a man that’s not even tempered but hot headed, quick to fight, quick to anger.

Single and Happy

November 20th, 2013
9:06 am

Yes, by your first statement, I have to ask this question, did you give the guy a chance to step up, or did you just jump in as some women do then complain that he didn’t step up.

Celisea

November 20th, 2013
9:06 am

They were sitting in a movie theater when some jerk said something rude and a little threatening. Not only did her guy not say anything, he implied that she should watch herself with strangers

I’m still looking for the piece in Diva’s post that said Felicia was popping off at the mouth Just looking to see how that assumption got pulled in.

Celisea

November 20th, 2013
9:08 am

Maybe, juuuuuust maybe the guy was a jerk for real, with no help from Felicia (as in popping off at the mouth) in bringing out his bad behavior…

Am I missing something here?

Let me go get coffee and get to work….lolol

Button

November 20th, 2013
9:19 am

most ppl just don’t go popping off for no appearant reason, Did Felicia invade the jerk space? did she step on his toe and didn’t say sorry? did she mush his face with her backside while trying to get pass him? so many questions.

When I’m at the movies I can’t stand when someone are on their cell phone, the light is so disturbing. Or when the peron behind me keep nudging the back of my seat. there was a time or two I wanted to pop off but I didn’t.

YesSheIsCute

November 20th, 2013
9:22 am

@Single and Happy I’m used to a guy stepping in and saying we were waiting first or we were next or etc. So when he didn’t I was actually surprised when he was going to just let those people get a table before us that’s when I stepped in. Not to be a b-i-t-c-h but it’s the principle of the thing when it comes to people who think they can waltz in and skip you in line. Don’t think you’re going to skip me. I know you saw us sitting here waiting. A well-mannered person would have at least asked are you guys waiting for a table?

Donell

November 20th, 2013
9:33 am

I’m not one to flip too much over words. People are gonna say what they want, whether rude or polite. Whatever. However, when you threaten me and/or my girl, that’s when it goes from conversation to altercation, quick! Furthermore, in this case they were in a movie theater, dark and full of people. I wouldn’t be able to even enjoy the movie knowing somebody wanted to potentially do us harm. Might as well air it out right then and there!

Celisea

November 20th, 2013
9:37 am

most ppl just don’t go popping off for no appearant reason

No, they don’t. So I’ll go with maybe buddy touched her backside (on the sly, of course) while trying to get past him and she couldn’t find an appreciation for that, or maybe she accidentally (as in by mistake) stepped on his toe and he, being the jerk he is didn’t accept her apology, or maybe he tried to holla when her dude wasn’t looking and she rejected him…..

soooo many scenarios we could conjure up :)

Single and Happy

November 20th, 2013
9:41 am

The assumption got pulled in by this statement in divas post.

Not only did her guy not say anything, he implied that she should watch herself with strangers.

Most of divas post leave to much open to interpretation.

Yes that’s understandable.

kimmie

November 20th, 2013
9:43 am

Morning All!

It’s just too much missing from this story to give an educated opinion for me. Especially for THIS crowd, the part where dude says she should “watch” herself around strangers pretty much messes up any arguement Felicia might have for her case. It’s going to immediately put it in some minds that “she started it”. It messes up what could have been a good topic of discussion.

Having said that, folks nowadays are crazy, shooting up theatres and stuff. I expect my man to be assertive and in control of things in a classy way, making sure I am comfortable and safe and seeing to it we are being served fairly. I don’t expect him to go picking fights with every crazy we might come in contact with. If anything, that would put us in MORE danger. Be intelligent about it.

Celisea

November 20th, 2013
9:52 am

Because her guy didn’t say anything shouldn’t imply she started an altercation by popping off at the mouth. Maybe he was a wuss. Maybe he ain’t feeling her enough to defend her honor. Maybe he felt it would be levelheaded in thinking folks are crazy and often don’t need a reason to shoot up the place….even though buddy disrespected her. Maybe what she felt was disrespect, he felt was not.

I only played devil’s advocate cause rather than speaking on the topic, folks just started ragging on Felicia, not having enough of anything to speak to their scenario in particular. Hope she’s not reading. That just places me in the mind that some dudes always automatically assume the worse when it comes to women….IJS

Now, should be men protectors? By all means. From defending your honor to telling you it just ain’t that serious and let’s go :)

2CPTG©

November 20th, 2013
9:53 am

depends on the circumstance, and situation, if I defend a lady’s honor…..and of course, it depends on the lady. I’m not dating a loud mouth, so ain’t gotta worry about that; But if our “space” is clearly being violated, it ain’t about protecting her, it’s about respect, as a man!

Button

November 20th, 2013
9:57 am

Celidea – I hope Felicia is reading so she can chime in and give more details of what happened at the movies.

kimmie

November 20th, 2013
9:57 am

folks just started ragging on Felicia

Cel – Yep, the minute I read thru it I knew what this crowds reaction would be.

Leggs

November 20th, 2013
10:01 am

I’m with you Celisea, no where did it say she popped off at the mouth. Amazing how people automatically assume she started something. What’s missing is why this guy was rude to her. I agree, sometimes you have to know when to walk away, but for the most part, I would want my man/date to protect me. BUT, if I’m starting flack with someone, I best know how to protect myself.

Good morning.

Celisea

November 20th, 2013
10:01 am

Button – That would be nice…lololol At least we wouldn’t have to draw on our own. Too bad Diva don’t come around anymore :(

Kimmie – Mmm hmmm

Single and Happy

November 20th, 2013
10:02 am

While people do say crazy things out of the blue, it would be nice to hear what would make someone threaten someone without being provoked!

Celisea

November 20th, 2013
10:05 am

Leggs – Yes, much is missing

Leggs

November 20th, 2013
10:09 am

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kimmie

November 20th, 2013
10:12 am

Single – Folks are crazy. Just this past Monday, I had a little incident happen on the way to work. There is this side street I go down to get to my building to avoid the traffic on the main road. I got in the right turning lane at the light, but the traffic going thru was flying and I was not about to pull out in that. There were only a few cars, so it wasn’t a long wait. Well, this guy was behind me and guess he expected me to turn out in the street anyway. He didn’t tap, but LAID on his horn. I ignored him and concentrated on what I was doing. I turned, and got in 2 lanes over to the left. Would you believe this dude was still in the far right lane and slowed down, yelling over 2 lanes at me, calling me STUPID!! I glanced over but didn’t look at him directly. He did it for awhile until someone came up behind him. I could hear him clearly thru my window closed and radio on! Obviously he was not that much in a hurry if he felt the need to take time out to chastise me!!

disco

November 20th, 2013
10:12 am

good morning.

lee – like you, my first thought was what was felicia’s role in the exchange. lol.

ex – embarrassing maybe but as a “mouf-popping” woman I’d be equally embarrassed to be that person that never said anything, never stood up for myself and yet was always whining and crying about being hurt or taken advantage of. popping off isn’t always necessarily the problem especially if you are prepared to back up your pop off. ijs.

disco

November 20th, 2013
10:16 am

yes – that’s mild. I was out with a guy and we stopped in some random bar for a drink before parting ways. some redneck hooligan at the pool table made an off-color remark on our way out (yep – read between all the lines in this post). man, old boy I was with didn’t have time to react. I was back at that pool table all up in dude face with the quickness. he hemming and hawing talking about he didn’t say anything. yeah right punk. dude I was with talking about I act like them Houston girls. lol. (we were in san Antonio at the time).

Single and Happy

November 20th, 2013
10:19 am

Kimmie, too many folks have died over stupid stuff like that. I’ve had to check myself with that road rage, you never know what someone has in their lap.

Even if Felecia did come on, we still would only be hearing her version which is going to be in her favor. How many times have people played the victim, but when you get the WHOLE story, they are not. We would need to hear his side also. There are usually 3 sides to every story, his side, her side and the truth!

Leggs

November 20th, 2013
10:19 am

kimmie ~ I’m like that, not intimidated on the road. You can honk and honk and honk and I will ignore you. You can yell out your window and I will ignore you. You touch my car, I’m beating the brakes off you (not really), but I will then react.

Leggs

November 20th, 2013
10:21 am

Singel ~ exactly. You never know what’s sitting on someone’s lap.

Leggs

November 20th, 2013
10:25 am

Sorry Single!

Single and Happy

November 20th, 2013
10:26 am

Has anyone had problem trying to post from another device, I tried to use my tablet last week, and would say “awaiting moderation”

disco

November 20th, 2013
10:26 am

I own that I am one road rage having chick. my road rage mainly consists of me cussing up a storm doing some serious name calling and talking about folks’ mommas and stuff. i never blow my horn. I bet the only time my horn is ever used is when I get an inspection. do they test your horn during inspections?

kimmie

November 20th, 2013
10:26 am

Disco/Leggs – Right, if I’m starting something I’m prepared to back it up, fight my own battle.

Single and Happy

November 20th, 2013
10:29 am

Disco, I have told a few people to get off the damn phone. Driving in the fast lane doing 45!!

disco

November 20th, 2013
10:30 am

so men. man-pride aside. how do you really feel about that chick that leaves you out there without any backup? like when you see a movie/show where there is an intruder downstairs and hubs goes to check it out. he tells wifey to stay put. some chicks stay put or hide or something. some chicks grab a bat and be right behind him. which chick you want? lol.

kimmie

November 20th, 2013
10:30 am

Disco – Dang, you sound just like me in that 10:26! I fuss & cuss and that’s how I get it out, but I don’t go blowing the horn. In fact, one day recently I needed to blow it to avoid getting hit & causing an accident and was fiddling around to find it on my car!

Yeah they test the horn during inspections.

Reio

November 20th, 2013
10:31 am

” They were sitting in a movie theater when some jerk said something rude and a little threatening. Not only did her guy not say anything, he implied that she should watch herself with strangers.”

Words? Really? Is that it?
Thinking about leaving the guy over this?
Well, if this is all it takes to get Felicia to think about it, she may as well do it.
Sounds like they both will be better off.

2CPTG©

November 20th, 2013
10:37 am

disco, you prolly already know my answer……I want the chic who in the trenches with me!!!! granted, I’mma take the lead, but just knowing I gotta chic who’ll bust heads alongside me is a turn-on!!!!

Leggs

November 20th, 2013
10:40 am

disco ~ I used to work with a woman who had the worst road rage I’ve ever witnessed. Going to lunch with her always had me SMDH. The teeniest of a driving infraction would set her off. I can cuss, but this woman COULD CUSS! I had to stop riding with her. I felt she was going to take a pipe iron out from the glove compartment at any moment.

Now, one of my best friends (who doesn’t drive) has road rage from the passenger seat. I had to ask her to stop all the fussing many times. I don’t understand passenger road rage!

Reio

November 20th, 2013
10:40 am

“…. which chick you want? lol.”

I want the one that stays put. That way if I go down, she can collect the insurance money, fix the kids up, and buy a 6 bedroom mini-mansion with 2 kitchens, bury my dead azz in an upscale cemetery with a marble headstone, and live the remainder of her days in relative comfort. We all gotta go sometime. Each of us has a final hour approaching.

disco

November 20th, 2013
10:41 am

2C – well, naturally, I didn’t mean to turn you on. lol.

leggs – who used to sing that?

YesSheIsCute

November 20th, 2013
10:44 am

@disco it IS mild but definitely a predictor of non-confrontations to come….
That guy was a punk. Glad you set him straight!

disco

November 20th, 2013
10:44 am

reio – that’s one perspective. still I’d hate for you to just be in a hand to hand match where dude just had the tiniest edge and your woman wouldn’t even try to hit him over the head with a lamp or something. lol. that’s all I’m saying. standing back in the cut with her hands over her eyes hollering “stop hitting him”. lol.

kimmie

November 20th, 2013
10:45 am

Single – Folks on the phone bug me too, but the thing that gets me to no end are chicks applying makeup, especially mascara!! I stopped at Panera Bread one morning to get coffee and this chick stopped behind me in the parking lot, blocking cars from backing out. I thought she was just going to be a second, but that turned into a minute! Finally I honked and she barely moved over just enough for me to back out and get around her. As I passed, I saw what the holdup was – her putting on makeup!! I’m like why didn’t she just pull into a parking spot to do that, why block other cars??? I see chicks flying down the road putting on makeup and doing hair!!!

Exiled

November 20th, 2013
10:46 am

Disco…mouf popping?

If u are a mouf pipping person(there are some loud men jerks too out there), that means u are not reserved. More than likely,a mouf popping person talks..A Lot!

there lies the problem because in talking a lot,sometimes,just sometimes,it’s a case of ‘Open mouf,Closed mind!’…u pop out nonsense or over immaterial stuff.

and if u have classy company(a man),they get embarrassed on ur behalf!

disco

November 20th, 2013
10:46 am

yes – re my bar scenario. Houston dude was cool. he just wasn’t as quick on the draw as I was. he was right there with me though. pool dude was just a buster. lol.

Leggs

November 20th, 2013
10:47 am

That would be Cherelle. I love that song!

Exiled

November 20th, 2013
10:48 am

Popping not pipping

…this thing needs to allow for editing..needs to be an intelligent blog..

Come on Diva!,who owns this shy**t platform? :lol:

YesSheIsCute

November 20th, 2013
10:49 am

@kimmie I don’t understand women who do makeup while they are driving. I understand lipgloss at the stop light, ok fine. But full on makeup application and you aren’t even in park? :|

Celisea

November 20th, 2013
10:49 am

MMeello – Tell the truth and shame the devil, children women should be seen and not heard…lol

Leggs

November 20th, 2013
10:49 am

kimmie ~ that’s another thing on the road I don’t understand, putting on makeup. I think it’s one of the dumbest things a driver can do. I witnessed a woman applying mascara hit the back of a stopped Marta bus. I laughed and winched at the same time. Dumbcluck!!!

disco

November 20th, 2013
10:50 am

ex – mouth popping ain’t always about being loud. I can cuss a person out on the QT and still make them words sting just as much. loud is for show. now, don’t get me wrong, I’ll get loud if need be but one doesn’t have to be loud. frankly, I just talk a lot of trash. always have, likely always will. come from a long line of trash talking people. I think I told the story on here of my 3 year old son hollering out “book ‘em grandma” while my grandmother was playing cards. he was already practicing his trash talking. lol.

YesSheIsCute

November 20th, 2013
10:50 am

@disco oh no, I meant the guy that yelled the offcolor remark and couldnt even back it up when you got in his face. What a punk.

Reio

November 20th, 2013
10:51 am

disco – Well, I guess I’m one of those people that believes that if I’m supposed to go at, say, at exactly 2:37 pm, this afternoon? Well, guess what? I’m going at exactly 2:37 pm this afternoon. And there is nothing she can do to change that. Whether she is right there by my side or not.

Exiled

November 20th, 2013
10:52 am

Disco..I aint talking LOUD…I am talking of A LOT..

thought i mentioned that in the last post.

@Celisea..get off ur stereotype….of me.

Celisea

November 20th, 2013
10:57 am

MMeello – My bad…sorry :) Lubs you still

disco

November 20th, 2013
11:00 am

reio – in that regard, I agree 100%. when it’s time to check out, it’s time to check out. no point living in fear. still, if I can, I’m going out swinging. lol.

ex – okay. maybe I misread/misinterpreted.

Durty Burd

November 20th, 2013
11:03 am

Good Morning!

Seems Diva left out some very important details, what did Felicia say to this dude? Having gone to the movies one thousand times I have never witness a random person saying something to another random person with some type of interaction.

If it is that important to her they should part ways. Dude was calm and maybe is in the relationship for the moment.

Single.. I’ve dated some that will react/speak before you can get the words out, some women don’t have 5 seconds worth of patience.

Me personally if you like to talk at the movies, we are only going one time, I go to the movies to watch and listen to the movies not try to have a conversation with you about the movie. While they are talking they ask you what did they say or what happen…GTFOH!

Celisea

November 20th, 2013
11:11 am

I’m not one with much patience….I’m working on that though :) As it relates to driving and road rage, I’m not crazy. I’ve tooted at folks distracted (mainly on the phone) and holding up the light or folks that take a millennium to turn the corner (lol), but I don’t go ham on folks cause ya just never know if they’re packing. Nope, don’t wanna lose my life over something senseless.

But yeah, folks on the phone or texting irks me to no end. I use to try to catch messages while driving, but I place the phone in the cup of my car until I can pull over. I might take a glance if I’m at the light and it’s ringing…you know to see who’s calling me. But I’m putting the phone back in the cup the moment the light turns green. Also, too many folks have lost their lives over something that could have waited or you could have pulled over to do. Now, if I’m getting messages and it’s rather urgent, I pull over and either call or finish.

Durty Burd

November 20th, 2013
11:22 am

Folks don’t like to pull over especially here in the ATL, they don’t even like to go to the next exit, these fools will go in the burm and back-up. Where they do that at?

Disco I dated a hard edge sista. Finer then fine, grew up fighting her 2 older brothers. We had an incident at a bowing alley where some folks about 5 of the other persuasion. One person the group issued those magic words blank go home, before I could turn around she was charging and cussing. I start running to get in front of her and the stand-off was on they had 3 girls and 2 guys. I believe they were surprise we started calling them names and was about 10 ft from them. The employees came out and stated they had called the po-po it was time to go…

She would most definitely take a bat to someone head, shot someone, or beat someone she had a quick temper.

daddy swiss

November 20th, 2013
11:59 am

Thanks, Leggs.

disco — To answer your earlier question, I’d want the chick that hides/stays put. Or, more accurately, gets the kids and gets them somewhere safe.

abc

November 20th, 2013
12:05 pm

I’ve never seen anyone in a movie theater get pointedly rude with a stranger unless provoked. For instance, I’ve provoked such rudeness by telling people to turn off their mobile phone or just plain shut up and let others enjoy the movie. Not surprisingly, they responded rudely. Perhaps also not a big surprise that I then fetch the theater manager and have them escorted out. Big surprise to the noisy mobile addicts, I suppose.

If you’re not prepared to confront people, don’t be confrontational. If you’re confrontational and not willing to actually confront those you’ve antagonized, don’t expect anyone to take punches for you. That’s just stupid. I’d do it for my wife, but some chick? Nah.

Once long ago I was witness to something similar: the chick I was with picked a fight with another chick, who shortly thereafter was pounding my chick’s head on a car fender in the parking lot. I said to the other chick’s guy, “think we should stop them?” “Nah,” he replied. “Mine’s winning.”

2CPTG©

November 20th, 2013
12:10 pm

anyone see Sons of Anarchy last night?

disco, you’d like the chic Jemma in that show…..she’s badass!

Exiled

November 20th, 2013
12:34 pm

Nah,” he replied. “Mine’s winning.”

:lol:

Durty Burd

November 20th, 2013
12:46 pm

ABC…I used to date a shorty she was about 5ft tall, normally easy going and fun loving, until I discovered her fatal flaw, one night when we had drinks. The fiesty cussing everyone is a b came out at random folks in the place, I was thinking to myself she is going to get me killed….Where did all this crazy come from? On the way home while I’m driving on the freeway…. She’s like are ready Zipppppppp! Dang-it! Crazy in bed too! :)

Durty Burd

November 20th, 2013
12:47 pm

Since all the ladies have left, fellas lets hijack the blog.

Durty Burd

November 20th, 2013
12:50 pm

I bet the following will speak or shall we say instantly react/say something during a situation…. Leggs, Celisea, SlimNu, Disco, YSIC, MsAtl (with diplomacy) SexyCool, and MissMoni… Did I miss anyone?

Leggs

November 20th, 2013
12:50 pm

I just got back, but go on and hijack.

Leggs

November 20th, 2013
12:51 pm

You forgot kimmie…she’s very diplomatic.

Leggs

November 20th, 2013
1:12 pm

I thought you were going to hijack this thing. I’ll leave…

YesSheIsCute

November 20th, 2013
1:19 pm

Leggs

November 20th, 2013
1:22 pm

daddyswiss ~ are you enjoying your day???

Leggs

November 20th, 2013
1:23 pm

YSIC ~ men can’t hijack this blog like we women can. Well, they can with talks of sports all day.

Celisea

November 20th, 2013
1:29 pm

following will speak or shall we say instantly react/say something during a situation

Stereotyping much? Somebody raised somebody wrong to believe women should just shut up and if she don’t or what you feel “can’t”, she ain’t getting any, she’s “loud moufed” (as MMeello says it), she’s untamed, blah blah blah

YesSheIsCute

November 20th, 2013
1:30 pm

@Leggs I know! Probably because we outnumber them. At least it seems like we do. I don’t know some days.

Celisea

November 20th, 2013
1:30 pm

I would LOVE to be a fly on the wall in the homes of dudes that hate women that talk. Any talking will be talking too much. The bedroom and the kitchen, huh?

Celisea

November 20th, 2013
1:34 pm

Yes, maLord

No, maLord

You’re right, maLord

I was wrong, maLord

Forgive me, maLord

Draw your bath, maLord?

Your vittles are acoming, maLord

Your slippers, maLord

Yes, you can have more than one ( :evil: ), maLord

You’re never wrong, maLord

:evil: :evil:

GOHWTM

Celisea

November 20th, 2013
1:38 pm

And nope, I don’t clown in the streets nor get in “situations.” Sorry, boo

Leggs

November 20th, 2013
1:41 pm

I read “Go On Home With That Mess” when I realized you were saying Get out of Here With that Mess. I think that’s what you were saying (lol).

Celisea

November 20th, 2013
1:42 pm

Yeah, I had to think about it…lolololol I wanted to use the recognizable version, but I’on cuss :)

Leggs

November 20th, 2013
1:42 pm

Yeah, I don’t clown in the streets either. Never air my laundry in public and I’ve never thrown a man’s clothing out the window. Has anyone here done that before.

O/T: In 2.5 more hours, I will be taking my first kick boxing class. I’m excited and scared.

Celisea

November 20th, 2013
1:47 pm

Okay, yeeeears, as in EONS ago, I threw the kid’s dad stuff out the door and down the stairs. Just opened the door and tossed…lololol Another time I bleached all his new stuff SHE (his grandma/girlfriend) bought. Brand new…I bleached every bit of it. All of it. That woman (his grandma) couldn’t stand me cause I wouldn’t tolerate him walking all over me. She said he was a fool to keep coming back and getting that kind of treatment.

I’m sure some dude is gonna call me crazy. That was yeeeears ago. I’ve calmed down a whoooole lot and just walk away (said like the baldhead dude from Love Jones…laid back and collected)

Leggs

November 20th, 2013
2:01 pm

Well, Celisea, you did say you were a hellcat back then and didn’t take no mess from a man and you went from 0 to 60 with the quickness.

Celisea

November 20th, 2013
2:05 pm

Yep, I’m nuuuuuthing like that now. I mean I quick on the draw sometime, but all that hellcat stuff is pretty much simmered and laid to rest. I don’t think a dude (as it relates to relationship stuff) could take me there. Now someone attacking me just sticks in my craw

When I say “grandma/girlfriend”, I only mean his grandma who had an unnatural affection for him. She’d go broke for him.

Anyhoo…enough about me…lol I’m gone back to work, I reckon

YesSheIsCute

November 20th, 2013
2:07 pm

@Leggs my mother has. After she emphatically poured bleach all over them, cut up his loafers and tossed them out the back window. We were on the 3rd floor of a New York City apartment building. She has also been known to stab/cause bodily harm to her husbands. Yes I said husbands with an “s”. I used to be crazy impulsive like that when I was younger but I just don’t have the energy and I see things way too logically now. I mean what do I look like wasting gas to go someone’s house late at night when it’s cold and confront them about some pictures on facebook and then I didn’t even like you that much anyway? I’m good in the comfort of my warm house watching Netflix. But that’s something she would do. With a boxcutter or knife. smh.

Exiled

November 20th, 2013
2:11 pm

@Celisea….so u kinda like in Church but still, like a recovering addict? :lol:

any mess seemingly popping may set u off in the church parkin lot….parishioners screaming and dashing inside,screaming ..”Hell!!,sister Celis is pounding deacon Johnson’s head to the pavement ..Help..”"..

church folks rush out… :lol:

Leggs

November 20th, 2013
2:12 pm

My sister threw my clothes out the window down into the alley, that’s my own experience with clothes being tossed. I never ran after a man, jumped on the hood of this car in a bathrobe, but I have been that friend who rode with you to slash a tire, key a car or just stalk. I went not because I condoned any of it, but she were to get caugh, I foolishly thought I could get her out of there in one piece and not have to bail her out of jail.

Celisea

November 20th, 2013
2:14 pm

MMeello – Stereotyping much??

Single and Happy

November 20th, 2013
2:14 pm

Disco, on your earlier question. The other night, I was over my neighbor house, her daughter went to let the dog, out and started talking about the front door being unlocked. I was standing close to it, I told her if someone had rushed in, I would have tried to hold them off long enough for them to get out the back door, but they better be moving. Somebody needs to be able to tell the story.

I’m like Reio, except for the bury me part, hell have me a cheap funeral, cremate me, don’t throw all that money in the ground.

Exiled

November 20th, 2013
2:16 pm

Celisea..its a question?

meaning..are u out of it?

Leggs

November 20th, 2013
2:20 pm

hell have me a cheap funeral, cremate me, don’t throw all that money in the ground.

Single ~ I sat here thinking the same thing. I don’t need to be in anything elaborate. Cremate me and keep me on the mantle. Somewhere out in the open because I’m afraid of the dark.

Celisea

November 20th, 2013
2:22 pm

MMeello – I knew that…I was being a snot :)

We’re saved for real, as in for real (none of this playing mess) in my church. You won’t see anything popping off.

If you’ll not selectively read (and I say that softly), you’ll see I’m talking past experiences, mostly….”a long time ago” or “eons ago.” Don’t assume I’m any kind of way, but kind. Chile please, I’m grown, I wish I would be caught up in some mess. I ain’t gon be caught up in nothing. I will though, say what I think. I’m not scrapping though.

disco

November 20th, 2013
2:24 pm

we on crazy stories. let me think. lol. I think my baddest crazy move was when this cat was messing with me and an oldhead chick. after having words with her out one night I got him to come home with me. while he was asleep I went outside and cut the leather interior in his car (a blue caddy) and squirted hair dye all over the outside of the car. I then went back inside and got undressed and got back in the bed. to this day (and I know because we’re still cool and have laughed about the incident) he believes the other chick did it.

YesSheIsCute

November 20th, 2013
2:25 pm

@disco I bow down to you on that one

disco

November 20th, 2013
2:26 pm

I was also on hand when my cousin threw a hammer down through her boyfriend’s tv (one of those original old school big screens). they were on some breakup stuff and he wanted to take the tv. my cuz was like you ain’t taking jack and smashed it with a hammer. dude looked like he wanted to do something but he wasn’t that mad (we had him outnumbered – lol). he took the loss and went on about his business.

YesSheIsCute

November 20th, 2013
2:28 pm

My craziest story? I have quite a few but the one that tops them all didn’t really involve a man per se. I just had the nerve to go crazy on a landlord in Germany while I was on an expired passport. He slammed the door in my face while I was talking so I took the biggest knife and went Michael Myers on his door. He came out screaming about how much his door was going to cost. I told him since he didn’t want to listen to me he could listen to that. This whole exchange happened in German language by the way. :lol: He was livid.

disco

November 20th, 2013
2:29 pm

yes – I was playing games on some realla realla stuff back then. me and this dude and that chick. boy oh boy. she was probably in her 30s but I thought that was super old back then because I was still a teenager. lol. she (and her daughters) used to always pick. one night in the club (yeah I was underage in the club) my aunt was like “is that the chick”. I was like yep. my aunt went up to her smoking a kool filter king and commenced to burning that chick’s face with the cigarette. yep. it popped off up in there that night. this is the same auntie that I mentioned on here said she wanted to be healthy but she wanted to get high too. lol.

Exiled

November 20th, 2013
2:31 pm

Where is Bluz aka ITL?

Seems she has disappeared from the face of the earth!

If they are two separate people then seems thru are a rare breed of fraternal twins.

Walk the same walk.
Makes me think of Luda’s song,’u move I move’ :lol:

U disappear I dissappear ! :lol:

Single and Happy

November 20th, 2013
2:31 pm

Leggs, I wanted to be cremated and have my ashes mixed in a cement block and put in a underwater memorial garden off the coast of Miami until I found out how much it cost. now I’m like take a cruise and drop my ashes into the sea.

Celisea

November 20th, 2013
2:33 pm

Where is Bluz aka ITL?

LOLOLOLOLOL….I’m sure, certain, most positive with a seance, we can summon them…LOLOLOL

Hi larious. Guess ole Celisea been too snippy lately. LOLOLOLOLOL

Gone head Mmeello, I’m SURE you can get in touch with them.

MsAtl

November 20th, 2013
2:34 pm

Afternoon All!

