One of our readers wants to get some advice on how to get more dates. She admits that her look is conservative and it is usually her friends that get the most attention from men. She doesn’t show a lot of skin and she does not feel comfortable being provocative. She is worried that she does not have the right look to attract men.
I am not a fan of pretending to be someone that you are not just to attract someone. Eventually, your true self emerges and the person starts to wonder why you changed things up. Being authentic and true to who you are is paramount in dating.
I suggest finding people with common interests and similar values so that you are not worried so much about attracting someone based solely on your looks. What do you think? Do you think that having the right look plays a major role in dating? If you saw someone you were attracted to, what would you do if they had on the “wrong” clothes or their image was not what you are usually attracted to?
Should we even worry about fixing something so superficial as our image to attract dates?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog