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Swing my way

If you didn’t already know that Atlanta was Reality TV Capital of the South, you should know now:  TV producers LOVE filming here.  The latest foray in Atlanta “reality” on television is about the secret sex lives of swingers.

As I read about the upcoming series, I remembered the guy I met a long time ago through online dating.   I was so excited about him until he explained exactly what he was looking for: a wife. A wife who would also be his swinging partner. Without getting too graphic, he basically wanted his wife to pick someone out to bring home and enjoy. Um, yeah NO.

This caught me off guard because up until that point, this guy was a home owner, entrepreneur, and a devout Christian.  At least that is the image that he projected to me.  I had a preconceived idea about what a swinger was – and he was not it at all.

What would you do if your date asked how open you were to swinging?

My apologies for yesterday! I did not set the blog correctly.  Bad blogger, I know!

by Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta

244 comments Add your comment

Adam

September 6th, 2013
2:36 pm

Swingers = Whores = diseased ridden, enough said. But if that’s your cup of tea, more power to you, just stay away from me I really don’t need a gift that keeps on giving.

MsAtl

September 6th, 2013
2:38 pm

2C- I am not in the DA’s Office. Why, do they pay more???

MsAtl

September 6th, 2013
2:39 pm

Reio

September 6th, 2013
2:39 pm

Durty – ”Leggs…Reio fell to mentioned how many he nailed before married became the goal….”

Actually, I’ve always wanted to be married. Very early in my life(teens/20s), I tried the same sh!t that other fellas tried. But I realized that I would be standing/sitting with them in a social setting, see the same things they were seeing, but not feel as excited and horny as they seemed to. I would imagine myself with these women, but almost immediately, imagine the “What now?” or “What’s next?” aspect of it all. That’s the part that bothered me. In addition to having a burning desire to be married, coupled with the fact that I would very much not want to hurt any of them, or cause them to cry, I, for the most part, abstained from that kind of behavior and would laugh and marvel at the guys that did.

Leggs

September 6th, 2013
2:43 pm

hrh ~ I know..just messing with you.

SlimNu

September 6th, 2013
2:44 pm

2C – Only if you use a bag of cotton or silk. lol

Leggs – Did you see that guy that was dayum near 600lbs on tv a few weeks ago? He could not even stand to stand up without pain, long enough for them to try to weigh him. I didn’t get to see the whole thing but that’s crazy. So i’m certain he has to just be pooping and peeing on himself. His wife has to do errrrythang!

2CPTG©

September 6th, 2013
2:47 pm

Ms. Atl…..I’m sure the DA’s office don’t pay as much as private practice…..

Leggs

September 6th, 2013
2:48 pm

Reio ~ I’ve explained all that to him…lolol. Seriously, was waiting for you to further clarify what I already said.

Leggs

September 6th, 2013
2:50 pm

SlimNu ~ I didn’t see it but I hear biggum stories all the time. It blows my mind, especially with there isn’t a medical issue, just pure liking food. But then again, is it ever just about the food. Some underlying issue somewhere.

Reio

September 6th, 2013
2:52 pm

Leggs – “Just heard Reuben Studdard (Am. Idol) now weighs 462 lbs and will be on Biggest Loser.”

Well,you know he’s from here(Birmingham), and I know one of his uncles. So, I’ll talk to him and see what he says. I hope not. Good gracious! 462 lbs.? Dayum!

Single and Happy

September 6th, 2013
2:53 pm

hmm you think had they not took the money CC and iphone this would have been okay (LOL)

http://chicago.cbslocal.com/2013/09/05/woman-charged-with-raping-man-bond-set-at-75k/

Sassy Me ;-)

September 6th, 2013
2:54 pm

His wife has to do errrrythang!

First and foremost I’d like to know how/why he got that damn big and didn’t to ANYthing about it? Iff’n he can’t get up and cook who’s enabling him?!..his wife..the same person that has to wash/dry/wipe your a$$. I have NO sympathy for either of them.

