I wish I could tell you that being attracted to wildly inappropriate people is something that goes away. The reality is that we can’t always help who we are attracted to. The real test comes when you decide what you are going to do about it. We all get tempted but do we give in and wait for the fallout or do we figure out how to make better choices?
A reader wrote in saying that she is tired of being single and is considering “dating” a man who she know is married. Now, he has pursued her relentlessly for months and she has said no, not interested. However, when she feels lonely, rejected by men she is interested in, married guy becomes more appealing!
Dating married people is obviously an exercise in futility, yet many single people do it. Why do you think that is? Personally, I believe it is similar to dating bad boys or crazy chicks, because you think they offer excitement.
Have you ever been tempted to date someone inappropriate like your boss or someone married?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta