Actress Joy Bryant recently said in an interview that she would often dumb herself down in dating. She had become so accustomed to changing who she was to fit the relationship, she thought it was what people did to make love work. I wonder how many women do this, though? Do you think it is something you can keep up?
I don’t know what kind of person prefers their date to be dumb, but what is wrong with changing for love? What if there was a part of your personality that was problematic, would you learn to fix it?
Do you believe it is fair to expect someone to dim their light or be less awesome so their partner can feel better about being with them?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta