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Dating: You won’t always connect

I think some people take it for granted that every time they go on a date, the person is going to connect with them and like them. Sometimes things just don’t spark and it is not anyone’s fault because “it is what it is” when it comes to attraction.

Of course, many of us have huge egos and the fact that someone doesn’t like us seems to just bug us so much. Why is that? Why do we believe that every time someone asks us out, it automatically means there is a love connection? I know some women feel as if they don’t even have to put much effort in because they were “asked” out or pursued first. Then they act shocked when they don’t get asked out for a second date.

When someone asks you out or you go on a date, do you expect them to like you so much that their initial attraction to you will automatically start sparking into something deeper?

How do you think we handle rejection in the form of no second dates or “sorry, not interested” responses start happening?

What did you do when someone you were dating decided not to call back?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta

232 comments Add your comment

Lee

October 25th, 2013
7:54 am

I never go on a date thinking about love–in my opinion Love should be slow and grow into a deep meaningful bond between two people –in my experience anything rushed or fast ends the same way, its fun while it last but that is not love.

How do you think we handle rejection in the form of no second dates or “sorry, not interested” responses start happening? Take it as a blessing, and think of how much fun you could have with your next date.

Happy Weekend

YesSheIsCute

October 25th, 2013
8:37 am

Good morning everyone! Today is my Thursday. I’m excited. To answer your questions:

No, I don’t believe that every time someone asks me out there is a love connection. In fact, I pretty much hate that first date. I get so nervous and shy and always feel like I don’t want to say or do the wrong thing, or I probably won’t get a second anyway. I have to constantly remind myself that I have A LOT to offer and a lot going for me (and he probably knows this too).

I’m used to the European way of dating. You’re told straight off to delete their number and it’s not working out. Clean cut, done. It took some getting used to but I like that better than the American way of beating around the bush, avoiding phone calls, or excuses.

When someone asks me out on a date I just take a deep breath before I go and hope for the best. I try not to take rejection personally. This person can’t help it if they don’t like me like that or aren’t attracted to me. It would be nice to meet a plethora of people who DID like me. Instead of a plethora of people who don’t. My pet peeve is falling off the map. I don’t pursue so if I don’t hear from you, you won’t hear from me. An interested man follows up. Much like an interested interviewee/candidate.

If someone doesn’t call me back, oh well. My mom told me a long time ago: Humans reserve the right to change their minds. Maybe he changed his mind, and that’s his prerogative. I don’t have time to convince someone to like me, either you like me and want to be with me or you don’t. The end.

YesSheIsCute

October 25th, 2013
8:42 am

Lee, you’re right about taking it as a blessing. I remember not getting a call back from this cop I was seeing and felt a little hurt since we got to the second date. Fast forward a few years he was on the news for being a dirty cop. He and his girlfriend were arrested. Count it all joy.

Exiled

October 25th, 2013
8:43 am

I can hunch Anybody if I put my mind to it.

If I want her,I connect.
Merriwether got no hook like mine. Not even Cassius Clay(Ali for the youngins) :lol:

Good Morning MIA.

Happy Friday Y’all!

Exiled

October 25th, 2013
8:45 am

Yes?

So who u like between 2C and Durty..,?

..if u don’t beatbout dabush? :lol;

Say it! :lol:

SlimNu

October 25th, 2013
9:17 am

When someone asks you out or you go on a date, do you expect them to like you so much that their initial attraction to you will automatically start sparking into something deeper?

Well of course I do because I’m just that dayum Grrrrrrrreat!

How do you think we handle rejection in the form of no second dates or “sorry, not interested” responses start happening?

I don’t know about you but I blast them on dont date him girl .com and make up a whole bunch of bs to deter anyone else from going out with him. He’s mine Dayumit!

What did you do when someone you were dating decided not to call back? I left them about 30 voicemails telling him what he missed out on by not calling me back. I also sent pictures that I photoshopped with us together and also morphed a picture of how our kids would look. I had to paint the whole picture for him so he could REALLY see what he missed out on.

Celisea

October 25th, 2013
9:31 am

I know some women feel as if they don’t even have to put much effort in because they were “asked” out or pursued first. Then they act shocked when they don’t get asked out for a second date.

I’on know why, but this statement don’t sit well with me. You ain’t gotta sit up straight and “act right”, nor do you have to come off as thirsty, nor is there a plethora of things you should be doing to “show that man that you’re grateful he asked you out.” Of course all in my opinion and j/k/b/n/r.

Dude asks you out. You go. Either y’all click or you don’t or there’s potential there. What horse and pony show do you need to perform you know, that “effort” for getting asked out again?? Dude likes you and wants to hang out (i.e. see where things can go), or not. Now, backtracking a bit, I guess one should smile, be polite, energetic and junk (LOL), to show him you appreciate the whole date. I say that with a hint of sarcism cause still, even though I backtracked a bit, no horse and pony show needed. Go in there and have a good time, be yourself.

K…back on topic, you won’t always connect….it happens. It’s life. Move on :) If it was just one date, ummm whatcha stuck for? I mean, IMO that’s sort of par for the course, 50/50 chance, etc etc etc. IMO, nothing wrong with pondering over, “well dang I thought we connected”, but you shouldn’t be hung up. It was just a date, or two.

Celisea

October 25th, 2013
9:34 am

Celisea

October 25th, 2013
9:37 am

How do you think we handle rejection in the form of no second dates or “sorry, not interested” responses start happening?

I don’t know that I’d call it “rejection.” It’s folks’ perogative to have a second date! But to answer, you go on about your day, with your life.

What did you do when someone you were dating decided not to call back?

Went out with someone else that asked :mrgreen:

C’mon Diva!!

Button

October 25th, 2013
9:44 am

When someone asks you out or you go on a date, do you expect them to like you so much that their initial attraction to you will automatically start sparking into something deeper? hecks yeah! other than that, I’d stay home.

What did you do when someone you were dating decided not to call back? I would bust the windows out of his car! call him repeatedly nonstop leaving nasty vm or crying hysterically LOL j/k seriously some folks have done this. I didn’t take it personal if I didn’t like the guy that much, However I did wonder what happened. if I was digging him then I felt a certian kind of way about it, I mean we were dating for christ sake. Some feelings were involved.

2CPTG©

October 25th, 2013
9:51 am

ummm yes, we will connect on a date….because we’ve connected before even going on a date!

you’on believe me…..try me:

tnymcky2000@yahoo.com

DuShawn

October 25th, 2013
9:52 am

“How do you think we handle rejection in the form of no second dates…” First dates….it’s been a while. If I remember correctly, the rejection comes in the form of no first date. I can’t ever remember taking a chick out once and she did not want to go out again. I say this with the utmost humility, but I’m a fun azz date. I’m a charming charismatic guy. I’ve done some truly legendary stuff with women. It’s dayum near impossible not to have a good time hanging out with me. However, I have met a few that I just couldn’t vibe with. I found their personalities boring and their behavior, quite frankly, a little weird. In those instances, I knew there would be no second date…….Unless they were fine as hell. Then I would merely tolerate them till I got the panties or I ran out of patience and just stop calling. In retrospect, the honorable thing to have done would be to let her know that it’s not gonna work out, thank her for her time and wish her well. I had yet to evolve to that level of maturity and nobility back then.

Leggs

October 25th, 2013
9:55 am

“Why do we believe that every time someone asks us out, it automatically means there is a love connection?” – Who believes that? That’s presposterous to think that way. If you do, I can understand your ego being bruised.

When someone asks you out or you go on a date, do you expect them to like you so much that their initial attraction to you will automatically start sparking into something deeper?No. What I do expect is that him asking me out the first time might lead to us possibly having a connection that will lead to something deeper DOWN THE ROAD!

How do you think we handle rejection in the form of no second dates or “sorry, not interested” responses start happening? – For me, if I thought there was a connection only to find out there wasn’t one I’ll get a little bummed. In the next instant, I simply say…NEXT. Obviously, that wasn’t the one for me since I wasn’t the one for him.

What did you do when someone you were dating decided not to call back?Well, that determination will be made after I made a call to him. Our conversation would definitely indicate whether there was an interest to see each other again or not. I see nothing wrong with calling him after the date the next day if I hadn’t heard from him. Like I said, if the conversation isn’t free flowing and I’d rather sit in the dentist chair than continue talking to him, it’s probably a wrap.

Good morning.

Leggs

October 25th, 2013
9:56 am

“If I remember correctly, the rejection comes in the form of no first date….” – EXACTLY.

Celisea

October 25th, 2013
10:00 am

I don’t think it’s rejection if there’s no connection. Shoot, I’ve been out on dates and was ready to go. Just endured. And I’m sure a dude has said the same about me. Really, I can deal with just about anything….laughing, talking (you) drinking. The only time I’m turned off if dude is disrespectful or a dweeb. Otherwise, even if no “romantic” connection or potential, shoot you’re already there, may as well whoop it up and enjoy.

Celisea

October 25th, 2013
10:02 am

See, this is something mommies need to teach kids about early. Rejection, won’t always be first, can’t be the smartest, so forth and so on. I was always really smart in school. I remember it stinging really bad if I wasn’t first, in first place, scored the highest. Took me a minute to digest you ain’t gon always be a winner…not in that regard. Sometimes “no” yields the balance you need.

Celisea

October 25th, 2013
10:10 am

And there are some dudes out there (in my experience) that always got the panties girl. When you turned them down or wasn’t interested (mainly cause he was a horndog), that turned the pursuit up to relentless.

Remember Kevin, the Kappa? Iyayayaya buddy was on me like white on rice, only though, cause I was that one chick he couldn’t get. :) As bad as I want to go all in, I just knew that it would be nothing but heartbreak. And I knew when it turned from maybe digging me to all out pursuit.

Celisea

October 25th, 2013
10:11 am

I’m hushing here….I feel a narcissist attack coming…lololol

MsAtl

October 25th, 2013
10:13 am

Morning All!

Not every meeting is meant to develop into something and I am okay with that. I actually explained that to the movie guy when we ran into each other last month (he seemed a bit awkward) and he said well you didn’t indicate that you wanted it to go further, so I stopped calling you. Oh! I didn’t realize that every time two people of the opposite sex met, it had to be relationship or nothing. I am actually open to friendship with men even if I have no interest in them relationship-wise. I guess he was looking for his next ex-wife, though. I didn’t take it as rejection, I just took it as we were not looking for the same thing…
Gotta run into a meeting.

DuShawn

October 25th, 2013
10:35 am

It’s a beautiful thing when you meet someone and yall truly hit it off. I mean when yall just vibe effortlessly. I’ve been blessed to have had some extraordinary women in my life. I remember Karen. She was special. Her aura and her smile would light up a room. All my potnahs gave her props. She was that chick! Pretty, fine, smart with a little hood in her. When I pulled her, I was sprung… vacations, shopping sprees, holding hands and kissing in public the whole nine. Once the novelty wore off (i.e. I tapped that azz about 20 times), my feelings began to dissipate. Eventually, we respectfully moved on. Unlike wifey, she put that never ending sprung on a brotha. After our first date, she came back to my house and never left. Literally…..

YesSheIsCute

October 25th, 2013
10:40 am

@DuShawn that’s an interesting occurence you just mention. Dissipating feelings….

DuShawn

October 25th, 2013
10:52 am

I’m sitting her reminiscing like a mugg. Remember that “NEXT” first album with Butter love and Too Close on it? That had just dropped when Karen and I were dating. To this day, I smile and think of her when I hear it. I was in love with that girl…………for a couple of months.

Reio

October 25th, 2013
11:15 am

Mornin folks!!
Been kind busy lately.

I bet somma yall been talkin bout me behind my back, since I ain’t been round here much lately. That’s ok. Ion care.

Not much to say on this topic. Never knew ‘rejection’. Everyone I asked out, said “Yes”. Not braggin. I’m an average fellow, in my opinion. It just never happened, so I don’t know how I would handle that. I suppose that I would just forget about her and move on. I was good at that. Once I saw that there was nothing there for me, relationship wise, I dropped them. Don’t ask me why they never dropped me, cause I don’t know. Just worked out that way. Maybe had I dated more, it would have happened eventually. I don’t know.

Reio

October 25th, 2013
11:17 am

The one day it get to chime in, not many people around. What gives?

DuShawn

October 25th, 2013
11:25 am

is this thing on?

SlimNu

October 25th, 2013
11:28 am

The one day it get to chime in, not many people around. What gives?/em>

Reio – They knew you’d be here so they decided to stay away. lol

Reio

October 25th, 2013
11:30 am

I ALMOST got rejected though. Little girl said ” I bet you’re a playboy. Don’t want nuthin to do with a playboy.”, “What makes you think I’m a playboy?”, ” I don’t know, you just look and act like one. Talkin all nice, and using proper english….Ion know bout you.”, “Well, I’m a one woman man….”, “That’s what they all say.”, “Yes,but that’s what I MEAN. I got no reason to lie.” We continued along this, give and take, conversation till she finally said “Ok, where do you want to go?” We went out a few times, but it never grew. I, at some point, told her that I didn’t see this going anywhere, and told her why. She responded with “Just give it more time, I can change.” Of course, that ended it for me. Don’t change for me, be yourself. It was her personality that didn’t jive with me. That’s all.

Reio

October 25th, 2013
11:32 am

“Reio – They knew you’d be here so they decided to stay away. lol”

Well, I can stay away more often. Don’t want to scare people.

Leggs

October 25th, 2013
11:38 am

If anything, SlimNu is scaring folk. She been on a roll since first post this morning. She’s all the way crunked up!

The man formerly know as DAN - still...Superior

October 25th, 2013
11:39 am

Rejection is part of the game.

For every 1 that won’t, there are 3 that will.

I know for a fact that I ain’t for everyone. Doesn’t make me strong/them ‘weak’, doesn’t make me ‘better’ or them ‘worse’, just different.

YesSheIsCute

October 25th, 2013
11:43 am

Reio! Nice to see you here again. How nice it must be to have never been rejected. You’re a guy who knows what he wants and didn’t waste time with the maybes, the giving the benefit of the doubts, and also paid very close attention to red flags. I guess if we all did that we could avoid it.

Celisea

October 25th, 2013
11:45 am

Daaang Slim, that was harsh!

SlimNu

October 25th, 2013
11:45 am

Reio – I’m just messing with ya…I lube your stories ;-)

Leggs – The kids these days would say i’m all the way turnt up :lol:

I’m going to see if I can’t run into some gumbo this weekend. ;-)

SlimNu

October 25th, 2013
11:46 am

Celisea – It wasn’t harsh, it was a jokey joke. It’s Friday and all ya’ll need to loosen those ties and control top stockings :lol:

Exiled

October 25th, 2013
11:46 am

Damn…it’s a coffin in here

Dead!

Exiled

October 25th, 2013
11:49 am

Maybe u can smile at that old,toothless dude today since it’s Friday..

ComeOn slim…gift him ur amorous smile.

Reio

October 25th, 2013
11:49 am

YesSheIsCute – Well, I’ve always felt that everyone has feelings. We all need to be respected….. So, I would rather not continue something, when I’ve already realized that it would go nowhere. For her sake, as well as mine. Many were rather nice, kind, ladies, just not for me.

SlimNu

October 25th, 2013
11:50 am

:-D How’s that Ex, big enough for ya?

Leggs

October 25th, 2013
11:50 am

SlimNu ~ I see I’m still behind the cue ball. I thought it was “crunked” up (lolol). I think everyone knew it was a jokey joke. Even her remark was a jokey joke w/o the lol (I think).

DuShawn

October 25th, 2013
11:51 am

“I know for a fact that I ain’t for everyone. Doesn’t make me strong/them ‘weak’, doesn’t make me ‘better’ or them ‘worse’,……….” I have a slightly different ideology. If you can’t vibe with me….something’s wrong with you. Cause I’m muffuggin great! That may sound a little narcissistic, but it’s actually a self esteem preservation mechanism. When you’re out here trying to get them all, you can expect some defeats. That mantra makes it easier to brush yourself off and get on to the next one.

Celisea

October 25th, 2013
11:53 am

My IPhone 5c is on it’s way!!!

kimmie

October 25th, 2013
11:54 am

Happy Friday Gang!!

On topic – You are not always going to connect. News flash, that is part of dating!!! If you don’t understand that simple concept, you should not try to date.

Cel – That “not putting much effort” thing didn’t sit well with me either. Diva, what is one to do, turn flips and take out a full page ad because dude asked her out? Sounds like the woman is not the only one with an inflated ego in this instance. Maybe the show of disinterest or lack of enthusiasm is a symptom of the lack of connection. One should show good manners and at least say thank you. Beyond that, can’t make something that’s not there there.

Hope everyone has a great weekend!

Durty Burd

October 25th, 2013
11:56 am

narcissist, egomaniac, attention getter….These words do describe one on the blog,I am not going to say any names (Celisea) but this person were these words proudly…

SlimNu…How about a picture of the CT, that will always get you a 2nd date! hehehehehe!

Heck sometimes I did not even know I was on a date, I took ladies out who I considered friends and maybe they wanted more but at the time I was booed up.Now if the were kinda scandalous (Scandal reference) and I did not deem them boo material, I would sex them up for a minute…

Hey the running with the bull had quite a few folks participating. I saw one picture of some knucklehead petting the bull…

Celisea

October 25th, 2013
11:56 am

Just kidding with ya, Slim! Yeah, it’s all stuffy and uptight. Let’s loosen up and have fun it’s Friday and my iPhone is on the way :mrgreen:

I know, I know, I’m all late and stuff.

Celisea

October 25th, 2013
11:57 am

Kimmie – Beyond that, can’t make something that’s not there there.

Exactly. If you go in just being yourself, that’s all you can do. If that don’t sell, well he or she is just not for you.

2CPTG©

October 25th, 2013
11:58 am

shiiid, I need Swiss’ input right about now….Swiss…help! Need some assistance with this database project….I hate this part of my job….bih, lemme just reset a password and call it a day!

Durty Burd

October 25th, 2013
11:59 am

narcissist, egomaniac, attention getter….These words do describe one on the blog,I am not going to say any names (Celisea) but this person were these words proudly…

SlimNu…How about a picture of the CT, that will always get you a 2nd date! hehehehehe!

Durty Burd

October 25th, 2013
12:01 pm

Good Afternoon!

narcissist, egomaniac, attention getter….These words do describe one on the blog,I am not going to say any names (Celisea) but this person were these words proudly…

SlimNu…How about a picture of the CT, that will always get you a 2nd date! hehehehehe!

Heck sometimes I did not even know I was on a date, I took ladies out who I considered friends and maybe they wanted more but at the time I was booed up.Now if the were kinda scandalous (Scandal reference) and I did not deem them boo material, I would sex them up for a minute…

Hey the running with the bull had quite a few folks participating. I saw one picture of some knucklehead petting the bull…

DuShawn

October 25th, 2013
12:02 pm

Another, self esteem preservation method is the “After She’s Rejected You, Find Something You Don’t Like About Her” technique. When she turns you down, you say to yourself “I didn’t want her any, her left butt cheek is slightly bigger than the right, ole lop sided azz.”

kimmie

October 25th, 2013
12:03 pm

Cel – I have the iPhone 4s and hubs gave me an Otterbox case for it when he gave it to me 2 Christmases ago. I just changed up and got this blinged out case on Amazon for it for $6. It has the Chanel logo on it. I’m acting like I got something brand new, showing it off in the office the other day! Everyone was cracking up on me. I’m in love with it, like I got a new phone!LOL!!

Celisea

October 25th, 2013
12:04 pm

Durty – You should seek help for that condition you have against me….and have had for what a year or so now?

Well, I gots nothing but love in my heart for folks….and my iPhone is on the way!! :mrgreen:

Can’t steal my joy….yeen learned that yet??

On that note, I’m heading out for lunch with a few coworkers!!

BBL, hugs (and rub/smooches to you Durty)

Celisea

October 25th, 2013
12:05 pm

Another, self esteem preservation method is the “After She’s Rejected You, Find Something You Don’t Like About Her” technique. When she turns you down, you say to yourself “I didn’t want her any, her left butt cheek is slightly bigger than the right, ole lop sided azz.”

Mmm hmmm…translation = SALTY!!!

Kimmie – Okaaaaay!!

YesSheIsCute

October 25th, 2013
12:05 pm

@Exiled I didn’t say I don’t beat around the bush. I do a little when it comes to certain things like delivering bad news. But when it comes to dating I’m very honest and forthcoming about what I want, what I expect, etc.

daddy swiss

October 25th, 2013
12:06 pm

Howdy, folks.

Did Slim just say she lubed Reio?

2can — What’s up?

Leggs

October 25th, 2013
12:10 pm

You know swiss, I actually read that as lubbed Reio until you reposted it as lube….too dang funny!

Durty Burd

October 25th, 2013
12:15 pm

Swiss…I think SlimNu is starting to turn the corner when it comes to older men. There are 2 around the age of 6o telling slimnu viagra works everytime. I may now be too young for slimnu….

Where is BluzGirl? I miss that crazy cra-cra…

Dushawn what about you get the one who just broke up and she puts it on you, then calls and say I cannot come over anymore because I am getting back with my man….Damm,Damm,Damm!

2CPTG©

October 25th, 2013
12:19 pm

My Man!!! ok, so I have a raw file, input method is .csv, I want the output method in the same format, do I need to make any changes first to keep the output method the same, or, do I need to import it as an excel table first, create my query, then change the output method?

ain’t scared to ask for help, dammit!!!

2CPTG©

October 25th, 2013
12:21 pm

make any sense?

DuShawn

October 25th, 2013
12:21 pm

Durty….I never went through that one. I always encouraged them to keep their man, especially if he got bread. Both of us eat off him.

daddy swiss

October 25th, 2013
12:24 pm

2can — DBs are not really my area of expertise, but let me see if I follow what you’re saying.

So, you’ve got a CSV data dump. You want to query that down to a sub-set of the results in the full file, I’m assuming? And you want to ultimately have this sub-set converted back to a CSV dump, is that right?

2CPTG©

October 25th, 2013
12:26 pm

Leggs

October 25th, 2013
12:27 pm

Hey swiss, I know this wasn’t 2C’s intent since you are male, but his email addy is on page 1. Why not email him.

Leggs

October 25th, 2013
12:27 pm

Leggs

October 25th, 2013
12:29 pm

:lol: :lol: :lol: You’re not the fish he wanted to catch…

The man formerly know as DAN - still...Superior

October 25th, 2013
12:31 pm

@Du

I’ve never felt the need to preserve my self esteem.

If she’en like me, hey…she’en like me and mayber her friend/sister/play cousin/neighbor might. Which is why I tried to end on good terms with the ones that didn’t go for my steez.

While in the moment I felt some type of way, that passed.

And, admittedly, I have lamented the culmination of females that didn’t want me like I wanted them; but, in time I found those ladies to be great resources.

2CPTG©

October 25th, 2013
12:35 pm

Leggs….do some work!

GlammourGirl

October 25th, 2013
12:37 pm

2C – I know that question wasn’t for me, but thought I’d put my two cents in. Your input file type has nothing to do with your output file type. Once you import your file into the database, it’s just data then. When you create your export file, you specify the file type you want then. What database are you using?

Exiled

October 25th, 2013
12:38 pm

2C…do what u suggested..import it in excel,work it and save it as csv.

Works phoine! ..like SlimNu :lol:

I was just gon say ‘hunch it ad u suggested’ to make it sexxy :lol:

Exiled

October 25th, 2013
12:38 pm

2CPTG©

October 25th, 2013
12:42 pm

Glammour – MS….and yep, I see; once I append it to the table, I can specify the output format…..been tinkering with it….this ain’t my specialty, but they feel IT pertains to all things “puter related”

2CPTG©

October 25th, 2013
12:43 pm

and thanks……loves a smart gal!!!!

GlammourGirl

October 25th, 2013
12:46 pm

2C – MS SQL Server? I’m a data warehouse developer. Load tables, write queries, and extract data all day, everyday. I use Teradata but for the most part what you’re trying to do is standard across most databases. But I feel you on people thinking IT is everything dealing with a computer. Other than databases, I know several languages, but that’s the extent of my IT knowledge. I’m a developer, don’t know any of that networking stuff.

Leggs

October 25th, 2013
12:47 pm

I ain’t….

GlammourGirl

October 25th, 2013
12:47 pm

2C – Did you go to FSU?

daddy swiss

October 25th, 2013
12:52 pm

2can / Glammour — What she said. ;-) I imagine you could probably write a singe query to import, sub-query, then export the subquery results all in one step if you’re really good, but if it were me, I’d just load it, run whatever normal query I needed then export the results to whatever format you need.

SlimNu

October 25th, 2013
12:52 pm

Durty – My lenses is not big enough to capture the CT in one shot. I need that panoramic lense lol

daddy swiss

October 25th, 2013
12:52 pm

Typo: **single** query, not singe

2CPTG©

October 25th, 2013
12:54 pm

yes, MS SQL Server….and naw, didn’t go to FSU, but being an hour away, that’s my adopted team….my alma mater is in South Carolina – I ain’t got time to be learniing new technologies…but I thought this would be a simple task for those that deal with this on a regular…..but now networking topolgies….that’s me!!!

SlimNu

October 25th, 2013
12:56 pm

Did Slim just say she lubed Reio?

daddyswiss – Oh, i’m sorry. My fake accent is a bit strong. I haven’t learned to articulate properly in English yet.

Exiled

October 25th, 2013
12:59 pm

2C…but aren’t technologies changing even in networking?

…what if ur company wants to upgrade…whatchu gon do if u don’t wanna learn?

MsAtl

October 25th, 2013
1:03 pm

daddy swiss

October 25th, 2013
1:03 pm

On the subject of technology… Any technical trainers or professional services consultants (with strong background in identity) looking for a new gig? If so, let me know.

Exiled

October 25th, 2013
1:03 pm

Where is Disco…been missing these past few days?

Did she mention anything bout redeeming her frequent flyer miles for a vacay trip?

She may have been promised shopping at some exotic locale somewhere…..

Shes a hustler., :lol:

2CPTG©

October 25th, 2013
1:03 pm

Ex, networking is pretty standard; you may upgrade the equipment, but not the methodology.

2CPTG©

October 25th, 2013
1:05 pm

Glammour Gal…..along with MsAtl, I’mma need you on speedial (email)!!!! combine our skill sets, and we can eat good!!!!

Exiled

October 25th, 2013
1:08 pm

2C..I wanna start my business in Africa in a few(maybe next 1yr or so)

U wanna go on a trip with me,u hook up my offices then I can take u to my village,hook up the tourist spots for u and hook up some skilled,besutiful gals for u?

All expensed paid,airfare+food
(less ofcourse ur donations to ur gals) :lol:

Leggs

October 25th, 2013
1:13 pm

Exiled

October 25th, 2013
1:18 pm

Why WOW Leggs?

Bad deal?

Leggs

October 25th, 2013
1:32 pm

WOW in pretty decent deal.

Celisea

October 25th, 2013
1:38 pm

Where is BluzGirl? I miss that crazy cra-cra…

Quit playing…you know you just change clothes…lolololol

Dern, someone killed the vibe today. It’s 1:37 and the blog day is shot. Thought I was coming back to pages turned. Durty came in like he was bout to do something. Change it up Durty and get it started :mrgreen:

SlimNu

October 25th, 2013
1:39 pm

Ex – It seems like everyone that’s from Africa has some sort of business back home. lolol

Leggs

October 25th, 2013
1:45 pm

decent “offer.”

Leggs

October 25th, 2013
1:46 pm

Mrs. SexyCool

October 25th, 2013
1:58 pm

Ms. ATL – M just hooked me up with photography equipment and private photography lessons for my birthday.

But…I’m not into it enough for that coffee mug. (lol)

MsAtl

October 25th, 2013
2:00 pm

Mrs. SC- Congrats on the new equipment. I am thinking of getting that mug; I just think it is so cool and I like unique things.

Mrs. SexyCool

October 25th, 2013
2:00 pm

Sometimes, it’s not a love connection. Life is like that. We move on.

I learned over the years that there is a mature way of handling that. And it worked out so much better than the few times that I tried to make something out of nothing and ended up ruining what could have at least passed as just friends.

Celisea

October 25th, 2013
2:00 pm

I’ve been looking at ads and commerical of the iPhone 5c :mrgreen: Acting like I’m not use nuthin!!!

SlimNu

October 25th, 2013
2:00 pm

I saw that groupon earlier this morning and considered it for a friend. However, it says $12.99 but upon checkout it adds up to almost $30. Um, i’ll pass on a cup that expensive. lol

Mrs. SexyCool

October 25th, 2013
2:02 pm

I’m kinda excited and intimidated all at the same damn time. He bought me a Canon Rebel T3i with an additional lens, a tripod and a bag.

Before my first lesson this week, I knew very little more than how to turn it on. It’s going to be cool to learn about what this puppy can do.

Celisea

October 25th, 2013
2:03 pm

One thing that’s for sure about not having a connection with a person you so desired, if you learn something from it, it wasn’t a bust after all.

Exiled

October 25th, 2013
2:06 pm

@SlimNu..yea it’s true because for most folks,when they work here and save a little,even under $100,000, u can start a self sustaining bizz.

The other reason is most folks,after going back,they don’t wanna work for nobody and at the same time,they want to upgrade their life and still make a decent living.

Its harder there to get the start money but it is easier to start with little.

..feel me?

MsAtl

October 25th, 2013
2:11 pm

SlimNu- $30.00??? What the? I didn’t put it in the cart yet. At that price, I will pass.

Exiled

October 25th, 2013
2:11 pm

Happy birfday SecxyCool,aka Mrs SexxyCool!

Congrats on the photography gig..

That man is luving it!

Mrs. SexyCool

October 25th, 2013
2:17 pm

Thanks, Mmeelloo.

I am 41 years and one week old as of today. (lol)

2CPTG©

October 25th, 2013
2:18 pm

Ex….hell yeah, I’ll take you up on that offer! mess ’round and get there and don’t wanna come back….

2CPTG©

October 25th, 2013
2:18 pm

Slim, you wanna go? seems that’s the only way we gon’ get rid of Durty :)

2CPTG©

October 25th, 2013
2:20 pm

Ex, aren’t you like a Prince, or some’n over there?

Celisea

October 25th, 2013
2:21 pm

Ex, aren’t you like a Prince, or some’n over there

Hollers!!

Willie Dynamite

October 25th, 2013
2:22 pm

Afternoon all,
Topic (if y’all are still on it)- always connect is next to impossible. I’ve experienced most women seem to put there best foot forward. I have ran into a few hohums that acted like the sun came up on there command. I also know a lot dudes choose the shotgun approach and just shoot, connection be dayum end cause they were playing the #’s game.
What else you good folks got going on ?

Mrs. SexyCool

October 25th, 2013
2:23 pm

“The boy got his own money.”

Uht-oh…don’t get me started – y’all know I love me some movie quotes. (lol)

SlimNu

October 25th, 2013
2:23 pm

MsAtl – It wasn’t quite $30 but it was close…smh

Ex – Yeah, many of the dealers I deal with go back and forth home. Plus with them having a base on the home front, it makes it easier to export/import units back and forth.

Button

October 25th, 2013
2:25 pm

Exiled

October 25th, 2013
2:26 pm

U will luv it 2C..most white folks who go to Africa stay there.

Life is grand when u have a lil coin..,it goes a long way..big brick house,housekeepers,gardener,fresh food..low cost of living..

.

2CPTG©

October 25th, 2013
2:29 pm

my boss, just gon have to get over it, damn these databases….it’s Friday nikka!

y’all ladies know the best non-verbal compliment you can give a guy?? A double – take!!!
I was just at a traffic light, and shorty damn neqr broke her neck trynna look….granted, today I’m cleaner than a patient headed for surgery…but shorty was all in my grill…..smilin, and all that!!!

Exiled

October 25th, 2013
2:31 pm

2C…prince?

matter of fact,u ain’t far of the mark.

My family has the sub chief role.

My family has dominion over a certain area in my village..so the villagers who live in our village go to ny uncle if they need a new piece of land or if there is a disagreement etc.

Now that’s in the country…every African has a village origin. We got homes in the country but..

We got city homes too.

2CPTG©

October 25th, 2013
2:31 pm

Moni, if I sent you a pic right now, “you’ll be trynna marry a brother!”

and Slim…..we need to talk!

2CPTG©

October 25th, 2013
2:33 pm

I remember you sayin something like that, a while back……

2CPTG©

October 25th, 2013
2:34 pm

Ex…..through genealogical research, I found out my “original” surname – Puse- now I wanna find out what village that’s from…

SlimNu

October 25th, 2013
2:35 pm

I’ve always wanted to go on a safari in Africa

Exiled

October 25th, 2013
2:36 pm

@Slim..true

When folks have green cards,they wld rather do that because they can travel back and forth.

America is definately good for making a little coin but for most Africans or adult immigrants,it is stressful because it takes us away from families and expensive and harder to deal with the lifestyle.

Exiled

October 25th, 2013
2:38 pm

2C.. How u find that out bout ur last African name..can’t be true.

If u say ur blood or genealogy I will believe that expert muffacker lol

SlimNu

October 25th, 2013
2:39 pm

There are a few trying to take me back with them….I’m looking at them like, “for what? So I can be wife number 5?” No thanks lol

2CPTG©

October 25th, 2013
2:44 pm

Ex….because my grandfather’s father, was born a slave; My grandfather was born in 1913, he was the youngest of 14, and told me, thru him, what our original name was was…told me how they originally came from SC to FL, and sure enough, there was a plantation owner with my same last name; so I researched all the early records, and graves of those slaves that resided on his plantation, and found that name in which my grandfather had told me….my family took the surname of the slave owner…

Exiled

October 25th, 2013
2:44 pm

:lol: @ Slim!

on the real tip,not every African person believes or practices polygamy.

Altho polygamy is prevalent and actually recognized in most countries

It is legal with a capital L

Leggs

October 25th, 2013
2:45 pm

“I’ve always wanted to go on a safari in Africa: – Stay on that safari and don’t go off track making love in the jungle only to be eaten by a lion. Remember that foolish couple???

Celisea

October 25th, 2013
2:46 pm

I don gave up

2CPTG©

October 25th, 2013
2:46 pm

Slim…not me….

SlimNu

October 25th, 2013
2:48 pm

Leggs – Oh yeah!! :shock:

2CPTG©

October 25th, 2013
2:51 pm

Note to the blog gals…..if Slim says yes, I’m done….throwin in my player card!

Exiled

October 25th, 2013
2:52 pm

2C…that’s great!!!

Man u done some work.

If that name Puse is ur grand grand’s original family name in Africa,I bet u it is much easier to find out where ur African name is from.

As an African who studied African history and migration in high school,Puse seems like an east African to southern African name. Most names in these countries;Kenya,Uganda,Tanzania,Zambia,Zimbabwe, Malawi end with a vowel.

That sounds like an easy break to trace ur origin. And ur grandfather was as old as mine so that can’t too be hard.

Good luck!
..u proly my uncle thru marriage! :lol:

SlimNu

October 25th, 2013
2:53 pm

2C – How do you feel about an Open situation? lol

2CPTG©

October 25th, 2013
2:59 pm

..u proly my uncle thru marriage!
I almost spit on myself!!!!!

Slim….with you, no, ain’t no sharing…..

DuShawn

October 25th, 2013
3:04 pm

2C lol… I see you ain’t playing wit um. You got the email advertisement on page 1 as promised. You seriously campaigning. You got the hook baited and done cast out. It’s just a matter of time before you get a bite.

Exiled

October 25th, 2013
3:09 pm

Slim/Leggs..a safari will proly set u off bout $2,500 in non peak travel season..if wana go to the Serengeti in Tanzania or Kenya or to the Zambezi Valley in Zimbabwe,the Okavango in Botstwana or the Kruger mountains in South Africa. That should include air fare and hotel/chalet bookings in the wild.

I haven’t been, myself and am planning on one with my Queen and kids.

2CPTG©

October 25th, 2013
3:11 pm

Du…..but it’s that ever elusive one, that’s pissin me off…..almost like she playin wit me!!!!

Celisea

October 25th, 2013
3:12 pm

Dang, I thought y’all was gonna try and salvage but I see we doing Lion Country Safari today…

I wanna “yawn” , but I’on wanna be rude….like some do when they want you to hush. I’on have nothing else to talk about so, I won’t be yawning

DuShawn

October 25th, 2013
3:12 pm

“Slim….with you, no, ain’t no sharing…..” Let her be free bruh.
Reminds me of what my playa cousin once told me. We were in some bar and the girls we had with us were kissing each other and rubbing on one another passionately. People starting to look and mumble. I kinda whispered to them “Baby, yall may want to chill out” . Cuz said, “Dushawn let them do their thang, you can’t keep pit bulls from fighting.”

Exiled

October 25th, 2013
3:14 pm

Celisea..u wanna ‘yawn’ because Lion Country safari talk is beneath u?

Mrs. SexyCool

October 25th, 2013
3:15 pm

Why the heck is it so hard to buy an all black Nike tennis shoe? #Sheeeeezzzz….

Leggs

October 25th, 2013
3:16 pm

One day, Ex, one day!

Celisea

October 25th, 2013
3:16 pm

LOLOLOLOLOL……Thanks, Mmeello, needed that laugh right about now. These spreadsheets have me where I want to scream.

I was gonna say, I’m not one that’s with all the oochie coochie talk (don’t get me wrong, Imma laugh now), but danggit, I’m bout to throw something out here

Celisea

October 25th, 2013
3:17 pm

And Exiled – For the hundreth time, no nothing is beneath me. So you on that’s “booghie” band wagon….too?

Celisea

October 25th, 2013
3:19 pm

on the “booghie” band wagon….is what I meant. Not sure where “that’s came from…lolol I need to go home. Can’t wait to the get weekend started :)

Exiled

October 25th, 2013
3:19 pm

2C..see ‘that elusive one’ is the one u wanna bring on safari wit u!

u be chilling with her in the wild,hunching in a chalet as the lions smell human blood and they growling,’hrrrrrrrrrr’ outside.

She be clinging to ur naked body like a leech when u hear that.

U won’t tell her the armed African guards are protecting u chalet. U be acting like u got her covered and she safe bc of U! :lol:

DuShawn

October 25th, 2013
3:22 pm

- “nothing is beneath me” Celisea- Let’t hook up after work and let me test that theory. I drove the SUV today. We don’t have to leave the parking lot. Let’s meet, get in the back, put on a flick, blaze one, bust one and I send you home to your boo. You wit it?

Durty Burd

October 25th, 2013
3:24 pm

Dang blog competition for SlimNu…Baby I am in it to win, sexy slim… :)

Celisea….Why,why must it always be about you? You no what they say if you don’t have anything good to say don’t say anything at all..sheeshhh

SlimNu

October 25th, 2013
3:29 pm

Why the heck is it so hard to buy an all black Nike tennis shoe?

Mrs SC – TELL ME ABOUT IT, RIGHT?! I’ve been on the hunt for a while now. When I did find one I liked, they had every size BUT mine. :roll:

Leggs

October 25th, 2013
3:30 pm

“Let’t hook up after work and let me test that theory. I drove the SUV today. We don’t have to leave the parking lot. Let’s meet, get in the back, put on a flick, blaze one, bust one and I send you home to your boo. You wit it?”

You know, even when joking around, some of these sexual posts are just plain tastesless and disrespectful, but because you guys are playing around you don’t see it. Certain things just shouldn’t be said. As you see, you don’t see any of the single ladies making sexual overtones to you married guys, why, because it’s not right!

Exiled

October 25th, 2013
3:32 pm

I don’t feel that Celisea…just asking

and a safari is actually a lil on the bougie side

poor folks don’t travel nor have passports

Mrs. SexyCool

October 25th, 2013
3:32 pm

SlimGoody – that is the exact problem I am having. Once I find something I like, they don’t have my size.

This is some bullshiggidy.

Celisea

October 25th, 2013
3:34 pm

Dushawn – I know you don’t understand or can concieve the concept of “respect” but please dude

Mrs. SexyCool

October 25th, 2013
3:34 pm

Leggs – I saw a photo yesterday of Kevin Hart grabbing both of Tisha Campbell’s breasts. Now, I’m sure it’s some foolishness for the RHOH….yet and still, I found it very distasteful.

SlimNu

October 25th, 2013
3:35 pm

Ex – While you’re making your safari travel plans, go ahead and create room for one more. Consider it your charity for the holidays lol

2CPTG©

October 25th, 2013
3:35 pm

what’s offensive about Du’s comment, Leggs?

Celisea

October 25th, 2013
3:35 pm

Durty – You will find that you just don’t say anything to me, I wouldn’t exist…to you. I can do it easily.

One minute you sniffing and the next minute you’re taking jabs. I think you’re the one with the hang up.

2CPTG©

October 25th, 2013
3:38 pm

some days this blog is akin to a person watching a porn flick, then talkin bout, “they so nasty!”

topic discussion has a life span of half a page……then it’s back to the usual….lighten up ladies!!!

Leggs

October 25th, 2013
3:38 pm

Mrs. SexyC ~ I saw a few episodes of RHOH and thought it a funny show so I’ve been playing catch up. Exactly, stuff like this is not cute, I don’t care how many laughs you get. It’s just not cute and shouldn’t ever be done! How would it look like for me to walk up to Boris and grab his junk and ask “how’s it hanging?” Certain things are off limits and when we get back to that, the dating axis may fall back in its place (lol). Kidding on the last part.

DuShawn

October 25th, 2013
3:39 pm

Leggs: Lighten up …dayum- I’m bored, it’s Friday, I’m just trying to provoke a response so I can type my way till 5:00pm.

because it’s not right! – c’mon…….seriously.

YesSheIsCute

October 25th, 2013
3:39 pm

2C I’m gonna try that double take. I’ll let you know if that gets me any further than what I’ve been doing (which is nothing).

Exiled

October 25th, 2013
3:40 pm

Grabbing Tisha’s tatas?!

even for the money or comedy,that’s extreme.

Hopefully the pic is airbrushed

Now fellas,Swiss,I saw a pic of Sanaa Latham on the cover of Jet

My goodness,she looks diamonds and gold.

I swear if I was offered her…..I wld just go for it

Da he’ll with Swiss’ belly button test

I just lick it raw,.,no test required!

Leggs

October 25th, 2013
3:41 pm

I didn’t say it was offensive, I said it was tasteless. BTW, even on the days when this place turns into the University of Porn, I’m fine with it because we are talking about other parties or making up stories. I see nothing wrong with that.

Mrs. SexyCool

October 25th, 2013
3:43 pm

Leggs

October 25th, 2013
3:43 pm

DuShawn ~ seriously, not trying to come down on anyone. Just a thought I wanted to express. I’m good over here even smiling. If we don’t say anything, you won’t know. That’s all.

Celisea

October 25th, 2013
3:45 pm

I’m always smiling. It’s all good, shoot, ain’t my hang-up.

Celisea

October 25th, 2013
3:45 pm

Ready for the weekend babey….1 hour and 15 minutes

DuShawn

October 25th, 2013
3:53 pm

Nawwww Leggs………….Dont’ try to sugar coat it now. I’m offended by your reprimand. I found your comments tasteless and disrepectful. The nerve of you! Who are you to prevent me from being an azzhole if I so choose.

Durty Burd

October 25th, 2013
3:56 pm

I’m always smiling. It’s all good, shoot, ain’t my hang-up. Not when you are ranting and raving about someone putting your government name on the blog. Or someone changing their blog name and posting a comment…Yea you are always smiling and it all good…

Leggs

October 25th, 2013
3:59 pm

Not sugarcoating anything, just being polite. You know you are “touched” right (lol).

daddy swiss

October 25th, 2013
4:01 pm

Me.lo — Yeah, I think Sanaa Latham could opt out of the belly button test. She’s already passed her AP courses. lol

Speaking of CILFs (Celebs I’d Like to F__k), I have a new tennis crush. Move over Serena, I believe Sloane Stephens has knocked you out of my top spot for tennis chicks. Her face isn’t all that great, but with that body, who cares?

Celisea

October 25th, 2013
4:01 pm

Durty – Imma ask you the same thing I asked or said to Bluzgirl…..I’on even know you? Haven’t had too much interacting outside of you sniffing around. What’s your hang-up?? Why the hostility??

It’s on you, boo. Raqi pretty much blogged alllll day and it wasn’t an issue (not for me) and apparently not for you or any other bloggers. Soooo, what gives when I come on?? Dude you attack me or my post EVERYTIME I post. I don’t come back at you cause really, it’s just not that deep. I can take you or leave you.

IT’S A BLOG, BOO…..learn what that mean. And really, it’s just plain moist at this point. “Boo hoo hoo, always talking” Well, can’t be that much cause we barely, rarely hit five pages…on a good day. Oh, or the skits and transparency in sniffing behind all the “so called” ladies. Ummm, that’s not only moist but getting old. Y’all always tom’bout hooking up, I’m waiting for a man to do the dang thing. Put all that jokie joking aside and step to somebody. Otherwise, I guess we have to “endure” the moistness of showing there’s more than one woman here…..

DEAD

Celisea

October 25th, 2013
4:03 pm

And what the hell does someone putting my govement name out here have to do with me blogging?? I’on see no one else’s name…especially not yours. You stay hidden behind the beak…

Button

October 25th, 2013
4:04 pm

welllllllllllll

Reio

October 25th, 2013
4:05 pm

Well, looks like I dropped back into somethin. Yall goin at it? Or what?

DuShawn

October 25th, 2013
4:08 pm

I know you don’t understand or can concieve the concept of “respect” but please dude……….Is that a maybe or a definite no?

SlimNu

October 25th, 2013
4:08 pm

Who are you to prevent me from being an azzhole if I so choose

:lol: :lol:

Um, did we forget it’s Friday? Ya’ll want to go out scrapping I see. Well at least let a sister fix her drank first so I won’t miss any ack-tion lol

daddy swiss

October 25th, 2013
4:10 pm

Slim — Check your inbox. I just sent you a pic of the Uniballer to entertain you while the blog is fighting. lol

Celisea

October 25th, 2013
4:11 pm

Ain’t nobody scrapping, it’s my stalker. They change outfits and come back every so many months. I’m just dead to it now…Lawd help ‘em.

Ummm, Dushawn – That’s a no. If I wasn’t booed, you weren’t married and you sweetened the offere, I might would do a lil sum’in sum’in…. I KID I KID

It’s Friday

Leggs

October 25th, 2013
4:11 pm

SlimNu ~ Dushawn has issues, but he’s funny and takes in on the chin…no harm no foul.

Celisea

October 25th, 2013
4:13 pm

Correction: He change outfits. And if he thinks “here we go again”, sorry boo, can’t do it. He’s gonna ever so innocently talk with others while chairs are getting thrown. Nope, I’m done. Stick a fork in me. Been done. Ain’t been nothing lately. Durty has been trying, but I won’t give him that opening.

Leggs

October 25th, 2013
4:18 pm

Ain’t no sunshine when she’s gone, only darkness err day, ain’t no sunshine when she’s gone and she’s always gone too long …..

DuShawn

October 25th, 2013
4:18 pm

lol…..”takes it on the chin” I’ve heard the same about you. aight I’m being silly. Let me knock out this last bit of work and began my two hour commute. I’m out…………… Peace and Cootchie Grease (how’s that for tasteless)

Durty Burd

October 25th, 2013
4:20 pm

Once again as on many ocassions miss big mouth (Celisea)does not read or fully comprehend my comment. You stated the following ” I’m always smiling. It’s all good, shoot, ain’t my hang-up.” I simply stated that is not always the case. My examples were your multiple rants about folks posting your private information and your continuous grind about folks changing theie blog moniker and making comments. You are the only person on this blog who has made a statment about folks changing there blog name because it ain’t their hang-up!

Don’t like it too bad! toodles, bbl, :wink: :)

Leggs

October 25th, 2013
4:21 pm

DuShawn ~ rather have it on my chin than swallowing it…ba da bing!

daddy swiss

October 25th, 2013
4:22 pm

“Cootchie Grease (how’s that for tasteless)”

Tasteless cootchie grease is actually a very good thing. Much better than some of the alternatives…

Celisea

October 25th, 2013
4:22 pm

Toodles….have a fantab weekend!!

Leggs

October 25th, 2013
4:22 pm

Mrs. SexyCool

October 25th, 2013
4:22 pm

Thanks to GMA’s Deals and Steals segment, I’ve got most of my Christmas shopping done already.

This morning, I saw my neighbor – who is a retired postal worker – while I was out walking GiGi. We began our normal exchange of pleasantries when she says, “You won’t believe what I did the other day.”

I was like, “Uht-oh…where are we going with this?”

Then, she leaned over her porch railing and whispered, “I put up my Christmas trees.”

#LoveMeSomeMrsVivian

Celisea

October 25th, 2013
4:23 pm

Durty – Get better boo…I would offer you some healing, but you sho nuff gon be crazy wit it!!

Again….Toodles

Leggs

October 25th, 2013
4:24 pm

MrsSexyC ~ I wanted to leave a little late this morning to watch the 84% off on jewelry, but I already had to make a pit stop before going to work. Good for you!!!

Celisea

October 25th, 2013
4:24 pm

Once again as on many ocassions miss big mouth (Celisea)does not read or fully comprehend my comment

I reeeeady!!! LOLOL

Okay, for real …night night….you too, Durty, boo

SlimNu

October 25th, 2013
4:26 pm

daddyswiss – I’ll probably add it to my phone so I can use the app to draw funny faces on it.

Dushawn – Is Coochie grease equal to cod liver oil?

Exiled

October 25th, 2013
4:28 pm

DuShawn has issues?

Seriously?!

Who did the diagnosis? :lol:

:lol: dont be so stereotypical on the moral front guys.

That’s funny! :lol;

Reio

October 25th, 2013
4:28 pm

” rather have it on my chin than swallowing it…ba da bing!”

Swallow what? What chin?

