My friend Chris has been seeing someone for a couple of weeks. They have hooked up in the past and did the casual dating thing last year. This time, she told him that she wanted to “try the couple thing” which means she now has relationship status on her mind.
I have yet to see or hear of any hook up- turned relationship transition that did not result in some kind of misunderstanding, hurt feelings, or major ego blows. It is pretty common when you try to go from booty call to boyfriend/girlfriend. It seems as if there will always be some kind of drama. It’s just the way that it goes!
So far Chris is pleased with how the couple thing is going for them. He did call a penalty on her for doing a pop up visit to his house. That is when a woman shows up to his place unannounced, uninvited, and totally unexpected. MAJOR point deduction, according to Chris. He did not like the attitude she had when she did a “spot check” on him and he wondered if this is what she is really like in a relationship (Um. YES). He wondered if she has some kind of trust issues. I wonder if HE has trust issues, though.
What is wrong with the woman you are seeing coming by unannounced? How comfortable do you have to be with someone before you are cool with a pop up visit from them?
I mean, if you have nothing to hide, what’s the problem?
What do you think? Do pop up visits to your house, friend’s house, or known hang out spots bother you?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog