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Dating rewind: Dating representative?

Have you ever reached the 90 day mark in a new romance and start to notice a new personality emerging?  Don’t be alarmed! That’s just the representative leaving and the real person showing up. Occasionally you get lucky and the representative closely resembles the real person.

Sadly, there are other times when that “dating representative” may as well have been a paid actor hired to lure you into a false sense of security and relationship bliss.  You then have to make a choice: Do you decide to give the real person a shot or do you bail on the potentially good/bad ride you are about to take?

How do you know when the “real person” is worth the same amount of time and investment you gave their representative?

Do you think that it’s hard to show all your true sides when you first meet someone? Is it possible to date without having that “representative” show up at all?

How real do you get when it comes to letting someone new in your life get to know your authentic self?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

199 comments Add your comment

Exiled

September 24th, 2013
3:25 pm

Thnx for talking to me and not IGG me Slim!

..u know that is better than me jes sitting here by myself,lonely & scratching the itchy underside of my balls….? :lol:

Leggs

September 24th, 2013
3:28 pm

Oh Goodness! Will never learn nor care to take heed on anything said.

Sassy Me ;-)

September 24th, 2013
3:30 pm

Slim…you’re right :lol:

I have a co-worker like that…she’s always right and wants to challenge EVERYthing ANYone says….so once during a team meeting she started darting out questions/comments/suggestions in rapid fire succession…I nodded and agreed with her and she shut up. Granted I didn’t give two tenths of n’aan fvck about what she said but it ended her rant…so now when she starts talking I smile/nod, then smile and leave. She had/has NO words and I love it :mrgreen:

Bluzgirl

September 24th, 2013
3:33 pm

Off topic – My boss sure is on a rampage today. She’s been pi$$ing people off left and right. I guess she’s still mad cause she went to Miami for the Falcons game and she lost. Ugh!!!

Exiled

September 24th, 2013
3:35 pm

2CPTG©

September 24th, 2013
3:36 pm

Slim……I swear, when you’re ready, I’m coming after you…….shhhh, don’t tell Durty!

Exiled

September 24th, 2013
3:39 pm

I know the feeling Bluz

Liverpool lost on Saturday and I won’t even log on the team’s website to catch up on news

I guess ur boss riles subordinates up to get that loss outta his system…

…kinda sounds familiar to what I did to Slim cple of minutes ago :lol:

2CPTG©

September 24th, 2013
3:39 pm

Leggs….we gotta work on gettin you hooked up…….

Leggs

September 24th, 2013
3:42 pm

Why do you think I need help cuz I only talk about my MIA’s?

Adam

September 24th, 2013
3:43 pm

I agree, where are the REAL women at? All this makeup, boobjobs, tummy tucks, nails, butt jobs, fat suction, wigs, weeve, and extensions. Where are the REAL women at? All I see are fakes, and women have the nerve to want REAL men, please.

Bluzgirl

September 24th, 2013
3:44 pm

Ex – She was off work yesterday…you’d think she could come in today with a better attitude. She’s just being a b*tch today and has us all rolling our eyes at her and thinking “WTF?”

YesSheIsCute

September 24th, 2013
3:46 pm

:lol: @SlimNu’s you’re right. I know my coworkers are wondering what’s so funny

Willie Dynamite

September 24th, 2013
3:48 pm

Afternoon all,

What’s good? Let me read a bit to catch up.

Exiled

September 24th, 2013
3:48 pm

Adam! ^5

Never thunk of the fake boobs,fake butt,wigs, etc

U on point with that!

Like I said,when u smash and ask her to strip to nuthin’ that’s when u know her on the real!

Wig off

Tatas off
Nika off

never allow her to come to bed with some piece of clothing on

Nada! :lol:

Leggs

September 24th, 2013
3:50 pm

Who takes their tatas off???

Leggs

September 24th, 2013
3:51 pm

Some of your guys need to come to bed with cothes on because we rather be thrilled when it’s long, hard and stiff instead of limp, short and sad looking (lol).

Leggs

September 24th, 2013
3:53 pm

Pretty sure you guys have heard about the similarities of Blurred Lines sounding like Marvin Gaye’s tune. I was watching Sanford and Son and I swear it sounds like that opening tune too. Anybody get that besides my warped mine??

SlimNu

September 24th, 2013
3:57 pm

Sassy Sure does take the wind out of their sails doesn’t it :lol:

Why do you think I need help cuz I only talk about my MIA’s?

Leggs :lol: :lol:

Bluzgirl

September 24th, 2013
3:58 pm

Leggs – I’ll have to check out that comparison. I have to admit that I love “Blurred Lines.” It’s even my ringtone. LOL! Not a song that I would typically like, but I fell in love with it!

YesSheIsCute

September 24th, 2013
3:58 pm

@leggs lol @ who takes their tatas off…. LOL!

Exiled

September 24th, 2013
3:59 pm

Who takes tatas off?

Omg

..so uall dudes dont see the tatas..
For the life of me I don’t see how I can smash without molesting ur tatas! :lol:

I gotta feel them..s u c k on them,,twist them…head butt them.. I mean

What?

Leggs

September 24th, 2013
4:01 pm

SlimNu

September 24th, 2013
4:02 pm

I like “Blurred Lines” at first but now I’m tired of hearing it…they always ruin it by drowning the airways with the same dayum songs.

Bluzgirl

September 24th, 2013
4:05 pm

I heard something about that. I have to remember to check it out when I get home.

Exiled

September 24th, 2013
4:09 pm

short and sad looking

..u dont have to eyeball it..as long as he sticks it in!

Leggs

September 24th, 2013
4:12 pm

You better eye ball it to see if you can handle it. Some can make a woman run for the hills.

Exiled

September 24th, 2013
4:12 pm

unless u like to wrap ur long fingers around it….

Bluzgirl

September 24th, 2013
4:13 pm

Yes…we must eyeball it first…we may decide it’s too tiny to waste time with it. No need to increase our number for a small one! LOL!

Exiled

September 24th, 2013
4:19 pm

Leggs

September 24th, 2013
4:22 pm

:lol: :lol: Funny how you went that route, Bluz, and I went the other.

Bluzgirl

September 24th, 2013
4:23 pm

Damn skraight!

Exiled

September 24th, 2013
4:28 pm

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Exiled

September 24th, 2013
4:30 pm

That Tiger dude on v-103 gets on ma nerves

He too ghetto !!
Greg skreet is ghetto too but atleast he ghetto legit that’s better

I like that Egypt girl

Exiled

September 24th, 2013
4:38 pm

To think it is almost weekend

..if u are positive!

God Is good!

2CPTG©

September 24th, 2013
4:40 pm

I’m so freaking bored right now……..

Sassy Me ;-)

September 24th, 2013
4:42 pm

Sure does take the wind out of their sails doesn’t it

Slim, it does…quick and in a hurry.

Exiled

September 24th, 2013
4:42 pm

Tmrw tmrw tmrw!

since uall done talking

…giied naitei!!

Bluzgirl

September 24th, 2013
4:46 pm

2C – I’m a little bored myself and ready to get on out of this place today! I’ve had enough with work for the day, but I still have at least 10 minutes to go. Boooooooo!!!!!!!

Leggs

September 24th, 2013
4:50 pm

The grass may be greener on the other side but the the water bill is higher.

YesSheIsCute

September 24th, 2013
4:52 pm

@Leggs I wish I encountered one that make me wanna run for the hills. Each time I’m like….oh no, again?!

Bluzgirl

September 24th, 2013
4:53 pm

Good one Leggs!

Leggs

September 24th, 2013
4:55 pm

YSIC ~ in my lifetime I’ve encountered one. I was scared but I mounted and gave it all I had (lol). I will never forget that ride!!!

YesSheIsCute

September 24th, 2013
4:56 pm

@Leggs I keep hoping one day. Maybe if I stop dealing with these guys 5′10 and under I could finally encounter something!

Leggs

September 24th, 2013
4:56 pm

2CPTG©

September 24th, 2013
4:57 pm

what you got against guys 5′10 and under????

Celisea

September 24th, 2013
4:57 pm

I’m so grateful for my life and my health and the strength God gives me. In all of that, that doctor’s appointment was NOT fun….but, gotta do whatcha gotta do. The body is so complex :)

I see the blog hasn’t really moved but a page or two, not much happening.

Anyhoo….I’m gone to enjoy my evening :mrgreen:

Nighty night!!

Bluzgirl

September 24th, 2013
4:57 pm

Good night everyone! I’m outta here! :-)

Leggs

September 24th, 2013
4:58 pm

It’s coming, YSIC, it’s coming! Just be ready when you’re faced with it (lol).

Exiled

September 24th, 2013
6:15 pm

U rode it,biting the lip!

..good job Leggs