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Swing my way

If you didn’t already know that Atlanta was Reality TV Capital of the South, you should know now:  TV producers LOVE filming here.  The latest foray in Atlanta “reality” on television is about the secret sex lives of swingers.

As I read about the upcoming series, I remembered the guy I met a long time ago through online dating.   I was so excited about him until he explained exactly what he was looking for: a wife. A wife who would also be his swinging partner. Without getting too graphic, he basically wanted his wife to pick someone out to bring home and enjoy. Um, yeah NO.

This caught me off guard because up until that point, this guy was a home owner, entrepreneur, and a devout Christian.  At least that is the image that he projected to me.  I had a preconceived idea about what a swinger was – and he was not it at all.

What would you do if your date asked how open you were to swinging?

My apologies for yesterday! I did not set the blog correctly.  Bad blogger, I know!

by Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta

244 comments Add your comment

Reio

September 6th, 2013
4:27 pm

Celisea – who is ‘TP’?

Single and Happy

September 6th, 2013
4:27 pm

awww yes that’s so sweet (LOL)

Leggs

September 6th, 2013
4:29 pm

Probably because at the end of the day, she’s still a woman, soft, cuddly, emotional, understanding. Can identify with Venus vs Venus and Not Mars v. Venus.

Hell, I don’t know.

Leggs

September 6th, 2013
4:29 pm

Who is TP (rofl).

Leggs

September 6th, 2013
4:30 pm

One of the reasons I’m laughing is because every time I see TP, I think of toilet paper.

Single and Happy

September 6th, 2013
4:31 pm

Leggs, hmm seems you do know, is there something you want to tell us (LOL)

Celisea

September 6th, 2013
4:32 pm

Leggs – The crowd was going berzerk. IA friend sent to me. I’m going through emails and was like whoa. Wonder why they needed 1MM when it’s such a huge church with huge membership? Just wondering

YesSheIsCute

September 6th, 2013
4:32 pm

@SH I guess it’s sweet. I only say it because I live far from my family (they are all in NYC) who have no problem telling you hey you getting too juicy stop. I’ve been there and I’ve been with a guy who had weight fluctuations. Ultimately you responsible for your own weight gain/loss but if someone really cares how could they sit by and say nothing. That’s like your s/o seeing a growth on your arm getting blacker and hairier and more unsightly and not saying anything or suggesting you see a doctor. Really? I’ma say something…

Celisea

September 6th, 2013
4:33 pm

Leggs

September 6th, 2013
4:34 pm

Single ~ while typing all that, I said someone is going to ask if I’ve moved to the other side (lol).

Reio

September 6th, 2013
4:35 pm

Oh, ok. Cause I thought Teddy Pendergrass dropped dead a while back.

Single and Happy

September 6th, 2013
4:35 pm

I can see the medical reason, (which usually come after the weight gain) but I’m talking someone that just gains from eating. I know we all gain weight, but what is the limit?

Celisea

September 6th, 2013
4:37 pm

Reio – Quit playing! You knew the answer…lol

Celisea

September 6th, 2013
4:39 pm

Things that make you say hmmmmm

Did Michael (from Good Times) go on to become a lawyer?

Leggs

September 6th, 2013
4:39 pm

Ex would be proud of me for not answering since the question wasn’t directed to me!

Celisea

September 6th, 2013
4:39 pm

in t.v. land?

Reio

September 6th, 2013
4:39 pm

Leggs – No, but your explaination sure sounds a bit too informed. A bit too plausible to be chalked up to mere speculation.

Leggs

September 6th, 2013
4:40 pm

Not sure, but he did go on to get very sick.

Leggs

September 6th, 2013
4:41 pm

Reio ~ who cares…it’s pure speculation. I’ve always thought that’s some of the reasons a woman goes to a woman. And, I think my answer sounds quite plausible not speculative.

hrh

September 6th, 2013
4:41 pm

Leggs – I was kinda trying to guess who TP was too – lol

Single – I’ve observed that people who are big just from eating are usually with similar partners, so if both of them are getting juicy together, they probably don’t notice.

Celisea

September 6th, 2013
4:41 pm

Why was JJ always “beedy bee?” Why didn’t they ever come or blow out his fro? Why did it always look “tight” and napped up?

Single and Happy

September 6th, 2013
4:42 pm

Leggs answer kind of sounds like slim swinger answer (LOL) done did a lil sperimiting (LOL)

Celisea

September 6th, 2013
4:43 pm

Most woman on woman deals are defined as such….the reasoning that a woman can understand a woman better than a man (can understand a woman), that a woman is “in tune” and sensitive to another woman’s feelings…so forth and so on….

I’ve always heard that

Celisea

September 6th, 2013
4:44 pm

comb not come

Single and Happy

September 6th, 2013
4:45 pm

Leggs, but some of those “women” are more manly than any man will ever be. Don’t want to be looked at as a woman in anyway.

HRH whenever I see to overly obese people together with kids, makes you wonder how?? (LOL)

Let me stop that’s not nice.

Leggs

September 6th, 2013
4:45 pm

hrh ~ that’s even funnier.

Thanks Celisea ~ I’ve heard it too.

Leggs

September 6th, 2013
4:46 pm

Single ~ they may act more manly, but they’re still a woman.

Reio

September 6th, 2013
4:47 pm

Leggs – “And, I think my answer sounds quite plausible not speculative.”

Exactly. That’s why I said “A bit too plausible to be chalked up to mere speculation.” I hear ya though. Never thought about it in that way. Wonderful observation. Quite insightful.

YesSheIsCute

September 6th, 2013
4:49 pm

@SH if that’s the case (not medical) sounds like we need to go on that vegetarian/juicing fast and la fitness TOGETHER :)

Single and Happy

September 6th, 2013
4:52 pm

yes vegeterian/juicing, naw that aint happening (LOL) I needs my greesy fried foods (LOL)

Leggs

September 6th, 2013
4:53 pm

Reio ~ I’m laughing because I didn’t even see notice you used the word “plausible.” If I had I wouldn’t have said what I said (lol).

Leggs

September 6th, 2013
4:54 pm

Here’s a fabulous E.O.D.

A ship is desiged to take you places….so if your “friendSHIP, your companionSHIP, partnerSHIP or relationSHIP isn’t taking you anywhere…abandonSHIP”

hrh

September 6th, 2013
4:56 pm

My two cents on the woman/woman thing – some of the ones who look and act like men….sometimes really think they are men..lol…..ijs!

Fabulous weekend to all!

Reio

September 6th, 2013
4:56 pm

Leggs – Here, here!

Single and Happy

September 6th, 2013
4:59 pm

Leggs, so shape up or ship out (LOL)

Single and Happy

September 6th, 2013
5:00 pm

HRH you see my point. (LOL)

Celisea

September 6th, 2013
5:02 pm

Someone is asking if there’s still a WillieB at the zoo? Y’all remember him, big black silverback? Is that still an attraction? I know there’s was “WillieB” years ago, not sure if the silverback is still named as such…

Oh well, so much for what I know. Imma tell them to look the zoo up online :mrgreen:

Have a fantab weekend, I know I will…night!!

Leggs

September 6th, 2013
5:02 pm

Single ~ YEP!! I like that.

Leggs

September 6th, 2013
5:04 pm

WillieB died.

MsAtl

September 6th, 2013
5:05 pm

Hey All!

Out on vacay for a few. Have a good time.

Single and Happy

September 6th, 2013
5:07 pm

Have fun MsATL

MsAtl

September 6th, 2013
5:08 pm

Thanks Single.

Celisea

September 6th, 2013
5:09 pm

Awwww, such a shame the name “Willie” was so fitting for that Silverback….hmpfh. We talked about that beast for years, when I lived near the park. Oh well, I’m sure they’ll enjoy the zoo just as well.

Toodles

Leggs

September 6th, 2013
5:10 pm

Have fun, get some rest!