I just had one of the best break ups. It was a long time coming so there really was no big surprise. I guess being old as I am has it benefits when it comes to dating. There is less fighting, bitterness, or revenge plots! Ending on good terms is more likely when folks are mature.
I wondered what it would take to have all break ups go this well. Sometimes the actual break up is just a formality. When you have already seen the writing on the wall, saying it loud just seems like the natural next step. I still wonder why some of my exes opted to take the ridiculous route and cause unnecessary pain in breaking up.
Why is it so hard to break up and end on a good note? Staying calm, deciding to be friends and actually mean it, and wishing each other the best – is that really so hard?
Are you still friends with your exes? Is ending on good terms normal for you?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog