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Stupid dating tricks: Video Texts?

Guy spots girl in Starbucks. He gives her a some pick up line and manages to get the digits. He later texts her a video..something. Not sure what to call it but it got posted online and it went viral. Is it a promo? A trailer? A sex tape invitation?

Since he used Drake’s Hold On, We’re Going Home song while trying to do some weird sexy hand peek-a-boo maneuver, people started an internet meme #DrakeHands. This is what dating has come to now? Not only do we NOT call and have a conversation, we moved beyond texting and now we are at video texts.

What would you do if someone sent you something like this? Would you be impressed? Creeped out?

What is the dumbest pick up line or gesture you have done to get someone’s attention? I once nearly hit a guy on his bike …intentionally. I don’t know WHAT I was thinking but he was going by fast and I couldn’t think of words, so I almost had an accident with him. So awful. Clearly he saw right through that!

Do you think stupid dating tricks like this ever pay off?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

337 comments Add your comment

Lee

October 10th, 2013
7:16 am

Do you think stupid dating tricks like this ever pay off? only if you are under 20 years old. At this time in my life you just come off stupid — in my opinion

Never used a pick up line, but there was this time hehe this 100% total hot damn fine body builder was talking to me, I could not talk at first — think i was 18 or 19 at the time. We went out a few times– all he had going for him was his body, 100% jerk!

Single and Happy

October 10th, 2013
7:19 am

Hello all

I guess things will always evolve in life. Not something I would do.

What would you do if someone sent you something like this? I’m not sure, would have to cross that road when I got to it.

Hazel

October 10th, 2013
7:53 am

When I was in my early 20’s, I would have been creeped out. But with some age and experience, I would find it creative and would give him a chance. I once went over a parking lot cement divider as I was too caught up in trying to get attention of this guy. He did end up taking me on a date, but it go nowhere.

Exiled

October 10th, 2013
8:31 am

They are only ’stupid’ if they don’t work and juvenile if they are used by the younger folks.

But sometimes,folks get creative in order to get what they desire. It does not have to be a video text.

Even frown folks go ‘overboard’ too,with dating or marriage desires.

It is what it is!

Good morning MIA!
(word of caution:Diva,this topic is for your junior league blog tho) :lol:

Exiled

October 10th, 2013
8:32 am

YesSheIsCute

October 10th, 2013
8:37 am

Actually this happened to me this week. This guy said he was going to send me a video (of only God knows what), because he apparently wanted me to share in his emotion of arousal. While I like the guy, I was not impressed by that and promptly invited him not to send it to me.

This is the second time that’s happened. Well the first time was years ago, this guy from DC didn’t even warn me he just sent it [the video] to me. I think I’m still traumatized……

Isn’t sexting against the law or something?

What is the dumbest pick up line or gesture you have done to get someone’s attention? I don’t think I’ve ever tried to pick someone up with a line or tried to hit on anyone. Maybe since I’m 30 now I will live a little and try it.

Button

October 10th, 2013
8:41 am

I won’t go as far as saying what this guy did was stupid. I saw the video and there’s really nothing to it except a guy smiling and wiping his eyes. I give him a B+ for creativity. I read he did get a date with the model girl from Starbucks. I am a huge fan of calling first but this gets a pass bc he kept it clean and short oh and it was too cute.

Do you think stupid dating tricks like this ever pay off? sometimes they do, it gives you both something to laugh about.

Good morning!

SlimNu

October 10th, 2013
8:45 am

Depending on what the video text or whatever was PLUS whether or not I was attracted to him, I just may think it was cute and creative. Now if I’m SOOOOO not attracted to the guy, i’d think he was creepy. I’d probably also think he does a lot of random wang shucking videos, texts etc…

Morning gang!

Celisea

October 10th, 2013
8:52 am

What would you do if someone sent you something like this? Would you be impressed? Creeped out?

Be irked to no end….lol

Stupid Dating Tricks is our title so I’ll just sum it up with….

Stupid is as stupid does

YesSheIsCute

October 10th, 2013
8:54 am

BTW Good morning everyone. Weekend is almost near :D

Reio

October 10th, 2013
9:05 am

Morning All!

Never used a pickup line.
During my dating years there was no cells, texts, or video. So, I wouldn’t know anything about that. I suppose that if I were to meet someone and she sent me a video, the only way I would see it as a cute gesture, is if she had taken the time to call to talk, at least once, before the video.

SlimNu

October 10th, 2013
9:06 am

Quick question: What’s the biggest age gap of anyone you’ve ever dated?

The man formerly know as DAN - still...Superior

October 10th, 2013
9:08 am

Ding, ding

If s/he’s cute (or more bluntly, if you want to bang) then it’s “cute”. If the person is not attractive, then s/he’s crazy.

It’s always been funny how that works

DuShawn

October 10th, 2013
9:08 am

Old School Players and New School Fools

The man formerly know as DAN - still...Superior

October 10th, 2013
9:11 am

@Slim

22 years

2CPTG©

October 10th, 2013
9:15 am

morning….

gotta agree with Ex….this topic is for the younger folks……..

Leggs…..gal, I lost an hour of my life last nght with that nonsense….Preachers of LA…

DuShawn

October 10th, 2013
9:16 am

The last time I sent a video it was on Betamax.

MsAtl

October 10th, 2013
9:17 am

Morning All!

I wouldn’t want to receive random video texts as the first “conversation” after meeting someone.

Slim- 10 1/2 years

Reio

October 10th, 2013
9:19 am

SlimNu – “What’s the biggest age gap of anyone you’ve ever dated?”

For me, probably about ten years older; She was older. Don’t know if one would call it dating in the classic sense. We were both attending the same college(UAB), and had a chemistry class together. Got paired up with her in chemistry lab. One thing led to another, and we made plans to meet at the cafeteria for lunch and discuss the upcoming exam.
We did. It went on from there, but, in answer to your question, she was ten years my senior. Don’t remember anybody else being older than ten years. The vast majority of them were younger(Just a bit). A few around the same age.

SlimNu

October 10th, 2013
9:22 am

Dan – Are you serious??? WOW!!! Was she older or younger than you and how did that work out? Any major issues as a result of the large age gap?

Celisea

October 10th, 2013
9:23 am

It was 10 years older, eons ago. Everyone has been younger :mrgreen:

SlimNu

October 10th, 2013
9:24 am

Dushawn – I was in a thrift shop the other day and saw a display of 8 tracks and cassette tapes. lolol

Reio – Why did that courtship end?

Celisea

October 10th, 2013
9:26 am

Preachers of LA was a hot mess. I can’t believe they’d open up on tv clowning like that…just uggggh That felt like playas and pimps

Reio

October 10th, 2013
9:28 am

“If s/he’s cute (or more bluntly, if you want to bang) then it’s “cute”. If the person is not attractive, then s/he’s crazy.”

While I can certainly understand how that works, especially with younger folks, even when I was younger; I never really thought much about a woman’s looks. Don’t know why. I’m not blind. I see what all other men see. I was just never taken aback, if you will, by a cute face or beautiful figure. That’s just me though.

YesSheIsCute

October 10th, 2013
9:34 am

@SlimNu 15 years. I was 18 at the time and he was 33. I didn’t KNOW he was 33, I thought he was in his 20s until he said something that insinuated that he was much older. When I pressed him for his age he didn’t want to say. I found out by looking at his wallet when I went into the bathroom. Didn’t work out. I was innocent when I met him and innocent when I left (as I planned) which wasn’t in his plans.

SlimNu

October 10th, 2013
9:34 am

Celisea – You like those young whipper snappers huh lol

Celisea

October 10th, 2013
9:36 am

First the Betamax tapes (in which I burst out laughing)

and now……

Slim – Whipper snappers….lololol ha ha ha No more than four years younger :mrgreen:

SlimNu

October 10th, 2013
9:40 am

Yes – When I was in my 20’s I met a guy on the hwy (lol) and he lied about his age…told me he was way younger than he was.

Celisea – I forgot about that show and have been waiting to see it. Sounds like it was everything I expected it to be. BUt why would you jeopardize your rep as a preacher by some drama-filled reality show. I wouldn’t be able to take them serious after that.

Button

October 10th, 2013
9:40 am

SlimNu- Quick question: What’s the biggest age gap of anyone you’ve ever dated? 12 years younger, 7 years younger and my fiance is 6 years younger.

Reio

October 10th, 2013
9:42 am

” Why did that courtship end?”

Well, I’m sorry, maybe I misrepresented this relationship. That’s why I said earlier “Don’t know if one would call it dating in the classic sense.”
We would meet to study together. We both lived off campus, but I don’t remember either of us visiting the other’s home. Had several phone conversations. Attended a basketball game or two, UAB didn’t have a football team yet. I saw her as a very intelligent, opinionated, somewhat provocative, person. Interesting. Kind. But not a person that I wanted to spend a lot of time with. She was the instigator. Everything we did together, was at her suggestion, not mine. I either agreed to it(most of the time), or not. After that class ended, we just kinda faded into the abyss.

Celisea

October 10th, 2013
9:45 am

Slim – Exactly. For the sake of those watching and the effect it might have, I’d much rather be more circumspect and not give anyone an out or opportunity to place or lay blame. Even if they say they have a message or if they say it’s under the right intents, I wouldn’t expose myself in such a way, being men of the cloth. You gotta give folks something to reach for that’s not what they see or already familiar with. Many won’t take them seriously after that show.

The man formerly know as DAN - still...Superior

October 10th, 2013
9:48 am

She was older, I was 18 she was 40. It didn’t work out because it was never going to, we were both in it for the sex (and me for the other perks that an 18yo with a 40yo “girlfriend would get – money, housing, experiences). The minute she – more appropriately, her friends -got to feeling somekindaway about the relationship and me, it was over.

I think it she could have been honest with her self or happy with what we had, it would have lasted longer. But it was never going to be much beyond the sex.

SlimNu

October 10th, 2013
9:52 am

Reio – I’d classify that as “Something to Do”…lol

Dan – Gotcha…I remember this 18yo dude was so smitten with me when I was in my late 20’s. I just couldn’t bring myself to go down that road though.

YesSheIsCute

October 10th, 2013
9:53 am

@SlimNu he never explicitly lied to me about his age. But he gave me the impression that he wasn’t much older than me. When he asked me my age and I said 18 he said oh you’re not that much younger than me. So I assumed he was in his 20’s. What did he tell you when you asked?

disco

October 10th, 2013
9:54 am

good morning.

dang diva. running folks over. that’s deep. lol.

first things first, I’m not a fan of text messages. any grown man who sends me a text message before he even calls me for the first time is immediately eliminated from the roster.

Leggs

October 10th, 2013
9:56 am

I can’t open the link, but I sense I would be creeped out over it. I think it’s a shame that so many rely on texting instead of talking. Texting is fine, but in the beginning, please pick up phone and give me a call. I like to hear your voice.

“Clearly he saw right through that!” – But, did you get the digits is the question (lol).

2C ~ I figured that show would be a lot of nothing. Preachers on TV airing their drama while they run a church and their lavish living does not appeal to me.

Good morning.

disco

October 10th, 2013
9:57 am

reio – there are some that consider “hi” to be the greatest pick up line ever. surely you’ve said “hi” to some unsuspecting woman. lol.

slim – 20 years.

Celisea

October 10th, 2013
9:57 am

I’ve gone out with much younger, but I just don’t have an appetite for that. The age brings too much of a variance for me. IMO and for me, no matter how many “grown” women you got with, it still won’t give you what every year of your life will bring. So, when I’ve sat down with folks much younger, there’s just something missing. Don’t get me wrong, bright, eager (ha ha ha), intelligent, but still something is not there. And I’ve never been able to explain. Even when you say you can’t do the age different, there’s a plethora of reasons given and explanations of how mature they are. Still, the gap is not so much the age but the inability to “catch up.”

Desires and everything else changes or shifts. What you thought was life and living at 20 changes over the years. Some things you get better with. some things are eliminated and some things you just weren’t aware of are not in full effect. For that reason, I can’t wait for someone much younger to get to “that” place.

Celisea

October 10th, 2013
9:59 am

any grown man who sends me a text message before he even calls me for the first time is immediately eliminated from the roster

Definitely. I had some dude texting me so much that I asked if was with someone. All that texting and never talking just casts a shadow for me.

Celisea

October 10th, 2013
10:00 am

noW in full effect not “not in full effect”

Exiled

October 10th, 2013
10:00 am

What’s the biggest age gap of anyone you’ve ever dated?

@Slim….let him hunch…!! what age got to do with it?

2C..How old are u by the way…..what age u tell her? :lol:

Durty Burd

October 10th, 2013
10:03 am

Good Morning!

I see the cougars of the blog (Celisea, Button) likem young..hehehehehe!

Celisea quit playing with me! I have been in your thoughts for 4 years it’s gonna happen…I’m gonna get that mind to go my way…

I don’t use pick-up lines, I just say hello and start a conversation. I can’t recall doing crazy stuff unless I was on the bb court.

Slim I think 15yrs younger than me and 7 yrs older than me…

Why do you ask? Are you going to give one of those old dudes a try? :)

kimmie

October 10th, 2013
10:04 am

Morning Gang!

I’m too lazy to watch the video so I’ll take Button’s word for it. I guess it’s cute & creative for the younger set. Like some have said, it would only be cute to me if I was attracted to the guy, if he were cute. He would definitely have to still follow up the traditional way with a phone call and invite for a date. Otherwise, like any approach from someone you don’t find attractive, it would be annoying. Total zero, even if he was cute, if he sent me something nasty.

Slim – Biggest gap about 6 years old, 5 younger. I generally have always preferred men near my age.

kimmie

October 10th, 2013
10:05 am

Correction – 6 years OLDER!

Leggs

October 10th, 2013
10:07 am

“dang diva. running folks over. that’s deep” – I thought so too and laughed.

I remember when I was trying to get this guy’s attention while I was on my bike. I took my hands off the wheel and rode over a rock and next thing I know I’m on the pavement with my elbow cut to the white meat. I was so embarrassed. He came over and helped me up, but I couldn’t muster anything more than a thank you and wobbled my butt down the road.

Reio

October 10th, 2013
10:08 am

disco – Sure, I’ve said “Hi” to a woman. said “Hi” to plenty women. But never with an eye towards getting her number or, eventually, going out with her. Asking for digits….came only after a conversation(Admittedly, some, quite brief) that peaked my interest and caused me to want to talk to her more. Never approached a woman with “Hi” just because I felt that she was physically attractive. Hell, If that were the case, I would have been trying to get numbers and ‘pullin’ chicks left and right. Lots of attractive women around. I bet you’re one of’em too. Hehehe…..

Exiled

October 10th, 2013
10:10 am

I went to that massage place i was talking bout yesterday…in buckhead,over there by Chops…

I didnt like it……it was my wife’s idea for her birthday….

man..these massage places are undercover brothels….no lie about that….

I have had a massage,a couple of years ago but it was somebody running a mobile one and i went to her parents home…and then she came to my house to do Queen…
This one in buckhead..so called upscale and all…but..

i wasnt feeling the aroma….felt more like a red light brothel….or a visit to ur blackpage girl in her apartment(2C..knw whatimtalkbout? :lol: )
and they have these gowns that are used by other patrons..just looked shady and slimy to me……almost like u are in a hsopital but for the brothel aromas….

and the massage…..she did the back and shoulders…then later asked me to turn around….did the belly a lil bit…then the legs and foots…..

when she reached for the inside of the thighs, thats when i said to maself….”HERE WE GO!”…thinking bout 2C….. :lol:

To be honest,if one is a dedicated Christian…massage parlous should be a NO NO….

….sorry for Reiorising u this morning… :lol:

Leggs

October 10th, 2013
10:10 am

I’ve dated 8 years older and never younger than my age at any given time.

disco

October 10th, 2013
10:11 am

leggs – so you were wobbling way before it was popular. that’s funny.

hey kimmie!!!

Durty Burd

October 10th, 2013
10:11 am

Disco….Was Diva desperate for some action? Almost running a dude over, c’mon Diva you should have enough pick-up lines to last a life time…

Lee…How long were you married?

YSIC…The art of verbal communication is going down the tube with the younger generation unfortunately you are in that age range where the boys use texts and videos are a form of communication.

If we exchange phone numbers and you send me a text, you will not receive anything from me! Next!

Durty Burd

October 10th, 2013
10:15 am

Leggs….Maybe you need to write the crazy adventures of Leggs…You are too funny!

REIO…now disco use to be finnnneee, now she eats a lot of bon-bon that is why she does not want to meet 2C…hehehehehe!

Exiled…Did you get the happy ending?

disco

October 10th, 2013
10:15 am

reio – so these conversations you had with women that were initially strangers started with what? you have to get what I’m saying. lol.

I meet guys all the time. give them my number. don’t hear from them. run into them again and they say “I sent you a text”. that’s when I tell them that I have incoming texts blocked. I suppose I could tell them from the gate but I feel my method separates the boys from the men. I mean really, you don’t even have the decency to follow up your text with a call? to quote kimmie (I think) miss me with that. lol.

Leggs

October 10th, 2013
10:15 am

Good one, disco!

disco

October 10th, 2013
10:16 am

durty – I’ve heard references to bon bons forever. what exactly are they?

The man formerly know as DAN - still...Superior

October 10th, 2013
10:16 am

@Ex

I get massages at least once every six months. Towels, not robes, are the sign of a “proper” massage.

Why would being a Christian have anything to do with getting your muscles relaxed? That….doesn’t make sense. Would you elaborate?

@Slim

You trying to rob the cradle, or the grave?

Reio

October 10th, 2013
10:17 am

“….sorry for Reiorising u this morning…”

Da Hell?

Leggs

October 10th, 2013
10:18 am

You haven’t heard anything yet, Reio. Crazy stuff happens to me all the time.

Leggs

October 10th, 2013
10:19 am

bon bons are bite size ice cream.

SlimNu

October 10th, 2013
10:19 am

Yes – I cannot remember exactly what he said but I think he made it seem like he was in his late 20’s but was actually close to 40. :shock:

kimmie – I’m like you…I like dudes close in age to me. I’m usually in the 5 yr radius lol

Durty – I’m sorry but I just haven’t caught the old man bug yet. One guy 10yrs older than me let it be known he’s been watching me for at least 2months. Granted 45 isn’t really old but i’m not ready to go there yet.

2CPTG©

October 10th, 2013
10:20 am

I meet guys all the time. give them my number.

da hell????

disco

October 10th, 2013
10:23 am

2C – what’s up with that da hell? is it so hard to believe that some poor unsuspecting sap would ask for my number? if so, that ain’t right. lol.

leggs – oh. well I can most def get with some bon bons then.

Button

October 10th, 2013
10:24 am

disco – what about out going texts?

I have started a bad habit of texting my daughter when she’s in another part of the house. too darn lazy to yell lol

2CPTG©

October 10th, 2013
10:25 am

and I can’t even get an email? if ya scared, say ya scared.

The man formerly know as DAN - still...Superior

October 10th, 2013
10:26 am

Texting is not the crucible people think it is.

There’s an entire generation that only communicates via text.

Communicating only via text would be the issue versus sending a follow up text.

Leggs

October 10th, 2013
10:28 am

disco ~ I feel 2C was talking about you giving your number to all the guys you meet (lol). Like, if I keep giving my number out, I’ll land a call from someone. I know that’s not what you meant, but bet that’s how he took it (lol).

Exiled

October 10th, 2013
10:28 am

Why would being a Christian have anything to do with getting your muscles relaxed?

@Dan…I don’t think it is proper for a Christian to get touched and massaged in the erogenous zones,especially the inside of thighs or wrapping the thin blanket against my boxers…..

disco

October 10th, 2013
10:29 am

button – in general, I don’t text. on occasion I’ll send a text (like when I stopped off to visit my friend who lives in an apartment with a locked entry door who bragged on getting the new Iphone but didn’t pay her phone bill and so now has the new iphone but can’t make or receive calls on it. anyway, I had to text her to let me in because the buzzer system is always broken. lol.)

Leggs

October 10th, 2013
10:29 am

Oh and the fact that you’re not giving your # to him (lol).

DuShawn

October 10th, 2013
10:29 am

Regarding dating age differences, reminds me of Cassandra. When I was about 18 she moved in our neighborhood. She must’ve been around 35. Fine as a muffugga. It was like on that movie “Friday” when all the fellas in hood watched the neighbor come outside and said “Heyyy Ms. Parker!!”. Anyway, she was an executive with FP&L and helped me get a summer internship with the firm. She had an expense account and would often take me to lunch. We would go to these expensive, classy spots. Man…..she was elegant and smart. I was so infatuated. One day I stopped by her house unexpectedly, she let me in and I smelled a little weed. She tried to spray some air freshener to cover it. I’m like, you don’t have to hide. They got that fiya right around the corner. After that, I used to cop her a few sacks every now and again. This went on for couple a of years. We grew closer, but she wouldn’t cross that line. I would often test the boundaries. When I came home after my freshmen year, I went all in. We started huggin a little longer, begin kissing, and she let me squeeze that azz. I thought I was on the verge of a break through. Then she was real with me. She said she was very tempted, and thought about going there, but I was just too young. A few months later she began to date some Naval Officer dude with a new Benz and I was history. They actually ended up getting married a few years later.

Reio

October 10th, 2013
10:30 am

disco – “so these conversations you had with women that were initially strangers started with what? you have to get what I’m saying. lol.”

I guess I don’t get what you’re saying. I would suppose that roughly around 99% of “these” conversations I had with women started with “Hi”, or “Hello”, but, before the “Hi”, or “Hello”, there was never a thought on my part to greet her, so as to open a dialog and thereby get her number and go out with her. In other words, ; If I said “Hi”, it was solely as a greeting. The exchanging of phone numbers….part, came only after I had talked with her(Again, sometimes, fairly briefly) and as a result, desired to talk with her more. That’s all. So, what am I missing in your question? Sounds like, from your perspective, I ain’t gittin it.

SlimNu

October 10th, 2013
10:30 am

Durty – GIve me your number so I can text you. lol

disco

October 10th, 2013
10:32 am

2C – if we ever meet at a grocery store, gas station, post office, chik fil a, you name it, and you are wearing a tshirt that says “I am 2C from the blog” then I will give you my number.

Button

October 10th, 2013
10:33 am

Reio – you’re so calculating :lol: :lol:

disco

October 10th, 2013
10:33 am

reio – I’m only stating that the average conversation generally starts off with a greeting. you generally greet a person with hi/hello/how are you whether you are trying to hit on them or not. that’s all I’m saying so when you said you never picked anyone up with “hi” I just felt that was unlikely. what do I know? I’m not the expert on reio.

Exiled

October 10th, 2013
10:33 am

Dan..and this is an upscale massage place in the middle of buckhead…the very heart..not ur buford hwy or college park place :lol:

so called upscale..

SlimNu

October 10th, 2013
10:33 am

Leggs – I’m cracking up at your story. :lol:

Dan – I’m not trying to rob either…I like to stay in my lane.

Dushawn – Awww, reading your post is like watching a movie with a bad ending. lol

Leggs

October 10th, 2013
10:34 am

SlimNu ~ I have his # and will give to you so you can bother him.

The man formerly know as DAN - still...Superior

October 10th, 2013
10:34 am

@Ex

Okay….

#whatyoudo

disco

October 10th, 2013
10:38 am

random re past topics. lol. what if a blog gent is the man of my dreams and I miss out because I don’t post my email on the blog? will I regret it for the rest of my life or is ignorance bliss?

Exiled

October 10th, 2013
10:40 am

Dan..I mean if wify werent there, I could have bleeped,”go up a lil bit ma”, when she was caressing thr inside of my thighs…but honestly, a christian going in there to be relaxed that way..I dont think so..

just as well the one that did my wife was a girl as well…i was gonna ask her(Queen) what she thinks bout inside of thighs massage……coz my wife is one those Celisea-like bible thumping seventh day as well :lol: :lol: (no diss Celisea!)

Button

October 10th, 2013
10:45 am

I have a craving for some homemade biscuts and cane patch syrup. I know what I’m doing when I get off tonight.

2CPTG©

October 10th, 2013
10:46 am

will I regret it for the rest of my life or is ignorance bliss?

nope…..no biggie. can’t miss what you never had.

DuShawn

October 10th, 2013
10:48 am

wow….. I hadn’t thought about Cassandra in years. That was almost 30 years ago. She’s dayum near 70 by now. I wonder if I’m still too young?

Celisea

October 10th, 2013
10:50 am

I am reading down page two and ca-racking up…..some of y’all are real special.

MMeello – No offense taken. Tell me what your wife says about her errogenous zones. I have them too. Going to church don’t remove those places :)

Oh, and MMeello, I’m not a bible thumper. Just passionate.

Durty Burd

October 10th, 2013
10:50 am

Dang it Leggs you have my number and have not called me for some Sunday dunner?

SlimNu I am too old for you I am at least 8 yrs older than you..Actually you are too old for me I likem 27yrs old to 33yrs old. I would respond to your text because you are on radar! :wink:

I tell you these young ladies at the gym are something else. I play racquetball on Thursday night with some older gents who have some dinero. There are about 4 young ladies who wear very revealing outfits that come over and spend about 20 minutes working out by the courts. It is a great scene for me…hehehehehe!

YesSheIsCute

October 10th, 2013
10:51 am

Wow @disco @celisea and @db While I prefer to speak over the phone, I never thought of it like that (eliminating those who don’t call first), Seems like guys prefer to text all the time. I was starting to feel like maybe I was the one stuck in the middle ages because I expect a phone call. I will start eliminating people who can’t call as first contact. I learn something every day on this blog.

Reio

October 10th, 2013
10:54 am

“…so when you said you never picked anyone up with “hi” I just felt that was unlikely…”

Well, if you think that’s unlikely, try believing this; I’ve never picked anyone up, period. Never was into “picking up”, believe it or not. So, I never needed a line. Even one as simple as “Hi”. I WOULD say “Hi or “Hello”, but only as a greeting, nothing more. If the subsequent conversation interested or intrigued me enough, then I’d ask for her number.

SlimNu

October 10th, 2013
10:54 am

Leggs – Yeah you should…I’ll start sending him one letter text at a time. :lol:

Button

October 10th, 2013
10:55 am

Yes – I learn something every day on this blog.—ant that the truth

Leggs

October 10th, 2013
10:56 am

YSIC ~ I have told a few that a phone call is in order when getting to know me, not a text.

Durty ~ now why would I invite you over to dunner when you never invited me anywhere but a meeting under the church sign (I’m cracking up).

Leggs

October 10th, 2013
10:58 am

That’s funny, SlimNu.

Durty ~ just messing w/you. I don’t have your #, but I felt the wheels spinning in your head wondering how the heck did I get it if I really had it (lol).

Durty Burd

October 10th, 2013
11:00 am

YSIC…Like Mrs. Kimmie favorite line miss me with that! If you can’t call I cannot text back…Poof begone!

2C…Let me chime in, Disco is from the country therefore she is not ready for the real deal. Disco you always talk about going for yours why would you pass on an opportunity you have nothing to lose…

See me I am going to date SlimNu,YSIC, Leggs,Lee, Celisea,MissMoni and MsAtl because one of them maybe the one…Just kidding ladies I simply like to get my fun on….hehehehehehe!

SlimNu

October 10th, 2013
11:01 am

Durty – You’re not too old to be text stalked by me. ;-)

disco

October 10th, 2013
11:03 am

who started the blog rumor that I was from the country?

Exiled

October 10th, 2013
11:05 am

Going to church don’t remove those places :)

@Celisea..True!

but my point is I dont think its proper for another person,who aint ur man to go in therre and touch!

..especially if u are an avowed Christian/Jew/Moslem…..

…thats for folks of the flesh.. :lol:

Exiled

October 10th, 2013
11:06 am

who started the blog rumor that I was from the country?

@Disco..u said u from cracka something….its country!

Miss Moni

October 10th, 2013
11:07 am

GOOD Thursday Morning MIA!!! *Yes, I made it before it became afternoon!* :-)

Not interested in receiving video texts from a total stranger that I’m not in a relationship with. That is CREEPY!!!

-Disco I haven’t heard that rumor!

-Leggs I agree with Durty, your dating adventures are quite funny! ;-)

-Hi Durty!!!

Reio

October 10th, 2013
11:07 am

“who started the blog rumor that I was from the country?”

Wasn’t me.

Durty Burd

October 10th, 2013
11:11 am

Leggs….O.K. we can go out first, but since we have known each since 2009 can you cook Sunday dinner next week?
SlimNu…Once I get your number its a wrap…You will be mined..hehehehe!

Disco…Cincinnati is the country, any city that borders Kentucky is country…Now quit trying to change the subject and let 2C romance you…

Celisea

October 10th, 2013
11:12 am

MMeello – I agree….being “touched” is for my special one and only :mrgreen:

I did think about you Mmeello. When I left the dentist, I stopped at this new fish place in Smyrna and there’s a newly opened massage palor right next door. While I was waiting for my food, I peeked in….d’oh!! I did. A man went in and the chick up front led him to the back (I was peeking), so while she was gone, I opened the door and looked around, and at the prices. Could be legit, but reminded me of a brothel. I shut the door before she came back…lol

kimmie

October 10th, 2013
11:15 am

Hey Disco!!

Slim – Girl I ain’t got time for old or new ish, so I go for my own age ish!LOL!!

Cel – What is the name & location of the new fish place in Smyrna? That’s my neighborhood.

Celisea

October 10th, 2013
11:17 am

Kimmie – I don’t know the name of the place, but it’s in the strip right next to the new Dunkin Doughnuts. The fish place is on the left side of the plaza if you’re facing.

Durty Burd

October 10th, 2013
11:17 am

Hello MissMoni…I am glad you are not affected by the shutdown…

Can you say noisey…very noisey…

Disco…It was Robert(the list man) you rejected his advances and he called you country bumpkin I believe… hehehehehehe!

Reio

October 10th, 2013
11:18 am

“Smyrna?”

Must be a place in Atl.

Celisea

October 10th, 2013
11:20 am

Kimmie – The fish was good yesterday, but just not enough…lol I called myself getting without fries (you know, keeping with the corporate challenge), but I felt jipped…lololol We got food to go a couple of other times. I did try their shrimp once, but it seems it was fried too hard. Overall, not bad

2CPTG©

October 10th, 2013
11:21 am

kimmie, you live in the Smyrna area…..dang, all y’all in my old stomping grounds…..I used to coach out there…and lived there…prior to Marietta, and Kennesaw…

2CPTG©

October 10th, 2013
11:22 am

Durty, I’m done with disco….she’en trynna shake nothin…..

dang, my blog bucket list is dwindling….

Leggs

October 10th, 2013
11:24 am

MissMoni ~ those are dating MISadventures (lol).

“…we can go out first, but since we have known each since 2009 can you cook Sunday dinner next week? WTH (lolol).

Durty Burd

October 10th, 2013
11:26 am

2C….Disco is all talk…2C your girl YSIC has been handing out the digits…First she’waiting then now participating…

I need to get a blog bucket list going… Let me see! hhehhehehehe

disco

October 10th, 2013
11:27 am

ex – where I live isn’t where I’m from and neither is country.

DB – are you one of those folks that think everywhere except where you are is the country? lol.

DB – re robert. you crazy.

2C – why you gotta do me like this? why you gotta dump me in front of the whole blog and everybody? that ain’t right.

YesSheIsCute

October 10th, 2013
11:27 am

@DuShawn wow at your story. Would you actually consider reaching out to her this late in age?

disco

October 10th, 2013
11:28 am

durty – are you the blog wing man? if so, you aren’t good at your job. they need another wingman. lol.

2CPTG©

October 10th, 2013
11:33 am

Durty….Cutie is a good prospect…..but she cain’t do nothin til May….

and disco, I didn’t dump you…..just ain’t got time to be going out gettin’ no t-shirts, and all that mess….tell ya what, gimme yo zip code, and I’ll find yo shawt ass on my own!

Leggs

October 10th, 2013
11:36 am

“….tell ya what, gimme yo zip code, and I’ll find yo shawt ass on my own!” – Hilarious!!!

Durty Burd

October 10th, 2013
11:39 am

Disco..Why are you always trying to flip the script? Talk is cheap I want to see some action…U either ready or u are not ready….Nuff said..

Leggs… Give me your phone number so I can text you…hehehehehe!

kimmie

October 10th, 2013
11:39 am

Cel – Okay, I have to check it out. Always looking for good fish.

2C – Yep, that’s where hub’s house was so that’s where I am now. Still got my house in College Park, my sister rents it so it all worked out. I like my little neighborhood.

2CPTG©

October 10th, 2013
11:40 am

Leggs…..I can see it now, drivin down dirt roads in the country lookin for a short, big booty, gravity defying chic; and askin the locals…….”eh, y’all know a chic she’s got a 24 year old son, she’s feisty, smart, cute, and hood too….”

disco

October 10th, 2013
11:44 am

2C – stop. just stop. you retarded. LOL.

Leggs

October 10th, 2013
11:47 am

Durty Burd

October 10th, 2013
11:48 am

Leggs you have never dated anyone younger than you? Well now I think you need to be first on my log bucket list…I’m younger like to dance, go to concerts, plays etc and I am long winded…What say you? lol

I think I am going to go Celisea on the blog today and comment on everyone’s comment plus blog about what I am doing every minute…hehehehehe!

YesSheIsCute

October 10th, 2013
11:48 am

Speaking of wingman, I read a book called always hit on the wingman off amazon kindle. It’s really good!

Durty Burd

October 10th, 2013
11:48 am

Leggs….those numbers look like some good lottery numbers..lol

Durty Burd

October 10th, 2013
11:49 am

Durty Burd

October 10th, 2013
11:49 am

Going to Lunch! :wink:

Durty Burd

October 10th, 2013
11:50 am

Wait taking an exam! gotta get 100 percent…

2CPTG©

October 10th, 2013
11:50 am

oh, cutie, I need to see you in my office……

DuShawn

October 10th, 2013
11:51 am

YesSheIsCute…Naw, that ship has long sailed. I do hope life has been kind to her.

2CPTG©

October 10th, 2013
11:51 am

Durty, don’t forget to tell us what’s going in the office……

Leggs

October 10th, 2013
11:54 am

Durty ~ yeah, a need a young, strong buck. These older gentlemen ain’t working with much (whew, I’m cracking myself up). First and foremost, you love to dance…you’re in!

Durty Burd

October 10th, 2013
11:59 am

Toodles!

Back at the office one my co-workers is wearing some perfume that they got from their great grandmother and I’m about to tell them I can’t take it….

BBL :)

MsAtl

October 10th, 2013
12:00 pm

Slim- Forgot: I was hit on (more than once) by someone 27 years younger than me. No way, no how- I have two kids older than him. Funny thing is we met by me sending him to wash his hands after he opened the fridge first coming in from outside at a BBQ, lol.

Durty Burd

October 10th, 2013
12:01 pm

Going to lunch I have to eat right so I can achieve my goals with the corporate challenge, I’ll try some fish without the fries…. Well maybe not!
TOODLES
BBL
Do you and I’m going to do me…Does that sound right? Oh well!

hehehehehe!

YesSheIsCute

October 10th, 2013
12:01 pm

@DB as far as dating younger I was interested in dating a guy at 21 that was 18. I didn’t think it was a big deal but he was so immature. I had experience living on my own and working and he was fresh out of high school. Other than that, this summer I briefly dated a guy that was 26 and while I hardly thought that was that much younger to my 29 (before my birthday), I later found him to be very immature. Ex: I was at his house and he was showing me this Kanye video/song he found to be so cool. He immediately thought it appropriate to call his cousin and tell him how uncool and lame he was for not liking the video. I’m just wondering at what point was the prospect of my private parts less interesting than a playful argument with his cousin? Needless to say that did not work out.

Never dating young again.

MsAtl

October 10th, 2013
12:02 pm

Durty- Are they smelling like dusting powder?

Celisea

October 10th, 2013
12:02 pm

Durty – I…..AM……HOLLERING….

LOLOLOLOL

You apparently have waaaay too much time on your hands today? What say you?

Celisea

October 10th, 2013
12:03 pm

Durty – I’m still laughing….out loud

I’ll try some fish without the fries

Celisea is wiping tears…lololol You are retarded

Leggs

October 10th, 2013
12:05 pm

“I’m just wondering at what point was the prospect of my private parts less interesting than a playful argument with his cousin?” – Now, that is young…pure comedy!

DuShawn

October 10th, 2013
12:05 pm

Durty….. that’s too funny…lol

Celisea

October 10th, 2013
12:06 pm

Durty – I just laughed out loud….again…..mayne you stoopid

Celisea

October 10th, 2013
12:08 pm

Back at the office one my co-workers is wearing some perfume that they got from their great grandmother and I’m about to tell them I can’t take it….

I am so rolling….lololololol

Durty Burd

October 10th, 2013
12:10 pm

YSIC..Dang it…These young dude don’t appreciate puddy…Making a phone call while engaging the private parts..Heck I turn off all means of noise when I am engaging the private parts,,,I’m get mine again, an again and again…

Ummm YSIC…I need to ask your private parts do know how to work somethings right? lol

Celisea…You know you one of my favorites and I know you are really cool folks…

Celisea

October 10th, 2013
12:12 pm

Durty – You got the laugh of the today….that was funny as heck

I’m still laughing

Celisea

October 10th, 2013
12:13 pm

Laugh of the day….I meant

Durty – You just might be alright with me :)

YesSheIsCute

October 10th, 2013
12:17 pm

@Durty no we weren’t doing anything. But the prospect of doing something should have been enough to warrant his undivided attention in an effort towards such.I mean if I’m a guy and a girl is in my home that’s half the battle right there. I’m going to go for the gold at that point and do whatever I can to try to seal the deal and yes that means pay her undivided attention. But I guess that’s just me and my humble opinion if I were a guy.

Leggs

October 10th, 2013
12:20 pm

OMG, just saw in my inbox SeniorPeopleMeet.com. I’m not a senior citizen (yet)….lolol

YesSheIsCute

October 10th, 2013
12:26 pm

@2C Did you still need me in your office?

SlimNu

October 10th, 2013
12:29 pm

MsAtl – Dang! lolol He still had baby’s breathe

Leggs

October 10th, 2013
12:29 pm

YSIC ~ you know you’re walking into a mess (lol).

Durty Burd

October 10th, 2013
12:33 pm

Note to self add YSIC to the blog bucket list there is some serious potential there….hehehehehe!

Leggs…Seniorism is just state of mind, I watched about 10 minutes of the cougar show where the seniors are dating young men in their twenties and thirties and the seniors are off da chain…Think young, be young Oh and take 2 blue pills if you need them…. lol

disco

October 10th, 2013
12:33 pm

y’all I need a vacation. I’ve got to get on that. unfortunately all of my sponsors (or perhaps former sponsors) are acting all janky. guess I’ve got to sponsor myself. smdh. lol.

Durty Burd

October 10th, 2013
12:36 pm

MsAtl…I was referencing something Celisea stated in a previous post…I’m going Celisea on the blog today….Tooodles, BBL…

Later I’m going to Robert on the blog and do Top Ten lists..lol

disco

October 10th, 2013
12:37 pm

durty – think young, feel young, act young, look young. none of that changes the truth. lol.

Leggs

October 10th, 2013
12:37 pm

Durty ~ you’re preaching to the choir. I sing those praises all day every day, except the blue pill part.

Exiled

October 10th, 2013
12:37 pm

point was the prospect of my private parts less interesting than a playful argument with his cousin?

YSIC?..so u were ready to be hunched and he was dilly dallying?

….am i right in that observation..and was that in ATL….?

Leggs

October 10th, 2013
12:38 pm

HUSH, disco. You’re like a wet blanket (lololol).

2CPTG©

October 10th, 2013
12:43 pm

yes, cutie…see me after lunch….and close the door behind you….. :evil:

DuShawn

October 10th, 2013
12:50 pm

“unfortunately all of my sponsors (or perhaps former sponsors) are acting all janky……”-disco- This relates to yesterdays topic ” Bait and Switch” . I don’t blame them! You bait um up like they gone get some, (even if you tell them the business before hand, trust… they still think they bout to hit) they fly you around the world, and then you get to the hotel and switch to friend mode. Fool me once…….(you know the rest)

YesSheIsCute

October 10th, 2013
12:52 pm

@DB Oohh let me do the list
Top ten reasons why I would not be impressed with a video text
1. It shows you have too much time on your hands.
2. It makes me wonder just extensive is your video repertoire.
3. I don’t have time to watch a video, just pick up the phone and call.
4. It comes off as desperate trying too hard.
5. It is just plain weird. I mean really who sends video texts.
6. Less is more. A video message is just doing too much.
7. A picture is worth 1000 words. Just send a pic.
8. No real reason, I still just don’t get it.
9. Unless it’s a long distance thing. Just don’t.
10. I would be much more impressed if you just showed up in person and said/did whatever it was you had to say/do.

2CPTG©

October 10th, 2013
12:53 pm

I would be much more impressed if you just showed up in person and said/did whatever it was you had to say/do

:shock:

YesSheIsCute

October 10th, 2013
12:56 pm

Sidenote: I met this guy and found out after the fact that I work with his sister. Now everytime I see her I’m reminded of him. One of those that had to go, because he had a full on 2T temper tantrum because he wasn’t getting it. If he would have just played it cool for a week or two…but no he had to act like an infant. And I really liked him! He could have been the one! :(

Leggs

October 10th, 2013
1:04 pm

YSIC ~ it might have been the same guy I briefly went out with. He threw a temper tantrum when I hadn’t given him any after knowing him 21 days! Tried to come back months later to explain, but I wasn’t trying to hear anything. Pure childish.

Leggs

October 10th, 2013
1:07 pm

“If he had only played it cool a week or two”…exactly, because I was going to go there!

MsAtl

October 10th, 2013
1:08 pm

Leggs/Yes- Really? Temper tantrums? Come on now! If you can’t go without for a few weeks then you need help. You two did the right thing.

YesSheIsCute

October 10th, 2013
1:14 pm

@Leggs and @MsAtl oh yeah. During his temper tantrum attitude he started saying I gave him blue balls. Really did we still use the term blue balls after high school? Anyway, I was like no you gave them to yourself I told you not to expect anything when you come over here. You were all like no I just know you are busy with your daughter a lot of the time and I just want to see you. Sucks because we both work for an airline. I would have had no problem christening every island both of our companies fly to. And english was his second language so you know he almost had me. But nooooo he just had to go and be an infant/toddler.

And blue balls? Really? Leggs did he speak Spanish? If so, it probably was the same guy.

Exiled

October 10th, 2013
1:14 pm

Leggs..so how did this go..u teased him and then stopped or he just said he wanted sum?

I mean..was there any ummm..

just give us the play by play then. :lol:

Exiled

October 10th, 2013
1:18 pm

If u can’t go without for a few weeks?

MsAtl..that works if I have been hitting it and u suddenly get busy and we can’t ..that’s understandable.

For the first time,a lot of dudes want to dust that and be done with it..then u can put him on a known schedule,they will be alright.

@YSIC..dude had blue balls because u never gave him none!

A first time is always worth More! :lol:

MsAtl

October 10th, 2013
1:22 pm

Exiled- “For the first time,a lot of dudes want to dust that and be done with it..then u can put him on a known schedule,they will be alright.” I stand by my original post! If you can’t wait for it, you are not worth it.

The man formerly know as DAN - still...Superior

October 10th, 2013
1:26 pm

Yeah…

I once ruined a 3some by going outside to call my friend…I really couldn’t believe it was going to happen..

I went back in, found out they heard the whole convo….

And they made me wait a few hours…

Apparently, (according to them) they didn’t think of it until after they heard me talking about it; but they decided to punish me/see if I’d stick around and make the move to start it…

aaaaahhhhhh, the single days….

Exiled

October 10th, 2013
1:26 pm

I agree MsAtl..a worthy and smove dude will wait.

Because u wana hunch her when she ready to let her hair down and give u a 5 star porn action! :lol:

The man formerly know as DAN - still...Superior

October 10th, 2013
1:29 pm

@MsAtl

Riddle me this, if you’re waiting, but planning on “giving” him some at a later (arbitrary) time, why the wait?

Exiled

October 10th, 2013
1:31 pm

Dan..I can see balls turning blue,cold,dark black and fade to flat.

Damn thru punished u for the juvenile move..

Young days!! :lol:

I once hit this nurse in my car,outside her sister’s home that she lived with. It was pouring rain.

Then I bragged to my boys bout it.

One of those punks told her…

She called me angry and benched me.

A1 pudy!

….juvenile moves. :lol:

Leggs

October 10th, 2013
1:31 pm

Ms.Atl ~ I was very disappointed in him. Oh well, that was all he wanted and it backfired in his face. Umm….nevamind.

YSIC ~ mine asked me if I knew that sex was an important part of a relationship. I informed him that I knew this, but first one must be in a relationship dumbcluck.

Ex ~ I don’t tease and pull away. If I’m teasing you please belive we will have a home run at the end of the evening. He just came out and asked me that question then went into a tirade of wh am I taking so long. Immediately turned off.

SlimNu

October 10th, 2013
1:32 pm

Fellas – I was talking to a guy yesterday and he was going on about how chicks always begging. Says he’s met a chick and 48hrs later she was asking for help/money for her bills, rent etc. Have ya’ll experienced beggin arse women too?

DuShawn

October 10th, 2013
1:35 pm

I once ruined a 3some by going outside to call my friend…Dan I feel you on that one. A similar rookie mistake has been made by many. I’ve done worse.. I’ve gotten butt booty naked first…..like I just know it’s about to go down……………It didn’t.

YesSheIsCute

October 10th, 2013
1:36 pm

@Leggs I think it was the same guy!!! Does he live in Jonesboro :lol:
@Dan I thought I saw potential in him and didn’t want it to be a one night stand situation…. We went through the whole your body is saying something different. First of all, you wouldn’t know what my body was saying if you weren’t so agressive to having your way, and second of all, no means no. Just drop it and be smooth. I would have made up for it later when I was comfortable. Is all I’m saying.

Exiled

October 10th, 2013
1:40 pm

Yes Slim!

It happens…those are gamers and also hustlers(h wrd)

Some ladies hustle with their pudy to pay bills,make up,nails done hair did,rent paid and let dudes hit.

They just don’t call themselves prostitutes.

@Leggs…dude had no skill

Period

MsAtl

October 10th, 2013
1:41 pm

Dan- It’s not that I am planning or not planning on giving a man some. What I am saying is that I am not getting with a man from jump without getting to know him. If he wants to get to know me, fine. If all he wants is some tail, he can move on to the next one. It may work for some folks, but that is my personal choice. If I am looking for a partner, I am not spreading myself around, I am waiting to give myself to my potential partner. That is not a decision I make in a week. That is not to say that I have not been sexually attracted to men, but I am looking for more.

Single and Happy

October 10th, 2013
1:43 pm

Hey again all

Slim from your question this morning the biggest age gap was 23 years

And yes I’ve meet some beggin arse women too.

Exiled

October 10th, 2013
1:46 pm

Dushawn/2C..so if u dating a chic and u ain’t smashed yet,how u go bout it?

U tell her str8 up,’hey,I wanna smash’ or u wait untill she herself is feeling it then tells u?
Lemme know… I ain’t hunched one of your kind before so I dont know. :lol:

The man formerly know as DAN - still...Superior

October 10th, 2013
1:47 pm

@YSIC

Interesting…

So, you wanted to wait to you were “more comfortable” and have him start the car and idle…I get it. It happens.

Then another question, if you will; if that pulled off and got gas, washed, waxed, and vacuumed spotless, would you have held it against him?

Exiled

October 10th, 2013
1:48 pm

MsAtl..u going round and round…

After u establish that this is your ‘more’,then what?

How he know u ready to hunch him?

Leggs

October 10th, 2013
1:50 pm

“Says he’s met a chick and 48hrs later she was asking for help/money for her bills, rent etc” – better known as an opportunist. WOW! I could never do that. She probably sell him a sniff as well…ijs

The man formerly know as DAN - still...Superior

October 10th, 2013
1:50 pm

@Slim

Yeah, they came with it. But “while I respect your circumstance and your honesty, I can’t help you. We can’t get down like that.”

That’s when they start offering to barter….

Leggs

October 10th, 2013
1:54 pm

“dude had no skill” – Same thing I said to myself, Ex!

SlimNu

October 10th, 2013
1:56 pm

Dan – That’s just crazy to not know a person and ask for money off the rip.

MsAtl

October 10th, 2013
1:57 pm

Exiled- I don’t think a man would have a problem knowing. Communication is key.

DuShawn

October 10th, 2013
2:00 pm

Ex – we all know the best game is no game. When it comes to the beautiful girls, that all the fellas sweat for the booty, a true vet takes the opposite approach. Don’t ever mention it. Pretend sex is the furthest thing from your mind. Emphasize the true value is friendship and just getting to know her as a person. There is some truth to that approach, but we as men know the effort it takes not to bum rush that big ole pretty azz. Now, if she’s a foot dragger, It doesn’t require that much thought. Just tell her the business. What you gone do? I ain’t got time to play.

Leggs

October 10th, 2013
2:00 pm

How he know u ready to hunch him? – Is this a trick question?

MsAtl ~ my exact sentiments. I not into jumping bones for the hell of jumping bones. Let me get to know you first. In my instance, I didn’t know much about him. I remember asking why he’s never invited me to his place. He told me his mother lived with him and he doesn’t have company over. Ummmm, ok, I’m so not the girl you’re looking for. His mother passed a few months later. I found this out when he reached out to me to take me out for a drink. Damage done, heart done turnedto stone where he’s concerned.

Single and Happy

October 10th, 2013
2:00 pm

Leggs, slim, when they start telling me about their bills I tell them about mine, and let them know I can’t support to homes, (LOL)

SlimNu

October 10th, 2013
2:06 pm

kimmie

October 10th, 2013
2:12 pm

Slim – It’s begging women just like it’s begging men. It’s a certain type that do that and it goes with the territory. Your friend needs to upgrade his selection process. Where is he meeting these women? On the flip, dudes be complaining if a woman is TOO independant! I personally would be sleeping on the floor before I asked a dude for money. As long as I got family & friends, a dude would be the absolute last I would ask, especially one I just met. But then, I was not a lot of men’s cup of tea, with my proud behind!!LOL!!!

You damned if you do & damned if you don’t.

SlimNu

October 10th, 2013
2:15 pm

kimmie – The same dude did also mention him dating a very wealthy chick. Said she was too bossy and acted like she was the one with the 3rd leg. So there ya have it. lol

2CPTG©

October 10th, 2013
2:23 pm

Ex, Du beat me to it….”the game of no game!” Don’t sweat her……talk about everything but sex, and before you know it, she’ll be throwin the panties at ya…..or, one that’s helped me; while she’s over at your crib, have one of your fine ass female friends stop by; make tho, your female friend looks better than your potential, introduce ‘em and let ‘em chop it up a bit…..by the time the friend leaves, the potential will have all kinds of thoughts running thru her head……but the trick to that is, she’ll know that the other chic is only a friend….and again, she’ll be throwin the panties at ya…….

kimmie

October 10th, 2013
2:23 pm

Slim – See what I mean? Too bad he can’t find anybody “medium”. LOL!!

YesSheIsCute

October 10th, 2013
2:26 pm

@dan I don’t know what you mean with “start the car and idle”. I’m guessing you mean get him started and then go nowhere?

I mean honestly when he came in he sat on one couch and I sat on the other. I don’t think I led him on or anything like that. He was the one trying to get closer and closer while I was trying to actually have a conversation and keep some distance. He did it to himself. But I learned a lesson. A true “no” is not even letting anyone in the house. Because guys see sitting on the couch as an opportunity I guess in hindsight I can’t blame him. But DON’T tell me that you don’t want to do anything and that you just want to spend time with me when that’s not what you mean. And then get mad because all I wanted to do was spend time with you like you said.

“Then another question, if you will; if that pulled off and got gas, washed, waxed, and vacuumed spotless, would you have held it against him?” I don’t know what you mean by that analogy. Please explain.

SlimNu

October 10th, 2013
2:30 pm

kimmie – Um, he was trying to find me :lol: :shock:

YesSheIsCute

October 10th, 2013
2:33 pm

@SlimNu I had a guy ask me for money after the second date. He called me from Peachtree (mental hospital) asking me for money. Can you say dismissed! I was starting to like him….

I don’t know where these guys come from SMH

kimmie

October 10th, 2013
2:35 pm

Slim – LOL!!!

SlimNu

October 10th, 2013
2:36 pm

Yes – Heyal naw lololol

YesSheIsCute

October 10th, 2013
2:42 pm

@SlimNu he said he was in the hospital and needed money but when I asked if he was hurt or had surgery or what he was vague. So I googled the number he called from. Sure enough peachford (not peachtree my bad) mental hospital comes up. The story gets loonier than that. I don’t know how many times I had to tell that boy to stop calling me.

DuShawn

October 10th, 2013
2:42 pm

Regarding women asking for money: most men don’t mind paying a bill here and there if the female needs the help and she’s behaving accordingly. On the other hand, if he finds himself consistently paying her mortgage and car note etc., then he is truly the topic of today………..”STUPID DATING TRICKS”

MsAtl

October 10th, 2013
2:49 pm

Yes- “He called me from Peachtree (mental hospital) asking me for money. ” :shock: Bwahahaha

DuShawn

October 10th, 2013
2:50 pm

Conversely, If you’re married and you do these things……It makes you a good husband. Go figure?

SlimNu

October 10th, 2013
2:53 pm

Dushawn – I can see if you two have had some sort of relationship but not when you’ve JUST met or started courting.

SlimNu

October 10th, 2013
2:54 pm

DuShawn

October 10th, 2013
2:55 pm

SlimNu – Agreed, asking for bread too fast is the equivalent of trying to get puddy too soon……..you just showed your cards and played yourself.

Exiled

October 10th, 2013
2:57 pm

Sounds advice!
2C..Du is gon end up in a3 sum with your move even if the intend was to win just one of them.

I would not want Du anywhere near my beautiful sister,niece or cousin. :lol:

Brother is too smooth.

Exiled

October 10th, 2013
2:59 pm

2:50 :lol:

You stupid! :lol:

2CPTG©

October 10th, 2013
3:00 pm

Ex…..these gals ain’t gon admit it, but women hate competition…..

Exiled

October 10th, 2013
3:02 pm

Slim…you can use that asking for money move as a back up plan if you are chic…

No job

No loan from the bank

Your Friends won’t lend you money

Your parents won’t either

..but u got plenty fellas hitting on u

Rent is due

Leggs

October 10th, 2013
3:03 pm

2C ~ we’ve said it here many times, women interests peaks when they know another woman is interested in the person they thought they weren’t interested in. It’s just how it works.

YesSheIsCute

October 10th, 2013
3:03 pm

@MsAtl I’m telling you the story gets loonier funnier. :lol: Such a shame that I had to put him off the island. I was starting to like him!

kimmie

October 10th, 2013
3:03 pm

2C – Competition as in what? It’s par for the course at work or in athletics. I should not have to constantly compete for love and affection. So yeah, I don’t mind admitting I don’t like it when it comes to romance.

2CPTG©

October 10th, 2013
3:04 pm

Leggs, yes, I can attest!

kimmie

October 10th, 2013
3:05 pm

Leggs – Nobody wants someone nobody else would want, men too!

DuShawn

October 10th, 2013
3:05 pm

2C having the friend girl come thru is a boss move.

2CPTG©

October 10th, 2013
3:06 pm

kimmie…..but it’s like y’all go into another mode when y’all find out dude got other prospects….or even worse, when you SEE those other prospects……

Exiled

October 10th, 2013
3:06 pm

2C…women are more same sex competitors than dudes

Dudes don’t even do it

They want to outdress each other at work

If she can’t outdress shakira,she mean mugs and hates her

For us married dudes,we can’t mention that the next woman is a good cook,let alone that u ate her food and u absolutely enjoyed it.

U are denied puddy for the next 40 days and 40 nights.

Women are a special species

Leggs

October 10th, 2013
3:07 pm

Of course not, kimmie. But, some women don’t know that nobody wants that person. You didn’t want them at that time, but you see someone else wanted him and now you’re interested.

SlimNu

October 10th, 2013
3:07 pm

Ex – Or just work at one of those massage parlors :lol:

YesSheIsCute

October 10th, 2013
3:08 pm

@Leggs that is so true about interest. Some guy that was my fake work husband in my mind (we used to communicate via email and phone regarding negotiating fares), came from corporate and I was like he’s aight. But then everyone in the department was like did you see so and so from corporate he is fine. I was like well wait a second maybe I was too hasty in my judgment. Dang I wish I still had to call him for professional reasons :lol:

@Dushawn a husband is supposed to protect and provide (I thought that meant financially). Not some random guy I just met.

Celisea

October 10th, 2013
3:08 pm

And as my mama ALWAYS said (and to the reverse), you ain’t gotta sweat a dude acting janky. And just like/if he wants you, so does another.

2CPTG©

October 10th, 2013
3:09 pm

Du…..when I tell you the potential chic’s eye lit up like a christmas tree…..and she even admitted it later, that she was cool til “that other heffa came thru;”

Celisea

October 10th, 2013
3:10 pm

but it’s like y’all go into another mode when y’all find out dude got other prospects….or even worse, when you SEE those other prospects……

Naw, not everybody. Just like we know what’s up when y’all are NOT bumrushing to bootey and “holding back”, we know how to front if nothing else and toss our head/had, as if it just another day. Nothing to spazz out over….

Exiled

October 10th, 2013
3:11 pm

@Slim..yep but that’s 40 hours a week?!

…versus just dressing good,being leggy and strutting ur stuff.

Coin! :lol:

Celisea

October 10th, 2013
3:11 pm

Heck, sometimes it ain’t even fronting. If we know it ain’t nothing to that chick and that smashing is all that’s gonna go down, she ain’t got nothing on us….the quality good ones!!!

Celisea

October 10th, 2013
3:13 pm

Me? I’m not one for asking, begging hinting….none of that…..for money from a dude…booed or not. Now, I did my thing with the older dude while clucking the goods, with both hands…lolol But, I learned once to NEVER go down that road again. Shoot, I have too much pride to be asking a dude to pay something or for a service that I utilized.

Celisea

October 10th, 2013
3:14 pm

And with him, I still came out on top :mrgreen:

2CPTG©

October 10th, 2013
3:14 pm

Ex…..I’mma have to hush, cause disco gon’ read this, and when we meet, she gon be like…..”dammit, didn’t you say this on the blog?…..by then, she gon be “got”…..next thing you know, in her words…..No. dont. Stop.”

Exiled

October 10th, 2013
3:14 pm

2C…the gumption to even call the other chic,that she don’t even know,aggressively as ‘heffa!’

:lol:

Classic!

DuShawn

October 10th, 2013
3:17 pm

“@Dushawn a husband is supposed to protect and provide……”Of course, I couldn’t agree more…..I just find the irony entertaining.

Leggs

October 10th, 2013
3:17 pm

” Some guy that was my fake work husband” – See guys, people who aren’t married will use the word “hubby,” especially at work. Thanks for validating my point, YSIC.

2CPTG©

October 10th, 2013
3:21 pm

Leggs, no, my dear, not the same…..folks in those positions don’t play like that.

Exiled

October 10th, 2013
3:22 pm

2C…the only problem disco has with u meeting and stuff is that u may come back to the blog and disclose personal stuff tween u two.

I doubt she has a problem with u hunching per se!

I know u upstanding and wldnt do that

But that’s the huddle u gotta go over.

My advice:the less blog sweating her u do…banish her completely from ur blog convo…the more might get that email from her,unannounced.

What is it by the way?

At some point she gon get dry and run outta of dudes with exchangeable frequent flyer miles.

Heck,even USA federal reserve is outta cash and closed right now! :lol:

To quote Jesse,’keep hope alive!’ :lol:

2CPTG©

October 10th, 2013
3:24 pm

I don’t kiss and tell…..

Leggs

October 10th, 2013
3:25 pm

2C ~ I don’t know what you’re talking about.

kimmie

October 10th, 2013
3:25 pm

2C/Leggs – Okay, if you say so. I’m cut from a different clothe. If anything, I’m more disinterested. I’ve never, ever found anything more distasteful than sweating over some dude, especially just cause some other woman is in the picture. If he has other prospects, then by all means pursue them. See that’s where I’m coming from when I say I don’t do romantic competition!

Cel – Like I said, always too much pride to ask dudes for money. Like Olivia Pope, I’ve always had options!!LOL!!!

Leggs

October 10th, 2013
3:26 pm

Wait, you never said “folk in those positions.” You asked what person not married refers to someone as their husband.

Leggs

October 10th, 2013
3:28 pm

Ex ~ that’s funny because 2C will never come on the blog and reveal what he did off the blog.

Leggs

October 10th, 2013
3:28 pm

w/a blogger….

Durty Burd

October 10th, 2013
3:29 pm

DU and 2C got game from the pimping book of Iceberg Slim…Dang it don’t tell all the secrets I have to worked my blog bucket list…

SlimNu going old school (Courting)..If you as for financial assistance their will be some terms and agreeements that come with financial assistance…

Celisea you know your boo is paying for something…you are the queen of you got to play to get the bootey… :) how much!

Exiled

October 10th, 2013
3:30 pm

2C…what’s ur email add..??

Leggs

October 10th, 2013
3:31 pm

kimmie ~ I know myself well, if I was over a dude’s place and another woman came over, prettier than myself and we were introduced as friends, it would not have me wanting him more. No offense, DuShawn, but I would immediately feel that drop by was a setup!

Celisea

October 10th, 2013
3:32 pm

My advice:the less blog sweating her u do…banish her completely from ur blog convo…the more might get that email from her,unannounced.

LOLOLOLOLOLOL……Disco don’t strike me as being a simpleton to such dumb stragety. If anything, I’d think if you gotta strategize, she’s affected you more than admitted. You “planning” to not talk about her??? That’s something my 12 y o cousin does cause he’s pouting with a lil girl….lol My guess is that assessment of an email out of the blue is over-thinking, mis-reading, and no doubt waaaaaaaaaaay off the mark. If there were me I communicate for reason or something real, a legit reason. Certainly not cause of a drought of convo and sweating and just outta the blue

I’m guessing

At some point she gon get dry and run outta of dudes with exchangeable frequent flyer miles.

LOLOLOLOL….Going for the juggular?? Like lil boys do when they mad. Call you names or say what they might think will hurt.

Durty Burd

October 10th, 2013
3:32 pm

Dang it Kimmie does your sister have the same mindset? if she is single send her my way I can do great things with a woman who thinks like that… hehehehehe!

Exiled

October 10th, 2013
3:33 pm

3:26 Leggs…that’s what I thought as well!

…if disco don’t follow thru then we know she just a loud mouf! :lol:

(EX Lubs a good hunch)

Celisea

October 10th, 2013
3:33 pm

Durty – Pay to play is on him and what a man does. Me begging for handouts though, is on me. Ain’t happening…

Kimmie – Yep!!

Celisea

October 10th, 2013
3:33 pm

Hope my 3:32 wasn’t too harsh…lol

YesSheIsCute

October 10th, 2013
3:34 pm

@Leggs lots of people here have work husbands and wives.

Exiled

October 10th, 2013
3:34 pm

Cel..u just making me holler! :lol:

Celisea

October 10th, 2013
3:35 pm

I’m gone back to work :) I was tryna lurk through my conference calls and the call with my mgr. If I don’t come back, ya’ll have a fantab evening.

Durty – I’m waiting on your top 10….lol

2CPTG©

October 10th, 2013
3:36 pm

kimmie

October 10th, 2013
3:36 pm

Durty – LOL!! She’s taken, but I’m sure she’d be flattered!

2CPTG©

October 10th, 2013
3:36 pm

Leggs

October 10th, 2013
3:39 pm

YSIC ~ it’s a term new to 2C.

Exiled

October 10th, 2013
3:41 pm

Cel..hope u took note of the digits on the board as well.

We know chics front a lot to angst other chics and that dude of yours may well be just virtual. :lol:

….j/k :lol:

Durty Burd

October 10th, 2013
3:42 pm

Time to Go Celisea!

Today was a beautiful day so I decided to take a walk downtown..I dress very professional as usually wing tips, pleated slacks, jacket, Fredrick shirts. On my way I passed by the MegaBus and saw my people, now I was a little taken back because one person reach out like they wanted something from me, but because I am boogie and the CEO I cannot be affilated, associated, similated, similaced,toasted bread, publics boars head meat touched by one who rides the megabus… So, I scurried along down the path because this walking is going to help me win the corporate challenge( Oh did I mentioned that before) and their was 2 bums accross the street about a 1/4 of a mile down from me looking my way… Well you know I am not a chicken but I keep it up a notch and briskley walk back to my CEO office which did I tell is Fantab… Oh well Toodles!

Durty Burd

October 10th, 2013
3:42 pm

I meant Briskly

DuShawn

October 10th, 2013
3:42 pm

Leggs – It all depends on the vibe and how comfortable and at ease the friend girl makes you feel (not you per se, but generally speaking). At that point, everybody is just friends. All she has to do is engage you on some female shid, like; “girl I like your shoes” and yall start bonding. Then she may be having an upcoming event or get together and suggest I bring you. When she makes it obvious that she is no threat, it works to the guys advantage. Most times anyway.

2CPTG©

October 10th, 2013
3:42 pm

the 2nd addy is the correcct one….

disco

October 10th, 2013
3:42 pm

dang. I’m off missing the good convo. let me get some of this. lol.

ex/du/2c – re the game of no game. that works in theory and with a select demographic. the flaw in the theory is that you are working on the assumption that she wants to give you some. remember, the average woman knows out the gate whether or not you are going to get some. she also has a general idea of when. thing is, sometimes you’re just cool and she keeps you around but she has no intention of getting with you like that. in that situation, game, the game of no game, money and nothing else is going to change the outcome.

Durty Burd

October 10th, 2013
3:45 pm

So Leggs, MsAtl and YSIC do you have a time clock in your head that tells I am ready to let this man make love to me or is it a feeling out process that tells you are ready?

YSIC…Some of your adventures with men are very Funny!

MissMoni….I bet you have some really good stories as well! Do tell! :)

2CPTG©

October 10th, 2013
3:46 pm

Leggs…..trust, I’m talkin bout what I know, not what I heard…..it’s easy to dismiss it here on the blog, cause we’re talking about it…..but when it’s done in real life, and you can’t see it unfolding, trust me, even the best of ‘em can get caught up….

disco

October 10th, 2013
3:46 pm

yes – I think I’d rather get the jailhouse call than the mental hospital call. lol.

y’all know I gotta get in on men and their separation from their loot. on the one hand I hate a chick that asks for money but on the other hand a closed mouth don’t get fed. some chicks I want to beat over the head with a brick until they learn to tell them dudes to do something besides lay up. my style though is simply to pick the type of men who want to do. I rarely have to ask for things. it’s usually offered or I can toss out a subtle hint and it’s usually caught.

Celisea

October 10th, 2013
3:47 pm

MMeello – You lost me with the digits things…..

And my dude being virtual, ummm okay…lolololol If you say so

And I’m laughing cause YOU know why. I’ve known for a loooooong time, a long long long time. Since last year. YOU gave it away. But, I’ll just keep on the highroad and keep right on laughing. Yep. for a looong time now. And for what?? I’m still laughing.

YesSheIsCute

October 10th, 2013
3:49 pm

@Leggs I would have. But now the blog dudes disclosed their plays I know better now!

DuShawn

October 10th, 2013
3:49 pm

“sometimes you’re just cool and she keeps you around but she has no intention of getting with you like that.” Can’t speak on things that I have never expericnced. That’s a totally foreign concept for me.

Durty Burd

October 10th, 2013
3:50 pm

The blog ladies speak from experience right now, but go back 3 to 5 yrs and they were doing it all…Now they talk like they will not fall for the Okie doke….hehehehehehe!

Disco is all talk, I think she must be retired…Hint she reads books all the time….lol Them cobwebs have triple since the last old dizzle….

Exiled

October 10th, 2013
3:51 pm

Digits?

2C email add

@Celisea

disco

October 10th, 2013
3:51 pm

C – 3:32 now that’s what I call having someone’s back and representing. thanks. lol.

Leggs

October 10th, 2013
3:54 pm

“It all depends on the vibe and how comfortable and at ease the friend girl makes you feel” – this is true, either way it would still feel like a setup only because I’ve always been cynical.

disco

October 10th, 2013
3:54 pm

durty – retired in what sense? from work? from the game? naw. a sister ain’t retired. lol.

durty – I’m not ALL talk. a lot of talk and some days mostly talk but never all talk.

there. i’m all caught up. hate i missed it live.

Exiled

October 10th, 2013
3:55 pm

Celisea..I asked for 2C email add Not for me!

Someofyall are too proud to beg but running on heavy greasy cobwebs

Matchmaking don’t hurt

Where is ITL?

…I know she ain’t got a guy :lol:

Bluz,YSIC,disco,Slim,Leggs ..whoelse?

….they all need dudes

kimmie

October 10th, 2013
3:56 pm

Disco – Girl you tells it like it is! Cause if I’ve already made up my mind it’s not gonna happen, it’s gonna take something truly extraordinary to change my mind. And in all my years of dating before I married, that “something” never did!LOL!!!

And yeah, if you good like that, you don’t have to say anything – it’s offered!! :wink:

Leggs

October 10th, 2013
3:57 pm

2C ~ I know you’re talking about what you know and so am I. Just saying like you put the game play out there, some women can recognize it, smell it a mile away. Some can, some can’t. That’s life.
Yep, “even the best of ‘em can get caught up….but remember, not everyone gets caught.

disco

October 10th, 2013
3:58 pm

kimmie – you know how I do. lol.

MsAtl

October 10th, 2013
3:59 pm

Durty- No time clock, just whenever it feels right. I need to get to know the man.

Leggs

October 10th, 2013
3:59 pm

Durty ~ mine isn’t necessarily a time clock, just a feeling clock and if I’m getting to know you. If all you talk about is getting “at me” then we have a probllem.

Exiled

October 10th, 2013
3:59 pm

3:42 disco?
What type of guy u like?

..before we even talk bout game…

disco

October 10th, 2013
4:02 pm

and here’s one for the fellows. I’m not that chick on here singing the getting to know you game. thing is if it’s just about a smash, I will do the smashing, not you. I will choose you and I will do you and I will be done with you when it’s over with. does that type of action happen much? naw. not because of any high moral ground on my part but because – as I’ve stated before – a lot of men simply aren’t aging well. they aren’t fine enough to screw just for the sake of screwing. they gotta bring something else to make it worth one’s while. lol.

Leggs

October 10th, 2013
4:03 pm

“The blog ladies speak from experience right now, but go back 3 to 5 yrs and they were doing it all…”

Sorry, not me!

YesSheIsCute

October 10th, 2013
4:07 pm

@DB I was still falling for the okie doke. Ever since I got back on the blog I’ve been learning A LOT.

Exiled

October 10th, 2013
4:07 pm

Disco…so u hustle for money basically…to pay for mortgage?

U only smash that aging dude if there is money in it?

Durty Burd

October 10th, 2013
4:08 pm

Disco and Leggs thanks for the response, me personally I don’t even come close to talking about smashing early in the dating process especially if I was dating classy ladies like yourselves…

Disco…U gangsta…But do u want to step out of the bush/minor leagues and into the major leagues… See 2C if you are ready…lol

Leggs

October 10th, 2013
4:08 pm

“…it’s just about a smash, I will do the smashing, not you. I will choose you and I will do you and I will be done with you when it’s over with.” – That’s my point, I will make the call, not you calling on me just for sex.

Exiled

October 10th, 2013
4:10 pm

disco

October 10th, 2013
4:11 pm

ex – I don’t smash for money but I also ain’t smashing a dude who doesn’t have any. you can try to put whatever spin on it you want. there’s no shame in my game.

durty – the bush leagues? what’s that? lol.

