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Office romance: good, bad, and the ugly

Considering the amount of time many of us spend at work, it is not a surprise when romance enters the picture. I believe dating your co-workers is probably one of the riskiest moves a person can make. There is potential for a lot of drama and if things don’t work out, you are left to carry the burden of your bad romance in the office.

I have heard of couples who say that dating someone at work was the only way they were ever going to find anyone. I have also witnessed a really bad break up among co-workers. Worst case scenario has to be the couple who literally got into a physical fight when one dumped the other.

Do you think that dating a co-worker is appropriate? What if the person was your boss?

What are the pros and cons of dating at work? What are some tips would you give on office romance?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

240 comments Add your comment

George P Burdell

November 19th, 2013
7:45 am

Don’t dip the pen in company ink.

Button

November 19th, 2013
8:22 am

Do you think that dating a co-worker is appropriate? Yes if you’re a mature adult, nope if you;re immature.

What if the person was your boss? Nope, it’s usaually against company policy to date your superior isn’t it?

I’ve seen marriages form from working together at the same companies I’ve worked for. It’s all about how you handle it. I myself wouldn’t want to date a co worker/colleauge, no real reason as to why, I never wanted to go that route I do however have an office husband lol. He orders my supplies, do things for me with my customers, buy lunch/breakfast, if I have any issues he’s there. We joke back and forth about how we’re office spouse.

I can understand the pangs of seeing an ex should the relationship turn sour that’s the only objection I have about interoffice dating. —Good morning!

Single & Happy

November 19th, 2013
8:28 am

Hello all

All these do’s and don’ts about dating make something so simple too complicated, do what makes you happy! LIFE is too short, and none of us are going to make it out alive! So enjoy it while you can!

Chink

November 19th, 2013
8:31 am

Good Morning!

The Good – You get really close.

The Bad – You too close.

The Ugly – The Breakup

Done it twice can’t do it again …but they were long relationships …..the only issue I have is when its over it’s not a clean break. They can try to see you without asking…just dropping by.

SlimNu

November 19th, 2013
8:57 am

Sounds like a recipe for disaster…only ever dated one person I worked with and we ended up together for 10yrs. But he did not work at the same place for very long.

YesSheIsCute

November 19th, 2013
9:10 am

Good morning everyone!

There are a number of places where I wouldn’t date someone, one is the work place. While I am mature to handle a breakup of some sort, I can never be sure how the other person may handle it. I’d rather just avoid having any kind of tension at work if I don’t need to. I spend almost half of my day sometimes here. I’d hate it to be more unpleasant than it has to be. I’ve seen it work with some people. I’ve seen people get away with openly dating their superiors and I’ve seen a superior fired for the same thing. There’s always another pond to fish from.

MsAtl

November 19th, 2013
9:10 am

Morning All!

My motto is don’t get your puddy and your paycheck in the same place. Is it appropriate to date a co-worker? Depends. If it is a large company and, like Button said, the parties are mature, maybe not inappropriate, but definitely inadvisable. The Boss- Flat out NO!
It is no secret how I feel about workplace daliances. Why put all the time, effort and education into your career to throw it away over a piece of tail?

YesSheIsCute

November 19th, 2013
9:11 am

I work with the sister of a guy I briefly talked to. Every time I see her I just think WHYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY?!?!?! I couldn’t imagine if I had to see him everyday.

disco

November 19th, 2013
9:13 am

good morning. I’ll worry about this dilemma when and if I ever work someplace where there is someone worth dating. as it stands there is practically no one in the entire building worth a second glance. we didn’t even hit a lick with our UPS and Fedex assignments. smdh.

2CPTG©

November 19th, 2013
9:16 am

date who you want, where you want, and how you want……all these limitiations are crazy….don’t date at church, don’t date in your own neighborhood, don’t date at work…..hell, where can you date, then? When you’re in someone’s presence for an extended period of time, of course something is going to spawn; it’s only natural…..but these limits and restrictions….nah….

tips: and this is regardless of where your love interest lie…..keep folks out ya business! plain and simple.

Celisea

November 19th, 2013
9:24 am

WTHeck? As long as there are any husbands and wives or SOs involved, why can’t you date someone from the company? Use decorum and class. I mean y’all ain’t dating AT work. Go sit down and do your work…the both of you. After hours is fair game. If you both go in being and acting mature, should you hit splitsville, I would think it would be carried out like any other breakup….acting like you got sense. Both of y’all need to eat and pay bills right? Okay then, yeen crazy.

Now, I’m not saying “screwing around” and playing the company strumpet. If you’re a dude, steer clear of the company slut. If you’re a woman, don’t be falling for that dude making his rounds.

Celisea

November 19th, 2013
9:24 am

…..there “aren’t any husbands and wives……….. is what I meant

disco

November 19th, 2013
9:25 am

2C – I’m prone to agree. I’ve seen too many of the “dating don’ts” work for some folks. one of my friends married her next door neighbor. I know several who married folks they met online. I’ve worked in several places where folks met at work, dated and married. some continued to work in the same place. some opted for one partner to change jobs. I’ve seen folks date the exes of friends and/or relatives and take lots of grief behind it but they went on to marry that ex and are/were relatively happy. life is short and things happen. better try to get your pleasure in while the getting is good.

Celisea

November 19th, 2013
9:25 am

don’t date at church, don’t date in your own neighborhood, don’t date at work…..hell, where can you date, then?

My laugh for the morning…while I sip my coffee :)

Leggs

November 19th, 2013
9:32 am

The main con against dating a co-worker is when the relationship fizzles and you still have to see each other. Depending upon the circumstances of the breakup, i.e, amicable or full of discord, the work environment can become volatile. Even the most mature person can become childish when their heart is smattered to pieces.

Many marriages have occurred from a work relationship. Do what’s best for you and let the chips fall in or out of your favor.

Good morning!

2CPTG©

November 19th, 2013
9:35 am

disco, while I agree for the most part with your statement……the only “unwritten” dating rule is ya homeboy’s baby mama…why, I don’t know, but that’s just how it is…all other gals are fair game…just some’n bout a dude and his babay mama!

and Celie, I will admit, I am so impressed with your progress….now reading you is such a pleasure!

Celisea

November 19th, 2013
9:39 am

2Can – Awwww, boy you gon make me email you (j/k)…..thanks hon :) ALWAYS a pleasure reading you :) Ya lil skits and ya “gals” are all funny to me, never offensive.

disco

November 19th, 2013
9:40 am

good morning leggs. for what it’s worth I dreamed 999 and 1300 last night. I told you I dream numbers all the time. I still feel a slight sting re those 555s. lol.

2C – a lot of folks have “code rules” and if they want to live by them more power to them. me, myself, personally – they don’t phase me. if you love your homeboy’s baby momma, want to marry her and you don’t mind raising your homeboy’s kids then I – on the outside looking in – say have at it. who is your homey? he ain’t trying to do it so later for him.

YesSheIsCute

November 19th, 2013
9:41 am

@2C and @disco I can see what you’re saying. It makes sense.

Button

November 19th, 2013
9:46 am

for some dating at work is the only place to find a suitable mate. You spend countless of hours togethter, closing deals working on assignments, dead lines dead lines dead lines and happy hour, can’t leave that out. There is a bond forming and for some you can’t help but to take that leap and make something out of it. Good bad and ugly can come from any and all avenues when dating.

2CPTG©

November 19th, 2013
9:46 am

disco, I feel ya, dude can be just as absent as he wanna be, but let him hear another dude from the hood hollerin at his baby mama…..then you got to fight that nikka!

2CPTG©

November 19th, 2013
9:48 am

truth be told….why not date from work…..you know he/she has a job…you know when pay day is…you know what the benefit package lookin like……shiiid, you winning!

MsAtl

November 19th, 2013
9:54 am

2C- “you know he/she has a job…you know when pay day is…you know what the benefit package lookin like……shiiid, you winning!”
Lolol, You have a point.

Leggs

November 19th, 2013
9:54 am

disco ~ interesting because I was thinking 9900 this morning. Not a good Cash 4, but I was thinking it. Perhaps combo will work better than straight.

GlammourGirl

November 19th, 2013
9:56 am

I’ve dated coworkers on multiple occasions. One was for 3 years and no one at work ever even knew. When it ended, we still worked together and there was no drama. We were actually on the same team, interacted with each other everyday. It didn’t end on bad terms. Just 2 grown folks who decided we wanted different things, and we parted ways. We talk occasionally now. The second one lasted a year. We work for the same company, in the same building, but in different departments. We still do now. There was no drama with him either. We’re still cool. We talk, instant message, etc.

I just think it depends on the parties involved. I don’t do drama, whether it’s at work or anywhere else. So I definitely wouldn’t trip at work if things turned sour.

disco

November 19th, 2013
9:57 am

leggs – I made my phone calls this morning to all my number people (NY, PA and OH). they are beginning to have a lot more faith in me and my dreams. my aunt in NYC said she was going out to put hers in right after she finished her coffee. lol.

Celisea

November 19th, 2013
10:02 am

Off topic: Uncle Charlie has a new gospel/inspirational song. I really like the song. The radio station had him on, with him saying he’s been wanting to put something out for a long time now regarding faith and believing. It’s nice.

kimmie

November 19th, 2013
10:02 am

‘Sup Gang!

This is one of those “it depends”. On the situation – the maturity of the individuals, the size of the company, whether or not there is any conflict of interest issues with the actual work you guys do, the company policy on it. One of the ladies on my team is married to a man that works for the company. They were actually set up by another coworker! This is a huge company. We all used to work in the same building but on different floors. Two years ago the husband’s department moved to one of our downtown offices. Anyway, they are happy and now have 3 kids together and 2 from his previous marriage, making that 5 kids total. Other companies I’ve worked for had married couples. As long as there is no conflict, like this person is your supervisor or both of you work in the same areas in finance or accounting, it’s all good.

My husband met his first wife at work.

Disco – My husband would have ZERO to worry about when it comes to anyone here at work catching my interest. It’s not even any good eyecandy around!LOL!!!

disco

November 19th, 2013
10:05 am

kimmie – me and some random chicks were in the lobby the other day lamenting the departure of our elevator guys. I think every chick in the building was sweating them dudes. gee-mo-nelli. the other day I mentioned the movie coming out with stallone and deniro. my elevator guy would have fit right in with those guys (just younger – lol). deep sigh…… lol.

kimmie

November 19th, 2013
10:06 am

for some dating at work is the only place to find a suitable mate

Button – That’s true. You do form bonds, especially in certain industries/professions. You understand what the other is going thru. Like a lot of folks in the medical profession get together with others in the business.

Button

November 19th, 2013
10:09 am

Kimmie – lol @ eye candy, none here for sure.

SlimNu

November 19th, 2013
10:12 am

Leggs – Speaking of numbers, the numbers 538 have been heavy on my mind even though I haven’t played them.

kimmie

November 19th, 2013
10:14 am

Disco – There were 2 cute mail guys that used to come thru when we were at the other building. They were a little young for me & I was already seeing hubs, but at least they were something to look at. They would come in and drop some of the office happenings in other areas, and share their own weekend dating shenanigans. They were both finishing up school and got promoted and moved on.

2CPTG©

November 19th, 2013
10:18 am

I will say, that was one good thing about working in a call center…..lawd hammercy…when I first got started in IT, I was in tech support, and you talkin bout eye candy….Jimmy Carter, and Satellite Blvd!!!!

CoolShadow

November 19th, 2013
10:18 am

Regardless of the side you take in dating at work, people will continue to do it. The difference from most other dating enviroments is that the discovery or acknowlegement of an office relationship could potentially threaten or undermine your livelihood. But a lot of factors come into play such as the person of interest’s office behavior and affinity for discretion, company policy, etc. You have to assess the ramifications of such a relationship and the effect it could have on your job or career path. Dating is always easier for a man when he’s employed…

disco

November 19th, 2013
10:25 am

I wish I knew who the blog eye candy was. too bad folks can’t have pics or at least avatars next to their blog name. lol.

Leggs

November 19th, 2013
10:25 am

SlimNu ~ If it’s heavy on your mind, you need to play it.

No eye candy here for us ladies, but lots of eye candy for the men here!

Leggs

November 19th, 2013
10:27 am

disco ~ we are the eye candy :wink:

Reio

November 19th, 2013
10:27 am

I never dated anyone at work. As I recall, those that I would have asked out were already seeing someone, or married. There were the usual sluts around the workplace though. Doing various fellas just for the thrill of it. Can’t confirm it though, cause I either heard it through the grapevine, or from the males involved. Never from the women. I figure date who you want. The boss? Naw.

disco

November 19th, 2013
10:32 am

reio – not the boss? why not? shouldn’t a person “aim high”? lol.

leggs – speaking of female eye candy. this dude showed me a pic of his wife recently. I swear my jaw dropped. I had to give credit where credit is due. I told dude his wife was bad. I even told him to give her a message for me. something about her being my idol and I was trying to be like her when I grew up. lol. he was cheesing the whole time. he know he hit a lick with that one.

2CPTG©

November 19th, 2013
10:32 am

Dating is always easier for a man when he’s employed…

bruh, ye’en neva lied!!!

disco

November 19th, 2013
10:36 am

cool/2C – just last night and this morning I was discussing with two female friends how they always seem to have a pair and a spare when it comes to dudes. they both claimed that my problem was that I was too picky. I countered with the real issue being that those heffas are broke and almost every dude is a come up. lol.

Leggs

November 19th, 2013
10:37 am

disco ~ there’s a guy here that isn’t quite pleasing on the eye. Very nice fella, but “aesthetically challenged.” I knew he was married and walking by his desk one day I stopped and looked at the pics on his desk. His wife is GORGEOUS. I silently gave him props!

Leggs

November 19th, 2013
10:38 am

“I countered with the real issue being that those heffas are broke and almost every dude is a come up.”

Now, if that doesn’t shut one up, I don’t know what will.

MsAtl

November 19th, 2013
10:43 am

Lol @ “aesthetically challenged” That’s a nice way of putting it Leggs.
While I have never dated at work, I have been questioned by management before. I worked in a Department store and was questioned whether I was having an affair with the security guard because he was always at my register. I fessed up and informed her that the security guard had a sweet tooth and knew that I kept sour patch kids behind my register and he would stop by for a handful, lol. The look on her face :shock:

Reio

November 19th, 2013
10:43 am

I think I mentioned this here before, but during the holidays last year, we were operating with a skeleton crew. People tend to go on vacation a lot during this time. I’m starting to see it around here already. Anyway, last year during this time I came to work a little earlier than usual. Put my stuff down and headed to the bathroom to wash my hands. Bought an egg McMuffin and sh!t on my way in. Went there to wash my hands before I started chowing down. But, as I was headed there, I passed the break room and saw two coworkers at the sink. A male and a female. Their backs were towards me. They didn’t see me.
As I passed the break room I saw his hand caressing her azz. Big azz. Massive azz. Jan(her name) got a big-ole-butt!! He had mentioned that he was doing her and a couple of other women here, but I thought he was just makin sh!t up. What I saw confirmed it.
And it’s kinda funny. Jan was the one(he mentioned three) I thought, would be the least likely to have anything to do with him. Which leads me to believe he’s doing the other two as well. Cause Jan’s married, the other two are not. All four still work here. Jan got a big azz though.
Almost a big as Aunt Bee’s azz on the Andy Griffith Show. Fo sho!!

2CPTG©

November 19th, 2013
10:44 am

disco/Leggs…..how does that make you ladies feel when you see an ugly guy (in your eyes), with a drop dead gorgeous wife? Do you think more power to her, or be like……wonder what she see in him?

Button

November 19th, 2013
10:47 am

there was this one eye candy that made working a pleasure. He was supa dupa fine and smart too. Very well mannered, polite. I really enjoyed working on projects with him, somehow he made my brain cells work a little better lol ~sigh~ I came up with all kinds of creative ideas and such just to get him to come over and say something nice about it. smh lol

2CPTG©

November 19th, 2013
10:48 am

Reio…..so Jan got a big ole butt……out of all that you wrote, you kept illustrating Jan’s butt…..too funny…

Reio

November 19th, 2013
10:52 am

2CPTG© – Well it’s not just big but perfectly round. And she wears tight pants all the time. Big hips too. Nice lady. Competent and reliable. Damn adulteress. That’s why I don’t feel bad about saying what I posted about her. Hell, divorce your husband, then screw around. Of the fou,r she is the only one married. Hell.

Leggs

November 19th, 2013
10:55 am

2C ~ honestly, I don’t think “what does she see in him.” My first thought is “he’s a good provider” and that trumps looks. I do give him props for having confidence to approach a beautiful woman. But to be honest, my thought usually goes to him being able to provide on whatever level that woman was needing. Then, I think she likes his personality because you have to like the person. Looks fade, a good soul stays front and center!

Button

November 19th, 2013
10:57 am

Reio – LOL I can always count on a colorful story from you!

we found con doms once, yeahh boy it wasn’t the colorful ones either lol

Reio

November 19th, 2013
10:58 am

“Looks fade, a good soul stays front and center!”

Here here!

Father Time & Mother Nature will remove all good looks, but can do nothing to eliminate a kind heart.

Celisea

November 19th, 2013
10:58 am

LOLOLOLOLOLOL at Big Ole Azz (like what, 50 times in that post)….that was hi larious. Stuff happens. Anytime you put folks together for a number of hours throughout the day, everyday, it’s bound to happen. Gotta be careful. Draw the lines and let folks know what’s up. If not, folks will be hitting on you, on the sly, all day.

I was riding with the good looking white guy one evening coming back from a client visit and he made a sexist remark. I think though it jumped out of his mouth before he realized. Well, it was neither here nor there to me…..cause I already know, “don’t play with me.” Well, when we spent pretty much an entire day with another client about a month ago, meeting and doing lunch, I made the remark (cause they all giggle and fawn over him) about them needing more testosterone in their organization so all that estrogen ain’t unleashed on him (which he burst out laughing btw), he was quick to say we’ve even the score of sexist remarks….and then apologized….again. Mmmmm hmmm, you know you were out of bounds.

CoolShadow

November 19th, 2013
11:03 am

disco – that’s the thing about dating while broke or unemployed; women can have a rotation and still maintain a quality social life while men become social outcasts and undateable. Such are life’s inequities…

Button

November 19th, 2013
11:03 am

I guess the ugly would be a schexual harassment charge if you do want to date someone and they aren’t interested so any pass you make on them you’ll be reported to HR.

Single & Happy

November 19th, 2013
11:05 am

Looks don’t fade! people let themselves go!

Father Time & Mother Nature will remove all good looks, unless something physically happens, beautiful young people will grow up to be beautiful old people.

kimmie

November 19th, 2013
11:06 am

2C – I know you were talking to Leggs & Disco, but I wanna comment.

It’s not unusual to see pretty women with less than attractive husbands. I personally think females are not as visual as males and are designed somewhat to be attracted to other things beyond looks. And no, I’m not just talking about money either. These dudes sound like average guys in that area. I bet these guys were incredibly kind to their ladies and had more to offer them in terms of character and caring than some pretty boys they may have encountered. These ladies recognized the diamonds these men are under a not-as-pretty package. I say more power to them both.

2CPTG©

November 19th, 2013
11:10 am

Father Time & Mother Nature will remove all good looks

most folks fear dying alone….I can’t lie…..I fear gettin’ ugly! That’s why I couldn’t be like MsAtl and her hubby of 25+ years and then get a divorce…hell naw!

disco

November 19th, 2013
11:11 am

2C – the guy I’m talking about was actually nice looking himself. old sexy chocolate brother. if anything I was impressed because his wife was bodied up. according to him she’s a hardcore gym rat and she’s pushing 50. as far as looks, she was cute enough and stylish enough but that’s not what really drew me in (she was light skinned anyway and i’m color struck – lol). now to really answer the question, more often than not the woman looks nicer than the man in the relationship. not all the time but often. typically if I see a really fine dude and a busted chick I personally think dude has issues that no one else wants to bother with and busted chick just feels good to have a fine man. ijs.

Leggs

November 19th, 2013
11:11 am

Reio ~ I remember you telling us that story last year and I got the same thing out of the story this year I got last, Jan got a big o butt!!!! You must have mentioned it a good 20x (lol).

kimmie

November 19th, 2013
11:12 am

According to Judge Judy – “Beauty fades, dumb is forever”

Celisea

November 19th, 2013
11:12 am

I personally think females are not as visual as males and are designed somewhat to be attracted to other things beyond looks

I’m so glad someone touched on this. I’d written a post and deleted it. But for me, I’m good cutting up all day on “eye candy”, but that’s just in fun. Nothing wrong with a good looking brother, but what gets to me core is just an all out good dude. And yep, there’s been a time or two I wasn’t feeling a brother intiially, but how can you not be drawn to a really really good dude.

Silky was NOT my type….at least I thought. Not one I’d ever turn twice to look at. He wasn’t bad looking, he just didn’t catch my eye. Well, he kept coming around and coming around and coming around. Saying and doing all the right things…..and flashing dem pearlys (ding!!)….Lawd help meh :)

“A” is leaning towards handsome, but that ain’t it. Honestly, I can do with or without. Like I said, a brother that can say AND DO the right things, words and actions align. Ain’t tryna play games. Good to his core. Melt like butta :mrgreen:

disco

November 19th, 2013
11:14 am

I mentioned a cousin of mine who is a really decent looker. problem is he ain’t got eye water to cry with. he’s the one who married an old cross-eyed pop bottle wearing chick who is overweight to boot. that chick loves him like no one else will ever love him. can’t tell her nothing bout her man.

SlimNu

November 19th, 2013
11:14 am

“Do you think more power to her, or be like……wonder what she see in him?”

2C – I assume he must be BALLING. lol But sometimes folks have just one helluva personality

Reio

November 19th, 2013
11:15 am

“….. unless something physically happens,…….”

Yeah yo azz gets old. That’s physical.

“……. beautiful young people will grow up to be beautiful old people…….”

Never seen a beautiful old person. I know a number of old people, elderly even, with beautiful hearts. But I would never put them in the beautiful category. Old, wrinkled, humped-backed, gray, damn near blind, toothless, DEPENDS wearing, bed-ridden, coughing, snuff dippin, droolin, cane using…folks caint be beautiful physically. Jus sayin.

MsAtl

November 19th, 2013
11:16 am

2C- Are you saying you are afraid of becoming aesthetically challenged as you get older? My looks were the least of my worries. The stress and fear of catching something would have had me looking old before my time…

MsAtl

November 19th, 2013
11:17 am

Reio- Well tell us how you really feel! Wow!

Leggs

November 19th, 2013
11:18 am

Reio ~ I now see others posted on Jan’s big o butt and we each put different amount of times you mentioned it…that was quite funny.

A good hearted person is a good hearated person, no masking that. That makes a person even more prettier/handsome! No wolves in sheep clothing, one’s soul is bare and you can see THEM FOR WHO THEY ARE…that’s beautiful and an aphrodiasic if you like the person (lol).

kimmie

November 19th, 2013
11:20 am

Disco – There was a couple that lived in my old neighborhood where I grew up. Both were attractive, but the husband was the best looking older man I had ever seen in my life. He was tall, nicely built for 60-70+ and had a head full of thick grey hair. He looked nice in anything, but he could rock a suit like nobody’s business. I’m talking movie star goodlooking, hands down. You could tell his wife was a looker in her day too, but she overdid it on the makeup and hair color a little. They were truly a striking couple. The hubs was a retired pilot and really involved with the Tuskeegee Airmen stuff. They both have passed on. Both the nicest folks you ever wanted to meet too, good people.

disco

November 19th, 2013
11:21 am

good personality or not, ugly is still ugly. fat is still fat. out of shape is still out of shape. funky is still funky. broke is still broke. let’s not get it twisted.

Celisea

November 19th, 2013
11:22 am

And alone is still alone :mrgreen:

I’m gone to work when the tide changes….if that’s possible

Celisea

November 19th, 2013
11:23 am

TIL the tide changes….same ol same ol

Button

November 19th, 2013
11:23 am

Reio- you’ve never seen a beautiful old person? I have, I’ve seen a few. shoot you don’t have to be old to have all those ailments you described lol.

Single & Happy

November 19th, 2013
11:23 am

I meet several women last week, I thought they were in their late 20s to early 30s, ended up the youngest was 43, the oldest 52, which looked to be the youngest, and all were gorgeous. It’s all about how you take care of yourself.

I also have several co-workers who are married, and one couple that got a divorce, and she married and divorced another coworker. All seem to be handling it well. Then there are those that are dating also and seem to be handling it well.

2CPTG©

November 19th, 2013
11:25 am

Yes, MsAtl…….

you gotta understand……I was/am a pretty mufvcka!!! RNS, to this day, I get the “something about you…..you have such a distinguished look!” And I hope it doesn’t come off as sounding vain….but hell, that’s what I’ve been told my whole life….

kimmie

November 19th, 2013
11:25 am

Reio – That’s sad, your 11:15. Beauty comes in all forms and is not limited to the young. And getting older, especially if you are healthy, is a blessing.

disco

November 19th, 2013
11:25 am

C – I could go all philosophical and question if any of us is ever really alone but I won’t. I’ll take it the way I think you meant and respond with alone is often (not always but often) a personal choice. ugly – never. fat – I doubt it. broke – who wants to be broke? they might be circumstances but I doubt they are choices.

Single & Happy

November 19th, 2013
11:25 am

Reio, sad sad sad

Button

November 19th, 2013
11:27 am

2C – you’re so vain lol

kimmie

November 19th, 2013
11:27 am

Button – You are so right, these days those ailments are not limited to the old.

disco

November 19th, 2013
11:28 am

as far as I’m concerned, it stands to reason that if there are ugly babies in the world (and there are) then there are likely beautiful seniors in the world. lol.

Leggs

November 19th, 2013
11:29 am

disco ~ what we’re I’m saying is what one may find unattractive another can bypass it because of their income/kind heart, good soul. I always say the same thing, Biggie Smalls is unattractive to me on many levels, but Faith Evans loved that man. Supposedly, there’s someone for everyone and because I don’t walk up to doesn’t mean the next person won’t run to take your hand and take you off the market.

disco

November 19th, 2013
11:33 am

leggs – I get it / got it. just making a point about that personality thing. it goes a long way but it don’t go all the way (at least not with me – lol). I understand that it takes all kinds and also subscribe to there being someone for everyone. I suppose the real catch is finding your someone but that’s why eharmony and ‘nem are making all that money. lol.

Button

November 19th, 2013
11:34 am

for the first time in my life I saw an ugly baby. that baby was somehting ugly, it looked reptilcamelish a cross between a lizzard and a camel. and what about the old looking babies? somoe babies look so darn old.

Reio

November 19th, 2013
11:35 am

Yeah yeah yeah….Yall can put me down all you want. Don’t care. Physical beauty is a gift to the young. Mother Nature & Father Time combine to destroy it as we age. That’s the truth. I’ve seen older women that I suspected were “quite the looker” as younger women, but none that I would consider beautiful. So, I guess it is sad for me, cause I ain’t seen it yet.

Button

November 19th, 2013
11:38 am

ppl say denzel washington is handsome, I just can’t see it. He’s just average to me.

Button

November 19th, 2013
11:40 am

geroge clooney, brad pitt, idris elba all of them are just average to me.

Button

November 19th, 2013
11:43 am

Reio- I’m not putting you down, that’s your opinion. Stop being so sensitive.

disco

November 19th, 2013
11:45 am

button – denzel doesn’t do anything for me either. Clooney looks like he stinks. I like brad pitt with short hair and clean shaven. he looks nasty with long hair. idris elba? I’d do him and then I’d do him again and the I’d do him one more time for good measure.

kimmie

November 19th, 2013
11:45 am

Alot of men are attractive to me not necessarily because they are all that gorgeous physically, but they just have a presence about them. The way they put themselves together, the way they carry themselves, their build and stature, their voice.

Reio

November 19th, 2013
11:46 am

Button – Don’t put me down. Ok? Pleeeeeease?

Single & Happy

November 19th, 2013
11:47 am

Reio, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, so you have a right to your opinion.

Leggs

November 19th, 2013
11:47 am

For me, those three are little above average (lol).

Button

November 19th, 2013
11:49 am

discoooooo :lol: :lol: :lol:

Kimmie – exactly!

MsAtl

November 19th, 2013
11:50 am

2C- Funny; vain, but funny. I get it. Like Kimmie said, sometimes there’s just something about a person.
Disco- Oh yes- Idris!

kimmie

November 19th, 2013
11:50 am

Idris doesn’t do it for me in the looks department, but he has that swag and when I here the British accent, I like it.

I love Denzel, always have. He’s always been attractive, but not too pretty, nice pecan brown skin and nice teeth and I like his voice. I can’t stand the pretty boy types, not masculine to me.

Like Brad short hair and clean shaven too. He looks like trailer trash with that long stringy hair.

disco

November 19th, 2013
11:56 am

kimmie – I agree on your denzel take. I like him. I think he’s easy on the eyes. he just isn’t sexy to me. if I had the opportunity to get with him, I’d have to pass. I’d be like “come on D, don’t you have 50’s number”?

disco

November 19th, 2013
12:00 pm

I’m continuing my convo with denzel. “okay. cool. I understand 50 ain’t your type. what about ving rhames/michael jai white. you got their numbers? can you hook a sister up? oh. you tripping dee. fine. what about don cheadle? I know you got his number. I can get with that. holler at your boy for me”. lol.

MsAtl

November 19th, 2013
12:19 pm

Disco- You’re picturing that Ving Rhames scene from “Baby Boy” ain’tcha? Lol

YesSheIsCute

November 19th, 2013
12:20 pm

disco

November 19th, 2013
12:27 pm

atl – just about every ving rhames EXCEPT for holiday heart. lol. I just watched phantom punch the other day where he played sonny liston. plus he played a boxer in undisputed when he was tearing Wesley snipes up. now, he did hit a lick in baby boy but me and ving – we go way back. what about rosewood? “how old you be scrappy?” lol.

2CPTG©

November 19th, 2013
12:34 pm

hmmm… I used to love me some Kim Fields when she was “Tootie” in facts of life, and Whitley on a Different World…and Jada Pinkett, too….now, just gimme Taraji P Henson….

disco

November 19th, 2013
12:37 pm

2C – with the exception of whitley, not a bad list. she irked me more often than not. I think the only role I ever really appreciated her in was stompin at the savoy.

daddy swiss

November 19th, 2013
12:40 pm

2C — I had a little pre-teen crush on Tootie, myself. Taraji is cute. Never cared much for Whitley (whatever her real name is). Kerry Washington used to do it for me before she got too scrawny…

Button

November 19th, 2013
12:44 pm

Ving rhames from holiday heart done mess him up lol, looking like patti labelle whhhooooo chile

daddy swiss

November 19th, 2013
12:44 pm

Plus, Kerry’s face looks different now, too. I can’t tell if it’s just because she lost too much weight or if she’s had jobs done. Probably both. But she looked way better before…

YesSheIsCute

November 19th, 2013
12:57 pm

Are we talking about our crushes? I used to have a thing for Scott Baio on Charles in Charge and Tony Danza on Who’s The Boss…….

2CPTG©

November 19th, 2013
1:02 pm

Swiss….Kim Fields was Whitley too……I liked her as Whitley ’cause I had a chic in college who acted just like her….she went S. Carolina State… I used to sneak out and drive to Orangeburg to go see her…..

Button

November 19th, 2013
1:10 pm

2C- whitley different world? kim wasn’t whitley, she was Regine on living single.

daddy swiss

November 19th, 2013
1:13 pm

2C — You’re talking about Whitley on “A Different World,” right? That wasn’t Kim Fields. That was Jasmine Guy.

Speaking of “A Different World” though — I used to think Lisa Bonet was hot. Then I saw “Angel Heart” and couldn’t get past the image of Mickey Rourke all over her. Killed it for me. lol

daddy swiss

November 19th, 2013
1:13 pm

Oops… didn’t mean for all of that to be bold…

Mr_NYC

November 19th, 2013
1:14 pm

Jasmine Guy was Whitley – she all shriveled up now

Mr_NYC

November 19th, 2013
1:15 pm

Bernadette Stanis from Good Times — couldn’t wait for that show to come on
I still watch the reruns

daddy swiss

November 19th, 2013
1:20 pm

Oh, and I don’t know this chick’s name — or the character’s name, for that matter — but whoever is the black chick on True Blood can get a ride on the Matterhorn. lol

Reio

November 19th, 2013
1:28 pm

I used to have a little thing going for Cindy from The Brady Bunch. Her big sister Jan could have sat in my lap too, if she wanted, as well. Marsha was too old for me back then though.

YesSheIsCute

November 19th, 2013
1:30 pm

The Matterhorn? LMAO

Reio

November 19th, 2013
1:31 pm

It’s funny, Marsha, I felt, was too old for me, but, the mom?, Florence Henderson? I wanted to pull her dress up also. Jus sayin.

Button

November 19th, 2013
1:31 pm

Reio – and what about Alice? lol

Reio

November 19th, 2013
1:33 pm

I was quite young at the time. Didn’t understand what I was feelin, but I sure was feelin it.

Reio

November 19th, 2013
1:36 pm

Button – “Reio – and what about Alice? lol”

If she prepared them lamb chops she was always cooking, the way I like them, I probably would have found time to bend her over as well.

Mrs. SexyCool

November 19th, 2013
1:38 pm

I work at the airport – as most of you well know. “Office” romances run rampant and get quite messy.

This is little more than a big o’ high school campus around this piece.

Mrs. SexyCool

November 19th, 2013
1:39 pm

The biggest issues usually stem from rumors of who’s been “run through.”

kimmie

November 19th, 2013
1:41 pm

Speaking of the Brady Bunch, I had a secret thing for Peter.

Button

November 19th, 2013
1:42 pm

Reio – what about laura from little house on the prarie?

kimmie

November 19th, 2013
1:43 pm

I had a thing for the dude that played the daddy on Smart Guy. I also love Rocky Carroll, who played Roc’s sorry brother.

Speaking of Different World, I did not know WHAT folks saw in Kadeem Hardison!!! :shock:

Reio

November 19th, 2013
1:44 pm

Proly a good thing I couldn’t get my hands on Cindy Brady though. Cause I’d still be serving time for what I wanted to do to her. Even though I didn’t understand what I was feelin, I would have tried something. Anything.

Button

November 19th, 2013
1:46 pm

Kimmie -I think it was the flip sun glasses.

kimmie

November 19th, 2013
1:49 pm

Button – He could flip them all day long, he was ugly as H to me! I know it would not have been good for the storyline, but I wanted her to marry the senator. I also have a thing for Joe Morton, even though he’s a snake on Scandal now.

Reio

November 19th, 2013
1:50 pm

Button – Laura(Melissa Gilbert) could have done anything she wanted to, to me. Hell, I would have licked them big azz boots she used to wear if she would have let me. Her big sister Mary(Melissa Sue Anderson) could have sat on my face for 18 days and 18 nights if she felt inclined to do. Jus sayin.

kimmie

November 19th, 2013
1:54 pm

Button – Oh and I forgot about Julian, the other dude Whitley dated on Different World. He was fine as all get out. He looks a little beat up now though, he’s on Greys Anatomy err now and then.

Leggs

November 19th, 2013
1:59 pm

Not sure if you guys are still on crushes, but right now, mine is Mike from Shahs of Sunset. But back in the day, I was developing a crush on Barnabus (Dark Shadows…lol).

YesSheIsCute

November 19th, 2013
2:02 pm

@MrsSexyCool my ex-boyfriend’s BIL used to work at the airport years ago for the same company I work for and he said that it was messy as well. He said there was a husband and wife that worked there and she was cheating on him with the supervisor and everyone knew and supervisor used to deny the husband’s time off so he would have to work while they were doing the grown up…… BIL said just because of that foolishness he quit it was too much goingz on.

Leggs

November 19th, 2013
2:02 pm

kimmie ~ I will forever remember Joe Morton as the Brother From Another Planet.

daddy swiss

November 19th, 2013
2:05 pm

Oh, and don’t even get me started on Wonder Woman! I think my first little kiddie boner was a result of them tig ol’ bitties bouncing in slow motion…. lol

kimmie

November 19th, 2013
2:06 pm

Leggs – Barnabus did have kind of a swag about himself!lol

I have always had a thing for Joe Morton!!!

2CPTG©

November 19th, 2013
2:09 pm

y’all right…..my bad…..Jasmine Guy….back in the day she was a babe too….

daddy swiss

November 19th, 2013
2:09 pm

Oh and that chick from Buck Rogers in her little tight space pants. “Intergalactic Camel Toe” is what they should have called that show….

disco

November 19th, 2013
2:10 pm

kimmie – not that you brought up the “smart guy” daddy. lol. essence atkins is one who I’ve always liked. she never blew up so to speak but she’s always been around.

kimmie – kadeem hardison was just cool and nice and he just seemed like a regular cat that you knew. now, that’s not to say he was a regular cat that you wanted but you kept him in your corner. lol.

we done went from the brady bunch to little house on the prairie? if any of the waltons come up, I’m out. lol.

daddy swiss

November 19th, 2013
2:12 pm

disco — You know that growth on John Boy’s face was cancer from eating infected puddy, right? At least, that’s what Michael Douglas said… lol

kimmie

November 19th, 2013
2:13 pm

Okay we go from office romances to secret tv fantasy romances!!LOL!!

2CPTG©

November 19th, 2013
2:15 pm

Swiss, speaking of infections, and what not…..any of y’all remember that rumor that a rock singer had to get his stomach pumped cause of dudes shootin their wads in him, and he had to have it removed cause it was causing him problems….

YesSheIsCute

November 19th, 2013
2:15 pm

I also have a girl crush on Alicia Keys :oops:

Button

November 19th, 2013
2:16 pm

disco – LOL I don’t remember watching the waltons however, I remember the saying “good night john boy”

YesSheIsCute

November 19th, 2013
2:16 pm

@2C I never heard that…and ewwwwww :(

Button

November 19th, 2013
2:17 pm

2C – rod stewart? I remember that rumor.

daddy swiss

November 19th, 2013
2:17 pm

“I also have a girl crush on Alicia Keys”

Cute — Er, um, lemme get my camera….

daddy swiss

November 19th, 2013
2:18 pm

Guess he was aptly named….

disco

November 19th, 2013
2:20 pm

I actually never watched the waltons. I do remember my grandma used to watch it though. I did watch bonanza, gunsmoke, rifleman. all the “shoot em ups”.

I don’t know dude’s name but the guy who played the brother in lawless who thought he walked to the hospital with his throat cut is a nice little looker as well.

Button

November 19th, 2013
2:21 pm

Rollo from sanford and son did a lil sumtin sumtin to me, his afro was tight too.

disco

November 19th, 2013
2:21 pm

girl crushes? hmm. don’t know if I have any in particular. I did have “body envy”. free from BET back in the day and elise neal.

kimmie

November 19th, 2013
2:23 pm

Disco – Cool for a friend, but ZERO SEX APPEAL!!!! Skinny, skrawny, bird chest, never would have wanted to see him naked YUCK!!LOL!!!

2CPTG©

November 19th, 2013
2:25 pm

Rollo was that dude!!!!!

YesSheIsCute

November 19th, 2013
2:26 pm

@disco well if we are going to talk about body envy then I agree with you on Free. I never knew her cakes were that big….

2CPTG©

November 19th, 2013
2:29 pm

wasn’t Free like late 30’s when she was doing that show, and thus the reason for her demise?

kimmie

November 19th, 2013
2:30 pm

Disco – That daddy from Smart Guy reminds me of my husband. :)

Essence Adkins seems cool, I used to like her little show Half & Half. I liked the style of the girl that played her half sister too. Both seem like cool people to have as friends.

Leggs

November 19th, 2013
2:31 pm

disco ~ loved Lawless and him telling about walking to the hospital believing his own hype was hysterical.

girl crushes ~ gotta think on that one.

kimmie

November 19th, 2013
2:32 pm

Body envy? Nicole Murphy, from the shoulders down.

disco

November 19th, 2013
2:34 pm

not rollo!!! rollo was fly as heck. lamont was the little bee-yotch.

Button

November 19th, 2013
2:38 pm

Rollo was so smooth, I really liked his acting abilities. Lamont was too darn spoiled with his tight pants wearing self lol

Mrs. SexyCool

November 19th, 2013
2:38 pm

My celebrity crush – Joe Clair.

kimmie

November 19th, 2013
2:39 pm

Yeah, I liked Rollo too. Could not stand Lamont.

It was nobody on Good Times I had a crush on. Nobody. I did used to love it when Sweet Daddy would show up though. He was funny to me, his player of the year style!LOL! He would have everyone shaking in their boots!

disco

November 19th, 2013
2:40 pm

not that she was a girl crush but I always thought malinda williams was really cute.

kimmie – dang. not even james? why, that’s almost blasphemy. lol.

kimmie

November 19th, 2013
2:43 pm

Disco – I know I’m supposed to like James, he just didn’t do it for me. Unlike everyone else, I wasn’t impressed with him in his cordoroys!lol!

kimmie

November 19th, 2013
2:44 pm

SCool – He reminds me of M.

disco

November 19th, 2013
2:45 pm

I’ll tell y’all who I used to love. not in a crush way, not in a sexy way, but just because I used to just sweat his music like that. biz markie. boy I was just doing the biz dance last night. “go biz mark”.

I also always had a thing for doug e fresh. I would have broke him off. took him “all the way to heaven”. lol.

kimmie – I just liked james. still do. had nothing to do with those cords and his one pair of khakis.

kimmie

November 19th, 2013
2:47 pm

Leggs – Harrison was looking kinda hot the other night on Scandal. Had his facial hair thing going on and the collar turned up on his trench. Yeahhhhhh……..

Mrs. SexyCool

November 19th, 2013
2:48 pm

kimmie – that’s exactly why he’s my crush. (lol)

Button

November 19th, 2013
2:48 pm

sweet daddy was cool but lenaaaay was the man! lol dude could put a kitchen sink in his coat lol

Button

November 19th, 2013
2:50 pm

disco – what about flava flav?

kimmie

November 19th, 2013
2:52 pm

My ghetto crush is TI.

Don’t judge me.

disco

November 19th, 2013
2:53 pm

button – what about him? lol. naw. say what you will about flav he was cool as heck. now if I had to crush, then it was chuck D all the way.

YesSheIsCute

November 19th, 2013
2:53 pm

Never mind…I remember my body envy is Carmelita Jeter from the Olympics.

Button

November 19th, 2013
2:56 pm

disco – yeah he as cool back in the day esp rocking the clock neck piece.

Leggs

November 19th, 2013
2:58 pm

kimmie ~ I love TI too. I remember the first time I heard him give a speech I immediately started liking him. He’s articulate, nice, seems to be a cool parent. I really like him and his music.

Harrison always looks good. However, if this storyline shows him to be a weak poonany, I will be disappointed.

My music crush is and always will be Nelly.

disco

November 19th, 2013
3:05 pm

leggs – I like nelly but he just looks soft. lol. I’d have to take TI over nelly. at least TI looks like he can bring it. he looks like he might be high and he might not go a long time but those few minute that you do get will be good. lol.

anyone ever have and s-curl, jheri curl crush? somebody up in here had to have liked ready for the world or full force.

kimmie

November 19th, 2013
3:07 pm

Leggs – Mine will always be LL Cool J

And I want to be like Sade when I grow up!

kimmie

November 19th, 2013
3:08 pm

Disco – You are hilarious!

disco

November 19th, 2013
3:10 pm

kimmie – I have heard many a tale re your hubs. in particular the first date and the engagement. I missed the how we met. care to re-cap?

Reio

November 19th, 2013
3:14 pm

The old Looney Tunes(Bugs Bunny) character “Granny”, the one that owned the bird Tweety”, looked like she had a big azz. I always wanted to stand behind her, if she was real. Hell, I would’ve even let her beat me with her cane instead of chasing “Sylvester” the cat around with it.

kimmie

November 19th, 2013
3:14 pm

Disco – Well, there is not much to tell there, except I decided to take a chance. He had on a Morehouse shirt and we struck up a convo grabbing groceries. Come to find out we had run in some of the same circles. We exchanged numbers, had a few phone convos and emails and decided to meet at Ruby Tuesday. The rest is history. :)

YesSheIsCute

November 19th, 2013
3:15 pm

@Leggs I like Nelly too. So much so that I was having dreams about him.

Button

November 19th, 2013
3:21 pm

Reio – is it safe to say you’re an azz man?

disco

November 19th, 2013
3:21 pm

see kimmie – you’d have me somewhere cutting up comparing stories. you met at a grocery store and got married. I met a dude at a grocery store. the dude was stocking shelves and had the nerve to be 40 something with a roommate. lol. I met another dude at the grocery store. he had a cart full of kid friendly food but was fronting. he always called from a private number and cut a few calls short. I eventually looked up his driver’s license and found his wife’s driver’s license as well. one time he called and I casually asked who is “blank” (the wife). believe it or not, that’s been about 15 years and we are all really cool though the wife doesn’t know how I really met her husband. lol.

Button

November 19th, 2013
3:22 pm

nelly reminds me of frankenstien, maybe it’s the tape under his left eye. he has a rectangular face/head.

2CPTG©

November 19th, 2013
3:22 pm

disco……don’t judge me, but I had a perm….bob cut, and the whole nine…just the other day I was looking for something and found my old curling iron…..used to get up e’ry morning and go to my aunt’s house so she could do my hair…..true story! Once me and this chic was traveling somewhere, and we stopped at a Burger King, gal behind the register was like, “his hair looks better than hers”

Reio

November 19th, 2013
3:24 pm

“is it safe to say you’re an azz man?”

No. I’m not really an “anything” man. Big azz. No azz. Never mattered much to me. Hell, I kinda wanted to test “Olive Oil”, from the “Popeye” cartoons, out as well. So there.

kimmie

November 19th, 2013
3:25 pm

Disco – LOL!! I tell you this, I used to see the finest men in Lowes and Home Depot!! Men who can work with their hands, handy, and more thank likely are homeowners!

Worth checking out!

Leggs

November 19th, 2013
3:27 pm

Never was a fan of the SCurl/Jeri Curl.

Button ~ that was old Nelly with the tape under this eye. My man has grown up. Not sure what disco is talking about, because Nelly looks like he can bring it, flip it, drop it and still have me walking like I just dismounted a horse!

disco

November 19th, 2013
3:28 pm

kimmie – again, sitting around a coffee table I would tickle you to death. true story. I’m in home depot. dude is checking me out and following me around. eventually gets up the courage to speak. I give him my number. we go our separate ways. I don’t know who left the store first me or him but I was literally blocks from home depot when my phone rang and it was his woman. apparently she was at the store with him or in the car or something and dude has zero game. I was just like really? dang lame-o. what else you got kimmie? lol.

Leggs

November 19th, 2013
3:28 pm

don’t judge me, but I had a perm….bob cut,

bob cut? Isn’t that the cut the Three Stooges wore??? I can’t image that on a black man?

YesSheIsCute

November 19th, 2013
3:31 pm

:lol: @ his hair look better than hers

disco

November 19th, 2013
3:31 pm

leggs – I mean his look looks like he’s lacking that street cred. he looks soft. again, I repeat, I like him and all but nelly looks like if he got mad I would probably laugh. that’s how I feel about Leonardo dicaprio. as much as I respect his acting game I’m always tickled that he gets tough guy roles. there just doesn’t seem to be anything tough about him to me. go figure. lol.

kimmie

November 19th, 2013
3:33 pm

Dang Disco!!!

Give me some time, might be a day or two to come up with some ideas. The coworker on my team I told you all about earlier that got set up with her hubs by a coworker? Well the matchmaker is a master at her craft, I told her she should go into business. She’s set up about 4 other folks I know that have gotten married!

Leggs

November 19th, 2013
3:34 pm

leggs – I mean his look looks like he’s lacking that street cred – Gotcha, but not concerned about his facial looks, his body is TIGHT!

Leggs

November 19th, 2013
3:35 pm

disco ~ I can follow you on Leonardo…he looks like the Pillsbury Do’Boy’s first cousin.

Reio

November 19th, 2013
3:38 pm

I always wanted to find time for every one(four) of those Sledge sisters from ‘Sister Sledge’. They were all beautiful and very intelligent. Sexy as hell too.

kimmie

November 19th, 2013
3:39 pm

LOL!! The first cousin!

Yeah, Leo does look weak. He pulls all those models because of his celebrity status, but he looks a little weakling to me.

disco

November 19th, 2013
3:40 pm

kimmie – it’s all good. I say that to say that when I’m with girlfriends and get to telling my stories they really be straight cracking up at me. I was just re-telling the story of the dude at the gas station talking about “can we conversate” while he had dreds and tattoos all over his neck. plus 2 years ago I was at a loss about sleep apnea. now every dude I meet has a sleep apnea machine. wtf??? lol.

kimmie

November 19th, 2013
3:40 pm

It’s gettin hot in here
So take off all your clothes

I am
getting so hot
I’m gonna take my clothes off!!!

kimmie

November 19th, 2013
3:41 pm

now every dude I meet has a sleep apnea machine.

:shock: :lol:

Reio

November 19th, 2013
3:41 pm

I used to imagine myself as the wicked witch of the east from ‘The Wizard of Oz’, cause had I been, Dorothy would have made it back to Kansas, but she would have been broken up into 11 or more pieces after I was finished with her.

Durty Burd

November 19th, 2013
3:43 pm

Good Afternoon Folks!

Disco…U sure know how to attract some winners, with all that good luck you should give me and 2C a shot! hehehehehe!

Reio….I like dem butts big and juicy too! Although lately I have dealt with some average bootey, time to go big! lol

Office romance I have participated in the past, but during the past 5 years I have avoided the ladies. It would have been mostly hit and run type situations but they were not an 8 or above…

2CPTG©

November 19th, 2013
3:47 pm

Leggs, I have a small head, so my sh!t was tight; trust, I got more compliments than naysayers….sounds crazy in theory, but had you seen it…..you’da been like, “looka his pretty black Ass!”

2CPTG©

November 19th, 2013
3:48 pm

naw, Durty….that’s all you, playa…..plus, Cutie said she’en going for it no ‘mo!

Button

November 19th, 2013
3:49 pm

Reio – I didn’t say a big azz man rather an azz man, could be big, small or cartoon azz.

Leggs – yeah he was younger Nelly with the tape under eye.

disco

November 19th, 2013
3:49 pm

durty – I think the last time something like that was posed to me on here I responded with something to the effect of “which joker/buster” are you. it didn’t go over too well. lol. besides, life is about good stories. i’ve got nothing if I don’t have a few good stories.

kimmie

November 19th, 2013
3:50 pm

2C – You got me picturing that mushroom hairstyle Lawrence Fishburne had playing Ike Turner in What’s Love Got To Do With It

Celisea

November 19th, 2013
3:51 pm

My crush is one envisioned….ADONIS like!! Mmm hmmm, olive complexion, tall, handsome, long black hair flowing in the wind, Italian like (yeah, that’s it!!). A body to die for, abs out of this world. Athletic and blessed with a big ole heaping of (drumroll…….) stamina!!!!!

YUUUUMMMM :mrgreen:

Until such time, I’ll keep with my current boo :)

Celisea

November 19th, 2013
3:52 pm

Oh, square jawed and slightly over 40!!!

Celisea

November 19th, 2013
3:53 pm

If I ever met my vision of love and loveliness, I’m going to live among the stars with him :)

Durty Burd

November 19th, 2013
3:54 pm

Durty health tip for today!

http://shine.yahoo.com/healthy-living/12-fish-never-ever-eat-162200617.html

Fellas additional fish you should avoid….Smelly morning puddy, grand cayon puddy, crooked puddy, stiff puddy, elastic puddy, etc hehehehehe!

Leggs

November 19th, 2013
3:56 pm

2C ~ I know, you have a “peanut head” like I do (lolol)!

kimmie ~ yeah, that’s it too, mushroom hairstyle. That’s what I’m envisioning.

Button

November 19th, 2013
3:58 pm

Durty – thanks for the list, I read that list yesterday, most of them are unclean anyway according to the dietary law.

Reio

November 19th, 2013
3:59 pm

“…grand cayon puddy….

Been a while, but been there. Done that.

Durty Burd

November 19th, 2013
3:59 pm

Ummm Celisea that is a mismatch! hehehehehe!

Disco…I luv your stories keep em coming, you and reio are hilarious!

I was at the gym and these 2 young ladies were having a conversation about the type of men they want. They describe about 10 different items they want in their dream man. I was like get down about 30 to 40 lbs and its a start in the right direction…lol

Leggs

November 19th, 2013
4:00 pm

This blog certainly suffers with ADD…from The Brady Bunch, to Little House on Prairie to mention of The Waltons, to fat butts, to bob haircuts, to soft bodies to fish smells….

We are in trouble!

Durty Burd

November 19th, 2013
4:02 pm

I have an older cousin who is mixed with mexican wear the billy d hair style for years and you will never see dude with with a fine woman. Now he will sleep with a fine women but she cannot be his woman… Dude comes to the A and knocks dead but his wife back home is his sponsor…

disco

November 19th, 2013
4:02 pm

durty – did I mention the little boy that tried to holler at me at the gym? I guess he was early 20s. I told him I had a son his age. he said he didn’t care, he wasn’t my son, blah blah blah. I ended up telling him it couldn’t be because I didn’t want to have to beat his mother up. he didn’t get it but I got it. I will not be “that” old heffa. lol.

Reio

November 19th, 2013
4:04 pm

On ‘BeWitched’ Samantha(Elizabeth Montgomery) could’ve done whatever she wanted to do to me. Also, her daughter, little Tabitha, had some pretty legs that I wanted to rub on too. No sh!t.

Celisea

November 19th, 2013
4:07 pm

Also, her daughter, little Tabitha, had some pretty legs that I wanted to rub on too. No sh!t.

Alrighty then….I’m gone back to work (and calling DFACS)

Button

November 19th, 2013
4:13 pm

Leggs

November 19th, 2013
4:15 pm

Celisea ~ I’m sitting here wondering when did I see Tabita grown or even remotely grown. All I see are those tiny baby legs.

Celisea

November 19th, 2013
4:16 pm

Leggs – That scared me….lol I’on even wanna be on this thing if alarms and junk starts ringing…for real….lol

Bye y’all

Reio

November 19th, 2013
4:16 pm

“Alrighty then….I’m gone back to work (and calling DFACS)”

Go ahead and call’em. I won’t deny it. Tabitha was a baby, but I wasn’t much older. But I still remember wanting to test her out, once I finished with her mom.

Not only that, but granny Clampett was kinda spry for her age. Good thing she never came my way.
I would’ve eaten more than them possum inerts she liked to cook. Jus sayin.

One more thing; I always wondered what Oprah Winfrey’s little thang down there smelled like. I’ll bet the average temterature in it is above 610 degrees Fahrenheit. No doubt.

2CPTG©

November 19th, 2013
4:17 pm

ummmmm,,,,Reio…..I hope you were only kidding with that last one…

:shock:

disco

November 19th, 2013
4:18 pm

I ain’t gone even lie. I done sat here and started making faces at the screen. smdh.

Reio

November 19th, 2013
4:19 pm

Who’s kidding?

Button

November 19th, 2013
4:23 pm

Reio – I’m mad at you for all of that mess you put up there :mrgreen:

Leggs

November 19th, 2013
4:24 pm

Reio ~ that’s sad, I’m serious! You just went left.

Reio

November 19th, 2013
4:25 pm

Well, I like to have fun sometimes.

daddy swiss

November 19th, 2013
4:25 pm

Reio — Didn’t you hear? Oprah’s minge and asshole (Gary) bit the dust years ago…

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t302MbYcQUQ

Leggs

November 19th, 2013
4:26 pm

Even playing, it’s blech!

Reio

November 19th, 2013
4:27 pm

What? My ‘Exiled’ imitation not working?

Celisea

November 19th, 2013
4:31 pm

Aaaand in 5, 4, 3, 2, 1…… (in walks MMeello)

I’m gone home. SMH….I hope this place gets a makeover or facelift soon. The cracks in the armour has been showing for a looooooooooooong time now. Ain’t but so long I can “pretend” and go along.

Toodles!

Celisea

November 19th, 2013
4:33 pm

Leggs

November 19th, 2013
4:40 pm

Cash 4, leaning toward 1704
Cash 3, 129, 931 or SlimNu’s 538.

Mega Millions ~ I’ve only been lucky at picking 2-3 numbers or just the mega ball.

One Day…..

2CPTG©

November 19th, 2013
4:40 pm

g’night, Celie……you can email me if you wanna talk about it…..heheheheh…

Leggs

November 19th, 2013
4:50 pm

Good night.

This spilled milk will be all cleaned up before you turn lights on in the morning.

PEACE!

daddy swiss

November 19th, 2013
4:55 pm

Leggs — Um, I’m not sure that’s milk….