The new relationship is fragile enough without adding extra pressure on it. For this reason, it when it comes to bringing up your past, you should tread lightly. Asking about general information is one thing, but asking for an exact number of partners aka your magic number, is a totally different question.
Do you think your date has a right to know the exact number of partners you have had? Is it a fair question that is necessary to really know?
I can remember my friend Sara was asked her magic number by her new beau. She trusted him so she gave him all the information he wanted. He dumped her. He said it wasn’t because her number bothered him, but she knows that is the real reason. Why would he ask the question if he wasn’t prepared for the answer?
Do you get asked about your magic number? Do you think it is fair to ask the question?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta