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Dating: Do they excite you?

The best part of a new romance is getting all those butterflies in the stomach sensations.   That period of time when a text message or phone call from them can send your heart racing.  When you don’t know too much about someone but you know enough about them that makes you excited to see them again.  Do you know what I’m talking about?

I wish that kind of feeling lasts forever. Alas, it fades away eventually but it is replaced with a deeper connection.  I think that you always want to be excited when you see that special person.  It is that attraction and chemistry that so many of us get hooked by.

What do you do if they don’t excite you, though?  Some people prefer to have a comfortable, practical relationship that doesn’t really get your heart racing.  Is that a smart way to date? Is it safer?

If you are dating someone now, do they excite you?  Do you think they feel the same way about you?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

205 comments Add your comment

Mrs. SexyCool

August 20th, 2013
7:02 am

Blessed that M still excites me….most of the time. (lol)

And I appreciate the deeper connection and the comfortable, practical part of our relationship as well.

Lee

August 20th, 2013
7:05 am

They excite you because it is a wonderful feeling to feel wanted by someone you really like.

Have a great day.

CoolShadow

August 20th, 2013
8:06 am

Fireworks and racing pulses or comfortable and practical? This reminds me of the analogy with the tortoise and the hare (slow and steady wins the race?). It doesn’t necessarily have to be an either/or thing, you could maybe have both.

The deal with comfortable and practical is sometimes it can get stale and predictable but it’s up to the involved parties’ creativity to keep it interesting. Also, it sometimes can be underestimated and underappreciated until it’s lost and unrecoverable.

Button

August 20th, 2013
8:09 am

If you are dating someone now, do they excite you? Yes, Although my relationship is not new, the excitment is still there. We greet each other everyday with a hug and a kiss it sets the tone for peace.

Do you think they feel the same way about you? I just called him and asked him this question, and he does.
I also love the deeper connection/bond we have.

I love it when I think about him and next thing I know I get a text from him with sweet words…so sweet!

Good morning!

Durty Burd

August 20th, 2013
8:35 am

Good Morning!

Kudos to Lee for a positive blog comment today!!!! What it do LEE? :smile:

Dating should be exciting, at the same time you should always keep your eyes open! Comfortable and practical will come in once you start seeing each other everyday…
Button I like what is going on with you and the SO, see Blog ladies even the crazies like Button can snag a future hubby..there is hope…

Button

August 20th, 2013
8:53 am

Durty – back handed compliments will get you 3 pennies.

Durty Burd

August 20th, 2013
9:10 am

Button I meant that wilh love and affection. :wink:

Dating is meant to be enjoyed, throw caution to the wind and enjoy the time spent. Even though you may not make a luv connection, make the best of the situation and enjoy the moment…

Lady~

August 20th, 2013
9:20 am

disco

August 20th, 2013
9:21 am

good morning.

button – lol. just giggling that you called to confirm. lol.

2CPTG©

August 20th, 2013
9:23 am

g’morning….

sat out yesterday while y’all blogged away ’bout nonsensical marriage contracts, and what not….

but ummm, yeah, dating should be exciting, if not, seems to me like you’re wasting time….even if your goal is to smash, still should be exciting….ain’t the saying some’n like, “it ain’t the destination, but the journey;” the journey of dating should give you the warm fuzzies….

Mrs. SexyCool

August 20th, 2013
9:27 am

And speaking of the tortoise and the hare….just like that…the love gush is interrupted.

Bad run this morning. We did three miles. I run three to four times a week. This was M’s first run since the Peachtree. Needless to say, his conditioning is off a bit. I got frustrated at not being able to run at my normal pace.

But…I am going to be grateful that I have a spouse that is willing to run with me, even though it’s not the most exciting for him. And I will work on being patient during our runs together and take the lesson that it’s not always about the time, it’s about the fact that we actually finish.

disco

August 20th, 2013
9:28 am

SC – lol. did you at least trash talk?

MsAtl

August 20th, 2013
9:32 am

Morning All!

I like both the butterflies and the calm and comfortable. I had both in the last relationship. I hope to have both in the next.

Mrs. SexyCool

August 20th, 2013
9:33 am

disco – that would have made it worse.

Two hours later, he has just started back talking to me. ;-)

disco

August 20th, 2013
9:36 am

SC – that’s funny. I try to run every other day or every third day if I get caught up. dude said to me last night that maybe he’ll come watch me run today. I don’t know if that was supposed to sound supportive or what but I was just like really? watch me run? how about you get some business? lol.

atl – now I’m hearing marsha ambrosia’s butterfly remake in my head.

SlimNu

August 20th, 2013
9:39 am

Mrs. SC – It’s funny you mentioned you and hubs running together. On my way to work I saw a couple running together and it made me smile to myself. At the same time, it would be nice to have a partner to do those sorts of things together. Mr Agent man worked out at least 3 times a week but he took advantage of their gym at work. So we never worked out together…

Mrs. SexyCool

August 20th, 2013
9:41 am

Watch you run? Um…..interesting…

MsAtl

August 20th, 2013
9:44 am

Disco- I had to youtube it. Now I remember it…

Leggs

August 20th, 2013
9:44 am

I don’t think the feeling has to subside. It should be a heartwarming vibe you get when you see your SO’s name come across the phone or you hear his or her voice. To feel anything other than that has to be uncomfortable wondering where is this relationship going or do I even want to be here. When you are unnerved seeing his/her name or the sound of his/her voice, there are deeper problems.

Good morning!

Button

August 20th, 2013
9:52 am

disco – lol

Exiled

August 20th, 2013
10:06 am

Dating: Do they excite you?

….Dating..thats make believe.

Once u know each other and wake up with her/him everyday….its real.
Make belief is gon…

Now u seeing the real person and u holla at her,”Flush the toilet please!”

Excitement is over!

Morning MIA!

disco

August 20th, 2013
10:06 am

random (but interesting – lol) – so dinner last night was regular but there was a donut sundae on the menu. can’t speak for y’all but I’d never seen/had a donut sundae so I had to order one. it was fresh fried donut holes with fruit, ice cream and whipped cream. it was good. very comparable to the churros I usually get at Mexican restaurants.

Celisea

August 20th, 2013
10:08 am

Once u know each other and wake up with her/him everyday….its real.
Make belief is gon…

Now u seeing the real person and u holla at her,”Flush the toilet please!”

Excitement is over

LOLOLOLOL…Keeping it real….Guud one

Celisea

August 20th, 2013
10:09 am

I should have said….”Meelloo said” in my copy and paste at 10:08…that was funny to me

Durty Burd

August 20th, 2013
10:13 am

SexyCool….Now, Now temper that temper, u are blessed to have a husband who does work-out with you!…The ladies that I have dated, that worked out with me helped to enhanced our relationship…. Don’t take it for granted…

Disco easy on those churros and donut sundae! lol

Miss Moni

August 20th, 2013
10:14 am

GOOD Tuesday Morning MIA!!! :-)

I’m not currently dating anyone, probably because I haven’t come across a guy that excites me yet, LOL!!!

-Mrs. SexyCool I do like to see couples running, walking, jogging together. There’s an older couple in my neighborhood that walks together in the evenings and everytime I see them, they’re holding hands & smiling.

Durty Burd

August 20th, 2013
10:15 am

Celisea do you want get married?
Quit playing I know you want to wake-up every morning next to a warm body because your body is always cold…. :smile:

Celisea

August 20th, 2013
10:17 am

Durty – LOLOLOL..I’m laughing at the “cause your body is always cold” comment.

SlimNu

August 20th, 2013
10:19 am

Have ya’ll ever been in a relationship or dated a person that was WAAAAAY more into you than you were them? If you looked at all your past r’ships in general, were you the one that was less into the person or more into them than they were you?

disco

August 20th, 2013
10:23 am

DB – whatever. if the universe was fair I’d be laid up like gilbert grape’s momma. lol.

slim – why you making folks take a good look at themselves this morning? lol.

Button

August 20th, 2013
10:32 am

SlimNu- good question —- I’ve been on both fronts. I don’t think two ppl like/love each other equally or fall inlove at the same time. I think that’s a given in any relationship, one will be more into it than the other. butttt one should never be or feel taken for granted.

SlimNu

August 20th, 2013
10:32 am

disco – lolol Woke up listening to Michaels, Man in the Mirror :lol:

Durty Burd

August 20th, 2013
10:32 am

Look slimnu when we start dating I am going to be way into you then you would be into me…But since you are going to take it out on me, I am willing to bare this burden….My gift to society! hehehehehe!

I have been on both sides! Where I was mentally was the key factor when I was not into them as much as they were into me…

Leggs

August 20th, 2013
10:36 am

Have ya’ll ever been in a relationship or dated a person that was WAAAAAY more into you than you were them? Yes, he became irksome to me. He was much older and a fuddy duddy as he became more comfortable with me. Never understood why men do things with women they have no intention of continuing to do. Disregard that because I do know why.

If you looked at all your past r’ships in general, were you the one that was less into the person or more into them than they were you? I had one where I was more into him than he was into me and I suffered a little as a result of it. You live and you learn.

SlimNu

August 20th, 2013
10:41 am

I’m enjoying you all’s response….

when we start dating I am going to be way into you then you would be into me

Durty – Um, I’m not sure if I was supposed to read between those lines or not…i’m sure swiss feels me on that lol And where is my pic anyway?

Durty Burd

August 20th, 2013
10:46 am

SlimNu u ain’t ready for this! SlimNu do you want to give it another shot with the EX? Maybe it’s time for a reuniting!

SlimNu

August 20th, 2013
11:02 am

Durty – Sounds like you’ve caught cold feet, hmmm

Single and Happy

August 20th, 2013
11:08 am

Hey all

I was always excited to see/talk to my s/o, just a sap like that. even after things got bad.

Celisea

August 20th, 2013
11:10 am

Ummmm, who is checking their boo for their “like-o-meter”….lol I remember having leverage and who likes whom the most, as being a big deal years ago. Not so much now. You just love each other, have each other’s back and do right by one another. Doesn’t matter to me, as long as you’re stand-up, showing up and manning up….lol

Don’t need leverage when it’s all good…got no time fa dat!!!

Celisea

August 20th, 2013
11:13 am

And if it is I (picture Shakespeare) that loveth more, then letteth me buyeth him roses and bringeth him an edible arrangement to feedeth to him :mrgreen:

Celisea

August 20th, 2013
11:15 am

LOLOLOLOLOL….hahahahaha I’m going for lunch. Didn’t get breakfast cause I got downtown late and I have a splitting….

I’m being silly today!!

SlimNu

August 20th, 2013
11:16 am

Celisea – I wasn’t asking in the realm of checking a boo for the like o meter….was just really being general in the like. But anyhoo…

Celisea

August 20th, 2013
11:21 am

Slim – Just having fun :)

SlimNu

August 20th, 2013
11:24 am

Button

August 20th, 2013
11:25 am

Single — awww yous get sappy huh

Leggs

August 20th, 2013
11:30 am

I laughed at the edible arrangement, because my mind went left like SlimNu’s 10:41.

Mrs. SexyCool

August 20th, 2013
11:54 am

Just heard Anthony Hamilton’s “Amazing” – Love glow is back. (lol)

Leggs

August 20th, 2013
12:05 pm

Has anyone seen Toni Braxton’s waldrobe malfunction. I was stunned as to why her handlers or the people standing behind her did not help. Her flashing further stunned me. I was disappointed on many levels.

SlimNu

August 20th, 2013
12:07 pm

Leggs – I have not heard about Toni’s malfunction but my uncle & aunt saw her recently and he got a pic with her. They were seated in the 5th row back. Looks like he had a blast. lol I didn’t even think she was really performing anywhere these days

Leggs

August 20th, 2013
12:20 pm

I’ll send you the link. I was :shocked: :shocked: and then :shocked:

Leggs

August 20th, 2013
12:22 pm

And the guys who got on stage should have been gentlemanly enough and make her aware. One did, but after he danced a little with her.

Single and Happy

August 20th, 2013
12:44 pm

Yea button, I’m sappy like that, I’ll call just to say hey, so I can hear their voice :-)

Slim I may be more into them, (but that is from my point of view) I just like to make them happy.

Leggs

August 20th, 2013
12:49 pm

“just to say hey, so I can hear their voice” – this reminds me of two guys who told me they call my voicemail at work just to hear my voice. I was stunned that people do that (or the two of them did that). One was married, but is now divorced and the other one is just selfish

Single and Happy

August 20th, 2013
12:53 pm

Leggs didn’t she have on a body suit?

Button

August 20th, 2013
1:05 pm

Single – even if she sound like Michel’le? her voice reeks me.

Leggs

August 20th, 2013
1:09 pm

Single ~ the fact that she had on a leotard that was flesh tone and apparently made out of the sheerest of fabrics doesn’t excuse anything. Her butt was visibly seen body suit or not. The fact that the material was so sheer makes her outfit more acceptable?

Single and Happy

August 20th, 2013
1:11 pm

Button, if I’m with her and she sounds like Michel’le, I must like it. but I think that voice would drive me crazy.(LOL)

Leggs, voice mail won’t do :-)

Single and Happy

August 20th, 2013
1:14 pm

Leggs, acceptable? depends on who’s doing the accepting, if she liked it I loved it. but I was thinking more along the lines of that’s probably why she didn’t notice it.

Leggs

August 20th, 2013
1:19 pm

To have young kids at home no woman should be flashing on stage, leotard or not teasing the audience on that particular level. Just my thought, but of course to each their own!

Single, voice mail wont do, I agree (lol).

Single and Happy

August 20th, 2013
1:22 pm

Leggs, there you go judging (lmao)

SlimNu

August 20th, 2013
1:26 pm

School shooting…awaiting details….in Dekalb county

Leggs

August 20th, 2013
1:28 pm

Single, yes, I am. We all judge. Some more than others. I realize I’ve placed my standards onto her malfunction, but it wasn’t so much the malfunction but the fact that her “people” didn’t do anything or try to get her attention.

Single and Happy

August 20th, 2013
1:31 pm

Leggs, I don’t judge (why is my nose growing?0 (LOL) well I try not to judge (LOL)

Button

August 20th, 2013
1:37 pm

My husband has been self-conscious about his crooked front teeth his whole life so he finally went to get it fixed To my surprise he returned home from the orthodontist with gold-colored braces decorated with rhinestones. This is something called a “grill” and is very popular with rap musicians and professional athletes. My husband is a 42-year-old software engineer . At first I thought it might be some kind of a joke. He says he loves them and they make him feel sexy. What can I say to him to convince him to go back to the orthodontist and have these things replaced with something an adult should wear?

Single and Happy

August 20th, 2013
1:41 pm

gold-colored braces decorated with rhinestones. roflmao!!!!

Beautiful

August 20th, 2013
1:42 pm

hi everyone!

SIngle… I truly think we’re blog twins. what Single said!

Leggs

August 20th, 2013
1:45 pm

Single ~ I try not to too, but it happens. We are only human and we all make quick observations of the stimuli in front of us.

Button ~ I realize it’s not April 1st, but tell me this is a joke. I’m cracking up at a grown man wearing a “grill” like that one. Aww, the visual….

Leggs

August 20th, 2013
1:47 pm

“He says he loves them and they make him feel sexy.” – On that note, he may bring something different to your bed. He’s stroked his on ego which elevates his confidence. So many sexual innuendos in there, but I didn’t mean any of it that way.

Button

August 20th, 2013
1:48 pm

Single – I lol when I read @ gold-colored braces decorated with rhinestones too, the unmitigated gall of him to walk around blinging like that from the mouth!

Leggs

August 20th, 2013
1:48 pm

McNair Elementary…no one hurt.

Leggs

August 20th, 2013
1:50 pm

“I lol when I read @ gold-colored braces decorated with rhinestones too, ”

Button was that while you were typing it or after it was retyped by Single (lol).

SlimNu

August 20th, 2013
1:51 pm

I just saw that Midtown Restaurant Week is going to be Sep 7 – 15, 2013….

Button

August 20th, 2013
1:52 pm

Leggs – He also said— that the people he encounters smile when they see them and he is not having them removed…. his self esteem got a high boost.

Single and Happy

August 20th, 2013
1:53 pm

Leggs, now I thought of buttons question about Michl’le, I can just imagine we doing it hard and she start to talk durty, boy talk about a buzz kill, (LOL)

Button

August 20th, 2013
1:53 pm

Leggs – I was co signing Single.

Mrs. SexyCool

August 20th, 2013
1:53 pm

Button – I see that you read Dear Prudence as well. I heart that chick. I miss Dear Margo.

Single and Happy

August 20th, 2013
1:55 pm

button, are they smiling cause they like them, or are they smiling because they’re trying not to laugh? remember the scene from I’m gonna get you sucka, when ole boy got out of jail, walking down the street with the fish shoes (lmao)

Single and Happy

August 20th, 2013
1:56 pm

beautiful, wonder twin powers activate (LOL)

Leggs

August 20th, 2013
1:57 pm

Got it Button.

I love that song, McNicety (something like that).

Button

August 20th, 2013
1:57 pm

Mrs SexyCool – I’ve been busted…lmao! I love her column too.

MsAtl

August 20th, 2013
1:58 pm

Button- I saw that letter. Hilarious!

Single and Happy

August 20th, 2013
2:03 pm

dang button, you had me going (LOL) going to have throw a blog flag on that one (LOL)

Button

August 20th, 2013
2:07 pm

Single – I would think they were laughing at him. I know I would maybe not in his face

MsAtl

August 20th, 2013
2:10 pm

Leggs- The dress was slipping off the entire time…

2CPTG©

August 20th, 2013
2:11 pm

so…………ummmm…………..

ain’t got nuttin!

Button

August 20th, 2013
2:11 pm

Single – you thought those stories were about me? lol my life isn’t that exciting. lol
heck I’m surprised it went thru, not too long ago I wasn’t able to post any of those stories.

Celisea

August 20th, 2013
2:15 pm

I just nodded in my meeting…got 45 minutes to go. I’m embarrassed…not sure if anyone saw me..

Beautiful

August 20th, 2013
2:15 pm

I hate reading the news, celebrity gossip! to hell with all of ‘em. Raz B’s coma was a hoax. that ni g g a got a album coming out soon. grrrrrrrr…. got me saying a silent prayer and sh**

Celisea

August 20th, 2013
2:19 pm

“an” album

Celisea

August 20th, 2013
2:19 pm

Did I see WillieD in here today? I have a question

Beautiful

August 20th, 2013
2:20 pm

thas strike two!

Button

August 20th, 2013
2:21 pm

Beautiful – lol most of it is to keep themselves relevant.

Mrs. SexyCool

August 20th, 2013
2:26 pm

Who is Raz B? (I know – I can Google it…lol)

Beautiful

August 20th, 2013
2:27 pm

Button… I honestly didn’t see that comin’.

Beautiful

August 20th, 2013
2:34 pm

SC… he was apart of the cutest boy group. i’m deleting all celebrity pages/news from my fb. I don’t have time to be giving myself emotionally to these ppl I don’t know. middle finga to ‘em. for jett Jackson to blow his brains out for no reason is just plain stupid. selfish bas tards!

rant is over!

SlimNu

August 20th, 2013
2:35 pm

I’m starting not to feel so good…waahhhh

Leggs

August 20th, 2013
2:35 pm

MsAtl ~ not sure why they didn’t ask her audience to wait a few minutes and they leave the stage to fix what needs fixing. Oh well….who the hell am I to talk anyway, I didn’t buy a ticket.

Mrs. SexyCool

August 20th, 2013
2:37 pm

B – I certainly agree that you should not be so emotionally involved.

Beautiful

August 20th, 2013
2:40 pm

I may have put that the wrong way. it’s human to react emotionally to something you read. but even for a second of my time is wasted time.

Leggs

August 20th, 2013
2:40 pm

“I don’t have time to be giving myself emotionally to these ppl I don’t know. middle finga to ‘em.” – Why are you doing that anyway. They don’t care about you, only your wallet (lol).

“for jett Jackson to blow his brains out for no reason is just plain stupid. selfish bas tards!” – You cannot say for “no reason.” You have no idea what demons were eating at his soul. I tend to think no one commits suicide “just because it’s something to do.” The reason my not be apparent to you, but please believe there’s a reason (even accidental, there’s a reason).

Celisea

August 20th, 2013
2:40 pm

Off topic:

Mine eyes have seen the glory!!! hahahahaha

Exiled

August 20th, 2013
2:44 pm

Who is Brett Jackson?

Anuther broke,out of the news C class celebrity?

Disco?

Have u given the after hours update for yesterday yet?
From the liqor store to the wall..

Celisea

August 20th, 2013
2:46 pm

I don’t know Brett Jackson….

What I do know is, I wouldn’t mind a few wings from Taco Mac…yuuuum Haven’t been there in a minute. Hmmm, might see if my boo wants to go.

Button

August 20th, 2013
2:49 pm

Exiled – Do you mean Jett Jackson, a character on a disney tv show? He had the prettyfullest brown eyes.

Leggs

August 20th, 2013
2:53 pm

Who is Brett Jackson? – I have no idea, but I do know who Jett Jackson is. By far a “broke,out of the news C class celebrity” – Whatever his class, he outclassed you.

Exiled

August 20th, 2013
2:54 pm

Button..yea him!

Why lamenting somebody who clearly wanted to go?

Leggs

August 20th, 2013
3:00 pm

Not lamenting, but why you blasting him?

Single and Happy

August 20th, 2013
3:10 pm

Leggs, here’s an advil for you.

Button

August 20th, 2013
3:11 pm

Ex- smh—go to a corner and face the wall oh and stand on one leg on your tippy toe…the pinky toe

Bluzgirl

August 20th, 2013
3:14 pm

Afternoon all!

I have had absolutely no time to look over comments, so I don’t even know what the current topic is! LOL!

I just wanted to come on here and tell you all that I felt that the interview went well and I just knew I would get a call with an offer. Well, first thing this morning, I read the rejection email. Bummed me out a bit. Oh well. I’m starting to think that God is telling me to get out of the banking industry and do what I set out to do initially, which is to change careers all together. I know I’m highly qualified to go to another bank or credit union, but I’m thinking it’s not in the cards for me. I need to take a step back and figure some things out…

Thanks for the good wishes yesterday!

Leggs

August 20th, 2013
3:15 pm

Single ~ I am laughing because I just told another friend that my hormones are out of whack and I needed to be medicated. Thanks. Too dang funny, yet on point!

Willie Dynamite

August 20th, 2013
3:16 pm

Afternoon all,
I gots nothin for topic. What else hapn? Let me read up a quick bit.

Leggs

August 20th, 2013
3:17 pm

Bluz ~ curious, what did you wear to your interview?

Button

August 20th, 2013
3:17 pm

I remember house hunting, I found this beautiful home out in E Cobb. the realtor told me “you don’t want that house”, I asked him why, it’s beautiful with all the bells and whistles I’m looking for. The price was very attractive blah blah blah. He turned to me looked me dead in my eyes and siad a guy commited suicide in there, blew his brains out, you DO NOT want that house.
I had a colleague who did the samething, blew his brains out while his wife was downstairs. She was cheating on him and about to leave him for another colleague.

Single and Happy

August 20th, 2013
3:18 pm

Leggs, while I’m not on team ex. what ever demons are eating at someones soul to make them take their life, now has their soul! It’s something that most will never understand, and there are some that do, but were able to over come them. I just think that when someone does that, we shouldn’t glorify them like it’s some tragic accident, because it’s not.

Beautiful

August 20th, 2013
3:19 pm

Bluz… there’s a saying (that i’m sure i’m gonna mess up LOL) life has doors, if there is no door build one!

Single and Happy

August 20th, 2013
3:20 pm

Leggs, you start that discussion with ex, more than your hormones would be out of whack (LOL)

Leggs

August 20th, 2013
3:27 pm

I’m certainly not glorifying his death, just remarking that he was tormented. I do believe that what ever demons got a person to commit sucide the demons have won and now have their soul. A soul that’s in transition without any of God’s light shining to show him the way.

You’re right, Single!

Bluzgirl

August 20th, 2013
3:29 pm

Leggs – I was dressed to impress, I think. Black slacks, nice blouse, black jacket, black shoes. Hair perfect, a little make up. I wonder if they already had someone they wanted to hire, but had to go through with the interview since it was set up. Who knows…

MsAtl

August 20th, 2013
3:32 pm

Bluz- Get out of the banking industry because you want to, not because of this interview.

Blog guys- All together now, say “OUCH!”
http://newsinfo.inquirer.net/469755/australian-lodges-fork-in-penis-for-sexual-pleasure

Bluzgirl

August 20th, 2013
3:32 pm

I think it’s terrible that the world has lost another young person to suicide. Famous or not, it is always sad to hear about.

Celisea

August 20th, 2013
3:34 pm

we shouldn’t glorify them like it’s some tragic accident, because it’s not.

A soul lost is always tragic…eternity has no end…

Bluzgirl

August 20th, 2013
3:34 pm

MsAtl – I originally decided I was going to look at other options outside of banking. It’s just so conservative. I just figured I’d go for it since I have 15 years experience. It’s really not my passion. I have to figure out how to follow my passions…

Leggs

August 20th, 2013
3:35 pm

MsAtl ~ I can’t even read that article, but it somewhat aligns with today’s topic (lol).

MsAtl

August 20th, 2013
3:38 pm

Bluz- Explore ways to put your banking experience to use doing something that you like to do, maybe consulting or some other capacity.

Beautiful

August 20th, 2013
3:39 pm

‘I never knew you; depart from Me, you who practice lawlessness!’

i’m continuing to think more and more like Him. you would of thunk it?

2CPTG©

August 20th, 2013
3:40 pm

I have to figure out how to follow my passions…

believe it or not, that’s the easy part….the hard part is getting paid for your passions!

Beautiful

August 20th, 2013
3:40 pm

**who… not you

Single and Happy

August 20th, 2013
3:40 pm

Leggs, I wasn’t talking about you, but like when Don Cornealious died, they were going on about him.

Beautiful

August 20th, 2013
3:42 pm

ppl change careers everyday. that’s the amazing thing about this life… no limits

Bluzgirl

August 20th, 2013
3:44 pm

2C – Yes…that is right. I have no idea how to make money at what I want to do! I need a sugar daddy! LOL

Single and Happy

August 20th, 2013
3:44 pm

bluz, the world didn’t lose anything, they decided their fate.

2CPTG©

August 20th, 2013
3:45 pm

I need a sugar daddy

diction error……you need a manager!

Beautiful

August 20th, 2013
3:46 pm

exactly Single!

Leggs

August 20th, 2013
3:47 pm

“I have no idea how to make money at what I want to do! I need a sugar daddy! LOL

You must not know or understand the role of a sugar daddy (rofl).

Leggs

August 20th, 2013
3:48 pm

:lol: :lol: You are so right, 2C!

Single and Happy

August 20th, 2013
3:50 pm

Leggs, she understands, and is getting paid for what she likes to do (LOL)

Bluzgirl

August 20th, 2013
3:52 pm

Ya’ll crazy! LOL!

Willie Dynamite

August 20th, 2013
3:52 pm

Cel- what’s up?

2can- since they talking suicides and whatnot we can hijack the blog for a lil cfb. Yo gamecocks got a small shot. If they beat GA (ugh). My gators still about a year away from washing that finesse from urban Meyer off.

Willie Dynamite

August 20th, 2013
3:54 pm

Where’s Disco

Beautiful

August 20th, 2013
3:56 pm

Willie D… is that football talk?! i’m excited about them Eagles. and I need help picking a college team.

Celisea

August 20th, 2013
3:56 pm

WillieD – Never mind…I got what I needed. Thanks, buddy!

Single and Happy

August 20th, 2013
3:59 pm

Willie D, comon back from dreamland (LOL)

Willie Dynamite

August 20th, 2013
3:59 pm

Cel- ok

B- pick someone local. Go with USC or UCLA. If you wanna go bandwagon then choose Stanford. If you wanna be let down then choose UGA.

Beautiful

August 20th, 2013
4:03 pm

i’m not one to go with the masses. I thought that was obvious lol. i’ll have to continue studying the teams. thx for your help

Leggs

August 20th, 2013
4:04 pm

If you wanna be let down then choose UGA.

Ummm, for some, those are definitely fighting words. I’m doubling back away from the tackle running to kimmie. I must block her before she goes bat isht crazy on these blog folk.

Leggs

August 20th, 2013
4:06 pm

“and I need help picking a college team.”

Here comes help: “pick someone local. Go with USC or UCLA. If you wanna go bandwagon then choose Stanford. If you wanna be let down then choose UGA.”

But then she quickly rebuffs such help

“have to continue studying the teams. thx for your help” – Comedy!

2CPTG©

August 20th, 2013
4:07 pm

Willie D, I’m actually a die hard Seminoles fan…..but our schedule won’t allow us to vault to #1; However, with the toughness of the SEC schedules, and where they’re currently ranked, (UGA 5, and USC 7), the winner of that game sits in the catbird seat as far as the rest of the season goes….adn should UGA beat Clemson AND the Gamecocks….I don’t see why they can’t jump to #2 behind Bama….

Beautiful

August 20th, 2013
4:10 pm

2… what college team should I support?

2CPTG©

August 20th, 2013
4:10 pm

Leggs……nice observation……bless she heart

2CPTG©

August 20th, 2013
4:12 pm

“2… what college team should I support?”

gal, that’s a personal thing! A decision based on a lot of factors….I can’t tell you which to team to root for….as Willie D said, go local…..

Willie Dynamite

August 20th, 2013
4:13 pm

B- I forgot you were special. In a good way lol

Leggs- I’m a Gator fan. Never been scared of ANYthing out of Athens.

2can- agreed, whose gon start at QB for FSU?

Mrs. SexyCool

August 20th, 2013
4:16 pm

Bluz – not getting a position that you were clearly qualified for and interviewed well for you may be a sign.

Door closes, window opens. Life is short….and all that jazz…

Beautiful

August 20th, 2013
4:16 pm

Leggs

August 20th, 2013
4:16 pm

Since she wasn’t born in Athens, you best be scared (lololol).

Beautiful

August 20th, 2013
4:19 pm

FSU is pretty good… hmmmmm. idk. I’ve gone this long without a team

Bluzgirl

August 20th, 2013
4:20 pm

Mrs. SC – That’s what I think. I prayed before the interview for God’s will to be done with that job. My prayer was answered, even if it wasn’t what I was hoping for…

Bluzgirl

August 20th, 2013
4:20 pm

GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO DAWGS!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WOOF WOOF!!!!!!!!!!

Leggs

August 20th, 2013
4:21 pm

Pure comedy for me.

Mrs. SexyCool

August 20th, 2013
4:26 pm

Last night, I dreamed that I was trying to keep my mom from finding out that I skipped school.

With that being said, tomorrow, I may take the day off work……..and do nothing.

Leggs

August 20th, 2013
4:27 pm

Dreams do come true (lol). You simply had a guilty conscious and regressed back to childhood (lol).

Beautiful

August 20th, 2013
4:29 pm

there’s this fb page called unbelievable facts. it is so funny. this one chick called 911 because mcdonalds ran out of mcnuggets lol. i’m giving up on folks daily.

Single and Happy

August 20th, 2013
4:31 pm

Beautiful, what teams do your sons like, where do they plan on going to college?

Beautiful

August 20th, 2013
4:32 pm

*Sunday night people in Detroit Area Were calling 911 because their cable went out and they couldn’t watch Breaking Bad*

LOL I hope this isn’t true.

read y’all later.

2CPTG©

August 20th, 2013
4:32 pm

Willie D…..a redshirt freshman—–Jameis Winston….a 2 sport stud…..trust me when I say this, dude will win a Heisman, and a Nat’l Championship for the Noles…..he’s that good!

Beautiful

August 20th, 2013
4:33 pm

SIngle… my oldest wants to attend Fresno, but ummm mom says no! lol.

Exiled

August 20th, 2013
4:34 pm

disco

August 20th, 2013
4:36 pm

I’m back…… lol.

ex – I did not make it to the liquor store. old boy decided he needed to change out all of my filters while he was there and, of course, I was out of filters. we made a trip to home depot and he paid way too much (in my opinion) for some filters. so I let the liquor slide (for now). I did however order drinks, dinner and dessert because that was the original bargain. lol.

single – re suicide. I only hate when people call them cowards. personally I think it’s quite brave. me hurt you? easy. me hurt me? not so easy. just me though.

Willie Dynamite

August 20th, 2013
4:37 pm

2can- yeah dude is a stud but they got the other dude (soph) that had a good spring as well. We’ll see but the sooner they start ole boy the better. He has IT from what I seen of him. I wanted him in Gville.

Single and Happy

August 20th, 2013
4:39 pm

why not beauty

Exiled

August 20th, 2013
4:40 pm

Disco…so dude is a good dude?

U like him? :lol:

What are his chances?

disco

August 20th, 2013
4:41 pm

SC – I dreamed I won $42.24 in a penny slot machine. and yes, I cashed out. lol.

disco

August 20th, 2013
4:42 pm

ex – dude is a good dude. we cool. he hasn’t a snowball’s chance.

Single and Happy

August 20th, 2013
4:43 pm

disco, I think they’re coward, because they want to take the easy way out rather than face life’s problems. The ONLY time I think it’s tragic is when a child does it.

Exiled

August 20th, 2013
4:44 pm

Damn!

@Disco…dude gets outta pocket….repeatedly.. but still no play…

disco

August 20th, 2013
4:47 pm

single – I’ve heard that argument and I get it. my argument is based on the actual follow through. that’s commitment right there and it’s pretty darned brave in my opinion. you’ve heard me clown some of the comical suicide attempts I’ve heard of. my cousin’s attempt to hang herself from an adjustable shower curtain rod and another chick overdosing on her kid’s chicken pox medicine. those chicks didn’t have follow through.

disco

August 20th, 2013
4:49 pm

ex – never mind. no comment.

Single and Happy

August 20th, 2013
4:50 pm

Disco, people that attempt suicide just want attention, people that are going to actually do it, don’t need and audience, and usually don’t announce it. I see what you’re saying also.

Leggs

August 20th, 2013
4:53 pm

It can’t be easy to hang yourself. That’s one that gets me…all that gagging and grasping becuase you may have changed your mind.

disco

August 20th, 2013
4:53 pm

single – again, we’re tracking. I’ve made the argument re the attention seekers as well. still, some folks really do give it the old college try. you ever hear stories of folks jumping from buildings or bridges or shooting themselves in the head and they still don’t die? I find myself thinking that’s messed up. not that they tried but that they failed after putting so much effort into it.

Exiled

August 20th, 2013
4:55 pm

@Disco…I think u are the apple of the town over there and every dude in ur lil 2 street lights city wants to be seen with u or be around you…and they’re prepared to get outta pocket like that …over and over again…and u take advantage.

Exiled

August 20th, 2013
4:57 pm

It’s easy to kill urself if u get a gun that’s good and u aim at the right body part.
@Leggs or get the right pesticide/herbicide!

:lol: kill urself!

Cowards don’t do their homework because they are not sure or seeking attention

2CPTG©

August 20th, 2013
4:59 pm

@Disco…I think u are the apple of the town over there and every dude in ur lil 2 street lights city wants to be seen with u or be around you…and they’re prepared to get outta pocket like that …over and over again…and u take advantage.

sure sounds like it…..

Single and Happy

August 20th, 2013
4:59 pm

Disco, yea that is messed up.

disco

August 20th, 2013
5:01 pm

ex – it’s okay. I understand that it might be difficult for you to accept what you can’t understand. lol. I ain’t doing nothing special. I ain’t running no fancy game. the average female has her share of “on call flunkies” not because we (the females) are all that but because y’all (the males) were cut out for the role. if you all weren’t so convinced that you could wear us down y’all wouldn’t play yourselves. and, I’m willing to put money on the fact that almost every man has been there. he may not have stayed there but he’s been there.

Leggs

August 20th, 2013
5:06 pm

Dayum, disco. I couldn’t quite verbalize it like that, but you are on point. Have to laugh at “on call flunkies” but I so understand. Especially those waiting in the wings thinking something will jump off eventually. They want to do for you because they feel it’s their way “in” only to still looking through the curtains standing outside.

Well said!

Single and Happy

August 20th, 2013
5:08 pm

whaccha talking bout disco

disco

August 20th, 2013
5:09 pm

thank you leggs

2CPTG©

August 20th, 2013
5:10 pm

Leggs, don’t believe that sh!t……cause if disco lives in the country like she says, then trust, word gets around…..you think dudes gon be lined up to keep breakin bread, if ain’t nothin poppin off? I can hear one scorned dude now, man, don’t fck wit that broad, she ain’t hittin on sh!t, all she wanna do is spend ya money, and ain’t gon’ shake nuttin….real talk, how many times does it take a dude to be suckered before he realizes he ain’t gon’ hit?

disco

August 20th, 2013
5:13 pm

2C – who said I was in the country? AND I’m sure country dudes get played just like city dudes do. PLUS not many grown men are going to spew that line you said because 1) it’s quite juvenile and 2) it shows that they aren’t on their game. they tried and failed. each and every man will look at that as if he’s the one who can hit, all the others were just chumps. lol.

2CPTG©

August 20th, 2013
5:13 pm

conversely……(which we’ll never know for sure), if she is breakin ‘em off, then those same cats will spill the beans as well…..man, shawty bout it….pay a bill or two, and you in there!

Leggs

August 20th, 2013
5:17 pm

you think dudes gon be lined up to keep breakin bread, if ain’t nothin poppin off? – Yep, I have one that has never touched me, but 20+ years later he’s still trying.

real talk, how many times does it take a dude to be suckered before he realizes he ain’t gon’ hit? – I’ve asked myself this question many times. You may not be that dude 2C but please believe they are out there.

Single and Happy

August 20th, 2013
5:18 pm

Leggs, are you sure we haven’t meet (LOL)

Leggs

August 20th, 2013
5:20 pm

disco ~ sticking with what I know and I know what you’re talking about. Who’s taking advantage of whom is not my concern.

2CPTG©

August 20th, 2013
5:21 pm

You may not be that dude 2C but please believe they are out there.

you’re right, cause “lame-dom” is foreign to me….not saying I’m that dude, but, I am sucka-free!!!! I’m sorry, but if I’m spending money on you, then naturally I got some kind of feelings….whether it’s lust, or genuine interest, I’m not gon keep “trying”…..even a fool knows when to quit.

Single and Happy

August 20th, 2013
5:21 pm

Leggs, for me, no one can take advantage, because it’s my money and I’ll do what the hell I want to with it.

Leggs

August 20th, 2013
5:23 pm

And I walk away or hangup laughing many a times! It is what it is….

2CPTG©

August 20th, 2013
5:25 pm

what kills me though, is if a dude came on here talking about his exploits with females, and how he breakin the bank, he’d be everything but a child of God….but it’s cool for y’all ladies, cause y’all like to see the shoe on the other foot….

Leggs

August 20th, 2013
5:25 pm

Then all is cool, Single!

My post was how so many of you feel disco is taken advantage of her numerous suitors. You said it, they’re grown and they know what they’re doing with their money and who they’re doing it with and with no hidden agenda they know exactly where she stands! So go for it if you think you bad enough to break whatever it is you think you’re qualified to break.

I’m laughig all the way to my car!

PEACE!

Leggs

August 20th, 2013
5:29 pm

but it’s cool for y’all ladies, cause y’all like to see the shoe on the other foot….

Yes indeed. Sometimes, it’s rather refreshing to see a woman have a heads up on a male. You guys aren’t always the smartest rock in the quarry!

Single and Happy

August 20th, 2013
5:30 pm

Leggs, I didn’t mean that in a sarcastic way.

Leggs

August 20th, 2013
5:32 pm

I didn’t read it with a sacrastic flare to it…just that there are some bad beyotches out there (lolol).

Leggs

August 20th, 2013
5:32 pm

On that note, enjoy the evening. Nite!

Single and Happy

August 20th, 2013
5:33 pm

Yes there are :-D and I love em (LOL)

SlimNu

August 20th, 2013
6:10 pm

I’m STILL at work….yay me….NOT