Just slipping in and back out. I agree that the man should be the protector to a certain extent. It depends on the situation. I think there are quite a few folks today walking around one pill away from catching a case so you do have to pick your battles wisely. The ex was not confrontational in person; he would back down from a man face to face but on the internet, he would threaten to kill you. The last man I dated would not hesitate to curse someone out in public if he felt disrespected or that they were disrespecting me. Can we have a happy medium here guys???.

I generally am not one to go off on someone, although I have been known to call someone an @$$hole when they cut me off in traffic (like when there was no one behind me and they could have easily gotten in). I ave been known to say, excuse me, but I was next, but I’m not about to be scrapping over no table or place in line. I’ve never thrown clothes out of the window or cut anyone but I’ve dreamed about it, lol.

My blow up I told opposing counsel to go sit down and shut the fu(k up during a settlement meeting. Not my finest moment but she was a real hag!

Celisea

November 20th, 2013
2:35 pm

Thankfully, I have a meeting from 3 – 5:00, wouldn’t wanna encounter any ghosts or boogey men girls

2CPTG©

November 20th, 2013
2:36 pm

My blow up I told opposing counsel to go sit down and shut the fu(k up during a settlement meeting

now that’s funny…..cause if that’s the craziest you can come up with….then, ok….

disco

November 20th, 2013
2:36 pm

then you gotta have a baby daddy story. lol. we was beefing about whatever. I drove by his spot and had some words with him. I’m in the car with my kid and younger brother. meanwhile his chick gone scream something from off the porch. what she do that for? I promptly drove to my mom’s, dropped the kids off and hollered at the nearest cousin to come roll with me. went back to old girl’s house, went right up on her porch and wore her out. meanwhile, the kids snitched on me and next thing I know my momma and aunties rolling up on the fight. it was some mess. dude asking me why I had to go there. I’m like please, I was ready to fight your momma and your sisters you think I care about some raggedy chick. get out my face. lol.

disco

November 20th, 2013
2:36 pm

okay. sorry. guess we done with crazy.

Exiled

November 20th, 2013
2:38 pm

Celisea..since u dont hunch the way us sinners do then maybe no crazy will pop up for u! :lol:

But ask ur fellow female bloggers they will tell u…the one thing that makes them go bonkers is a dude they’re hunching …walking away or ‘playing games’ soon after he hunches.

That will set a sister off

MsAtl

November 20th, 2013
2:40 pm

2C- I’m generally not a drama person. I believe I’ve told ll on here about beating on the ex one time. I knew I couldn’t d that again because i couldn’t afford a DV rap. My view is that if we have to fight all the time, I don’t need you in my life. i prefer peace of mind over giving someone a piece of my mind; but I will do it if necessary.

2CPTG©

November 20th, 2013
2:40 pm

so disco, are you reformed? cause sounds like somedays you still have a tad bit crazy left in you…..ijs

Exiled

November 20th, 2013
2:40 pm

@Disco….u could easily be a security guard…never mind ur college degree. :lol:

U are a tough girl!

Celisea

November 20th, 2013
2:41 pm

MMello – Back off the screen. I didn’t say one way or the other what I do, cause frankly it ain’t the blog’s business. And as we all know, (as just evidenced) you can’t put too much here anyway without some dude taking it left. Yeah, I’ve been here long enough to know keep folks outcha business

Celisea

November 20th, 2013
2:43 pm

MMeello – By now, every blog sista should know how to not fall prey to old bait and switch shenanigans. Folks ain’t just smashing random dudes…I don’t believe. So no, I don’t believe folks are up in arms over being left high and dry.

Celisea

November 20th, 2013
2:44 pm

Dern, a manager and good friend of my just IM’d me that her breast cancer is back. She’s having to have a double mastectomy.

disco

November 20th, 2013
2:45 pm

2C – reformed? probably not. I like to say I’m retired but you know folks have been known to come out of retirement. lol. I figure I left most of the mess behind when I left home. I’m good where I don’t know folks and folks don’t know me.

Leggs

November 20th, 2013
2:46 pm

I don’t have any crazy stories. I’ve never put myself out of pocket for a dude, no baby mama stories. Wait, the only thing I can think of is when I picked up that lamp to knock my then husband out and wound up with my head between the couch cushions before the night was over. That was our last fight (thank goodness).

2CPTG©

November 20th, 2013
2:46 pm

yeah….you still crazy.

2CPTG©

November 20th, 2013
2:49 pm

wound up with my head between the couch cushions before the night was over.

see now, I’mma take the high road, and ask you to clarify before making any assumptions….cause that sounds like some of that good old fashioned, make up, beat ‘em up sex, right there!!!!

disco

November 20th, 2013
2:50 pm

leggs – my problem is I’ve got one of those wide open buck wild families and kids don’t take after strangers. they way off and I’m just like them. hence why I simply stay away and call and get the low down and what happened. and, it’s almost always something. like my little cousin (early 20s) got kicked out of the zoo for beating up some woman. now the woman’s husband was the one who had started something but the wife slipped up and said something and my cousin jumped all over her. I may have mentioned to y’all my little niece down y’all’s way that got kicked off the school bus for beating up a boy in the seat behind her. child got all caught on video. lol.

Celisea

November 20th, 2013
2:56 pm

I will say, in all honesty, the kid’s dad was the only dude where I went through stuff. None before him and not since. After I broke free of him, I made up in my mind to up it a notch with the quality of dudes. Sometimes or I should say often he would have the “WTHeck” look on his face, after me snapping and doing some crazy mess.

disco

November 20th, 2013
2:58 pm

I had one more crazy story but said I was done. it involved an innocent bystander who was just catching a ride home ending up in jail. smdh. I might have to call my girl on the drive home today and reminisce over that one. the days. lol. y’all making me homesick.

YesSheIsCute

November 20th, 2013
3:01 pm

@2C it did kind of sound that way…..

@Leggs exactly how did you pick up that lamp and wield it? I need my night to end like that too!

2CPTG©

November 20th, 2013
3:11 pm

I need my night to end like that too!

:shock:

2CPTG©

November 20th, 2013
3:13 pm

disco, be honest…..ye’en never been downtown (jail), with some of those antics?

2CPTG©

November 20th, 2013
3:15 pm

And Cutie, you can’t be saying that openly….next thing you know Durty gon’ be poppin up! just hold on, and be strong til next May……all your problems will be solved!

Exiled

November 20th, 2013
3:15 pm

I have never had a woman do the crazy on me.

I have tended to screen them in the past based on their perceived potential crazies…playa crazy formulae.

For example…I never did church good girls..u gotta come ‘correct ‘ with them,not for just play.

Plenty crazy in them once theyre strongly convinced to taste the fruit…then benched!

etc etc etc

Leggs

November 20th, 2013
3:16 pm

2C ~ sorry, nothing like that. I weighed less than a buck 20 and I went to swing and he ducked grabbing me by my neck and throwing me down into the couch cushions. Next thing I knew he was shaking me by the back of my head screaming and smushing my face down in the couch cushions. True story, you can stop laughing now.

disco ~ I am fiesty and can verbally whup most anybody, I just don’t fist fight. My last fight was in the 9th grade and I got beat up. If you were my friend back then, we could have taken her (lol).

Exiled

November 20th, 2013
3:17 pm

Thirsty fun girls

Another no no!

:lol:

Leggs

November 20th, 2013
3:21 pm

YSIC ~ sorry to disappoint you. Now, I’m laughing.

YesSheIsCute

November 20th, 2013
3:28 pm

@2C I’m just saying…so now you know what to do if I’m being belligerent :lol:

DuShawn

November 20th, 2013
3:29 pm

When I first started dating Wifey, she and one of my potnahs from childhood did not get along. Our lifestyle at the time was wild when it came to women. We were accustomed to partying chicks that knew the deal. He assumed wifey was just another one we were about to run through….hell, those were my initial intentions. In retrospect, he resented the fact of her seemingly elevated position and they were both shid talkers. One night we all chillin at my house, Wifey and her crew and a few of my boys, they get to poppin off at each other and he grabs her by the neck and pushes her. She looks at me like “you gone let him put his hands on me.” At that moment I was torn, I’d known my man for 25 years. I only new wifey a few months. I made him stop, she started crying and went in the bathroom with her girls. I made dude apologize and leave, but I always (even to this day) regret not knockin his azz out. She wasn’t my lady then and if that had happened three months later when my feelings for her had become more apparent, I would not have hesitated to kick him to sleep. As time went by, they made amends, but she still doesn’t care for him. Case and point, a few years back he got shot in the head. He survived, but his left side is like he had a stroke. His mouth is twisted and it’s difficult for him to speak. I told Wifey about it. Her response………” I bet that will shut his azz up”

YesSheIsCute

November 20th, 2013
3:31 pm

@Leggs oh no :( I was good when you said throwing you down in the couch cushions. After that I was just like :shock: I do not want my night to end up like that. OMG and what were you arguing about in the first place to get all heated like that?

Exiled

November 20th, 2013
3:31 pm

2C..disco been downtown(jail)?

She ain’t telling u that!

I bet she might have a felon,having popped a dude with a brick or golf club

I bet Disco’s job right now is thru a hook up,forged papers etc and she can’t tell u that.

She won’t even say what state or city she at,let alone what she do or college she went to.

Talk of a mysterious woman! :lol:

disco

November 20th, 2013
3:31 pm

2C – i have managed to live all the way up until today without ever having been arrested. knock on wood. i did ride in the back of a squad car once but that was just to go identify somebody. that’s a whole nother story. lol.

leggs – lol. not in the 9th grade. my 9th grade fight was against a sophomore chick. cafeteria. our table was against the rail where the line was. I was sitting with my back to the rail. she was loud mouthing me and trying to punk me (little skinny freshman that I was) and I swung my whole food tray across that table and jumped my little behind right over that table on her. fast forward however many years and my son got in a fight in 4th grade and hit a boy with his tray in the cafeteria. kids don’t take after strangers. lol.

Exiled

November 20th, 2013
3:33 pm

And talking of mysteries I hope none of u ladies are ‘ladies’ because u had a sex change! :lol:

Yapping yapping like a lady and yet u a fake.. :lol:

Hmmmpff

disco

November 20th, 2013
3:36 pm

D – your wife sounds like me. I would have held that grudge to the end. might even throw it back up at you every now and again. shoot, had I had the right girls with me that night we might have just gone on ahead and jumped him. lol.

ex – I am either the straightest crooked person you know or the crooked-est straight person you know. lol.

Mrs. SexyCool

November 20th, 2013
3:39 pm

My question is – exactly what did Felicia want buddy to do?

disco

November 20th, 2013
3:40 pm

SC – she wanted him to pull a Dudley do right so she could swoon and go “my hero” then she would feel more justified in breaking him off after the movie or maybe even during the movie. who knows? lol.

DuShawn

November 20th, 2013
3:41 pm

“right girls with me that night we might have just gone on ahead and jumped him”……..I’m glad they didn’t do that, but the way she reacted when I told her about his shooting, she almost smiled…………In the back of my mind, I’m thinking ” dayum…..did she have something to do with that shid. She got some wild azz lil cousins, nephews and brothers.

Leggs

November 20th, 2013
3:43 pm

YSIC ~ I don’t even remember what the fight was about (divorce was pending). What I remember most about that night, no not the face in cushion, is my child upstairs hearing this mess and if I had swung that lamp I would be in jail. He would have pressed charges in a heartbeat! Only reason why I put the lamp down.

disco

November 20th, 2013
3:45 pm

D – yeah. had they jumped him some of the residual anger may have got you and she may have kicked you to the curb with the quickness. just imagine. where would you be? lol.

Leggs

November 20th, 2013
3:48 pm

DuShawn ~ your story reminds me of this older cat I used to date many many years ago.. Found out he was a professional con artist. He came to my apartment and told me he was moving the mother of his kids down here and he wanted us to get along. I said like hell I would. It’s not up to him to tell me who I become friends with. Right after that, he had an anuerysm (sp?) that left him a little worse for the wear. I felt bad in the beginning and then I didn’t care at all. Ironically, I ran into one of the women’s children begging in front of QT. He remembered me and told me the man I dated then was now in a nursing home w/only one side of his body functional. I’m not mean spirited, but I smirked and walked away saying “was only a matter of time before he got his just desserts!”

Exiled

November 20th, 2013
3:50 pm

Disco….I know?

I don’t know u yet but wld luv to escort 2C to ur town for a weekend.
U got a homegirl that likes Africans..that u can arrange to entertain us(me) :lol:

SlimNu

November 20th, 2013
3:51 pm

We still talking about crazy? Trying to skim over everything to get the jist of what’s going on.

Dushawn – Dang, your post about wifey and friend reminds me of what a co-worker said. She was telling us about how this chick used to pick on her in school but later in life ended up getting raped. Tell me why my coworker said she deserved it….we’re all sitting here like, getting picked on does not equate to a punishment of rape , REALLY?! :shock:

disco

November 20th, 2013
3:52 pm

ex – hush. you know I just mentioned a friend who is currently dating an African. I asked her where he was from and she was just like “Africa”. daggone dingbat. she’s my girl though. lol.

disco

November 20th, 2013
3:54 pm

slim – especially since old girl can probably still whoop her behind. that co-worker was a female buster and that’s why she spent her childhood getting punked. lol. now don’t get me wrong. I’ve heard about someone getting shot or getting their butts whooped or what have you and saying they deserved it but that’s different. lol.

Mrs. SexyCool

November 20th, 2013
3:59 pm

I like Mrs. Du. She sounds like my kinda chick.

Exiled

November 20th, 2013
3:59 pm

That’s different?
After getting shot?

Disco..u crazy! :lol:

SlimNu

November 20th, 2013
4:00 pm

disco – That’s why all of us were looking at her with the side-eye. I would never wish that on anyone…an ass whooping is different though lol

disco

November 20th, 2013
4:02 pm

ex – I’ve got family members where if my phone rang right now and they said so and so got shot I’d have to be like “oh well. that’s what he gets” and that’s before even asking who shot him or why. yep. sho nuff.

daddy swiss

November 20th, 2013
4:03 pm

““THE thousand injuries of Fortunato I had borne as I best could; but when he ventured upon insult, I vowed revenge.”

Leggs

November 20th, 2013
4:05 pm

disco ~ although it’s not cool to feel some kind of warm and fuzzy when bad things happen to people, some people do ask for it!

Exiled

November 20th, 2013
4:06 pm

Disco..so u tell me,as tough as u sound,they’re folks out there who actually do U or have done u dirty?

Why are these tough (men) not romantic candidates since u prefer a man that could choke u?…

if u don’t mind me asking?

Durty Burd

November 20th, 2013
4:08 pm

MsAtl…Pulling out the corporate gangsta! I like that!

2C…Thanks for the heads up regarding YSIC, I can work around her having a teenager at the house I am an expert at working with women who have kids….hehehehehehe!

Exiled….Of course Celisea is doing the do, that is why she is so krazy! lol

Leggs…That would have been a krazy make-up sex scene…Did you every give him some after you divorce?

I use to go back all the time after I would break-up now I keep it moving.

Disco…I grew up with families similiar to yours, always fighting and they had cousins who would visit and would start some ish. There had some comical beat downs…

Exiled

November 20th, 2013
4:09 pm

Hey Slim…u rare in these parts!

New flame keeping u busy..?

disco

November 20th, 2013
4:09 pm

leggs – I was thinking of one cousin in particular when I typed that. he stay in some mess. some bullet in the backside but sneaking out the hospital before the police show up type mess.

ex – I don’t mind you asking a question but I don’t understand what you are trying to ask. lol.

Exiled

November 20th, 2013
4:15 pm

Disco…u happy somebody got shot because u got beef with them?

I can understand not caring but wishing that they got it good?

U ain’t as tough as u seem then :lol:

Leggs

November 20th, 2013
4:17 pm

Durty ~ never kissed him again, never hunched him again, never desired him again! We are friends, but I don’t like him in the least that way.

disco

November 20th, 2013
4:18 pm

ex – I don’t waste my time on wishing them shot. I’m not dancing around like the wizard of oz talking bout “ding dong the wicked witch is dead”. I’m just saying that sometimes all I’ve got to say is “that’s what you get”.

Durty Burd

November 20th, 2013
4:22 pm

Disco… I have 3 male cousins who have been in an out of jail/prison so many times I think they might be informants! lol

When I go home, they’re like cous when you coming to see me, I’m like never. hehehehehe!

Walmart is having a food drive for their employees…hmmmmmmm!

Leggs

November 20th, 2013
4:24 pm

Time for kickboxing…enjoy your evening.

PEACE

Exiled

November 20th, 2013
4:26 pm

Food drive for their employees?

That’s a Shame Walnart!

Give ur employees an Xmas bonus not handouts!

Capitalists!

YesSheIsCute

November 20th, 2013
4:40 pm

I saw the preview of the news story regarding Walmart. Everyone I know that worked for Walmart hated it. Except my mom but I think because she was active military at the time they may have treated her a little better. Walmart is despicable. My friend says Walmart tells manufacturers/buyers what they will pay to sell their product and they are the only retailer who has the power to do it.

SlimNu

November 20th, 2013
4:51 pm

Ex – Yeah, been busy at the J o B lately. Plus Wednesday’s are my really busy days

YesSheIsCute

November 20th, 2013
4:56 pm

Are there any guys here that work for an airline? Just curious.