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Dating: Do they excite you?

The best part of a new romance is getting all those butterflies in the stomach sensations.   That period of time when a text message or phone call from them can send your heart racing.  When you don’t know too much about someone but you know enough about them that makes you excited to see them again.  Do you know what I’m talking about?

I wish that kind of feeling lasts forever. Alas, it fades away eventually but it is replaced with a deeper connection.  I think that you always want to be excited when you see that special person.  It is that attraction and chemistry that so many of us get hooked by.

What do you do if they don’t excite you, though?  Some people prefer to have a comfortable, practical relationship that doesn’t really get your heart racing.  Is that a smart way to date? Is it safer?

If you are dating someone now, do they excite you?  Do you think they feel the same way about you?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

205 comments Add your comment

Leggs

August 20th, 2013
12:22 pm

And the guys who got on stage should have been gentlemanly enough and make her aware. One did, but after he danced a little with her.

Single and Happy

August 20th, 2013
12:44 pm

Yea button, I’m sappy like that, I’ll call just to say hey, so I can hear their voice :-)

Slim I may be more into them, (but that is from my point of view) I just like to make them happy.

Leggs

August 20th, 2013
12:49 pm

“just to say hey, so I can hear their voice” – this reminds me of two guys who told me they call my voicemail at work just to hear my voice. I was stunned that people do that (or the two of them did that). One was married, but is now divorced and the other one is just selfish

Single and Happy

August 20th, 2013
12:53 pm

Leggs didn’t she have on a body suit?

Button

August 20th, 2013
1:05 pm

Single – even if she sound like Michel’le? her voice reeks me.

Leggs

August 20th, 2013
1:09 pm

Single ~ the fact that she had on a leotard that was flesh tone and apparently made out of the sheerest of fabrics doesn’t excuse anything. Her butt was visibly seen body suit or not. The fact that the material was so sheer makes her outfit more acceptable?

Single and Happy

August 20th, 2013
1:11 pm

Button, if I’m with her and she sounds like Michel’le, I must like it. but I think that voice would drive me crazy.(LOL)

Leggs, voice mail won’t do :-)

Single and Happy

August 20th, 2013
1:14 pm

Leggs, acceptable? depends on who’s doing the accepting, if she liked it I loved it. but I was thinking more along the lines of that’s probably why she didn’t notice it.

Leggs

August 20th, 2013
1:19 pm

To have young kids at home no woman should be flashing on stage, leotard or not teasing the audience on that particular level. Just my thought, but of course to each their own!

Single, voice mail wont do, I agree (lol).

Single and Happy

August 20th, 2013
1:22 pm

Leggs, there you go judging (lmao)

SlimNu

August 20th, 2013
1:26 pm

School shooting…awaiting details….in Dekalb county

Leggs

August 20th, 2013
1:28 pm

Single, yes, I am. We all judge. Some more than others. I realize I’ve placed my standards onto her malfunction, but it wasn’t so much the malfunction but the fact that her “people” didn’t do anything or try to get her attention.

Single and Happy

August 20th, 2013
1:31 pm

Leggs, I don’t judge (why is my nose growing?0 (LOL) well I try not to judge (LOL)

Button

August 20th, 2013
1:37 pm

My husband has been self-conscious about his crooked front teeth his whole life so he finally went to get it fixed To my surprise he returned home from the orthodontist with gold-colored braces decorated with rhinestones. This is something called a “grill” and is very popular with rap musicians and professional athletes. My husband is a 42-year-old software engineer . At first I thought it might be some kind of a joke. He says he loves them and they make him feel sexy. What can I say to him to convince him to go back to the orthodontist and have these things replaced with something an adult should wear?

Single and Happy

August 20th, 2013
1:41 pm

gold-colored braces decorated with rhinestones. roflmao!!!!

Beautiful

August 20th, 2013
1:42 pm

hi everyone!

SIngle… I truly think we’re blog twins. what Single said!

Leggs

August 20th, 2013
1:45 pm

Single ~ I try not to too, but it happens. We are only human and we all make quick observations of the stimuli in front of us.

Button ~ I realize it’s not April 1st, but tell me this is a joke. I’m cracking up at a grown man wearing a “grill” like that one. Aww, the visual….

Leggs

August 20th, 2013
1:47 pm

“He says he loves them and they make him feel sexy.” – On that note, he may bring something different to your bed. He’s stroked his on ego which elevates his confidence. So many sexual innuendos in there, but I didn’t mean any of it that way.

Button

August 20th, 2013
1:48 pm

Single – I lol when I read @ gold-colored braces decorated with rhinestones too, the unmitigated gall of him to walk around blinging like that from the mouth!

Leggs

August 20th, 2013
1:48 pm

McNair Elementary…no one hurt.