DuShawn

October 10th, 2013
4:11 pm

Leggs – It’s easy to be in the right defense if you know what plays are being run. Realistically, I don’t remember ever working too hard to win a woman’s heart. I never put a lot of thought into it. We met, we vibed, got together and had fun. It all unfolded effortlessly. Either that or we didn’t hit it off, recognized that early on and kept it moving.

Exiled

October 10th, 2013
4:11 pm

Same difference Leggs and disco

If it’s consensual sex,if I smash I smash

Ofcourse the vagina is yours..Always!

What’s the argument?

Semantics

disco

October 10th, 2013
4:13 pm

ex – no. it’s really not the same. the reality is, the average man can’t take being smashed. something primal I guess. something about him being the hunter and conquering the prey I suppose (lol). maybe his manhood is threatened when the gazelle grabs him around his neck and tosses him around. lol.

Leggs

October 10th, 2013
4:15 pm

It might be semantics on your part, but like you guys think you have the woman wide open, some of us women have you men wide open and will hit that highway if we call you to. Sure, we’re both smashing, but it’s because I called in the order, not you!

Exiled

October 10th, 2013
4:15 pm

Disco…u don’t have a dude.

U smash

U ain’t smashing a broke dude

U not having a relationship with them because they age bad

But u can smash them and leave them..if they have money
u don’t smash youngins
..u hustle..point blank

disco

October 10th, 2013
4:16 pm

ex – I’ve done the thing, got dressed and rolled out while dude was sleep. no goodnight, no goodbye, no nothing other than locking the door on my way out. now, while that sounds good on the outside looking in, a lot of dudes don’t tend to like that feeling of waking up alone when they thought they didn’t go to bed alone. I guess they need to think that they put it on you so good that you will be all clingy, wanting to stay for breakfast and all that. poor fellas. lol.

Leggs

October 10th, 2013
4:16 pm

:lol: :lol: :lol: laughing at myself and disco! We speak the truf…

Exiled

October 10th, 2013
4:18 pm

U only have men wide open when u date below ur league

..and the chumps are awed by ur seeming beauty,they’re less educated but they have cash flow to spend on you

Blue collar dudes on graveyard shifts

disco

October 10th, 2013
4:19 pm

ex – correction. I’m not smashing them because they don’t age well. I suppose they might make good relationship material. the key to being smash material is being fine enough to want to smash without strings. now, that may vary for men since y’all are just trying to get in where y’all fit in but since the average woman can pretty much get screwed whenever she wants we can be far more selective than you guys.

leggs – right right….

2CPTG©

October 10th, 2013
4:20 pm

it’s usually offered or I can toss out a subtle hint

I’ll be like, “hell naw!”….then play Erykah Badu, and turn right around and ask ya for some ass!

Exiled

October 10th, 2013
4:21 pm

4:16 disco

Most prostitutes in outcall do that

It’s about them getting paid whether he hit 2 rounds or 1,good or bad, it’s neither here nor there

I placed u right!

DuShawn

October 10th, 2013
4:21 pm

Yall please don’t drink the kool-aid that disco is pouring. I’ll break thru that hard exterior straight to the gushy middle. Talkin bout she’ll do the smashin……you better smash some muffuggin mayo on my ham sandwich.

Leggs

October 10th, 2013
4:22 pm

“U only have men wide open when u date below ur league”

Now, that’s the biggest lie ever put on this blog!!!!

Exiled

October 10th, 2013
4:23 pm

I didn’t say u smash because of that

U smash them if they age bad but they have extenuating circumstances or condition:CASH!

disco

October 10th, 2013
4:24 pm

ex – I don’t date down. I’m like the math equation ≥ greater than or equal to. that’s how I do.

ex – any woman worth her salt is getting something. if your wife tells you she’s not giving you any until you clean the garage, well then guess what? yep. she just bargained her puddy for a clean garage. I feel sorry for the woman that never, ever, ever gets anything in exchange except for the man parts. she better ask somebody.

Celisea

October 10th, 2013
4:26 pm

Yeah, behind the screen, everybody’s a winner, never lost, never a bust…..

Y A W N

Durty Burd

October 10th, 2013
4:26 pm

DIsco and Leggs when I finish rocking your worlds please don’t wake me when you leave go, just lock the bottom lock when you leave…Oh and Thank you!

Now SlimNu and YSIC I know yall want to stay and be held…Probably wants some in the morning…now in order for that to happen you need to cook some breakfast…

HHEHEHEHEHEHEHEHE!

disco

October 10th, 2013
4:26 pm

D – be careful. a chick like me will bust you over the head with the miracle whip jar. keep playing. lol. besides weren’t you here the day we talked about sandwich making? I don’t make sandwiches.

Celisea

October 10th, 2013
4:26 pm

Oh, and a friggin hero. Got all the girls!! Only on the blog

Leggs

October 10th, 2013
4:27 pm

“U only have men wide open when u date below ur league”

Now, that’s the biggest lie ever put on this blog!!!!

Durty Burd

October 10th, 2013
4:27 pm

I like when Disco is fired up and splitting fire….

DuShawn

October 10th, 2013
4:28 pm

If you wake up and disco has gone……three words……..Check your wallet.

Celisea

October 10th, 2013
4:29 pm

“U only have men wide open when u date below ur league”

Damn shame, always belittle women….SMH

Durty Burd

October 10th, 2013
4:29 pm

Celisea you are too funny…U lucky u booed up,I would turn u inside out..hehehehe!

Leggs

October 10th, 2013
4:30 pm

Durty ~ I’m not one leaving in the middle of the night while you sleep. Hell, I’m going to sleep too.

disco

October 10th, 2013
4:30 pm

DB – I’m not fired up. just contributing to the dialogue.

D – crazy crazy crazy crazy crazy. yeah you. lol.

2CPTG©

October 10th, 2013
4:32 pm

disco, my email on page 6……make ya next move, ya best move!

Durty Burd

October 10th, 2013
4:33 pm

Put it on Leggs so strong have her bringing lunch and dinner 4 days a week..

Disco…Dang it I like it a little rough, I will bust you right back upside that brick head of yours…Sandwiches after our session we gonna fight someone is going to make a meal….I gets hungry! :wink:

Exiled

October 10th, 2013
4:34 pm

4:24 disco I get that!

Greater than for you is Cash,pure and simple

If there is nothing in it for you,Cash wise your Puddy is on lock

And the thing is,u on rotation!

U speak semantics but I get it

Trust! :lol:

At least wifi is just smashing me,fingers crossed

Celisea

October 10th, 2013
4:34 pm

Durty – Ummm, yeah okay and again, this is the home of

BillyBadAsses, AlwaysGetsTheGirl, PlayaPlayas, WomenAintSh!t (only when you can’t dog ‘em), YousaWomanYouMustBeLyingIfYouSayYouAintBeenTricked, IonDoWomenThatSayNo, NoSuchThingAsAnythingOutsideOfHoes…..blah blah blah

And Durty – Keep it to jokie joke and ha ha. Don’t tryda cross the line with me..K? You last little skit was ignorant. If I don’t there with you…oh wait, you hides all time

Durty Burd

October 10th, 2013
4:35 pm

Durty ~ I’m not one leaving in the middle of the night while you sleep. Hell, I’m going to sleep too. Good because I need to roll you over and get some morning action in too…. :)

disco

October 10th, 2013
4:37 pm

Ex – fingers crossed? LOL.

SlimNu

October 10th, 2013
4:42 pm

disco :lol: Keepin it Real! Did dude call later like, where did you run off to? lol

Durty Burd

October 10th, 2013
4:42 pm

Ummm I have been tricked had my nose wide open given and will give some more…No problem I keep it moving…Could not be talking bout me, I don’t call anyone HOES….Heck I have defended pornstars and strippers…I try no to make judgments…

Exiled

October 10th, 2013
4:43 pm

Yeah disco

I’m in a marriage with my eyes wide open

Celisea

October 10th, 2013
4:44 pm

And it was YOU that posted my personal info. I knew it then. Ain’t but so many folks know about the high schools here in Atlanta. Especially those that no longer exist. You gotta be OLD ENOUGH and around long enough to know the history

Coward!!!

Now let’s watch Bluz or ITL or Sassy MAGICALLY appear.

Coward!!

Leggs

October 10th, 2013
4:45 pm

“Put it on Leggs so strong have her bringing lunch and dinner 4 days a week..” – Now, I can’t dispute that, because it would be something I would do (lolol).

Leggs

October 10th, 2013
4:48 pm

But not no damn 4 days a week!!!

disco

October 10th, 2013
4:49 pm

slim – naw. one in particular I recall asking me what time I left. that brother was nice. I hate he got married. I went to his city recently and it would have been nice to call him up. oh well. whew, I just had a Minnie ripperton – memory lane moment. lol. they don’t make them like that anymore. those were good times.

Exiled

October 10th, 2013
4:49 pm

Who is You?

@Celisea?

Durty?

DuShawn

October 10th, 2013
4:50 pm

wow… this certainly took an ugly turn…..talk about a vibe kill. I’m bout to get my week end started. Deuces……and cootchie juices good people.

2CPTG©

October 10th, 2013
4:50 pm

Celie……????? where is all this pent up anger coming from?

YesSheIsCute

October 10th, 2013
4:51 pm

@DB It depends on how I’m feeling. Sometimes I wanna stay and be held. Sometimes I want round 2, 3 and 4. Sometimes I just wanna go to sleep and be like holla in the morning. That’s why I prefer it at my place so that I can stay comfy in my bed and you can leave after.

Exiled

October 10th, 2013
4:51 pm

Vibe killer! :lol:

Durty Burd

October 10th, 2013
4:52 pm

Celisea who are you blogging about? Sweetheart I don’t know one single person from this blog..You have me mixed up with some else..Go back and Read Elijah and Mr. L that is me! I left this blog for at least 3 yrs..Sorry I am on the blog for entertainment and learning new stuff…Nothing more and nothing less…

Exiled

October 10th, 2013
4:56 pm

Blog hug and prayer!

Nite nite!

It was fun guys,Leggs ,Disco

Leggs

October 10th, 2013
4:57 pm

Modern Day Confucius Say…..

It’s ok to let a fool kiss you, but don’t let a kiss fool you.

Durty Burd

October 10th, 2013
4:57 pm

Celisea get with Leggs she knows everything she can tell you it’s not I who put out your personal info, nor would I be interested in doing childish things…

Everyone Have a good evening!

We should all do a Robert top 10 list tomorrow….hehehehehe!

disco

October 10th, 2013
5:03 pm

durty – I’ll do 10 things men can come up off of in lieu of money. lol.

Leggs

October 10th, 2013
5:28 pm