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Dating rewind: Dating representative?

Have you ever reached the 90 day mark in a new romance and start to notice a new personality emerging?  Don’t be alarmed! That’s just the representative leaving and the real person showing up. Occasionally you get lucky and the representative closely resembles the real person.

Sadly, there are other times when that “dating representative” may as well have been a paid actor hired to lure you into a false sense of security and relationship bliss.  You then have to make a choice: Do you decide to give the real person a shot or do you bail on the potentially good/bad ride you are about to take?

How do you know when the “real person” is worth the same amount of time and investment you gave their representative?

Do you think that it’s hard to show all your true sides when you first meet someone? Is it possible to date without having that “representative” show up at all?

How real do you get when it comes to letting someone new in your life get to know your authentic self?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

199 comments Add your comment

Lee

September 24th, 2013
7:12 am

Run Run away if the person does a 180 degree turn in personality… I would be gone so fast you would like I was the run runner…. beep beep

I am quite at first — i stay true — when i go out i dress for the occasion –when i am home i wear shorts and a tee shirt doesn’t matter who is coming over I am not getting dressed up to sit in my own house thats crazy.. I am the type of person that tells it like it is, if you really don’t want to know better not ask me.

Hazel

September 24th, 2013
8:16 am

great question. No one is 100% right away. One has to feel comfortable, not feel judged and take time to be who they are on the real. My true side could be being very sensitive …which I will hold back if I’m getting to know you. True side could be having conservative parents, that I act conservative around.. but you don’t need to know that now. It’s impossible to show true sides when meeting someone.

YesSheIsCute

September 24th, 2013
8:40 am

Good morning all!

I agree with Hazel. There are very few if any people that feel like their personality is their best foot forward. I think all people do a little censoring at first because we are trying to feel the person out and not scare them away with their neuroses idiosyncracies.

SlimNu

September 24th, 2013
8:52 am

The representative can wear off at any moment, whether it be 2 weeks, 30 – 90 days or after 3 years…but some folks do change. It’s just a matter of if that change goes along with something you want to stay signed on to.

Do you think that it’s hard to show all your true sides when you first meet someone?

Well the older I get the less likely i care to put on a show for you. What you see is what you get….but of course we don’t want to just air all our flaws to a new suitor. Don’t want to scare away some good bait. lol I try to keep a wrap on all my 38 other personalities. One may get too overwhelmed and confused if they do not meet them over time. :oops:

Just trying to make light of this misty dreary Tuesday!

Bluzgirl

September 24th, 2013
9:16 am

Morning all!

Where did this rain come from? Watching the news last night and they said no rain until tomorrow morning. Ergh!!! Messes up some plans after work if it sticks around.

Anyway…with me, what you see is what you get. Although, The Ex would tell you different. He used to tell me that he fell in love with who he thought I was. I was me the whole time and I never understood where that came from. If he didn’t like who I was, he should have left a hell of a lot sooner. Now, he had a representative that lasted just about a year. He sucked me in with him being a “better man” than he was in the past and how much he changed and appreciates life and love. Yeah…that lasted the first year and then he went back to being the dog he was 12 years ago…

Celisea

September 24th, 2013
9:22 am

I think it’s possible to be who you are right out of the gate. IMO, “representative” or believing in such is something we’ve conditioned ourselves to be is a given….not all the time. At least I don’t believe. Now, if you’re the kind of person that worry about folks and what they think, impressions and scoring, etc etc etc then yeah there’s a strong possibility that you dabble in appearances. However, if you’re looking to do the dang thing, then I believe you don’t waste time, you show the person what they’re working with and who you are. Having said that, I do believe it takes time to see the person’s whole self. I don’t think you’ll get that in one whop, or a few dates….that takes time. But just because you don’t see their entire self, doesn’t mean the part you did see was faking or a representative.

Anyway, “representative” takes too much work. Got no time fa dat!!

Celisea

September 24th, 2013
9:25 am

……representative is something we’ve conditioned ourselves to be a given…..”

is what I meant

Leggs

September 24th, 2013
9:50 am

I’d like to think I’m myself right off the bat, but I do not put all of myself on the table. I have to guage the man in front of me and all my quirkness doesn’t need to be revealed all at once. I’m not going to present myself in a manner that isn’t who I am, but I will hold back.

Good morning! Worst traffic I’ve seen in a long time.

Bluzgirl

September 24th, 2013
9:50 am

Did everyone oversleep or get stuck in traffic this morning?

2CPTG©

September 24th, 2013
9:56 am

Enter your comments here

Leggs

September 24th, 2013
9:57 am

Could be traffic. I didn’t arrive until 9:30.

Bluzgirl

September 24th, 2013
10:07 am

This surprise rain really did a number on traffic this morning. I’m lucky to live 6.5 miles from work, but was still about 10 minutes late.

Exiled

September 24th, 2013
10:11 am

The moment uall smash,that’s when u gwy the real real..even with chics!

She can be queenish,stuck up,fly,ms sophisticate,speak softly type woman when u are still doing the dating motions….

The moment she goes speanish on u,uttering all sorts of delight expletives in the middle of the smash,that’s when u know u got her….

Now she starts cussing in ur presence,she can fart loudly in the bathroom and she won’t even close the door…her hair is now way down.

For dudes,smashing is ur ticket to knowing the real chic.

And some of us dudes bail out once we done smashing.
Now you know that All we wanted! :lol:

I guess she can cuss,’douche’bag’!! :lol:

Good morning MIA!

Exiled

September 24th, 2013
10:14 am

u get the real

SlimNu

September 24th, 2013
10:14 am

Bluz – Surprise rain is right…I had my dress and sandals on and run out to start my car up. I open up the door and was like RAIN? Huh??? I can’t STAND for my feet to get wet but I was already dressed and just sucked it up….not to mention I just curled my hair and this misty rain is not good for a black girls hair…

Single & Happy

September 24th, 2013
10:20 am

Hello all

Now this is the reason I believe in becoming friends, and getting to know the person first. Not into meeting and jumping into relationships. Have had a few say I take to long and they’re not interested any more, but for me, it means you really weren’t interested in the first place! While for others that weren’t interested in the beginning became interested later on.

Leggs

September 24th, 2013
10:21 am

But this surprise rain was just mist, why traffic was a slow crawl. That’s why everything goes haywire with the first snowflake…

Bluzgirl

September 24th, 2013
10:28 am

Leggs – It started really raining here in Norcross on my way in this morning. It made me cold!!! I just hope it clears up this afternoon/evening. I blew off walking my friend’s dog last night because I was really sleepy and said I would come tonight. If I had known it was gonna rain, I would have gone last night no matter how sleepy I was!

Single & Happy

September 24th, 2013
10:29 am

Enter your comments here

Bluzgirl

September 24th, 2013
10:34 am

S/H – I agree that it is important to get to know the person as a friend before developing a relationship. With The Ex, I knew him from the past and jumped in waaaaaayyyy too soon with the relationship. I should have waited and maybe I would have seen all the red flags before I invested my heart!

YesSheIsCute

September 24th, 2013
10:39 am

@SlimNu I feel you this week is spirit week at work. So I stepped out with my color coded dress mask and sandals and was very surprised at this mist/drizzle. It’s ok since I work inside but it did damper my “spirit” for today’s spirit week activities.

@SH I agree with you it is important to get to know the person as a friend before developing a relationship. It took awhile for me to get the understanding what that really means. Only fools rush in.

Single & Happy

September 24th, 2013
10:40 am

bluz, I had an ex a few months ago that wanted to jump back in a relationship. I took my time and remembered why she was an ex!

Leggs

September 24th, 2013
10:43 am

Bluz ~ I started to rephrase my post with “when I left the house this morning it was just a mist.” Wasn’t thinking of those that get out while it’s still dark and may have been raining before I opened my eyes.

Single & Happy

September 24th, 2013
10:45 am

Yes, and when you try to explain this to people they say you’re just being negative and hating (LOL)

YesSheIsCute

September 24th, 2013
10:56 am

@SH don’t get me wrong I’d love to skip to the part where we know each other and I can be free to express myself emotionally, physically etc. However such a partnership is worth the wait of wading through the platonic friendship waters first.

2CPTG©

September 24th, 2013
11:00 am

However such a partnership is worth the wait of wading through the platonic friendship waters first.

that’s the boring part!

Bluzgirl

September 24th, 2013
11:00 am

Leggs – LOL! It was about 8:15 for me. I’m still snoozing when it’s still dark! When I looked at the weather map, nothing even showed up in my area!

YesSheIsCute

September 24th, 2013
11:12 am

@2C boring but necessary.

SlimNu

September 24th, 2013
11:14 am

Yes – Let me see those spirit fingers!!!!!

2CPTG©

September 24th, 2013
11:14 am

@Cutie….not with me tho, right…you and I can skip all the rigamarole, and get right to the good part….

2CPTG©

September 24th, 2013
11:16 am

btw, Leggs, I posted a video for you on my FB page…..

Bluzgirl

September 24th, 2013
11:24 am

btw, 2C – sent you friend request just now

Leggs

September 24th, 2013
11:27 am

2C ~ I saw it this morning when I got to work, but now have to wait until I get home to view it.

YesSheIsCute

September 24th, 2013
11:29 am

@SlimNu lmao! I hope I win any of the spirit contests this week. Me and my spirit fingers! :lol:

YesSheIsCute

September 24th, 2013
11:30 am

@2C how Bluzgirl get to friend request you and I can’t? :?