SlimNu

October 25th, 2013
4:31 pm

Thrilled

October 25th, 2013
4:32 pm

Hello you guys. First time posting but I been reading for a long time. This blog is very entertaining on most days and it helps my 8-5 go by. I think it would be much funner if 1 particular blogger would chill out. I know i’ll get blasted for being anonymous and speaking out but someone really needs to say it. This blogger has gotten into it with EVERY other blogger at some point. It is always someone elses fault. This blogger thinks everyone wants them. This blogger has more conspiracies about other bloggers than JFK and 9/11 (wonder who they will blame for this). This blogger knows more about religion, parenting, dating, working and apparently blogging as well, than everybody. This blogger throws jabs and little hissy fits if the topic of discussion is not about them or what they want to talk about. Oh and if they feel you are getting away with something then they will surely report you to the authorities. I didn’t call any names but I am sure it is not hard to figure out.
Please get back to being a fun place without the big bully trying to regulate everything and everybody.

Exiled

October 25th, 2013
4:33 pm

Squirt Reio!

Durty Burd

October 25th, 2013
4:34 pm

Leggs… U got a lot of bad in you,which is good for your next boo…You needt to go younggggger..These old dudes cannot handle you! :wink:

Everyone have a great weekend!

daddy swiss

October 25th, 2013
4:35 pm

Slim — Draw funny faces on it? You mean the smiley face, “Have a nice day” tattoo isn’t enough for ya?

2CPTG©

October 25th, 2013
4:37 pm

Durty, I feel sorry for the dude that frees up those cobwebs Leggs got…..Cutie too…but since she’s sensitive, she might bust from a mere touch…..

Button

October 25th, 2013
4:38 pm

yall kiss and make up please!

SlimNu

October 25th, 2013
4:39 pm

I guess Durty and Celisea tied in today’s topic….You will not always connect. LOL

SlimNu

October 25th, 2013
4:42 pm

dswiss – Usually with two balls, I like to turn them into the drama/comedy icons. But it still works out with you because of the uniballers large size.

Willie Dynamite

October 25th, 2013
4:43 pm

This place is funny. Entertaining and funny.

Leggs

October 25th, 2013
4:43 pm

Durty ~ you’re absolutely right. I have a lot of bad in me, always have (lol).

SlimNu ~ you beat me to the punch with today’s topic re: Durty and Celisea!

YesSheIsCute

October 25th, 2013
4:44 pm

@2C I’m not that sensitive. All I can say is, a smart guy knows what to do. Or can figure it out very quickly.

Willie Dynamite

October 25th, 2013
4:47 pm

What happen to 4Real? One his skits would be heels funny these days

daddy swiss

October 25th, 2013
4:47 pm

“But it still works out with you because of the uniballers large size.”

Slim — Aww, thanks for noticing. Now you’ve made him blush. Oh wait. No, he’s always that color.

Exiled

October 25th, 2013
4:47 pm

U keep ur puddy in a pouch?
@Yes?

What’s there to figure

Celisea

October 25th, 2013
4:47 pm

This place is funny. Entertaining and funny.

I’m in stitches…. Maybe I’ll be that hohum chick you mentioned, Willie. Maybe that would make Durty happy :) Well, Durty for now.

Willie Dynamite

October 25th, 2013
4:47 pm

Dayum autocorrect – hella

2CPTG©

October 25th, 2013
4:49 pm

Cutie, you are sensitive…….

Celisea

October 25th, 2013
4:49 pm

Dayum, came out too soon…lololol

Night folks

Willie Dynamite

October 25th, 2013
4:49 pm

Naw keep being the Celisea that we all love. Hahaha

2CPTG©

October 25th, 2013
4:50 pm

I’m trynna get some this weekend, who wit it? we’en gotta tell nobody….

email addy on page 1…..

Leggs

October 25th, 2013
4:50 pm

If men could see pass the façade of a woman’s strength and her acceptance of you playing the field, but she’s your #1 chick, they surely will see the cracks in her armor. – Something I thought about last night watching a woman play herself for a man who could give a wet monkey’s a$$ about her.

PEACE.

Leggs

October 25th, 2013
4:51 pm

Now you’ve made him blush. Oh wait. No, he’s always that color.

Now, that’s quick wit and a good one!

Leggs

October 25th, 2013
4:54 pm

Lyrics to “Just to Close to Love You” = Connection broken!!!!

♪♫•*¨*•.¸¸♥¸¸.•*¨*•♫♪
You know I’m not one to break promises,
I don’t want to hurt you but I need to breathe.
At the end of it all, you’re still my best friend,
But there’s something inside that I need to release.
Which way is right, which way is wrong,
How do I say that I need to move on?
You know we’re heading separate ways.

And it feels like I am just too close to love you,
There’s nothing I can really say.
I can lie no more, I can hide no more,
Got to be true to myself.
♪♫•*¨*•.¸¸♥¸¸.•*¨*•♫♪

SlimNu

October 25th, 2013
4:54 pm

Hahahaha Ya’ll keep it tight and cozy this weekend. I’m OWT!

daddy swiss

October 25th, 2013
5:05 pm

Leggs — Along those lines, here’s another song that nicely conveys that same sentiment:


“Closer than a sister to her baby brother
Closer than a cat to the child that she’ll smother
It’s too close for a lover,
Too close for a lover.
We are each other
We are each other”

10 points to anyone not named ITL who can name the artist & song without google. lol

Leggs

October 25th, 2013
5:09 pm

10 pts if you can name song and artist from my post too or a total of 20.

daddy swiss

October 25th, 2013
5:11 pm

I don’t know the dude’s name, but it’s that song they use in one of the Microsoft commercials, I know that much. And it’s called “Too Close.” lol

Leggs

October 25th, 2013
5:12 pm

Nevermind, I see I gave the name of the song (lol).

Celisea

October 25th, 2013
5:13 pm

Naw keep being the Celisea that we all love. Hahaha

Least I’m not a coward. I don’t hide my hands and throw rocks. I don’t say in a round about way and via jabs what I really wanna say. Naw, I’m not like that. Imma pick up the phone or shoot you a note if I need to clear my chest/the air.

But, I get that everybody don’t operate or have the balls to do that….

Now, I’m logging off

Leggs

October 25th, 2013
5:13 pm

by Alex Clare

daddy swiss

October 25th, 2013
5:14 pm

Okay, Leggs — what specific Microsoft product is the commercial in which this song is used promoting?

Celisea

October 25th, 2013
5:14 pm

And I’m talking directly to YOU

daddy swiss

October 25th, 2013
5:16 pm

“don’t…have the balls”

Cel — Please don’t make light of my condition. I’m a little sensitive about it. ;-) lol

Leggs

October 25th, 2013
5:20 pm

It’s praising Explorer 8. I really, really like the way the song is sung!

Leggs

October 25th, 2013
5:21 pm

Internet Explorer, not a space shuttle named Explorer 8…I kid, I kid…

daddy swiss

October 25th, 2013
5:22 pm

Oh…. so, so close. It’s actually IE 9, not 8. But thanks for playing, and here’s a lovely parting gift: a year’s supply of Rice-a-Roni, the San Francisco treat. lol

Leggs

October 25th, 2013
5:24 pm

Awww man, just when I’m giving up rice….

Leggs

October 25th, 2013
5:26 pm

Enjoy the weekend!