Leggs

August 20th, 2013
1:50 pm

“I lol when I read @ gold-colored braces decorated with rhinestones too, ”

Button was that while you were typing it or after it was retyped by Single (lol).

SlimNu

August 20th, 2013
1:51 pm

I just saw that Midtown Restaurant Week is going to be Sep 7 – 15, 2013….

Button

August 20th, 2013
1:52 pm

Leggs – He also said— that the people he encounters smile when they see them and he is not having them removed…. his self esteem got a high boost.

Single and Happy

August 20th, 2013
1:53 pm

Leggs, now I thought of buttons question about Michl’le, I can just imagine we doing it hard and she start to talk durty, boy talk about a buzz kill, (LOL)

Button

August 20th, 2013
1:53 pm

Leggs – I was co signing Single.

Mrs. SexyCool

August 20th, 2013
1:53 pm

Button – I see that you read Dear Prudence as well. I heart that chick. I miss Dear Margo.

Single and Happy

August 20th, 2013
1:55 pm

button, are they smiling cause they like them, or are they smiling because they’re trying not to laugh? remember the scene from I’m gonna get you sucka, when ole boy got out of jail, walking down the street with the fish shoes (lmao)

Single and Happy

August 20th, 2013
1:56 pm

beautiful, wonder twin powers activate (LOL)

Leggs

August 20th, 2013
1:57 pm

Got it Button.

I love that song, McNicety (something like that).

Button

August 20th, 2013
1:57 pm

Mrs SexyCool – I’ve been busted…lmao! I love her column too.

MsAtl

August 20th, 2013
1:58 pm

Button- I saw that letter. Hilarious!

Single and Happy

August 20th, 2013
2:03 pm

dang button, you had me going (LOL) going to have throw a blog flag on that one (LOL)

Button

August 20th, 2013
2:07 pm

Single – I would think they were laughing at him. I know I would maybe not in his face

MsAtl

August 20th, 2013
2:10 pm

Leggs- The dress was slipping off the entire time…

2CPTG©

August 20th, 2013
2:11 pm

so…………ummmm…………..

ain’t got nuttin!

Button

August 20th, 2013
2:11 pm

Single – you thought those stories were about me? lol my life isn’t that exciting. lol
heck I’m surprised it went thru, not too long ago I wasn’t able to post any of those stories.

Celisea

August 20th, 2013
2:15 pm

I just nodded in my meeting…got 45 minutes to go. I’m embarrassed…not sure if anyone saw me..

Beautiful

August 20th, 2013
2:15 pm

I hate reading the news, celebrity gossip! to hell with all of ‘em. Raz B’s coma was a hoax. that ni g g a got a album coming out soon. grrrrrrrr…. got me saying a silent prayer and sh**

Celisea

August 20th, 2013
2:19 pm

“an” album

Celisea

August 20th, 2013
2:19 pm

Did I see WillieD in here today? I have a question

Beautiful

August 20th, 2013
2:20 pm

thas strike two!

Button

August 20th, 2013
2:21 pm

Beautiful – lol most of it is to keep themselves relevant.

Mrs. SexyCool

August 20th, 2013
2:26 pm

Who is Raz B? (I know – I can Google it…lol)

Beautiful

August 20th, 2013
2:27 pm

Button… I honestly didn’t see that comin’.

Beautiful

August 20th, 2013
2:34 pm

SC… he was apart of the cutest boy group. i’m deleting all celebrity pages/news from my fb. I don’t have time to be giving myself emotionally to these ppl I don’t know. middle finga to ‘em. for jett Jackson to blow his brains out for no reason is just plain stupid. selfish bas tards!

rant is over!

SlimNu

August 20th, 2013
2:35 pm

I’m starting not to feel so good…waahhhh

Leggs

August 20th, 2013
2:35 pm

MsAtl ~ not sure why they didn’t ask her audience to wait a few minutes and they leave the stage to fix what needs fixing. Oh well….who the hell am I to talk anyway, I didn’t buy a ticket.

Mrs. SexyCool

August 20th, 2013
2:37 pm

B – I certainly agree that you should not be so emotionally involved.

Beautiful

August 20th, 2013
2:40 pm

I may have put that the wrong way. it’s human to react emotionally to something you read. but even for a second of my time is wasted time.

Leggs

August 20th, 2013
2:40 pm

“I don’t have time to be giving myself emotionally to these ppl I don’t know. middle finga to ‘em.” – Why are you doing that anyway. They don’t care about you, only your wallet (lol).

“for jett Jackson to blow his brains out for no reason is just plain stupid. selfish bas tards!” – You cannot say for “no reason.” You have no idea what demons were eating at his soul. I tend to think no one commits suicide “just because it’s something to do.” The reason my not be apparent to you, but please believe there’s a reason (even accidental, there’s a reason).