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Dating: Do they excite you?

The best part of a new romance is getting all those butterflies in the stomach sensations.   That period of time when a text message or phone call from them can send your heart racing.  When you don’t know too much about someone but you know enough about them that makes you excited to see them again.  Do you know what I’m talking about?

I wish that kind of feeling lasts forever. Alas, it fades away eventually but it is replaced with a deeper connection.  I think that you always want to be excited when you see that special person.  It is that attraction and chemistry that so many of us get hooked by.

What do you do if they don’t excite you, though?  Some people prefer to have a comfortable, practical relationship that doesn’t really get your heart racing.  Is that a smart way to date? Is it safer?

If you are dating someone now, do they excite you?  Do you think they feel the same way about you?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

205 comments Add your comment

2CPTG©

August 20th, 2013
4:12 pm

“2… what college team should I support?”

gal, that’s a personal thing! A decision based on a lot of factors….I can’t tell you which to team to root for….as Willie D said, go local…..

Willie Dynamite

August 20th, 2013
4:13 pm

B- I forgot you were special. In a good way lol

Leggs- I’m a Gator fan. Never been scared of ANYthing out of Athens.

2can- agreed, whose gon start at QB for FSU?

Mrs. SexyCool

August 20th, 2013
4:16 pm

Bluz – not getting a position that you were clearly qualified for and interviewed well for you may be a sign.

Door closes, window opens. Life is short….and all that jazz…

Beautiful

August 20th, 2013
4:16 pm

Leggs

August 20th, 2013
4:16 pm

Since she wasn’t born in Athens, you best be scared (lololol).

Beautiful

August 20th, 2013
4:19 pm

FSU is pretty good… hmmmmm. idk. I’ve gone this long without a team

Bluzgirl

August 20th, 2013
4:20 pm

Mrs. SC – That’s what I think. I prayed before the interview for God’s will to be done with that job. My prayer was answered, even if it wasn’t what I was hoping for…

Bluzgirl

August 20th, 2013
4:20 pm

GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO DAWGS!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WOOF WOOF!!!!!!!!!!

Leggs

August 20th, 2013
4:21 pm

Pure comedy for me.

Mrs. SexyCool

August 20th, 2013
4:26 pm

Last night, I dreamed that I was trying to keep my mom from finding out that I skipped school.

With that being said, tomorrow, I may take the day off work……..and do nothing.

Leggs

August 20th, 2013
4:27 pm

Dreams do come true (lol). You simply had a guilty conscious and regressed back to childhood (lol).

Beautiful

August 20th, 2013
4:29 pm

there’s this fb page called unbelievable facts. it is so funny. this one chick called 911 because mcdonalds ran out of mcnuggets lol. i’m giving up on folks daily.

Single and Happy

August 20th, 2013
4:31 pm

Beautiful, what teams do your sons like, where do they plan on going to college?

Beautiful

August 20th, 2013
4:32 pm

*Sunday night people in Detroit Area Were calling 911 because their cable went out and they couldn’t watch Breaking Bad*

LOL I hope this isn’t true.

read y’all later.

2CPTG©

August 20th, 2013
4:32 pm

Willie D…..a redshirt freshman—–Jameis Winston….a 2 sport stud…..trust me when I say this, dude will win a Heisman, and a Nat’l Championship for the Noles…..he’s that good!

Beautiful

August 20th, 2013
4:33 pm

SIngle… my oldest wants to attend Fresno, but ummm mom says no! lol.

Exiled

August 20th, 2013
4:34 pm

disco

August 20th, 2013
4:36 pm

I’m back…… lol.

ex – I did not make it to the liquor store. old boy decided he needed to change out all of my filters while he was there and, of course, I was out of filters. we made a trip to home depot and he paid way too much (in my opinion) for some filters. so I let the liquor slide (for now). I did however order drinks, dinner and dessert because that was the original bargain. lol.

single – re suicide. I only hate when people call them cowards. personally I think it’s quite brave. me hurt you? easy. me hurt me? not so easy. just me though.

Willie Dynamite

August 20th, 2013
4:37 pm

2can- yeah dude is a stud but they got the other dude (soph) that had a good spring as well. We’ll see but the sooner they start ole boy the better. He has IT from what I seen of him. I wanted him in Gville.

Single and Happy

August 20th, 2013
4:39 pm

why not beauty

Exiled

August 20th, 2013
4:40 pm

Disco…so dude is a good dude?

U like him? :lol:

What are his chances?

disco

August 20th, 2013
4:41 pm

SC – I dreamed I won $42.24 in a penny slot machine. and yes, I cashed out. lol.

disco

August 20th, 2013
4:42 pm

ex – dude is a good dude. we cool. he hasn’t a snowball’s chance.

Single and Happy

August 20th, 2013
4:43 pm

disco, I think they’re coward, because they want to take the easy way out rather than face life’s problems. The ONLY time I think it’s tragic is when a child does it.

Exiled

August 20th, 2013
4:44 pm

Damn!

@Disco…dude gets outta pocket….repeatedly.. but still no play…

disco

August 20th, 2013
4:47 pm

single – I’ve heard that argument and I get it. my argument is based on the actual follow through. that’s commitment right there and it’s pretty darned brave in my opinion. you’ve heard me clown some of the comical suicide attempts I’ve heard of. my cousin’s attempt to hang herself from an adjustable shower curtain rod and another chick overdosing on her kid’s chicken pox medicine. those chicks didn’t have follow through.

disco

August 20th, 2013
4:49 pm

ex – never mind. no comment.

Single and Happy

August 20th, 2013
4:50 pm

Disco, people that attempt suicide just want attention, people that are going to actually do it, don’t need and audience, and usually don’t announce it. I see what you’re saying also.

Leggs

August 20th, 2013
4:53 pm

It can’t be easy to hang yourself. That’s one that gets me…all that gagging and grasping becuase you may have changed your mind.

disco

August 20th, 2013
4:53 pm

single – again, we’re tracking. I’ve made the argument re the attention seekers as well. still, some folks really do give it the old college try. you ever hear stories of folks jumping from buildings or bridges or shooting themselves in the head and they still don’t die? I find myself thinking that’s messed up. not that they tried but that they failed after putting so much effort into it.

Exiled

August 20th, 2013
4:55 pm

@Disco…I think u are the apple of the town over there and every dude in ur lil 2 street lights city wants to be seen with u or be around you…and they’re prepared to get outta pocket like that …over and over again…and u take advantage.

Exiled

August 20th, 2013
4:57 pm

It’s easy to kill urself if u get a gun that’s good and u aim at the right body part.
@Leggs or get the right pesticide/herbicide!

:lol: kill urself!

Cowards don’t do their homework because they are not sure or seeking attention

2CPTG©

August 20th, 2013
4:59 pm

@Disco…I think u are the apple of the town over there and every dude in ur lil 2 street lights city wants to be seen with u or be around you…and they’re prepared to get outta pocket like that …over and over again…and u take advantage.

sure sounds like it…..

Single and Happy

August 20th, 2013
4:59 pm

Disco, yea that is messed up.

disco

August 20th, 2013
5:01 pm

ex – it’s okay. I understand that it might be difficult for you to accept what you can’t understand. lol. I ain’t doing nothing special. I ain’t running no fancy game. the average female has her share of “on call flunkies” not because we (the females) are all that but because y’all (the males) were cut out for the role. if you all weren’t so convinced that you could wear us down y’all wouldn’t play yourselves. and, I’m willing to put money on the fact that almost every man has been there. he may not have stayed there but he’s been there.

Leggs

August 20th, 2013
5:06 pm

Dayum, disco. I couldn’t quite verbalize it like that, but you are on point. Have to laugh at “on call flunkies” but I so understand. Especially those waiting in the wings thinking something will jump off eventually. They want to do for you because they feel it’s their way “in” only to still looking through the curtains standing outside.

Well said!

Single and Happy

August 20th, 2013
5:08 pm

whaccha talking bout disco

disco

August 20th, 2013
5:09 pm

thank you leggs

2CPTG©

August 20th, 2013
5:10 pm

Leggs, don’t believe that sh!t……cause if disco lives in the country like she says, then trust, word gets around…..you think dudes gon be lined up to keep breakin bread, if ain’t nothin poppin off? I can hear one scorned dude now, man, don’t fck wit that broad, she ain’t hittin on sh!t, all she wanna do is spend ya money, and ain’t gon’ shake nuttin….real talk, how many times does it take a dude to be suckered before he realizes he ain’t gon’ hit?

disco

August 20th, 2013
5:13 pm

2C – who said I was in the country? AND I’m sure country dudes get played just like city dudes do. PLUS not many grown men are going to spew that line you said because 1) it’s quite juvenile and 2) it shows that they aren’t on their game. they tried and failed. each and every man will look at that as if he’s the one who can hit, all the others were just chumps. lol.

2CPTG©

August 20th, 2013
5:13 pm

conversely……(which we’ll never know for sure), if she is breakin ‘em off, then those same cats will spill the beans as well…..man, shawty bout it….pay a bill or two, and you in there!

Leggs

August 20th, 2013
5:17 pm

you think dudes gon be lined up to keep breakin bread, if ain’t nothin poppin off? – Yep, I have one that has never touched me, but 20+ years later he’s still trying.

real talk, how many times does it take a dude to be suckered before he realizes he ain’t gon’ hit? – I’ve asked myself this question many times. You may not be that dude 2C but please believe they are out there.

Single and Happy

August 20th, 2013
5:18 pm

Leggs, are you sure we haven’t meet (LOL)

Leggs

August 20th, 2013
5:20 pm

disco ~ sticking with what I know and I know what you’re talking about. Who’s taking advantage of whom is not my concern.

2CPTG©

August 20th, 2013
5:21 pm

You may not be that dude 2C but please believe they are out there.

you’re right, cause “lame-dom” is foreign to me….not saying I’m that dude, but, I am sucka-free!!!! I’m sorry, but if I’m spending money on you, then naturally I got some kind of feelings….whether it’s lust, or genuine interest, I’m not gon keep “trying”…..even a fool knows when to quit.

Single and Happy

August 20th, 2013
5:21 pm

Leggs, for me, no one can take advantage, because it’s my money and I’ll do what the hell I want to with it.

Leggs

August 20th, 2013
5:23 pm

And I walk away or hangup laughing many a times! It is what it is….

2CPTG©

August 20th, 2013
5:25 pm

what kills me though, is if a dude came on here talking about his exploits with females, and how he breakin the bank, he’d be everything but a child of God….but it’s cool for y’all ladies, cause y’all like to see the shoe on the other foot….

Leggs

August 20th, 2013
5:25 pm

Then all is cool, Single!

My post was how so many of you feel disco is taken advantage of her numerous suitors. You said it, they’re grown and they know what they’re doing with their money and who they’re doing it with and with no hidden agenda they know exactly where she stands! So go for it if you think you bad enough to break whatever it is you think you’re qualified to break.

I’m laughig all the way to my car!

PEACE!

Leggs

August 20th, 2013
5:29 pm

but it’s cool for y’all ladies, cause y’all like to see the shoe on the other foot….

Yes indeed. Sometimes, it’s rather refreshing to see a woman have a heads up on a male. You guys aren’t always the smartest rock in the quarry!