Unless you’ve got some type of glandular/medical problem that causes you to balloon that big…why do it?

MsAtl

September 6th, 2013
2:57 pm

Single- Well that was weird…

Single and Happy

September 6th, 2013
2:57 pm

Damn, how does a person let themself get that big. that’s easy, no exercise except those arm curls with that drumstick. Find every excuse in the world not to do it.

Reio

September 6th, 2013
3:01 pm

Sassy –
“First and foremost I’d like to know how/why he got that damn big and didn’t to ANYthing about it?”

Too much Krispy Kreme and Black Walnut ice cream will do it to ya every time.

hrh

September 6th, 2013
3:01 pm

Single – that’s diferent , maybe not because he may be thinking of catching an std or getting the chick pregnant

Single and Happy

September 6th, 2013
3:04 pm

Too much Krispy Kreme and Black Walnut ice cream will do it to ya every time. you can have those things, just eat them while running around the block.

HRH, now that would be interesting, and he still would probably have to pay child support.

Leggs

September 6th, 2013
3:09 pm

I read the entire article smdh…just weird and strange. He ran to a cab, had enough time to get a pic of license plate, why didn’t they speed off when his foot first hit concrete?

Reio

September 6th, 2013
3:09 pm

Single – The article didn’t say what they made him do. Wonder did he stick his thang in her? His tongue in her? Did he have to kiss her? Did she make him go anal? How did he pay the cab driver, if all of his cards and cash were taken? While driving him, did the cabbie take a quick look at his thang? If so, did he catch the cabbie looking at his thang? Did he gi……….Too many unanswered questions.

Leggs

September 6th, 2013
3:09 pm

Wait, they were stuck in traffic. They also left the door unlock for him to run….whatever!

hrh

September 6th, 2013
3:12 pm

Single – exactly, but I can’t imagine a woman doing all that some stuff…even on a slow day…it still sounds a little fishy to me!

Starbucks run…..anyone up for a latte?

Single and Happy

September 6th, 2013
3:14 pm

reio, are you working today (LOL)

Leggs

September 6th, 2013
3:14 pm

Reio ~ a stalled career can do it too.

Single and Happy

September 6th, 2013
3:17 pm

sounds like ole boy just didn’t want to pay (LOL)

Single and Happy

September 6th, 2013
3:17 pm

sounds like ole boy just didn’t want to pay (LOL)

Leggs

September 6th, 2013
3:17 pm

Reio ~ thanks for the questions. I forgot to comment on him running to cab nekkid..

Reio

September 6th, 2013
3:18 pm

Single – Yes. But it’s payday Friday. Nobody gives a sh!t. Not much happening. Half of’em are about to ease out the door anyway.

Single and Happy

September 6th, 2013
3:23 pm

Reio, with all those thoughts that be going threw your head (hmmmm) LOL

YesSheIsCute

September 6th, 2013
3:25 pm

@hrh I love latte macchiatos! Get me one with a cookie please :D

SlimNu

September 6th, 2013
3:26 pm

Sassy – from the little bit I saw, they did admit to their co-dependency….the wife actually was beginning to get annoyed with the folks that came to help her husband. I think part of her liked feeling like he had to depend on her. It’s one thing to clean a dirty baby butt, but a grown arse man’s azz???? Um… :shock:

Reio

September 6th, 2013
3:30 pm

While driving, Did the cab stank?, Was the air conditioning running?, Was there a towel or Kleenex to wipe his thang off?, DID he wipe his thang off?, If so, where did he put the towel or Kleenex afterwards? Did anybody see him exit the cab nekkid? Where were his house keys? Did someone let him in? If so, the person that let him in, are they now suffering from post traumatic stress disorder?, Is HE suffering from post traumatic stress disorder?, Is the cabbie suffering from post traumatic stress disorder? Just wondering

Celisea

September 6th, 2013
3:36 pm

No way I’m going back to read all of four pages…lol

Umm, how does a man get raped? I mean I’m a grown woman that lived with a man, have had bfs over the years, currently booed and have an 18 yo, but don’t you have to be aroused??? How you “take” something from a dude that’s limp? How do you get aroused under duress/???

Maybe I’ve been wrong all these years

Reio

September 6th, 2013
3:40 pm

Put a loaded gun to my head, even I might be able to get it up eventually. Better that, than my brains splattered all over the windows. Jus sayin.

hrh

September 6th, 2013
3:47 pm

Reio – you’re just determined to ask all your questions today – lol

Leggs

September 6th, 2013
3:49 pm

Reio ~ I’m thinking the same thing re: gun, but thought it best for a man to say it.

Sassy Me ;-)

September 6th, 2013
3:50 pm

It’s one thing to clean a dirty baby butt, but a grown arse man’s azz???? Um…

Okkk?! Unless he’s handicapped somehow I AIN’T doing it!! Then it’s a great big old, funky, creased up, I know I can’t/won’t get everything outta here type of a$$,too…umm hellz nawl..

I think part of her liked feeling like he had to depend on her.

Get a puppy/cat/rabbit/gerbil/hamster/gold fish…

Reio

September 6th, 2013
3:57 pm

hrh – Got a lot of questions about a full range of issues. But, people that know me, will tell you, that I have, what I believe to be, solutions to those questions/problems as well. Thank you very much. Hehehehe……

Reio

September 6th, 2013
4:03 pm

By the way; DAWGS ain’t sh!t!! Gonna git clipped tomorrow too. South Carolina ain’t no joke.

Leggs

September 6th, 2013
4:05 pm

SassyMe ~ you’ve been hawking those experiment lab animals for quite some time now…nobody wants them after you’ve poked and probed (rofl).

SlimNu

September 6th, 2013
4:10 pm

Sassy – My idea of getting his butt cleaned would be to spray it on high with the garden hose. lolol

I don’t feel like doing anything when I get off work….straight bum mode

Single and Happy

September 6th, 2013
4:16 pm

So would any of you ladies stay with your man if he gained that kind of weight? Is that a limit to how much he can gain?

Celisea

September 6th, 2013
4:20 pm

Someone sent me a link with TP laying hands and donating 1MM to TD Jakes… :shock: I didn’t know he was called to preach/lay hands.

Celisea

September 6th, 2013
4:21 pm

He’s speaking in tongues and “preaching!!!” Like speaking in tongues!!!

hrh

September 6th, 2013
4:23 pm

SIngle – unless it’s a medical problem, I probably would – especially if I’m trying to keep myself appealing! physical attraction is important in a relationship so when it gets to that point where the attraction is gone, not good!

Leggs

September 6th, 2013
4:24 pm

Single and Happy

September 6th, 2013
4:24 pm

Hrh, so would you have certain spots marked on the scale. (LOL)

Leggs

September 6th, 2013
4:25 pm

Celisea ~ they played a clip of him speaking in tongues on the radio yesterday saying God told him to donate $1M. He didn’t know what for and when he got on stage he found out they were trying to raise $1M.

YesSheIsCute

September 6th, 2013
4:26 pm

@SH I would stay…but I feel like as someone who cares, you need to know when to tell them “HEY push away from the table”. I mean there’s no nice way to say to your s/o that you’re gaining weight but at the same time it’s something that needs to be said. There is no reason why someone is letting you gain a lot of weight. I would appreciate it my s/o said something if I were gaining a lot of weight all of a sudden and I definitely would do it as well. Obviously there’s a a problem (be it medical or otherwise) and we need to resolve it.

Single and Happy

September 6th, 2013
4:26 pm

Okay, why do women get with women that look and act like dudes, why not get a man?

Leggs

September 6th, 2013
4:27 pm

hrh, I’m like you, if I’m trying to keep myself appealing I don’t see any reason why you shouldn’t. If it’s medical, then we would have to work through it, but I’m going to do everything in my power to make sure your a$$ doesn’t get as big as the house!