My friend Carl is convinced all his bad karma is coming back to haunt him now that his daughter is a teenager. He feels that he is about to pay for all those romantic crimes he committed and never apologized. I know many of us can relate to this because we have all done some hurtful things to people in your dating past.
Do you ever think about all those hearts you broke or the people you rejected? Do you think that you made a lasting, negative impact on their lives?
I remember talking to an ex recently and he reminded me of how hurt he was when I ended things and he never truly got over it. Even after he married somebody else and started a family, he has not completely let go. I felt awful and really guilty! I wonder if it is worthwhile to go back and apologize for causing heartache?
Do you think reaching out and trying to make amends is ever a good idea? Do you ever feel bad for some of the things you did?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta