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Open to open marriage?

I was at a friend’s party recently and a bunch of couples were in attendance. Somehow the topic of marriage came up and one of the guys said that he and his wife contemplated having an open marriage. Of course, we all got nosy and asked loads of questions but they were pretty candid about what they wanted to try.

The husband basically said that he did not feel that monogamy was a realistic idea in terms of “forever faithful” so why not be practical about it? They agree to be honest when they meet someone they are attracted to. They also believe that they can date and pursue romantic interests as long as they inform the other.

I personally can’t imagine doing this type of open marriage, but I won’t knock it. I just think traditional marriage is not for everyone. If a couple can find a way to make this work for them, who am I to judge?

Would you ever consider having an open marriage? Do you think it is realistic?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

317 comments Add your comment

Lee

November 13th, 2013
6:44 am

Would you ever consider having an open marriage? No
Do you think it is realistic? No, What is the point of marriage then, just stay single.

Hurry up and get over with Wednesday.

SlimNu

November 13th, 2013
8:09 am

Um, OPEN marriage…that brings to mind the question of what’s even the point to get married if you’re going to both still be dating others. Aren’t the vows to Forsake all others, or did I just pull that out of my arse?

Button

November 13th, 2013
8:14 am

Lee/SlimNu – my exact thoughts.

Good morning!

SlimNu

November 13th, 2013
8:51 am

Is it cold enough for you guys? Brrrrrrrrrrr

YesSheIsCute

November 13th, 2013
8:57 am

Good morning everyone!

You’re right WD, you shouldn’t judge those that decide to have an open marriage. How and ever, I agree with SlimNu, I thought one of the vows was to forsake all others and be bound for as long as one another shall live? If he thinks it’s unrealistic, maybe he shouldn’t be married. I think that’s the problem, many people don’t revere marriage as they should. Instead of taking a hard look and saying that I am not the type of person who can honor the vows I took for the rest of my life, people just keep sullying the institution of marriage and saying it’s not realistic. It is realistic, just admit that you can’t won’t do it.

disco

November 13th, 2013
9:15 am

good morning. I actually would consider an open marriage. heck, some folks are in open marriages whether they want to acknowledge it or not. as in all things, it is what you make it and I, for one, recognize that marriage is different things to different people. I’m sure there are many wives (and some husbands too) that would be more than happy to look the other way at indiscretions. they just don’t care to be bothered with that aspect of marriage. they want the comfort and the security and the material benefits. they don’t want the “hunching” to use an ex term.

disco

November 13th, 2013
9:17 am

yes – you are operating on the assumption that folks took so-called traditional vows. vows have been changing. people are writing their vows. at the end of the day, folks on the outside of a marriage don’t know how the folks on the inside of a marriage choose to operate their marriage. what marriage means to you may not be what marriage means to them. in their marriage the only opinions that count are theirs.

Leggs

November 13th, 2013
9:20 am

I would never consider an open marriage. Why get married? Stay single, shacking up, what have you and date. Leave the proponents of marriage, a union between two people alone.

SlimNu ~ it is too cold for my liking. I wore a turtleneck yesterday (love turtlenecks) but overheated with all the running around I had to do at the office. I kept that in mind ironing my clothes last night and found a sweater vest I hadn’t worn in a good 6-7 years to help me stay warm.

2C ~ I thought about you while getting dressed. The vest I have on, I purchased back in 1976. I’m going to send you a pic of it. Already gotten quite a few compliments on it this morning. It’s old, but it’s cute.

Good morning!

MsAtl

November 13th, 2013
9:27 am

Morning All!

I actually know a few people in open marriages. It is not for me, but if it works for them, then who am I to tell them different?

Raqi

November 13th, 2013
9:30 am

I have yet to hear of an “Open Marriage” situation where it is the woman’s idea to entertainment such.

Look if a person is going to cheat there is nothing you can do to stop them. However that does not mean you should give them permission to do so all willy nilly by pretending to be okay with it.

I am saddened by the women that go along with such with repressed angst all in the vein of “holding on to their man”. All I can do is SMH. I have not yet met a woman that is perfectly okay with knowing her husband is screwing other women. The one acquaintance I know that thought she would be okay with it had to quickly be honest with herself and her husband that she was not okay. Whether or not he went thru with it I don’t know. Probably did behind her back but it is not in the fiber of a woman’s makeup to accept such. Unless she just doesn’t care that much from him and is doing her own thing.

Monique…Jada stop turning your head to your husband’s trifling ways and call it what it is. Get some self-respect.

If your spouse steps out and you find out deal with it in whatever way is right for you. But stop pretending like you are okay with them casually getting it on with someone.

If you want to live the single life to freely bed who you please, STAY SINGLE.

Raqi

November 13th, 2013
9:35 am

Leggs, I agree. Why don’t folks leave marriage alone? Stop tainting it by trying to “change” what it truly is. Stay single. Date and bed as many as your heart desires and stop trying to change the structure of marriage.

Raqi

November 13th, 2013
9:39 am

Yeah, yeah, yeah save all the crap about how people cheat behind their spouse’s backs. We know that already. Folks have being doing it for ages. But leave marriage alone. Stop trying to bring in a life of unaccountability to a structure that is meant to consist of two individuals forsaking all others. Stay Single.

2CPTG©

November 13th, 2013
9:41 am

morning….

see that’s the damn problem with society now….constatnly wanna change sh!t up…..sorry if I offend some, but GOD had one purpose in mind when he created the instituition of marriage! That’s one man, for one woman! And as some have stated, to forsake all others….If you can’t follow that simple concept, then one, don’t get married, and two, whatever you have that doesn’t line up with that, don’t call it marriage! Taking something and modifying it creates something different…

Leggs

November 13th, 2013
9:43 am

Raqi ~ and, if you’re doing the non-traditional vows, why go the traditional route and secure a marriage license, hire a clergyman/woman to marry you, etc. Why not marry yourself? Because it’s not recognized in a court of law, benefits won’t be given in death, sickness, you do not have a legal footing to protest or consent to anything for your mate. If you really cannot forsake all others, again, stay single!

YesSheIsCute

November 13th, 2013
9:46 am

@disco people may write their own vows but doesn’t the chaplain/preacher/etc still have them repeat the “for sickness and in health, for richer or for poorer…” spiel? That’s what I’m referring to. People can do what they want and call it “marriage”. But it does not a marriage make. You can put lipstick on a pig but it won’t turn it into a lady. It’s a pig with lipstick on. I have no problem with a pig with lipstick on and if someone says it works for them then that’s great :) . But for someone to try to pass it off as a lady (a female human)…. I’m not going to subscribe to that. It is what it is. An open marriage is not a marriage if the preacher asked you to repeat after him and part of those vows were to forsake all others.

But like I said if people say an “open marriage” works for them then that’s great they were fortunate to come to an agreement that works for them.

Raqi

November 13th, 2013
9:50 am

“Taking something and modifying it creates something different…”

Toucan, Exactly!

“…why go the traditional route and secure a marriage license…”

Leggs, Eactly!!

Raqi

November 13th, 2013
9:51 am

YesSheIsCute, ^5.

Leggs

November 13th, 2013
9:54 am

I’m getting closer…hit megaball and two #s last night. I think I won $3.00. I swear, hitting the megaball alone should be at least $100.

SlimNu

November 13th, 2013
9:54 am

Leggs – That’s the thing about clothes, if you hang on to it long enough, its style will come back around. ;-)

kimmie

November 13th, 2013
10:07 am

Good Chilly Morning Gang!

Raqita – I agree. I have yet to hear of a situation where it was the woman’s idea to have an open marriage. It is truly sad when I see anyone “going along” with a situation just to hang on.

2C – Love your post!

Yeah, if you want to have an open situation, cool do you. Just don’t call it marriage, because it’s not.

Raqi

November 13th, 2013
10:18 am

And I don’t buy into this “If that’s what works for you” statement being thrown around for everything these days. Some things are a matter of what should and should not be and needs to be stated as such.

What’s next? Telling a pedophile “if that’s what works for you then have it at”? Is that the direction we are as a society is leaning towards? Heck what’s to stop it from getting that out of hand if we are turning our heads on every matter because someone decides they want the freedom to “do what works for them”.

Heck I would like to walk into Costco today, get what I need and walk out without paying. That would work for me. I would get to keep the $200-$300 that I spend there every month. But as we know just because is what could work for ALL of us that is not how it is. LOL Our economy would soon cease to thrive if it was.

That is what is happening to our societal moral fiber. It is starting to unravel and we the people are to blame because we don’t want hurt somebody’s feelings.

Raqi

November 13th, 2013
10:21 am

Hi, Kimmie. Yes it is cold outside.

2CPTG©

November 13th, 2013
10:22 am

Raqi, this is modern day Babylon…..”acceptance” is the phrase of the day;

Durty Burd

November 13th, 2013
10:27 am

Good Morning!

Create you own comfort, security and benefits, but do not go into a marriage where you agreed to be with me thru thick and thin.

The problem with folks is they are very selfish, like Button stated before marriage is about adding to your partner happiness etc.

MsAtl…The couples you know who are in an open marriage, has the woman stated she is still happy with the situation?

Lucky Leggs what is going on with the Mega? I notice numbers in the sixties last night…I usually don’t play the Mega but it was at 117 million…What 3 digit number are we playing this week?

Hello SlimNu… :)

Raqi

November 13th, 2013
10:30 am

My hubby has a cousin that turned down our Thanksgiving invite because WE refuse to acknowledge the woman that SHE sleeps with as her WIFE. She is not her wife and we will not accept such in our house. She is welcomed to come and she can bring her friend but we will not have our kids exposed to a lifestyle that we do not agree with.

She can do whatever the heck she wants but not in my house so she has chosen to stay away.
That’s fine. If that’s what works for her then stay away.

LOL

Raqi

November 13th, 2013
10:31 am

Toucan, you are so right.

If that’s what works for you = Acceptance.

Don’t judge me = Acceptance.

2CPTG©

November 13th, 2013
10:35 am

looka Raqi….sounding like Joshua….”as for me and my house….”

Raqi

November 13th, 2013
10:36 am

If my hubby ever stepped to me with some nonsense about an open marriage I would simply say “Okay. But I get to go first.” LOL I have known him long enough to know that he would not accept that and an open marriage is not in his character.

But I’m just saying. LOL

Raqi

November 13th, 2013
10:37 am

Toucan, “…we will serve the Lord.”

MsAtl

November 13th, 2013
10:38 am

Durty- The wife says she is, but that may just be what she says. I have been told that as long as it doesn’t affect home life and the kids, but I can’t see how it cannot affect those things.

Raqi- When I say if it works for them, who am I to tell them different, that does not mean that I am accepting of that lifestyle. It simply means that I may think it is wrong, but I do not have the right to tell them to do something different. I can voice my opinion but at the end of the day, their marriage is not my business.

2CPTG©

November 13th, 2013
10:41 am

If my hubby ever stepped to me with some nonsense about an open marriage I would simply say …….there’s this dude, whom I told I would get with in the next lifetime, and you come at me crazy if you want to, that next lifetime begins now….. :)

disco

November 13th, 2013
10:42 am

hey raqi – I actually know a couple who had an open dating relationship and moved into an open marriage. they are happy.

2C – I don’t generally chime in on God but not everyone’s life and/or marriage is based on God. I will say that “God’s team” usually consists of some of the most judgmental folks around. those who cannot accept things that aren’t as they believe they should be. ijs.

yes – not everyone marries in a church or before a preacher. again, ijs.

Leggs

November 13th, 2013
10:45 am

Durty ~ I thought I told you last week that Mega Millions has a new slip. Numbers now go up to 78 I think. It’s now even harder.

Durty Burd

November 13th, 2013
10:49 am

MsAtl….That is interesting, but it would be difficult not to think about what your mate is doing with another person. How much money he spending on her, how much time he is spending with her etc…

disco

November 13th, 2013
10:50 am

raqi – the difference being pedophiles are dealing with kids. marriage (usually – lol) is dealing with two grown folks.

atl – exactly. who are we to tell other folks about their situations? especially situations they are perfectly okay with. I can’t stand folks who don’t whoop their bad azz kids but I can accept that they aren’t my kids and their discipline methods really aren’t my concern.

Celisea

November 13th, 2013
10:50 am

not everyone marries in a church or before a preacher. again, ijs.

And here’s where folks are misguided. It ain’t the “church” or the “preacher” that deems a marriage being being considered “done before God.” It’s the vows you take, that were instituted by God. So, it’s God that’s gonna hold you to them…wherever it got it said.

Raqi

November 13th, 2013
10:50 am

MsAtl, I agree. We cannot tell people how to run their lives. But what I am saying is there so much turning your heads and not acknowledging what is going on where will it eventually lead?

Like I stated up thread. What about the pedophile? If molesting kids is what works for him (i.e. gives him pleasure, because that is really what it is all about, Pleasure) is it okay for him to do so in his house? No!

But what’s to stop it from getting that far? Nobody wants to hurt feeling these days. Sometimes hurting someone’s feeling cannot be avoided. Or else it should not be avoided for the sake of what should and should not be.

Marriage is what it is. Folks trying to bring in other things or restructure it is trying to change marriage. As Toucan stated, that would make it no longer marriage. Call it something else but don’t call it marriage.

2CPTG©

November 13th, 2013
10:51 am

not everyone’s life and/or marriage is based on God.

therein lies the issue!!!! If it ain’t based on God, then who/what is it based on? Man didn’t create marriage, but man wants the authority to dictate, and moderate?

Durty Burd

November 13th, 2013
10:51 am

Lucky Leggs…O.K. not going to play the Mega heck that is too many numbers…O.K. so what pick three are playing…I am going to play 5 days out so I do not miss the next one…

Raqi

November 13th, 2013
10:51 am

2Can, Yep. It would start Rhet Now. LOL

Raqi

November 13th, 2013
10:54 am

Exactly. God instituted marriage and the laws of it. If you want to do something else call it something else. Just don’t call it marriage.

I have to go shopping. I will catch up with yall later. Maybe. LOL

Celisea

November 13th, 2013
10:55 am

Dern, I jacked that up…lol I had some other stuff but erased. I just don’t feel like going there on this world being based on “folks can do as they please”, so I erased some stuff. And yeah, folks can do as they please but that’s the very reason this world is going to hell in a handbasket. Every individual carries a responsibility to God….you are your brother’s keeper.

The devil ain’t in a red suit with a pitchfork. The less we speak the truth, the more free reign the devil takes. Thanks be to God though, I’m under the shadow of his wings.

Raqi

November 13th, 2013
10:56 am

Disco, you are right. Kids. But if that’s what works for him…Right?

Celisea

November 13th, 2013
10:56 am

I’m done. I wasn’t intended on getting all “righteous” on y’all. Carry on :)

Later gators!!

Toodles :)

disco

November 13th, 2013
10:56 am

Celisea and 2C – going back to my original post that that’s not the vows that everyone opts to take. right/wrong/whatever – some folks go out on a limb with their vows and their marriage. not everyone lives a faith based life. I’m not the one who makes it that way, I’m just the one who is pointing out that that way does happen. I have one friend who is a self proclaimed non-believer. she’s married. been married more than 20 years. she and her hubs are happy enough as far as I can tell. I like them individually and I like them as a couple. now, I’ve never questioned what vows they took. maybe one day I will. I know they got married at the courthouse.

The man formerly know as DAN - still...Superior

November 13th, 2013
10:57 am

As far as I remember hearing her say, the “open marriage” Monique talked about was her idea, see: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KHvmTJUmvyk

There are women that want to do it for them, though they are – admittedly – few and far between.

That said, I agree with the “why fo” comments thus far

Celisea

November 13th, 2013
10:58 am

disco – Marriage was instituted by God. You can tweak, change, omit…but if you entered into marriage, you’re held to what he established….what he set up.

2CPTG©

November 13th, 2013
10:59 am

go ‘head on, Celie…..preach, gal!!!!! cause you’re absolutely right!!!

hell, that’s reason we’re in this sh!t now, two folks wanted to do what “they” wanted to do, as opposed to what was outlined for them….

Raqi

November 13th, 2013
10:59 am

Celisea, I don’t care what version of marriage vows I have heard I have not yet heard the version that has left out “forsaking all others”. In church, In the courthouse, On the beach or where ever. It may be out there but I have not heard it yet.

Now I am gone for real.

Celisea

November 13th, 2013
11:01 am

Raqi and 2Can….exactly!!!

I was in lurk mode today, but y’all pulled a sista out. I’m gone too….I got work to do.

DuShawn

November 13th, 2013
11:02 am

“Forsake all others…….” Sounds good in theory. I’ve been a husband for a while now. When I took those vows I meant them. However, the cynic (or realist) in me knew that the probability of being with one person till death was low. I’m not a proponent of open marriages, but I believe total monogamy is an unrealistic expectation. There are those rare occasions when it does happen. More often than not, it merely appears to happen.

disco

November 13th, 2013
11:03 am

well I suppose it’s safe to determine that the overwhelming majority are against open marriage (at least a declared open marriage – lol).

2CPTG©

November 13th, 2013
11:04 am

Free will is a mu’fvcka, ain’t it…….

disco

November 13th, 2013
11:04 am

maybe some marriages aren’t open but the door is cracked just a little. maybe there’s a sidepiece or two out there that knows to leave the light on for him. lol.

The man formerly know as DAN - still...Superior

November 13th, 2013
11:06 am

Actually, marriage was a historical tradition that began to enrich the fathers of young girls and also ensure their saftey after they left his [the father's home], thus the idea of a dowry (a gift given to the father essentially in exchange for his daughter). It is a practice that still happens today in arranged marriages – throughout the world.

The “before God” is the remnents of the power the Catholic Church once held. As the law back in the day, the Church ratified the contract between the father and the husband. The ceremony was to provide the information for all “those witnesses in attendance” which usually meant families and other members of the community.

All that history notwithstanding, the “instituion” as it exist today for hetero- and homosexual individuals is still about the agreement in front of family, friends, and other members of the community.

Raqi

November 13th, 2013
11:13 am

“The greatest trick the devil ever played was convincing the world that he doesn’t exist?”

And you usually see his best work begin with “Everybody don’t believe in God like you do…” and in statements that try to refute God’s establish of a certain matter.

disco

November 13th, 2013
11:17 am

raqi – my personal stance is that I am very narrow minded in quite a few ways however faith and religion is one area in which I am very open minded. I don’t think one faith or denomination is any better than any other. I don’t think any one group’s God (Allah, Buddha, Jehovah, what have you) is better than any another group’s God. as for religious traditions and all that I respect and appreciate what each group accepts and believes in. that’s just my stance on it. I judge in a lot of areas but this is one that I leave alone.

Durty Burd

November 13th, 2013
11:19 am

Disco…Not as many folks are accepting as you think, thus a high rate of divorce from infidelity…
Now the example regarding your friends who had an open relationship before they got married is the route to take in order to have an open relationship..

If you want open relationship/marriage discuss it while you are dating don’t wait until you have established a household, had kids, combine assets,or the person is no longer attractive or don’t feel attractive do it up front before you get married. Then, I can believe you can have an open marriage.

disco

November 13th, 2013
11:23 am

durty – I accept that there is a high rate of divorce because of infidelity but I also believe that there are a lot of folks that know what’s going on but choose to stay for whatever reason. heck, most of the married men that I know up close and personal are cheating. I know because they tell me, I know because their wives whine about it, I know because I may know the chick he’s creeping with and she ain’t shame to talk about it. oh. and before anyone chimes in, I know my share of cheating wives too. it is what it is.

whew – do we have any lighter/happier relationship topics to discuss. the upcoming holidays? how are the gift exchanges looking? any anticipated holiday proposals? holiday breakups? anything? lol.

disco

November 13th, 2013
11:26 am

holiday travel plans? vacations? wish lists? was there someone at thanksgiving dinner last year that you hope won’t make it back this year? lol. anything?

Leggs

November 13th, 2013
11:30 am

O/TL I’m sitting here cracking up. This guy invited me out to dinner for tomorrow night. I just got an email from him asking me to print out a $20 off coupon to the restaurant we’re going to. Hey, $20 off is $20 off. Nonetheless, it tickled me thinking of the many convos we’ve blogged about re coupons.

disco

November 13th, 2013
11:37 am

leggs – $20 is $20. I’m sitting on two groupons. one for a Mexican spot, another for a sports bar. also, is guy “real date” material or just someone to go out to eat with? you know the difference. lol.

DuShawn

November 13th, 2013
11:46 am

I think an open marriage can be work, as long as no other men are involved and you let your woman bring home a concubine that she likes as well.

daddy swiss

November 13th, 2013
11:48 am

I know this is near impossible for some to fathom, but not everybody believes in the imaginary man in the sky. And the great thing about living in a free country is that we are all free to believe or not believe in whatever we choose. If believers are right, and there really is a god, then he’ll handle it, will he not? So, why should you care? As long as we’re talking about consenting adults and they’re not hurting anyone else, whose business is it but theirs how they choose to live their lives?

Having said that, I personally couldn’t go for any “open” arrangement, but that’s just my personal preference. But if others are cool with it, more power to them.

Durty Burd

November 13th, 2013
11:50 am

Disco as many have said to each its own, do you. A caveate to that is be honest upfront when you are dating and tell the person what you want. If you want an open relationship be honest and upfront about it. Their is someone out their that feels the same way you do.

Now back to my flirting with the blog ladies….hehehehehehe! before Dushawn steal YSIC from me….

Glamour Girl care to chime in?

Also if you have kids especially young kids I don’t know how it would not affect them, unless you are not spending time with them..

disco

November 13th, 2013
11:56 am

hey swiss.

durty – I’m about to go out on a limb with this statement but bear with me. lol. doing me is getting old. a sister is looking for someone else to do. lol.

GlammourGirl

November 13th, 2013
11:57 am

LOL. Hey Durty. I would just be consigning with the majority here. I’m not interested in an open marriage, but if that’s what someone else wants, more power to them.

Button

November 13th, 2013
11:58 am

FYI—God is a title not a name

Leggs

November 13th, 2013
12:02 pm

“It ain’t the “church” or the “preacher” that deems a marriage being being considered “done before God.” It’s the vows you take, that were instituted by God. So, it’s God that’s gonna hold you to them” – I wholeheartedly agree. Man’s laws are always broken. If you believe in God and live to please him, open marriage would never, ever enter the picture. Looks like many want to take an erasable marker to the insitution of marriage and draw their own picture. Keep doing that and watch the cracks form.

Durty ~ I’m leaning toward 519 or 441.

2CPTG©

November 13th, 2013
12:03 pm

before Dushawn steal YSIC from me….

from YOU….shiid, when you got her from ME? cain’t leave the room for a minute, and y’all already trynna knock me for my gals…..dammit Durty..

YesSheIsCute

November 13th, 2013
12:03 pm

Well disco since you asked…I usually don’t care about the holidays. I haven’t been with family since 2004. I’ve spent most of the holidays on my own so it really has no sentimental value for me (other than New Years’ Eve). Since I have a kid now, I got the bright idea to fly my sister, niece and mother down and invite some people over and host my first Thxgiving. I’m excited and nervous about it. I couldn’t get off from work the next day so I’m sad I won’t get to participate for the first time in Black Friday.

2CPTG©

November 13th, 2013
12:05 pm

doing me is getting old. a sister is looking for someone else to do.

where are you looking?

daddy swiss

November 13th, 2013
12:05 pm

Howdy, disco. You need somebody to “do you” for you, huh? lol

disco

November 13th, 2013
12:05 pm

yes – there is nothing on sale that I want bad enough to deal with the drama, stress, grief of black Friday. heck naw.

Leggs

November 13th, 2013
12:06 pm

disco ~ much like you, we’re good friends. Difference is I know he wants more. He knows I don’t want more but he wants to continue trying. He wants to take me to dinner and since I have to eat, I’m going. He knows the “real deal” and that’s what matters to me.

disco

November 13th, 2013
12:06 pm

2C / swiss – I thought the comment was cute and figured it would get some attention. that’s all. no further commentary necessary. lol.

disco

November 13th, 2013
12:08 pm

leggs – I was asking so I could know whether or not to be excited for you. again, you understand there’s a difference between a date and two people getting something to eat. not everyone gets that. sometimes I bring it up and folks call me a dreamcrusher. imagine that. lol.

YesSheIsCute

November 13th, 2013
12:08 pm

Awwww guys don’t fight :lol:

YesSheIsCute

November 13th, 2013
12:11 pm

@disco I’ve never been to Black Friday events, I just heard that it was dramatic (and dangerous????), well there’s always Cyber Monday, since one can participate in the sales from the comfort of their own home. I just hope some of the sites don’t crash like last year. That was SO annoying!

disco

November 13th, 2013
12:19 pm

I don’t think I’m buying anybody jack for xmas this year. lol.

Leggs

November 13th, 2013
12:20 pm

daddyswiss ~ that’s why I said “If you believe….” It’s a known fact that you have many on your side. Both sides have many supporters.

YSIC ~ you do realize that many stores are opening after Thanksgiving Dinner. I went to Brandsmart last year after dinner and got some great deals. I sat in the car watching the throngs of people converge until the store opened at 9:00.

disco

November 13th, 2013
12:24 pm

leggs – I think I mentioned on here that the last time I did anything on black Friday was many, many years ago when I went to kmart to get a curtis mathis tv. I don’t even know if you can still find a curtis mathis tv. lol.

Durty Burd

November 13th, 2013
12:26 pm

2C…My we have to watch out for the Dushawn, YSIC seems to be in thralled with him….

Disco…How do I sign up for a Disco sponsorship? :wink: I am going to have thousands after I hit 441… hehehehehe!

YesSheIsCute

November 13th, 2013
12:27 pm

@Leggs I didn’t know that. I heard that some stores were having a midnight madness but I’m not sure which ones. If I hear something that piques my interest I may go after dinner but if not then I’ll go to sleep since I have to work in the morning anyway.

Leggs

November 13th, 2013
12:28 pm

disco ~ I’m with you. I don’t think I’m buying anyone jack for Christmas either other than my daughter. My child wants $$, but I will have something for her to open under what will be a partially decorated tree come Christmas morning.

disco

November 13th, 2013
12:29 pm

durty – unless you put thousands on that number you aren’t going to win all that much. still, good luck with that.

leggs – your daughter is doing better than my son. that joker ain’t getting jack either.

Exiled

November 13th, 2013
12:30 pm

An Open marriage?

Its called Polygamy!

and the bible sanctions it..because Joshua,and them old folks hunched many women in a marriage.

Nowadays,;like uall are agreeing here,man is becomeing “sophisticated” and making their own dern rules.. like “monogamy”….?

da he with thatll!!

Legalise Polygamy!

otherwise what to do with all these women?
@Dus….you let your woman bring home a concubine that she likes as well.

I agree 100!

Leggs

November 13th, 2013
12:31 pm

Before going to Brandsmart last year, I stopped off at Wal-mart off Anvil Road (I think that’s the name of it). It was a mad house. Had to get out of there. Watching the news later that evening a man was arrested for trying to walk out with a flatscreen. Crazy. The first Black Friday I went to I had a blast. I talked to everyone in line, cracked jokes and with limited funds I got my two items and went back home and got back in my bed.

Exiled

November 13th, 2013
12:32 pm

Women’s Rights folks have taken over this world…thats why the bible aint being followed.

Leggs

November 13th, 2013
12:34 pm

YSIC ~ workers are up in arms because they are going to have to work Thanksgiving Day. Many stores are opening at 8:00 p.m. There are going to be some grumpy cashiers, be ready for attitude.

Durty Burd

November 13th, 2013
12:36 pm

This goes out to my blog boo who is booed up, once that knot gets untied I will be waiting to swoop her off her feet…

I recall when I first read your first blog a long time, how could I forget, they way I felt when I read your first paragraph.

I remember saying to myself after reading some more of your comments, that is my future wife, it has to be my destiny, I was made to love you, my hands to touch you, my arms to hold you, my legs to stand you, my time to stand with you forever, I was made to love you lips to kiss you, my eyes to see, I was made to love you….Only you and only you! :)

Leggs

November 13th, 2013
12:39 pm

I think greed, selfishness, and lack of morals is more reason why people are not following the bible. I can’t quote scripture but I don’t believe it’s a result of women’s rights. No doubt some have gone haywire with women’s rights, but we had to start somewhere and stand up for ourselves. We couldn’t let “men” keep us underfoot whether it be in the work sector, family sector, or our own individual self. People are not following the bible because they don’t believe.

Raqi

November 13th, 2013
12:40 pm

Disco, on a lighter note? Well since you are asking, I am soooooooo happy that we finally got the CO on our new house. Ecstatic.

However I never, ever, eva want to go thru the process of building a house again. NEVAH!

Mase didn’t want to do it. He kept saying let’s just find something we both like and go with that. But noooo. Me and my stubborn self wanted something custom to our needs and MY wants. LOL

With this being our forever house and everything we wanted a place that neither of us already had. We want our place. The house that we picked out together. So I said the best way to accomplish that for me would be to build from ground up. I wore him down. Happy Wife, Happy Life. LOL

But anyhoo, I am happy that we have finally got the may-go to move in. We want to be in there for Christmas but I don’t want to start moving until after Thanksgiving.

Raqi

November 13th, 2013
12:43 pm

As for the holidays, I love the holidays and I love Christmas shopping. We have bought everything we are going to get for the kids. I have only a few more family and friends that I still need to get gifts for.

Other than that I am looking forward to cooking Thanksgiving dinner with my bestie her at my house and I am definitely looking forward to putting up the tree and decorating the new house.

Raqi

November 13th, 2013
12:47 pm

Leggs, I am going to create a temporary blog to post the pics of our new Nest. I don’t have your email anymore but if I did I don’t want to send pictures because I know they can create large files and slow up email delivery.

MsAtl

November 13th, 2013
12:49 pm

The difference is that pedophilia is illegal. It is also dangerous (as in a parent will whup yo a$$ for touching their child). An open marriage is not illegal in the majority of states. If two consenting adults want to have an open marriage, that is what they will do. If my spouse wants to have an open marriage, he can have it ALL the way open because I am out of it. You do not have the right to put someone in an open marriage without their permission. In my opinion, a lot of folks give up too easily and throw the marriage away rather than trying to fix the issues. They will spend more time trying to fix a car than a marriage.

Lighter note- I don’t do Black Friday shopping any longer. There are only so many big ticket items you can buy before you have nothing left to buy. Not to mention, the crowds and attitudes have gotten horrible

2CPTG©

November 13th, 2013
12:52 pm

dat damn Durty…..writing songs/poetry now…..bruh, you gon get you one yet!!!!

Raqi

November 13th, 2013
12:55 pm

MsAtl, the only Black Friday shopping I do is online. I got in at crowd one time and that was the only and last time. Not worth it.

Mrs. SexyCool

November 13th, 2013
1:00 pm

I’ve already done most of my Christmas shopping.

I just need to figure out some cost-conscious way to wow the hubby.

Mrs. SexyCool

November 13th, 2013
1:01 pm

I don’t want an open marriage, but that ain’t got nothing to do with God and everything to do with me.

He’s MY husband and I ain’t sharing. #ThatIsAll

YesSheIsCute

November 13th, 2013
1:05 pm

@Leggs my downstairs neighbors put the Christmas tree up earlier last week. I was like dang, it JUST turned November :? I live by the Brandsmart in Stockbridge. I might see what they are talking about for Black Friday.

Exiled

November 13th, 2013
1:06 pm

I think greed, selfishness, and lack of morals is more reason why people are not following the bible

@Leggs..RIGHTS…

Homosexuality is sanctioned as a way to give folks equal Rights…and this followed the granting of women’s Rights..

When women won their “Rights”,that was the beginning of the Right movement…..and the license to denigrate the way God intended it.
Now,these days,go on a pedestal and denounce gay Rights and see what hammer is gon hit u..even though u will be standing on God’s good grounds….

tell me some..Abraham,Isaac etc all those folks had more than one wife..they were immoral?

where is Celisea?

talk baout open marriage bad.

who is gon hunch ALL these women with no hubbs?

God’s will has been violated by man’s one wife rule!

Its abomination!

Raqi

November 13th, 2013
1:08 pm

“He’s MY husband and I ain’t sharing. #ThatIsAll”

I am LMBO. You get the best comment of day award.

Leggs

November 13th, 2013
1:09 pm

Durty has it bad, real bad!

YesSheIsCute

November 13th, 2013
1:12 pm

I like poetry :D

Exiled

November 13th, 2013
1:13 pm

and some of u are in the habit of hunching urselves with instruments bought fram stores…

and u talk about God with the side of ur moufs! :lol:

sickening!

I tell..man need to stand up and March..so these guberments sanctions Polygamy!

Leggs

November 13th, 2013
1:15 pm

YSIC ~ it’s not Black Friday anymore…it’s Black Thursday (lol). Well, some still have Black Friday, but it’s going to be taken over by Black Thursday.

“When women won their “Rights”,that was the beginning of the Right movement…..and the license to denigrate the way God intended it.” – You make it sound like women had no “right” to seek equal or just treatment and respect. You make it sound like by them speaking up, they missed their station to be belittled, to want better for themselves. You make it sound like their “rightful” place was two steps behind the man doing whatever he told her to do. I see nothing wrong with them standing up for their “rights.” Please remember, it’s not only the advent of women’s rights that may have corrupted the land. The greed of man also corrupted the land and men who think women are less than them corrupted the land and their own souls for believing they themselves are God!

Raqi

November 13th, 2013
1:16 pm

Not that you all care…but…

The only decision I am on the fence about not too sure I made the right decision is in the new Nest is the master being on the main level while the kiddies are upstairs.

My thought process at the time was having a certain level of privacy for now and when we get older not having to go up and down the stairs so much every day.

After the boy moves out the two youngsters are going to then be upstairs alone. Hopefully I will get used to not being just down the hall from them quickly. I do know the first few nights staying there is going to work my nerves worrying about my babies being “alone”.

Leggs

November 13th, 2013
1:17 pm

“and some of u are in the habit of hunching urselves with instruments bought fram stores…”

and some of you are in the habit of hunching yourselves with your own hand!

SlimNu

November 13th, 2013
1:22 pm

Ooooh poetry….ya know i’m into that Durty….but we wanna know who you are referring to. No blog open relationship here though :roll:

YesSheIsCute

November 13th, 2013
1:22 pm

You know, I really cringe at the term hunching. I always envision the Hunchback of Notre Dame (Quasimodo) everytime you guys say it. Carry on.

SlimNu

November 13th, 2013
1:25 pm

They were discussing what Akon on the radio saying how monogamy not being in the makeup of men. Call it brainwashing or whatever but I’m not into sharing my significant other, knowlingly anyway.

Exiled

November 13th, 2013
1:25 pm

true dat..Leggs..
any man that self relieves…..shame on them….with all these many women around..how can a real man self hunch?

marry as many women as u like and u can hunch as much as u like

God sanctions it!

SlimNu

November 13th, 2013
1:25 pm

some of you are in the habit of hunching yourselves with your own hand!

Leggs – Good comeback! lol

SlimNu

November 13th, 2013
1:27 pm

Ex – So are you trying to tell us that you don’t self-hunch??

kimmie

November 13th, 2013
1:29 pm

Raqi – I’m so behind. So the house you all inherited in VA was a no-go? Either way, I’m happy and excited for ya!

Dudes kill me trying to blame their tired views of women on the women’s rights movement!LOL!

Disco – Going to Florida the week of Christmas. So very excited to get away. I’m not gon do jack. Let the hubs run around with the kids at the theme parks. I’m chillin, hangin, and getting my spa on!

Mrs. SexyCool

November 13th, 2013
1:31 pm

Yay for you, kimmie. (lol)

Mrs. SexyCool

November 13th, 2013
1:32 pm

I’m actually going the first weekend of December for a girlfriends’ retreat. We have rented a big A house and have hired a chef to do all of our shopping and cooking for the three days.

I. Can’t. Wait.

Celisea

November 13th, 2013
1:34 pm

I’m on vacay for two weeks at Christmas :mrgreen: Yay, Celisea!!

Celisea

November 13th, 2013
1:35 pm

And what’s better than a vacation? A planned vacation :) Yay, Celisea Oh, and an significant other.

kimmie

November 13th, 2013
1:35 pm

SCool – Dang girl, that sounds like it would put a Real Housewives episode to shame! Sounds fabulous!!

Exiled

November 13th, 2013
1:35 pm

I think greed, selfishness, and lack of morals is more reason why people are not following the bible

@Slim

NEVER…unless its involuntary…..
like say,if i havent hunched for a bit and i go to urinate,sometime a man can get h0rny right there and find themselves puking semen after the urine gets out..u get the feeling of a little hottness…its involuntary….i have no control on that other than to hunch to get a woman and hunch…

now to really plan it and say..lemme sit down here and self hunch. and start the pump fake like i am hunching…thats crazy…unless i were in prison and denied of service …maybe ..just maybe….

Self hunching is weak!…why..u cant get a woman…??

lame

Exiled

November 13th, 2013
1:36 pm

So are you trying to tell us that you don’t self-hunch??

@Slim..i meant to paste this…sorry

The man formerly know as DAN - still...Superior

November 13th, 2013
1:40 pm

@Raqi

Believe me, if I had to do it over again, I’d have had the kids upstairs and the master (as one side of the house and) downstairs.

Mrs. SexyCool

November 13th, 2013
1:45 pm

kimmie – we better not have any RHOA type drama. (lol)

Leggs

November 13th, 2013
1:46 pm

Dudes kill me trying to blame their tired views of women on the women’s rights movement!LOL!

Me too!!!

Leggs

November 13th, 2013
1:48 pm

That sounds like a fabulous vacation, Mrs.SexyC. Enjoy.
Celisea ~ enjoy your 2 weeks off.

Celisea

November 13th, 2013
1:50 pm

Leggs – Thanks…I plan to really enjoy that time :)

kimmie

November 13th, 2013
1:51 pm

Leggs – My thing is, if you are doing what you need to do and are secure with yourself as a man, why should women having rights threaten you in any way?

Exiled

November 13th, 2013
1:57 pm

Dudes kill me trying to blame their tired views of women on the women’s rights movement

these are God’s views,not mine nor dudes…

read ur bible ladies..dont just listen to Eddie or Creflo’s(or whoever) compromised delivery and take that as gospel.

because of women’s superior numerical numbers these days,a lot of messages,even church sermons are female targeted…to win female audiences and bring money to the parties(churches) involved.

But that aint God’s true message..a lot of times…it is a doctored message.

It is what brings the $$$$$$$$$$$

Raqi

November 13th, 2013
1:58 pm

Kimmie, you remember that Happy Wife, Happy Life comment? Well my b-i-l’s wife and I were back and forth on it. She was worrying her other half about it and he was worrying my other half about it.

My other half told me to just let her have it so HIS life can be at peace. Forget my happiness. He needs peace in his life. I grudgingly let her have it (Not to mention it was his inheritance to do with what he wanted, not mine. LOL). Everyone was HAPPY now except RAQI so I subtly pouted for a lot longer than any grown woman should pout about anything. LOL

During a discussion one day we both agreed that even though moving to VA is not profitable for him right now we did want to find a new house.

We got the CO for our new house last week.

Raqi

November 13th, 2013
1:58 pm

SexyCool, that sounds like fun.

Leggs

November 13th, 2013
1:59 pm

I’m with you, kimmie. Not only that, why do you have to always bash women and not recognize the great strides women have made. How come the fall of the woman is because of Women’s Rights. Why not speak on the rise of women because of women’s rights?

The man formerly know as DAN - still...Superior

November 13th, 2013
2:01 pm

I envy yall sometimes….

My “vacation” this Christmas break will consist of sleep.

Next year we have 2 trips to Minnesota for two separate weddings and I (at least) have to go to TX for my homegirl’s wedding.

FML

Raqi

November 13th, 2013
2:03 pm

Dan, I think I will feel less worry as I get used to it. I know I would be less concerned now if they were a lot older. But I’ll get used to it.

The whole privacy thing is what we look forward to. Not having little kids and any kids for that matter, just a few doors away but an entire set of stairs away. LOL

Raqi

November 13th, 2013
2:05 pm

I was told that I live on vacation. LOL

Leggs

November 13th, 2013
2:09 pm

read ur bible ladies..dont just listen to Eddie or Creflo’s

You always mention those two. Do you really think anyone on this blog listen to doctrine from their point of view. I think not.

kimmie

November 13th, 2013
2:10 pm

Exiled – We know you follow the old Testament. You pick and choose what you want to follow & believe anyway. Alot of stuff is man’s interpretation too. I never have followed Eddie or Creflo.

But if expecting to be treated with respect, free to think for myself and get paid equally for the same job is going against the good book to you – count me guilty. Imma have to pay for all this sinning I’m doing every day I guess. The God I worship is a loving God. He would not have given me, and other women, these rights if he didn’t want us to have them.

That’s all the preaching I’m doing. I’ve broken my rule of discussing religion as it is! :)

Leggs

November 13th, 2013
2:14 pm

I have so much vacation not sure what to do this time around. I know I’m taking the week of Thanksgiving off, probably 1-2 weeks for Christmas wrapping into NYE. I have to use all before 2/14. Had to put in my cash out option just yesterday for 40 hrs.

SlimNu

November 13th, 2013
2:18 pm

Dan – Attending weddings sounds like it really isn’t your thing…hence the FML. lolol

2CPTG©

November 13th, 2013
2:21 pm

Cuite, you flirt too much.

:shock:

YesSheIsCute

November 13th, 2013
2:23 pm

Leggs I need to get like you. I hoarded held on to a week and a half vacation and really thought I was doing something. At least you have the option of using yours. They are denying us all of our holiday requests so basically it’s use it on the weeks in between the holidays or cash out. :(

YesSheIsCute

November 13th, 2013
2:23 pm

@2C What did I say?! :?

2CPTG©

November 13th, 2013
2:25 pm

can’t you see these blog dudes are trynna dismantle this thing we got going? I’mma need for you to stay focused on us…..

Raqi

November 13th, 2013
2:26 pm

I bet you won’t say it to my face…monitor.

Raqi

November 13th, 2013
2:30 pm

I am cracking up at myself because I know there is at least one person saying “what is that crazy woman talking about?, at least one person saying “I wonder if she is talking about me?” and at least one person saying “I can’t stand that “B”!” LOL

kimmie

November 13th, 2013
2:31 pm

Raqi – Sounds to me like you got the better deal. A husband at peace and a house designed just like you want.

Leggs

November 13th, 2013
2:32 pm

Hey Raqi ~ with the birth of Elizabeth, did your sleep number change (lol). I’ll never forget that random!

Leggs

November 13th, 2013
2:33 pm

and at least one person saying “I can’t stand that “B”!” LOL

Naw, no one here is saying that! May have been past bloggers, but everyone in Blogsville are good folk (lol).

Exiled

November 13th, 2013
2:34 pm

dont just listen to Eddie or Creflo’s

@Leggs..there was a proviso after those 2 names to accomodate whoever u listen to…u decided not to copy and paste that..thats on u..

@Kimmie….u going off script..i said none about equal pay etc….thats for another day..dont u think?

So u ladies dont believe in the old testament?

2CPTG©

November 13th, 2013
2:36 pm

everyone in Blogsville are good folk

no we ain’t…..cause some of my blog gals gon’ make me pull out the baby powder, and get some straightenin!!!!

YesSheIsCute

November 13th, 2013
2:38 pm

@2C I’m so focused!

2CPTG©

November 13th, 2013
2:40 pm

@2C I’m so focused!

ok, sugar, gon let Durty know you’re off the market….

Leggs

November 13th, 2013
2:41 pm

Ex ~ I saw the proviso. Was just wondering why you always say those 2 first. No harm, no foul! Just a question.

Raqi

November 13th, 2013
2:41 pm

Kimmie, I think I did. I am embarrassed to say how long I was angry. LOL But I do like the fact that I was well over it when we decided to buy another house.

Raqi

November 13th, 2013
2:41 pm

Leggs, my sleep number changed with Mason. Carrying him was very different from carrying Liz. Now my number fluctuates depending on how my day goes. LOL

Leggs

November 13th, 2013
2:42 pm

Raqi ~ have you noticed that when you come around someone talks about baby powder?

Raqi

November 13th, 2013
2:42 pm

“Naw, no one here is saying that! May have been past bloggers, but everyone in Blogsville are good folk (lol).”

Leggs, you know I know better, right? LOL

kimmie

November 13th, 2013
2:42 pm

….u going off script..i said none about equal pay etc….thats for another day..dont u think?

Exiled – When I hear “women’s rights”, equal pay and right to vote are front and center. Before those rights, here in America at least,women did have the right to come and go as they pleased, didn’t need to walk 10 stepps behind a man or ask his permission to speak. What are you talking about??? :shock:

As for the Old Testament, there was all kinds of torture and warped ways of doing things for everyone, not just women. Jesus arrived in the New Testament to clear up all that. I “believe” what’s in the Old but “follow” the teachings of the New.

Raqi

November 13th, 2013
2:44 pm

Leggs, who Toucan?

Girl he better talk about babies and powder with Disco or YesSheIsCute. He knows in our next life there won’t be no babies. Just me and him going thru the motion. LOL

Raqi

November 13th, 2013
2:47 pm

Kimmie, we chose wide plank hardwood floors for our new house.

(I know you don’t care but this is me trying to distract you. LOL)

kimmie

November 13th, 2013
2:50 pm

Raqi – No need, you got me distracted, I said my peace to Exiled! Tell me more about the house! What are you doing to the kitchen? Do you have a Oprah-sized walkin closet in the master? Do you have a fireplace?

2CPTG©

November 13th, 2013
2:51 pm

Raqi, don’t pay Leggs no mind…..she needs some, that’s all……Leggs, gon go to dinner with ol dude and finish it up with a nice lil nightcap……for your benefit, of course….

Leggs

November 13th, 2013
2:51 pm

Yes, Raqi…was simply deflecting albeit quite poorly (lol).

Toucan is @2CPTG

2CPTG©

November 13th, 2013
2:54 pm

ya know, I gotta admit…..knowin how the majority of y’all blog gals look, and communicating with a few off blog…….all y’all beautiful….

I wanna hunch all y’all…….

Leggs

November 13th, 2013
2:55 pm

Raqi ~ 2C cannot have that convo with disco. She’ll throw a brick at him.

2CPTG©

November 13th, 2013
2:56 pm

2C cannot have that convo with disco. She’ll throw a brick at him

I gotta brick for her ass, and it ain’t a square one…..nor the kind wrapped in celophane…

Leggs

November 13th, 2013
2:57 pm

she needs some, that’s all – you guys kill me always saying that. But, you’re right, I’m going to finish it up with a night cap. He’ll get in his car going to his home and I’ll get in mine going to my home. I’ll go under the kitchen sink and probably pour myself a double!

Leggs

November 13th, 2013
2:59 pm

Thank you, 2C. Not on the hunching part (lol).

Leggs

November 13th, 2013
2:59 pm

2C ~ I don’t care what you wrap it up in, you best wrap it up!

2CPTG©

November 13th, 2013
3:01 pm

fa real, Leggs….I chat with some of these gals,and be like damn Ma, and you’re single???? I tell you, it’s a blessing and a curse knowing some of y’all……

Raqi

November 13th, 2013
3:02 pm

Kimmie, you know I am modest. There isn’t much to tell. (LOL) A couple of fireplaces and a decent sized closet. You will see the link to my temporary New Nest blog when I post it.

Imma wait on the Oprah sized closet for when 2Can and I meet up in the next life. LOL Oh yeah in our house by the lake.

Exiled

November 13th, 2013
3:02 pm

I “believe” what’s in the Old but “follow” the teachings of the New.

@Kimmie..ok..maybe u know ur bible better than me….where in the New Testament does it say No Polygamy? or Monogamy..

the script please…

Anybody?

YesSheIsCute

November 13th, 2013
3:05 pm

Speaking of brick, it’s brick outside. I mean if it’s gonna get this cold I might as well move back to New York or Germany.

@Leggs why do men always attribute something to either “needing some” or “that time of the month”? Sex is not a cure all and menses is not a curse. I’ll stop it right there before I get on my menses soapbox.

2CPTG©

November 13th, 2013
3:08 pm

Ex…..

1Corinthians 7:2 “each man should have sexual relations with his own wife, and each woman with her own husband”

disco

November 13th, 2013
3:09 pm

leggs – 1:17. good one. speaking of grown toys. I went to bingo at the beginning of the year. had to buy a “dobber” or whatever they are called. only went to bingo once, tossed the thing in a drawer. how come someone rifling through the drawer said it looked dirty. I was like “dirty? I only used it once”. turns out they meant it looked like an adult toy. some people. I was cracking up though. an adult toy right there in the dining room. doesn’t that beat all? lol.

Mrs. SexyCool

November 13th, 2013
3:09 pm

Rock/kimmie – I was just looking at some of our old emails when I was telling you guys that M had said that we needed to keep the wedding budget to $2K.

You know we spent closer to $6K – 7 if you include my dress. (which I still need to decide what I’m going to do with it.)

YesSheIsCute

November 13th, 2013
3:10 pm

Oh snap! And on that not sorry DB I’m off the market….

YesSheIsCute

November 13th, 2013
3:10 pm

Durty Burd

November 13th, 2013
3:12 pm

2C…YSIC don’t tell 2C we are about to starting this dating process…hehehehehe!

Raqi…Never tne b-word, but use is crazy, you work mase like an old skillet in momma’s kitchen…lol

2C…Send some of the blog ladies over cheer, I will glad fullfill some of those wants… :)

There are some fine sistas on the blog, YSIC send me a pic…at durtyburdet007@yahoo.com

Wake-up, wake- up lets Hunch tonight, Baby I’m hot like an oven and I can’t hold it much longer, wake-up wake-up lets hunch tonight. Hunching is good for me, its hunching healing….. hehehehehe!

Exiled

November 13th, 2013
3:13 pm

Sex is not a cure all

@Cutie..sex wikll cure ur high blood pressure and angst…..No lie!

any of these gals who have a short gun every time a man says some and they get angry…if u observe closely,they aint getting none.

I will tell u a lil secret because I been on this blog long enough…..
Kimmie and Sexcool..they used to be loud moufs and whatnot…(no diss ladies,just my observation)

since they got hitched…theyre very mild mannered…speak very calmly etc..u can sense the maturity and calm in their delivery,even when we dont agree….

what u think caused that Cutie??

Take ur pick! :lol:

disco

November 13th, 2013
3:14 pm

kimmie – re 1:29 chilling and hanging. it made me think of the wood when they were “chilling / macking”. lol.

leggs – re vacation time. I’m thinking of going to turks and caicos (or somewhere) with mine. trying to work it out.

Raqi

November 13th, 2013
3:14 pm

YesIsSheCute, you may joking but that is so true. What is the matter with us it has to have something to do with the love box. I think they are obsessed with our love boxes.

Exiled

November 13th, 2013
3:14 pm

1Corinthians 7:2 “each man should have sexual relations with his own wife, and each woman with her own husband”

@2Can….

ok….it does not say “each man..with his own one wife’

Raqi

November 13th, 2013
3:15 pm

SexyCool, have you thought about selling it at a consignment shop?

disco

November 13th, 2013
3:15 pm

raqi – 2:44. huh????? lol.

2C – was that a threat or a promise? lol.

kimmie

November 13th, 2013
3:16 pm

….where in the New Testament does it say No Polygamy? or Monogamy..

Exiled – I have no idea. I didn’t say either were there or not there to begin with. I do know there are alot of things that were “done” by folks in the bible, but God didn’t sanction them, saying “hey this is what you are to do”. Alot is still left up to how man interprets it. Folks believe and follow what they want to believe. Polygamy is not practiced by the faith me & my husband choose to follow.

I think it’s a difference between today’s topic, open marriage and polygamy. I thought polygamy meant having more than one spouse, not just being free to have more than your spouse as a sex partner. I could be wrong though, cause it’s not a part of my world in any way. Shrugs

2CPTG©

November 13th, 2013
3:17 pm

Ex……I would openly agree with you, but Cutie is giving Durty his walking papers, so ummm….

Nah bruh….one man, one wife….

Raqi

November 13th, 2013
3:18 pm

Durty Burd, that statement leads me to believe you have been around these blog parts for quite some time. I know I took at least a 2 year break from here and I don’t recall your name before my LOA.

I only know it from these last few times I have visited here. Who are…or were you back then?

SlimNu

November 13th, 2013
3:18 pm

I’ll go under the kitchen sink and probably pour myself a double!

Leggs – Thanks for letting me know where you keep your stash lol

2CPTG©

November 13th, 2013
3:19 pm

disco, no threats here……but ye’en gon’ shake nuttin, so ain’t no need in even going there….just know I’on need no blue pill…

Mrs. SexyCool

November 13th, 2013
3:19 pm

The biggest reason I haven’t done anything with it is that I’m not completely crazy about our wedding photos.

For two reasons:
1. We really did not give ourselves enough time between the ceremony and the reception for photos. Mostly because we were trying to keep the afternoon short and sweet.

2. Our photographer did a LOT more editing with our engagement photos and I like them better.

So, in the back of my head, I have this thought that I’m going to have another photo session with M and I in our wedding attire so that I can get better editing.

But so far…it’s just been this idea that’s been in the back of my head.

Celisea

November 13th, 2013
3:21 pm

I want a snack….uuuggghhh

MMeello – Stop playing with God!!!

Raqi

November 13th, 2013
3:21 pm

Disco, I think 2Can would make a good father. Gone head and get with that.

He is a lot shorter than I normally prefer (LOL) and a bit darker than I have preferred but I think he may be a good catch. Despite popular belief a certain height and skin tone does not a good man make.

kimmie

November 13th, 2013
3:22 pm

Disco – LOL!! That is hilarious because when I typed that I was thinking of that line in The Wood!!LOL!!

Raqi – Sounds very nice!! Me & hubs were discussing what we would want in a dream house. The Oprah-sized closet, a fireplace in the master bedroom, a gourmet kitchen and an outdoor kitchen & entertainment area was on my list. An indoor/outdoor pool/jacuzzi too.

2CPTG©

November 13th, 2013
3:22 pm

disco, in reference to Raqi’s 2:44…..she and I got this thing set up for next lifetime…I don’t disrespect the sanctity of marriage, so I got dibs on the next go ’round….

I bet Durty over there sayin…..ain’t this some sh!t, this nikka got coochie lined up in heaven!

disco

November 13th, 2013
3:23 pm

raqi – I repeat – huh?????? lol. did the blog get together and perform a séance or something? y’all trying to jinx ole disco? lol.

leggs – who is in charge of the baby dust?

disco

November 13th, 2013
3:24 pm

raqi – also just how short is shorter than you normally prefer? you know I asked 2C for stats but he was acting all stank a dank dank about it.

Exiled

November 13th, 2013
3:25 pm

2 Can..when we go on our safari to south africa ,hopefully next year,im gon encourage u to marry 2 women in the traditional marriage ceremony over there….as long as u still not married here in the states..

maybe u can later convince these ladies how good that is because they have a lot of misconceptions…..

when u have more than one,u got :

no “i got a lil headache” excuse

no “im on” excuse

no” i aint giving u none because u did not do” abcd…none of that

no, “im in a bad mood” excuse..
‘it was hard at work today” excuse

and u know when u getting some because ur gals got bedroom calender schedules….

and defionately no meh perfomance issues because of competition..

Everybody Brings it! :lol:

Raqi

November 13th, 2013
3:25 pm

SexyCool, that’s a good idea. My friend Mari was pregnant and showing when she married her hub so they had professional shots taken after she gave birth to her first. However she was already pregnant with #2 during the photo shoot but just not showing yet.

Pregnant at her 6 week checkup. LOL

Are you and M going to have a little one?

Leggs

November 13th, 2013
3:26 pm

“…why do men always attribute something to either “needing some” or “that time of the month”? – That’s all they know about women if they turn moody. Can’t be anything they’ve done or said so it has to be one of the two. Forgive them Father for they know not what they say!!!!

disco ~ I get chills whenever I see “1:29 ” Love that number!

SlimNu ~ I thought that was everyone’s likka cabinet when they don’t actually have a real likka cabinet.

kimmie

November 13th, 2013
3:26 pm

Exiled – :lol: I’m just as loud-mouthed and sassy. Marriage did not change that. I choose my battles better now and most times, just don’t give a flying flip!!

Mrs. SexyCool

November 13th, 2013
3:27 pm

Not on purpose. We’ve still got the dog. (lol)

2CPTG©

November 13th, 2013
3:27 pm

Raqi, don’t tell disco sh!t…..you know my email addy, you wanna know something, make a move!

YesSheIsCute

November 13th, 2013
3:27 pm

Awww 2C is so smart! Openly “disagreeing” to keep the peace. I like smart guys :D

@Raqi now I know that sex stimulates serotonin. And serotonin is that happy chemical but geez I don’t think it has anything to do with a woman saying something contrary. And menses doesn’t either. I’m just less tolerant.

daddy swiss

November 13th, 2013
3:28 pm

disco — I don’t know about the dust, but I’ve got the extra strength baby cream, so be careful when you walk past me…. lol

Raqi

November 13th, 2013
3:30 pm

“a fireplace in the master bedroom, a gourmet kitchen and an outdoor kitchen & entertainment area was on my list.”

Kimmie, since you mentioned it…yep, yep, yep and yep.

The outdoor kitchen was his thing. His list consisted of a family media room with a big screen for watching football and a grand outdoor kitchen.

No man cave like all his buddies tried to talk him into. His train of thought is he actually likes spending time with the wife and kids so he doesn’t need a room in his own house to escape from us.

Exiled

November 13th, 2013
3:30 pm

I choose my battles better now

see Cutie!…she said Now!

:lol: :lol:

disco

November 13th, 2013
3:30 pm

2C – easy. easy. down boy.

swiss – duly noted. lol.

Raqi

November 13th, 2013
3:32 pm

Disco, my hub is 6′4″. My late husband was 6′2″ and son’s father is 6′2″. 2Can is shorter than 6ft.

2CPTG©

November 13th, 2013
3:34 pm

Raqi, I’mma need for you to not do that…..disco wanna know bout me, she know how to reach me….that 3rd party sh!t is lame….

Raqi

November 13th, 2013
3:34 pm

SexyCool, do like I did. Just throw away the birth control and let nature do what nature does.

But don’t hate me after the 3rd pregnancy and a couple toddlers at 40+. LOL

disco

November 13th, 2013
3:34 pm

thanks raqi. now for a little instigating.

2C – you can’t tell raqi what to do. lol.

Leggs

November 13th, 2013
3:35 pm

Raqi ~ those heights are dizzying to disco…she short too!

Leggs

November 13th, 2013
3:37 pm

disco ~ mail call.

kimmie

November 13th, 2013
3:37 pm

Exiled – I do talk alot of trash sometimes, just clowning, and my hubs loves it! He’s a preacher’s kid, so he loves it when folks let their hair down. I’m actually kinda quiet and observant most of the time, especially when out. Not anti-social at all, just like to take in the atmosphere and what everyone is saying. Contribute some to the convo, but love to hear what others are saying too.

I love to clown and keep the kids laughing and on their toes!

disco

November 13th, 2013
3:37 pm

2C – what would have been lame is if I would have emailed you, we would have got to chit chatting all willy nilly and then somewhere down the line I would have found out you were 5’5” tall. that would have been lame because I would have been like “oh heyall naw”. lol.

leggs – I’m short but trust, those heights are not dizzying. I can put those heights to work. short dude, we be bumping heads (literally and figuratively but mostly literally). lol.

Raqi

November 13th, 2013
3:37 pm

YesSheIsCute, I remember one day I was in a really off mood and I wanted something but did not know what it was. The hub tried his best to convince me that I wanted or rather needed “Him”. I know my body and I knew I did not want or need sex. I convinced him that he would be the only one satisfied when it was all over. I needed something else.

Which turned out to be a heart to heart with my sister and about very personal matter.

Leggs

November 13th, 2013
3:40 pm

I hear ya, disco. I didn’t really thing they would be dizzying since you’re over 4′.

Mrs. SexyCool

November 13th, 2013
3:40 pm

Um…yeah….no….(giving you major side eye right now…lol)

We are in wealth-building mode right now. I ain’t got time for no babies.

Durty Burd

November 13th, 2013
3:42 pm

Raqi..Elijah, L.u.r.k.e.r.007 I had many names back in 2009.

YSIC…I see u have not experience the awesomeness of the O…Let me take you there, because it what I do. Let me be the one you come running too, I’ll never be untrue, lets get together, loving you whether times are good or bad…Come on YSIC lets get together…

Disco…Curtis Mathis…one from the past, a very good brand at the time…Was Mr. Hero’s in your parts? My favorite FFR..

Raqi

November 13th, 2013
3:43 pm

2Can, I am sorry. I will stop. (You see what life is going to be like with me in your next life. LOL)

However in my own defense I am trying to get her to give you try. Seriously. No joke. When I said you seem like a pretty good catch I was not joking. She needs to get in there while the window of opportunity is open.

I am her wing-women in your court.

daddy swiss

November 13th, 2013
3:43 pm

“short dude, we be bumping heads”

disco — Tall dude, same story. Just different head. lol

disco

November 13th, 2013
3:43 pm

durty – I don’t know anything about mr. hero’s.

Leggs

November 13th, 2013
3:45 pm

Durty ~ I thank you for your honesty. I already knew, but thanks

YesSheIsCute

November 13th, 2013
3:45 pm

@disco I have dated short before. The shortest I dated was a guy my height before (I’m 5′4).

2CPTG©

November 13th, 2013
3:46 pm

Raqi….I don’t need or want a wingman for disco….matta fact, I’on even like her no ‘mo……

I don’t have a prollem with my height; cause I didn’t have a say in that matter…..but those things that I can control…..I got ‘em under control….

YesSheIsCute

November 13th, 2013
3:47 pm

@DB did you just quote the Reverend? Al Green/ :lol:

Raqi

November 13th, 2013
3:47 pm

SexyCool, I need to invite you over for Christmas so you can watch mine play for a while and then fight for a while. Then you will be telling M, “Baby please give me one of those for Christmas next year. Pleeease.”.

disco

November 13th, 2013
3:48 pm

swiss – touché. lol. still that seeing eye to eye thing – smdh. honestly though, larger men tend to me more receptive to my big mouth and idle threats. they know it’s just who I am, how I am. shorter/smaller men tend to take it more personal. like just because I called them a midget bastid I meant something by it. lol.

raqi – thanks. your efforts are appreciated.

kimmie

November 13th, 2013
3:48 pm

Speaking of back-in-the-day, I heard Rick James song Bustin Out this morning. That was a really funky joint!

disco

November 13th, 2013
3:49 pm

2C – if you don’t like me no more then you probably never liked me in the first place. I’m all torn up though. where’s bluz? I wonder if there is room on the couch for me.

disco

November 13th, 2013
3:52 pm

y’all I’m feeling like Yvette in baby boy when she said jody don’t love her no more.

Raqi

November 13th, 2013
3:53 pm

2Can, I think the whole height thing (now that I am older and more mature) is so stupid.

All my younger years I was attracted to tall guys. Although I am married to a tall guy my love and attraction for him has absolutely nothing to do with his height.

When I first decided that I wanted to “be” with him it was because he was a tried and true friend. At that moment when I gave myself to him his height nor skin tone had nothing to do with it. It was his character, friendship and love that drew me in.

Celisea

November 13th, 2013
3:53 pm

where’s bluz?

Once again, someone brought me out….lolololol She here…not “she’s here”….she here….ummm, in spirit of course :)

2CPTG©

November 13th, 2013
3:53 pm

disco, it’s aiiiight, like the gambler, you gotta know when to hold ‘em, and when to fold ‘em……

Leggs

November 13th, 2013
3:56 pm

“larger men tend to me more receptive to my big mouth” – swiss, you’re letting that go by (lolol)?

Mrs. SexyCool

November 13th, 2013
3:57 pm

I got over the height thing as well. With M, he and I are practically the same height. He may have me by an eighth of an inch.

It’s not like he’s a shorty. I have actually come to realize that I’m glad that he is the height that he is. It’s a perfect height.

However, there was a time when I would not have dated him because he was not tall enough.

#GoFigure

Raqi

November 13th, 2013
3:57 pm

2Can do you like much older women? Have you considered Leggs? I know she feels most men her age are lame. You seem to be enough energy to keep her entertained.

disco

November 13th, 2013
3:58 pm

2C – aww sookie. know when to walk away, know when to run. you never count your money, when you sitting at the table, there’ll be time enough for counting, when the dealing’s done. lol.

leggs – stop. i been putting all kinds of invites out there today haven’t i? lol.

2CPTG©

November 13th, 2013
3:58 pm

Raqi, when I was younger, it was a hangup for me, but them gals would be like “he so cute,” so I took that sh!t and flipped it, developed a swag outta this world, and used all of it to my advantage…..shiiiid, I was the original “Biggie Smalls!”

Mrs. SexyCool

November 13th, 2013
3:59 pm

o_O

Didn’t see that coming…

2CPTG©

November 13th, 2013
4:00 pm

da hell is this, hook 2C up day? Raqi, I’m good, boo…..

Durty Burd

November 13th, 2013
4:00 pm

YSIC…That is from the Rev. Green…Once I get to know I will have some personal words for you… :wink:

No one brought you out! U just cannot help yourself..There is some bad in you Celisea…

Raqi’s favorite Phrase “I gave myself to him” I going to use that…lol

disco

November 13th, 2013
4:01 pm

raqi – are you calling leggs “much older”? lol.

2C – what? you really on the blog looking for a love connection or just some email friends?

Raqi

November 13th, 2013
4:01 pm

2Can, I am just kidding about Leggs darling. That was for her not you. You just read it before she did. LOL

Durty Burd

November 13th, 2013
4:03 pm

SlimNu, YSIC, and Leggs give yourselves, give youselves to me! lol

Leggs

November 13th, 2013
4:04 pm

“do you like much older women?: – that sentence would have had the same affect if you eliminated the word “much” (lol). 2C and I are…well, it’s complicated. J/K…we’re like siblings.

2CPTG©

November 13th, 2013
4:04 pm

disco, I am NEVER looking for a love connection, baby-girl….love develops….. from those that you meet, and form a bond with…..

Leggs

November 13th, 2013
4:04 pm

disco ~ ok, I’ll stop. :lol: :lol:

Raqi

November 13th, 2013
4:05 pm

Yes DurtyBurd I “gave” myself to him. Had he taken me I would have had him arrested. LOL

He and I were only friends then. I was not his wife so he could not have taken it. Heck it can’t “take it” now but based on what I believe from the Bible, I am not supposed to withhold. So I still give myself but some of those days are out of wifely obligations. LOL

Leggs

November 13th, 2013
4:06 pm

raqi – are you calling leggs “much older”? lol.

Exactly (lol). It’s all good because I look good!

2CPTG©

November 13th, 2013
4:06 pm

and just because I wanna hunch all y’all don’t mean I wanna love all y’all……

Raqi

November 13th, 2013
4:07 pm

Leggs, I said much older because I think I am older than him and I am going to marry him in my next life and I know you are older than I am. Hence “much older”. LOL

I figured you would like that. LOL

kimmie

November 13th, 2013
4:08 pm

Yall are confusing me with all these love jones connections up in here!!

Leggs

November 13th, 2013
4:08 pm

All good Raqi. I knew what you were saying.

2CPTG©

November 13th, 2013
4:09 pm

kimmie, what are you confused about?

daddy swiss

November 13th, 2013
4:09 pm

“larger men tend to me more receptive to my big mouth” – swiss, you’re letting that go by (lolol)?

Leggs — So, she really did say that? I though I was hallucinating. Seemed too good to be true. lol

kimmie

November 13th, 2013
4:10 pm

We’re busin out
And we don’t give a dam!
We don braided our hair
We don’t mind if you stare!

We’re bustin out on the funk
We’re bustin out on some serious funk!

2CPTG©

November 13th, 2013
4:11 pm

Swiss…….hahahahahahaha, man, you’re always right on time with your replies!!!!!

Leggs

November 13th, 2013
4:11 pm

♪♫•*¨*•.¸¸♥¸¸.•*¨*•♫♪
What’s happening baby, did you miss me over the weekend
If you did, I’m sorry but now that I’m here
I don’t want to bore you with a long irrelevant conversation
But you see, darling I think it’s about time
For me to get real serious about you

Because if someone was to rip me off of you
I couldn’t account for my actions, after all
And the way I feel knowing
That you should have be mine, all the time

But you see I not only want you, baby, I need you
And the need is so strong it’s almost like that of a junkie
In other words, baby, I just got to have you
Listen to me, darling, please listen to me

Love Jones, I got a Love Jones
I got a Love Jones for you
Love Jones, I got a Love Jones
I got a Love Jones for you

What, baby, what is a Love Jones
Shucks, darling it’s when you love someone
Very, very much and you just can’t seem to
Get yourself together

Like last Friday in class
When Mr. Russell was giving us the test
I was sitting up, staring at you and daydreaming
♪♫•*¨*•.¸¸♥¸¸.•*¨*•♫♪

Sorry, blame it on kimmie!

kimmie

November 13th, 2013
4:12 pm

2C – Nothin

Just cuttin up over here. And singing Rick James!LOL!!