Mrs. SexyCool

September 24th, 2013
11:32 am

One of the bonuses of *having* to walk the dog – you get a preview of the weather before you actually get dressed in the mornings.

2CPTG©

September 24th, 2013
11:34 am

sh!t, just send a request…….ain’t like you don’t know all my info already….hell, that’s why I said you and I can skip all the ohter nonsense and get to it!

2CPTG©

September 24th, 2013
11:35 am

and Bluz, I thought that was you……”kick ass blues”!!!!

Leggs

September 24th, 2013
11:35 am

Mrs. SexyCool

September 24th, 2013
11:37 am

Sometimes, it can take more than 90 days for a person’s truER nature to be revealed. A person often shows their truest nature in times of conflict, challenge, adversity, crisis (pick a word).

2CPTG©

September 24th, 2013
11:39 am

A person often shows their truest nature in times of conflict, challenge, adversity, crisis (pick a word).

Sexy, I’ll take horny for $200.

Leggs

September 24th, 2013
11:40 am

I’m in one of my moods where I can’t seem to stop eating. It happens every so often and I’m constantly hungry today. Have to be careful!!!

Bluzgirl

September 24th, 2013
11:40 am

Mrs. SexyCool

September 24th, 2013
11:42 am

The young lady whose parents donated the wedding reception to HFTH is in my running group and an FB friend. She really is good people. And it is cool to know good people.

Bluzgirl

September 24th, 2013
11:42 am

It’s nice to be able to a face with a name/personality!

Bluzgirl

September 24th, 2013
11:45 am

*put a face…

Bluzgirl

September 24th, 2013
11:52 am

Bluzgirl

September 24th, 2013
11:57 am

Durty Burd

September 24th, 2013
12:02 pm

Good Morning!

No one can see all of you at the beginning of the relationship, but at least put your true self forward each and every time when you are together. This I donn’t want to scare him off now is BS. Would you rather get dump now because your did not hold back something they might not like or later after you are more emotionally and physically involved.

2C this might be the blog of the flat butt, since not one has answer your question from Friday….hehehehehehe!

Leggs

September 24th, 2013
12:03 pm

Bluz ~ I didn’t even read the story re: Kanye but said basically the same thing. He’s twisted!

Leggs

September 24th, 2013
12:08 pm

Durty ~ if I remember correctly, Bluz finally did answer but 2C her answer didn’t matter and that it would need to be critiqued by a WLB to make it officially a donk. Something like that.

Leggs

September 24th, 2013
12:10 pm

Wow that was a struggle getting to page 2.

2CPTG©

September 24th, 2013
12:12 pm

ummmm, Bluz, just curious…..who told you my name?

Bluzgirl

September 24th, 2013
12:13 pm

Yes…I did answer on Friday. I may have been the only one. LOL!

Where the heck is everyone today?

Kanye seriously has narcissistic personality disorder…

Leggs

September 24th, 2013
12:14 pm

http://www.nydailynews.com/news/national/video-couple-caught-sex-driving-article-1.1465656

Now, I understand being risque, adventurous, and wanting to get it in, but in broad daylight, driving on the highway is a bit much. They should be cited for reckless sex while driving and endangering other drivers (if this video is real).

Durty Burd

September 24th, 2013
12:14 pm

2C…So what you sayin about BluzGirl?

Good Point Mrs. SexyCool…You really do not see the real person until a crisis, challenge or adversity comes into their life.

This best foot forward need to be accompanied by put your best booty forward! hehehehehe!

2CPTG©

September 24th, 2013
12:15 pm

Durty, I think she’s a spy….

Bluzgirl

September 24th, 2013
12:15 pm

2C – not hard to figure out when you have an email address. Google baby! Also, you mentioned you were FB friends with Leggs and she and I are friends. Once I got your name, I looked for the one who had a mutual friend. That totally sounds stalkerish, but yesterday, you put it out there for folks to add you on FB…

2CPTG©

September 24th, 2013
12:17 pm

ok, Bluz, just checking……you’re good……I think…the jury is still out…

2CPTG©

September 24th, 2013
12:20 pm

and Celie when are you gonna send a request from your fake-ass name….

Bluzgirl

September 24th, 2013
12:20 pm

2C – LOL!

Leggs – Wow…I wonder if the couple can be identified and charged. That is so dangerous…

Durty Burd

September 24th, 2013
12:22 pm

Dang it 2C…BluzGirl has detective skills! Alright BluzGirl my name is Marco Polo now send me a pic…hehehehehe!

YSIC..U are moving too slow,BluzGirl is way ahead of you in the 2C sweep stakes and she is still horny for last week…lol :)

The Denver Bronco’s look devastating on Offense this year, this team will be hard to stop….

Bluzgirl

September 24th, 2013
12:23 pm

Bwahahahahaha Durty!!!

YesSheIsCute

September 24th, 2013
12:24 pm

@DB I can see what you mean…but then people are less forgiving upfront than they are after getting to know people how they are, what makes them tick, etc. For instance you may do something on the first or second day of me knowing you and I’m like DONE. Whereas after I’ve gotten to know you and realize the why behind your action I may be more understanding and unmoved by it.

Leggs

September 24th, 2013
12:26 pm

Leggs

September 24th, 2013
12:28 pm

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2CPTG©

September 24th, 2013
12:29 pm

I’on know Durty….Bluz is kinda tall….never been mountain climbing before….

Bluzgirl

September 24th, 2013
12:31 pm

You know…when I think about it…I do sound very stalkerish. I apologize 2C if I went to far by friending you on FB. I ONLY looked you up because of yesterday and you asking the ladies to friend request you…

Exiled

September 24th, 2013
12:35 pm

@Leggs..i did not read the story but were they having s e x or she was just giving his joystick a real licking!!…

…the things ladies Lollipop on… :lol:

Exiled

September 24th, 2013
12:37 pm

2C…Bluz is tall?..u proly like her neck then! :lol:

2CPTG©

September 24th, 2013
12:37 pm

you what would be hot…..banging a blog gal, and while you beatin it up, she doesn’t call you by your name, but your moniker…..

I can hear it now……..”damn, 2C…..”

Celisea

September 24th, 2013
12:37 pm

2Can – Imma have to take a pass. I don’t really “deal” in any kind of way with folks from here…anymore :) Outside of the two folks that have my cell and I have theirs (and their email addys), I have no desire to connect….in any way…with anyone! Nothing personal. Just gonna take a pass :)

Bluzgirl

September 24th, 2013
12:39 pm

I’m really not tall…does it look like I am in the pictures?

2CPTG©

September 24th, 2013
12:40 pm

it’s cool Celie…….didn’t take it personal…..

Bluzgirl

September 24th, 2013
12:41 pm

Ex – They are really having sex. She’s on top of him, bouncing away, while he’s driving. Totally unsafe!

Bluzgirl

September 24th, 2013
12:42 pm

2C – Don’t you know that fake people can’t have real relationships/friendships?

Celisea

September 24th, 2013
12:42 pm

2Can – Didn’t think you would :)

Mrs. SexyCool

September 24th, 2013
12:43 pm

Toucan – you are so incorrigible. Go have a seat, sir. (lol)

2CPTG©

September 24th, 2013
12:43 pm

Don’t you know that fake people can’t have real relationships/friendships?

not so fast, my friend….ask Manti Te’o……

2CPTG©

September 24th, 2013
12:45 pm

btw, Sexy, I was in your neck of the woods 2 weeks ago….started to call you (again)……went to some function they were having at Kipp….

Durty Burd

September 24th, 2013
12:46 pm

BluzGirl….How tall are you? Quit playing u know u want some of the Durty Burd! lol :wink:

YSIC….I disagree this will give a person who is not committed a reason to bolt because now you have shown a characteristic that he does not like or cannot deal with. Either way you are taking a chance better to be gone before the emotions run to deep…

YSIC…Think about your past relationships and see if it would have been better had you known this person had a characteristic that you did not like and it started the downfall of the relationship. You mentioned the Irish dude who wanted to get start working on married right away, are you not glad you found out that behavior upfront?

Celisea…Who on the blog has your information?

Celisea

September 24th, 2013
12:46 pm

I’m excited for tomorrow…hope it doesn’t rain. We’re entertaining a client at the Braves game, in the company suite

Alrighty kiddies, hope y’all get this thing going. I have a doctor’s appointment/medical test today. Imma peek in later….

Toodles

Bluzgirl

September 24th, 2013
12:48 pm

Durty – I’m only 5′3″…

2CPTG©

September 24th, 2013
12:49 pm

Bluz, you do look like you like to have a good time, tho….you just got that look….

Bluzgirl

September 24th, 2013
12:49 pm

I ain’t skeered for people here to know who I am because I have nothing to hide. I’m always up for making new friends/acquaintances!

Bluzgirl

September 24th, 2013
12:51 pm

2C – Thanks, I think. LOL! I really do try to have the best time because life is too short!

2CPTG©

September 24th, 2013
12:52 pm

yes, life is very short, that’s why I need to get on with my bucket list…..

Bluzgirl

September 24th, 2013
12:55 pm

What’s on your bucket list?

I need to win the lottery or find me a sugar daddy so that I can do things on my list. Mainly, I want to travel Europe for a few months…just going from city to city…

Exiled

September 24th, 2013
12:57 pm

I wanna go back to africa and retire….now,i need a decent crib over there…a car and some basics..

wld u blog folks be kind enough if i blog pan handle from uall? :lol:

will u miss me..

Durty Burd

September 24th, 2013
12:58 pm

2C….The ladies who are 5ft3 and under all I can say is they were my best relationships by far…. BluzGirl you are on my radar…hehehehehe!

Where is MissMoni? Are you running a background check on Dreams and 2C?

YesSheIsCute

September 24th, 2013
1:01 pm

@DB I see your point.

Leggs

September 24th, 2013
1:04 pm

“Celisea…Who on the blog has your information?” – You know that’s funny and you do know she’s not going to tell you…I’m cracking up.!

Durty Burd

September 24th, 2013
1:16 pm

Leggs….I know I like to throw something at Celisea because you know she is mental…hehehehehehe in a good way!

YSIC…Quit holding out and let me take you to school, once you graduate you will know how to get what you want…. :)

I agree on the getting to your Bucket List, if I can secure this work from your laptop gig, I will be on my way to Brazil, Belize, and Venezuelas…YESSSSS!!!!!!!!!!!

Bluzgirl

September 24th, 2013
1:24 pm

Durty – Just out of curiosity…why would you want to go to Venezuela?

Celisea

September 24th, 2013
1:26 pm

Celisea…Who on the blog has your information?

Leggs – I’m laughing too. Let’s say it like this, it ain’t Bluzgirl (for one….ha ha ha) and if your messages or calls ain’t getting through, it’s not you either :)

Not gone yet, huh? In a few :)

Leggs

September 24th, 2013
1:32 pm

“…and if your messages or calls ain’t getting through, it’s not you either” – Even funnier. Picturing people dialing numbers thinking they’re contacting Celisea and recording comes on, they leave msg, but never hear from her, leave other msgs only to finally be contacted that they’ve been leaving msgs on the answering machine of a 65 year old woman (lol).

Celisea

September 24th, 2013
1:36 pm

Hopefully they know….at some point….if you’re only getting voicemail EACH AND EVERY TIME, time to get a clue. I say that wtih blog love :mrgreen: That’s the thing Imma miss about this phone. You can block individual contact.

Take that, iPhone!! Or, can the iPhone do that….hmmmmm I’ll find out in a few weeks!!

Leggs

September 24th, 2013
1:36 pm

and she’s threatening to track them down and beat them up for bugging her!

Mrs. SexyCool

September 24th, 2013
1:38 pm

Dern near everyone knows me off blog. And if you don’t, I’m sure you know someone who knows how to get to me if there were ever a need.

Leggs

September 24th, 2013
1:39 pm

Anybody see the new show Black List? I recorded it, but heard it’s good.

Durty Burd

September 24th, 2013
1:39 pm

Celisea you are too funny!

BluzGirl…I need to see how the communist are living…Actually, I know folks from Vene and I would like to visit…

Leggs…Celisea sounds like a 65yr old woman, so you would have the right number…

Celisea

September 24th, 2013
1:40 pm

Honestly, I don’t mind some folks…really I don’t. Some folks are cool.

Celisea

September 24th, 2013
1:44 pm

Leggs…Celisea sounds like a 65yr old woman, so you would have the right number…

Ut oh, Durty, you wouldn’t be one that’s going to voicemail wouldja?? :) :)

Leggs

September 24th, 2013
1:44 pm

Oh, I forgot to share with you. I came across this Chocolate Wine that is DELICIOUS. Kroger sells it ($13.99) but it’s on sale, or was on sale last week for $7.51. I took the last 3 bottles that day (lol). ChocolatRouge. Did I say it was delicious. It’ssmooth chocolate w/red wine. It’s the bottle in the middle. YUMMY!

http://www.chocolatrougewine.com/Wines/

Bluzgirl

September 24th, 2013
1:44 pm

Durty – That is where The Ex spent 18 months in prison. I’ve read up on VZ a bit and I would never want to risk my life by going there. Way too dangerous.

Bluzgirl

September 24th, 2013
1:47 pm

NEVER, EVER, EVER, EVER!!! LOL!!!

I sure wish the blog had a “hide” or “ignore” button so you wouldn’t have to read some people’s ignorance.

Off to lunch!

Leggs

September 24th, 2013
1:49 pm

Ok Bluz, don’t incite a riot!

Leggs

September 24th, 2013
1:49 pm

Ok Bluz, don’t incite a riot! And there is an ignore/hide button. It’s your eyes, simply skip over post.

Sassy Me ;-)

September 24th, 2013
1:51 pm

I sure wish the blog had a “hide” or “ignore” button so you wouldn’t have to read some people’s ignorance.

Cosign Bluzgirl…enjoy your lunch.

SlimNu

September 24th, 2013
1:56 pm

Who in the hell left the gate open? :lol: Ya’ll getting turnt up in here I see.

I need a nap badly

Celisea

September 24th, 2013
1:59 pm

Turnt up behind a screen is funny…..lololol Keyboard bullies, maybe??

Lawd I’m gone. Will peek in later…

Toodles.

Bluzgirl

September 24th, 2013
2:00 pm

Now, I’m walking away from my desk…looking forward to the impending crazy! :-D

kimmie

September 24th, 2013
2:01 pm

Leggs – I’ve had that wine & it is the bomb!

Leggs

September 24th, 2013
2:06 pm

kimmie ~ I am not surprised that you would have tasted it….simply delicious. I opened a different brand last night and it’s not nearly as good as the ChocolatRouge!

Exiled

September 24th, 2013
2:08 pm

I didn’t know folks get horny(turnt) just by reading the blog…

I guess I could maybe of I sniffed on some woman panties

But just reading..the blog?

Hmmmm

SlimNu

September 24th, 2013
2:10 pm

Ex – Just making light of the overuse of the term “turned up”….No one made any reference to being horny…Lawd!

Exiled

September 24th, 2013
2:10 pm

If I sniffed

2CPTG©

September 24th, 2013
2:14 pm

what do they say about Celie off blog? she gotta donk? she hunch on the first date? hell, inquiring minds wanna know….

Exiled

September 24th, 2013
2:16 pm

I think this blog has to close shop.

It has run it’s course!

..just a thought Diva!

Leggs

September 24th, 2013
2:16 pm

SlimNu ~ it’s like you’re talking to a wall. Turned up doesn’t mean horny, it means “put your dukes up.”

Exiled

September 24th, 2013
2:19 pm

And by ‘offblog’, Bluz means a circle of Bluz,ITL and who else….??

…not me! :lol:
who are Bluz’s dranking partners?

SlimNu

September 24th, 2013
2:22 pm

Leggs – If we gave Ex an ink blot test, everything would have something to do with sex, sex organs, earmuffilectomies etc… :roll:

Reio

September 24th, 2013
2:26 pm

Hi Everybody!

Just got in from a Dr. appointment.

” Do you decide to give the real person a shot or do you bail on the potentially good/bad ride you are about to take?”

BAIL!!………Hell!!

Exiled

September 24th, 2013
2:30 pm

@Slim..that or Twerking! :lol:

Leggs

September 24th, 2013
2:33 pm

Probably on point with that ink blot test (lol).

Bluzgirl

September 24th, 2013
2:37 pm

It would be interesting for us all to have an ink blot test just to see how it turns out. I can imagine a couple that would be very interesting! :-)

Durty Burd

September 24th, 2013
2:39 pm

SlimNu…So what’s new with you? Are you ready to start dating again?

2CPTG©

September 24th, 2013
2:40 pm

Bluz, I got you and Light confused on the pic…..Light is the tall one…..with the country flair…..

SlimNu

September 24th, 2013
2:42 pm

Durty – For the right person lol

Bluzgirl

September 24th, 2013
2:43 pm

2C – You talking about my profile pic? Light isn’t in any of my pics…that’s another close friend of mine.

2CPTG©

September 24th, 2013
2:46 pm

well dammit……Bluz….who’s the other chic with the redneck shirt on?

SlimNu

September 24th, 2013
2:47 pm

Durty – There is actually this one dude that I went out with a handful of times that keeps calling me now. I told ya’ll about him. I call him Mr. Vain…just not my cup of tea….I’m not conceited and would not do well with a dude in the mirror more than your typical woman. :roll:

Leggs

September 24th, 2013
2:49 pm

Do “redneck shirts” standout like Hawaiian shirts? I’m cracking up…don’t answer. I know the shirts Jeff Foxworthy and The Cable Guy like to wear (lololol).

2CPTG©

September 24th, 2013
2:49 pm

Slim….tsk, tsk, tsk…….

Bluzgirl

September 24th, 2013
2:50 pm

2C – I’m the one on the left and that chic is close friend of mine…she is in a serious relationship… ;-)

Bluzgirl

September 24th, 2013
2:51 pm

Plus…she and I have the same t-shirt on…she has a denim jacket on…is that redneck?

2CPTG©

September 24th, 2013
2:52 pm

Bluz, you’re alright with me……even if you are country!

2CPTG©

September 24th, 2013
2:53 pm

denim jacket in 2013? ahhh, yes, that is redneck-ish…..

Bluzgirl

September 24th, 2013
2:55 pm

Thanks 2C, but I wouldn’t say I’m country! LOL! I’m the Bluzgirl! I’m all about the local blues scene…

Bluzgirl

September 24th, 2013
2:56 pm

She is the denim queen! Always has denim on…kind of like her signature. LOL

Exiled

September 24th, 2013
2:57 pm

But u went out with him a handful of times?

Why???

@Slim

For the eating out and free dranks and meal
…just to let others see u out and about with dudes

..to let mr Fed jealous

Why Slim?

Exiled

September 24th, 2013
3:01 pm

..and how u know know he is in the mirror a lot…

..he dresses up in ur crib…or vice versa?

Don’t tell me u doing take outs….again?

:lol:

SlimNu

September 24th, 2013
3:06 pm

Ex – You can speak on it because you were there the few times we went out right? And just to set you straight, we didn’t go out to eat but once. We didn’t have the typical dinner & drink dates thank you very much. Walking in the park is free…so is coming to see him play on his work bball team..but yeah, I wanted to soak up all that free food and drinks. What the fudge ever! That’s never been me, nor ever will be me to milk someone just for the hell of it. Oh, and I don’t give a rat’s arse who ’see’s me out and about with dudes”. I think you say sheeeit just to say get folks riled up.

Where is that IGG button again?

Exiled

September 24th, 2013
3:12 pm

@Slim….u got riled?

…I didn’t make a statement,I aksed a question…why is that riling?

…has the dentured,old dude been coming to ur job again and messing with u?

I think that’s why u riled?

Or maybe it’s that time of the month.. :lol:

Sassy Me ;-)

September 24th, 2013
3:14 pm

Slim we need an IGG button similar to the “Easy” button Staples has :lol:

SlimNu

September 24th, 2013
3:15 pm

Ex – You’re right…is that what you want to hear/read?

SlimNu

September 24th, 2013
3:18 pm

Exiled

September 24th, 2013
3:19 pm

:lol: @Slim?

…u know some folks dont do well when it’s showering outside
..or when temps cool

..or when the moon is up at nite(crazy and psycho folks)
…and so on and so on

U just blowing ur top for no reason,why?

SlimNu

September 24th, 2013
3:20 pm

Ex – You’re right…

Bluzgirl

September 24th, 2013
3:22 pm

LOL! That’s a way to handle Ex…”you’re right”! Too funny!

Exiled

September 24th, 2013
3:25 pm

Thnx for talking to me and not IGG me Slim!

..u know that is better than me jes sitting here by myself,lonely & scratching the itchy underside of my balls….? :lol:

Leggs

September 24th, 2013
3:28 pm

Oh Goodness! Will never learn nor care to take heed on anything said.

Sassy Me ;-)

September 24th, 2013
3:30 pm

Slim…you’re right :lol:

I have a co-worker like that…she’s always right and wants to challenge EVERYthing ANYone says….so once during a team meeting she started darting out questions/comments/suggestions in rapid fire succession…I nodded and agreed with her and she shut up. Granted I didn’t give two tenths of n’aan fvck about what she said but it ended her rant…so now when she starts talking I smile/nod, then smile and leave. She had/has NO words and I love it :mrgreen:

Bluzgirl

September 24th, 2013
3:33 pm

Off topic – My boss sure is on a rampage today. She’s been pi$$ing people off left and right. I guess she’s still mad cause she went to Miami for the Falcons game and she lost. Ugh!!!

Exiled

September 24th, 2013
3:35 pm

2CPTG©

September 24th, 2013
3:36 pm

Slim……I swear, when you’re ready, I’m coming after you…….shhhh, don’t tell Durty!

Exiled

September 24th, 2013
3:39 pm

I know the feeling Bluz

Liverpool lost on Saturday and I won’t even log on the team’s website to catch up on news

I guess ur boss riles subordinates up to get that loss outta his system…

…kinda sounds familiar to what I did to Slim cple of minutes ago :lol:

2CPTG©

September 24th, 2013
3:39 pm

Leggs….we gotta work on gettin you hooked up…….

Leggs

September 24th, 2013
3:42 pm

Why do you think I need help cuz I only talk about my MIA’s?

Adam

September 24th, 2013
3:43 pm

I agree, where are the REAL women at? All this makeup, boobjobs, tummy tucks, nails, butt jobs, fat suction, wigs, weeve, and extensions. Where are the REAL women at? All I see are fakes, and women have the nerve to want REAL men, please.

Bluzgirl

September 24th, 2013
3:44 pm

Ex – She was off work yesterday…you’d think she could come in today with a better attitude. She’s just being a b*tch today and has us all rolling our eyes at her and thinking “WTF?”

YesSheIsCute

September 24th, 2013
3:46 pm

:lol: @SlimNu’s you’re right. I know my coworkers are wondering what’s so funny

Willie Dynamite

September 24th, 2013
3:48 pm

Afternoon all,

What’s good? Let me read a bit to catch up.

Exiled

September 24th, 2013
3:48 pm

Adam! ^5

Never thunk of the fake boobs,fake butt,wigs, etc

U on point with that!

Like I said,when u smash and ask her to strip to nuthin’ that’s when u know her on the real!

Wig off

Tatas off
Nika off

never allow her to come to bed with some piece of clothing on

Nada! :lol:

Leggs

September 24th, 2013
3:50 pm

Who takes their tatas off???

Leggs

September 24th, 2013
3:51 pm

Some of your guys need to come to bed with cothes on because we rather be thrilled when it’s long, hard and stiff instead of limp, short and sad looking (lol).

Leggs

September 24th, 2013
3:53 pm

Pretty sure you guys have heard about the similarities of Blurred Lines sounding like Marvin Gaye’s tune. I was watching Sanford and Son and I swear it sounds like that opening tune too. Anybody get that besides my warped mine??

SlimNu

September 24th, 2013
3:57 pm

Sassy Sure does take the wind out of their sails doesn’t it :lol:

Why do you think I need help cuz I only talk about my MIA’s?

Leggs :lol: :lol:

Bluzgirl

September 24th, 2013
3:58 pm

Leggs – I’ll have to check out that comparison. I have to admit that I love “Blurred Lines.” It’s even my ringtone. LOL! Not a song that I would typically like, but I fell in love with it!

YesSheIsCute

September 24th, 2013
3:58 pm

@leggs lol @ who takes their tatas off…. LOL!

Exiled

September 24th, 2013
3:59 pm

Who takes tatas off?

Omg

..so uall dudes dont see the tatas..
For the life of me I don’t see how I can smash without molesting ur tatas! :lol:

I gotta feel them..s u c k on them,,twist them…head butt them.. I mean

What?

Leggs

September 24th, 2013
4:01 pm

SlimNu

September 24th, 2013
4:02 pm

I like “Blurred Lines” at first but now I’m tired of hearing it…they always ruin it by drowning the airways with the same dayum songs.

Bluzgirl

September 24th, 2013
4:05 pm

I heard something about that. I have to remember to check it out when I get home.

Exiled

September 24th, 2013
4:09 pm

short and sad looking

..u dont have to eyeball it..as long as he sticks it in!

Leggs

September 24th, 2013
4:12 pm

You better eye ball it to see if you can handle it. Some can make a woman run for the hills.

Exiled

September 24th, 2013
4:12 pm

unless u like to wrap ur long fingers around it….

Bluzgirl

September 24th, 2013
4:13 pm

Yes…we must eyeball it first…we may decide it’s too tiny to waste time with it. No need to increase our number for a small one! LOL!

Exiled

September 24th, 2013
4:19 pm

Leggs

September 24th, 2013
4:22 pm

:lol: :lol: Funny how you went that route, Bluz, and I went the other.

Bluzgirl

September 24th, 2013
4:23 pm

Damn skraight!

Exiled

September 24th, 2013
4:28 pm

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Exiled

September 24th, 2013
4:30 pm

That Tiger dude on v-103 gets on ma nerves

He too ghetto !!
Greg skreet is ghetto too but atleast he ghetto legit that’s better

I like that Egypt girl

Exiled

September 24th, 2013
4:38 pm

To think it is almost weekend

..if u are positive!

God Is good!

2CPTG©

September 24th, 2013
4:40 pm

I’m so freaking bored right now……..

Sassy Me ;-)

September 24th, 2013
4:42 pm

Sure does take the wind out of their sails doesn’t it

Slim, it does…quick and in a hurry.

Exiled

September 24th, 2013
4:42 pm

Tmrw tmrw tmrw!

since uall done talking

…giied naitei!!

Bluzgirl

September 24th, 2013
4:46 pm

2C – I’m a little bored myself and ready to get on out of this place today! I’ve had enough with work for the day, but I still have at least 10 minutes to go. Boooooooo!!!!!!!

Leggs

September 24th, 2013
4:50 pm

The grass may be greener on the other side but the the water bill is higher.

YesSheIsCute

September 24th, 2013
4:52 pm

@Leggs I wish I encountered one that make me wanna run for the hills. Each time I’m like….oh no, again?!

Bluzgirl

September 24th, 2013
4:53 pm

Good one Leggs!

Leggs

September 24th, 2013
4:55 pm

YSIC ~ in my lifetime I’ve encountered one. I was scared but I mounted and gave it all I had (lol). I will never forget that ride!!!

YesSheIsCute

September 24th, 2013
4:56 pm

@Leggs I keep hoping one day. Maybe if I stop dealing with these guys 5′10 and under I could finally encounter something!

Leggs

September 24th, 2013
4:56 pm

2CPTG©

September 24th, 2013
4:57 pm

what you got against guys 5′10 and under????

Celisea

September 24th, 2013
4:57 pm

I’m so grateful for my life and my health and the strength God gives me. In all of that, that doctor’s appointment was NOT fun….but, gotta do whatcha gotta do. The body is so complex :)

I see the blog hasn’t really moved but a page or two, not much happening.

Anyhoo….I’m gone to enjoy my evening :mrgreen:

Nighty night!!

Bluzgirl

September 24th, 2013
4:57 pm

Good night everyone! I’m outta here! :-)

Leggs

September 24th, 2013
4:58 pm

It’s coming, YSIC, it’s coming! Just be ready when you’re faced with it (lol).

Exiled

September 24th, 2013
6:15 pm

U rode it,biting the lip!

..good job Leggs