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First date location: Choose wisely!

I know some people watch too much reality tv and expect those over the top, The Bachelor type dates. You know, the grand dates that set impossibly high dating expectations for anyone that thinks that is actual reality. Obviously, that kind of date activities are not typical. The location of the first date says a lot about you, though. You have to choose wisely!

I have had really sweet first dates at lovely places and I have also been subject to crazy places. When you go to pick a place, think of that person’s personality and yours. What is someplace you both can enjoy? What kind of activities allow you two to truly check each other out and get a glimpse of the real personality?

My friend’s first date last week was at a strip club. He figured she was down for whatever and could be open minded. She said he read her all the way wrong! Have you ever had a first date that was someplace outrageous or odd? What did you do?

If your date picked an awful place for your first date, would you be willing to give them a second chance to make it up to you?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

286 comments Add your comment

2CPTG©

October 23rd, 2013
2:58 pm

Durty…..folks like that don’t even phase me…..let ‘em live in their own little shetered world while the rest of the earth keeps on spinning;

Sassy Me ;-)

October 23rd, 2013
2:58 pm

Random: Just saw the trailer for L&HH New York that’s previewing on Monday and it looks interesting. I know…I know..

Leggs

October 23rd, 2013
2:59 pm

“…lemme know, I’ll send it to your paypal account..” First thought was, weed man looking for a place to make his deposits. If he can get someone’s account number, he’s in like Flint!

Celisea

October 23rd, 2013
3:00 pm

So now I’m sheltered and my way is the only way??? Whatevs!!

Durty – You played “innocent” this morning, but funny every time you mention me or say something, it’s always in the form of a jab? Why?

Celisea

October 23rd, 2013
3:02 pm

And I’m not judging, condemning or even tryna convince folks of anything. All I know, as does the rest of the free world, I’m choosing to do what’s right and best for me. Living MY life. Not asking or recommending anyone to do or think or believe like me :)

2CPTG©

October 23rd, 2013
3:02 pm

I never mentioned your name, sweetie…..

2CPTG©

October 23rd, 2013
3:04 pm

Leggs…..reading is fundamental….I said if I owe for “legal questioning/advice”, then I’d deposit it in her paypal account….

are you smoking?

Celisea

October 23rd, 2013
3:06 pm

And how is it “sheltered” cause you don’t live breaking the law?? If that’s the case I shoulda stayed 20 something and with the kid’s dad…if THAT was living and what life was all about. I thought growing up meant learning better, doing better?? But hey, what the heck do I know??

MsAtl

October 23rd, 2013
3:07 pm

2C- What’s your question?

Button

October 23rd, 2013
3:10 pm

2C – I’m here

Celisea

October 23rd, 2013
3:10 pm

Next there’ll be an under the table invite for a menage a trois

IJS

2CPTG©

October 23rd, 2013
3:12 pm

MsAtl…..let’s say a law passes today, and folks are currently in jail/awaiting trial, or whatever, under said law; how does that affect them? In the instance, what if someone is on parole, or probation for a weed charge, and now, hypothetically speaking, weed was decriminalized, how would that affect them….surely they couldn’t be penalized for a dirty UA….

2CPTG©

October 23rd, 2013
3:14 pm

Button….hit me up:

tnymcky2000@yahoo.com (may be this evening before I get to it, tho)

MsAtl

October 23rd, 2013
3:17 pm

Some laws provide for retroactive application while others do not. It may not affect them at all for the current conviction, only future activity.

Leggs

October 23rd, 2013
3:17 pm

“….I said if I owe for “legal questioning/advice”, then I’d deposit it in her paypal account….” – I got all that. And you’re missing my point, all under the guise of getting those digits!!! Get it, got it, GOOD!

Leggs

October 23rd, 2013
3:19 pm

I am cracking up…

2CPTG©

October 23rd, 2013
3:20 pm

all under the guise of getting those digits!!!

you think? every dude you encounter ain’t trynna holla, Leggs! You ought to know me better than that…..but then again, you are gettin up there in age, so I’ll blame it on your head, not your heart….

Celisea

October 23rd, 2013
3:21 pm

Someone needs a hug, a church hug at that.

daddy swiss

October 23rd, 2013
3:21 pm

“I feel you, whoelheartedly….”

2can — That’s why even if I hit the lotto, I’d still come back to work for a while, just so I could have the satisfaction of answering those questions the way I really want to…

“Why can’t I log in?” Because you put in the wrong password, you f__king moron.

“Why doesn’t this user show up?” Because you haven’t created it yet, you f__king moron.

“Why, why why?” Because you’re a f__king moron, you f__king moron.

lol

Celisea

October 23rd, 2013
3:23 pm

A church hug and a line….

IJS

Celisea

October 23rd, 2013
3:24 pm

And I don’t do drugs, never have..outside of letting the kid’s dad experiement with/on me.

Celisea

October 23rd, 2013
3:25 pm

And “WOOOOOW”

2CPTG©

October 23rd, 2013
3:25 pm

Swiss…..the shared sentiments of working in IT…..

my favorite tho, is when someone asks me what their password is…..ummmm, moron?

2CPTG©

October 23rd, 2013
3:26 pm

disclaimer:

Me and Leggs are cool like that, so don’t go reading into something that ain’t there!

Leggs

October 23rd, 2013
3:26 pm

2C ~ taking jabs at me is not a good look on you! I was going with the flow of weed man needing to stash his money stash like an offshore money acct.

“every dude you encounter ain’t trynna holla, Leggs” – Obvious you missed my intent because it had nothing to do with trying to holla. More like money laundering…all a joke. Never mind, intent has been marred. Perhaps you might want to go back and re-read and get the intent I thought was front and center.

Carry on!

Button

October 23rd, 2013
3:28 pm

Celisea

October 23rd, 2013
3:28 pm

so don’t go reading into something that ain’t there!

Precisely

Celisea

October 23rd, 2013
3:29 pm

Can we all just hug and love on each today?? Just today?? :mrgreen:

2CPTG©

October 23rd, 2013
3:30 pm

sccccrrrrrreeeeech…..ok, lemme stop, cause y’all gettin ruffled for no reason…..sorry Leggs…

Leggs

October 23rd, 2013
3:33 pm

2C ~ just wanted to make sure you understood my intent. One old age joke may lead to another, then granny gonna have to go get her gun to put you young whippersnappers back in check!

2CPTG©

October 23rd, 2013
3:36 pm

Leggs, you know I got the utmost respect for you; I wouldn’t have made that joke had you not said something earlier…..

now see if you can schedule a meeting with Button to discuss this inquiry she has…

Durty Burd

October 23rd, 2013
3:36 pm

It must be a full moon tonight, the ladies are feisty today…

Swiss and 2C….Do they really ask what is my password?

Celisea I want a hug when can I get it?

YesSheIsCute

October 23rd, 2013
3:37 pm

DB I think the full moon was the other day?

DuShawn

October 23rd, 2013
3:40 pm

2C -”…..but then again, you are gettin up there in age” as soon as she read this, all humor was gone.

“….is when someone asks me what their password is…..ummmm, moron?” I’m sure our IT helpdesk guy was prolly saying that about me yesterday. I worked from home and had problems with the VPN. He’s asking me a lot of questions. I’m like, “bruh, You IT…I’m finance. Imma bout to go take a dump, access my desktop remotely, when I return have this shid operable!”

kimmie

October 23rd, 2013
3:40 pm

“It was a dark and stormy night……”

Celisea

October 23rd, 2013
3:40 pm

Durty – Oh, I meant a virtual hug :mrgreen: LOLOLOLOL You might try to cope a feel anyway

2CPTG©

October 23rd, 2013
3:40 pm

Durty, you would not believe some of the asinine questions I get; and I’m sure Swiss can attest;

2CPTG©

October 23rd, 2013
3:42 pm

Du, you’re right, that’s why I just called Leggs and set up a make-up date…….

:)

Durty Burd

October 23rd, 2013
3:43 pm

YSIC….Cómo es hoy…

YSIC what is a chinese delivery costume?

Celisea

October 23rd, 2013
3:44 pm

Ain’t but three of us blogging, but y’all cracking me up anyway…lolol

Durty Burd

October 23rd, 2013
3:46 pm

Celisea not on the first hug, maybe the 3rd or 4th hug I will cop a feel if the bootey is not flat..hehehehehe!

DuShawn

October 23rd, 2013
3:46 pm

YSIC what is a chinese delivery costume?

I was thinking the same thing. Most I see have on some regular pants and a soy sauce stained t-shirt with the restaurants name on the front.

Leggs

October 23rd, 2013
3:48 pm

You’re right, DuShawn. I’m cute as a button, but I’m still aging albeit gracefully.

2C ~ you’re right, I did make the comment on age earlier and you ran with it. I now see how I set myself up. At first thought you were coming from left field. You funny w/that make up date.

MsAtl

October 23rd, 2013
3:49 pm

YSIC- are you dressing like a take-out box with a fortune cookie hat or something?

YesSheIsCute

October 23rd, 2013
3:52 pm

against my better judgment here is the link to the chinese takeout costume
http://www.amazon.com/Chinese-Takeout-Adult-Costume-16-18/dp/B004UUKZ1A/ref=sr_1_5?ie=UTF8&qid=1382557821&sr=8-5&keywords=chinese+takeout

@DB estoy bien y tu mi amor? hablas espanol? sabes que puedo hablar 3 linguas?

Leggs

October 23rd, 2013
3:55 pm

O/T: How would you like to be this mascot???

Leggs

October 23rd, 2013
3:57 pm

Girl, where you getting your Chinese food from? I’ve never seen a chinese takeout dress like that. Somebody is gonna wanna lap up that won ton soup. (Sorry, that was crass).

MsAtl

October 23rd, 2013
3:57 pm

YSIC- Oh My! Did you say it was a work contest?

MsAtl

October 23rd, 2013
3:57 pm

Leggs- Lolol!

Leggs

October 23rd, 2013
3:58 pm