Celisea

November 13th, 2013
4:12 pm

Yall are confusing me with all these love jones connections up in here!!

Me too…lol The “objects of affections” change on a whim…more often than changing drawers. I just want someone to gon’ ‘head and hook up. Do the dang thing. That way we can stop reading musical partners…lol I so serious…lololol

Raqi

November 13th, 2013
4:13 pm

2Can, what is love? For a man that is? Since you can “hunch” sans love.

I am trying to remember when Mase first told me he loves me. I can remember when I first believed him but I am trying to remember when he first said it.

Had we just finished having sex? Were we about to have sex? Was he trying to persuade me to have sex? Heck was sex even on the table at the time?

Celisea

November 13th, 2013
4:14 pm

I’mmmmm so serious….is what I meant. Get you a boo…a for real boo, a for play play boo, just get one.

Raqi

November 13th, 2013
4:14 pm

Were we having sex at the time?

kimmie

November 13th, 2013
4:15 pm

I am cracking up over here!! :lol:

Leggs

November 13th, 2013
4:15 pm

Celisea ~ I’m trying (lololol).

kimmie

November 13th, 2013
4:16 pm

Love
Exciting and new
Come aboard
We’re expecting you
The Love Boat
Soon will be making another run
The Love Boat
Promises something for everyone!

Raqi

November 13th, 2013
4:17 pm

LOl Celisea and Kimmie. I just like to instigate.

I wonder if they would tell if anyone really took him serious and thought he would entertain a real relationship from the way he come at women on here?

2CPTG©

November 13th, 2013
4:18 pm

Celie….my “play-play” boos tend to turn into real boos……

Leggs

November 13th, 2013
4:18 pm

kimmie ~ stop it! Too funny.

Raqi

November 13th, 2013
4:18 pm

I told yall before that I thought 2Can was a pimp at one time. It’s never been acknowledged or confirmed if he is or isn’t.

Celisea

November 13th, 2013
4:19 pm

Raqi – That wasn’t for you. That was for our lovelorn (that might be too strong) men bloggers putting out their daily ads on MIA :)

Leggs – It’s coming :)

2CPTG©

November 13th, 2013
4:20 pm

Raqi, I know ye’en tombout me…..cause truth be told…..nah, lemme hush, ain’t bout to ruin my good thing!!!

Leggs

November 13th, 2013
4:20 pm

my “play-play” boos tend to turn into real boos……

You do know that has a flair of sounding like FWB. I’m just asking. Anybody with a “boo” in a real loving, one on one relationship. I always thought of “boo” as a fly in the night that may end in a few months.

Leggs

November 13th, 2013
4:21 pm

Raqi ~ it’s been acknowledged. Silky Smooth acknowledged it! You remember him?

Raqi

November 13th, 2013
4:21 pm

What 2Can. Say it. My heart will not broken to find out you really don’t like me. LOL

2CPTG©

November 13th, 2013
4:21 pm

for sh!ts, and giggles, Raqi…..if I was????

Celisea

November 13th, 2013
4:22 pm

2Can – Alright now, work ya magic. I wish you and Durty the best…seriously

I’m outta here…night night!

2CPTG©

November 13th, 2013
4:24 pm

My heart will not broken to find out you really don’t like me.

you I’m not about to tell that lie…..see the thing with me is, I’m honest about mine…..I love women! ain’t no bones about it….

kimmie

November 13th, 2013
4:25 pm

Been fun Gang! Nice having some of the old crew back on!

Be easy!

SlimNu

November 13th, 2013
4:25 pm

I thought that was everyone’s likka cabinet when they don’t actually have a real likka cabinet

Leggs – Oh I guess so if you tend to keep lickka around. I guess mine is usually on top of the counter for easy access. :oops:

Raqi

November 13th, 2013
4:26 pm

2Can, if you are then you are.

That’s just the impression I got from you years ago. The way you would virtually pounce on women all in the same group (blog). It cannot be taken serious so I figured if you were for real the motives had to be for reasons other than having a real relationship with a woman that took the bait.

disco

November 13th, 2013
4:26 pm

boo is one of those terms that I never fully embraced.

raqi – just the other day I said he was sounding like goldie from the mack. and don’t get me started on all those “baby girls” he throws out. lol.

2CPTG©

November 13th, 2013
4:30 pm

decipher for yourself……

2CPTG©

November 13th, 2013
3:58 pm
Raqi, when I was younger, it was a hangup for me, but them gals would be like “he so cute,” so I took that sh!t and flipped it, developed a swag outta this world, and used all of it to my advantage…..shiiiid, I was the original “Biggie Smalls!”

Durty Burd

November 13th, 2013
4:30 pm

Celisea u are simply too funny!

I’m with 2C I luv the ladies, all shapes sizes and colors and when Durty gets out of a serious relationship it is on an poppin for at least 1yr before I calm down….hehehehehehehe!

YesSheIsCute

November 13th, 2013
4:31 pm

lol @ raqi’s stream of consciousness in recalling the first “I love you” I love you guys :D

Raqi

November 13th, 2013
4:31 pm

2Can, I have never doubted that you have trouble getting women. That’s why I too believed your motives here are not to be taken serious.

2CPTG©

November 13th, 2013
4:33 pm

disco, for you not to know sh!t about me, you damn sho remember a lot!!! Now…..I’m just sayin’ “baby-girl”!!!!

Raqi

November 13th, 2013
4:33 pm

YesSheIsCute, I remember. I think. I was acting withdrawn and he took his hand, raised my chin, looked at me and said “I love you. Stop pulling away from me”.

I think that was the first time.

2CPTG©

November 13th, 2013
4:36 pm

Raqi, I have no motive here……comment, and keep it movin….if I make friends, and meet some cool folks along the way, then that’s merely an added bonus….this blog is a necessary distraction from the idiots I have to deal with for 8 hours of my day…..

disco

November 13th, 2013
4:37 pm

2C – yep. and everything I remember is comprised of the last 2-3 days. don’t try to flip scripts with the kid. lol.

Leggs

November 13th, 2013
4:37 pm

” I guess mine is usually on top of the counter for easy access. ” – Makes sense because bending down to keep “tightening up” my drank can be bothersome (lol). Lil leggs is out the house so let me keep it up on top (lolol)

YesSheIsCute

November 13th, 2013
4:38 pm

Awwww Raqi. If only that wasn’t the exception and that was the rule :sad:

Leggs

November 13th, 2013
4:39 pm

boo is one of those terms that I never fully embraced.

Same here, disco!

2CPTG©

November 13th, 2013
4:40 pm

disco, disco, disco……..RNS, if I had the faintest idea of how to contact you, I’d show yo ass somethin!!! Real Talk…..you really ain’t met thye right dude….well, you have….but you’on e’een know it!

Leggs

November 13th, 2013
4:41 pm

disco

November 13th, 2013
4:43 pm

leggs – what you dranking on now? a friend clowned my most recent concoction which was vodka, amaretto and oj. then I ran out of oj and broke out the sunny d. lol.

2C – it’s all good.

disco

November 13th, 2013
4:45 pm

raqi – everybody is going all “aww” and mushy with it but tell the truth, did you fall for it ri8ght off the bat or were you looking at him like “man please”. just asking. lol.

Durty Burd

November 13th, 2013
4:45 pm

Dang-it that Raqi…had some serious game,acting withdrawn then once those words was spoken, FIYA,,,,FIYA…. Welcome to the Rodeo Mase…hehehehehehe!

DuShawn

November 13th, 2013
4:53 pm

– everybody is going all “aww”………. No everybody’s not either. I’m like that some bull shid. If I read one more thing about this perfect love affair imma throw my stapler thru my monitor.

Leggs

November 13th, 2013
4:55 pm

disco ~ drinking Vanilla Vodka on ice…yummy!

disco

November 13th, 2013
4:55 pm

D – that’s why you my man 20 grand. lol.

YesSheIsCute

November 13th, 2013
4:56 pm

I remember when I had a perfect love affair :cry:

DuShawn

November 13th, 2013
4:56 pm

The first time I told my lady I love her, is when she bonded my azz out.

disco

November 13th, 2013
4:57 pm

leggs – I just bought some vanilla rum. haven’t tried it yet though.

Button

November 13th, 2013
4:59 pm

Leggs

November 13th, 2013
5:01 pm

disco ~ it’s “Twenty Grand Vodka!”

Leggs

November 13th, 2013
5:02 pm

disco ~ is it spiced vanilla rum?

disco

November 13th, 2013
5:03 pm

leggs – no.

i just got an email re a bomb cruise out of san juan. unfortunately there is no bomb airfare to san juan. guess it wasn’t meant to be.

YesSheIsCute

November 13th, 2013
5:06 pm

disco forward me that email! I can get myself to san juan inga.maraj@gmail.com

YesSheIsCute

November 13th, 2013
5:08 pm

I meant could you forward me that email please? I got so hype I forgot my manners :lol:

disco

November 13th, 2013
5:12 pm

yes – I would but I already deleted. I immediately checked airfare and dismissed it. it was like $800 for a 7 day, ocean view with the single supplement. even less $$$ if you have a cruise mate but I always sail solo and so am used to paying extra. princess has some really good deals now too. i’ve never sailed them but i’m really considering it.

Leggs

November 13th, 2013
5:14 pm

Don’t you have a delete box?

disco

November 13th, 2013
5:16 pm

leggs – yes. I double delete. don’t like stuff sitting in the recycle bin either. I’m looking to cruise in the next couple of months so the cruise lines are blowing my inbox up. I generally only check for waived supplements or perks and then it’s delete, delete, delete.

Leggs

November 13th, 2013
5:18 pm

I do understand that double delete business.